| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 29 | it's finally happening | Custody | pmbrenner91 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/25 11:11 PM |
| 26 | lying affair partner | pmbrenner91 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 03:55 PM | |
| 17 | high conflict custody | Custody | pmbrenner91 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 02:31 AM |
| 5 | custody question | pmbrenner91 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 03:42 AM | |
| 5 | new motion | pmbrenner91 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 02:44 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Is an attorney worth ityes | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 10:46 PM |
| 13 | What’s the Point of Secrecy When She’s Already Said She Wants a Divorce?dude, get a good lawyer, like yesterday | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 02:40 PM |
| 4 | What if I made the wrong decision?option c let your wife go, let your affair partner go | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/25 11:21 PM |
| 2 | lying affair partnerit's funny because my ex-wife is pregnant with the affair partner's baby so you're more correct than you know | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | lying affair partnerisn't he a catch | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/25 05:08 PM |
| 4 | lying affair partneranother felony... lol my ex-wife must be thrilled | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/25 03:05 AM |
| 4 | lying affair partnertrue words | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Travel for work and getting a divorce with 2 kids…same here, but i work from home with travel periodically 50/50, week on week off, i try to travel only on weeks i don't have them | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 06:08 PM |
| 8 | lying affair partnerhe doesn't have a dd-214 lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 5 | lying affair partnerthe weirdest part is that they admitted to it in one of their responses, in a document submitted to the court i don't have to prove it | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 04:43 PM |
| 8 | lying affair partnershe lets the kids sleep in the same bed with him it's weird and feels like they're grooming the children | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that there is a strategic advantage on filing first? We have no children.you can do meditation after you file filing locks down the financials as of the date of filing, it also establishes a status quo and prevents both parties from leaving the state filing first also just gets the ball rolling "no, you file first" can result in months of delays of "oh, well, i need this and that before i file" blah blah blah | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/25 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Why do divorced men feel as if they have less responsibility with kids after divorce?they're delusional! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Why do divorced men feel as if they have less responsibility with kids after divorce?i want full custody and all the responsibility so i don't know where this is coming from | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that there is a strategic advantage on filing first? We have no children.and paying the mortgage on a house you'll just have to sell | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 03:48 AM |
| 8 | Is it true that there is a strategic advantage on filing first? We have no children.you can control the speed of the process a little more if you file first i just appreciated having more control i told her to file first but then had her served the next day douchey of me? yes justified because she's a cheating whore? also yes | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 03:48 AM |
| 7 | Handling Abuse AccusationsJesus fucking Christ fuck these delusional women | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Finalized Separation Agreement - fucked less than trial - still fucked.i hope that i'll be in your shoes soon... with respect to the ex losing custody and having to pay me | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/25 03:35 AM |
| 5 | Seperated, soon to be ex wife is pregnant with another mans child. How to proceed in court so I don't have to pay child support or spousal support?i'm laughing so hard at this he thought you were reading his mind | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/25 02:30 PM |
| 6 | How many of us were actually abused?i took a frying pan to the back of the head a few times does that count? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/25 01:29 PM |
| 12 | Why do they never level up?i'm here for the comments of all the fellas who are in the same shoes myself included | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Finding Attorneyyeah, pretty much you don't want her to have too good of an attorney though | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Finding Attorneyi was trying to be sarcastic 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/25 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Finding Attorneydon't do this, makes you look bad just meet with all the good ones | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/25 09:10 PM |
| -5 | How do you afford to live?i can't tell you in writing, dm me and we can talk on the phone | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Should I get my ex to stop associating with my family?follow up A) you're angry, it's okay to be angry, and it's okay to feel emotions, but yes, you'll want to find a way to get closure and let it go | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Freeze on Joint Accounts?rather than freezing the accounts, i practically froze them by maxing out the cards to avoid being accused of "financial alienation" it resulted in a lot of unnecessary debt my ex-wife was trying to deplete the funds and spent a lot of money with her boyfriend in my mind, it looked better if i said "the cards are maxed out" rather than "i froze the accounts" i am not a lawyer though. talk to your lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Freeze on Joint Accounts?i should have just frozen the accounts instead, i maxed them out freeze them, the consequences from my perspective are so minor that likely nobody will care | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Gentlemen, I'm filing tomorrow. Wish me luck.go get 'em tiger | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/25 02:33 AM |
