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Can you cite some examples from Canada and in US where the sperm donor lost and was expected to pay?
/r/MensRights26/05/26 11:19 PM
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I mean yeah? AI is dandy on shining light on things like this. This is stuff men have been saying for a long time now and the response has always been "that's just not true". We've seen this with Grok and other AI's. There's been several posters who 'just' swapped genders in a story in 2X and it went about as you'd expect. Man-hating is acceptable in society. But they don't like to call it that. But they do want to get mad when you don't vote for them when it's "their turn." They seriously want …
/r/MensRights26/05/26 11:08 PM
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I just now typed those in. The AI didn't pop up but it showed that Reddit is two-faced. When a woman says it versus a man you get two VERY different types of answers. Men are expected to be her daddy and help her through it. Women are expected to run for dear life. The excuse for this is because "you don't know how many women are murdered because of that versus how many men are murdered". That's the very best answer they have. Women don't kill enough men so it's ok is the feminist thought proces…
/r/MensRights26/05/26 11:06 PM
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This is one of the biggest reasons I couldn't vote Clinton when they said it was "her turn" (without realizing how horrid it sounds). Some women, like my sister, defended this. When I suggested we swap genders on this and send women over and let men stay behind, so "men can suffer more" it went about as you'd expect it.
/r/MensRights26/05/26 11:04 PM
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"He made his choice when he had sex" - funny, conservatives say the same thing. Watch them blow up when you say that and then add "wild how much feminists and conservatives have so much in common, huh?"
/r/MensRights28/04/26 01:42 AM
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The core problem is a large chunk of left-wingers think men have it perfect. Consistently it's when individual left-wing men get screwed over that they go "wait, this system is against me... and so are feminists. I thought we were on the same team?" and then they find themselves in this subreddit. Occasionally bitter and very angry. Because of this the left, as a group, won't fix the problems because they are blind to them. When you say "if a woman can abort then a man should also be able to cho…
/r/MensRights28/04/26 01:40 AM
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First off - learn paragraphs. I don't know if you purposefully made your comment difficult to read or not. Its a known fact because of leftist propaganda, dei among other things I don't think you know logic or facts. "It's a fact because right-winger propaganda, racism among other things" - see how that doesn't work? Now apply that knowledge. Newer shows always make men to be the bad guys 99% of the time I see it often but not "99% of the time". I mean you'll find even left-wing people think She…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 01:57 AM
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No one is saying there isn't extremes in other groups. However this is extremely common in feminism. There are too many popular books that the majority enjoy that support ideas like this - it's 100% a reflection of feminism. I understand there is a minority that disagree with these statements however it's just that - a minority. Like any groups - feminism has, for all intents and purposes, become a hate group. And either feminists continue to associate themselves with it.. or they distance thems…
/r/MensRights05/03/26 01:13 AM
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As a general rule: Ignore the extreme left and extreme right when it comes to dating. Your average person doesn't care on the same level. They aren't going to care that you put down moderate. At worst they're going to ask what you mean by it. I would argue that your average person who puts down "not political" really means: "I have no control over what's going on. My vote is, relatively, insignificant where I live so who cares?" - for example I live in an extremely rural area of Texas. My vote d…
/r/MensRights28/01/26 12:20 PM
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I profoundly HATE the fact that we need disclaimers in comments to prevent people from jumping to conclusions because we can't have an honest discussion. To use a simple example: If you say you're pro-2A - then (pulls number from ass) 99% of Reddit assumes you're a HARDCORE MAGA TRUMPLICAN. That drives me up the god damn wall. We can't have sincere discussions if folks are going to paint everyone with broad paint brushes in every single conversation.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 05:10 PM
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"An ex cop racked up $2k in damages and $500 in..." - why does it feel like when I have problem in life it's way more expensive? Sometimes I see things like this and I'm like "in what world are things this cheap to replace? Because it ain't mine"
/r/MensRights02/12/25 06:48 PM
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Remember: Some women at Google whined about how women are paid less and they demanded equal pay. Google did an internal investigation and found men were paid less than women and bumped the men's pay. In my experience - many people will hear something, parrot it, and expect it to be true with absolutely no actual thought about it. NOW TO BE FAIR: If people were more open about their pay in the first god damn place this wouldn't be a problem. If we had unions - this wouldn't be a problem. Of the w…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 03:13 PM
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Reddit LOVES to hate anyone who doesn't obey who they tell them to vote for. Yet casually hates men and gets mad when men don't vote left. Look, I think Trump is a fascist piece of shit who is also a pedophile. That's nearly undeniable - especially with this avoidance of due process for some folks. It's nearly all straight out of Hitler's book. But when you shit on an entire group of people and blame them for all of the problems in your life and expect them to kiss your hand... then STFU when th…
/r/MensRights10/11/25 11:44 PM
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Weirdly, that's not what I see. I see women being less than great and men trying. But society doesn't really talk about it. Take, for example, Young Sheldon. The mother basically ruined Sheldon by coddling him while the father tried to treat him like a human. Every now and then people will say she was a bad mom but if the roles had been reversed... There's a TV series with Terry Crews, of which I can't remember the name, where his wife was just seemingly angry all the damn time. Hostile all the …
/r/MensRights01/11/25 03:41 PM
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This is exactly why Trump won. You clearly just assume anyone not left is right. You jump to that conclusion because anyone not with you is against you. Clearly not able to understand nuance in life - so you'd rather push people who might be on your side away and cry about it later. Similarly we saw folks like you push away young white men and are now very upset they didn't vote blue when you went out of your way to shit on them. I mean you CREATED the environment that allowed Trump to win by be…
/r/MensRights30/10/25 03:29 PM
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Brother, I've seen every combination of every kind of person. Looks, sexuality, gender, race, education, intelligence - none of that means anything in regards to how much of a piece of shit someone can be. I have, however, rarely met a feminist that was a good person all around and was older than, say, 21. The majority below that are simply lacking worldly experiences and just assume that the face of it "we just want equality" is what it really is about and haven't heard from well known feminist…
/r/MensRights26/10/25 08:22 PM
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Modern left-wing attitude seems to be that anyone not strongly left is obviously part of the far-right. I see it all the time when folks reference online dating. "Moderate just means far right!" because they lack basic understanding of politics. They sincerely think they are part of the "make everything better" group with zero mistakes or flaws and the other side is purely evil horrible people. I'll see things like "we just want free healthcare, better wages, etc" and the problem is... that's no…
/r/MensRights25/10/25 11:03 PM
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When you go out of your way to actively shit on a group of people and blame them for most of your problems - don't be surprised if they aren't on your team anymore. "Why do so many people stay home?" - because they aren't Republicans but they also don't like YOU. The younger generations is basically told everything is their fault because they have a swinging dick and for no other reason. Democrats PUSHED them to the Right who embraced them. Democrats have a bully problems. They sincerely think m…
/r/MensRights18/08/25 04:33 PM
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He's become such a puritan to the point it's ridiculous. I suspect folks like him are why they are going after porn in games and now GTA and such. One of his posts was shitting on a woman looking "sexy" in a fake teaching background. Like.. it's... fake. You do realize porn is fake, right? It's important to me you know porn isn't real life. I initially agreed with most of his opinions on minding your own business. But now he's going after people doing fake things instead of things in real life. …
/r/MensRights18/08/25 04:13 PM
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Weird, when racists said "it's black people killing black people" Reddit lost its mind. And I suspect you think it's different saying "men killing men". Almost like.. one isn't racist or the other is sexist. But let's be real: When folks say "it's women treating women" Reddit loses its mind as though men should fall in the sword to protect women who go out of their way to sabotage men. Nah. I'm good. But I've learned the left and right aren't so different. One hates black people and the other ha…
/r/MensRights18/08/25 12:36 PM
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For some people they feel like they won't give you respect or treat you as a person if you won't treat them as an authority. This is what feminism is about. It's why any time data comes out that contradicts their views - it's attacked relentlessly. Respect is not a two-way street for some of them. It's very much a "I'm right, you're wrong, I'll only listen to you if you agree with me". Many managers are also like this. When they ask for your opinion what they really want to hear is their opinion…
/r/MensRights13/07/25 09:31 PM
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There are still dozens of other snark communities, overwhelmingly populated by women, How do we know it's overwhelmingly populated by women? Serious question here. I've never been to that subreddit. Is there a flare? Or are we just assuming? who coordinate harassment against social media influencers and female celebrities. I think you give them too much credit. I've yet to see that level of coordination from people in general. More like a broad audience who just likes to hate. Far too often - th…
/r/MensRights26/06/25 11:32 AM
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I mean it's really meant more of an insult and character attack when they have nothing else left to in their argument. It's how they try to sound superior or someone else be inferior. You'll find it's used a lot when a man is frustrated at someone trying to bait them. Hilariously - FOX News uses these tactics. When I say both parties are similar - this is what I mean. What's also funny is when I say "both parties are similar" what people read is "both parties are the same, the exact same detail …
/r/MensRights26/06/25 11:26 AM
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I'm of the opinion everyone should know how to use weapons properly and know, at least, basic fighting and combat. I mean gym class, in high school, should be: Here's how to do yoga. Here's how to do weights. Here's basic fitness. Here's how to fight with a knife (use a highlighter for class, duh). Not just "go play in the gym" (like most of my high school was). I'm not saying they have to compete or try their hardest - but we should at least be competent in it. Hell fuck it, we can even make gr…
/r/MensRights26/06/25 11:18 AM
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I'm of the opinion if you want to vote, you have to sign up for the draft. In the draft, however, Congress Critters and politicians of all flavors, and anyone in the federal government starting from the top down's kids (e.g. 18 year old's up to, let's say, 30) get drafted first to the front line. Meaning no paper pushing for them. They take the highest risk first. Meaning in war... they have a dog in that fight.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 11:15 AM
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Most prefer to be stay at home moms instead. Which is odd because they claim it's the "hardest and most stressful job". My ex-wife tried this. Bullshit. Let's swap. Ez-mode for me. She'd regularly come home angry at work. Couples therapist suggested she leave work problems at work. She couldn't handle it. She said she felt more like a tool to provide income. Welcome to the world of a man - funny how equality doesn't ring the same with the roles flipped. What's worse was when I cooked food, did l…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 01:28 PM
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It's sad. People still complain about boomer-aged men who "hate" their wives so much they prefer work over going home. Folks all over Reddit like to talk about it when the chance comes up. The reality is - some women also "hate" their husbands when they are around too much. ‘Sleep when the baby sleeps’ is a well-known mantra. However my husband thinks this is an invitation for afternoon sex. He generously granted me six to eight weeks of celibate ‘recovery’. But when I suggest a lunchtime nap, h…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 01:23 PM
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There's a video out there with simulators running Android tablets that are automating responses. If you're arguing with someone over the Internet - there's a fair chance it's one of those bots and not a real person. Problem is - AI has gotten good enough it's difficult to tell at first glance and even looking at a comment history. It's competent "enough" that you need to pay attention to the words to notice. Social media is pretty much useless now if you are searching real people. Honestly, soci…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 01:19 AM
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The amount of women I've personally witness get angry and offended they can't grope and sexually assault a man is disgusting. And I've seen many left-wing redditors defend those women. A woman friend of mine went up to touch another woman's arm-sleave tatt and about got socked. She was OFFENDED the other woman was bothered. Like dude... what the fuck? Don't run up behind someone and touch their arms like that. Look at Scotlands rape laws. Last time I read - by law, women can't "rape" men because…
/r/MensRights19/06/25 02:15 AM
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There are several social media creators that are women who are doing a LOT to help. But the reality is our society, as a whole, does not like accountability or self awareness. My ex wife loves Brene Brown. Here's one of the ones I like: https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability Sadly, my ex-wife didn't make the communication that SHE was the problem. My ex-wife was one of those "everyone else is the problem and I have all the answers". Those same answers applied to her but…
/r/MensRights11/06/25 02:36 PM
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Looks like a whole lot of projection. We can often see feminism demonize men more than help women. Anecdotally I've learned there's three kinds of feminists. The kind that believe in equality based on what they've heard (which means they might not be for real equality - just perceived equality which is why few support men). The kind that hate men because of a traumatic event. These are usually the ones in constant rage about even menial things. Everything is a man's fault. Nothing is ever their …
/r/MensRights11/06/25 02:33 PM
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Looking at your comment history - you're just a troll. Society doesn't say anything, it's individual people. And when enough "individual" people say the same thing, such as women, we call that society. Saying "society" suggests it's like it's the same person saying these things, it's not, it's different people with different views. It's not. You can look at 2X as an example. The echo chamber in there is pretty consistent. In the real world i notice a lot of people who will help men. Except you d…
/r/MensRights08/06/25 09:51 PM
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Yup. r/interestingasfuck and several others are like this. I've learned in r/technology and r/news is similar in that when you point things out that doesn't make women look sparkling.. they'll ban you. They think we are the hate group while in reality.. they are doing the hate. The 2012 election was when I noticed the transition. 2016 Clinton said "women suffer most in war" and mannnnn r/news did not like you calling that out. It's to the point I won't vote Democrat anymore until they address th…
/r/MensRights19/05/25 08:26 PM
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If you are disabled - women, on average, will view you as less. Few will date you and even fewer will marry you.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 05:31 PM
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while it sees trans men as good / victims / deserves help and sympathy. This all depends on their pass-ability. Would be hilarious to see all men just simply claim to be trans and watch how society implodes.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 05:30 PM
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as well as the SSRI she was taking (which she also regretted). Anti-depressants have a non-zero chance of making things A LOT worse. I don't care what gender / sex you are. They can wreck you if you are unlucky. Anyway she was genuine in her writing, it was not agenda pushing. To be more accurate: We have no reason to assume she wasn't being genuine. Agenda pushing and genuine, though, are not mutually exclusive. We have no way of knowing their real intent. We can only suspect and presume. Unles…
/r/MensRights17/05/25 05:26 PM
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Looking at their comment history - they are basically an open misandrist in almost every single comment they've made. It's just a bitter woman trying to make others miserable and trying to spread hate. Seems like someone worth banning.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 05:23 PM
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ROGD To be fair, it's hard to tell what's going on here. Back when left-handed people were less likely to get hired and we passed anti-discrimination laws - we saw a huge onset of people saying they were left-handed. Of that smaller percentage of left-handed people - a very small percentage just wanted it for the attention. But at the time people acted, like we do now about trans people, towards left-handed people. They were refusing to believe that many were hiding. Similarly we've seen it in g…
/r/MensRights17/05/25 05:19 PM
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Reddit: "We need to ban guns so kids can't kill themselves!" Every single post that involves kids and guns exclusively talks about getting rid of guns and never, not once that I've run across, talk about why the kid did the thing and what needs to be done to help the kids. And this is why I stopped voting blue. Johnson’s parents repeatedly reported White’s actions to the school and the school board, but they did nothing, according to the lawsuit. And there we go. The only adults that cared in hi…
/r/MensRights29/04/25 03:37 PM
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heh, yeah, there's a group of folks who sincerely think it's impossible women can also commit crimes and also do heinous things. It's all exclusively liberal folks too who also whine about conservatives being intellectually dishonest. These specific folks are also exactly why young white men are not voting blue as much anymore. They are tired of being societies punching bags. Society would rather lose to Trump than address the elephant in the room. And that's where we are as a society. When I sa…
/r/MensRights28/04/25 03:17 PM
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A trick I learned is to show up 10 minutes early. Tell the waiter two checks. By the end of the meal it's your choice to pay for it.. or not. This way if she skips out - it's on her, and not you. They can call the police and handle it accordingly or whatever they want to do. Hell you can even give them her phone number to help them locate her. But if things are going great and you choose to pay, then offer up to pay when they drop it off.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 11:42 PM
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Take a look at this: https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/1jwxa8u/really_sucks/ Specifically note that the comments are locked. Anytime something like this crops up on Reddit.. it gets shut down before it can really get going. Society is so scared of men being seen that they do this bullshit. When I say "uncomfortable conversations" - this is one of them. They don't want to have it because it may give men a boost - and if that happens they are scared of what that means. Then when men don't …
/r/MensRights11/04/25 11:20 PM
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I mean look at various subreddits like r/news, r/technology, r/interestingasfuck, etc. By simply commenting in this subreddit - you'll get a ban. Caring about men is heavily frowned upon by the left. And when left-wingers bring it up - they are shot down hard. And yet you'll find them crying about when men aren't voting more left/blue Many years ago I was told: "You should be voting for whoever has your best interest in mind" - and they expected me to side with liberals. Problem was... liberals …
/r/MensRights11/04/25 09:47 PM
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Although the campaign was unpopular among the public, often causing mental suffering and suicides among men, it was seen as a success by the government, and the Pankhurst sisters as well as the Women's Social and Political Union received recognition from the government for their contributions. Sums up feminism as a whole. Almost pure, unbridled, misandrists. I mean we saw it in the UK. Women were suggested that they leave. Men were told to stay. We saw pictures of women at dance clubs. And yet, …
/r/MensRights11/04/25 03:50 PM
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The term you're looking for is misandry. And those actions are also why single women keep other women single. It's crabbing (with a c) each other down.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 03:47 PM
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I had this happen with my ex-wife. After I shut down, months later, she would get upset that I didn't open up. She can go fuck herself. She was entirely unable to apologize for it. Instead she tried to guilt trip me such that I hurt her feelings by reacting to what she said. At that point in time guilt tripping just didn't work on me anymore and she would get angry. Once I made the reality check - I saw how many men go through the same thing and nearly no women defends men in such positions. But…
/r/MensRights26/03/25 03:18 PM
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The farce is that they pretend to want a lifelong career, but once a rich enough man settles for them - they stop working. They absolutely do not want to work and be a mother. It’s just lying. It's funny. I remember they were talking about wanting a law that makes it illegal for men to lie about their careers and such during dating. And yet right after marriage you find out who you really married. And far too many women lied up to that point. Especially after a kid comes in to the picture she'll…
/r/MensRights21/03/25 10:56 PM
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Let's be clear - social media of all kinds of spyware of a country. Instagram and Facebook is simply for the US. The problem with a lot of these is they fuel anger. If you hate X then it will show you more X. My sister and I did a test. It showed her a shit load of anti-male stuff. Mine showed women abusing men. It specifically curated shit to make us angry. The fun days are over. Hell, I'm about to nuke my Reddit accounts because it feels like Reddit is fueled either by complete morons, low20's…
/r/MensRights27/12/24 09:31 AM
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Until they do. Ukraine says hello. Feminism flies out the windows at light speed when fantasy can't keep up with reality. "Women are just as good as men, if not better!" and then when push comes to shove.. they are fragile as a snowflake and want out and away. A common example.. shoveling snow. Women want men to do more household chores, even if they are a stay at home mom with kids in school. But they also don't want to help mow the lawn, shovel snow, etc. And when you point out their privilege…
/r/MensRights19/11/24 08:46 AM
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Clinton: "Women suffer most in war" And r/news ate it up like candy. Apparently the chance of losing your husband is substantially worse than living the rest of your life with PTSD from a war you fought in according to feminists. A very close friend of mine was dating a guy with severe PTSD. When new years and 4'th of July came - she knew to stay on the ground if he reacted. Apparently he would regularly re-live some bad situations in the moment. It took a shit load of therapy to get him to calm…
/r/MensRights19/11/24 08:44 AM
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Anyone got a citation for that claim on testosterone? I'd like to read more on it.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 02:15 PM
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They try to claim feminism is a synonym for being an egalitarian. But when push comes to shove one of their early responses is "just go join a men's rights movement you incel". They do not care about equality. They care about what impacts them. As an example - somehow I'm supposed to care about their reproductive rights when they've never cared about mine. Worse, when I bring up "her body her choice, my wallet my choice" they say "you made your choice when you had sex" and boy oh boy are they ma…
/r/MensRights14/10/24 02:15 PM
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I'm such a badass lone wolf Curious that that's how you view them. Perhaps you've never, ever, been discouraged and content with just letting go. The fact you couldn't control yourself from mocking them speaks more to you than it does about them. While things are slowly changing - it's easy to get discouraged and just give up. What's cringe, however... is whatever it is you're trying to do here. This isn't high school. Grow up. Or don't and get bothered. You say you don't care.. yet you're the o…
/r/MensRights06/10/24 09:23 AM
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On Fetlife I occasionally find folks who think bisexual people don't fit in anymore. They're "too normal". What was once an inclusive group of folks has turned into an exclusive group. I knew someone who used a fuck load of unusual adjectives to basically say "CIS white male" but he didn't like that description, so he chose the weird words that mean the exact same thing. This told me a LOT of how he viewed straight white men and he didn't want to associate with it. He also didn't like he was ent…
/r/MensRights06/10/24 09:00 AM
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We got a divorce. She got mad at the therapist and quit. She kept pushing for arguments. Honestly, things are better for both of us. She's ass up in debt now because she can't stop her spending though since I'm not holding her back. I finally got her to get me off her cards so it's not fucking up my credit.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 12:05 AM
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Can you formally define that a "real man" is? I have a feeling I know what you're going to say but I'll be nice enough to give you the benefit of the doubt. From my own experiences - if more women would accept accountability for their own actions and decisions then there would be far fewer single mom's. Instead I've seen women sabotage their relationship and then wonder why they're alone. Either that or they are 4-6's thinking they deserve 8-9's and wondering why those 8-9's don't date them. Add…
/r/MensRights17/06/24 03:27 PM
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The idea that husband and wife cannot lean on eachother when taking care of the kids to share the burden is apparently lost on most people denying her alledged PPD. This is not what's going on though. The double standards are the core problem here. "Leaning on each other" is not a double standard. When women do it - they "legitimate" have an excuse. When men do it - they're just a bad person. Mens focus on Laziness as a concept will be our undoing. I'm going to straight up disagree here. You see…
/r/MensRights07/06/24 01:26 AM
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My ex-wife.. oof. One time I said "so let me understand this - my words, verbatim, are "X" and your firm understanding is "Y", is this correct?" "That's not what I meant!" - "But is that what you said? Because it feels like your purposefully misrepresenting what I said and at this point we cannot communicate honestly anymore" And that was about when my marriage died. When I started calling her out on it. At one point I made a remark "it feels like you think I'm the enemy here for some reason, wh…
/r/MensRights30/05/24 02:05 PM
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A lot of people have it pre-planned out how their arguments are going to go - usually when they try to put an argument into a square box thinking they have a "gotcha". If you say Republican - Reddit has a very specific idea of what that looks like. Similar to if you say Democrat - FOX News has a very specific idea of what that looks like. Neither are particularly honest because identity politics is inherently dishonest. So I've learned to address every aspect I'm aware of in a conversation - esp…
/r/MensRights27/05/24 10:32 PM
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So you want a traditional role for men but progressive role for women? That's called superiority when they have all the privileges and men have all the responsibilities. This quite specifically spits in the face of equality - which you clearly do not want but you also don't want traditional either. If you expect men to risk their lives but can't muster up the ability to cook and clean then something is profoundly wrong with you. It means you literally just want men to die - which is what some he…
/r/MensRights27/05/24 05:09 PM
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Is there no such thing as being allowed to express ones own innate suffering and sadness without there having to be ulterior motives?? Sure. However calling everyone who says "X tried to manipulate me with tears" a liar is... probably not the best look, now is it? I have grandparents that did the same thing to my dad and tried to do the same thing to me and my sister. My sister moved away and has lived a life of going major city to major city (think: New Orleans, NYC, Vegas, Amsterdam, etc) beca…
/r/MensRights27/05/24 03:46 PM
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I wish our Wiki had a page for a direct link to studies and statistics for citations.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 06:14 PM
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We need to bring back simp shaming, Nah, we need to help our friends build up their pride and ego so it's not collapsed to the point of simping and being desperate. Fix the problem, not the symptom.
/r/MensRights15/05/24 12:15 AM
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Misery loves company. I regularly see a meme float around my social media which points at how easily men are happy and how bothered some women get by it. Only have a couch, tv, and a gaming console? Many women I've seen laugh at it and say "men will really be happy with just this" and seriously not see a problem with their attitude about it. Why are so many women bothered when men are happy or content? If you swap the genders there feminists would have an out-right violent war against men if men…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 05:10 AM
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It was a meme floating around Facebook. It regularly floats around. The fact you haven't heard of this is... telling. There's been massive talk about it glorifying abuse, especially in the BDSM community who feel misrepresented in a harmful way by it. Err... I refuse to believe you are THIS dense. You are having a very different conversation than what is going on but I'll placate you. 50 Shades has, and is, talked about as being two things: Great and starting dialog about kink that previously wa…
/r/MensRights12/05/24 05:12 PM
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I mean it's very similar to the "50 shades is only ok because he's rich and cute, if it were a trailer park it'd be a criminal minds episode"
/r/MensRights11/05/24 10:39 PM
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I think the only two 'groups' of people who 'tolerate' it are usually young and dumb college kids who are usually ostracized the very second to escapes whatever mini-group they are in... and the churches that rape little boys and the Christians that are desperate to hide it, ignore it, or just write it off as something that never happened. A much larger that tolerates rape? A very large chunk of society when it involves teachers and boys. As far as I can tell, and correct me if I'm wrong, raping…
/r/MensRights11/05/24 10:39 PM
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There is a book called To Kill A Mockingbird. I would recommend anyone who says that stuff read it.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 09:50 PM
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Weird, I can't find where I said all women in my comment. Can you point me to it? In fact, the only part where you could even still think I might have implied that is this: However if women want me to consider what they are saying then they are going to have to consider what I'm saying - which they are not prepared to do. This part? Surely you can't mean that part.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 11:40 AM
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Why are we shielding it? Because firstly MRA subs are always quietly under threat of being shut down because they aren't pro-feminist. Secondly - brigading. The second reason combined with the first should answer your question. Reddit Admins will protect hate groups IF it aligns with their politics.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:52 AM
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I dunno, it seems over the last decade the statistics are turning against them. "More men do X" only to find out when the reverse happens police don't report that statistic so it heavily skews it so when police DO report it - we're finding it's more 50/50. I can't think of any feminists arguments, off the top of my head, that are accurate or truthful as far as US citizens are concerned. However if women want me to consider what they are saying then they are going to have to consider what I'm say…
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:30 AM
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I mean we're seeing men and women already turn on feminist propaganda. We're seeing feminists get extremely hostile about it too. They are baiting hoping to get a response and when called out or out-right ignored they lose their minds. Look at the whole man vs bear thing. Funny how plenty of folks took it as a real thing but only just now, when called out, they are back peddling about how it was a joke. For a while the only qualifier for being a feminist is really just hate men. The natural cons…
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:26 AM
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Every man before a date should google the woman’s name for her social media content. I mean to be fair - EVERYONE should google their potential dates name. Men and woman.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 06:17 PM
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First they say 'Women are equal to men,' Hell I've heard this phrase "women can do anything a man can do, maybe even better!" and somehow that wasn't sexist. And no one calls them out on it. Modern feminists ARE the exact thing they claim to hate so much but their own lack of self reflection won't let them see it. When you want equality except when you don't - that is called privilege. A thing they claim they 'never' have and men have all of. I wish I were joking.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 06:14 PM
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It's wild how they keep flip flopping between "misandry isn't real" and "misandry is ok".
/r/MensRights06/05/24 12:19 AM
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Taking boys scouts America to court with title9 while also using anti male stereotypes that girls would be unsafe if boys came into girl scouts. Didn't they have something to say about transwoman in women's bathrooms and how it's totally safe?
/r/MensRights06/05/24 12:17 AM
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I've run various tests like this over the years and learned Reddit is full of hypocritical misandrists. Reddit just hates men and enabled women. Reddit IS the Fox News of the left.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 03:47 AM
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Women dislike men so much they don't even care about their own boys when they are underage. Boys are left behind in school by simply being a boy. COVID showed us when the names were removed and grading was neutral - boys did "better". If mothers cared they would be saying something. If "feminists" cared - they'd be saying something. They are not. What do they care about? "We need more girls in STEM!" - that tells you all you need to know. Misandry is their fuel.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 05:19 AM
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My (soon to be) ex-wife has openly bragged about when she was single and broke - she would go clubbing and lead men on to get free drinks. Her daughter was with a friend who later talked about a false rape accusation (I don't remember the full context, I think it was to stall a friends marriage maybe? - I remember it being a weird reason) and... not one female in the room said anything negative about it. They just kind of nodded like it was normal to make up lies. My sister has bragged about fee…
/r/MensRights24/04/24 05:16 AM
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r/technology and r/news specifically does not like facts. I got banned because I linked the Zimmerman court documents that showed that the news said was very different than what the actual evidence indicates. Turns out, they were triggered by that and don't want actual court evidence. They just wanted their narrative. r/technology was unhappy when I gave a link showing when women complained about being paid less at Google then Google found they actually paid women more and had to give men raises…
/r/MensRights16/04/24 06:25 PM
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nazi But man when you call them a feminazi they lose their minds. When you play the game they like to play and turn it around on them.. they lose their minds. "Sure, not all men but enough of them" and when you say "sure, not all women but enough" ohhh boy. I had someone I know say "consent isn't good enough". They wanted something eerily close to regret sex to also count as rape. I once had someone say that their trauma was about the same as rape because "they were uncomfortable" when I was tal…
/r/MensRights16/04/24 06:14 PM
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Suppose I expected someone to be competent - my expectations were clearly too high. You pulled a number from your ass to to justify yourself and then likely relate it to anecdotes confusing anecdotes with data or actual reality. That's about what I expected but I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. Seems my speculations were spot on though. You do not seem to realize the plural of anecdote is not data. I wonder if you know correlation != causation but given your perception - I suspect yo…
/r/MensRights13/04/24 02:22 AM
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Classy. You seem to think anecdotes is data. Good thing you don't represent men's rights - you act like a child. I do hope you get the help you need to get over whatever trauma caused you to develop into that. edit: It occurs to me you could just be a feminist looking to stir up drama and make men look bad.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 02:19 AM
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And what, specifically, are you basing that percentage on? 60% sounds awfully high and then you claim it's probably even higher... i've seen a lot of guys post on here that they are getting smeared in the group. I mean.. yeah? Are guys going to complain saying what someone said is inaccurate? Your anecdotes seem to skew your perception. I get it, you're mad about it. It's a bad thing, I agree.. but there's no need to make up something and pass it off as even remotely correct when, in reality, yo…
/r/MensRights12/04/24 02:00 AM
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I mean we've all seen the poster where it said something like 1 in 4 homeless are women and how we 'need' to fix that. Basically saying fuck the 3 of the 4. No MRA's are saying "don't help women, only help men" but when you talk to feminist - they all but say that in reverse. "If you help men it will take resources away from women!" - err, so fuck men? Anecdotally, my soon to be ex-wife couldn't handle an honest conversation AT ALL. I said she was mean and her response was "oh, so you think I'm …
/r/MensRights10/04/24 06:57 PM
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The majority you say? What percentage would you say is a lie? Throw me a number you think is accurate and honest.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 04:19 PM
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Women have unity, they seem to actually care about each other. They are organized. But let me be the first to tell you - women can, and will, turn on each other in the blink of an eye. Don't mistake unity for simply being organized. Why do so many men not care? Because unlike feminism - men's rights is openly made fun of and attacked. Being a part of that or being perceived as being a part of that is risky. Additionally - masculinity hasn't changed while femininity has. Masculinity revolves arou…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:39 AM
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Err, defamation has always been able to land someone in hot water IF you can prove it actually harmed you (which should be trivial if you have been diagnosed with PTSD or trauma from it - because those therapy sessions won't be free and you can use those both as evidence of the diag as well as damages / harm) "Spilling the tea" inherently means gossip - it does not mean defamation. Meaning if they say something true about you - that is inherently not defamation. The core problem with these group…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:22 AM
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People that hate men treat them as one giant group. It's funny - when they say "not all men but enough" - and we turned around and say "sure, not all women but enough" they shit and go blind. I did this to my sister and she about lost her damn mind. They get hurt by a few, so they carry a torch against all of them. Many MRA's are like this too - this is the basics of trauma though. The problem is both when you're not able to be honest to yourself anymore about it and also when you're looking to …
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:15 AM
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Uh huh. Then re-read what I wrote and pay closer attention? I mean I used some pretty simple language. It shouldn't be too difficult for you to follow. Regardless, you do not seem ok. I hope you get better.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 06:06 PM
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First day on the Internet?
/r/MensRights03/04/24 04:46 PM
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I mean... welcome to working in business. Right, wrong, or indifferent - it is what it is. Look at how many companies cooperate with China, for example. It took Russia basically invading Ukraine and doing a lot for the world to go "ok, we need to do something". I mean look at France and paternity tests... they straight up do not want the truth because the answer might be scary. Countries do some wild ass shit
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:35 PM
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Whoever wrote that article does not know history. More likely they were told some nonsense and just ran with it without verifying. My sister tried this once. As we looked up the validity of her claims she quickly learned just how insanely wrong she was. The reality is.. humans are assholes, regardless of gender. Additionally - history also has forgotten many nuances that likely went into these wars so we'll likely never know important details that went into many decisions. So expecting an accura…
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:33 PM
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For years I told myself that feminism was not as bad as I thought, that it was exaggerated. This is how the majority of us in MensRights turn into MRA's. We realize feminism wasn't what we were told. Anecdotally it's how every single MRA I've met in real life turned into it - they were fucked over and saw.. the system doesn't care for them and will actively work against them in favor of women. The same women to claim to want equality magically... get quiet when it means helping you. Now I have t…
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:27 PM
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HR's goal is to protect the company. Sometimes that aligns with protecting you because protecting you protects the company. Sometimes they have to choose how to gamble - in this case they can either believe person A or believe person B. Remaining neutral can be viewed poorly in court with "why didn't you do anything when it was brought to your attention?" - and "well there wasn't any evidence" isn't going to be good enough for a jury. When it comes to business - whoever complains first will usua…
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:19 PM
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I suspect it has more to do with some laws in some countries and less to do with snowflake stuff.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:10 PM
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There is no probably. I've had posts in my social media about that. We've seen posters with similar numbers - such as homelessness. "1 in 4 homeless are women, we need to do something about it". Society, as a whole, views men as disposable.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:09 PM
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I think it's funny how they act like guns have more rights than women. Then when you point out how intensely guns are regulated already they act like you're lying.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:03 PM
