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She doesn’t have to be a sociopath to have a dysfunctional interpersonal style. She’s disagreeable and defiant and I don’t think it’s wise to frame this level of manipulation as “banter”. There’s being a woman and then there’s toxic negativity spilling into every other interaction (he’s already listed several). That’s a high drama woman and he’s better off dumping her but hey, that’s me.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/25 03:02 AM
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This isn’t even shit testing it’s just being oppositional and defiant to reframe your choices and opinions as negative to control the dynamic and constantly keep you on the back foot (which you are because it’s in your head and you’re venting to Reddit). It’s why she didn’t commit to a stance on the Messi thing until you did. Didn’t matter if you picked him first, she would have said the other guy just to defy you and maintain a weird sense of power in the discussion. This is a girl who’s going …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/25 02:58 AM
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Great post, I would agree. One anecdote comes to mind: I was preparing food and making us coffee, and she began hovering near me in the kitchen, but fiddling with things like a kid. Looking at my salt-shaker, asking me what things were. Not inherently bad—it was even kind of endearing and funny in a way. But soon I couldn't tolerate her presence near me as I prepared things and I playfully grabbed her by the arm and jokingly pushed her out of the kitchen and told her to go sit down. Looking back…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/25 11:25 PM
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Be honest: is there a chance you give off soft energy? This type of aggressive disrespect seems odd to me. Like maybe multiple guys wouldn’t try it unless they read you and felt like they could get away with it, especially with your female there. If you carry yourself well and look like someone not to be fucked with, this type of behavior should be inflicted on you rarely though you always risk it to a degree at bars. The red flag for me is that it happened with two different guys. So my questio…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:04 AM
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This is normal IMO. Mediocrity is generally celebrated. When you improve yourself people are threatened especially dumpy losers. Stop worrying about them and focus on meeting higher value guys who don’t have that problem. Guys who have things going on in their lives.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:13 PM
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Sorry to hear about your dad man. All the best.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:10 PM
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Lol I don’t really care tbh since I’m not a big texter anyway. I do it begrudgingly, so she can text Clark Kent all she wants as long as I get to lay pipe.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:25 PM
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Amen brother 110% agree.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:23 PM
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Best response. Sometimes just a straight up reminder is needed.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:30 AM
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Every word you just typed is a waste. You don’t know how to read. Goodbye you non-contributing zero.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:29 AM
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Logical. Good reminder.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:00 AM
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I assumed so from the beginning, just pragmatism.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:05 AM
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It’s possible. The arrangement works for now so ultimately it’s not a big deal, just strange.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:58 AM
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Based on what? You’re talking out your ass. Liking sweet women is being soft? Maybe you prefer toxic women but it’s not my thing. Nice try.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:53 AM
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You didn’t read what I said. I have zero problems letting her go. Could drop her in a second. Things are going to run their course anyway, this one is just a peculiar.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:42 AM
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Tall girls can be very “easy” to game as a short guy once you tune into it. They’re dying to feel feminine and submissive which a lot of guys don’t give them. Case in point, I’m 5’6 and once met a bitchy girl at a wedding who was 5’7ish. She openly told me how she was probably going to break up with her boyfriend because he was too sensitive and too short (directly testing my frame). I smirked and told her to go for it. After talking more and calling her out on some of her bitchiness we exchange…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:59 PM
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Meeting her off tinder was all I needed to read. Everything else after is that irrelevant. Glad you came to your senses.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:49 PM
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There are some great answers here. One aspect I haven’t seen touched on, is that it subtly indicates that women are beneath the man which turns them on because they desire men who are better (read:higher status) than them. For an atypical perspective, I’m in the U.S and friends with a girl my age from Kazakhstan (long story): A very conservative, religious, and male dominant society if there ever was one. For context, she speaks very good English, has never been to the U.S. though she has a fasc…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:51 AM
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This describes my best friend and after two years of becoming like brothers with him, I’ve learned the rules just don’t fucking apply to some people lol. He operates on a personal code and does things that contradict much of the entire library of the Red Pill, because born alphas can do pretty much whatever the fuck they want lol. It’s not without a logic of its own though. People are unique and there will always be outliers. My friend’s instincts seem to be very finely sharpened and keep him in…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:19 AM
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Raised by a single mother here, and this is a great analogy, and this definitely hinges on defining what masculinity is to you. As a teenager and in my early 20s I thought it was a positive trait to not be masculine and even have feminine traits SMDH. What worked for me in turning that around was finding a role model. Without fathers, we absolutely need stand-ins, there's no other way about it. I collected a series of online father figures from YouTube and podcasts with strong male personalities…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 12:06 AM
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I'm 27 and got my top braces off a month ago. Bottoms come off next week. I'm beyond ecstatic and love that I have some great years ahead of me with the smile I've always wanted. It's improved my confidence and made me happier. I only wish I'd done it sooner. Get them. Take care of them. Brush your teeth. Floss. Always fucking floss. And wear your retainer. 1.5 years is easy time compared to some. Get them and thank your younger self when they come off and you look/feel like a stud.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 04:14 AM
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Thing is, this isn't even a question of gaming women necessarily. I hook up with Tinder and stuff, and can vibe with a girl, but my day game usually isn't as sharp if I'm not already on a date, and I'm just not used to girls paying attention to me out in the world like this, so I'm like, wait wut?
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:15 PM
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I guess I've been reacting that way because it's so new and I don't know how to respond. But keeping eye contact and holding frame makes sense. I'll fight the urge to immediately look away next time lol.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:13 PM
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Haha you would think right?
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:10 PM
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Thanks dude, I appreciate it. I know it's self-indulgent but it really is just new for me, and trips me out. I'll try not to think about it too much and just keep doing what I'm doing.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:28 AM