| 7 | Need Advice!delete this post call the police call your attorney she hit you first | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to processi thought i was alone. after reading this, i realize i'm not. went through this about 18 months ago. it gets better it's easy for me to say, but try to keep your cool. don't do anything stupid with money. embrace the suck. get a beer with some buddies therapy. no food actually helps with that weight loss, which should prime you for re-entry into the dating scene hang tough brother man | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/25 03:01 AM |
| 4 | wife is house shopping someplace close to the 3 minor kids while i stay in family homefile now get her to agree to move out | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Do you ever find your way back to each other (for good)?no | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I avoid picking up extra work until divorce is finalized?my ex-wife got remarried to the affair partner, i shouldn't have to subsidize their lifestyle | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Should I avoid picking up extra work until divorce is finalized?when the agreement was written, i made $60k annually, but i was also paying for health insurance for the kids at $500/month i would rather pay for insurance than give her money | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Should I avoid picking up extra work until divorce is finalized?i pay $300/month and she's currently unemployed | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 03:18 PM |
| 10 | Wife moved out, can I pack her items up and put in garage?make sure you pack her dildos in a conspicuous location | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 02:39 AM |
| 9 | Wife moved out, can I pack her items up and put in garage?i took three literal tons of my ex-wife's trash to the dump lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Ban cursing/swearing??wut the fuck | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 02:55 AM |
| 3 | high conflict custodyyup | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Suggestions dealing with hostile ex trying to annoy me with new boyfriendsame, ish following to see if you get good advice | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | She calls me abusive and evil, but after everything she did… I’m starting to think it was the other way around.amazing read, changed my life for the better | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/25 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you need a lawyerlawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Finding love at 40 with 4 kids?hell yeah | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Finding love at 40 with 4 kids?username checks out | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Finding love at 40 with 4 kids?funny story.... i tried dating apps for about two weeks i ended up sliding into those Instagram DMs i used my Fox News bylines to entice her on a date we got married last November there's more to it, but i don't really want to share the rest in public all good, though you can do it brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 12:19 AM |
| 12 | Finding love at 40 with 4 kids?i upgraded to the most amazing woman... i have three kids you can do it | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 12:09 AM |
| 1 | 18 days and she's outno shit Sherlock 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do they almost always get knocked up in the first year after leaving?lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Therapy is worth itholy shit i need your therapist | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 01:45 PM |
| 0 | Rock and a hard placeget out, get away custody can be changed later it's not without difficulties, but i think you should expedite the divorce process | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Rock and a hard placeyou can always fight for more custody later settle now and start rebuilding yourself, and meanwhile you can give her just enough rope to hang herself | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | To all the weekend Dads….it's pretty gross | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/25 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Need some encouragement / ventingreading this book now, it's amazing | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 06:12 PM |
| 2 | 18 days and she's outi'm glad you said it so i didn't have to you're not alone keep the pressure on | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 02:08 PM |
| 6 | 18 days and she's outmy ex-wife let's get AP felon sleep in the same bed as the kids i filed a motion for full custody last month divorce finalized in July 2024 it's awful and gets worse keep the pressure on don't give up | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 01:28 PM |
| 3 | To all the weekend Dads….best advice ever lots of love, my fellow man | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 11:04 PM |
| 4 | To all the weekend Dads….i see you too don't give up my ex-wife wanted 80/20 originally, we're at 50/50 now after 6 months of evidence gathering, my attorney filed our motion for sole custody last month today, at drop off, my ex-wife and her baby daddy followed me for about a quarter-mile, honking and throwing obscene gestures it feels good to start winning don't give up | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I’m Leavingsometimes easier said than done but amazing advice do it | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 01:08 AM |
| 8 | My soon to be ex keeps calling the Policejoin the club i served her papers through a professional process server over a motion for full custody that i filed over 6 months after the divorce was finalized she called the police to file a complaint of harassment | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Something a little different: what felt strange about your divorce?what the fuck | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 02:15 AM |
| 3 | It's so easy to sleep with divorce women.thanks bb you'll find yours, don't rush | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Who all is spending Valentine’s Day alone?not me | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 05:30 PM |
| 4 | It's so easy to sleep with divorce women.i only got under one other person i ended up marrying her in November she's been an incredible addition and is such a perfect mother, wife, and partner | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 05:30 PM |
| 3 | It's so easy to sleep with divorce women.best way to get over someone is to get under someone else | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 05:16 PM |
| 2 | It's so easy to sleep with divorce women.i just had this happen to me, too welcome to the club | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | new motionsounds like the best thing for the kids is for you to have full custody | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 03:21 PM |