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The purpose was to ridicule men, not to dialogue. Society in many developed countries are like this. The indoctrination has created this environment of being anti-male and to be extremely pedantic on wording when men say something and extremely forgiving when women word something. I'm in a poly group on Facebook and it's fuckin' wild the shit women will say and get support on and then when a man says the same thing they shit and go blind in anger. They also say "ick" on practically anything said…
/r/MensRights03/04/24 02:19 AM
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Scotland, for example, has some... odd rape laws. It is not possible for a woman to rape a man. At worst they view it as what amounts to simply assault - this would be her pegging him against his consent. If she got him drunk and fucked him against his consent then it gets weird but still not rape. A non-trivial amount of the UK and EU have similar'ish laws. This is also why the statistics are heavily skewed and can't be trusted.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 02:12 AM
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It's wild. With Roe versus Wade overturned - we have equal rights now - which is to say no one gets to abort. No one gets a say. Every single pro-choice response to men's rights here sound eerily similar to pro-life responses such as "you made your choice when you had sex" and "it takes two to tango". If a woman can abort - then a man should be able to financially abort / resign his rights away. Either they want equality or they don't. If they want "what's best for the baby" then that means no a…
/r/MensRights03/04/24 02:10 AM
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Honestly? The same problem the uber conservative left has: They refuse to have a coherent conversation. The woke movement disallows uncomfortable conversations. It's similar to a phrase: "Everyone loves science until it gets to debunking your personal brand of bullshit". The only difference between the right and left is what kind of bullshit they prefer to swallow. The left hates white people, men, anything rural, and truckers. The right strongly dislikes, if not hates, POC, women, and technolog…
/r/MensRights15/03/24 11:32 PM
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Maybe not all feminists hate men but enough hate men that I think it should be considered a hate movement. Isn't that what feminists say? "Not all but enough?" Seems like it's not all feminists but I might argue more than half are like this ergo enough are a hate group.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 08:57 PM
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The same women who hate on Leo Decaprio for his choices in women are the same that have a "beware of cougar" sign in their house somewhere.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 08:43 AM
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The issue is not that women are by nature extreme; it's that the women on these communities can do or say whatever they want and never be penalized for it. Several years ago someone did a test on 2X or feminism, I can't remember which. It was a post where they claimed something about their X-friend being somewhat mean to them and they wanted some help understanding. When the roles showed the girlfriend was hostile - it was "here's probably what you're doing wrong" and when the genders were flipp…
/r/MensRights01/03/24 08:39 AM
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Errr, in the real world outcome and opportunity are rarely equal when both are equal. Especially say when you're talking about college. I refuse to believe you people are so bad at statistics you can't understand this.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 10:28 PM
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You missed my point and at this point. I'm not talking about what we have in college right now but at this point you seem dead set on making an artificial argument.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 06:13 PM
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Not to some. Fairness for YOU might be that, and that's fine. But when the actual outcome is different - you're going to come back here and complain about how it's still not fair that more X graduates than Y and Z. case in point: when the other person mentioned that more women graduate than men. THAT is outcome, not opportunity. Equal opportunity is more than 1'st wave feminism was about. 4'rth wave feminism is more about equal outcome - which is why women have a substantially easier time gettin…
/r/MensRights26/02/24 06:15 AM
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I think you missed my point so I'll try again: DO YOU WANT EQUAL OPPORTUNITY OR EQUAL OUTCOME? You cannot have both. The reality is someone is going to lose. Right or wrong - that's what it is.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 04:28 AM
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The answer to the discrimination against males in education isn’t to practice mild affirmative action, the answer is to stop the discrimination. The real problem is "what is fair" because that's a very difficult question to answer. Equality of outcome is possible if you tweak equality of outcome at the expense of equality of opportunity. One requires ignoring the other, usually. You cannot give everyone the same chance and expect, on average, everyone to come out equally (even roughly). Cultures…
/r/MensRights26/02/24 01:47 AM
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Driving a car puts your life at risk. Being scared of everything doesn't inherently mean that everything IS the threat you think it is. Her, subtle, implication is that only men are the crazies willing to go that far. Seems awfully sexist of her. But it is Twitter where misandry is quite common and even encouraged.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 01:08 PM
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Wouldn't it be better if man and woman just fall back to their traditional roles in a society? Yes and no. Let's be real here: Anyone should be able to be whatever they want, full fucking stop. You have a dick and want to dress feminine and wear g-strings? Go for it. You have a pussy and want to dress masculine and go to the gym? Go for it. You want to be traditional? Go for it. I don't care. Humans are not binary. Slapping them into a binary structure entirely is going to end up with loads of f…
/r/MensRights13/01/24 01:00 PM
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Absolutely. Lemme tell a story. I fucked a high school fling when I was 25'ish. She was visiting. I find out she's married. And crazy. She gets pregnant. Well after the kid is born she moves back and claims the kid is mine. State says it's mine and not the man who lived with her because she claimed as much and I have to prove otherwise. I get a letter saying I'm scheduled for a meeting to explain what's going on. I go there and it's 100% staffed by women who, very clearly, HATE men and have an a…
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:46 PM
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You are missing the point. I'll try ONE more time with you. When right-wing folks said "yeah but what about black on back crime?" when asked about disproportionate crimes that black people commit they were met with folks telling them they are racist. You said "but what about male on male crime" (basically). Do you truly not see the parallel of what you said? But let's roll back to the original thing: "But let us pretend hatred of women is a problem." So if it's male on male that's the majority t…
/r/MensRights02/12/23 11:24 PM
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Basically it's feminist trying to justify their hate while demonizing someone else's. Sounds like every Christian I've ever met... "But I'M the good guy!" - no, no you are not.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 07:20 PM
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Let's swap what you said to race: "But what about black on black crime?" is basically what you just said. Now which kind of political party would make such a remark? The kind looking to dismiss? Or the kind looking to understand?
/r/MensRights02/12/23 07:19 PM
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If women were physically stronger - they'd be all for violence. Women ruin reputations frequently. They are emotionally violent because they can't be physically violent. if these feminists really went by their word they wouldn't use these insults, as there is nothing wrong with being short or having a smaller package but they clearly think so. This is how you know they are for superiority and not equality. "Rules for thee, not for me" is practically their mantra. a man getting angry is not toxic…
/r/MensRights18/11/23 05:42 AM
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They should read "To Kill A Mockingbird" once or twice. He accused me of being "scared" and that "if you are a good person, you don't have to worry about anything" which is absolutely laughable. Only the biggest of fools and morons believe the "if you have nothing to hide..." rhetoric. Plain and simple bad luck can fuck you. The Innocence Project tells us people wrongfully accused. The reality is it sounds like they've bought into the delusion of the American Dream and the "law enforcement are j…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 05:03 PM
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What do you think gaslighting means? Because I don't think it means what you think it means.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:30 PM
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Hyperbole, most likely. It's quite common in modern communication.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:29 PM
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You know how far too many men think porn is real life? Far too many women think Disney romance is real life. They think never arguing, ever, is the norm in relationships. Odds are if you never argue - one of you is never saying their real mind. Why do women keep asking where all the good guys at? The real answers they don't want to hear are this: They are too picky (we see this in video shorts all the time, they want a guy who makes 250k+, 6', has abs, is sweet in the streets and rough in the sh…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:46 PM
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Funny story that's sort of related. I was like 21 and in college. I woke up and was going to go to McDonald's for breakfast. Mom asked me to bring back two sausage biscuits. Sure - clearly for her and my sister. I come back, set it all out right as my sister is waking up and is happy to see we got sausage biscuits. Mom swooped it up and said, without thinking, "no, that's for the dog!" - to this very day my sister will never let her live that down. Of course she quickly back peddled with the nex…
/r/MensRights28/10/23 01:45 AM
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My wife gives me gifts she wants for my birthday. She'd been talking for a few years about Vegas. So November she's like "do you want to go to Vegas for your birthday or something else? I specifically said "eh, Vegas doesn't really sound fun". Guess where we ended up going? So when we got back I said "yeah, one or two things was fun but eh..." she was angry. "You said you wanted it!" - no, no I did not. YOU have been saying you wanted it. It was also almost twice as expensive as she said it woul…
/r/MensRights28/10/23 01:38 AM
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Furthermore, the very fact that Florida law now makes it official policy that anyone receiving alimony can be financially destabilized by a new relationship severely limits women’s autonomy How about, and hear me out, before establishing a new relationship - you try and get yourself sorted out financially first. The minute you get a divorce - you should be looking for a job. The minute you're thinking about a divorce - you should be practicing a skill of some sort. Look at it this way. If your s…
/r/MensRights27/10/23 01:49 PM
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My sister is very much like this. It's all men's fault until proven otherwise. What's wild is she'll say "you don't know what it's like to be a woman" while, in the same breathe, say she knows exactly what men go through and how it's so much easier. In reality it's one of those: Grass is always greener. It only appears easier because we've gone through it for decades and when women go through it once time it's an atrocity to them. They simply aren't used to it. I’ve never met one man forcing his…
/r/MensRights27/10/23 01:43 PM
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Its always the same, feminists It's not just feminists. It's most people in modern society. We see it in politics all the time. We see it in r/news. We see it in r/technology. People downplay the thing they don't like and are try-hards on things they do like. Feminists, however, feel empowered to be trolls because the world defends them at the drop of a hat. We've also seen this in tests. Men beat women in public? 15 guys appear to defend her. Women beats man in public? Everyone turns a blind ey…
/r/MensRights27/10/23 01:38 PM
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The thing about SJW's is they think they can solve social injustice with... more social injustice. And they wonder what keeps going wrong for them. is always bad pejoratives being projected at the other side, be it neckbeard, be it manchild, hell even nerd gets thrown in the batter, why not shame jocks, why not shame pimps, why not shame studs, why not shame ballers, why socially-struggling men??? Every movement does this. they know strong people either don't care or will defend themselves. Stru…
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:24 AM
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And when I "gently" pushed the woman away in self defense, some white knights stepped in to help her and beat me. We've seen countless videos where women can out-right abuse men in public and no one cares. The second a man even mildly does something - white knights show up. We all know why feminists don't care to fix that "equality" problem.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 04:03 PM
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Decades of feminists portraying men as rapists, pedos, domestic abusers, perverts, harrassers etc. Etc. I also think they were foolishly narrow minded with the "not all but enough" rhetoric. I don't think they realize just how trivial it is to turn that against them. "Yeah, some companies aren't hiring women in certain positions to avoid accusations or drama. Sure not all women do that but 'enough' women do." "Yeah, some executives refuse to meet women sales folk and women executives for a lunch…
/r/MensRights10/10/23 03:51 PM
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Feminism pushes for women to get all the so called perceived benefits of being a man, without any of the downsides or responsibilities that come with it. We see this when it comes to things like them being required to sign up for the draft. All of a sudden they do the "I'm not for requiring ANYONE to sign up for the draft.. it's just purely coincidentally I've never mentioned it before until it impacted me". We can see with Roe versus Wade being overturned and there being actual equality now. Pr…
/r/MensRights30/09/23 10:44 PM
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What's super fascinating about this is lesbians. While the claim is they are more sexually satisfied - romantically they have a higher divorce rate then straight couples and gay men. My kid is gay. She's learned many of these things first hand. It's unfortunate but it's confirmed, for me, many of the posts here and what studies show. Bisexuals are probably the worst for her though. Spoiled and entitled.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 03:48 PM
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I mean Reddit is the left-wing version of FOX News. Just the way it is.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 09:13 PM
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r/technology and r/news is the same way. I got banned because I said "if you swap our men with 'black people' you sound racist - just like my grandparents with 'maybe not all men but enough'". Turns out... the moderators think women are too fragile to hear such things and need special protections.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 09:12 PM
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It's wild how I'm expected to care about the people who say they shouldn't care for me. Looking at abortion. I was told I should "wear a condom if I didn't want a kid" and now women are losing access to abortion and telling them what they told me is... wrong? Fuck off. It's exceedingly rare men have privileges that women don't. It's extremely common that women do have privileges that men don't. And no where do women lack rights that men have in developed nations.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 12:52 AM
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I was arguing with a feminist/social justice warrior. The problem with SJW's is they think they can solve social injustice by using social injustice. You can't win with them. Reason, logic, and empathy are not parts of their argument. Your time is better spent elsewhere and not with those folks who lack the emotional and mental maturity to handle these conversations.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 12:42 PM
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there is very little self reflection as to their own contribution to this inbalance. This isn't just women. This is society as a whole who lacks self reflection. It just so happens to be considerably more obvious in feminism, and things like religion, and a few others because of how vocal they can be. Gender roles generally benefit women. This is why feminist believe in what I jokingly call "fake equality". They believe in equality right up until it means losing their privileges. This is why whe…
/r/MensRights19/09/23 09:13 PM
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You don't agree all women are perfect angels and victims? You are an incel who hate women It seems wild to me that this is how so many conversations, not just men's rights, goes. For example - I was watching an Instagram reel about a truck that pulled into what appears to be an emergency lane with a motorcycle speeding. Cycle hit the track and got yeeted into the bed of the truck. Some sided with the truck and the responses were "ok, so speeding and doing that should be a death sentence?!" - the…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 04:10 PM
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I wouldn't call it hate speech as much as I'd call it simple bigotry - I say that because they usually don't actually believe they are involuntary celibate. The moderators over in r/technology allow it - as long as it's only pointed at men. If you point that out then all hell seems to break loose. Same with several other top tier subreddits. If you fall within the right gender, right political party, etc - you can make fun of others all you want and you'd be protected. There's a reason r/technol…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 08:58 PM
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It's like when women say how terrible porn was for them. They only say that AFTER they are so well off they have "fuck you" money. "You don't realize how hard it is on women to get fucked like that and treated like that!" - right and men in construction are treated wonderfully and have healthy backs when they hit 40. Piss off.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 02:34 AM
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Unless he just thinks all people fighting for rights are inherently evil It's more likely he fell for the "feminism is for everyone" nonsense.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 08:24 PM
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Aren't people like these supposed to be non-partisan and neutral? Humans overall have difficulty with this. Hell even Judges have difficulty with this even when they try. I've had a dentist go on a right-wing rant about how (at the time) Obama was "destroying the country in ways we'll never recover". As if I was going to disagree with him while he had pointy objects in my mouth... I've also had a rheumatologist complain about Trump and basically shit on right-wingers hard. Asking if I was intere…
/r/MensRights26/08/23 08:23 PM
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Really.. so a woman who cheats on the man she is engaged too should be allowed to cheat on him without consequence at all? I don't think this is what they are saying. I think they are saying he should have "been the better person" and just called it off quietly. Weird how people who are the ones being abused or hurt are always the ones told to be the better person. It's never the toxic person. Why? Because it's easier to tell the one that got fucked to calm down than it is to have a conversation…
/r/MensRights23/08/23 05:41 PM
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making gender spectrums their whole identity are nothing more than attention-seeking disorders, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3h6es6zh1c so somebody in the typical callous fashion decided to get back at the op and went ''does this also go for men who make being a ''real man'' their whole identity''? Like in the video above - "real men" who basically always talk about what a "real man" does is what I would define as toxic masculinity. Certainly there are more masculine things. Similarly when a…
/r/MensRights20/08/23 02:23 PM
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There are a finite amount of people. If you want to be picky your options dwindle down. If you want to limit yourself to the top 10% and - the odds are not in your favor. At all. I mean if you want to date up - just be prepared to work for it or be disappointed. "Why can't I find anyone?" - because you limited your options pretty heavily and other women offer more.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 01:44 PM
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And? As long as it pushes towards equality I'm ok with it.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 03:58 AM
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Anyone who’s genuinely interested not just in helping women succeed, but also in helping society prosper and evolve — driving social and economic progress for everyone — should stop applying sexist criticisms to women, and start applying useful criticisms to change the behavior of arrogant and overconfident men Ever notice how everyone wants others to "grow" but never themselves?
/r/MensRights20/08/23 02:57 AM
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Often I lay awake legitimately wondering I wouldn't let it keep you up unless it's impacting you or someone you love. Otherwise it's just one of those things that worrying won't change and the wheels of global change are slow. To offer an example - I don't lose sleep over Ukraine and the war thought I certainly acknowledge what's going on is terrible. if it's misandrist to claim woman are equal, often I wonder if it's even true In what way? Women can be similarly intelligent. Women, however, are…
/r/MensRights20/08/23 02:43 AM
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I've never met a single person who wanted true equality other than autistic people who like strict rules that are easy to follow (equality is just that - strict and easy to follow). They want equality when it means gaining privileges they didn't have before. They want "queen treatment" so they don't lose their own privileges in favor of equality. Losing your privileges feels like oppression. This is why they often respond in such a hostile and rabid way. They never wanted equality. They just wan…
/r/MensRights19/08/23 02:43 PM
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Let's assume it was in the US. Let's be honest. Feminists wouldn't care that it was sexist. They would be mad that they basically said they want pretty non-fat women. And it'd be hilarious to watch that happen in real time. "You can't discriminate against women!" - "Ok, we'll remove the 'pref female' part" - "Wait, no, we meant you should also hire ugly fat women, we don't care that you prefer women, we actually like that part!"
/r/MensRights19/08/23 02:39 PM
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but i dont support the idea of brainwashing young men into thinking that bodycount doesnt matter. Let's be honest her. The point here is so a.) women aren't held accountability for their decisions and b.) men shouldn't have an opinion women don't like. That's all there is to this. You're allowed to have your preferences. Fuck any person who says otherwise. any brother would be ashamed of a promicuous sister. I don't care what my sister does. any father would be ashamed of a promicuous daughter. …
/r/MensRights19/08/23 01:37 PM
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First comment: I am growing very tired with people not really caring about social problems until men are affected and then it's a national emergency. Hmm... sounds like you're doing the same thing you claim to hate so much. If you were to go up and down that entire page from OP to the comments and swap "men" with "black people" - they would sound insanely racist. It's wild how comfortable they are in their hate and bigotry.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 01:14 PM
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That's not Google - that's Wikipedia. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Going_Their_Own_Way
/r/MensRights17/08/23 02:49 PM
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but Fulstow, 37, felt she would not be believed See here is a communication problem. There is a VAST difference between being believed and having a court use your sole word as enough to put someone behind bards with no other corroborating evidence. People need to learn that. You don't get to just accuse someone and have the court believe you would never lie and are capable of telling a completely accurate story without any mistakes whatsoever. It’s not surprising given only 1.6% of all reported …
/r/MensRights17/08/23 02:43 PM
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She said they had sex, which she told the court was not consensual but she did not regard it as a rape Now let's imagine something. Imagine if a male had said "sure, consensual but I don't regard it as rape" - how much of r/news would shit and go blind screaming "THAT IS RAPE!" We decided jointly between the two of us that we would deal with the matter ourselves and seek justice ourselves and go down the vigilante route. So it's not like she wasn't involved in this. Sounds like Conspiracy to me.…
/r/MensRights17/08/23 02:33 PM
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To be fair - gay men don't hate women like gay women tend to hate men. I can count on one hand the amount of lesbians I know that don't hate men. I don't know a single gay man that hates women. There was a study some time ago that basically said "lesbians are better at giving their partners orgasms than straight men" but also basically hidden in there was "lesbians are less likely to stay together than gay men - by a lot" People often (or at least I see here on Reddit in various subreddits) say/…
/r/MensRights17/08/23 02:26 PM
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Get used to it, it's not gonna change anytime soon. I'm not so sure. I'm seeing people walk away. I'm seeing the younger generation getting tired of extremes in politics and movements. They aren't vocal about it, for sure, but they also aren't participating as much.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:57 PM
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What's funny is how feminist tend to think it's the reverse. "No one ever believes a woman but they'll always believe a man!" - err, no, what happens is you generally can't expect a court of law to prosecute, and win, based purely on your word. Society rarely believes men, especially unattractive men. Society, as a whole, also doesn't care about men - such as the case above. Society is willing to help women whereas for men it's more of a "good luck". We've all see the TikTok / YT Reel where it's…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:55 PM
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There's a difference between turning a blind eye and being paranoid. This whole thing makes me wonder if Travelodge his a history of hosting sexual predators. There seems to be no other reason to make such a wild jump.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 11:55 PM
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The OP's responses makes me think the whole story if fake or they aren't telling the whole truth.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 10:55 PM
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Reading that thread - the OP seems like a classic abuser who is used to their spouse being obedient. Specifically this part: After dealing with a medical crisis, I started noticing that things were being missed. Lots of things. I brought it up to my husband, expecting what I’d gotten every other time in our marriage: an apology and immediate work to fix the situation. That smells of entitlement and slavery almost. And this: This could have broken my marriage if not for the 20 years of experience…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 04:56 PM
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Perhaps this should be a trait of toxic femininity.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:49 PM
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Mentally free individuals like me don't give a fuck about "rewards". Oh boy... you sound like one of those "alpha's don't care about sheep" types.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:04 PM
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Eh, he's not entirely wrong though. The world isn't fair. If you want women - then yes, you need to appeal to the type of woman you want. In the same way she needs to appeal to you if she wants you. It's a two-way street - it's just that women have a greater set of choices than men. You can say "it's wrong of women to want only tall, dark, rich, and handsome" - but that still won't get you women. Fair or unfair doesn't matter. It won't change the reality. Similarly, if you want to get rich... yo…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 02:53 PM
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Some women at Google complained about the wage gap. Google did an internal review and found men were paid LESS so they had to give men raises.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 11:03 PM
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Here's the deal and I'm probably going to get shit for this: Her mother told me: it is just that I don't like men to take photos of my daughter. Better to be safe than sorry. I don't like anyone taking pictures of my kids without consent. There are some obvious examples where that doesn't apply (e.g. playing basketball at school). But if we're in WalMart and someone down the aisle points the camera at her and snaps a picture - my first thought is going to be "be prepared for shit". That being sa…
/r/MensRights12/08/23 04:51 PM
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I learned to show up and get the table before she showed up. Tell the waiter you'd like separate checks. At the end you can choose to take hers if you want. You avoid the awkward conversation that comes when they ask "same check or different". A trick I learned is when the separate checks are delivered "I had a good time, we should do X next time, I'll pay. What'dya think?" where X is not a meal but is a thing you do - such as karaoke or whatever you have in common. If you play Magic: The Gather…
/r/MensRights12/08/23 03:55 PM
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Nope, I do not forfeit anything. You can learn to deal with it.. or.. you can complain abut it. I forfeit nothing. Full stop. They ALREADY discriminated AND YOU KNOW IT. They didn't hire the person. If the person had been male they would have hired them. That IS sexism.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 02:21 PM
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Honestly - this is one of my frustrations with modern dialog. For example - if you are a Democrat and have criticism of the Democratic party - you usually have to prefix your comments with "I'm a Democrat but..." otherwise the first response you'll find is "you're just a Republican, shut up and ..." type responses. It's part of the reason many of my comments are so long and often triggers folks who have pre-thought out responses that I already addressed in my comments. They can't do the "gotcha!…
/r/MensRights12/08/23 12:53 AM
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Because YouTubers use it to add time to videos. They often surround it with a lot more words instead of "let's just jump into it" and "let's talk about this in detail" - it seems modern video's and journalism is all abut word fluff which makes certain words "feel" a certain way. That being said, I generally don't care about celebrities. I also don't care for websites with a purely white background with narrow text - it's blinding.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 12:44 AM
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doing exactly the same thing leaves you little room to complain You have two choices in life. You can keep up with the status quo (aka handle reality as reality demands) or you can resist, as OP is doing. If you resist you are consciously making your own life harder. Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, has done this to get by in life. No one has the time, energy, or money to fight all inequalities or fight for all moralities. So you have to choose which ones are you going to care about and which ones…
/r/MensRights12/08/23 12:39 AM
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I mentioned something like this becoming more problematic years ago when MeToo first started. Hiring women will be risky. Working with women will be risky. Many women I saw online and a few IRL said "good, men should be afraid of even the hint of a wrong step!" -- and the natural consequences of that followed. Male C-levels were less interested in a casual lunch discussion with women in business (C-levels or sales) but would happily hang out with other men. Women led businesses and women sales-f…
/r/MensRights12/08/23 12:29 AM
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I... don't think you know what a simp is.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 12:29 AM
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Defamation is a high bar. They also plead guilty. Sure it's exaggerated - but the fact it's partially true is going to make court extremely difficult. There's a reason you don't hear about defamation cases left and right. There's a reason Johnny Depp had an uphill battle - even with evidence, people willing to vouch, and such. This has a very small chance of winning. In reality - better off with a name change but go by a similar name (e.g. Adam -> Jim but call yourself J Bob), delete facebook, g…
/r/MensRights12/08/23 12:14 AM
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was all just mean spirited cheap jokes If you ask a lot of feminist - they act like men treated women like this in the 90's and 00's. They also casually forget about fat men and how plumbers, for example, were represented. Somehow jokes like that are things they entirely forgot about. See the problem I truly have here isn't the cheap jokes. It's that you're only socially allowed to have certain cheap jokes. The people who claim to be all about equality seem to actively be about everything except…
/r/MensRights11/08/23 09:19 PM
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Physical fitness creates a cycle of toxic masculinity that must be eradicated. Ukraine says hello. The world they want to create would get steamrolled if it were for the people they hate so much. Women are, on average, intellectually superior to men. Misandry flows through their koolaide. But this wording... something feels off. This particular set of wording isn't what feminists tend to use. It almost feels... fake. Unfortunately, castration is not an option for humans at this point in time due…
/r/MensRights11/08/23 03:50 AM
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I feel like we need to talk about the use of the word 'minority' here.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 03:54 PM
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Littering and...? I mean they are still Photoshopping those pictures to holy hell. I'm still not sure why this bothers you so much. Are you masturbating to VS? I mean it's for clothes to buy your woman. If you want porn, go watch porn. Otherwise... they are selling to a crowd and they get to choose who they want to sell it to. Your post both only hurts the movement and is painfully narrow minded. Grow up.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 11:59 AM
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Contrary to what r/mensrights here submissions imply - The world of Reddit, and it's subs, are not a reflection of the majority or even the average. A lot is "worse case scenario". The Democrats of r/news are not representative of your average actual Democrat - your average Democrat isn't that fucking stupid or insane. The women of 2X are not representative of your average woman - your average woman doesn't hate men or wish them all dead or a major culling. So on and so forth. You have to realiz…
/r/MensRights10/08/23 10:50 AM
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Here's the real deal: When someone's movement is their identity - criticism feels hostile to them. It's the same reason having topics about religion, politics, and more are difficult.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 02:07 AM
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My dude... RUN THE CODE. Swap it out with a float if you want. It won't make a difference. Read the documentation - it will literally explain why. I'm surprised you don't understand the technical difference between floats and doubles - which is likely why you're hung on up that specific bit. I have literal decades of experience in this. Just to be 100% certain I ran all three. You are just plain wrong and being ridiculous or trolling on purpose. The fact you are refusing to do these simple thing…
/r/MensRights08/08/23 01:51 AM
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I literally did before commenting. I posted it in that format so you could literally copy and paste it into a console app - which you seem to have not done - which explains why you're so adamant because you haven't done so yourself.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 01:33 AM
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No it is not. Swap out double with float (also called single in other languages). Run it yourself.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 01:22 AM
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There's a LOT of history that's "not told" widely - and on purpose. If you go down this hole... it gets dark real quick.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 01:11 AM
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Also, to be pedantic, in C# 0.2 + 0.1 really is equal to 0.3, but I get your point double x1 = 0.2; double y1 = 0.1; Console.WriteLine(x1 + y1); Console.WriteLine(x1 + y1 == 0.3); decimal x2 = 0.2m; decimal y2 = 0.1m; Console.WriteLine(x2 + y2); Console.WriteLine(x2 + y2 == 0.3m); Run that. If you'd like to learn more: https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/dotnet/csharp/language-reference/builtin-types/floating-point-numeric-types
/r/MensRights08/08/23 01:06 AM
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I was explaining to my sister and her friend floating point math (which often programmers often fail to understand) and was told I was "mansplaining computers". I offered to let them explain. They didn't even know what a non-integer was. At that point I just stopped helping them with their CS homework. "Since you seem to understand all this, I'll let you do as you please". I'll give you two guesses as to whether they passed or failed. (for those who don't know: computers don't handle non-integer…
/r/MensRights07/08/23 08:29 PM
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It's wild. Women and men now have equal rights with abortion: It's simply illegal. Now neither can choose t do it. What is it feminists said to me? Oh right: You "chose" when you had unprotected sex. Seems like she chose too. Equality feels like oppression when you lose your privileges.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 07:04 PM
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This is how you can tell the difference between them wanting revenge and equality. The funny thing is most of the women angry haven't even really seen inequality like their grandmothers did. It'll be interesting to see in the future when they say "we didn't realize sexism against men was wrong" in the same way my grandparents imply dropping n-bombs "wasn't a big deal and they didn't realize it was wrong".
/r/MensRights06/08/23 05:18 AM
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only to discover that in the real world men are discriminated against in education, Once of the non-profits I worked at - several higher level management women said they would never hire a man because of the "perception" of them being around kids and women. Her entire crew was female. She said this in the open around lots of people. If a man were to do that....
/r/MensRights05/08/23 03:50 PM
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This is likely the cause. It may also mean they will happily go to court to say "yes, it was handled properly, here is how we do it" and things of the like. People forget that other's time isn't free.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 03:47 PM
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Good example is "exclusion" in workplace. What is ironic about this - is this was the second wave's feminism biggest complaint. Feminism has become the EXACT thing they hated so much. Which, honestly, happens to most movements. I've abandoned several movements (and a political party) because they become the exact thing they swore they hated. This is why it's critical to not let your political party become your identity.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 12:25 PM
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Wild in the US that's hella illegal. My uncle got bank because this happened to him. The C-level flipped his shit when he heard how much my uncle won. Constructive dismissal is extremely illegal and since many companies do annual reviews - it's not too difficult to prove.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 12:33 AM
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Feminists think they have a special struggle thats unique to them Truth be told every group does have unique struggles. Geeks, jocks, black people, women, men, transmen, transwomen, liberals, conservatives, rich, poor, young, old, etc. This is just a simple fact of life. The thing is - not ALL struggles are unique to any group. Every group, every single one, generally seems to think the grass is greener. Or that the grass is perfect on the other side. Feminism, as a whole, seems to think men hav…
/r/MensRights04/08/23 08:12 PM
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It's interesting how it's almost always "men are afraid of approaching these days, they don't know how to talk to women" I'm going to talk about this specifically here. It's wild how women are paralyzed by fear of approaching men and refuse to set an example. It's easy to criticize someone else when you, yourself, aren't willing to do anything at all. As an introvert that tends to keep to myself the amount of women, years after the fact, ask me why I didn't approach them or ask them out and thei…
/r/MensRights04/08/23 01:55 PM
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Reminds me of Johnny Depp. So many femcel's basically assumed he was guilty and she was innocent. Then proof came out she was ~bat~human-shit crazy (get it? GET IT?!). For many, such as my sister, she still thinks he provoked her or at least "did something to deserve it". She genuinely felt like the videos of the court stuffs were 100% made to mock women. She flipped her shit when I said "funny how you didn't think it was both when it first started.. almost like you just want to hate on men and …
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:50 PM
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My kid is a lesbian. Her and her gf (they are both like 18/19) want a kid. The gf will host. We have explained to our kid that if her and her gf break up - as the law is right now she has zero rights to the kid. If the break up is sour - she may never see that kid ever again because, technically, she's not a parent. Things like this can make you a very bitter person. Of course being young and dumb she's very much a "that'll never happen to us". She's at that age where one realizes just how shitt…
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:45 PM
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I doubt countries care why you're leaving your home if you aren't refugee Well developed countries do care. They cooperate well with the US government. Who would WANT to live in Russia at this very moment? Brazil isn't the greatest place either. Dubai is ok. Japan is... wild when it comes to working there. Japan absolutely cooperates with the US. Perhaps you meant Korea. Basically all of Western Europe will be denied to you. Canada will be denied to you. Both of these are the predominate preferr…
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:39 PM
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There's a reason states a very quick to assume you're the father until you prove you're not. It's financially in their best interest to do so. Even if the woman was married and the other man is presumed the father. If she says "nope, this other guy is the father" the state assumes her claim is true. This exact thing happened to me. I, of course, was not the father. Crazy bitch STILL tries to find me and say "I still think the DNA test was wrong" - bitch, have you LOOKED at the pictures of him?
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:35 PM
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Lawyers and judges never seem to directly accuse each other of malpractice. There's a reason for this. Being wrong can cost you your career. Hell even being right can still cost you dearly if they can make it even appear you were wrong at the time, even if you're proven right a decade later.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:30 PM
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I was on Insta the other day and they were talking about the Barbie movie and misandry came up. Some denied it even existed. Others said "until all male on female rapes stop, men's rights don't matter" to which I said "Ok, then until men's rights are address I don't care if you never get abortion back". Funny how I'm expected to care for their rights while they can openly say they don't care abut men's rights. Sorry but a ban on abortion means actual equality. Now NEITHER of us get a choice inst…
/r/MensRights01/08/23 01:43 PM
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I've dated some pretty hardcore women in my life. Not one has made it through a month of manual labor or hard jobs. To give context: Two of the chicks I've dated have wrestled alligators. So I'm not joking when I say they are pretty hardcore.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 02:45 AM
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I mean yeah. It's the same reason you only find porn stars complaining about how bad the industry is AFTER they are insanely wealthy. Like sure, I know the industry is shit but what industry isn't? "But they take advantage of young women!" - "Yeah and the fast food industry takes advantage of poor folks by paying them minimum wage and giving them so few hours they have to get another job; FEW people have great jobs that don't take advantage of them in some way or another. fuck outta here". Most …
/r/MensRights31/07/23 07:02 PM
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Law firms also have IT, accounting, assistants - not all positions require law school. I did IT. A fuck ton of women set me up, sabotage the marriage, or prepare for divorce YEARS before the men are even aware of problems is insane.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 06:57 PM
3

