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Custodypmbrenner91/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 11:11 PM
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pmbrenner91/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 03:55 PM
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Custodypmbrenner91/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 02:31 AM
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pmbrenner91/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:42 AM
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yes
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 10:46 PM
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dude, get a good lawyer, like yesterday
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 02:40 PM
3

on point "this too shall pass" stay strong brothermen
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 10:37 PM
4

option c let your wife go, let your affair partner go
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/25 11:21 PM
1

thanks! hang in there brotherman
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/25 02:40 AM
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looking forward to this being my story soon
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/25 09:56 PM
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it's funny because my ex-wife is pregnant with the affair partner's baby so you're more correct than you know
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/25 08:41 PM
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isn't he a catch
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/25 05:08 PM
4

another felony... lol my ex-wife must be thrilled
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/25 03:05 AM
4

true words
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 06:17 PM
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same here, but i work from home with travel periodically 50/50, week on week off, i try to travel only on weeks i don't have them
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 06:08 PM
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he doesn't have a dd-214 lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 05:47 PM
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the weirdest part is that they admitted to it in one of their responses, in a document submitted to the court i don't have to prove it
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 04:43 PM
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she lets the kids sleep in the same bed with him it's weird and feels like they're grooming the children
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 04:13 PM
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you can do meditation after you file filing locks down the financials as of the date of filing, it also establishes a status quo and prevents both parties from leaving the state filing first also just gets the ball rolling "no, you file first" can result in months of delays of "oh, well, i need this and that before i file" blah blah blah
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/25 05:18 PM
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they're delusional!
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:49 AM
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i want full custody and all the responsibility so i don't know where this is coming from
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:49 AM
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and paying the mortgage on a house you'll just have to sell
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:48 AM
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you can control the speed of the process a little more if you file first i just appreciated having more control i told her to file first but then had her served the next day douchey of me? yes justified because she's a cheating whore? also yes
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:48 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ fuck these delusional women
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:46 AM
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i hope that i'll be in your shoes soon... with respect to the ex losing custody and having to pay me
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/25 03:35 AM
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i'm laughing so hard at this he thought you were reading his mind
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 02:30 PM
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i took a frying pan to the back of the head a few times does that count?
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/25 01:29 PM
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i'm here for the comments of all the fellas who are in the same shoes myself included
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 03:36 PM
1

yeah, pretty much you don't want her to have too good of an attorney though
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 01:44 PM
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i was trying to be sarcastic 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/25 09:50 PM
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don't do this, makes you look bad just meet with all the good ones
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/25 09:10 PM
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i can't tell you in writing, dm me and we can talk on the phone
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 11:47 PM
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follow up A) you're angry, it's okay to be angry, and it's okay to feel emotions, but yes, you'll want to find a way to get closure and let it go
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 02:29 PM
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rather than freezing the accounts, i practically froze them by maxing out the cards to avoid being accused of "financial alienation" it resulted in a lot of unnecessary debt my ex-wife was trying to deplete the funds and spent a lot of money with her boyfriend in my mind, it looked better if i said "the cards are maxed out" rather than "i froze the accounts" i am not a lawyer though. talk to your lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 04:27 PM
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i should have just frozen the accounts instead, i maxed them out freeze them, the consequences from my perspective are so minor that likely nobody will care
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 03:59 PM
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go get 'em tiger
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 02:33 AM
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delete this post call the police call your attorney she hit you first
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 12:45 AM
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i thought i was alone. after reading this, i realize i'm not. went through this about 18 months ago. it gets better it's easy for me to say, but try to keep your cool. don't do anything stupid with money. embrace the suck. get a beer with some buddies therapy. no food actually helps with that weight loss, which should prime you for re-entry into the dating scene hang tough brother man
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 03:01 AM
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file now get her to agree to move out
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 08:05 PM
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no
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 08:02 PM
1