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Well alright then.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:17 AM
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I'm finding this to be very true with women and men both. Recently had an opportunity to train new hires at my job, and some newhire douche challenged me when answering his question. I immediately went with amused mastery, smirking at his passive aggression like he was a child, kept frame and walked away. Combined this with cold indifference to him after the fact, (it helps I have a semblance of social proof) and since then he has been nothing but nice and friendly, trying very faintly for my ap…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:08 AM
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Very true. I'm an intermediate lifter with decent genetics for broad shoulders/delts/chest thickness. I normally wear form fitting stuff but if I ever thrown on a t shirt that's actually tight, I noticeably get stared down by girls in a way not unlike guys staring at a girl with full visible cleavage. Weird but cool.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 12:52 AM
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Consulting a lawyer asap
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:54 AM
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Getting an order asap.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:53 AM
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Thanks, consulting a lawyer asap and getting started on a restraining order.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:53 AM
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I cleared my schedule tomorrow and will be consulting a lawyer asap. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:52 AM
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Fuck. What happens after the initial order? I read that there's a 2nd hearing where the restrained party gets to show up to court and give their side of things. Did yours get that far?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:06 PM
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I'm feeling raw , so it made sense when I read it. But you're right, I know I didn't cause it, I guess I'm just mad at myself since I should've known better than to play with dynamite. So far, I've saved her last texts, email and the letters for sure. I still haven't contacted her and I don't think I will now with what you said. The last thing I want to do is give this bitch power. I thought about the restraining order and will absolutely do it if she fucks with me any further. Thanks for steppi…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:15 AM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:42 AM
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It crossed my mind but I'm not sure if this may be exacerbating the problem. Was thinking about taking the above approach of just going full beta on her, admitting insecurities, being inexperienced, etc to placate her. I definitely won't be fucking around like this again. Thanks :(
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:21 AM
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This seems like the smartest play I can make right now. And I fucking won't, I can tell you that much. Thank you.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:11 AM
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You're 100% right. I brought it on myself due to my own issues. I fucked up bad. Goddamn it. I guess at the time, it felt like revenge for her thinking it was ok to so blatantly insult me. I see now I was just playing games. ​
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:56 AM
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Life is sales. You're selling yourself everywhere and women are just another extension of that. It's already how life is so just tap into those same principles. You are the product. Think of your buyers' painpoints. Think about your competition and what makes you different. Assess your SMV, your strengths, how you engage women, how you fuck, the general experience you offer. Manage objections and guide them to the close.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 03:44 AM
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A plate of mine just broke and now that I think about it, she did start using my name more, granted more in jokey, conversational way but still. Seems to be the emotional investment/familiarity kicking in. How they deal with it is what causes them to break I'm guessing.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:30 AM
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I'm 5'5 and first and foremost, it starts with attitude. I think the biggest thing is to just fucking own it and be non-apologetically confident in social situations, and to not be shaken one inch when someone says something about it - because that's what they're trying to do. Shake you. There will be plenty of people who find you attractive if your SMV is high enough for your height range. My brother is much better looking than I, and your height, and girls fawn all over him. I have broad shoul…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:34 AM
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Not your fault mate, my goals are just a bit different than the folks' you were writing to. I already go to the gym and get laid (woo) but struggle with social dynamics at work, and rising in position. Great way to spin it. At the end of the day, I think we can agree to not be dependent on people to feel self-worth.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 08:10 PM
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Thank you for sharing. No disrespect to OP, but I found this more helpful than his post. I'm in a position at work, where I am trying my best to climb the social hierarchy (for respect, and to stop being mistreated, etc.,) and I have been making slow, grinding progress by being more authentic and the best, strongest version of myself. Some days are better than others but I think you nailed it by saying to value your own validation. I notice that my positive relationships involve me being able to…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 03:19 AM
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Dude you are waaaaaaaaaaaaaay late to the party and your comment is so off base it's cringeworthy. Try not to parrot every other comment you see, it's bad form. You sound very young, or very inexperienced (more so than myself) I'd focus on yourself before handing out advice on things you're not versed in.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:53 AM
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Honestly sounds like a freak response lol. I would've transitioned to something like "great, I can be your new daddy". Obviously depending on the tone of the convo and reading her appropriately. Some girls just like to say outrageous shit. Going with it seems to be the only choice in my book.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 11:03 PM
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Your last sentence nails it. And my first answer stands. You are coming off desperate by wanting to pursue this timewaster and if you meet her, you will be broadcasting it. There will be more, who are cool and don't play this kind of attention whore game. Move on.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:16 PM
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Waste. Of. Time. Girls who are cool and dtf don't waste time like that. More people is just more barriers to you fucking and what girls do for entertainment so they can watch a guy dance trying to impress them. There are too many girls on tinder for you to play such games even if it doesn't feel like it. Unmatch without saying another word and save your sanity.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:25 PM
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Ya I don't know about specifying a drink, but I do like the idea of just moving in with a "when are you free" if she's receptive.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 07:06 AM
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I really need to learn to keep some things simple. Will try to keep this approach in mind.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 07:02 AM
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So simple I didn't even think of it -_-
/r/askTRP05/01/19 07:01 AM
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Exactly, I don't want to miss out on something just because of what may be a minor conflict. She doesn't work in my office or even usually at my site. She literally covers every so often if not working the cafe in the next city over. I would say my intuition is pretty on point. She holds extended eye contact, always wants to keep talking to me, despite having customers behind me (I always end it) and keeps eye contact as I'm walking away, smiling real big (I've noticed she's super quiet to peopl…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:59 AM
1