That is not likely.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 03:34 PM
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"Misandry doesn't exist! And if it does, it's not that bad. And if it's that bad then misogyny is worse! And if misandry is worse then it's men's fault!" The goal post always moves so fast it's hard to keep up. In reality they are the same as my racist grandparents looking for excuses to hate and feel justified in their hatred because "this one time..." And I'll bet you in 20 years it'll be "we didn't know being a misandrist was that bad, it was just a different time, you wouldn't understand" to…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 02:37 PM
1

You never see hot chicks protesting Hooters or Strip Clubs for a reason...
/r/MensRights31/07/23 02:00 PM
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The most intense MRA's I've met were former white knights who realized... feminists use them as tools and the very second they can be hated on for the feminist benefit - they will absolutely throw that white knight away and shit on them. Of course those former white knights are like "I never knew!" - sure buddy, sure. Truth is when information that conflicted with your ideology appeared - you chose your ideology over the information and investigating because that's what was comfortable. With 50/…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:59 PM
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What you're defining is more of a "might making right" and the only people that stand up to it are good people. This is a fun topic because quickly you realize might can also translate into tools (e.g. guns). The thing that prevents countries from invading IS might, or at least the perception of might. There's only one sex in the US that has to sign up for the draft. And no amount of "identifying as a woman" changes the fact you have to sign up. And feminists never really talk about that. Until …
/r/MensRights31/07/23 02:31 AM
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I bet you they'll be the first to say "misandry isn't real" too.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 02:22 AM
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Go be a bouncer at any bar. You'll find women who are stronger act like they can do anything and everything a man can do. Right up until reality shows them otherwise. Then they fall back to how fragile women are and magically become very weak and incapable in milliseconds. The thing about women needing protection at night is more about society not caring if a man dies. The other part of it is: You can control yourself. You cannot control others. Saying "teach boys not to rape or kill" is like sa…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:04 AM
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Yeah the modern woman expects the benefits of traditions while discarding the problems with it. For example - they both want you to pay for dinner but also not expect something in return. These people claim to want "equality" - but only when that equality benefits them. When it doesn't (e.g. signing up the for draft, plowing snow, mowing lawns) they magically get quiet about it. If you don't play the game - they discriminate against you. When you call out how sexist it is - they gaslight you cla…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:57 AM
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Yeah, I've seen them try to play that card too. For him - the mental gymnastics he does makes him think he's not the "CIS white male" that they are talking about - he's "different". One day he'll learn they do exactly mean him too. And he'll cry crocodile tears with "I never knew!" - as is what always happens when you try to ally yourself with feminism and it inevitably betrays you.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 10:09 PM
1

Is the US? Lawyer up for a discrimination lawsuit.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 02:14 PM
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Lately the only way they can make "strong" female characters is by making dumb male characters. That's the very best people like her can do. As opposed to Ripley in Alien(s) who doesn't need dumb or weak men.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 01:32 PM
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I have a acquaintance on Fet that is, basically, a CIS white male. He used about 9 adjectives that sound like he's not to basically say that he's a CIS white male. It's bonkers how desperate they are to not be honest about what they are. It's gotten to the point it's stupid and painfully dishonest. Personally I think it smells of just wanting attention / selling out. While I think there is a small amount of herself that believes it.. I think in reality she just knows that selling hate is profita…
/r/MensRights29/07/23 01:31 PM
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No, it showed more than that. His liver indicates the beginning stages of an unusual degrading known as “mild fatty metamorphasis”, and his brain tissue appeared compromised, both conditions symptomatic of DXM use. Considering he had all but one ingredient on his person - and the damage shows regular use of it and the symptoms he seemed to exhibit matched perfectly with what Zimmerman seemed to claim.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 04:15 AM
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Yup. All because of one person who claimed they could be impartial but actually couldn't be.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 04:13 AM
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I find it interesting how the left seems to attack the right for being so gullible with conspiracy theories (and the right does fall for them) but holy hell they seem to think themselves immune from it or some shit. I mean looking at even George Zimmerman and how even Obama got wrong details which only happened because NBC (illegally) edited the audio. I pulled up the transcripts and looked at court submitted evidence. Look at toxicology for Martin. It's pretty clear how that night went south. W…
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:14 PM
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most jurors have “must be guilty of something cause they got arrested” attitude. It's wild. The wife was recently on a jury where ONE juror was dead set on guilty because "it happened to her once and so anyone accused of it is guilty" yet she lied and said she could be impartial... It was extremely clear the dude was very likely innocent and this one chick was just... dead set on guilty. She genuinely did not are she was about to ruin someone's life. No care at all.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:06 PM
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It's not gas-lighting. It's just fallacious reasoning: No True Scotsman. You can find it in many groups - such as Christians. Usually it has everything to do with their perception of how holy their movement is. Want to really get under their skin? As them for a name of someone who they think reflects their view of their movement. Watch them realize they are about to be nailed to a wall.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 11:09 PM
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I think most logical feminists don't support this sort of thing Then why does #BelieveHer exist?
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:25 AM
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The notion of automatically believing anyone is dangerous and harmful. It also doesn't make sense to disprove a claim. Russell's Teapot says hello.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:24 AM
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The phrase I like to tell people is: A broken clock and be right twice per day still. Meaning sure, even if the other thing is wrong 99% of the time - you might miss something important if your arrogance decides to ignore them 100% of the time. We see this time and again. You can stereotype a group, person, etc - and usually you're right. Except it's not always the case. And people should be careful with the "sure not all but enough do" because two things there: "Enough" is vague and specificall…
/r/MensRights22/07/23 09:13 PM
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Projection is exactly it. Because all they know is hate - they assume MRA's are like them - which is why they view MRA's as a threat. Additionally they have a fantasy in which they think men have 99.99% of privileges to be had. So in their mind only women need equality and not men because "men have all the privilege". Of course when the point out why their fantasy isn't reality - they flip out usually. As someone else said - there is no polite way to tell someone that their identity or what they…
/r/MensRights22/07/23 08:46 PM
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To be honest, after reading the plot, it basically points out the shitty aspects of women and men. For women it points out if you act like a selfish twat you're going to die alone - specifically if you want to "live it up" then understand you may not find anyone who wants you when you're older. For men it's don't be a controlling dick to women.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 01:07 PM
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I think it‘s somewhat useless to pick out deranged individuals in a group to then be totally outraged by it. Why does this sound so familiar? Hmmm.....
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:49 PM
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I disagree - the reason people fall to certain male authority figures is because they absolutely are lost in a sea of mixed signals. Specifically a large enough chunk want to be manly but are told it's bad then are told how to be manly in a feminine way which .. is confusing for young boys and young men to truly understand why which you and I see as: Feminism, and much of the worlds society, is against us. That doesn't mean we don't understand the situation we're in - which is hypocrisy. We also…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 10:04 PM
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And trash humans would rather go on believing she’s a crazy liar than he’s a rapist. You know there's a teapot floating around Mars?
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:42 PM
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Nah, I'm not going to give you examples. You're simply trolling.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:31 PM
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You don't get to say "believe me so he has to prove he DIDN'T do it" - that's just nonsense. There's a reason all kinds of things aren't reported - and it's purely because they are difficult to prove in court. You're going to find this hard to believe but humans lie. They lie more often when it's in their own best interest to do so.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:30 PM
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some men are not doing so well now and women are suffering for that The ONLY reason she cares about men suffering is because it hurts women. Misandry at its finest folks. It was never about equality.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 05:54 PM
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The wild thing is they don't view it as that. But, like I've said before, when it comes to actually doing the hard stuff - they cower and demand manly men help them. Look at Ukraine. Look at Uvalde. They got candy ass men as cops. They cried all about that. They wanted someone to go in and handle shit - ya know, like a man. When they got that they cheered. They quickly forgot about that one dude. They want to emasculate men AND to have manly men save them when needed because they can't save them…
/r/MensRights19/07/23 03:41 PM
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A friend of mine worked fucking HARD during the week but Friday night to Sunday morning that dude fucking DRAAAAANK. He loved buying drinks for everyone around him. I don't do Fireball anymore because of him .. so.. much.. fireball. Anyways, one particular regular leached HARD off him one night and he never bought drinks for her ever again. She'd walk up to the bar, order shots on his tab (they thought it was for him, her, and friends - as per the usual). When he found that out... oof. That was …
/r/MensRights18/07/23 06:53 PM
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Eh, it's super rich Californians. I can easily see it. Women and men have ego problems in different ways. For men it's primarily money driven. She's absolutely right. Immoral and unethical as fuck but yeah... you can easily prey on that kind of man like that. It happens all the time in business too if your ego is too big. Other men will absolutely wreck your world because of your ego driving you to make stupid decision. Truth be told, though, this is a small subset of men. Small enough to not ev…
/r/MensRights18/07/23 06:47 PM
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and if you did any actual research on the topic you might realize that as well. Nah, I'm good. If you can't be bothered to link it for open criticism - I'm both going to call bullshit and not put forth the effort. I've known women who have been trafficked into that business. The plural of anecdote is not data.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 06:36 PM
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Interesting, so about the same quality as your comment then? Hmm... this coming from someone who says porn is misogyny. I'm sorry but that stance is... borderline insane.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 04:48 PM
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Modern society is a mixture of tradition (when it benefits women) and progressiveness (when it benefits women. Why is it all about the man arranging a great time, while she just had to look good. Risk management. Notice women take little to no risk in dating. They don't have to pay. They don't have to decide where to go. They don't have to put out. They don't even have to drive. If they look remotely like their picture - that's all they have to do is repeat that process. There is no real risk. H…
/r/MensRights18/07/23 04:02 PM
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My daughters girlfriend, who practically hates men, has finally understood women lie about rape when a friend of hers in chat admitted to filing a police report about her boyfriend raping her. "Yeah, I know it's bad but anyways I want to ..." - which is still further than "women NEVER lie about it" that she used to believe. The person across from her was talking about shelters and made the remark "yeah, most shelters here are women only and there aren't any man only but at least he can go to a g…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 06:15 PM
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they have brought forth common-law marriage legislature around the world. In a LOT of places common law is non-trivial. Simply living with a feminist for 2 to 3 years, depending on where you are in the world, gets you automatically married in the eyes of the law, and without a prenup, no less. Usually, though not always, there are clauses that say you also have to present yourself as life partners. Friends simply living together would be much harder to argue. In your example I believe it's more …
/r/MensRights17/07/23 03:26 AM
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Are we talking about A crime (as in any crime) or the specific crime of kidnapping that r/news seem to regularly talk about?
/r/MensRights13/07/23 04:06 PM
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most ordinary men will buckle, Just wait until manly men are needed. We see this in the Ukraine. We don't see feminism being pushed there. We see it retreating heavily. "Get the women and children out of there!" - instead of "save the kids and elderly, everyone else: Front lines!" - their stance on equality vanishes when it means actual hard stuff needs to happen. The problem with a lot of movements is it forgets: Humans gonna human. A thing I share on social media during the winter is a man plo…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 04:03 PM
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After all, feminism is the belief that men and women should be treated equally, right? You'd like to think that. But the second you actually push them to actually act on that, it's never true. Feminism is better viewed as "women's rights and privileges". The very second women have a right or a privilege men don't - and men want that "equality" from feminists - the feminists abandon them. You can see this in family law left and right. You see this in colleges where more women graduate than men, m…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 03:46 PM
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No.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 03:17 PM
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and no jail time? Normally I'd agree with you, and I don't entirely know Austrialia's legal system, but in the US if you owe this money, can't afford to pay it, and go dark and hide... this practically ruins the rest of your life. It's almost worse than prison. I wouldn't be surprised if it's remotely similar in Aus. So she tarnished for ever an innocent couple reputation We as a society need to work hard on fixing this problem - specifically the "believe the first person to claim" or "believe t…
/r/MensRights27/06/23 02:24 PM
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Yes and no. HR is there to protect the company. Often that DOES mean protecting the employees. If you sue the company, and win, they inherently DID NOT protect the company. A better phrase is: "It's not that HR is against you as much as it is they are FOR the company". FUNNY STORY: A company I worked for almost 20 years ago went through 4 HR folks in under a year. Things were that bad. It also didn't help that the VP was also a former lawyer (if you're older than 40 odds are you've heard of this…
/r/MensRights26/06/23 12:30 AM
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Not only is this a huge violation of privacy In public you have no expectation of privacy in such a way. What might be able to happen is harassment. Now what's interesting here is when enough people report the group - Facebook will be made "aware" and since they've clearly decided to allow the group to exist even with the harassment this may allow you to name them in a lawsuit and they won't have the protections they'd normally have. It'll just take this happening to someone who can afford such …
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:37 PM
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So my question is, why do women ignore all these men? There's a few likely reasons. Men's issues may diminish women's privileges. Areas like family law or #BelieveHer (of which most of those people forgot the book To Kill a Mockingbird) and such. This is why some men call feminism a superiority movement. The 'problem' with equality is it means losing your privileges and people in a position of privilege view the result as oppression. You can look at many feminist subs and you'll see this clear a…
/r/MensRights24/06/23 04:44 PM
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The rest of the world is lagging behind in technological progression and is doing much more manufacturing due to lower wages. You.... can't be serious? and is doing much more manufacturing due to lower wages. Errr... what? At this point I don't think there's any way you're being honest in this conversation. Considering the US doesn't even have the best universities in the world. We may pay, get less, and are setting up the future collapse of the economy. Because... "muh freedums". I can't help b…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 04:26 PM
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What do you think the response is going to be? Spoiler: It's not going to be "everyone is now eligible for every job". They're just going to switch to a new metric and a new higher bar. It doesn't seem to be that way in the rest of the world. You'll spend trillions of dollars to accomplish nothing. If the cost is trillions then we need to intervene and entirely undo colleges in the US and rebuild the entire thing. That cost is absurd and not sustainable. Perhaps the US specifically is just the o…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 04:04 PM
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We don't regulate how people donate their money in other areas. We regulate who they can hire so why is giving money any different? If a white guy were to walk up to another white guy and say "because you're white, here's $100" they'd be called racist. Perhaps creating a society where people aren't so heavily reliant on donations would be better - similar to many countries in Europe.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 03:53 PM
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The scholarships are probably paid for by a donation/trust from an individual who specified they have to go towards certain recipients. You can't really force people to keep donating money if it's not the cause they wanted to support. Even if it's discriminatory. How about, and hear me out, we socialize the majority of colleges and/or strictly regulate how much they can cost? The fact people rely on scholarships on something that is overwhelmingly required for the work force is a HUGE problem. T…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 03:50 PM
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And you think THAT is aggressive? Saying people should be held accountable for their actions is... aggressive? Refusing to add to the conversation but instead call me a "male feminazi" and I say that says a lot about you and you think that is... aggressive? My dude... of the two of us... it appears you are the one going through something. You've consistently failed to add anything of substance to the conversation. You seem hyper-defensive. This smells an awful lot like projection on your part. b…
/r/MensRights19/06/23 04:39 AM
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Holding people accountable for their actions somehow bothers you. Suppose that tells me a lot about you.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 04:29 AM
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It seems likely they Googled and just gave links with titles that seemed to back their stance before actually reading what they pasted. And the last one was... a web based survey. More curious - they seem very invested in their opinion.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 04:09 AM
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my only word is don't attack someone for simply doing their job. So when Nazi's said they were just following orders? ook I'm not gonna get into a massive debate on this with everyone or play the semantics game, This isn't a semantics game. Learn to be specific and communicate properly or be called out. Simple as that. Majority of them don't care if it's being done or not it's just an option for the parents. Doctors have to follow ethics and such. They don't get to say they were "just following …
/r/MensRights19/06/23 04:03 AM
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Wait, are you saying doctors are REQUIRED to do the OP? In what jurisdiction is that? And what kinds of "trouble" are we talking about? Legal trouble? Or just getting in trouble with their boss? Seems to me that doctor could simply refuse to do any circumcisions but I'm not a doctor. Seems like they could argue it's unethical and whatnot or "against their religion" or wahtever.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 03:33 AM
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you'll find another "social experiment" video proving the opposite view if you need it, too. Oh? Show me.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 01:02 PM
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My sister has a trans man friend and their claim is, and I quote, "you should hear the things men say about women, it's fucking disgusting" and of course my sister took it as gospel and representative. When I said "y'all clearly hang around a different crowd than I do" she said "I doubt that, I hear this all the time". I pointed out that they've clearly haven't actually hung around men. Everything about it smells like shit she wants men to say as opposed to the reality. In this particular case o…
/r/MensRights12/06/23 02:00 AM
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1000 people surveyed I can't be the only person who thought of family feud here...
/r/MensRights12/06/23 01:23 AM
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In some areas women need a little extra support/charity, and other areas men do. Supporting one isn't anti anything in principle You'll find the majority of feminists out there seem to view it as anti. If you're an organization against domestic violence but only focus on violence against women - that, by definition, is not about equality. It's about women. Which is fine -- up until you talk about equality. I've yet to see any mainstream feminist that supports actual equality in regards to what y…
/r/MensRights12/06/23 01:22 AM
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woman Minorities and females are extremely hard to fire. The paperwork is often very thick because of the probability of a court case. I've seen people literally leave work and go home to nap and supervisors were forced to give them a written warning because if they had fired them on the spot they could have easily sued and gotten their job back. I've seen some terrible people keep their jobs because of the effort to takes to get rid of them is just too much and if you don't do the paperwork per…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 03:21 AM
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Funny how the "burden" of financial resources is much less spread evenly and you don't find practically any women pointing that out. Hmm.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 02:53 AM
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The people who say those types of things probably never read To Kill A Mockingbird.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 11:48 AM
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but to act like feminism hasn't hindered progress for men's rights is asinine. Feminists say they are for equality. Then when it comes to men's rights they say "then go do your own movement then" and then when you join a movement it's "LUL You're just an MRA!@M$#" - I mean.. at no point, ever in my life, has any feminist cared about men's rights. In fact the only people who have cared about men's rights are people who said they aren't a feminist. Even on Reddit the conversation gets shut down or…
/r/MensRights09/06/23 05:27 PM
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What's interesting here is some men will listen. In 10 years when this is practically all over they're going to learn that in their case it's not reversible and women won't want them because they can't have kids. Those men are going to become MRA's only after it's too late for them to realize their mistake because they're going to realize feminist won't care about them. They're going to be hurt. They're going to be angry. They're going to be confused. They're going to say "I did my part like I w…
/r/MensRights08/06/23 06:41 PM
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Let's talk about this because it's a similar reason why men went for Andrew Tate. Because he didn't hate men and about 1/3-1/2 of the things he said were good. This is how people get sucked into bad things. When a group (in this case American society) demonizes you - you tend to align with things that don't hate you. We've seen this in practically every group, every religion, everything. Predators in groups target vulnerable people. Feminist does the "the future is female" (which is an anti-equa…
/r/MensRights05/06/23 05:59 PM
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Feminists assume that all women secretly want to climb the corporate ladder. Anecdotally and from my perception -- women are WAY more harsh on women than men will ever be. She said women who cook and clean are slaves Depends on her intent of meaning. Slaves to... who, specifically? I suspect they left it open ended so some would infer men, like they might have intended, but left an open gap to say "no, I meant culture!" or some dumb shit. Because for all intents and purposes - we all have to do …
/r/MensRights04/06/23 01:58 PM
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How to get more women to understand the perspective of men and their issues As a general rule - do not expect people from another group to care about you or be willing to help you. Expect those to help to be the exception and not the rule. Especially when they have a privilege you're basically asking them to give up. Losing your privilege feels like oppression. You can see this with how white people respond to black people, how churches respond to atheists / non-religious folks, and more. A core…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 03:03 PM
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My sister is one of those. "Women fear getting killed and men fear getting humiliated, how is that fair?" - errr, fears are rarely justified. The real problem is she allows the bullshit she reads and feels to be representative of real life while downplaying the actual statistics.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 04:56 AM
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She goes to claim that the girl started having behavior issues when 'she was put back on a medication she was off for over a year,' adding that 'it wasn’t psych meds.' I don't think we should blame the media on this one. Look, I'm with you - the national hatred of men / misandry needs to be called out and shut down but this isn't it bud. This is, likely, medications screwing with a child's brain. I say this as someone who was given meds as a kid and went suicidal. I can -easily- see it making so…
/r/MensRights01/06/23 12:54 PM
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Paying a lawyer to write a letter to let them know you're prepared to lawyer up (even if it's a bluff) can be helpful. The school has to understand they just can't "pick a side" without evidence - or they're going to risk consequences (going to court) for choosing "wrong".
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:36 PM
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what the fuck did i do? Get a lawyer if you can afford one. Make sure your lawyer contacts them so they know you have gotten one. This let's them know they cannot, in any way, pick a side that's "wrong". Right now they can expel you and without a lawyer there's fuckall you can do about it. Worse if they don't expel you - the chick can potentially sue the school for failing to make the school a safe environment (in their eyes). You might be able to win a defamation case against her saying the sch…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:21 PM
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Let's take this one step further. Even if he's guilty of murder, which he might very well be, they ALSO should be charged. They don't get to be innocent either just because he took things too far.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:16 PM
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Let's call it.. malicious femininity. I refuse to call it toxic because it's worse than that. It's malicious and it's a conscious decision - they don't have the excuse of "I didn't know any better and was raised this way". This is them taking advantage of the current social climate.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:14 PM
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Couple things here. If you're a gun owner: Get the insurance for court. Really. Next, he's going to get off assuming all of this is true. It's weird they are even prosecuting though but perhaps because of his celebrity status they want it to go to completion. The name calling is not needed. Whether it's saying someone is "cucked" or "beta". It's not helpful. Be better. You're angry or scared. I get it. I've been there. But don't become one of them. Down that path is misery. While the female is v…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 03:20 AM
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I think it's their attempt to show "he can't even do $20 to show he wants to see his daughter" but in reality it's just insensitive and manipulative.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 11:55 PM
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Her logic likely is what "all" white men are buyers of the stuff from China and India and therefore are the "source" of why people do it. I've seen this kind of feminist logic before. "You're making me do this by making it very appealing so it's not my fault" which is funny because that's why Islam likes women covered head to toe.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 11:10 PM
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If you're attractive enough to play the numbers game, and it works for you, do it, I'm going to tell you right now - if the person that's attractive and is playing the numbers game is male then he's going to be shit on. The expectation to play the numbers game is one-way. If two chicks say they are talking to the same guy but haven't even gone on a date yet - want to take bets that one or both will ghost you? Do you want to speculate as to why?
/r/MensRights28/05/23 09:53 PM
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It's fucking wild. My sister used to do this. AND she used to cheat if he didn't do something she wanted. When she got caught she would blame him for her cheating - when she was younger. We're in our mid 40's now. She said her husband is the only male she wouldn't cheat on. She doesn't realize it says a little about him and a fuck ton about her. It's insane the shit she justifies but if the roles were flipped I have no doubt she'd lose her mind.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 01:27 PM
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This is an abuse of authority and the sanctity of teacher-student relationships. It's not even that. Plenty of kids in my high school fantasized about their teachers. I know two off the top of my head practically every boy jerked it to. They are amazingly hot. The problem is absolutely no teenager fully understands, and even has enough individual rights, to support a child on their own. Fantasizing about it is one thing - and perfectly acceptable. But that's where it ends. No student can support…
/r/MensRights27/05/23 09:36 PM
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Those subs are very high school like in mentality and I suspect they never emotionally matured beyond high school too. I don't know if you've heard of Farscape but they remind me of the Peacekeepers. "Oh no, you were around THOSE people? Yeah, sorry, you're not welcome here anymore - you've been tainted" - it's very much how they also respond to The Red Pill. The Reddit Admins are all 100% ok with this. Which is odd because occasionally I find out-right hate speech and the "I wish all men would …
/r/MensRights26/05/23 01:12 PM
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Child support is, as far as the law is concerned, alimony. There is zero accountability and none of it has to go towards the child. Because of this I think we should have a maximum amount of child support per state which calculates the bare minimum the child needs. The rest should be placed on a pre-paid card were all charges are open and regularly audited. Abuse of the card should be considered a felony of of stealing from a child. I was told that if I couldn't afford my medications and pay chi…
/r/MensRights26/05/23 12:08 AM
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If we could save/screenshot her comment as the perfect example of out-right misandry it'd be perfect.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:17 PM
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My wife works in family law and I've worked in other legal aspects. Between that and paternity stuff / child support - they all HATE men in my (anecdotal) experience. y only recourse to this is to go to the court and file a motion for contempt of court where they can give her a court order to obey the court order that she's already not obeying And if she hides in a women's shelter, and she can basically do that indefinitely, there's fuckall law enforcement will ever do. It's a HUGE pain and wome…
/r/MensRights19/05/23 09:46 PM
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Eh, it's not worth the effort. It happens so rarely and at this point the conversation turned more into political divides than what actual scientists seem to use. This thread feels like it went anti-left and abandoned actual sciences. Very much a "get off mah lawn" type feeling and I don't particularly care to offer up citations to people who will just go "nuh uh" anyways. There are others more worthy of my time. Seems like these types of people are starting to dominate this subreddit anyways an…
/r/MensRights16/05/23 07:47 PM
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I had a very thorough comment written up with links and citations and went to post it and Reedit took a shit. So I'm just going to bow out. I'm just too angry about the comment taking a shit when I hit "reply". Not even a chance to copy it to save it.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 06:49 PM
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Imagine if we were to swap "gay man" with "black man" and to make similar assumptions on language use. I imagine those women would be called racist as fuuuuuck instantly.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 06:12 PM
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I mean I'm totally ok with researching all forms of gender and sex. I would argue sex more belongs in biology whereas gender would more belong in the psychology realm since it can be both how you feel and how you present as well as physical characteristics. I once had to explain to an employer the difference between sex and gender and why we should put it in our database - mostly because of our size and probability of getting TG's and it might be really important to know that the very passable m…
/r/MensRights15/05/23 03:23 PM
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Gender and sexuality exists on a spectrum - and it's only recently society has become more open to that. We should be willing to research fields such as this, even of certain things appear obvious (because very often we find we're wrong in many ways). Women's studies is just a field that primarily revolves around male hatred and not female understanding. If there were a Men's studies field they would be expected to understand men and, basically, how to grow as a masculine figure and, practically…
/r/MensRights15/05/23 01:25 PM
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You won't get near as big as him even after 20 years of natural training, i promise And I'm going to tell you that you're just plain wrong. I suspect many here haven't even stepped foot in a gym and simply don't know enough to know better. It's ok. It's easy to think the only way to achieve that is through roids when you simply don't know any better.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 11:21 PM
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Err, you can it just requires work. If someone doesn't appear to be putting in a lot of work to get that look - then they are clearly using roids. To get the "ripped" appearance also requires you getting dehydrated. I wish I had known this in my 20's. I simply thought I wasn't trying hard enough. Nurses loved me because of my vascularity though. Nice thick popping veins. I was at the gym for maybe... 3 hours per day? 1.5 in the morning and 1.5 in the afternoon. Including steam/shower. As much as…
/r/MensRights12/05/23 08:33 PM
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However, the move to consider all rape accusations false is as absurd as the opposite. That's... literally the point. If it can't be absolutely proven then I won't believe it. I'm simply going to take the opposite stance because being reasonable has not helped in any of my discussions. but this is excessive childishness that does not benefit anything. Seems unfortunate but it's the reality. You can wish for a perfect world and you'll die holding your breathe for it. When they are willing to have…
/r/MensRights10/05/23 10:02 PM
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When the justice system changes, I will change. Until then… I want to “encourage” change by being extreme. Being reasonable has not gotten anywhere it seems
/r/MensRights10/05/23 09:00 PM
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Perhaps we need to expand revenge porn laws to cover things like this. As such hold Facebook and the individual accountable. Then prosecute them as criminals. I want both the individual and Facebook held criminally liable for anything that comes out of that that's negative.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 08:24 PM
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false accusations, made-up stories This is why I don't believe them when they make wild claims such as rape. "But I was too scared to go to the cops because I thought no one would care" - sucks to be you, I'm going to assume you're lying then.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 08:21 PM
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It's a pretty common tactic - ad hominum. It really is the very best they have. I was telling my sister that some people were simply anti-Clinton and Trump was, literally, the only alternative of the two. It doesn't make them pro Trump. Clinton was anti-male. If men's rights are your jam, then Trump was literally the only option. Everyone has their own set of priorities and those priorities are weighted differently. For some people that specifically meant voting against a political party instead…
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:01 PM
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Nah, she was just highly traumatized from young teenage years and never for therapy for it. She also worked as a bartender so she regularly sees pretty shitty humans. She has no real connection to reality but judges her experiences and anecdotes as representative of everyone.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:22 PM
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I learned this a long time ago. I had a Reddit and Twitter account that would swap race/gender/sexuality/etc and basically say "does this sound x-ist?" And both got banned from practically everywhere on Reddit and Twitter very quickly kicked me off. Basically if you are white, male, heterosexual, live in the US, etc - the world can shit on you and they don't care. Reddit being the absolute worst with r/news being the singular most toxic place
/r/MensRights09/05/23 04:04 PM
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My sister views anyone in their mid 20's or older as basically pedo's if they have sex with a 18/19 year old because "that's just too close". If someone looks underage but actually is of legal age - she classifies that as a pedo because "it's basically no different". She doesn't agree with the age of consent, and being an adult, and thinks it should be all raised to 25. She was born in the US but chose to live in a country where the age of consent is 16 but seemingly only cares about the America…
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:12 PM
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It's the modern day Witch Trials
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:58 PM
2

