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If a statement that makes no sense is true, then obviously this leads us to a different statement that is meaningless. If a third statement that makes no sense were true, we'd be in reach of something not entirely unlike some kind of conclusion.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 10:43 PM
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Thanks! Gotta admit I made myself hungry writing it.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 07:28 PM
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I don't generally like comparing complex things to other things, but in this instance, try comparing dating to food. People who are more willing to try new things and don't have a lot of aversions have an easier time finding food to eat. It might not be what they were hankering after, it might not taste good, and it might objectively be terrible for their health, but lucky them, they won't suffer or go hungry! They have a natural advantage in life over 'picky eaters'. However, given all the poss…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 06:52 PM
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Nope, it's definitely come off the internet now. They've successfully normalized enough of it that I've heard real men say things in normal conversations that would have been considered fringe misogyny just a few years ago. They're pulling on the blanket.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/26 10:06 PM
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Quite frankly, it is a disingenuous misrepresentation of the fact that romantic relationships require upkeep. A lot of dudes idealize that they are loyal because they'll never break up with you once they picked you. Doesn't matter if they bully you, ignore you, dismiss you and/or actively detract from your enjoyment of life every day - they are there no matter what, and that's what matters. Once you've presented unconditional and therefore superior love as this fully passive process, then obviou…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 01:55 PM
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I don't think she was trying to make you feel bad. You just built up your penis into a big deal she can't look at without a boner, and then one day you just whipped it out to pee while she was brushing her damn teeth. From never allowing it to be seen to 'we are now so casual I can piss while you're doing hygiene' is a large and sudden gap. Giggling indicates surprise, happiness, and the simple fact that watching a man pee is kind of hilarious.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/25 08:53 PM
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I'm trying to circumscribe for you, in a slightly exaggerated way, that you have defined any physical attraction outside of a very specific expression of it as 'lukewarm', no matter what other commenters are telling you about how that doesn't make sense in the real world. Well, in order to continue to subscribe to this world view, and still be able to find happiness with a woman who wanted you that very specific way you want to be wanted, you have to play that Harlequin character. You have to un…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/25 08:15 PM
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That's fine. You're allowed to want that - we all want things. I guess the follow up becomes, are you drop dead hot? You want to turn heads and make women weak in the knees before you've said a word, are you actually bringing that Harlequin book cover energy when you walk into a room? What about you do you think should cause lip biting and hair fixing all along the bar as they stare at your ass all the way to your seat? From your post and comments, it sounds like you don't have that, and you're …
/r/ExRedPill03/08/25 03:28 AM
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OP, I'd like to explore this a bit more if you don't mind. Your first girlfriend was 10 years older than you? How old were you and how did you meet? What interested you in each other? What was the relationship like, what did you two do and relate about?
/r/ExRedPill19/07/25 12:56 AM
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He was, from pictures, a perfectly cute young man. It's quite possible his body language and physical presence detracted from this, but who gains from claiming he was unattractive as if the rest of the world doesn't have eyes?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/25 02:36 AM
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I feel like you're conflating initial attraction for willingness to pursue and invest into a relationship. You can find someone cute and interesting when you meet them and realize after a few minutes to a few dates that you have no long-term interest in being with them. Neediness is one of those things that can contribute to that.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/25 04:36 PM
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Excellent union job in my city, with decent pension and great benefits. Source, am married to the truck driver
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 06:58 PM
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Aside from good advice from others, it's unusual that you managed to get two first dates, nvm a long term relationship, from talking to strangers in the street. None of this is a contest, but if it were, you'd be ahead of a lot of people there.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/24 06:24 PM
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Reminds me a bit of the book 'Interior Chinatown'. Generic Asian Men all looking to finally get speaking roles... But the only other role available is Kung Fu Guy.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/24 08:41 PM
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I don't understand what you expect as a response. Sure, I could ring a little dinner bell and yell 'pussy's on, come and get it' and get a couple lousy lays in a row every time, and I'm old, saggy and pregnant. But I wouldn't describe it as feeling enthusiastically wanted as a person - it makes me feel as disposable as your theoretical man. How ISN'T it being considered disposable and subhuman if apparently every man would be okay sticking their dicks in you, consenting or not, given the opportu…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/24 11:30 PM
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There is more stoicism than hedonism in there, from where I'm sitting.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 12:53 AM
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Just So Stories in the style of Kipling. EP decides on a conclusion and works back to find justifications. Example: it's the best thing for the species to have as much genetic variety as possible. This is obviously why human women evolved to sleep with as many men as possible, to have varied children, and human men evolved to want to stay close to one woman, to help guarantee that at least some children are his and to ensure all her children are well cared for, since he can't know for sure which…
/r/ExRedPill19/05/24 08:32 PM