Very true. That's the downside to online game, is the rejection is so quick and impersonal it's barely noticeable (for me anyway) and I just keep right on moving, but the stakes feel so much higher in person obviously due to real time feedback, I end up choking and exit the interaction with out a close attempt. I'm usually not that cocky with new girls, but who knows, maybe I need to relax a bit and take a chance. ​
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:51 AM
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I appreciate the feedback. In the moment, I can vibe, but I have a hard time thinking of the close, so I just wrap up the conversation to avoid the awkward pause and exit stage left. But, no risk, no gain. Thanks again for the kind words.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:24 AM
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Normally I agree, but she's so seldom there, it's the only reason why I'm entertaining it. I definitely don't screw around with girls in my actual office.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:22 AM
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I comepletely agree with you man but anything worth doing is worth doing right. I just want it to be an approach I respect For example, the only thing I can think of next time I see her, is ask what she's up to that weekend, and depending on what she says, saying something like "hey since you live here, we should hangout and grab a drink" That's my approach lol, that's as good as I can come up with that's natural for me while still being direct. From there, I have no problem being like "Cool, gi…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:25 AM
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You're reading way too much into it. He's a quick-witted prettyboy/badboy especially if you know about his drug days. He has an edge to him, which is what he puts into his newer characters especially Iron Man. Doesn't matter if he's stylish or flamboyant. It's his brand and he owns it.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 09:35 AM
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For what it's worth, I don't mind these types of posts since they do provide insight (as long as there is a clarifying question somewhere) But yes, it really is that easy. It's not something I talk about a lot with female acquaintances, but when it does come up, and I answer like you did, (honest about liking to fuck multiple people casually) there is always some level of intrigue. The level of reaction will vary but I would say 80% of the time, girls react the way you described i.e. they get tu…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 07:45 AM
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Brilliant post man, truly. I fully understand what you're saying, especially by thinking of past failures and successes. It stands to reason this is truly the crux of staying in power as a man. I'm pretty sure I just leveled up.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 02:45 AM
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My understanding is that you're basically giving off a vibe that she needs to earn your affection/attention (which should be the case). You discriminate by making it clear you don't give it to everyone (which you shouldn't). When she gets it, she feels accomplished and special. You, meanwhile, are prepared to drop her at any second if need be. She values your time and attention and is willing to pay your price tag with the understanding that if she stops paying, you take your sexy ass down the r…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 02:41 AM
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You are 100% correct my dude. Doesn't even have to be years. I went from fucking 0 girls last year to fucking 10 this year, and the shit got old surprisingly fast. I'm no casanova, but now that I know I can get pussy with a little bit of work, it's lost its short term appeal, and I'm taking a step back to reconsider what's important to me and am strongly considering a genuine monk mode (not trying to fake it like I did before I got laid and was distracted by wanting pussy)
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:53 AM
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I'm inclined to agree about at least being direct. Even if I lost frame, I'm glad I said something, unquestionably. And yeah he knows he pushed my buttons but at the very least, he can't do it going forward without being overt as opposed to covert and passive like he has been, because I addressed it. If it continues, now that I've drawn the line, I have no problem calling him out again since it clearly makes him the violator. I really like the way you put it though, especially about being the au…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:41 AM
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If she apologized she knows she knows she did something wrong. You're hamstering if you do anything else than next this girl. Unacceptable.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:28 AM
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Ya that's a hard red flag. Comepletely unacceptable to even joke like that. She crossed a line and you let her keep doing it. No amount of green flags covers her doing something so disrespectful especially after telling her it's not cool. This is not behavior to be fixed. Next her or suffer.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:08 AM
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I look at going to higher ups as being really weak for something between two guys. But yeah, I definitely could've worded things better. I'm honestly just glad I said something because now I've put it into words and drawn a line. Thanks for your thoughts.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:22 AM
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That's a negative on quitting caffeine. Non-negotiable. Sweat is off the charts even when I'm calm. I'm a sweater no matter the circumstances.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:29 AM