That's an OK Cupid study. It's not a formal research study. Be wary of such things. They are fun and neat - and often can shine a spotlight on things we should formally research - but you should not count it as anything more than "neat". OK Cupid is online dating. It is not representative of the majority of dates in the real world. This is where people who can't meet people in the real world, for whatever reason, try. It's like a plan B. Most women I know don't find old men attractive they won't…
/r/MensRights05/05/23 03:03 PM
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"If you want a movement for men so bad, just start one yourself. There's nothing stopping you." Except you can look at Reddit (overall) and find it's quite hostile to the idea. In fact simply posting in these subreddits has a tendency to get you banned for simply existing here. So clearly they feel threatened. I'll get a response from some exasperated feminist saying that they aren't obligated to help (true) and that if I want to do something for men, I should just do it myself because women did…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 05:19 PM
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This is why I disagree with Jordan Peterson. He thinks anonymous posters are trolls and demons (his words). He doesn't see that being named comes with risks. Real tangible risks. Imagine being in the civil rights movement way back when and your name being in the list of supporting black people getting rights. It would not have ended well for you in large chunks of the country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 05:19 PM
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It's a good way to learn about Salem Witch Trials. A group in I'm had an accusation towards someone. When I said I need evidence to have an opinion another responded with "it sounds like we don't believe them :/" and I was like "I don't. I'm not picking -any- side while you've decided to go after the Salem witches because of a claim, I need proof or for them to demonstrate a history - give me something to work with here". It really bothered them because I was the one that convinced others to jus…
/r/MensRights27/04/23 12:30 PM
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It is essential to strike a balance between addressing more significant issues and considering the potential impact of subtler representations. This is not how you make change with large movements. This is how you destroy chances of change. It is the opposite of essential. Your goal posts seem to keep moving. I believe we are done here.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 10:35 PM
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it is essential to recognize that even seemingly small instances can contribute to the larger societal narrative around gender and representation. Nah. This, at this point in time, isn't even worth our time. Perhaps in second wave men's rights - maybe, but right now? It's wasting time and energy on something that isn't having a substantial impact, in my opinion. These micro-level issues, when combined, can have a more significant impact on people's experiences and perceptions. You're going to ne…
/r/MensRights25/04/23 09:46 PM
1

I might catch some flack here - but this isn't misandry. If it is, somehow, then it's on a level I honestly do not care about and on a level I don't think is impactful enough to care to address - life is never going to be 100% equal and as such we have to offer a bit of grace to account for such things. For example there was a post the other day where people claimed "what about men?" when 55% of a place were women - making it not perfectly equal. This is well within reasonable, in my opinion. So…
/r/MensRights25/04/23 09:00 PM
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which makes you wonder what the feminist movement is trying to achieve? In my opinion feminism has out-lived itself. This happens in many movements when they've achieved their primary and secondary goals but fail to dissolve. Usually this is because people's trauma and identity of the movement are too ingrained in them. This is why they've turned into bigots that just hate men. It's their trauma and being in an echo chamber. It's become their identity. Losing your identity alone is already painf…
/r/MensRights25/04/23 03:39 PM
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r/news is the FOX News version of the left-wing. It's incredibly dishonest and pushes certain agenda's VERY hard to the point of denying reality and getting people hurt. Personally I'm waiting for something really bad to happen such as someone off'ing themselves after some serious abuse issues and a specific comment being pointed at and the moderators called out on it. Here's what I think will happen: Reddit Admins will claim they weren't aware of such problems and will work to address it. In re…
/r/MensRights25/04/23 12:03 PM
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They are a new account made literally today. They are just trolling.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 11:47 AM
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I mean.. "skyrockets" to still insanely low numbers - let's not be dishonest or misleading heere. Considering suicide out paces homicide by almost 3x the amount.. and the lack of healthcare and MH access... At which point one could infer banning guns is practically demanding people live in mental torture with zero (useful) access to help. But this wouldn't actually align with our identity politics. That being said, there aren't many places in the world that offers great mental health answers whi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 03:40 PM
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The core problem of many discussions is that humans, as a whole, are terrible at statistics. The fact so many gamble is proof of this. For example gun rights people and gun control people. The problem is the probability of being killed by a gun is lower than that of dying from heart disease. This is both a pro and anti gun statistics lol. If you own a gun because you want to protect your family but don't own a fire extinguisher - then you do not understand the inherent risks your family has. We …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 02:59 PM
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So they are the Andrew Tate of the feminist movement? Interesting.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 05:35 PM
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Because the majority of people do want kids. People tend to assume that is the majority. It's only very recently that people have wanted people to not assume anything at all (which isn't realistic and goes against lots of biological programming and survival mechanism).
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:31 AM
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It's B55/45 and being that "perfectly equal" in terms of employment balance in every way is impossible - I would absolutely say there's nothing to complain about here. 55/45 is close enough to equal in practice. Of all the issues I'm concerned about - this isn't even in the top 1000. In fact even if 100% of my issues were resolved this wouldn't even be on my radar to care about. I'd write this off as "random is random". This is as close to "fair" as I think we could reasonably hope to get. Now i…
/r/MensRights14/04/23 03:45 PM
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Like where?
/r/MensRights10/04/23 06:42 PM
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Political correctness went from wanting to be inclusive and thoughtful to being hostile and weaponized. That seems to be the common theme going around with these movements lately. A lot of the LGBT was more about being inclusive a decade ago and now it's about being exclusive. In fact there's been discussion about removing bisexuals. I wish I were joking. It went from "let's say Happy Holidays so others feel included" to "YOU CAN'T SAY MERRY CHRISTMAS OR YOU'RE A TERRIBLE PERSON" (I literally he…
/r/MensRights08/04/23 03:50 PM
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I once tested out a Twitter and Reddit account for swapping races, genders, and sexuality statements. They both didn't last a week. "It's just different" - "You wouldn't understand" were the responses. What's funny is I literally just swapped their words and nothing else. So it's not like I even added an opinion or anything.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 01:32 PM
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Society enabled a lot of bad behavior it complains about. A co-workers daughter got married, and subsequently divorced in under a year, to a dude that was extremely persistent. She's not one of the "men need to stop harassing women" people. She's literally the reason it worked. Because women are so picky - men have learned to play the numbers game. Women hate the fact it's a numbers game but because of their failure to be assertive themselves - they create the environment that got my co-workers …
/r/MensRights08/04/23 03:40 AM
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What if the male identities as female? Does this mean that since they are trans that they are required to hire them because they are underrepresented? Even if they are otherwise 100% male in appearance and dress and just ticked the (F) checkbox? This puts a very difficult conversation front and center.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 03:31 AM
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Both your response and question are odd. You could have added more context and chose to communicate better. Omg then men wonder why men don’t want to be in relationships or deal with men. SMH 🤦🏼‍♀️ Or more likely men avoid you because of your attitude. You seem to be baiting on purpose. Your attitude is exactly what I've come to expect. "I'm just asking questions" - you're not only asking questions poorly but this is also trivially searchable information. I’m a woman and asking a question!!!! Uh…
/r/MensRights07/04/23 01:59 AM
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I'd say both people who are personally invested in an argument (e.g. when a feminist is a woman) as well as people overly passionate about their ideology - usually go out of their way to misunderstand analogies or attack the person using that analogy because they know, good and well, that their ideology isn't perfect but allowing those imperfections to be seen is something they refuse to allow.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 05:45 PM
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I watched r/news practically get an uncontrollable erection when he was accused believing Amber 100% because "women never lie about that" and forcing people to pick her side or, quite literally, earn a ban for wanting more details. As more evidence emerged it went to "well it's probably both of them causing problems" - r/news really could not believe women can be just as bad as men. They out-right refused to believe it. r/news is practically the left-wing equivalent of FOX News. Full of hatred a…
/r/MensRights05/04/23 03:27 PM
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One of my favorites was: "One in five people who are homeless are women, we need to help these women!" - so 80% are men but fuck them, right?
/r/MensRights05/04/23 01:24 PM
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Less than 10% of his accusations were correct. It's not near the majority of his accusations. This is because of just how many people he accused. Jim Bob just down the street was innocent and was accused because he refused to cooperate. Look at the numbers.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 08:04 PM
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You're referencing opinion articles that are making opinions as facts. I think we're done here.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 05:14 PM
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Oh boy. who's findings were proven correct They were proven PARTIALLY correct, but fuck the innocent lives he ruined, right? Less than 10% of his accusations were correct and even those were still only "in the ball park" and not exactly accurate. He was just throwing stones and got lucky, statistically. I have no doubt you have a plethora of conspiracy theories you're very sure are correct, the vast majority came from watching YouTube videos probably. You are literally the kind of person the Jus…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 02:52 PM
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I'm going to assume you aren't very familiar with McCarthyism and such.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 11:16 AM
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Therefore has she reported me to a student counselor because she thinks Im a threat and showed worrying behaviour before and have worrying views. This is the Red Scare all over again. "Are YOU a communist?!" is all they are doing. These types of people live to ruin others and, usually, have no real repercussions for the terrible things they do. but it just makes me realise that campus is not always a safe ground to tell your points. Many well named people have pointed this out in a variety of wa…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 02:42 AM
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It's funny. That's part of the reason I couldn't bring myself to vote for Biden or Clinton. None of their policies really benefited me. I was told I was racist/sexist/selfish for not voting for them. But when others vote for the party that directly benefits them... it's somehow not all of that? uh huh.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 10:15 PM
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Here's the deal: I will generalize groups. I tend to hyper-generalize local groups. But what I do is allow these generalizations to be broken on a per person basis. I don't like Christians but if I see a half decent one, I'll so that one is good. This is up until I have reason to believe the group has changed. In movement type groups - my judgements of them change as that group evolves. Many groups start out being genuinely well intentioned and do thoughtful actions. Often enough they are hijack…
/r/MensRights01/04/23 04:19 PM
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“I guess he thought he was a man then. Now, he prefers to be considered a child.” This is a problem I have with the legal system in general. They are willing to punish children as adults but practically never give them the benefits of being an adult. Ok, so if he's a "man" now then he should legally be given the same rights as an adult. Voting, etc. The fact that our society is willing to only weaponize this when they are upset bothers me.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 11:45 AM
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"Men do not..." - wait, wasn't it them who said men can't know what it's like to be a woman? Are they implying they know what it's like to be a man? Funny how that works, huh? This is the kind of attitude and lack of intelligence I've come to expect from people like this. Honestly, I'm loving the perma-bans that subreddits are giving when reality doesn't align with their narrative. It makes them look more and more unhinged by the day. Instead of it being subtle it's becoming extremely overt. We'…
/r/MensRights30/03/23 11:01 AM
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When anyone says there is no systemic discrimination against men - this quote will do.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:41 PM
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Discrimination against men isn’t stereotyping the actions of a small minority to a whole population. This doesn't seem to be starting off well. No one is saying men are likely to do this. They are saying the majority of this is men. Are you claiming that most mass shooters aren't men? Men have to be register for selective service, women don’t. Why do you feel this is relevant to the conversation? In what way does associating registering for selective service have to do with... mass shootings? Th…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:10 PM
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Here's the deal and I expect flack for this. They are not acting on behalf of their sex it their race or their religion or any other demographic they belong to. Sure but we can look at averages as they are and infer from there. We should also do the same everywhere. You can talk about the majority of violent crime and the race that's attributed to. You can talk about the majority of violent crime and look at those people's income levels. If we found out that more than 80% of all violent crime - …
/r/MensRights28/03/23 01:28 PM
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Yup. I saw it with my far right-wing in-laws. They went from "COVID is a hoax" to "I need to get vaccinated" once the people in their church started dropping like leaves in the fall (they were all older and more at risk). Then once they got the vaccine my father-in-law was lethargic for a full 24 hours (for a guy who otherwise is extremely fit and walks miles every day). His eyes were wide open with understanding then. Funny how when it impacts you it's all of a sudden "I never knew" - no, you c…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 07:01 PM
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Honestly it's usually people who just haven't seen the other side of society yet. They've been in privilege so long. This is why when reality comes crashing down - they usually flip sides nearly instantly with "I never knew!" type of responses.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 05:11 PM
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In regards to number three - what isn't called out is women lacking the capability to ask the men out if she's interested. No, they both want to run and complain about being chased. Again, they want men to take all the risks. They magically want a man to know if a woman wants to be chased or if "no means no" without offering an honest clue. Honesty, from women in these situation, is simply not what they are capable of. I say "they" - what I mean is women who act like this specifically. Take noti…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 04:55 PM
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Many "micro-aggressions" are really just "things I don't want to hear". For example: “I’m not being homophobic; you're being too sensitive.” This can, potentially, be true. Someone may not be being homophobic and the other person may be being too sensitive. “So, who's the man in the relationship?” This is purely a misunderstanding. Imagine growing up in the south and never hearing of chess, ever. Now imagine someone watching someone else play chess and the new person saying "but... where's the b…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 12:58 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-7o9xYp7eE Watch this. Really. I don't care who you are. Watch this.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 12:38 AM
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Remember: This includes things in college to where law enforcement aren't even there. You want a representative with you - preferably a lawyer but even just a family member. Someone that is willing to say "Nope, we're done - I'm requesting every bit of documentation you have so I can provide it to the appropriate people I need to talk to". A large portion of the time if they can't railroad you, they'll just let it all go
/r/MensRights27/03/23 12:36 AM
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What's more curious about this is the people who are incel's (by definition) can't get help to better themselves. They are left with people like Andrew Tate who's arguments are about half right. Just enough right to fall for it but just enough wrong to make things worse. People like Tate are really good at sucking in people like this because society abandoned those people. Now those people are butt hurt that Tate had (has?) a following. This is exactly how people get sucked into movements from g…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 12:13 AM
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My sister STILL thinks many, if not most, men are simply for Johnny Depp because they hate women and want to hate on Amber Herd. She still thinks he's not entirely innocent. I can absolutely see this happening to this man.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 01:58 PM
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As far as Clinton is concerned everything affects women more then men. My sister and I were just talking about this. I said the problem with the left is that as a white-male - I'm enemy number one. Why would I vote for any Democrat? Practically 100% of their policies view me as the enemy. I'm a left-leaning person who will never vote Republican or right-wing but the left abandoned me. So when it came to Clinton versus Trump - I lost regardless, so I had no reason to vote for either of them. When…
/r/MensRights26/03/23 01:57 PM
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Tolerance is important - but tolerance of groups that aren't inherently tolerant is silly. Christians and Muslims have a pattern and a history. They are welcome to put forth effort to change that but until they do - no, just... no. Nobody is a saint but generalizing people because of their religion, When 99% of that religions history is violence, slavery, rape, etc.... it's not unfounded to generalize. You'll do well to remember how horrible "Good Christians" treated people in the 80's with AIDS…
/r/MensRights26/03/23 01:00 AM
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the fact that he mocks and belittles that's where I draw the line. To be honest, the majority of his mockery is pointing at the hypocritical nature of those religions and their fallacious reasoning. It's not like religion, any of them, has a respectable reputation or history in the last 20,000 years. Considering the terrible things it's done - religion has a long way to go before it is respectable. I don't mind people being atheists or agnostic The majority of atheists don't mind Christians - as…
/r/MensRights25/03/23 11:45 PM
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Then they will complain that men refuse to work with women and won't hire them due to the liability that is being a woman who can make a claim and be 100% believed.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 05:14 PM
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The amount of people I've pissed off when "well now that abortion is illegal, now we have equality. Since you didn't want to play ball nicely, now it's time for you to experience playing ball the other way" and oof. It's funny how literally every response to "men don't get a choice" is met with pro-life responses. "He could have wore a condom!" - she could have insisted too, now that she doesn't have a choice. Oh wait.. she also had a choice before abortion was illegal. The thing is, anecdotally…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 11:13 AM
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Oh, I've never hired a prostitute. I've had friends with benefits though.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 04:29 PM
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Like WTF they writers on this show seem to think MRAs are complaining about female astronauts and is wiping your ass gay? Are there even any rich MRAs? That's how these types of people work. You'll find it's extremely similar in other political arena's. Democrats view Republicans as women hating, racist pieces of shit who carry guns and are looking to shoot without warning. That description fits such a small amount of people as to be laughable to assume it's real. In the same way that Republican…
/r/MensRights22/03/23 02:26 AM
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Wait, what's illegal? Working out? For the most part you could do calisthenics and get pretty fit - but that does require protein which may be difficult. Cheapest way for (easy) protein is eggs.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 05:27 PM
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It's predicated on the idea that corporations behave fully rationally, which is just false on its face. Companies make HUGE changes just to save a whopping 3% because 3% is fucking huge at the top end. If women were even double that in saves, 6%, they would be jumping hand over fist to do it. To save almost 1/4 in costs on purpose? C-levels would be let go by the board because investors would be breathing down their necks. If a company were to use, say, super expensive toner and could save the c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 02:36 PM
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It's legal definitions like this that skew statistics in a particular direction and makes conversations difficult.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 03:56 AM
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The idea of "You have a penis, therefore you have to do X, Y, Z otherwise i'm going to mock and socially ostracize you" was always enforced by women. It's a particularly curious thing because this is the very thing they claim to hate about men doing to women. Even more odd is that when women like very masculine men - this attitude basically says they shouldn't like that. So... telling a woman what she should or shouldn't want is ok as long as its by another woman? Seems odd to me.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 03:38 AM
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Correct. Thank you - I have fixed it. :-)
/r/MensRights21/03/23 03:34 AM
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My sister made a remark next to Victoria Secrets about women and objectification. I said men have the same issue except it's much less 'exotic' compared to women. I pointed to behind us where Dillard's was showing Calvin Klein underwear on muscular men. Some people have a narrative in their mind and nothing can conflict with it. and that I should not play games with attractive women because I might view them as objects and clearly I will then view real women as objects. Are you fucking kidding m…
/r/MensRights21/03/23 02:34 AM
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If you're in a two-party recording consent state, record anyways and tell them you're recording. Specifically if they do not and will not consent to you recording then you need a lawyer present. Your next words should be "I'll have my lawyer contact you" if they give you flack. Because they will fuck you over if they refuse to allow you to document what's going on. You are NOT legally required to tell them a god damn thing. At most they can ban you from the school. At which point get a lawyer or…
/r/MensRights21/03/23 01:37 AM
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If that's what you took from it I pity anyone you're around.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 01:26 AM
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Thinking your partner is wrong is a normal element in relationships. To give context in one recent example I said I didn't want to take a vacation to X or Y - and also said it's nice she has a friend she can take to those places since I don't particularly care to go. She thought she'd "surprise" me on my birthday by.. getting us a vacation to X or Y of my choice! Literally no other options that I said I would be interested in were on her mind because "those are boring". She made it about her and…
/r/MensRights20/03/23 08:38 PM
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I can't stand how he interrupts people and seemingly can't let them finish one sentence.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:50 PM
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I used to be VERY fit. Worked out 3 hours per day. Sex was fun and also a workout. Certainly I would nut but unlike many others I could go again, and again, and again. I have medical issues that inhibit that now but that's a story for another day. That's not to say I can't get it up anymore - it's just a bit more difficult and a TON more difficult when she's not giving me something to work with like she is now. Every now and then I get the urge to get fit again but I regularly fall back to the "…
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:48 PM
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I can tell her response was very trauma oriented because of her ex husband. I could see her almost admit it and then the defensive barrier happened. We're in couples counseling now and I'm working on her actually thinking about her choices. I'm still trying to sort out what changed in her attitude though. Because she wasn't always like this. Thing is I can see when she's in her right mind and we can have sane but tough conversations and I can see when she's not and very defensive. Physically she…
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:46 PM
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A couple things here. If you walk down an alley named "Crime Alley" in the dark, alone, and see people playing with guns and knives... you may not be "asking for it" but it's right to call you a moron who clearly should have known better. It's like putting your finger in running machinery and being upset there isn't a barrier to protect you from your own stupidity. Accept responsibility for your decisions. If you go back to an abuser regularly then you're being a moron. Don't be mad at people ca…
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:37 PM
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I remember a test that someone did many years back where they had a story about a relationship and posted it. Then a year or two later posted the same story but only flipped the genders. It went about how you think it might and highlighted the misandry and biases in there. "Leave him, he's abusive" versus "You just need to listen to her and understand her better" and things of the like. I want to say this was just after 2X was made a primary suggested Reddit? I can't remember anymore.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 05:53 PM
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My wife claims she's too shy to initiate. I'm like "literally all you have to do, at any point in time in the day, is grab my dick in any way". If I want to initiate - it's like playing some long complex chess match to see if she's actually interested. The amount of effort I have to put forth is monumental. Hers is trivial. And still - it's too much to ask her to do the tiniest of effort. Anecdotally, for me, I have to put in a fuck ton of work in every aspect of sex. She barely has to put in an…
/r/MensRights20/03/23 12:36 AM
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The interesting thing about this is if Facebook is made aware and chooses to ignore it - now that might change many things in their responsibility in it and could be viewed as complicit (I don't know the exact legal word for this, I don't think 'complicit' is it) or something. That's the thing about things like this. If they are made aware and you can prove they are made aware - it expands many things. so if, for example, someone commits suicide because of Facebook knowing the situation and fail…
/r/MensRights19/03/23 10:52 PM
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she said she couldn't remember what i actually said but was adamant that i was in the wrong. A thing to remember: People won't remember what you said but they won't forget how you made them feel. Remember this. You'll experience it too one day when you won't like someone from an argument from a long enough time ago you won't remember what happened but you'll know you don't trust them (or something). Then she starts saying things like "Because your a white male you just wouldn't understand" The o…
/r/MensRights19/03/23 09:45 PM
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It's very weird the things Reddit is willing to mock and things they are offended by. One of them is autism. They love to defend it.. up until someone upsets their opinion and, in my case when I respond very thoroughly such that they have no points they can rebuke, they mock me as though I have autism (I actually do but that's not the point). They mock incel's and "nice guys" but you're not allowed to make any form of females. They mock one movement but are hyperdefensive about their particular …
/r/MensRights19/03/23 09:00 PM
1