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It predates the red pill by a very long time, and it's not amazing advice in this day and age when communicating through devices in our pockets is so easy. There is no practical barrier to contacting the other person, so we all know if you don't reach out it's because you either weren't that interested in doing so, or your silence is the message. It doesn't avoid you seeming needy, it simply makes you seem not that interested. The other person could react to that by trying to catch your interest…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 09:24 PM
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I don't feel like you've answered me.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 03:15 PM
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I'm so fed up with the notion that the classically unattractive guys of the world are just waiting for the chance to cover you personally with love, support, and maybe all the emeralds the size of your bellybutton they can afford. They are statistically not more likely to than anyone else. The problem here is you and your false dichotomy. If they are your friends, you don't want them mistreated by anybody. Who are these 'ugly guys' you are so sure are waiting in the wings for your friends, starr…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:20 PM
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I'm not really sure what your point is now. I don't see at all how you go from 'women can be distracted' to 'they are shallow hoes or dumb cattle' in a single step. I'd need to see a number of intermediary steps. But supposing I accepted that just to see how it all plays out, what does this end up meaning for the incels who can't even distract dumb cattle long enough to get laid? And get mad at the cattle for it?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 06:01 PM
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Those work. Material benefits will usually distract a while. If there's enough of them and the man is liberal enough with them, they can stop being simply a distraction, and instead, putting up with the man's bad behaviors becomes the consciously accepted price of entry to the amusement park. Other distractions I've seen could be, he's such a funny guy that you can take a while to get that some of his jokes are really mean and not actually jokes. The chemistry is so great and the sex is so fanta…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 03:31 PM
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The 'magical misogyny detector' might not work so well or fast if you place some good, attractive qualities right in front of the ray. But what does it say for guys who point this out as some kind of gotcha? That they have nothing to distract women from their glaring issues, and they think that's everyone else's problem? Either way, you'll still either have to work on your life so you have good qualities to provide distraction from the misogyny, or you'll have to remove the misogyny so there's n…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 01:11 AM
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THANK YOU.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 12:09 AM
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I swear I'm fed up with the complaint that 'men pay for the first date'. Quite frankly, a first date should be cheap anyway, but even more frankly? As long as the wage gap is a thing, and the gap in housecare and childcare contribution is so enormous, and I have to take safety measures my date can't even imagine just to get out of the house, I'm not going to make a big 'oh no, equality' deal that someone else paid for my popcorn or got me a carnation.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 05:42 PM
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Holy hell, this is a lot
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 09:21 PM
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I think they are groomers looking for someone they can train into compliance, and they view their dating partners as objects that fulfill or do not fulfill a purpose. They themselves also think this, they just use different vocabulary to say the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:30 PM
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Well, there's only one good way to get there - you figure out how far you're willing to go for her and you tell her... Pretty much what you've told reddit. You tried to front to catch her attention, be honest about it and move on being yourself. It's exhausting to play a role long-term. You tell her you're really interested in her. You're either willing or unwilling to move with her if she goes, that part's on you and you'll have to be honest about it and accept how she'll feel about that if it …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 02:33 AM
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Unfortunately, nobody can tell you if you blew your chance, or if you had no fair chance to begin with. But you're clearly not happy with yourself and how you handled the evening, and I think your insights are good ones. As of right now, she hasn't had a chance to talk to the real you - she's talked to the guy you thought you should be. A guy who answered few questions honestly, 'didn't take her seriously', negged her, and mentally escalated her being a busy, active person who actively tried to …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 01:37 AM
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I've also observed this. I've seen examples like 'my girlfriend expected me to hold a baby, real men don't hold babies', 'I'm being forced to go to a funeral for her family member', 'she handed me a grocery list and there were PADS and TOFU on it', basically a bunch of things that you could only call shit tests if you think supporting people and occasionally being helpful is shit. Possibly some women suspect you are going to be like this, which does make it a test, but I think most of us would b…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:05 PM
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1) Being willing and able to pick up after themselves, physically and emotionally 2) Being willing and able to get me food when I'm hungry. My whole love language is 'I'm on my way home, what can I bring you/make you'. I can overlook a lot if there's the right takeout involved.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 03:07 AM
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That's because "competence" is code for "problem solving", not just "having means to problem solve", and a lot of dudes fail at realizing this either for their own good or anyone else's. You can be a fantastic workman, but if you never lift a finger to fix up your own home you are not competent. You can know how to do housework but if you live in filth you are not competent. You can be rich, but if you cannot apply your wealth correctly you can't get things you want, so you're not competent. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:44 PM
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As I commented above, I am married to a garbage man. He's wonderful, makes a very good living, and doesn't work too many days, so he can spend a lot of time with me and our kid and doing various construction around the house. He's handy with all kinds of things. Did he mention he drives a huge truck? Trucks are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:32 PM
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I'm married to the garbage man. He's great. Takes showers twice a day, though, if you're looking for a con list for the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:27 PM
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