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It's a personal preference but I am investing in some special undershirts for the time being.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:27 AM
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ItsDri. Read a site that reviewed all 3 and for my needs, ItsDri seems to be the best balance of quality and price. Here's hoping.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 05:16 AM
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Good to know. Whatever solves it.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 05:08 AM
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I actually just found a similar brand that looks to be my preferred choice out of the 3. I like where your head is at though.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 05:07 AM
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I'm checking into similar products. Didnt know there was anything like it. Will be a lifechanger if I can get it to work without a bad reaction
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:06 AM
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I've tried but I sweat naturally no matter what.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:04 AM
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The reviews look promising. Going to give it a try, thanks for the recommendation.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:11 AM
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Might have to tbh. Will try shaving and the baking soda. I'm 27 lol, I'm just a naturally sweaty guy but really in the armpits.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:09 AM
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May be the best short term solution, but I usually hate wearing layers since it's hot where I live.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:08 AM
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Bro my hair started falling out in high school, be glad you had yours for longer while it lasted. Don't fight it, don't dwell on what you can't change. Accept it and shave your head. The buzzed look is universal and timeless. Think about Jason Statham if you're worried about sex appeal. Plenty of dudes like that in real life who get laid no problem. Any concern about your SMV dropping over something relatively innocuous is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:30 PM
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Great post. I'm still learning the ins and outs of teasing but I agree with pretty much everything you said. I went on a Tinder date recently who was a tougher customer than normal. More stern and a bitchier vibe than I'm used to. I have a hard time teasing these girls above a certain level because that's when it starts to feel unnatural. But I didn't force it. I waited until we talked about a really popular movie. When she said she hadn't seen it, I jumped all over it saying in amazement, "what…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 10:30 PM
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For something simple, consistent and relatively easy (organization wise), it's a great starting point. I went from complete beginner to squatting a 1rm of 305 within about 3 months. I lost a ton of fat and got pretty strong for not having done almost any lifting prior. I'm sure there are better programs, but doing anything consistently is better than the best program fragmented and done inconsistently. I only did it for 4 months but still use my base of 5x5 to this day with other accessories and…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 07:25 AM
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I always close on the first date since I started. I screen hard for DTF girls and eliminate time wasters. Always coffee, except for the occasional one-off like we can only meet real late, then a drink or two. But 99% of the time, it's coffee, heavy flirting or work sex into the conversation based on earlier messages. Then I go in for the close and ask them (in a tone of assumption) if they want to leave. They say yes, and then we go. It really doesn't have to be more complicated than that. I've …
/r/askTRP04/12/18 07:05 AM
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This is perfectly normal. You are like the 5 people you spend the most time around. If you spend your time around self-destructive, beta sadsacks and have gone redpill, you will quickly realize they do not add to your value and are a negative influence. It happened where when I was in a transitional period going from blue to red, and I made friends with a beta guy who was an alright dude, but was mopey, defeated, passive aggressive, and couldn't relate at all to me talking about pulling girls or…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:02 AM
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Ugly/fat girls are good for the experience of learning how to talk on a date, or just get laid if you have no other options. I've only slept with one of these girls when I first started online dating because it was so new to me and I was very horny. Once it was over though, I was disgusted and haven't stooped to that level of desperation since. I recommend doing it only once if at all, but you should really aim higher, even if it's just a little bit by choosing one or the other, e.g. thin but no…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:03 AM
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There are tons of them. Just because your limited mindset can't comprehend realities different from your own doesn't mean they don't exist. I personally know of a 6'1 fella who is thin, but good looking by any reasonable standard but is incredibly awkwardly shy and introverted and has a very hard time getting laid. This guy on looks alone, according to your logic should be a lady killer. Meanwhile, I'm 5'6 in shoes on a good day, and consistently fuck tinder dates because I learned how to spit g…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:45 AM