So are you saying that STEM, overall, is not dominated by men?
/r/MensRights18/03/23 01:42 AM
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Gender pay gap they are referring to: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2023/03/01/gender-pay-gap-facts/ This appears to be a "this age range there is a gap" and not a "given similar conditions women make less". There could be plenty of reasons for women "making less". While there are higher-paying jobs in the energy sector, construction, and agriculture that do not require a college credential, they also do not employ many women. Those women should tough it out and get in fields that pay we…
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:38 PM
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she tried to make it seem like she was a victim as well when she said "it was okay back in the day to say that sort of stuff, I didn't know any better, the awareness is a lot bigger now" More like a.) she's trying to avoid being pointed out as a wrong-doer and b.) riding on the "what's hip to say" train. In my purely anecdotal experiences: The problem with their idea of men crying is they want men to be soft except never about them. When a man points out she hurt him - that's not the kind of sof…
/r/MensRights17/03/23 03:51 AM
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The "never hit a girl" thing is so toxic. My sister is one of those kinds of girls who thinks she's big and tough and can act like an ass. Right up until a man treats her the same way then she's a defenseless little girl. She'll punch a man in the nose and then act confused when she's hit back and then say how men shouldn't hit girls. One of my cousins would abuse her brother and when he put his hands out to hold her back she'd start crying and her dad (uncle) would think he hit her. He flipped …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/23 04:09 PM
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Yeah a.) no lawyer can openly suggest it without risking being disbarred and b.) you'll end up paying extra fees because those lawyers will be salivating at it and c.) it will show a deliberate action. There is no reasonable way it won't end well for you. I don't remember specifics, I've just heard the stories too many times. And I've seen other people prove it to me, so I believe it. I've yet to see a case where this doesn't ultimately end up fucking the person over who pulled this stunt in one…
/r/MensRights16/03/23 03:58 PM
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Please read that. All of it. I'll help you with the important part: You will likely incur additional costs due to the required travel, but your savvy attorney may be able to ask that your spouse pay those costs since they created the situation. Conflicting out is an unscrupulous tactic that ethical attorneys do not recommend or suggest. You will be best served in your divorce by finding a highly skilled attorney who has the experience, knowledge, and confidence to represent your case on its meri…
/r/MensRights16/03/23 03:51 PM
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There are bullshit advocacy groups that advise women to do this. I'm curious - which ones? There are lawyers that advise their clients to do this. Which ones? Women lie to get restraining orders every single day. Why don't they get punished? One of these is not like the other. It should go without saying that anyone should consult with an attorney before using advice from reddit. I agree entirely.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 01:25 PM
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DO NOT DO THIS This can get you absolutely fucked legally as I understand it. It's also malicious and easy to show intent. The only exception is if you're in a two with basically two lawyers. Otherwise, if there are more than a handful of lawyers - this can get you royally fucked.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 04:27 AM
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I know you're likely emotional and filled with adrenaline right now but: Don't talk to anyone on any platform about what's going on. If you have to - say the bare minimum. "But I'll look guilty" - doesn't matter. Unless they are the jury or Judge their opinion doesn't matter. I'm not exaggerating when I say this: Deactivate your Facebook. Delete your Reddit account. Digitally disappear in every way you reasonable can. If your account is important - back it up / export the links you have saved an…
/r/MensRights16/03/23 04:21 AM
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I've said it before on other subreddits and I'll say it here: Reddit is the FOX News of the left-wing. There's a lot of misinformation, disinformation, and people who out-right don't care about facts. I've had a thing happen at my town and Reddit was painfully, embarrassingly, wrong about what really went down but since it fit into their narrative, they fell for it. So you can't take anything here very serious. A very large chunk of users in r/news are anti-white and anti-male. It's usually the …
/r/MensRights15/03/23 11:43 PM
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I bear a responsibility to govern the actions of all men and that failure to do so amounts to complicity in the crimes committed against women by men. This logic breaks down pretty quickly. You could expand that to global warming, not caring about over fishing, the whales, bees, pollution, sweat shops, and more. No one can care about everything and no one, alone, can make a large enough impact to make an outstanding difference without significant effort or money. If she wants you to give up eith…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 11:30 PM
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No well qualified man will risk his career in her claws. A LOT of men aren't willing to work with 'certain' types of women because of this. It's not worth your career on an accusation. Ultimately this is going to hurt women but they aren't prepared to see that yet.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 07:15 PM
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Nah, it's just some. My kid went off to college she and her friends aren't like this. They are tired of that particular feminist angle.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 07:12 PM
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Anyone who thinks this is inequality is a moron. I often order "girly" drinks (usually with an unusually large amount of alcohol in them). My wife likes beer. 99% of the time they give it to the wrong person. I get the beer, she gets my drink. It's funny watching men giggle while they make my drink up until they see them pour vodka and don't stop. When I get it I usually say "want a taste?" and they usually say no and look down. Good times. I like my Appletini's even if my indigestion butt fucks…
/r/MensRights11/03/23 07:10 PM
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You may laugh but I've literally met people who have said in the US racism has never been worse and women have never had it worse. "They were using hyperbole" - no, no they were not. These are the kinds of people who have it so nice they look for things to be upset about. "Look, the fact that I could commit a huge felony and go to jail is no different than being owned as a slave!" words from my sisters mouth. Some people are so disconnected from reality it's appalling.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 03:40 AM
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One of the places I worked had it perfectly. Everything was Just plain simple "Leave". There was no sick leave, there was no vacation, there were no holidays. It was all merged into one singular thing. This allowed non-Christians to have their holidays, atheists to choose when they want off, in this case women with serious periods to take time off, etc. It was literally a "no questions asked, first come, first serve" situation. You want Christmas off? Better get it now. Doesn't matter if you're …
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:05 PM
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If you look back at the Civil Rights era - similar tactics were used to shut down conversations that conflicted with the comfortable narrative. I'm very curious in a few decades how places, like Reddit, will be viewed. If those same people will be viewed similarly as "sexist/racist" as we view those against the CRM.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 02:08 AM
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It's interesting. Letterkenny is a show I used to watch. When Rosey changed her hair - various people had opinions. Apparently you're not even allowed to have a preference on her hair style. I can't help but wonder how they feel about Coach losing the weight...
/r/MensRights08/03/23 05:37 PM
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In the US almost no one uses photo's in their resume. Reddit is predominantly US folks.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 12:39 AM
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I think part of the problem here is women escaped the "stereotype" of what women should do. Men did not. This created an off-balaced environment. For example - you'll find some women who are for equality but want men to pay on the first date without giving up something in exchange. They want men to take all the risk and the woman to take all the benefit. What's particularly curious about this is young bi women who recently are getting more vocal about some aspects - like the who pays for dinner.…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 03:53 PM
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This isn't a race about who is "more" or less toxic. You don't get to downplay a thing because someone else is "worse". You also might want to consider being more specific about which types of women are manipulative and such. If you don't want them generalizing you then you also shouldn't generalize them.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 03:26 PM
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I have a friend who served 2 years in prison for this very thing. Her family was all pissed at him but at the end of those 2 years her crazy shined through and no one, not even her own family, wanted anything to do with her. She later lost custody if her kid entirely. She tried to friend me but I noped out of that so hard. He still has a record and a felony. Society doesn't give two shits. The term I've learned is "pussy pass". He's just fucked for the rest of his live because she chose to use h…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 05:50 AM
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In the past 8 years people have misused many words. Rape, racism, sexism, misogyny, incel, consent, you name it. Many years ago even the word "literally" now means something else. It's just hyperbole. The problem I foresee here is it becomes extremely difficult to communicate accurately. It seems to just be a tactic to make things feel more extreme to push for a specific response. As a general rule, for me, those words mean very little without actual evidence to support them. When used to attack…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 03:19 AM
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It's extremely difficult to find a therapist that matches up to you.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 03:26 AM
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Let's assume, for the sake of argument they are. Why do you find that funny? Does that not infer that you, too, are damaged?
/r/MensRights28/02/23 04:09 AM
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Center-left here who left the Democrat party because I don't like the post-Obama direction it's gone. It's not the party for the intellectual anymore.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 10:16 PM
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Ehhh, certain conditions express themselves differently in genders. Think of it like heart attacks - men and women can have dramatically different symptoms. So I can certainly believe the initial intent was this and it likely derailed / got hijacked at some point. And then there's me who has fucking WEIRD symptoms as though I'm a god damn alien.
/r/MensRights25/02/23 03:01 PM
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There's a reason they aren't required to sign up for the draft.
/r/MensRights25/02/23 01:37 PM
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We really need a false accusers registry. Imagine someone magically becoming unemployable because of such actions. Why would any business want to hire someone that could accuse honest employees of shit. You gained a toxic person and lost a valuable employee only to later learn it was over a lie. I'm surprised businesses aren't jumping all over that.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 09:18 PM
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to break up over sex implies the entire relationship is based on sex...and that is a horrific view of relationships. If your partner refused to feed you in a marriage - would you leave that marriage? Would you imply that it's "based on food"? Sex, food, sleep, water, etc are all critically important in a relationship. Deny any one of those mostly or entirely and you risk losing it all. Don't be ridiculous and think relationships are all about one singular thing. 1) discussing this seems to be th…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 05:51 PM
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I've tried really hard to get the suffering male perspective across in a particular dating-related sub, and it's really hard to make anybody admit that there might be some kind of problem. The best way I've learned is to say women are drowning while men are dying of thirst. So when a woman offers a drop of affection or water, simply being polite, men often misunderstand that because they've been without for so long that they can only presume it's because the women is interested - because statist…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 12:45 AM
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but you seem to be having some underlying issues that you need to address with instead of blaming women for everything. Perhaps you missed the part where they said they had autism? Having a mental breakdown after using Instagram isn’t normal, and maybe take time off the internet. This is about as ridiculous as telling a depressed person to "just" go for a walk. Not every woman is a radical feminist, there are plenty of women you can talk to and certainly not enough radicals to the point of being…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 12:35 AM
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The math on extrapolating polled people and how that relates to the majority of society is quite fascinating and I don't think enough people truly understand it. I don't remember the exact numbers, it's been decades, but I remember something like all you need is 1,100 to get a (relatively) solid (which is to say reliable) view of the US's opinions. Of course there are complexities there - which is why they document how, where, and *who they polled. In this case here is the real stuff: https://ww…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 07:02 PM
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These sorts of feminists HAVE to believe that their opposition is exclusively made of misogynists, that their opposition hates women JUST as much as these feminists hate men. You'll find this a lot in politics and all kinds of areas. When you ask a group a question on how they think the other group would respond and then ask the other group how they respond -- then flip it. You'll find the narrative people feed themselves is out-right bullshit. The more intense someone's opinion is - the more ex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 03:04 PM
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Equal outcome would require editing entropy itself - which would make it for a very fascinating wish.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 01:22 AM
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Sorry, had to monkey’s paw that one, I'm genuinely curious how things like bathrooms and such would go. Imagine reproduction didn't need male and female. Anyone could reproduce together. Imagine women bulking up on average to have similar muscle strengths or, more curiously, men cutting strength.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 01:21 AM
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I'm not so sure. It sounds like a "you can play backup player if things go south here". Especially if they kissed you on the cheek. That's not a "polite let down". That's a backup plan. If your mate is making backup plans then there's an issue in your relationship.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 06:13 PM
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We can stop voting for the major parties, though. (Very) small steps. The math indicates this is not possible with FPTP style voting (which is what the US uses). There will never be a heavily viable third party. The Third parties only take away from the most popular party causing the secondary party to win. The system has to change.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 05:21 PM
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The post also clarified that the business closed not because men refused to pay the tax (“Most of our male customers have happily paid above and beyond,” she said) but rather that the “social experiment” that was the restaurant had simply run its course. Yeahhh, I can't think of any social experiments that were cancelled after they ran their course but were still profitable. “We remain ever yours,” Handsome Her’s Facebook post signed off, “the leftist, extremist, man-hating, vegan d—- of your wo…
/r/MensRights19/02/23 03:24 AM
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I actually support women-only parking spaces I'm curious. The implication being here that they are either incapable of using standard spaces or hugely benefit from having special parking spaces. In what ways do you think women-only spaces are needed or they need help in ways men specifically do not? I think women need more help and protection and that's fine. That's odd. So a small male doesn't need help or protection is the implication here? What isn't fine is them pretending they never needed …
/r/MensRights19/02/23 03:09 AM
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Meh, I'm going to be me. I won't let them compromise how I agrue. I'll give them the benefit of the doubt until I feel they are simply trolling and I'll just disable replies and move on. _^
/r/MensRights17/02/23 04:57 PM
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Do you need to get the government to recognize it if you go blind? There actually is a formal card to prove you are blind, as indicated in his video. I have a defibrillator. I also have a formal card saying I can't do certain things. Maaaan does TSA freak out when you walk through those magnetometers and you say you have a pace maker / defib though. You're not required to have it - but it shortcuts some conversations.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 01:10 PM
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The problem you very quickly walk into is: Who deserves the promotion? The person is there regularly and rarely is sick or the person who is sick literally every month on top of other sicknesses? Surely you realize you're going to create a bitter group of people, yes? Someone else is doing significantly less work than you also thinks they deserve equal pay and is equally deserving of promotions as you? I think people that are sick more should get more sick days. Because the direct translation is…
/r/MensRights17/02/23 03:30 AM
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There is no hell. Punish her here. And if you happen to "believe" in hell then know she only has to ask for forgiveness and poof, to heaven she goes.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 04:10 PM
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For me I can tell a LOT of things. How fast someone breathes, how deep they breathe, how often they blink, how they smile, their types of smiles, how fast they walk, how hard they walk, etc. I can tell when someone is happy, mad, upset, who they are by all of these things before I even see them turn the corner. Wife and I got into an argument and she basically said "So how am I SUPPOSED to do X" and I'm like - now you're trying to hide it from me. I store all kinds of patterns and can usually te…
/r/MensRights16/02/23 04:05 PM
1