my ex-wife got remarried to the affair partner, i shouldn't have to subsidize their lifestyle
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 04:39 PM
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when the agreement was written, i made $60k annually, but i was also paying for health insurance for the kids at $500/month i would rather pay for insurance than give her money
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 04:21 PM
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i pay $300/month and she's currently unemployed
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 03:18 PM
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make sure you pack her dildos in a conspicuous location
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 02:39 AM
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i took three literal tons of my ex-wife's trash to the dump lol
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 02:38 AM
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wut the fuck
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 02:55 AM
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yup
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 02:47 AM
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same, ish following to see if you get good advice
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 01:50 AM
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amazing read, changed my life for the better
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/25 08:49 PM
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lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 09:28 PM
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hell yeah
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 12:34 AM
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username checks out
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 12:20 AM
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funny story.... i tried dating apps for about two weeks i ended up sliding into those Instagram DMs i used my Fox News bylines to entice her on a date we got married last November there's more to it, but i don't really want to share the rest in public all good, though you can do it brother!
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 12:19 AM
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i upgraded to the most amazing woman... i have three kids you can do it
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 12:09 AM
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no shit Sherlock 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 02:59 PM
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lol
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/25 05:15 PM
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holy shit i need your therapist
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 01:45 PM
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get out, get away custody can be changed later it's not without difficulties, but i think you should expedite the divorce process
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 02:11 AM
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you can always fight for more custody later settle now and start rebuilding yourself, and meanwhile you can give her just enough rope to hang herself
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 02:25 PM
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it's pretty gross
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 06:48 PM
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reading this book now, it's amazing
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 06:12 PM
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i'm glad you said it so i didn't have to you're not alone keep the pressure on
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 02:08 PM
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my ex-wife let's get AP felon sleep in the same bed as the kids i filed a motion for full custody last month divorce finalized in July 2024 it's awful and gets worse keep the pressure on don't give up
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 01:28 PM
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best advice ever lots of love, my fellow man
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/25 11:04 PM
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i see you too don't give up my ex-wife wanted 80/20 originally, we're at 50/50 now after 6 months of evidence gathering, my attorney filed our motion for sole custody last month today, at drop off, my ex-wife and her baby daddy followed me for about a quarter-mile, honking and throwing obscene gestures it feels good to start winning don't give up
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/25 10:24 PM
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sometimes easier said than done but amazing advice do it
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/25 01:08 AM
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join the club i served her papers through a professional process server over a motion for full custody that i filed over 6 months after the divorce was finalized she called the police to file a complaint of harassment
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/25 02:16 AM
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what the fuck
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/25 02:15 AM
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thanks bb you'll find yours, don't rush
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 05:37 PM
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not me
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 05:30 PM
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i only got under one other person i ended up marrying her in November she's been an incredible addition and is such a perfect mother, wife, and partner
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 05:30 PM
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best way to get over someone is to get under someone else
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 05:16 PM
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i just had this happen to me, too welcome to the club
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 05:01 PM
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sounds like the best thing for the kids is for you to have full custody
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 03:21 PM
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file yesterday
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 02:45 PM
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same, but with kids
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/25 11:16 AM
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my ex-wife moved in with her felon boyfriend 6 months before the divorce was finalized less than 6 months after the divorce, she's pregnant 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 04:20 AM
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leave the state with the kids before anything can be filed establish residency in the new state for 6-12 months file for sole custody
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/25 12:01 AM
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words mean nothing get an attorney and get divorced before you do anything else your soon-to-be ex-wife will use your "affair" expenses against you
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 03:04 PM
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i'd disown them
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/25 12:12 AM
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take the kids
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 11:12 PM
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hang in there, it gets better
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 03:41 PM
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hang in there, brother man things get better
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 02:06 AM
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stop stalking me 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 01:57 AM
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why bother there's no money
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 01:52 AM
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i married her
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 11:23 PM
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bitches are bitches don't listen to her, your son loves you
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 05:34 AM
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congratulations!
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 07:07 PM
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dating apps we're awful i slid into those dm's on Instagram happily remarried
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 03:14 PM
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best advice
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 03:22 AM
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my ex-wife's partner is a convicted felon with a history of domestic violence still waiting for my attorney to file a motion to appoint a guardian ad litem and modify custody i'm tired of getting my kids back with knotted hair, chapped lips to the point of scabbing, and blistering sunburns not to mention my son has broken his arm twice in her care, in just 12 months
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 03:21 AM
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my ex-wife is pregnant with her affair partner shit gets weirder my guy i feel for you
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 03:18 AM
5