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You know nothing about me dude. I don't go around awkwardly misinterpreting every day interactions especially at the Dr's office. I have a full time job in an office, and I wouldn't last long if I misinterpreted every interaction where a girl was just being nice to me. I regularly hook up on Tinder and know how to vibe/build rapport. I know what's appropriate and what's not. As I've said below, I'm not questioning whether she was flirting or not, it's more so just processing the interaction and …
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:21 PM
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Thanks for your take. Finally someone else who knows what I'm talking about. And you're right, it was crazy of me to think I could actually take that somewhere. I was so worked up I just went for it. Still practicing my daygame to be honest, so this was definitely a learning experience for me especially considering the circumstances. Damn, I had no idea about the STR aspect. If I could go back, what should I have done differently to get in her circle? What would've been the approach?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:17 PM
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Again, you nailed it. I'm still learning day game and being able to read signals and do a proper number close. Ironically I can close on Tinder dates no problem (actually just got back from spending the night with a girl) but due to this streamlined process of meeting DTF girls, I'm lacking in the daygame department, so I really need to work on that.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:29 PM
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The situation has seriously gone over most of these guys' heads. You're 100% right. I only did it because I got embarrassed and am not used to practicing day game in situations where there are not intentions assumed ahead of time (like Tinder). I folded and try do downplay it which I really don't want to be habit. I doubt asking for her number would've yielded anything, but you're right, the move would've been to get her number. Gah, I have a long way to go.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:27 PM
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I don't think so but ok
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:06 AM
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Did you read the part where I wasn't interested until she started verbally flirting and touching me? Female doctors don't put adult male patients' hands 4 inches away from their pussy. I'm not even questioning if she was flirting, it's just more asking how I can get better at handling this kind of flirting.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:06 AM
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Right. I have good veins and never have any trouble giving blood.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:50 AM
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I get you....but I've had my blood taken multiple times and have never had my hand between anyone's thighs during the process until today. Having processed it a bit, I think she got a little too excited herself and realized she initiated which is why she didnt give me any shit for it.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:41 AM
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Don't argue with a reality you can't change brother. Waste of time. Focus on the results you get and living your best life.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 03:16 AM
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I feel your pain, I'm the same height and had the same thought. But. Experience has taught me that due to my not ugly looks and semi-built/ strong appearance, and better style than 90% of guys, I get plenty of looks, IOIs, etc, and still hook up with cuties. So, I immediately feel better lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 11:03 AM
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I struggle with the same thing dude it's ok. I notice better results when I stop overthinking someone's opinion of me and try to be my most authentic self by saying things I feel like saying and not saying anything if I don't feel like it. Also, the comment about body language is huge. I notice when I try to keep to myself, I look like other people who don't look friendly and like they're angry and don't want company. People who are happy and friendly and seem to be liked, will comment on things…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:28 PM
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Every family dynamic is going to vary but based on what you described and my own experiences, there is little if any reason to shit test family betas who fall in line. If you are the alpha and trying to maintain or grow this position, you will for sure encounter more tests and resistance in general. Example: got along just fine with my domineering aunt, until I discovered TRP, self-confidence, abundance, high standards, etc, and the switch in her testing me (turning into straight disrespect some…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:05 PM
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100%. Treat them with normal (albeit family appropriate) shit-test responses and there's a good chance they'll fall in line, but in my experience it's not usually a quick process. Will take some time to change their perception of you if they feel you are weak in any way.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:24 PM
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Simple. He has better game than you. Looks matter, only to a point. As long as you're not ugly, game wins every time. I got a buddy, who I would argue is slightly less attractive than me, and more overweight. But, he pulls good looking girls at least once a week, and he literally had a plate come pick our drunk asses up at 3am, when she had to work the next morning, just because she was that into him. He's confident, always in a good mood, and always making jokes/laughing. Looks may be the spark…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:16 PM
1