The argument in the 50's and 60's is "no one needs that much money and there are people in sore need of the money". If it's a gay black female who is a billionair then yeah, tax the ever living fuck out of them. White, straight, male - tax the fuck out of them. I don't give a shit HOW they identity and who they are. I care about a.) society being sustainable and b.) society having a reasonable quality of life. You aren't "screwing" the rich. The rich are already rich. They just won't be obscenel…
/r/MensRights16/02/23 03:22 PM
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It can't be overstated just how far behind a lot of autistic people feel, I saw something on Instagram that felt true: "It's like everyone was given the same recipe but I was given all the wrong ingredients."
/r/MensRights16/02/23 03:14 PM
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Huh?
/r/MensRights16/02/23 02:52 PM
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I want men to want me for me, not because I'd supplement their rent. Ok, cool, so what does she think she brings to the table?
/r/MensRights16/02/23 02:15 AM
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Sure, salaries aren't keeping up with inflation but that's a whole other problem that is difficult to fix. It's also a non-sustainable problem. Meaning eventually it's going to collapse and create a gnarly depression.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 02:13 AM
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Social democrats want to maintain private property and money, but tax the wealthy relatively more to spend money to support a sufficient safety net for its citizens. For those playing the home game - back in the 50's and 60's we had a tax system that (practically speaking) capped out your income. In today's dollars it would cap you income at around 650k'ish I think. The majority of people who (in today's dollars) make 300k+ paid the vast majority of taxes while people who made less than that pai…
/r/MensRights15/02/23 11:13 PM
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There has been male pills but they had the same side effects as female birth control - which don't pass modern standards. Reminder: Tylenol wouldn't pass modern standards if it were created today.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 01:54 PM
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There are several bi women who "left men" only to learn how brutal it was dating women. One example was "when the check came, she didn't even offer to split it or anything. She just sat there like the check wasn't even there and ignored it" - yeah, she's expecting someone else to pay - and that someone is you. She went on to enumerate other things but yeah... it's weird how she thought she would be treated differently because she was a woman by another woman.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:40 PM
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We need more people willing to go third party until the main parties change their strategy and start helping common people again. And yet.. you'll end up back in the same spot again if the third party ever comes viable. Another party will take this third (now first/second party)'s votes and allow the worse party to win. Depends on your perspective and what you count as a tax increase . 1950's and 1960's, as indicated above. $151k household income with a couple adults and a couple kids is not ric…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 03:54 PM
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No vote, no say Depending on where you live, it doesn't matter how you vote. Your vote is piss in the wind. Not only are the numbers against you - the people you elect don't even have to vote how you voted. I can't remember who but someone said "if people wanted Sanders and voted for Sanders, would you vote for Sanders?" and they said "I would vote with my heart" - implying they would vote for Clinton. Because when you, you personally, vote - your vote only "suggests" for your person to vote. Th…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 03:25 PM
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The math of FPTP voting, like what we have, is you will ALWAYS end up with 2.4 parties. The .4 will take away from the largest "more winning" party allowing the less popular party to win more regularly. This is why third party is bad and is not viable. The math just doesn't support it. To resolve this is quite difficult. It's also difficult to be perfectly fair, contrary to what Reddit says. So even if we could convince them to change... finding a better system that is balanced would be difficul…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 03:19 PM
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This is a fun one because it's difficult. Were they voting for Trump or were they voting against Clinton. The difference is important.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 03:13 PM
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Then, I turned 18, and I was rejected by a college when I had 95.7% marks in High School. It was okay until I saw a classmate get in the same program with 81% marks in High School. I demanded for an answer and what I got was that they took her in for being a girl and many programs offered such benefits to girls. This is how racism and sexism begin. The thing is - the attempt to "rebalance" things will continue racism and sexism. When my wife was single with two kids and applied for food stamps -…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 03:10 PM
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He's selfish. You should withhold sex. You have to withstand childbirth while he can't even get a 20-minute procedure done. I suspect if he were to masturbate if she withheld sex then he's still the bad guy here.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 05:44 AM
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That's full of songs about men sharing their heartbreak. And being made fun of. There's the joke about EV's that at some point there will be a song about a mans car leaving him too.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 01:54 AM
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Oh, you're just a troll. No one's reading comprehension is THAT bad. You still need a therapist.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 01:53 AM
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I would heavily recommend therapy. If having a dialog on what your own personal traumatic history is incites violence within you - something is wrong. Let's look at this a different way to help you understand: "I would have rather pierced my left nipple than my right nipple because my right one is very sensitive" - you're saying that would incite violence within you? Please GO GET HELP. Seriously. Either a.) you lack basic reading comprehension skills or b.) you have a serious problem that is tr…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 01:37 AM
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Do you want to associate mens rights name with pedophilia Huh? Saying that you, you personally, would prefer to be raped than have a piece of your dick cut off is now... being a pedophile? Is there a reading comprehension issue going on now? You're allowed to have a preference as to what happens to your own body. The fact you think having a preference over who does what to your own body in a "would you rather" situation makes you a pedophile scares me. YOU are why people are scared to talk about…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 01:33 AM
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I've always found it odd that successful porn stars almost always say it's degrading to women after they are rich. It's not like they get a few good years in and go "this is horrible!" - it's after they are so well off they don't really need to work again and then, and only then, is it "horrible for young women and they regret everything they've done". Uh huh. I'm sure the construction working with severe back pain the rest of his life would love to say it's degrading to be physically abused by …
/r/MensRights11/02/23 04:48 PM
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The reality is if a particular person regularly starts shit - they are usually banned, ultimately. So if a woman always bitches and moans about men looking at her - she usually gets told to fix her shit or get banned. Given how the contracts are written - it means she's signed up for a year and can't go. Contracts are never in anyways favor other than the gym. I've seen high schoolers kicked out for being dicks. I've seen women pulled aside and told to stop being dicks. I've seen men told to not…
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:18 PM
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Because questions get shut down. Play the game "flip the race or sex" and you'll find how anti-male (or in some cases anti-(insert race here)) places are real quick.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 06:45 PM
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If they are hyper quick and loud for just a benign situation like the one above then yeah. It’s a combination of factors there that made me jump to that conclusion. Not just the words alone.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 09:45 PM
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So you're saying they were held accountable? They weren't enabled. That sounds like the opposite of what you're claiming exists. Rape culture is a term used to describe a society that encourages male sexual aggression and supports violence against women That's the definition for your wiki link. IT DOES NOT EXIST IN THE FORM OF THIS DEFINITION.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 07:57 PM
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Which ones? Can you enumerate where the colleges endorse this? Or perhaps even have a fraternity that openly endorses this? Or even a fraternity where it's known to do this and his a pattern of this? I'm looking for names here and not conspiracy theories.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 06:56 PM
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Wow - that's absurd. Every day my faith in humanity goes a little further down. The "pedo scare" that is in society has gone too far to the point it puts kids at more risk than it helps them. Honestly, I blame the media for that. Pre-pubescent rapes are usually done by someone the kid knows (e.g. family member or a very close friend of the family). Yet people think it's random fucks in society who will take their kid. I can't say I've ever heard someone react that strongly like that though and, …
/r/MensRights06/02/23 06:22 PM
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I mean to be fair money overrides culture, gender, race, etc.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 11:52 AM
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"Boys will be boys" ... funny how they respond poorly to that and yet...
/r/MensRights06/02/23 11:50 AM
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Oh no Women are no longer getting help in the gym from men, It's so much more than this that feminists didn't think it through. What we're seeing is them also losing business oppurtunities. Whereas men will go out with a male CEO or manager to discuss potential sales stuff with someone else selling something to them over lunch - many women are finding it really difficult to get a casual lunch meeting / sale proposition because "it's risky". Schmoozing is getting significantly harder for women be…
/r/MensRights06/02/23 11:18 AM
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Majority of almost all violent rapists in the world in every country is male. Violent rapists is a very narrow definition in most countries. In many countries it's impossible, by definition, for women to be violent rapists. Grabbing a broom and shoving it up a boys ass is just "Assault". Drug raping him and beating him up and raping him will still just be assault. This is because of the way SA laws are worded. Majority of criminals in every country is male. When you say criminals - are you talki…
/r/MensRights06/02/23 03:23 AM
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While you're not wrong - the implication here is that the US "owns" those countries. Since that's clearly not the case, the only alternative to war. Which didn't happen. We don't get "donations" or taxes from those countries. To be conquered, by any reasonable definition, you have to do more than just cooperate with military intelligence. A lot more.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 01:16 PM
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I love all of you in this thread that are like "fuck off, this is not that kind of mens rights we want, we want equality - not supremacy."
/r/MensRights05/02/23 04:36 AM
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Gays were killed and many comitted suicide because of "good loving Christians". Christianity allowed and enabled slavery. don't let one crazy guy let the whole religion down Don't worry, the religion's history has done that on its own. Reagen, who the Right love to worship, was one of those terrible Christians. A very, very, very long time ago churches built libraries and funded astronomers. That's the same Christians that allowed men to beat their wives into submission. To date Christianity has…
/r/MensRights05/02/23 04:35 AM
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If you consider Muslims and Hinduism, there moral values are really strong. No they are not. Also the word you meant to use was 'their' and not 'there'. I myself is a Christian, if christian countries keeps on collapsing morally, its hard to watch. Christianity has only themselves to blame. They were assholes to pretty much everyone else. If you didn't fall in line you could be assaulted or killed and law enforcement didn't care. How is that "moral"? Some may think that religions are Opressive, …
/r/MensRights05/02/23 04:31 AM
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If you had asked me a decade ago I would have put 2 dead last because "who cares what other people think". Now I put it first. I'm seeing the trauma some men walk around with as they aren't allowed to be who they want to be while watching women be what they want to be.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 05:00 PM
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We’re not trying to promote MRA at the expense of women’s rights and freedoms, are we? I'mma let you in on a secret Feminists and MRA's don't like hearing. Some of us are heavily traumatized and are extremely angry towards the other gender because of a bad thing that happened. The only difference is it's socially acceptable to be an angry feminist and perhaps even a moderately violent feminist. This is because women are viewed as weak and less capable of destruction physically than compared to a…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 10:31 PM
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Yeah, if you were to have asked me that 20 years ago my opinion would be different but in the last 10 years I've seen it shift further and further extreme. It's gotten less and less grounded in reality. That's not to say I don't think there is an element to it that's right - it's just taken to the extreme it's grown to be sexist and racist. For example in the kink community, of which I'm in, it's gone from being inclusive to being exclusive and this is a moderately new'ish thing - like in the la…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 07:49 PM
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Social conservatives are often enough racist. It's not the norm anymore but it's still common enough to associate them with it. Social progressives are both sexist and racist. I would argue it is the norm with them.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 02:44 PM
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I think that women relate to women differently than they do men. If when they don't relate they act like THAT then they have a huge social skill problem they don't see but I don't think that's the case. I'm not saying there are better places for them to have posted - I'm judging the movement and their reaction. The problem is gullible men believe that movement is about equality and not about women's rights or for women only benefits since, ya know, that's how they portray them to be right up unt…
/r/MensRights01/02/23 07:29 PM
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right because he went to a feminism sub?), No, the point I was pointing out was they, the feminists, act differently when it's a woman versus when it's a man. Her tone probably wouldn’t be taken the same because the directionality would be different. The term I believe you're looking for is hypocrisy. That was the entire point of my comment. I was simply trying to be subtle and polite about it. He, a man, placed his issues at their table and said “fix them,” even after they directed him elsewher…
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:23 PM
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I think his tone too was a bit off putting. If we were to flip the genders but keep the same tone, do you think they would respond the same?
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:09 PM
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The woman can also (ab)use safe haven laws to avoid child support and simply never tell the father.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 04:03 PM
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I don't like left or right wing bullshit. I'm a left leaning moderate who used to be very left when I was younger but the party I used to support doesn't seem to exist anymore. The Democrats I associated with used to be intellectuals. Now it's just screaming adults who lack the ability to have discourse. I'll always say FOX News is the most dishonest news source out there (not that any of them are honest) ... ... but in this case they aren't entirely wrong and the subreddit you linked has severa…
/r/MensRights01/02/23 03:17 PM
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When you get higher up the professional tree you don't get paid overtime, your salary is your salary whether you work the, say, 37 hours you are contacted for or the, say, 48 it takes you to do the work to meet your objectives. Yes and no. Most people do not know their rights and get taken advantage of because of this. If you are salary without overtime then that means, in several states, as long as you work 1 hour within your pay period they cannot (legally) dock you. Reasons don't (for the mos…
/r/MensRights30/01/23 04:45 PM
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You'll want something to do pullups with. That's really the only costly part.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 09:55 AM
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There was a blind guy who got in trouble for staring. That's the level of insanity going on here. When I was much younger a chick was "creeped" out because I was staring at her through a window. I didn't know that because the window was one way (or reflective or something like that).
/r/MensRights29/01/23 09:53 AM
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I mean... we all naturally have certain affinities. Most people want to date within their own race, most people are heterosexual, most people want to procreate. Most people have a preference for body type. There are a minority of people who are not in the group of "most people". You can't change what you like. You like what you like. If what you like is well out of your league, you're just fucked. Society tends to shift in what it openly finds attractive though. Or, more specifically, what socie…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 06:23 PM
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It's also super weird that many judge men on their height but complain when men judge them on their weight.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 06:18 PM
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White Supremacists said the same thing when the Civil Rights movement happens. Perhaps we should point that out.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 03:16 PM
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The thing here is that this story is mostly for women who are bitter about any man being happy doing anything. These are traumatized people who genuinely need therapy and, likely, don't really realize that. They are profiting off of trauma and anger. No sane woman cares about this. But this is the kind of phrasing that turned me off to Clinton during the election. "Women suffer the most in war" nonsense and she knew good and well who she was targeting that towards - women who are misandrist and …
/r/MensRights27/01/23 02:09 PM
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I had a friend who back when 9/11 happened there was talk about a draft and they were quiet about it up until the rumors of drafting women too and then it's "I've always been against the draft" - piss off, no you haven't. I occasionally reshare the Facebook image of "I'll fight for equality..." and there's snow around with a man shoveling "... tomorrow". They fall into that category.
/r/MensRights26/01/23 11:46 PM
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I did not skip leg day ;-)
/r/MensRights26/01/23 01:05 AM
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If a woman is actually smart, she knows when and what to say, rather than blurting out her loud and grating opinion whenever she gets the chance. Ehhhhhhhhhh, maybe? Depends on how you define smart. Socially awkward people usually lack self control. ADD/ADHD or high functioning autism are some good examples. What you've just done is the "no true scotsman" fallacy. Opinionated, in my mind, just means asshole. It's not related to intelligence.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 06:57 PM
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Personally, I think willingness to pay for a date based on how the date went is wrong. I can't put my finger on why, right now, just how I feel about it. I understand. My issue is one of "investment". If it's not going right I'm no longer willing to "invest" myself, or anything else, on it. I think it feels wrong because society expects men to pay and not expect anything else at all in return. So when you hold a boundary that's conditional it feels wrong because society tries to condition us to …
/r/MensRights25/01/23 03:09 PM
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Let me tell you a trick. Show up 10 minutes early. Tell the server to split the checks unless you say otherwise. This way you can offer to pick up her check or just roll with it if you don't want to. But by doing this - you don't look like you're an ass and the server looks like they just assumed. What I learned is the "want to go back to my place after?" or "want to go to the bar after?" or some event thing and if they say no, without offering an excuse then it's 50/50 and it's clear they proba…
/r/MensRights25/01/23 01:49 PM
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It’s up there with racism now to be a MRA, I was watching Letterkenny and when Tannis said "somewher there's a MRA missing their door greeter" but when he fired back a similar level insult she visibly got upset. This is a more overt example of the type of people you're dealing with: Bullies. They are using to getting their way via bullying and when someone mouths off back - they are surprised. For a fair chunk of show, she is a bully in many ways. I mean, the first several seasons are funny as s…
/r/MensRights24/01/23 04:53 PM
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Cussed me out (because a discussion about the patriarchy can't be complete without someone insulting the other), called me a radical, used a couple of dirty tricks to make me seem like a loony and that I hated women, refused to look at evidence because "if I sent you feminist information, you wouldn't look at it either" and that, from now on, he'd treat me like "those homeless people that come up to you to spew random bullshit.", in his words. Sounds like the majority of Redditors, in general. T…
/r/MensRights24/01/23 04:51 PM
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As someone who, for the longest time, was friends with mostly women (purely coincidence really) - the shit I heard was appalling. It sounded very much like Trump's "locker room talk" except unlike him doing it in private, they do it openly. When anyone questions them on it they get extremely hostile (because they know good and well what they've done). I've been SA'ed more than once - in public and openly. She threw her hands down my hands, grabbed my junk and said "let's go have some fun". Uhhh,…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 05:39 PM
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Their DNA ends? Can you explain that one? Or are you just talking about a name?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:19 AM
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The headline implies she went for everything he had or did something to make it scary. The true context is: Change is scary and it made him scared. The end. Neither did anything wrong. Nothing against women or men here. Just... a breakup like event. No one likes those.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 09:00 PM
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She can refuse sex if he doesn't. I'm not sure what your point is. You make it sound like ONLY men can purchase or require condoms. "It takes two". and condoms are literally given away for free in many colleges and clinics Yeah, and women are able to take them up on the offer. I've literally seen it happen in college. She walks up, grabs a handful. Literally, not figuratively, every woman I've been with had backup condoms. where women need to pay for birth control. You're not being honest here. …
/r/MensRights17/01/23 08:31 PM
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My largest concern about Roe versus Wade is the future problems it will bring. Now practically ANY SC case can be reversed at any time. New Democrat majority? Overturn all the things they don't agree with. New Republican majority? Overturn all the things they don't agree with. This should give serious concern to everyone because the supreme laws of the land can just do a 180. It's not like congress are going to be able to do much about it. They can't even pass good healthcare without having to t…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 06:27 PM
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and condoms are literally given away for free in many colleges and clinics where women need to pay for birth control. Women can carry condoms and can require them for sex.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 03:53 PM
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And women go around saying men stand them up nonstop 🙄 I mean.. it's not impossible that's true. I just doubt we'll ever have more than anecdotal evidence on this though to know for certain.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 10:05 PM
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Does believing in equality make me not a feminist? Modern feminism means women's rights without considering the costs to men. You're more likely to be egalitarian if you believe all peoples are equal and should be treated equal. I think of myself as a feminist who believes men’s rights need to be advocated for as well to have equality Practically speaking this doesn't exist anymore. That died in with 4'rth wave Feminism (AKA 4WF) - the type you see on 2X and such on Reddit. If, for example, you …
/r/MensRights13/01/23 07:38 PM
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Feminists believe men and women should be treated equally/fairly. Oh we all of us here wish that were true.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 03:29 PM
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I imagine it's a lot like credit card debt. Once you're far enough in, it's REALLLLLLY tough to get out. "What's another $20? Not like I'll ever pay this off anyways" The truth is - it is difficult but men don't have the same support systems - which is to say they practically have no support systems.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 03:28 PM
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I’d bet it’s the former, which means very little then because it’s a classic case of the people I want don’t want me so everyone must hate me. Here's the deal and I'm gonna tell ya... if we, as a group, want to be upset that women don't understand men but act like they do because of their perception then, just right now, you're doing exactly what they do. Shorter people are more often intimidated by larger people. You'll find men and women report this pretty regularly. I’d bet it’s So your argum…
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:10 PM
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Honestly, I'd rather hear their opinion on that than our perception of what they go through. My perceptions are all from shorts (Instagram shorts, YouTube Shorts, and TikTok)... I've met very few above 6' women. Not saying I wouldn't climb that mountain....
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:18 AM
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You're tired about hearing about unequal criminal sentencing, This is why Federal Guidelines happened. Maybe you're in the wrong sub. r/mensrights is more Malcom X style and r/menslib is more MLK style for those curious. People who fall into the former style tend to be like that because they experienced it. People who fall into the latter tend to not have experienced it but see the sexism that exists. All that being said... Again, if the point of this post was to expose the sentencing gap, that'…
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:15 AM
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It's telling that you call it "lowering their standards". I like buff women, thicc women, lean women... but not fat women or super skinny women. For a chunk of my life - thicc and fat were synonymous. Buff (women) was generally unattractive for the vast majority of my life as far as society cared. Men tend to have vastly lower standards than women. Many women tend to have entirely unrealistic standards. Wanting a dad bad doesn't mean you want a 300lb man. I'm not lowering my standards, If you ne…
/r/MensRights12/01/23 08:56 PM
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I'm not sure I agree. It's the fact that dad bods aren't unattractive to everyone in the same way thicc women got popular. I don't see them saying it's healthy. Just men like that are now wanted.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 08:41 PM
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My sister and I were at the mall where she went on a rant about Victoria Secrets and all that. I pointed behind us where Dillards had attractive men doing this... Like... they act like men don't go through this but it's worse for men because they aren't even allowed to have an opinion on other men. At last in the last year or two I'm seeing the "dad bod" thing pick up a lot.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 05:30 PM
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I suspect that view came around because men can only ask for sex. Being emotionally vulnerable is both extremely risky and often seen as weakness BY WOMEN. So what's the only options for intimacy? Sex. When I hear about men crying in movies I think: Yeahhhh there's more going on that society isn't allowing that man to show.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 03:23 PM
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Studies have shown when women are ovulating then want manly men. When they are furthest away they prefer feminine men. This is, of course, a wide vague scale and is not "all women" - just a "general" overview. Still though, it's true. My wife doesn't like bulky beefy buff men. Funny enough I was that guy because I'm shorter and how my DNA is... I don't look it. Had a someone slap my stomach once thinking they'd knock the air out of me and I just stared at them. They made themselves sparse real q…
/r/MensRights12/01/23 03:21 PM
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This includes everything female-on-female, such as IPV in lesbian relationships, which feminists will claim is caused by toxic masculinity. I've told my gay (female) kid. These hands bisexual. If your GF every does this to you, I will wreck her world. I'll go to jail, you let me worry about that. I'll make sure a.) my kid is protected and b.) GF's gonna learn what a hit REALLY feels like. That being said.. I'm pretty sure my kid could hold her own. The mantra she was taught in martial arts was "…
/r/MensRights12/01/23 03:15 PM
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I hear people speak every day with inflection, speaking in ways that would’ve landed me in trouble under my mothers roof. DUDE! SAME! My mother was (legit) crazy and I (recently) learned I am fearful-avoidant attachment style. I've learned to not show anything and I'm extremely good at reading people and knowing their emotional state. There are a lot of people who my friends think they are happy and I'm like "nope, I can see the deep pain they are hiding.. I wonder if I should say something". My…
/r/MensRights12/01/23 03:11 PM
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Infuriate the trans community It's sad the trans community gets fucked because of shit like this. It's not like they did us wrong, generally speaking. I suspect with a bit of work we might find them allies.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 08:13 PM
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As response to the hyper-vague "men get what they want"? It's just a bitter person who doesn't know any better. One could say the same thing about women from bar tabs and how they pawn off drinks on other men, to dates where men are expected to pay, to lesser crime sentences, I could go on and on. But those types of people aren't worth your time. They made up their mind and are looking for ways for things to fit their narrative. We've all been bitter and had feelings like this so much so there's…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:31 PM
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Well your logic is "I suffer and we should solve this by making more people suffer." Which I find morally wrong. Funny, I could say the same about yours in how you feel about women. But let's be honest: You're misrepresenting the situation. I'm saying since men are held to an objectively higher standard that women could "suck it up" but nine months since men have to "suck it up" for 18 years. Do you really want to compare suffering? Because I don't think that's an argument you're going to win.. …
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:28 PM
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I'd still like to add that every pregnancy brings a risk of death, and long term damage to the mother. The risk is relatively tiny in the US and in most modern countries. Additionally women have a ton of social programs and support systems. To the point I'd say there are other factors that are more important than pregnancy as far as the mothers health - like her diet and eating too much crap food suffering from a heart attack. The probability of death is way greater from heart disease than pregn…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 03:33 PM
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The decision to carry out the pregnancy should be on the woman, but the decision to support the child financially should partially be on the father as well. Sole decision but shared responsibility is not "equality". Either both should be required for an abortion or only the mother should be financially responsible. Either you want equality, or you don't. In any case, a blanket ban on abortion makes things equal now. She doesn't get a choice, since he didn't either, and both are financially respo…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:52 PM
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They want a very specific kind of guy. I think the new term, unrelated to the sexual kink, is called "cucked". What amounts to a "yes man". They want a FLR but not in a kinky way. In a "men are inferior" way. I say this as a kinkster who has seen actual cucks (in both directions) and actual femdom's doing FLR's. The women in those images are going to be very lonely when they get into their 40's and 50's.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 01:50 PM
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Tinder is a weird place. My wife and I have "swapped" accounts before and it's a night-day difference of experiences. I just needed to smash a like button to get any level of attention. She couldn't get attention no matter what she did. It's weird. People I knew in real life were not at all like their Tinder responses. One chick couldn't hold a conversation to save her life yet in real life she could (we met through mutual groups). And the amount of humans that can't articulate a god damn thing …
/r/MensRights10/01/23 01:46 PM
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I was told "if I can't afford my medications while paying child support then I just might as well die". So I'm ok with mandating women go through pregnancy with the small risk of death when I was given a 100% chance of death (ultimately DNA showed the kid was not mine). So it seems fair. Especially since only the women have the privilege of "abandoning" the child (safe haven laws) and not telling the father. Women found abandoning the child in such a way should be forced to pay child support, ju…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 01:39 PM
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I hate to say it but that's not a feminist thing. That's an American thing.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:54 PM
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Innocent until proven guilty is important When the genders are reversed that is rarely the case. It usually boils down to "prove you didn't do it or we'll find reasons to assume you did". At which point it boils down to can you afford a good lawyer? Because if not, you're fucked. A friend of mine went to prison because his wife attacked him with a cast iron and threw a thing (I can't remember what) at him and then grabbed the baby. As he went to deflect it - the crime he was charged with changed…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:53 PM
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Let's examine this: She then went on to insult Depp, saying, “Grow the f*** up, Johnny.” Although this clearly reinforces the male gender role, the fact that men should be “tough” and can’t be the victim of violence, these organizations had no problem ignoring this piece of evidence. So they are saying women can't handle it but men can? To re-word this in a way that's more hostile: Women are inferior in pain tolerance, is their claim. Weird stance. Not only does this seem to imply that Heard kno…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:42 PM
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Similar to how the assholes in high school grew up and... somehow are cool people now. They learned better. Doesn't mean I don't have trauma - but they changed and are actually good hearted people now. I haven't been a saint my life.. so hopefully someone allows me the grace I offer others one day. I'm willing to offer the first step forward. It's hard. It's really hard. I spent a LOT of last year specifically trying to grow in many ways and make an active effort to change. It's tiring. It's tou…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:10 AM
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t;dr: Do you, fuck everyone else and what direction the wind is blowing. You'll be happier that way. Cut anyone out who isn't on team You. Find a new group. The News lies. Studies show life is getting better, and more fair, for everyone. I'm learning more and more people are becoming grounded in reality. Specifically they are getting tired of extreme attitudes and the expectations that fall from that. No human has the time to care about every single group out there - which is fine and all - but …
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:09 AM
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https://www.cell.com/current-biology/fulltext/S0960-9822(22)01963-7 If anyone wants the actual report and wants to criticize it - this is where you'd start.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 01:10 AM
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Especially as it's the opposite of the truth lmao - women get preferential treatment in hiring and promotions all the time. You hit on it but I want to elaborate. When someone is 'carried' (gaming term) the things appear easier than they should. When they have to shoulder equal weight - all of a sudden they have to work X times harder because previously they were on easy mode. Looking at it from a different view: The bar tabs vary greatly from men and women because men will buy them drinks. Wome…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 07:07 PM
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I was going to be a teacher but then I saw how easy it would be for my life to get ruined, so I didn’t. I've had several IRL discussions with people like this. It's always "it's never that bad" up until it happens and then it's "holy shit, I never knew!" A company I worked at had windowed offices specifically to avoid accusations. Nowhere but bathrooms were allowed to have privacy. funny how many wild accusations vanished overnight...
/r/MensRights09/01/23 06:03 PM
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Any chance of the HR people saying, "Can you prove that you are a LATINX non-binary human of indeterminate sex? I suspect that is a huge liability on their part.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:19 AM
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It's best person for the job. They call this a micro-aggression up until they need a lawyer then it's "I don't care, I just want the best lawyer to defend me". Funny how they don't care then, huh?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:18 AM
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I can't say I fully understand the racism-related problems of USA because I don't know how much biased the information I get from local media might be. It's... kind of in a weird place in practice. You'll find "even black people are racist against black people when they are a cop" - well, this is because of their anecdotal experiences. Local (think: people in a small community) culture may vary. Some may be more eager to call the cops and others are less eager. Some have found cops make things w…
/r/MensRights08/01/23 08:23 PM
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Moderate, generally, means you agree with things on different sides. As an example you can be very pro-gun and pro-socialized healthcare. This puts you heavily at odds on both sides. "But Democrats aren't coming for your guns!" - Except they both are and also do not understand anything outside of dense cities and that life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOrkILQmpRk The amount of dumbass city folk I've seen think wild-life is friendly is absurd. No, you're dinner and I won't lose an ounce of sl…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 07:45 PM
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They wanted to weaponize genders and are surprised the "enemy" decided to go "ok, fam, let's do this"? I suppose their narrative is to assume MRA's are "too insecure to do that" and this shatters their narrative.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:25 AM
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It's just odd to identity as both when there is a term for it. It's like saying you identify as a Republican and a Democrat when the term moderate is what that is. edit: I say that because odds are if you're for both sex's then you're likely also for all races and all peoples. Now if you only care about gendered stuff then yeah, feminism and MRA would be the terms but I've yet to meet someone who believe in gender equality but not racial equality.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:20 AM
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Feminism was never been clear. It has. First wave was primarily about legal equality and the formalities. Second wave was primarily about social equality. The rest... well... they went downhill from there because the movement out-lived its purpose of equality and went into bat-shit insane territory where it remains today.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:16 AM
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If a blind person smacked me with their cane I would deem that an accident, If they held it like a bat and swing it at you you'd think... that was an accident? if they did it on purpose that's assault, That's not what you said though. I would not necessarily hit back but I wouldn't hit anyone back. That's your choice. I, on the other hand, will respond accordingly. You should clearly know the context going on here and stop being dense. Your claim is she hit him on purpose and he hit her back. Wh…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 03:15 PM
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They are saying if you are in a "socially protected group" and that group does a bad thing and you respond - you are the bad person now. If a blind person whacks you in the head with their cane, violently, and you hit them back - the world will shit on you because you hit back. "They" are 'allowed' to abuse others and you are supposed to 'take it on the chin'.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 02:48 PM
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Pediatrician records show that she intended to chemically castrate him at age eight or nine, his current age. In October 2019, Georgulas won a court case that allowed her to put James through hormone therapy to block puberty. However, she claimed three mental health professionals had diagnosed James with gender dysphoria and that therapists had recommended they start using the name Luna instead of James. I'm, uhhh, not sure that's just an accusation. While many trans-folk realize they are trans …
/r/MensRights06/01/23 02:36 PM
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"it's for the children" "Ok, as long as you face prison time for fraud, I'll take care of the child until you're out and then it's supervised custody until you've proven yourself, you can pay child support until then. It's for the child after all". feminists always conveniently forget that men are people too It's very telling that they don't want this to be criminally prosecuted and that they don't believe this is a crime. Yet, somehow, stealthing is a crime and magically, when she's pregnant, i…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 04:02 PM
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Nursing is stressful and intense. There are orderlies to help when the physical parts if things to too whack. My uncle was one. Fucking massive guy (all muscle, power lifter). When he hurt his back and couldn't move it took several just to move him. Perhaps you would rather hear "physically demanding" instead. One of my ex's was pretty masculine - and all around tough and strong - and she couldn't hang with manual labor. My wife can handle some tough shit - but I'mma tell ya, there's a reason it…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 03:13 AM
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But lawyers for Harnack say Fanady deserves what he gets, that he attempted to hide marital assets in Switzerland, and that he actively evaded law enforcement for over a year to avoid incarceration. So they claim he doesn't deserve medical treatment and a bed? Ok, let's prosecute those lawyers and, in the mean time, make them suffer. Seems that's the only way to teach them and Cook County Sheriff Tom Dart, who should also be imprisoned under similar conditions and treated the same, that this is …
/r/MensRights05/01/23 03:05 AM
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The thing is, and this is something they don't like hearing outloud - the real world doesn't offer 50/50. The real world doesn't care about 50/50 or perfect balance. The best engineer may be a (insert race/sex here) but if you have a perfect quota you now have to pass up the better engineer. My wife and I split chores. They are more 1950's style split. I handle the "nasty" stuff and she handles the rest. Trash, lawn, cleaning toilets and bathrooms, pet vomit and poop - that's all on me to handle…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 11:26 PM
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This is why you can't have discussions with people like that. They know their stance is wrong. The chick that was talking about equity versus equality. "Look what equality got us" - yes, it gave you an equal opportunity. They said women were just as tough as men but here we are in 2023 and... what's the ratio in manual labor of men:women? Any job that's tough you'll never find feminist wanting equality because "that's hard". I reshare on Facebook, from time to time, the meme of "I'll fight for e…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 11:12 PM
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Because they know there are no systemic barriers because those are illegal. This is why they want to dismiss her.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 11:08 PM
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Swap "woman only" with "white only" and it sounds familiar, huh?
/r/MensRights04/01/23 10:25 PM
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Let's be honest. White men DID dominate the world for quite some time. Not all of them, of course but "enough" of them. It was a pretty exclusive group. Of course that's not the case anymore but the perception of that being the case is. Look at Congress in the US. White, old, men. The other problem is the movement problem. When movements, like feminism and civil rights, got their goal, what now? Well, the answer is to disband and pick a new thing. But once you invested your identity into that - …
/r/MensRights04/01/23 08:09 PM
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Funny story - yes. I mow in cowboy boots. Help prevent ankles from twisting, dirt doesn't matter, if you step in mud you don't fuck over shoes and get mud in there, and if the mower launched something boots protect. Although I usually mow in jeans because, again, protects against shit that might otherwise hit your legs. But yeah, I'll look... like a dink. lol
/r/MensRights04/01/23 07:34 PM
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I live in Texas. I'm a c-hair away from wearing a kilt because it gets fucking hot. I live in a rural area so... it might not end well for me but fuck it's hot.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 06:22 PM
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I've said it before, and it triggered a lot of folks, and I'll say it again: Reddit is the left-wing version of FOX News. I've had my hometown land on r/news and wouldn't you know it, there was LITERALLY not one person who knew what really happened but they all make wild assumptions and because it fit their narrative, they went with it. Just. Like. FOX. News. They are no different. They lack the intellectual capacity to stop and think. This is not the pre-Digg Reddit anymore. Most are not capabl…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 06:21 PM
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First off, thank you for the formatting - it made things so much easier! I’m not aware how people on Reddit reacted at that because I didn’t use it back then. I didn’t speak to a single person who supported Amber though, everyone supported Johnny. Yeah the majority supported Amber initially. I've been on Reddit since Digg collapsed and a bit before that. What’s your point? This isn’t necessarily because of privilege. It could easily be thanks to hard work. Yes, yes it is. This is a privilege. If…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 03:17 AM
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You're going to need to reformat that. It looks like you tried to quote some things I said but you didn't use the greater than sign to actually quote. Like this. Use the greater than sign at the start of a line to do this and add space then paste the text. Otherwise it's going to be a pain to respond and I'm not going to do that.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:38 PM
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So you’re saying women now have more privileges than men? One might argue that. Does it apply to all women? Depends on which privileges you're talking about. Family court, overwhelmingly, favors women. It's quite systemic. Luckily that's (slowly) changing. You can look at #MeToo and find that "all women" are given the benefit of the doubt when accusations were made. Have you forgotten how Reddit responded when Johnny Depp was accused by Amber Herd? With ZERO evidence? Did you see the amount of p…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:52 PM
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The implication is she might have cheated. Most people don't cheat - which is why it's a fairly serious implication. Practically everyone gets hurt when it's even lightly implied you colored outside of the lines. But, like drunk driving, the odds of a bad thing happening are fairly small. The consequences of a bad thing happening are very big though. When drunk driving, most people get home safely with zero issues. Like it or not, you can even be fairly drunk and succeed regularly at getting hom…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:44 AM
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What we should really take about this is similar to the argument of "if you think your spouse is cheating, then that's likely because you cheated". In this case, it's likely because they don't support men when they claim their movement is for equality. People in privilege rarely are willing to give it up in favor of equality. Imagine that we recognize more women graduate college than men and want to do something about it. Imagine that there are more women in more fields of study except STEM and …
/r/MensRights02/01/23 04:52 PM
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You people don't do anything to challenge the credibilty of some feminists, all you do is come here and talk about mens issues As a general rule, when you're passionate about something, it gets tiring to repeat statistics, facts, etc over and over only to be met with "be a man and suck it up" or some other nonsense when they realize they can't argue anymore. Do you spend hours upon hours arguing about the earth being round and not flat? No, at some point you're just like "you're a fucking idiot"…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 04:33 AM
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but why tf would you consider ABC and CNN as unbiaised sources? As a personal rule, if the main stream isn't covering something very significant that's been out for more than a minute - it makes me question the authenticity. Doesn't mean they aren't unbiased. I heard a claim about Obama, I can't remember what and it doesn't matter, that was pretty significant that day. I didn't see anything on NBC, CNN, FOX, or anywhere beyond some extreme right (or was it left?) wing bullshit site. It was fake,…
/r/MensRights01/01/23 08:01 AM
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I think their point was they both started at around the same time - so one doesn't "pre-date" the other by any significant measure. Personally, I think some people fall for the easier power grab instead of the sturdier investment of self through showing. I had a boss who would talk about how great he was at doing things but many of the things he showed were rush and his excuse was always "yeah, it's rushed and not great, but see!" whereas myself and many others impressed by doing and showing the…
/r/MensRights31/12/22 09:20 PM
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Thing is BMI wasn't meant to be the end-all-be-all of measurements. It's meant to be what is called an "indicator". If you are super buff then BMI isn't going to work for you. The military learned this. Some people are sent to "fat camp" because their BMI is high even if they have low fat but are simply buff as fuck. Thing is, it still functions as a pretty good indicator to if you're fat. Most people are not extremely buff. You're more likely to be extremely fat than extremely buff, in the mode…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 07:20 PM
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No, I don't have to respect it as much as I don't have to respect the elderly when they say all blacks are violent or dumb or deserve to be their slaves. You do not have to respect all opinions. Not all opinions are equal. If your crackhead friend told you that you didn't have cancer but three doctors strongly agreed you have cancer would you think the druggie friend's opinion should be as equally respected as your doctors? Of course not. Not only are they not a doctor, they have a reputation fo…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 03:50 AM
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I think it's hilarious that all their arguments in favor of men have financial freedom from babies are.. the same arguments pro-lifers give to the pro-choicers. Every. Single. One. And they fail to see the irony in that.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:14 PM
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And the men in that crowd are there because they’re naive, Yup. They don't understand until they go through it themselves.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:47 PM
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But why MAKE FUN OF THE DAMN FACT I COULD'VE BEEN LITERALLY MURDERED FOR FUCK SAKE'S? One of my first eye opening experiences to how casual it is to ignore men was when I first moved to a big city - I went to a burlesque show with a chick friend of mine. I went to pee and come back and she was fuming at the fact I left my drink alone. It never occurred to me men's drinks get spiked too and a few weeks prior a dude passed out in the bathroom and was raped by another dude. Through my entire life t…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 05:11 PM
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That's what I would have thought too. Turns out the woman can 'just' point a finger and say 'no, he's the real bio father and I want back-pay for child support' and if you dont' cooperate the husband LOSES bio-dad rights BY DEFAULT according to my paperwork. Husband was never required to take a test. Now if I was the father and the mother is willing then I could have signed away my rights. I paid something like $2k for a lawyer to handle it because I didn't trust the office of females with my DN…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 03:10 PM
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Most actual incels (which would be nice guys) are interested in the type of women that bitches and moans about "how come I always find assholes?" while complaining to the one guy treating them reasonably. Up until he tosses her aside and finds someone else and that woman later goes "wait, let's try" and cries when he says no. I've seen it time and again. Yes feminism propagates sexism. Modern feminism doesn't care if it cannibalizes itself. They don't care if, by implication, they say they are i…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 02:24 PM
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How about we call it what it is: Toxic Femininity.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 02:20 PM
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As someone who is likely on the spectrum as well as has ADD/ADHD... getting treated/help as an adult fucking sucks. I tend to respond quite thoroughly to avoid miscommunication and let me tell you - it pisses people off if they can't respond to with their pre-made responses because I already addressed it. "What are you autistic? LOL" - go fuck yourself. People like to claim they are against bullying or in favor of helping people with autism or (insert disorder here) but in reality once they get …