get yourself an attorney, file for divorce, and buckle up !remindme! In 3 months
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 02:06 AM
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inheritance is factored differently when the value of the marital estate is calculated your inheritance is yours still, get a divorce attorney ASAP
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 12:27 AM
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get out now
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 04:50 PM
3

this
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 01:00 AM
5

not stupid hang in there time heals
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/25 10:30 PM
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i'm co-parenting for now, 50/50 she keeps removing me from important things, like as the authority for the children's health insurance and as an emergency contact with the school i will never reconcile
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 03:28 PM
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this sounds so similar to my story, but you had a lot more assets and a lot more losses... hope you're doing better now
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 06:12 PM
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sounds like mine
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/25 07:28 PM
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i wouldn't have married her
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 03:21 AM
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best way to get over someone is to get under someone
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 03:03 PM
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i dunno, but it sounds excellent
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 05:27 PM
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fight for full custody period, full stop
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 10:02 PM
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that's a great question, thanks for asking because the divorce was precipitated by my ex-wife's affair, i don't think my romantic entanglement has escalated anything: the situation was out of control from the beginning
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 06:00 PM
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exactly
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 02:25 PM
2

one love Niko
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 05:51 AM
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it's unconscionable that good men are deprived access to their own children keep fighting, don't be a stranger, PMs are always open if you need a friend to talk to
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 05:45 AM
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i love cycling, but don't become one of those douchebags cyclists that bitch about "sharing the road" and then proceed to hog the road
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 05:31 AM
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that's a good attitude i'm telling you now, fight for as much custody as you can she is abandoning you, abandoning your kids, and abandoning your family leverage that in your negotiations don't let on what your plans are, but document everything it's over, i know you feel like you love her, and i'm sure that you do; i was in the exact same place as you things will get worse before they get better but things will get better
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 05:21 AM
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i didn't mean for it to sound like a sob story, i was just fulfilling your request to be specific i kicked her out of the house last October after i found evidence of the affair and that she had no intention of sticking around i have the divorce decree, which was finalized in July i got remarried in November i have 50/50 for now, but i'm filing a motion to modify because my ex-wife and her felon keep removing me from things like the kids health insurance plan, which i pay for it's ridiculous and…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 05:11 AM
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atrocious ex-wife took up with a convicted felon before final divorce decree she counter parents with him i wish i kept a more level head in the initial separation stages and i would have far greater custody now also got saddled with a bad attorney, switched to the named partner ex-wife abuses and neglects the kids ex-wife is trying to alienate them against me ex-wife felon boyfriend has a history of domestic violence i live in fear that my children are going to be hurt more than they already ha…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 04:39 AM
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RemindMe! 12 months
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 04:09 AM
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!RemindMe 12 months
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 04:08 AM
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consider yourself very lucky you'll be so much better in 12 months
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 03:49 AM
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i pay $300 a month but no alimony is a huge win
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 03:22 AM
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yes separated in October 2023, divorce finalized July 2024, started therapy in August, just had my most impactful and meaningful session today
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 03:21 AM
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i also want a medicator
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 12:38 AM
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i hired an attorney to play hard ball
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 03:44 PM
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i threw out three tons of her hoarding trash dump it
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 04:27 AM
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i'm terrified that my ex-wife is going to try this at some point
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 12:44 AM
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