I get what you're saying. Like she wouldn't have been so open about it at risk to her reputation.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 11:55 PM
1

It's something I've been toying with. And 100%, I'm a hygienic person, so that part wouldn't be hard. I'm hairy tho, so may have to take care of that before I go for it. You've given me something to think about.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:54 AM
1

Not the first time I've heard it, but I'm super nervous about getting rejected if she's not into it lol.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:31 AM
2

Very true, good point. Took a breather, chatted with my brother a bit, and already feeling on the up.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:43 AM
1

Ugh this hurts so fucking bad to read but you're spot on man, I 100% agree that's exactly what happened. I let it get to my head because she's the most attractive lay I pulled off Tinder, and it changed things after we hooked up. I take full responsibility and will keep this in mind going forward.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:14 AM
2

You're absolutely right my man. I guess maybe this one got to me more because she's the most attractive girl I've managed to pull off Tinder, so I let it change the way I normally am. I got way too in my head about it instead of just letting things ride and be natural and idgaf. Thank you. Onto the next.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:10 AM
1

Yes, I deserve this.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:36 AM
1

Just got out when this happened, but you're not wrong
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:13 AM
1

Yuck, I did relapse a bit. And yeah, at least there's that ✋🏽
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:13 AM
2

This helps more than you know ❤
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:09 AM
8

I am almost that description comepletely, except for height (5'6). This is my situation at work, where lots of people have groups or work buddies they eat with, walk with on breaks, etc. I on the other hand am cool with my team, but don't really hang out at work. On breaks, I have my earbuds in and go for walks, and comfortably eat by myself in the cafe (lots of people do this, so it doesn't stand out). Whenever I do talk to people, I'm normal and converse, flirt, etc. I don't feel like it hurts…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 01:27 AM
3

This. Had to carefully choose my strategy with a girl on my team at work. The environment is very social and there's lots of interacting in close proximity, so uncensored agree and amplify doesn't really fly here. Opted for dread/ignoring/disapproving looks, and she now openly seeks my approval and acts very submissive. May not work for everyone or every situation but when it does it's gold.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:46 PM
3

Probably one of the most important lessons I've learned from TRP. Either they're into it at that point, or they're not. Either way, you obliterate the "friend zone" so many clueless guys put themselves in.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:35 PM
1

Nothing wrong at all, I completely agree. Before I got my smv up, I exclusively dated/fucked chubby or obese girls. They say pussy is pussy and maybe that's true when you don't have options, but my first stick thin girl was like heroin. Being able to actually throw them around (important for me as a 5'6 guy), bend their legs in pretty much any position and really go balls deep is irreplaceable to me now. Chubby girls (not obese) are still a good lay but nothing like a thin girl you can merciless…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:33 PM
2

Learning this the hard way was the first time I experienced the true feeling of betrayal. A lesson I have never forgotten.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 07:02 AM
1

It's good and fine to be able to enjoy your own company but the bottom line, is that humans are social creatures and extended periods of isolation are bad for you, there's no way around it. Physical and mental side effects from too much loneliness are real. I like the message of being able to be by yourself without spiraling out of control, but the reality is that to be a happy mammal, you need to mix the right amount of socializing into your day to thrive, even if it's only a few minutes of chi…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 12:29 AM
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Lol yes it is, you're the first person to catch that. And true, carrying around that extra mass definitely helps. Sounds like something I would pay attention to as well to be honest lol
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:12 PM
2

Appreciate the encouragement man, that's exactly what I'll continue to do.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:39 PM
2

Lol I have a needle in my ass as we speak
/r/askTRP01/09/18 11:36 PM
2

lol sometimes I can be that's why I asked, guy :)
/r/askTRP01/09/18 06:02 AM
2

Ohhh gotcha. Yep, I can see why now
/r/askTRP01/09/18 05:53 AM
1

what lol why would that bother you? Slick usually means cool, smooth, etc. I thought?
/r/askTRP01/09/18 04:43 AM
1