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:25 AM
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I was literally told by the AG's office if I couldn't afford my meds when paying child support then I might as well die. By an office of 100% women who hated men and literally sent dishonest letters in the mail. The Texas AG's office would rather the child, and state, get zero money than negotiate to a lower amount. The kid ended up not being mine after DNA tests. The husband wasn't allowed to test until after I tested. Texas's AG wants their money. (I didn't know she was married) So how do I re…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 01:27 AM
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I think the real problem is people expect Disney-like perfection. Disney is just emotional porn. At least in actual porn we all know it's fake. In Disney, kids are told never to compromise and always seek out the best and you will get what you (and I hate this word) deserve. Except.. it doesn't happen except for a small few rare of us. P!nk has a good song called "The truth about love". It's a good song. It's real. Find someone with traumas you can handle and is willing to deal with your bullshi…
/r/MensRights25/12/22 03:01 AM
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You said conservative, let's be real and let's be honest with ourselves here.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 02:27 AM
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Perhaps you mean fiscal conservatives? The GOP used to be the party of the liberal, not social conservatives.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 08:22 PM
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There is a serious issue of female on male abuse that goes completely ignored by society. That is literally the point of this sub.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 04:57 AM
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"Leave women alone! You're not entitled to sex!" Funny how when you say "two checks" they feel entitled to my money for the food... Realistically there are one of two things at play here. Some people who feel very strongly about feminism often assume MRA's are a threat to, quite literally, everything they stand for. Imagine being a hardcore Ford guy. Any criticism from someone who likes Chevy's will be met with... nothing polite, usually, no matter how accurate that criticism is. This is mostly …
/r/MensRights24/12/22 12:25 AM
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Agree to disagree So before you even have full dialog you're already going to just "I'm right, you're wrong" and call it good? I'm not quite sure what you're after here.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 09:04 PM
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I mean.. there is a kink for that... not that I'm one to judge.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 03:49 PM
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Wife and I are poly, not open. She's just as happy as I am when I meet someone. Only difference is it's way harder for men to find women. But let me tell you.. the last four guys she met this year... they make me look fucking golden. Thing is, wife and I both are not the jealous types. That's not to say we don't have our own issues - but it's not jealousy. That being said, we're also not 100% hetero either and we're pretty specific about STD testing.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 02:33 PM
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Similarly this is why a lot of male c-levels and upper management won't go on lunch meetings with other females of their potential vendors alone. Too much risk. But they'll do the same with males. This is why the #MeToo movement entirely fucked upper level management women. They wanted to weaponize accusations so men, of course, responded appropriately - by distancing themselves from it. Double edged sword they weren't prepared for.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 07:52 PM
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ut she kept on skirting this and told me that this is my belief and it would be a waste of time to argue with me. There are two possibilities. Either a.) she's tired of arguing the same thing over and over. For example, I'm tired of arguing about COVID and how bad it can be with morons who say "it's just as bad as the flu". At some point you just say "you're a fucking idiot" and walk away. b.) She could know she has nothing of substance to respond with and is angry because you aren't 100% in lin…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:12 PM
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You say that like being in favor of abortion would help us. But for a totally disorganized group of people like MRA's... You mean systemically and socially repressed. That would work if you were an organization like a union or a church or a well organized social movement like BLM for example. Wasn't the point of BLM to not be organized? Who leads BLM? In any case, I'm not going to support legalized abortion until child support reform is changed or is changed with it.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 03:04 PM
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All this is teaching me is that MRAs are spite driven No, it seems like you made up that decision already and aren't even listening to understand - you're listening to respond. You're not interested in equality. That part is what you've shown me. For example: You as man can grab your new born baby from its crib and drop it off at the fire station and keep going No, you cannot. Let me tell you that shit that will happen when the mother finds out... Men definitely do get a say when abortion is leg…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 02:29 PM
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So again, I know that everyone is afraid of even discussing this but no it's not "her body" only so no it's not her choice only. That's a dangerously thin stance though. At which point you are denying life by not staying pregnant. You're now denying someone else their choice too if you aren't remaining pregnant as long as your body is able. People aren't "scared" to talk about it. They just know it's a silly argument. Do you care about ending the life of a mosquito? What about a roach? How about…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:05 AM
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Saying "if we can't have ours then you can't have yours" is a losing strategy. Negotiations work by giving up something in exchange for something. If women want men to vote for laws in favor for them, then those women need to offer something up along with it - such as child support reform. It's not entirely unreasonable to say "all or nothing". I think the concern will be if abortion is restored women will have no incentive to change child support laws up until it doesn't serve them well anymore…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:58 AM
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but no he wants to completely get rid of all child support allowing parents to abandon their children. Women do this quite regularly and don't have to pay child support. Safe Haven laws, for example. If you think all women are just bad with money I could easily say that all dads are just terrible parents and it’s good that the child goes to the mother Considering the nature of child support where it's really just alimony - then yeah, until women are willing to pass laws that say child support ha…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:54 AM
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My opinion on abortion is one most don't seem to like. I'm all in favor of abortion. Her body, her choice. As long as it's my wallet, my choice. Meaning BOTH parties can decide to walk away. For, literally, every response a feminists has against this I can usually use the same pro-life responses. "He should have worn a condom" - "She should have demanded one." "It takes two!" - "Then perhaps the bio father should have to sign for abortion then, that sounds fair to me" - "Oh so she should be forc…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:20 AM
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Are you ok?
/r/MensRights19/12/22 06:01 PM
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When you say r/thathappened you're calling them a liar as in "yeah, sure, that TOTALLY happened pffft". Let's assume, for the sake of argument, they are still under age... and you're....calling them a liar because... why, again?
/r/MensRights19/12/22 05:57 PM
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Google did a study and found that the men were under paid. You'll find women shut up real quick about that one and it got real quiet for a while after.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 05:53 PM
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I was at the mall once with an ex of mine. She pointed out how women are horribly objectified and pointed at Victoria Secrets stuff. I told her to turn around. It was Dillard's with a Calvin Klein poster with a man in, literally, just underwear. "That's different". The fuck? It's THE SAME THING. What's sad here is when you say the implied part out loud is when feminists shit and go blind. The implication from "men can handle it" is "but women can't".
/r/MensRights19/12/22 05:51 PM
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Err, they were cancelled. I live in the South. They were absolutely cancelled.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 05:42 PM
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Cancelling things is not a left/right thing overall. The left is more anti-male, for sure, but cancelling happens regularly on both sides there pretty regularly and throughout history. They weren't fired. I mean you can't realistically fire someone like that. They don't need your permission to make music. They can be abandoned, and were abandoned, by a fuck ton of people for quite some time. For all intents and purposes they were cancelled. They did country music and country folks are overwhelmi…
/r/MensRights16/12/22 04:39 PM
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That kind of post is becoming more and more common. "I didn't know it was that bad" - You were told and you didn't want to believe it because it conflicted with your ideology. You put your beliefs ahead of reality. I saw it with COVID and people saying it's "just as bad as the flu", only to have them say.... "I didn't know..." yes, yes you fucking did. I've seen it with various pains - like back pain. "I didn't know it was that bad!" - you were told. You chose to not believe them with nothing to…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 07:16 PM
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The thing is unbridled capitalism is terrible. It got people killed. It got us slaves. We don't have the infrastructure (automation will allow for this one day), yet, for UBI or 100% socialism. The question is how big of a safety net should there be. When I say I want "free" healthcare, they say that's socialist. When I point out the Netherlands they call that a capitalist government. The problem is we, as a nation, pay more and get less in healthcare. "But we have the best in the world!" - no, …
/r/MensRights13/12/22 04:22 PM
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That's the thing though. If the data is there within hands reach, don't be surprised when they want to keep it and do something with it. It's too tempting not to try and take advantage of it. Politically it'd be suicide to go against it. "Wouldn't YOU want to know your child's killer if there was a large database of potentials?!"
/r/MensRights13/12/22 04:09 AM
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I wrote all this and realized how thick it is and all over the place. I'm rambling. Take it for what you want. To say women as a group are victimized today by men as a group is not only not true it’s outright hateful. What's curious is if you point out countries where women are regularly victimized they get extremely upset. Like what you went through wasn't great but it's far from being an abused victim like other women see in the world. If you're in America you don't have to worry about acid be…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 11:20 PM
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It should not be an option. The large, and very valid, concern will be about law enforcement (ab)using the database or somehow or another collecting this data. You'll very quickly find Congress Critters saying "but what about the children!" in regards to giving law enforcement access to that information. They won't be able to say no. It'll be politically dicey to say no.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 08:41 PM
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Looking at your comments - it sounds like you're angry the gravy train is stopping. You can either do homely duties, go work yourself and pay for someone to do those duties, or be the support person and let the other person do the homely duties. I had a friend who worked 12-14 hours per day, six days per week. His girlfriend still expected him to do laundry and cook (he actually is a good cook though). She had no health issues. That is what we call a "leech". I But if you think men and women are…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 08:24 PM
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I'm not going to play that game. Either you think a male-only DV location would be treated respectfully or you don't. Full stop. I think we both know the answer here and you're wanting to play games.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 03:49 PM
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Do you think that they would react respectfully if there were male-only DV places? Because I suspect it would not be treated with respect. It'd be called sexist and discriminatory. That's... kind of the point people are making.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 02:56 PM
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Must suck to be the kid of someone who’s only concern for them is how their mere existence is enslaving them. Isn't that the point of the post? Should the mothers not be forced to pay child support to whoever they relinquish to?
/r/MensRights12/12/22 11:38 AM
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a lot of hypocrites in fashion industry has spreaded the trend of using overweight models to cater to these fat people. In their defense, they cater to whoever has money. I don't think this is uniquely against men or "for" women as much as they learned obese women aren't targeted and have disposable income they are willing to throw away. On the other hand, obese women will get triggered and accuse you of bodyshaming if you call them fat or overweight, Not even that. If you worry about your frien…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 11:32 AM
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The truth emerged when the authorities found out about the chat and plans after they checked her mobile phone. We really need a "false sexual accusation" list similar to sex offender. Anyone she plans on dating she should have to openly say, for the rest of her life, she's falsely accused someone before so anyone, man or women, can nope out of that.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 07:55 PM
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Just as often said as a replacement for “take some responsibility”…sort of thing I've always interpreted it as "deal with it and shut up". With "it" usually being pain or other difficulty. Chest pains? Man up. Running out of energy for a thing? Man up. I've never, not once, heard it as a "take responsibility". I've 100% always heard it as a way to dismiss problems of a person.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 05:14 PM
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The underlying problem is that women (even unattractive women) get a huge amount of attention from men. This particular problem is an interesting one. While women are drowning for attention - men are dying from thirst due to lack of. There are a lot of (passable) FtM folks who learned this the hard way while those who are not passable didn't come to such findings because they weren't viewed as "men". It causes women to become increasingly objectifying and entitled towards men and causes men to b…
/r/MensRights10/12/22 10:44 PM
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Given the current way society works it's much more like a lock and key. Which is better: A key that can open a lot of locks or a lock that will open for any key? It's the same reason I've seen women get violent when shot down by men at a bar. That and, let's be honest, statistically violent women aren't held accountable in such situations. They are just "asked to leave", at most. Although that being said, I don't know many actual men that care with how many people women sleep with outside of the…
/r/MensRights10/12/22 05:24 PM
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I'm beginning to think we need an organized resource to maintain lists of things like this, specifically in chronological order with most recent up top. There are far too many times I've been asked to "prove it" and, honestly, it gets tiresome having to backup every god damn thing ever while their bullshit is "true by default".
/r/MensRights06/12/22 10:57 PM
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It really wasn't an excuse. We did exercise, she just didn't push as hard as I did. You aren't going to get ugly buff working out just 45 minutes per day. It's just not happening. And while we were pushing - we did this in the morning, so we couldn't push so hard we couldn't work so... practically speaking it just wasn't possible. We also drank and ate like dog shit. So, again, we weren't going to be lean. I have no doubt she really believed it. But, hey, we still had fun working out together.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 10:44 PM
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Let's talk about the two real problems with therapy: Finding a therapist that suits you is fucking tough. Not Christians but live in the Bible Belt? Risky to be honest with them. Into kinky stuffs? Can't be honest with them about it. To find a therapist that's right for you is time consuming. In the mean time the wrong therapist can make things actively worse. Expensive. Therapy is super expensive, even with insurance. love to make fun of "gym bros" Actual masculine men are a threat to their "me…
/r/MensRights06/12/22 01:18 PM
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/r/MensRights06/12/22 10:22 AM
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If a woman was violently beating a man, no one helps. We've seen the studies done over and over. What's weird is feminists are ok with the implication of it - the implication being "men can handle it, women can't" and "men are strong, women are weaker". It's.. just weird. Look at the show Letterkenny that frequently tries to be progressive. Katy hits Wayne and he jokingly says "now if you hit me and I ever find out about it". The implication there being she's so weak he can't even notice. Among …
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:07 AM
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It's about identity. Pick a thing someone is extremely passionate about - religion or polities, to use something very not related. Attack it and you'll find people will react as though you are attacking them personally. Does me hating on ISIS mean I am Islamaphobic? The interesting thing is if you point out a statistics where Islam is statistically more dangerous than something else -- you will very much find people assuming you hate Islam and are, therefore, Islamaphobic - facts and data be dam…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:00 PM
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It's not just the court case though. Anyone who ever Google's his name will have to wonder if he "really" did it. That lie will haunt him forever. If your career is anything public - everything you ever worked for is ruined based off of a lie. What we should take from this are the feminists who don't say "this is not right". You'll find most of the #BelieveHer and #MeToo view people like this as acceptable collateral damage. When it's their own friends or family they often shut up but never apol…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 04:19 AM
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Yes. There are things that happened prior to that event that caused his decisions that night. Things that happened over the course of months and police failures.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 04:14 AM
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What's happening in reality is many top level men aren't comfortable being alone with top level women. This makes business meetings and such much more difficult on women because of women like that. Now instead of a casual lunch talk - it's a full entourage - which is much more time consuming and difficult. I called it when #MeToo first happened and have seen it begun to get worse ever sense. "How much I can't get a lunch meeting too?" - "Because I don't want to be alone with you to prevent any p…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:34 PM
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On mobile so I’ll post this instead: https://reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/fsvgon/_/fm4qtxt/?context=1
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:59 AM
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On mobile so I’ll post this instead: https://reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/fsvgon/_/fm4qtxt/?context=1
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:59 AM
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There absolutely have been cases exactly like that. They refused to believe those are real.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 11:47 PM
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Liked the content of that but that dude talks WAY too slow. He could have just written an article and placed a few images and boom, 10 minutes downsized to 2.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:46 PM
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You get that rich by doing things like this regularly. Taking advantage of everything you can.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:39 PM
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It's sad. When women say "my body, my choice" and I say "my wallet, my money" they get nine kinds of butt hurt. "You should have worn a condom!" is all of a sudden an "acceptable response". Funny how it wasn't acceptable when it comes to abortion though, huh? I still run across people who don't believe a mid 30's women who gets pregnant from a 13 year old boy isn't somehow both a pedo and disgusting for demanding child support from said 13 year old. They think shit like that never happens. I'm n…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 07:13 PM
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The sad thing here is there's practically no reason for child support at all for someone that wealthy. The child is going to already do very well and already has access to the best money can buy. The 200k monthly is purely a money grab and nothing more. The child doesn't benefit in any way.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 07:10 PM
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You laugh but that's honestly what they believe. Which is funny when you think about it. "The patriarchy thinks women need help and are inferior!" - funny how you don't decline that help when it directly benefits you though, huh? Funny how you never complain about situations like this, huh? You want equality, right? (wait! Not like that!) Everyone, in every group, is usually afforded some sort of privilege. This means them, personally, as well as their groups. Sex, race, profession, vehicle pref…
/r/MensRights21/10/22 06:44 PM
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It's not normal to take a permanent avenue for a temporary issue History disagrees with you. It happens fairly regularly with those discriminated against. What I think you meant to say was: You shouldn't have to take a permanent avenue for a temporary issue.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 01:26 PM
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Many, MANY, do not understand basic Rediquette. For example - this should have been an upvote of the post and not particularly relevant to any discussions. Comment voting is supposed to be "up if it contributes to the conversation, down if it doesn't" but now it's mean to be "agree" or "disagree". The moderators of the 'news' subreddit are of the list of people who have never heard of Rediquette before. I wish I were joking.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:05 AM
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My personal rule is if you replace the sex/gender with a different sex/gender and it sounds like hate speech then it probably is. So if we flip that sentence from: "Fuck men" to anything else: "Fuck black people" or "Fuck women" or perhaps or "Fuck transwomen" Then does it sound like hate speech? Yes, yes it does. I did this to my sister once and she flipped her shit saying "that's different". I said it absolutely is different - you're allowed to hate white people and men. That's the difference.…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 01:57 AM
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I'll care about women when women care about men. Seems fair to me. I was in another thread earlier today where a feminist said men should wear condoms if they don't want to pay child support. That's not unfair as long as abortion is illegal. If men don't get a choice then neither should women. Women can also 'just' require a condom too. Of course women can also stop being pedophiles and demanding child support from teenagers but that won't change in my life time probably.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 01:52 AM
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It's just classic bullying. Nothing more, nothing less. Those kinds of people often have trauma they choose to not address.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:47 PM
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If you don’t want kids wear a condom Hm, if you were a feminist I wasn't aware you were against abortion too and in favor of protection? Seems odd of your kind.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:44 PM
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So it would’ve been nice for him to say how many kids he impregnated this woman with Let's rephrase that. How many kids she specifically chose not to abort. The decision was 100% all on her.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:34 PM
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$22'ish an hour. Had $150'ish after taxes and child support. I'll let you do the math on that one.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:33 PM
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I mean I was literally told that if I can't afford my medications while paying child support that I just might as well die because there's nothing that can be done about it. So the kid being fatherless and the mother getting zero dollars is 'better' for "the system" than... having a reasonable child support. And this, alone, is why I'm for abortion only if men are allowed to not be financially responsible too. Sole choice, sole responsibility. Sole choice but mandated shared responsibility is pu…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:31 PM
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When people run out of argument, logic goes out the window and emotion dominates their mind. The thing is they view equality as a threat to them. That, alone, should tell you everything you need to know about their views. They honestly, and sincerely, think they have zero privileges. When you begin to enumerate their privileges they get defensive and feel threatened. Often that is when they start throwing hostile words around and lose their minds. They cannot or will not accept the reality. This…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:40 PM
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You'd be surprised how many women learn about tubal ligation reversal... and when they are told "ok, as long as women do something similar" all of a sudden they do a 180 and talk about "fairness". That's the funny thing. They don't want equality.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 01:58 AM
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How can you compare women being forced to grow a human being inside of them, irreparably changing their bodies with men not being able to say yes or no to that? Oh no! How terrible it must be to not have any say in the matter. Feminism, almost entirely, has fought tooth and nail against men being able to have a say in any aspect of it, including financial. They are misandrist pure and simple. Now the playing fields are equal they want to cry foul? I agree that men should be able to cut ties and …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 10:58 PM
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Truth be told, I was always reasonable. Give the man the financial option to bail and let the woman abort. They didn't want equality on such terms. Now they cry? It's misandry at their core. Few of them have never witness family court. It's always "I didn't know" when it hits them, like the right-wingers for COVID. They plead ignorance. Every. Single. Time.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:54 PM
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It's quite funny. Back when it was Clinton versus Trump I was told if I didn't 100% agree with Democrats then to fuck off and vote Trump. They specifically pushed me away because they "didn't need me" or "want to be associated with me". Now they want to cry about the results of their own echo chamber? Good luck. They aren't for equality. They never were. When it's actual equality on the line, they throw their tantrums like children. Now things are actually fair. Women and men don't get a choice …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:41 PM
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Edit: ... but that should not be a roadblock to supporting Women’s Reproductive Rights. Historically speaking the same group you want to support has never supported the men's right groups. Instead they mock them. So no. This is akin to helping a bully that has not and will not ever help you. Let them sink on their own until they've learned their lesson. Afterall, this could all be handled at once pretty easily. So no. They had their chance to earn my support. They didn't want it. Now they do? We…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 09:42 PM
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When I said "as long as we can talk about my right not to be a father, then we're on the same page" to which they said "you shouldn't have gotten her pregnant then" ok, well, I'm out. I'm neither for nor against abortion. I just won't participate. The overwhelming majority want women to have the sole choice but not sole responsibility. In that case, if they don't want it to be fair then I don't care to be involved in it. Not my pig, not my farm. Good luck though.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 03:59 PM
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People, in general, who aren’t shown affection or attention like cat calling and things of the like. This group of people are usually unattractive or overweight or otherwise denied regular attention.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 07:00 PM
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I sincerely doubt any proof would change you opinion.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 06:56 PM
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I have seriously triggered people with my opinion on this. "If she can say no, then I can say no to my wallet". Literally every argument they have is the same pro-life argument so I use the same pro-choice arguments. It always ends with them throwing a tantrum. They want sole choice but shared responsibility.
/r/MensRights06/05/22 01:44 PM
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What's sad is we have a local women-only business. If you were to reverse basically anything they did or said - it'd be sexism to the utmost extreme. This is how you know it isn't about equality. That particular local business is always involved in stupid lawsuits and they are always backstabbing each other. They have a particular reputation and many places avoid them like the plague. But they claim it's because they are female led (and only employ women).. totally can't be because they are a ba…
/r/MensRights03/04/22 02:42 AM
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Fewer men in leadership roles are willing to even entertain the idea of a lunch meeting with a woman by themselves like they would with men which inherently means female led businesses get fucked. Modern feminists were not capable of thinking their actions through. Inevitably they are going to segregate groups with fear (sounds almost like non-violent terrorism, doesn't it?) because blind accusations are simply impossible to dispel once they land on the Internet. I was in another thread a while …
/r/MensRights02/04/22 07:13 PM
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Personally - being proud of anything you didn't EARN is weird and should be discouraged. "I'm proud to be a woman!" - but... why? Rising above something? Implying men don't? Proud to be black? As though hispanics aren't? Proud to be gay? because... why again? Proud you earned your CCNP? Well done! You tried and did something!
/r/MensRights20/03/22 04:49 PM
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My sister is one of them. She'll repost things on Facebook indicating as such. It's funny when I then point out "ok, since women were the default in courts for child care, we should do men too, right? Fair is fair." "Well that's different!" -- ohhhh. You mean different as in you realize you have a privilege men don't have, huh? And you don't want to take away from the status quo? So you're not for equality afterall? Or for the "repay" attitude when it comes to you doing it? Or, and this triggers…
/r/MensRights10/03/22 05:37 AM
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Ehhh, that's just plain not true depending on how you define sex. There are, clearly, more than two genders. Sex is do you have a dick or a pussy. Gender is how do you FEEL. Gender is clearly up to the person otherwise we wouldn't have shemale porn and such. Sex is.. more difficult. Men can have birthing hips, which are overwhelmingly female. Women can have an adams apple is are overwhelmingly male. Females don't have dicks. Men don't have pussies. Both can produce milk through their nipples. So…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 09:13 PM
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but she clearly acts with 'us and them' mentality. This is called being 'combative'. Use that word specifically. It has political value in those discussions in the same way "good faith" and "bad faith" has.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 04:02 PM
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While you're not wrong -- politically it can be quite the weapon in those environments and can cost people their jobs. In the real world, you'd be right. In the collegiate world? It's all about being what the perceived version of political correctness is. And let me tell you "don't feel safe" is a hell of a phrase if you can back it up with anything. Like, say, "My grades were great up until this one assignment and since then the teacher has been so combative with me I don't feel safe anymore" -…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 03:59 PM
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Things must have changed a lot since then, which I think is very sad. A lot has changed. Like a lot lot. San Marcos, if I recall, had a poster that said "it's ok to be white" and the racist shit storm that flew up was bonkers. It became extremely clear that several movements were actually also anti-white movements. They weren't about equality. I have little doubt feminism and the "gender studies" stuff is similar now. they have their own narrative they like to hear. They do not like being challe…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 03:55 PM
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don't understand why you're downvoted. I never really care about comment vote values anymore. I've learned it's subject to the emotional whims and echo chambers that create the subreddits. If you go to r/news and heaven forbid you aren't loyal to Democrats, for example, then you may find yourself downvoted into oblivion or banned because a mod got their feelings hurt which happens more often than you may think in various subreddits. I also think a lot of people here aren't prepared to address th…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 03:44 AM
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Eh, I suspect most people here have been traumatized by society or women due to experiences they aren't allowed to address openly and honestly. You think about "men's rights" until you realize something is off balance and you probably won't ed up here unless you got fucked or are a feminist who feel threatened by men and therefor feel like you have to go on the offensive first. Modern feminism attacks men who expose issues in equality that interfere with women. So you end up with people reacting…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 01:14 AM
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I mean look at Johnny Depp. Even WITH evidence there are people who went from "he's totally guilty" to "well there's always two sides". Funny how it's never the opposite and even less funny how people are compelled to have an opinion on something that doesn't directly matter to them.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 10:59 PM
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It is but if he turns her in - she can make up, literally, any lie and guess who they will believe?
/r/MensRights01/03/22 05:09 PM
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Want to know something here? I have no reason to believe you. Now here's the kicker, and this is important. I don't know you. You don't know me. The fact I have chosen to have on dog in this fight should mean nothing to do. Even if, literally, everyone single person here called you a liar (or believed you) means NOTHING to the impact of a thing that may or may not have happened. This is why it's moronic to choose a side without evidence. Also, I was in therapy because I was sexually abused. So f…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 09:15 PM
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I don't think you understand what the word "support" means but I can play your childish game. If you voted for Clinton or Trump then you "support" every single terrible thing they've ever said or done. Ergo, what the fuck is wrong with you? That logic just doesn't pan out. And if your friend SAs someone I sure as hell hope you leave them. English may not be your first language or you may still be young enough to just now be learning reading comprehension but... if you, and I mean you personally,…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 05:16 PM
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What's pathetic here is this runs counter to their claim "men and women are equal". Specifically the implication here is "men can hold their liquor and women can't, so they need help" but when you say it like that.. they get upset. And this is the problem with modern feminism. Logic isn't allowed. Lately, I tend to go heavily out of my way to point out things like this. "Oh? You need help? So you're saying men in the same positions don't need help so.. men are strong or better at handling this t…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 03:30 PM
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Second wave feminism, if memory serves, was the last honest movement. Then it died down for around a decade? What happens when a movement reaches it goals? It makes up new shit to play victim and keep going. People's identity were wrapped up in it and they needed that as a part of their life. They felt a void they couldn't emotionally handle.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 03:47 AM
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The narrative has always been and always will be, that sex is something men do to women. Not something they do together. Look at college campuses and how they view alcohol and rape. Drunk man and woman? Only the man can rape yet, legally, neither can consent.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 03:45 AM
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What's really happened here is society normalized misandry and is openly hostile when called out on such things. When you mix that in with the left and right-wing anti-intellectualism and the "I'm right, you're wrong, and you're a bad person because you just don't get it" attitude - it becomes clear just how fragile their belief is. In the context of your particular discussion you'll find that basically nearly every single conservative argument against abortion can be applied to their very own l…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 03:44 AM
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Man did I trigger a LOT of my left-wing friends when I told them I'm not voting for her because she's sexist and with this comment of hers they tried to justify it. Yet when there's a single dad they don't get the same sympathy. That's called misandry and they don't see that they are the very thing they claim to be against, presuming they are for equality.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 04:13 PM
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You laugh but this is the premise behind #BelieveHer or whatever it was.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 11:38 PM
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People lie. News at 5. Look at Johnny drop and his situation and the sexist anti male people
/r/MensRights16/02/22 02:51 AM
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I know of at least two chicks that have lied about rape and domestic violence. Sorry buddy, without evidence I’m not inclined to pick a side as quickly as you are. But you’re gullible and emotional so… par for the course
/r/MensRights16/02/22 02:43 AM
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To be clear , if a man is accused and exonerated, is his information kept? Or never used again?
/r/MensRights16/02/22 02:42 AM
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Eh - the truth is that's probably the only area in their life that have power to say how they really feel. They are, likely, too scared to do much in real life. The people who act the toughest on the Internet are, often, very weak. Although this is usually for people who act tough all the time as opposed to being passionate about specific topics. The bad part here is you'll find nearly most people in that thread are intellectual incapable of having real dialog on the topic - even if they disagre…
/r/MensRights12/02/22 06:29 PM
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Much of society is not looking for honest discourse. For many simple paragraphs are too much to read -- which is why Redditors often just grazing headlines. It's why you can't expect a conversation from far-left or far-right people. Incel, mysogony, gas lighting, and more are words I usually write people off the second I hear them. It's extremely rare I hear it used correctly. Far too often they use them in anger and just pick 'big' sounded words instead of a sound argument.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 06:13 PM
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No. If that's too much to read then ah well. I won't recommend books either.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 06:06 PM
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The problem with America's race to the bottom is every group thinks allowing someone else to voice their troubles means taking away from their own. Many angry women here, extremely often, got fucked over by men in similar'ish ways we got fucked over by women. It's important to acknowledge their animosity is due to trauma and a lack of therapy. What's frustrating about this is they have WAY more legal, social, and personal assistance in such regards than men. I was just talking to my wife about e…
/r/MensRights11/02/22 08:53 PM
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Yes there is. I work IT. I've implemented these systems. There absolutely can be anonymous reports. It's no guarantee -- but every one I implemented was anonymous. To the person below -- we do track whether or not people submit survey's, that's simple enough to do while allowing anonymity. Again, that's not to say all are like but the ones I implemented were actually anonymous. Then again I worked with management willing to change and listen so...
/r/MensRights29/01/22 12:34 AM
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I see, so you’re not advocating for letting the other side redefine things entirely, but rather for trying to come to a set of mutually acceptable terms first. Makes sense. Yes, this is exactly it. We have to be specific if we care to communicate properly. Being dramatic is a fast way to get written off as well -- which is often used with words like racism or sexism (or in another thread I'm in, gaslighting -- another word very often wrongly used by people who don't know what it means or even wh…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:29 PM
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Hard disagree here. The very meaning of it is you trust the person telling you lies. If you don't trust them then the meaning of it has changed. I know people are trying very hard to change the meaning so things sound more dramatic -- it's a very common tactic to make things bigger than they are. In this cased there is no way they can make you question your sanity unless you inherently trust them deeply. There is nothing in their response that is even close to gaslighting. They are simply making…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:21 PM
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One of the requirements of gaslighting is you have to have a deep trust of that person to allow them to screw with your reality. This is why the term was created. He would mess with the gaslights, she would ask if he saw it, he would say no. She trusted him. She questioned what she was seeing. Unless you trusted this person, which I don't think you did, I don't see how it's gaslighting.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:54 AM
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That's.. not what gaslighting means though. I mean that mod is a giant cunt who probably just hates men... but.. that's not what gaslighting means.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:35 AM
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You never know who you can trust until something like this. Yeah, I'm sorry you're going through this. Part of the reason I try to be silly and make everyone laugh around me all the time is because I don't want them to know the pain I've known and I want them to be a brighter person than I am. When I die, which is hopefully sooner rather than later but whatcha gonna do, I want people to be a bit happier knowing me.. or smarter. I've known many forms of pain. Humor is the only tool I have to cope…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 11:47 PM
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I'm at a hotel so I lack the ability to respond in full, so I'll have to make another comment tomorrow afternoon but I'm glad you mentioned racism. There are two meanings -- one is the normal "group of people bad for no practical reason at all" an the other is the formal college modern definition of "people with authority are the only ones who can be racist" (I wish I were joking but this is a thing). So before you begin a conversation on racism - you both have to come to an agreement on meaning…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 11:44 PM
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Do you see any way to improve the discussion? On the whole? Not until society changes how it handles politics - which is really to say how society addressed difficult and uncomfortable topics. In individual, in person, conversations - you have to take this nice and slow. Find a starting point - specifically make sure you agree on definitions of what you're talking about first. "Feminism" - how do you define that? How do they define that? You have to make sure you're prepared to speak their langu…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 03:19 PM
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A lot of feminist writers are insanely-extremely-quintessentially batshit crazy, yet their writings are revered by the feminists. Why? A lot of things revolve around confirmation bias. There's a particular statistics, I can't recall which one, that was pulled from a chicks ass in the 80's -- I want to say the wage gap? -- but anyways, the number was pulled from her ass and had zero backing in anything formally. People ate it up like it was gospel because those people experienced hardships and pr…
/r/MensRights23/01/22 07:17 PM
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because breast cancer kills women every day This is is a tactic for them to play as though they 'have it worse'. This is a form of "whataboutism" and is meant to take the umph from your argument to bring you back to thinking women have it worse. A lot of support groups, free physical therapy, therapy for cancer patients, all that come to find is only accessible to women. People, like my sister, think women have fewer resources yet when I point how many many she has direct access to and then ask …
/r/MensRights23/01/22 04:36 PM
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3 months ago and you still think about me in such a way. You are what I've come to expect from feminists. Still cute how you think dinner and ironing is so difficult though. I can't help but wonder how hard you think your life really is relative to others. I do, sincerely, hope you get therapy for the animosity you have within you. Good luck!
/r/MensRights13/01/22 11:23 PM
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Two reasons. Unrecognized misandry (they also tend to claim misandry can't or doesn't exist). They are mentally incapable of having that conversation for one reason or another. My sister, for example, thinks I'm anti-feminism. I'm not. I simply think it's full of shit. When they say they want equality but won't address men's issues then tell men to join a MRA if they want that kind of change then make fun of that fun for being an MRA... that's a problem. A problem she is mentally incapable of se…
/r/MensRights18/11/21 04:20 PM
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Aww did you have a hard day at work? Was your boss mean to you? Now remember, you can't get fired, the entire family is reliant on you so suck it up buttercup.
/r/MensRights14/10/21 01:44 PM
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Sure we stay home, cook, clean, and women ask men out and pay for drinks and dates. Or did you forget about those?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 12:51 PM
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To be pedantic here, true quality is everyone signs up. Reparations is when the first 80 years only women sign up.
/r/MensRights09/10/21 02:33 AM
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I've actually thought of writing a personal "ban list" of subeditors of toxicity or subs that otherwise aren't bad but have mods that can't handle criticism.
/r/MensRights03/10/21 08:05 PM
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For a hot minute I did a thing where I took quotes and flipped the race/gender/whatever and had friends pick which one was actually said. The results weren't surprising. If you were white or male, they assumed you were racist and sexist. Anything else? Well it's just "missing context". By just swapping words. I seem to recall someone else pulling a similar stunt on 2X and found out just how hateful the people there were towards men. People, like my sister and mother, fall into these groups becau…
/r/MensRights03/10/21 08:04 PM
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You will be very hard pressed to find any reasonable amount of people who fine 6 weeks "absolutely reasonable" that is backed by any (real) science. The problem here is heart beats are no indicator of life. I should know, I've had OPEN HEART SURGERY and I'm alive right now. I have a defibrillator in me too now. Brain activity is a better bet. But a better answer to this is averaging out the statistics on when most women find out and then add two weeks (for a paycheck). But I'm fuckin' weird. I a…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:25 PM
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It's funny. I know a female ran business that hires nothing but women (how that isn't illegal and sexist as fuck is beyond me). Anyways, they think they are above men in almost every way. Trouble is... they can't ever manage to pay their bills on time, have hired lawyers to represent each other during arguments (I wish I were joking). And, all in all, just barely manage to break even every quarter in a very lucrative field. These women also think more women should run everything. As in fire all …
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:06 PM
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I've always wondered why when women say "my body my choice" men don't respond with "my wallet my choice". If women won't sole decision then they should also have sole responsibility. Saying they want sole decision making but shared responsibility is sexism at its finest. If the roles were reversed, feminism would lose its shit.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 10:27 PM
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As someone from Texas, I'd say fairly often but not 50/50. Although my sister found that in NYC women take a very strange hostile approach to things like that and "thank you" and "mam". The women of those areas are just... weird.
/r/MensRights03/10/20 08:22 PM
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My wife just did something similar. Our anniversary came up. She wanted to get out of the house so we ventured to a hotel a few cities away and chilled and had various fun. A week later she's telling her mom I "forgot" our anniversary since we've moved on from gifts. I'm like we seriously just dropped $1k on 'going out' and you want... more? We're breaking even this paycheck... the answer is no. We can't afford anymore. There were some things I would have liked to have gotten to we discussed but…
/r/MensRights18/06/20 02:33 PM
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I'm a c-hair away from making a parody account and swapping race/genders to show people how anti-white or anti-male they are. Or anti-whatever they are.
/r/MensRights24/05/20 10:36 PM
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This is good. One of the reason many men are bitter, after being screwed, is they have so few resources and support lines to help get over the problem. Women have a TON of resources, friends, options for financial worries, shelters JUST for women, etc. So they have all this these healthy options and then, years later, go "gee, why are those men so bitter still?" -- well, Karen, some don't have the help you had. This is called a "traumatic experience". So they either think a.) men are better than…
/r/MensRights25/04/20 12:32 PM
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Looks like what happened to a friend of mine. It's ridiculously difficult for men to get custody like that. It's even more bonkers when the judge gives full custody and only supervised visits. I stopped being friends with his wife after she went looney tunes. Great partier and all that but once it all went down, she just.. lost control of herself. This is Texas. For a judge to go that far -- she must have done way more than I was told because holy shit. My cousin is one of those that lost, and d…
/r/MensRights18/04/20 02:55 PM
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I'm one of those "leftists, socialist, liberals". I do not read the guardian however I'm aware that Facebook and Reddit have MANY popular subs where it gets posted and upvoted. To be fair, there arne't many non-biased news sources out there. It's FAR easier to call them out on their bullshit than it is to find legit articles. And that's... sad.
/r/MensRights17/04/20 04:58 PM
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We're in a very odd place. We're seeing men who won't have lunch meetings with women for fear of false accusations. We're seeing women want a "woman only" car in a train or other transportation services. So basically everyone is scared of each other. Isn't that great.
/r/MensRights21/02/20 12:36 AM
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Yeah, and I was just talking to someone who is anti-men's rights apparently and, clearly, they follow the mindset like the person above. Strange people in this world. Strange.
/r/MensRights20/02/20 11:30 PM
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Because it's future ammunition. They can't say their movement is about equality and they fight for everyone's rights. They have schrodingers position where they say MRA's are needed because feminism is about equality for all (including men) while also ignoring men's actual problems. So when they say "why aren't men caring about A" -- we can turn around and say "because you don't care about our problems, why should we help you focus on yours?" The point is to get them to admit that each group is …
/r/MensRights08/02/20 12:56 AM
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He's also weirdly obsessed with AOCs feet. Unrelated to any rights but... I've learned there are two kinds of people. People who love feet. And people who really aren't fond of them. O_o
/r/MensRights22/01/20 04:42 PM
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Challenge != antagonize. If I simply call you a racist and a sexist, as an example, and then claim being impartial -- that's not challenging someone. That's antagonizing them.
/r/MensRights22/01/20 04:40 PM
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If your opponent gets tripped up or is less informed than you are, you'll most likely win against them. That's all. I mean... sounds like he's smarter than thing and more skilled. "All" you have to do is put someone up more informed which... doesn't happen. This is how Ben Shapiro debates. He floods the conversation with information, some true, some half true. If the opponent can't keep up, that's it. An informed opponent should be able to easily shoot down the half true stuff and bring up true …
/r/MensRights22/01/20 04:39 PM
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How is that even allowed on Reddit? Is not that no different than a hate sub?
/r/MensRights08/01/20 04:01 AM
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It's a strange thing. When a woman is thrown into a man's world of leadership -- then do tend to do amazingly well. If you look at Queen Elizabeth, for instance, she picked up and did really well. She followed policies set by man and made intelligent decisions. She was not sexist. However, when a woman is in a business with other women and makes it a "woman's world" -- it usually goes up in flames and pettiness. The stuff I've seen women do to each other is... insane. These people, however, are …
/r/MensRights18/12/19 03:16 PM
3

