pnt9 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	How can I truly abandon dependence on female attention and focus on my life?		pnt9	/r/askTRP	11/11/15 04:46 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How Forgiving Yourself Gets You Success With Women I had a similar problem a few years back. I went on a path of self discovery and self improvement, but it was all in the hopes that she would take me back. I finally started getting over it when she unfriended me from Facebook. I was broken but had enough trp-based self respect to not chase after her. Long story short, no contact and continuing to self improve (for me, not for her since she was fully out of the picture now), helped tremendously. It took me years, but I now catch myself thinking …	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/16 04:24 AM
1	How to Talk to Anyone, Anywhere, at Anytime (A video for your HS mentees about abundance and basic social skills) Be outcome independent, but do lead things forward. This is one of the hardest things for me to understand about TRP. If I want something, I will act on it and I will go for it--which means I want an outcome. How then do you achieve "outcome independence" when you're intentionally trying to form a connection with a girl?	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/15 04:21 PM
2	Dance class Game When you learn to dance, you become the guy that knows how to dance at weddings, casual events, and country bars. Need something to set you apart from the other 50 sausages? This is a good starting point.	/r/askTRP	15/11/15 05:56 PM
15	Girlfriend said "I love you" to a male friend, held frame, but days later it's still eating at me. Damn sounds like your girl has solid game.	/r/askTRP	15/11/15 12:31 AM
1	Amit, Open UP! Be polarizing. That means be 120% yourself. You think of something during the conversation but are afraid it's inappropriate? Say it anyway, and see what happens. Consistently talk about what's on your mind, bringing people into your thought process. Avoid "coming up" with topics to talk about as this means you're trying to force the conversation--instead of having it. Always go in with the attitude of contributing value to the conversation (not using the conversation to gain social value for yo…	/r/askTRP	14/11/15 10:50 PM
11	Dance class Game Girls in swing dancing will generally be a lot more closed off to men approaching. Flash news: you're not the only dude looking for chicks there and, unlike bars, many of them are not there looking to meet someone. I would say do long-term game. Gain reputation; get good (practice at home by yourself). Have fun every time you go, don't just try to pull all night every time. Conversations while on the dance floor don't generally flow smoothly: better to talk to them while sitting out.	/r/askTRP	14/11/15 10:42 PM
1	How can I truly abandon dependence on female attention and focus on my life? Could you expound a bit on how to cultivate abundance? What helps you with it? Lifting? Approaching? Meditation? I really do understand how abundance helps, but I just don't know how to first get it...	/r/askTRP	14/11/15 10:29 PM
1	How can I truly abandon dependence on female attention and focus on my life? I do understand that their attention is dependent on external factors, but knowing that I have an effect on those external factors keeps that understanding from helping me. Perhaps I should be holding more frame; I could pay more attention to shit tests; I would get more attention if I were more polarizing. It's a could've, would've, should've situation. Sometimes I kind of want to walk away from TRP principles and just be--to see if that will stop all that fretting and worrying about rules vs. …	/r/askTRP	14/11/15 10:25 PM
2	How do I stop being so buddy-buddy with people, while still building positive male relationships? Just from quickly scanning the comments I see that you expect to be treated as an authority. You're not. For most men, you're just a peer. I have come to find that solid relationships with other men do involve a degree of sparring and by extension, down-putting. For example, my friend got a girly coffee drink the other day and I said, "dude, did you get a tampon with that?" This was not me disrespecting him, but (unconsciously) giving him a chance to assert his manliness and downright just being…	/r/askTRP	11/11/15 05:01 AM
1	A word of advice from my roommate's girlfriend. How do you guys think this works with the "approach everyone" idea? This is something I have never figured out: if you only speak when you have something meaningful to say, then doesn't that mitigate the opportunity to start talking to anyone at any time?	/r/seduction	07/07/15 12:45 AM
1	Life isn’t a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning. So I have a legitimate inquiry here. There has been a couple of times when I've been direct about my attraction to a couple of girls, and their response: "I'm sorry, I'm not comfortable with that. I don't know you at all." So what is it? Would it be "red pill" enough to hang around the girl for a while (not as a friend) in order to establish rapport and build some value, and then make a move? This whole timing thing has proven to be my biggest difficulty in approaching women...	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/15 07:08 AM
1	The Intelligent Alpha -- Male SMV and why "Dread Game" Works I know many have said the same thing, but this is a great summary of how I'm choosing to live my life now. I'll make sure to come back to it, and maybe rewrite it in my own words as a personal journal. Thanks, man.	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/15 05:22 AM
1	The Intelligent Alpha -- Male SMV and why "Dread Game" Works Yes. But wouldn't teasing, for example, be a way of demonstrating you have options as OP suggested? If you had the only one chance, you wouldn't want to blow it by being edgy--would you?	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/15 05:19 AM
9	Think your girl won't upgrade if she has the chance? Wife of a college football player who had a workout with the San Diego Chargers was having an affair with NFL RB DeMarco Murray. Men will check out from society and pursue their own happiness, involving advanced pleasure dolls and what not. Sounds like Japan's celibacy syndrome: "Some want a partner, some prefer being single, but few relate to normal love and marriage."	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/14 06:18 PM
5	To the New Guys: Voltaire said it best If self improvement is part of what we preach here, that includes grammar. "Oh, your ideas are beautiful regardless of your grammar!" is BP thinking. Also, studies have shown that foreign English speakers almost never confuse there, their, and they're.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/14 05:02 PM