I didn't see anything about, so not sure
/r/askTRP01/09/18 03:34 AM
1

You're totally right, it is all about intent, and the situations aren't super high stake, so I do think I should chill a bit about it. I might throw em a buddy or two and see how it goes as an experiment. In the moment, I'm fine, and always show the true confidence I've earned at my job, but it's just one of those things I couldn't help but wonder about. Thanks for the thoughtful response man, I appreciate it :)
/r/askTRP01/09/18 03:33 AM
5

Insecurity and competition/ hierarchy. Just experienced this in full action last week. Was on a trip to see some family. I'm 27 and have a 25 year old girl cousin who is pretty successful for her age and makes great money. She took me to a baseball game with 5 of her female friends, who were mostly all well behaved and they clearly had a loose structure with my cousin being the leader. I sat next to a girl with the classic bitchy attitude who resembled a less attractive Amanda Seyfried. She had …
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:30 AM
0

It's really not necessary and sounds like a time waste to me that only gives her an excuse to screen you out. I've never been asked that, but if I was, I would decline.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:01 PM
5

So true. And. You're also contributing to these girl's falsely inflated online smv.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:28 PM
1

A lot of guys in here are bringing up the same consistent truth. If you have a hard time getting laid, or just need release, fucking unattractive girls has its place, but it is not and should not be a long term strategy if you know damn well you can do better. In-person, I am attractive enough to feel mutual attraction with and game girls at my smv or even sometimes higher (roughly 6-7s), but because I am still learning to how close in-person, I have only closed with online game. With online gam…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:16 PM
7

I disagree girls shouldn't notice what you wear at all. Seeing as maybe 80-85 percent of guys dress like shit, it stands out in a good way when you show at least a little style. This can be done with jeans and a T-shirt as well, doesn't have to be fancy. E.g. simple colors, form fitting, etc. Well calibrated style, even if subtle, shows social intelligence and is a great way to portray that you're a step above the rest.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 01:05 AM
2

"Not bad. With my help, you could be the best."
/r/askTRP11/06/18 12:58 AM
2

Fighting is the worst option and puts you in jeopardy of losing everything. Physical disrespect like that is not normal in the functioning adult world. You need to remove yourself from situations where this is happening. For the smart man, fighting is for defending yourself and others as a last resort. Not establishing your dominance.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:05 PM
2

Dude she's fucking crazy and toxic and you need to get out asap. I know it can be hard to resist sex even with a crazy girl, but no amount of TRP will fix this girl, if only for the sole reason that she wants to hurt and control you and is clearly damaged. She will never be happy for reasons completely unrelated to you. I was a beta bitch with a crazy girl at one time very much like you, and the dynamic change can be fascinating and entertaining to watch unfold. I literally went from crying and …
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:19 AM
1

Thanks again, and yeah I agree. I feel a lot more chilled out about the situation. Also helps that I vented a little bit. I'll be alright, just going to maintain frame and not give her an ounce.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:36 AM
1

Yeah, I think hard ignoring will prolong the situation more than I'd like, to be honest. It's such a strong statement. Even in your story, it's a clear example of the effects it can bring. I think to preserve the work environment and for my sanity, I may have to pitch it like you said, "sure we don't talk a lot, but I'm not ignoring you etc." The only thing that may betray me is the fact that I unfriended her on FB, which I admit I did in a moment of anger, but I suppose I could diffuse that by …
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:56 AM
1

I appreciate the simplicity and I'm inclined to agree. I guess I'm just not sure how to maintain professionalism when she lacks it in every sense of the word and is very likely to try and confront me about not talking to her. What am I supposed to say to that you know? Feign ignorance? "We're work friends"?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:25 AM
1

I mean maybe? I don't know, I just want to do my thing and be left in peace.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:09 AM
1

Thanks for the thought out response man. You're exactly right, and I see her working up towards making a move. I have absolutely zero desire to fuck her at this point, due to how ugly her actions have shown her to be. I think you nailed it in terms of not trying to talk things out or speak my mind about it. In the end, it's still validation if she knows she upset me. Also, I actually really like my current job, which is just another reason why I wouldn't chance anything. So how do I maintain ind…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:04 AM
1

Does this work in spite of how I ignore her? For example, looking right past her to talk to someone behind her and giving her zero acknowledgement, not saying hi, etc?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:42 AM
4