I think you're arguing a different point though. Similar to.mens nipples and women's nipples.
/r/MensRights26/11/19 03:32 AM
341

The thing about White Knights / SJW's is they want to solve social injustice with... more social injustice and refuse to see why that's a problem. They think they'll "fix it" or "show them something..." and, in fact, sound exactly like that which they hate so much.
/r/MensRights31/10/19 04:06 PM
27

Related: For CCW folks, this is something you have to consider. You never know the full context of a situation.
/r/MensRights31/10/19 04:05 PM
1

Help me out, someone. Which "male privilege" is this one?
/r/MensRights17/10/19 12:07 AM
3

This is why I don't like making short responses. There's almost always someone who doesn't connect the dots correctly. Having sex and drinking alcohol are legal. Both of them. Having sex and drunk driving wasn't the correct parallels. You can have sex and you can drink alcohol. However, if you drive drunk, even if you were, as you say, asking/begging/coering/taking advantage -- YOU are still responsible for driving. You are too drunk. No matter how desperate your friends are or beg -- you are to…
/r/MensRights17/09/19 10:51 PM
28

And yet, if there were, you'd still be responsible for your actions if you were drunk -- would you not?
/r/MensRights17/09/19 05:28 PM
1

No thanks. It's on her Fetlife profile and it'd violate a huge amount of trust in our group. I'd rather be called a liar here than found out IRL in my group. Anyways, search for "consent as a felt sense" and you'll pop up various things then search for "consent is inadequate metric".
/r/MensRights16/09/19 02:04 AM
22

Yes. I know one of them IRL. They believe in consent as a "felt sense". Did you "feel" it was consent afterwards? If no, then it was rape. She wasn't joking. She describes herself as a hostile take over the world feminist. There's a reason I never stuck my dick in her. She's fucking crazy. If you, or your SO, are traditional in any way she can't wrap her head around that and all but loses her shit. The feminists have basically jumped on board the crazy train and are riding it hard. Worse yet, I'…
/r/MensRights15/09/19 02:58 PM
1

Ok, stupid question, why do some call MRA's alt-right? Is there a branch of mens-rights that's openly as hostile as the extreme feminsits?
/r/MensRights05/08/19 07:04 PM
6

You'd like to think that but it's edging bits and pieces away is the goal. The goal is to remove small things and grow to bigger things.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 05:47 AM
1

This smells like reverse brigading and the admins should get banned for that and any attempt to get around said ban (e.g. make new admin account) should result in a shadowban.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/19 12:43 AM
1

Where's the chair for her to lay her purse down?
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 07:59 PM
15

I had a close friend say that. Misandry can't exist, he said, because women aren't in power. Ok, so since I'm not in power I can't be racist or sexist in any way. Good to know! Oh.. somehow I'm a white male means I'm "in power". I'd like the money from this power but... it never seems to materialize. So when people say "those are just tumblr idiots trolling people" -- I know for certain it's not just them. These people really exist IRL. One of my other friends, hardcore extreme feminist but more…
/r/MensRights10/07/19 03:57 PM
1

Jesus Christ you guys need to calm down. I’m merely explaining why a lot of people do it. So their kids aren’t laughed it. If you want to fix the problem then ban it and it’ll fix itself in time
/r/MensRights07/07/19 06:56 PM
-2

And if most of China was like that, you'd be hard pressed to find people wanting to go against the grain. Similar to my parents wishing I was straight only to avoid the drama that gay people go through -- but they have nothing against gay people. It's just that gay people will lead a harder life.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 03:37 PM
-4

The aesthetic argument is the dumbest reason in a sea of dumb reasons. No, it's not, it's about consistency and people being comfortable with that. You can be comfortable with whatever but to act like you can control the rest of society with "that's just dumb" is naive.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 03:35 PM
-16

Uncut looks weird. You'll be better off having it legally banned and forcing change than giving people the option of being "weird". Literally that's the only reason I got cut when I was a baby. My parents decided that they'd rather me grow up what society views as normal here because the grief one can get for it isn't insignificant in high school / gym.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 03:27 AM
14

That's the problem. Is feminists tend to think men have every single advantage ever and absolutely zero disadvantages. Then the reality crashes on them that they are wrong and they can't back peddle fast enough. My sister is among those in that group. When she realizes that her looks get her a lot of free stuff and a lot of privilege I'll never have, she goes into denial.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 03:23 AM
13

Is that like the 911 audio of Zimmerman that we later found out was edited to sound racial?
/r/MensRights06/07/19 02:13 PM
1

Hell it's almost the exact same as women but women don't care to look. Go to a mall. See those sexy women in lingerie? Yeah, look across at, say, Dillards and you'll see a man in nothing but underwear. Six pack and buff. Grass isn't always greener. Feminism is the best example of them failing to grasp that.
/r/MensRights11/06/19 10:58 PM
3

I disagree. Let's assume that the law viewed everyone as equals in every (reasonable) way. Men would get custody more often. Women would pay child support more often. There would be fewer scholarships aimed at sex or race (e.g. the big push for females to get into STEM). But that's the thing. Equality means equality and means admitting you have a one up in one way or another -- and giving that up in favor of equality. Everyone has a leg up in some way or another. Equality means giving that up in…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:59 PM
1

*Either* it's for equality *or* it's for women's rights. It can't be both. If you want to go further, you need to add that equality also means inheriting the troubles from the other spectrum.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 02:20 AM
3

You're not wrong but if someone walks into a dangerous situation and then something dangerous happens you have to wonder... are they a fuckin' idiot or what. Further, if someone goes to a party knowing full well there are drugs but because they are female it's free... surely they have to know they're going to be pushed to put out. Similar to a guy buying a chick a drink at a bar and she gets bothered that he wants a conversation that's just silly.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 11:05 PM
1

Absolutely, my friend
/r/MensRights26/04/19 10:10 PM
3

My sister who is very anti-male will argue with me on this and if I'm feeling particularly bitchy I'll tell her "men *are* tougher because the support system for men is non-existent compared to women, in fact, tell me 3 places men can go to for help that you're aware of, such as battered men or men who are running away from abusive wives".
/r/MensRights23/04/19 03:13 PM
1

Because the running problem is awareness versus how widespread it is. If you look at the pie of diseases and look at the pie of donated money -- it's horribly skewed. The question you must ask yourself is: Do you want to save more people --or-- feel good about yourself?
/r/MensRights13/04/19 03:38 PM
1

I've tried to point this out before. "So if men aren't supposed to approach you, then how do you meet them?" -- "I meet them if I want to meet them" and then later "UGH HOW AM I STILL SINGLE?!" primarily because they are so hostile. What they really want is only attractive men to approach them when they, themselves, don't bring anything to the table of interest.
/r/MensRights10/04/19 03:14 PM
1

I have I heavily overweight female friend (friend is a strong word) who is hyper feminist nuts. She's the kind that if you look at her for too long she thinks you're plotting her rape. I'm like "honey, you aren't attractive enough for that... they're probably just thinking about how fat you are" because she's disgusting fat. As in has fat sores and piercings in various places. She's the kind of female that does things for attention and then whines about getting attention. The kind that thinks yo…
/r/MensRights10/04/19 03:13 PM
27

If they rape a young boy, he was asking for it. Worse yet -- they use this as an excuse because "that's what men tell women". So they are turning exactly into the people they hate the most and refusing to believe it.
/r/MensRights01/04/19 01:38 PM
1

(Note; I haven't spent time in jail but *almost* got legally royally fucked) this is a sensitive topic and if you got a really bad trauma about it, it just ignore my question. People who are triggered will probably passionately and angrily respond until they've learned to get over their issues. By "get over" I mean learn to remain calm. It's likely you're never fully over it. Kind of like your first breakup or your first dog being put down. You'll never forget it but there will come a time where…
/r/MensRights25/03/19 04:34 PM
-19

Let me prefix this with I disagree with circumcision. That being said -- I think uncut is just.. weird looking. My wife refuses to date or play with uncut guys because it's just too bizarre. We totally understand uncut it the natural way but relative to what our brains have been trained to believe is "normal" -- uncut is just... weird. My mother had my cut because she specifically didn't want me to look different. No other reason. So in that context, relative to school, being the norm is better …
/r/MensRights27/02/19 06:23 AM
22

Yup, and I'll bet you she'll be the first to wonder where are all the "nice guys" while simultaneously bashing said nice guys and wondering why only assholes are willing to date her. Hint: Because nice guys won't put up that with that and the ones that willing to want you to put out. Instead those women want to use "nice guys" as a therapist.
/r/MensRights27/02/19 05:49 AM
34

"Mansplaining" is moronic and childish. The problem is communicating with people isn't trivial when you're trying to educate them. As someone whose worked in IT for forever -- it's impossible to know if someone is tech savy or tech retarded or somewhere in the middle. You'd like to think it's easier to talk retarded and let them tell you they get it but that's not true. They'll either get offended or wish to know well beyond their intellectual capacity or their time. I once had a user who didn't…
/r/MensRights26/02/19 04:26 PM
5

Honestly I think Clinton's campaign that didn't focus enough on white men is what cost her the moderates and the election. She thought that if she got enough of the extreme's out and minorities and women that'd be enough... and it wasn't. Because, contrary to what Reddit showed you, Trump's actual live stuff wasn't nearly as bad as Reddit told you it was. I have extreme right people who actually went to see Trump and had pictures and video showing how the news mislead. It was at that point I kne…
/r/MensRights21/02/19 04:08 PM
4

As a step-dad few things annoy me more on Facebook than the "real fathers" and it's always, ALWAYS, shared by single mothers who "just can't seem to find a real man" I went to school with. "A REAL father doesn't have to be the biological sperm donor" -- yeah, we all know that. And you think that'll bait guys in? My wife never played the victim card. Also those are the same women who whine about "nice guys" and then always date alcoholics and whatnot. Gee, what do you expect?
/r/MensRights29/01/19 04:25 PM
29

I've mentioned this several times as the ultimate consequences of allowing women to get away with lying and wrongful accusations of rape. It's the only natural consequences. Person: If I can't do something about it then I might as well not place myself in positions where it can happen. Women: *pikachu face* Managers aren't going to want to hire them or be around them. Sales folks and CEO's won't want to be around them alone which will make it much harder for female startups to get off the ground…
/r/MensRights28/01/19 12:07 AM
2

I don't mind gender studies, on the whole. The problem is they turned anti-male and pro-female. Meaning any inequality men felt was dismissed. I think it's good to be aware of what's off balance between the genders and there's a lot of math and research in that so it's not something just anyone could do in a weekend. Gender discrepancies are complicated. I'm all for equality. But that also means women need to own up their privileges too. Few are aware of their privileges (e.g. family court) and …
/r/MensRights24/01/19 03:24 PM
1

So you've seen guys recording pranks doing that to women and posting them on Youtube and the women took it in stride and the men saw NO consequences on social media?
/r/MensRights23/01/19 02:09 AM
9

I've seen video's of things like this. One chick would walk into places and just grab every mans dick in there as a "prank". Men took it in stride and almost all of them were shocked frozen. Flip the genders and let's see how the "prank" goes.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 02:32 PM
60

These are anti-male "feminists". I use quotes because they claim to be feminists and want equality when in reality -- all they want is their anger pointed at men. These women need therapy, usually because of past trauma, but will never seek it. My sister is among those and I firmly believe she refuses therapy because without her anger and "feisty-ness" what will she become? I think that scares more than making people dislike or hate her or even costing her job. She'll never be happy because she'…
/r/MensRights16/01/19 05:08 PM
31

Your mistake was going into an echo chamber and expecting them to be willing to listen to different points of view. My personal experiences with r/feminism and r/TwoXChromosomes has been their are incredibly hateful of men but that's mostly because the people who frequent there were hurt by men. r/MensRights is the first place a male would go if they were hurt by a woman which is why we tend to earn that reputation. There's a recovery period after being hurt and anger is absolutely one of the st…
/r/MensRights12/01/19 04:17 PM
39

And here's the worst part about this: Modern feminism thinks people like him are *acceptable losses*!
/r/MensRights02/01/19 10:55 PM
1

I've had a heart attack and lived. Don't ever fucking tell me they kill people. I've been shocked by a wall outlet. Don't ever fucking tell me they are dangerous because I survived. I hate this polarized logic. It's lame and has no meat to it.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 02:46 PM
16

I think it's a fine line. Calling someone out and being a moron / asshole isn't, in and of itself, harassment or brigading. It's when you don't stop that it should cross a line. Otherwise anytime anyone hears something they don't like they'd just claim harassment. Going after someone that should have had their identity hidden. Wait, to be clear here, we're talking about a sub that doesn't want men's identity hidden until convicted because of his reputation but we want to keep this persons fake i…
/r/MensRights27/12/18 02:43 PM
9

what kind of xenophobic bullshit is that? Huh? You failed to grasp a common phrase in American English and you wonder why I thought you didn't understand? At this point I'm writing you off as a troll and nothing more.
/r/MensRights08/12/18 09:45 PM
2

And honestly, no it doesn’t take two. Kids can grow up just fine with one parent. So how do you make a baby without the other gender? Or perhaps English isn't your first language. The phrase that's commonly used is "it takes two to make a kid" implying it requires a male and female.
/r/MensRights08/12/18 07:34 PM
5

Still, it takes two, doesn't it? So two should share the decision. Or one should share the responsibility. I also never said anything about government mandating abortions. That's a whole other discussion. I'm talking about the power to make decisions and who shares the responsibility of that decision. Now-a-days the risk isn't near what is used to be. If men were taking massive health risks during the pregnancy it would be a different conversation. And if she had sole responsibility as well as s…
/r/MensRights08/12/18 07:21 PM
21

Yup. It's why when abortion comes up the conversation is really "women want sole decision but shared responsibility" -- they don't want equality which would be either "sole decision, sole responsibility" or "shared decision, shared responsibility". But I guarantee you, most -ism movements don't want the responsibilities. They just want the bonuses.
/r/MensRights08/12/18 04:25 PM
2

but I think part of the problem is that women have a tendency to chase after assholes There is a reason they demonize "nice guys". They chase assholes and their only justification for that is.. nice guys are not nice. None of them. Because they can't fathom that nice guys exist. Because they can't fathom that the guy they run to when they are emotionally distressed and listens to them and doesn't push is the guy they want. Then they fall to the other end, This is something many women don't think…
/r/MensRights07/12/18 12:52 AM
3

but I think part of the problem is that women have a tendency to chase after assholes There is a reason they demonize "nice guys". They chase assholes and their only justification for that is.. nice guys are not nice. None of them. Because they can't fathom that nice guys exist. Because they can't fathom that the guy they run to when they are emotionally distressed and listens to them and doesn't push is the guy they want. Then they fall to the other end, This is something many women don't think…
/r/MensRights07/12/18 12:52 AM
19

A lot of those I met it's more about revenge than it is about anything else. They feel wronged (whether real or not) and want the other "side" to suffer. This isn't about equality. To them this is vengeance. This is the group that likely needs therapy but, instead, holds onto their trauma (real or fake) like it's a hot coal thinking they'll throw it at somebody one day. My sister is one of those people. She'll admit she's angry, hateful, etc -- but won't admit that any of those are worth therapy…
/r/MensRights06/12/18 03:50 PM
0

Enough with the feminist hatred. I'm only ok with this if the particular topic is why it reduces men's rights specifically. In this case it's simply a no true scotsman fallacy and someone is wanting to stir up some jimmies with it. It's not productive.
/r/MensRights04/12/18 03:36 PM
2

Nearly all of those are many states away. Some are in states very far away. So it's easy to avoid them. But I think we'd do well to remember that sometimes people go through times where we, too, go through Tom Fuckery and if everyone judged us at our most angriest of times alone and the times we've been hurt the most we certainly wouldn't shine very well ourselves.
/r/MensRights04/12/18 03:27 PM
4

My sister has all but said it's a one-way street implying men have all the advantages and no man is raped. Her and I have gotten into some very heated discussions over this.
/r/MensRights04/12/18 03:25 PM
26

My sister is using a particularly traumatic event to hold onto her anger for well over two decades. Therapy is out of the question for her because "she's fine".
/r/MensRights04/12/18 04:14 AM
162

I had a lot of (female) friends get behind MeToo and then act like a guy looking at them creepy qualified as "rape". then when I explained another female friend of mine who owns her own business was having trouble having meetings with men during lunch because no one wanted to be alone with her of fear of accusations. My sister's response? "Good for her, men should be afraid!" -- uhhh it's going to cost her her business but ya know, so long as your jimmies are excited, right?
/r/MensRights04/12/18 02:10 AM
2

oh, my bad.
/r/MensRights28/11/18 11:09 PM
1

You.Are.Missing.The.Point. In no way are you protected. Even if you tell the Judge, "but, Your Honor, I saw her birth certificate! The bar saw her birth certificate! The bar said she's a regular and her parents validated her birth certificate!" -- and even if you can be shown on video checking her long form birth certificate, drivers license, and social security card -- you will still be convicted. That's the thing we're trying to communicate. You can be convicted and labelled a bad person even …
/r/MensRights28/11/18 09:00 PM
4

Always cover your own ass, because nobody else is going to. This is where you are mistaken. There is no way to cover your ass. Let me repeat that for you: There is no way to protect yourself. None. Zero. Zilch. Nada. Fake ID? Fake social security card? Parents lie? Friends lie? Bar lies? Cops lie? Doesn't matter. You, as an adult trying to do the morally right thing, have no way to protect yourself against someone that is underage and lying about it and looks of a reasonable age to be an adult. …
/r/MensRights27/11/18 10:51 PM
1

I saw this too. Read the asterisk at the bottom. How is this not sexist as fuck?
/r/MensRights27/11/18 05:28 PM
1

Not OP but I have "friends" like this in that they are a part of a larger group I'm with. It'd be silly to abandon your entire group because of one person. It'd be smarter to avoid them as much as possible and simply ignore what they say and not get baited in. If you're in charge of the group, it'd be smarter to boot them but that's risky too, depending on the group itself.
/r/MensRights27/11/18 05:16 PM
2

If it's the latter, I'd try to see her viewpoints and how they are either misconstrued or wrong entirely. No one here, or at least the vast minority, actually hate women because they have vaginas. At worst, at the very worst, I'd say the ones that "hate" women got bit by them. Kind of like the atheists that got bit by religion and "hate" religion (usually only to find their way back later). Similar here. When you get bit, it tends to make you quite the asshole or withdraw for a while. Regardless…
/r/MensRights27/11/18 05:00 PM
0

Most women I know prefer circumcised men because uncircumcised looks weird to them. That's really the main reason. Another side reason is a lot of guys don't clean it properly. I don't think it's inherently wrong to ask what people are comfortable with. Transitions like these are usually rough because we humans judge a lot on looks and comfort. The problem here is circumcised looks normal and uncircumcised doesn't. If we want to change people's opinions we need to alter what "normal" is and we h…
/r/MensRights26/11/18 06:15 PM
6

Honestly, this is one of the reasons I don't have (D) anymore. I'm not a Republican -- but the Democrats lost my vote. Now they have to do something they don't like doing: Earning my vote back.
/r/MensRights27/10/18 03:45 AM
2

I have a friend that thinks you can rape her with your eyes. She also thinks regret sex is, literally, the same as rape. I'm not joking. Her boyfriend is one of those "progressive" kinds that takes six adjectives to say "CIS white male" but they hate CIS men. I don't mean, dislike, I mean hate as in rudely get in your face. She believes in rape "as a felt sense". If you "feel" raped, you were raped. Even if you didn't say no. Even if you said yes. If you felt raped, in her mind, you were raped. …
/r/MensRights09/10/18 06:57 PM
1

Does anyone see the problem with MeToo and HimToo? One sounds inclusive but is exclusive and the other is exclusive because the other wasn't inclusive?
/r/MensRights28/09/18 03:51 PM
6

That has never been my experience. In my experience you're referring to egalitarians -- not feminists.
/r/MensRights27/09/18 11:24 PM
6

The problem with the second group you're thinking of is when push comes to shove -- they are against men. They may not hate men but they are against them. They're not a "pro women" group anymore.
/r/MensRights27/09/18 10:10 PM
4

In the picture the OP is trying to setup someone so they can have that specific response. It was a trap but since the person was articulate enough they didn't fall in the trap but the person tried to spring the trap anyways not realizing the person didn't fall in. The person would have been better off saying they are upset society blindly believes rape victims without evidence or patience to see the results of said claims instead of trying to bait someone, which is tacky and only works on people…
/r/MensRights27/09/18 10:06 PM
3

I agree 100%. People shouldn't rape. They also shouldn't steal, commit fraud, etc. Yet we still put in measures to prevent this as best we can't. People shouldn't want to go to war with us but we still have a military just in case someone does. I mean.. it's the way we, as humans, are.
/r/MensRights25/09/18 12:48 AM
3

Also, if one person can be stripped of their rights at the whim of government, anyone can, The problem is they don't think that far. IT's why I'm very pro 2A because once you start trivializing the highest document in our land, then all rights of equal and lesser are trivialized eventually. And, in this instance, out of vague irrational fear because of perceived problems based on dishonest facts. An act towards the individual is really a violation of the freedom of everyone, when done by the sta…
/r/MensRights24/09/18 09:21 PM
11

Not that I'm going to defend her but, if I had to take a wild guess, her thought process is "the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few". I know two females in my life that are bat-shit nuts feminists. They feel like every single woman goes though incredibly traumatic events that no male can ever begin to understand and it's because of men they go through this. So, in her mind, this is an epidemic. They've never stopped to get therapy for their troubles, to actually talk about their tro…
/r/MensRights24/09/18 07:33 PM
3

I don't know -- I read her question to imply exclusively male because the context is exclusively female. Reproductive rights and family rights and the sexism there is a fantastic example. Jury service, in my opinion, is not.
/r/MensRights07/09/18 05:40 PM
2

That's a country where a potato peeler is, literally, thought of as a weapon on the street. I wish I were joking. Dude got arrested for having one in public.
/r/MensRights09/07/18 03:21 PM
2

Moral busy bodies are pretty much what's happening now. For quite some time it was the Religious / Conservative right but not it's moved to the progressive left. A weird change, to be sure.
/r/MensRights21/03/18 06:26 PM
1

I've had smart phones since the AT&T TYTN. I'm in my mid 30's. Not once have I ever dropped my smart phone in a toilet OR sat down on the porcelain without a seat down yet I leave the lid up all the time. Not a single time. I do not understand how phones just fall in the toilet or how this happens to so many people.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 03:53 PM
1

Wasn't there a #NotAllWomen or something like that?
/r/MensRights20/03/18 03:48 PM
2

Hey! That's my hometown! Not many people here are talking about it though. Although we're in the Urban Dictionary, so we got that... wait shit. But yeah, I saw this checking the weather. Seriously KFDM has more reliable weather forecasting than the others.
/r/MensRights14/03/18 03:52 PM
1

Progressives hate men and whites. I've seen posts in /r/news lock threads that show this but the reverse are allowed to proliferate. This is why I don't vote or care who wins anymore.
/r/MensRights13/03/18 07:49 PM
3

Technically it's not "reverse sexism" -- it's just sexism, plain and simple. It's just that we acknowledge, like racism, that it's difficult for people to believe it's possible to dislike a group of the majority in the same way a person of the majority can hate someone of the minority. They, however, do not acknowledge such things are possible. But yes -- there are people that do 100% think, with sincerity, that it's impossible to be racist towards whites and sexist against men. I've met them in…
/r/MensRights11/03/18 11:05 PM
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