| 2 | She made a post on Facebook about her Narcissistic abusive husband.file yesterday | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 02:45 PM |
| 1 | She’s dating alreadysame, but with kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/25 11:16 AM |
| 5 | She’s dating alreadymy ex-wife moved in with her felon boyfriend 6 months before the divorce was finalized less than 6 months after the divorce, she's pregnant 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/25 04:20 AM |
| -10 | I’m scared that I’ll never be able to see or have my kids again…leave the state with the kids before anything can be filed establish residency in the new state for 6-12 months file for sole custody | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/25 12:01 AM |
| 2 | On my way To getting divorcedwords mean nothing get an attorney and get divorced before you do anything else your soon-to-be ex-wife will use your "affair" expenses against you | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/25 03:04 PM |
| 2 | What would be your reaction if your daughters do the same thing to their future husbands?i'd disown them | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/25 12:12 AM |
| 4 | How did you handle the pettiness?take the kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/25 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Losing everythinghang in there, it gets better | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/25 03:41 PM |
| 5 | I had my 1st post divorce hook uphang in there, brother man things get better | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 02:06 AM |
| 3 | I had my 1st post divorce hook upstop stalking me 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 01:57 AM |
| 6 | I had my 1st post divorce hook upwhy bother there's no money | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 01:52 AM |
| 5 | I had my 1st post divorce hook upi married her | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/25 11:23 PM |
| 7 | I need a pick me up, menbitches are bitches don't listen to her, your son loves you | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Divorce almost finalized!congratulations! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 07:07 PM |
| 2 | For average looking guys out there who successfully started dating again after divorce was finalized, what strategies worked for you?dating apps we're awful i slid into those dm's on Instagram happily remarried | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife introducing boyfriend to kids. But thought she already did…best advice | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 03:22 AM |
| 13 | Ex wife introducing boyfriend to kids. But thought she already did…my ex-wife's partner is a convicted felon with a history of domestic violence still waiting for my attorney to file a motion to appoint a guardian ad litem and modify custody i'm tired of getting my kids back with knotted hair, chapped lips to the point of scabbing, and blistering sunburns not to mention my son has broken his arm twice in her care, in just 12 months | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 03:21 AM |
| 10 | Ex wife introducing boyfriend to kids. But thought she already did…my ex-wife is pregnant with her affair partner shit gets weirder my guy i feel for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Coming soonget yourself an attorney, file for divorce, and buckle up !remindme! In 3 months | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 02:06 AM |
| 17 | I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped.inheritance is factored differently when the value of the marital estate is calculated your inheritance is yours still, get a divorce attorney ASAP | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/25 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Anyone leave for these reasons?get out now | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Ex is hurt no one has reached out to her over the divorcethis | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 01:00 AM |
| 5 | I know this is stupid…not stupid hang in there time heals | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/25 10:30 PM |
| 7 | Did you ever reconcile after the divorce?i'm co-parenting for now, 50/50 she keeps removing me from important things, like as the authority for the children's health insurance and as an emergency contact with the school i will never reconcile | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/25 03:28 PM |
| 2 | 50:50 Parentingthis sounds so similar to my story, but you had a lot more assets and a lot more losses... hope you're doing better now | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/25 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Ex lazy during marriage but not after divorce?sounds like mine | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/25 07:28 PM |
| 13 | What would you have done differently?i wouldn't have married her | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/24 03:21 AM |
| 8 | Is it easier to move on when you know your ex is dating again?best way to get over someone is to get under someone | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Those men who are finished with divorcei dunno, but it sounds excellent | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Livid at my STBX for never prioritizing our sonfight for full custody period, full stop | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | gym alternativeexactly | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 02:25 PM |
| 2 | gym alternativei love cycling, but don't become one of those douchebags cyclists that bitch about "sharing the road" and then proceed to hog the road | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 05:31 AM |
| 2 | filed the final paper work todayRemindMe! 12 months | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 04:09 AM |
| 2 | filed the final paper work todayconsider yourself very lucky you'll be so much better in 12 months | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Is no alimony a win?i pay $300 a month but no alimony is a huge win | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 03:22 AM |
| 8 | Did you any of you guys benefit from therapy post divorce?yes separated in October 2023, divorce finalized July 2024, started therapy in August, just had my most impactful and meaningful session today | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 03:21 AM |
| 6 | Those men who are finished with divorcei also want a medicator | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Wife wants M-F, I want 50/50. How to get her to agree?i hired an attorney to play hard ball | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 03:44 PM |
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