Beautiful post my friend. There are so many concepts to TRP, that I've chosen to specialize and improve in one before the others. I have chosen and committed to frame. It's been about a week that I am constantly reminding myself of what my frame is, and I am already seeing a small but very perceptible and positive difference in the way people respond to me. I am working on building and maintaining my frame everyday because it really does touch every aspect of your life, especially within yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 01:56 AM
1

Thank you brother, will do.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:08 AM
2

Ya but that wasn't my point. I'm just saying if you want to show it off, pics are the way to do it. But definitely make sure they're accurate and don't exaggerate you. As long as the conversation keeps flowing, I send other pics to show it accurately.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:08 AM
1

I've mainly used hotels. Yes it hurts the wallet, but I refuse to bring girls into my living situation and I'm not, NOT getting laid. I try to be super upfront about not having my own place and most girls are understanding if I just state the facts without explaining or acting ashamed. The rare girl lives with a non-judmental roommate which can be an option. My main plate right now also doesn't bring people home, so we've sorta made a ritual of driving out to BFE at night and fucking in/against …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:06 AM
2

Wanna jet back to my place and pop in a blue-ray?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:48 AM
7

I am a new redpiller in practice but have known about it for about 2 years now. Even for me, I know that's a big fat YES. In the time I've known about TRP, I have re-examined my past relationships under the lens of natural female behaviour, and so much makes sense, it's scary. My biggest example of it being hardwired into girls, is a girl I knew and dated on and off since we were kids - literally seven. Now looking back, I know we dated due to a strong emotional bond, but what is also clear, is …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:56 AM
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Surprise Dick pics. I have an average length dick, with below average thickness and have received mostly positive responses. I have one pic that has a flattering angle and makes me look huge, and have received both "I don't think I'll be able to take that" - (the response writes itself) as well as (and I shit you not) "Please stretch my pussy out!!" So ya, pics.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:35 AM
1

Lol those are good. My problem is I let myself get off balanced when it happens, so it's harder to have that attitude in the moment. I'm still trying to internalize that mentality of keeing it light and not taking the person seriously, but definitely making progress from where I used to be ( getting visibly upset). Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 03:27 PM
2

How do you respond to them? I'm 5'6 and not very good when confronted on my height face to face (I act unfazed, but don't really have anything to say). Tips?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 01:43 PM
2

Beautifully done. I really need to make an effort to be more creative in this sense. Thank you for the examples.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:52 PM
3

Dude, I have a read up a ton on shit tests, agree and amplify, etc, but you truly just crystallized the concept for me. Thank you so much.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:50 PM
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Jesus, can you specify how to agree and amplify something so inherently negative? Much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 01:40 AM
2

I'm sorry to hear all that man. But I'm super happy for you that you have the right attitude about helping yourself. I had to cut my dad out of my life for the exact same reasons you had to your mom. When the person is that toxic there is no other way. All the best to you brother.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 06:57 AM
1

You are so right. I intend to use this time to my advantage any way that I can. I sort of have been doing a pre-monk mode, so I think now is as good a time as any to fully commit.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:52 AM
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That's great that this is the situation for you, but OP is not alone. There are many guys raised by single mothers who unfortunately end up feeling the same as OP. I was raised without a strong male figure and I see all too clearly how it affected me. The important part is to not dwell in it, and make it your mission to become your own man. You are very lucky to have a strong father in your life and I hope you realize how lucky you are.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:50 AM
2

You are not alone dude. The other guys are right. All that truly matters in the end is what you do with this knowledge you've gained. I would be lying if I said I didn't resent my mother in some way, but I am working on letting this go as I realize that now I am fully aware. And some guys never figure it out and die just believing that the world fucked them. Don't be that guy. Cultivate your independence and learn what it really means to be a man. Be your own male figure. Decide how you want to …
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:48 AM
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This is a revolting realization to have, and I deal with it all the time especially since I still live at home (Doing everything I can to change that asap). Growing up, I was the beta-est beta who ever beta'd due to how my mom raised me, but after waking up, I see now every why and how I ever went wrong. Despite that though, I feel so much more power and control just being aware. I no longer fall for my mom's guilt traps, or emotional manipulation. She'll still try to use it on me every now and …
/r/askTRP04/01/18 03:18 AM
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She's trying to keep you undesirable to other women so you she doesn't have to worry about you trading up or cheating. It's an attempt at manipulation and control. Tell her oh well, this is how things are now and continue getting in shape. Bonus effect is this keeps her on her toes as she realizes you are sexually valuable to other women and she has to work to keep you.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:30 AM
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