Ah. Good idea, I'll ask for her number, ask her for some photos of her trip, and then just kind of check in once every few days with something light/fun? I totally agree with the point you made about value projection, which is part of why I think this would be a good approach because then I'm not too available.
You are so right about not having the focus be on her. I have also taken note to take more notice of cues and body language, thank you! I will keep trying and just try to improve little by little.
Just wanted to update that I went for a run just now, with the point of saying hi to three attractives. Here are my findings: Along the beach boardwalk, a really cute petite girl was running at my pace, sometimes slower sometimes faster. I figured I'd just go for it and jogged up along side of her and said hi, where are you running to? She said hi and eventually that she has a bf. My takeaway is that I did well, though the fact that she said she has a bf means she got the impression that I was h…
That's a great idea. If you don't mind me asking what goes through your head when you see an attractive girl ( say, walking her dog) who you want to approach?
We have to get past this man...do you live in a big city? Which kind of situations do you find yourself in most often that are opportunities to cold approach?
