| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Great First Date ended with sex but she felt “No Spark” | Conversation | poet0588 | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 05:48 PM |
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| 2 | It's easy as fuckI’m 5’9” but not indian. If there is IOI on the dance floor while we are both dancing. I’ll extend my hand to her. Either she can accept it or not | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 07:33 AM |
| 2 | It's easy as fuckNah it’s def a major cheat code/power boost | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 07:23 AM |
| 1 | How to find other guys to game with?St Pete mid 30s | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 08:23 AM |
| 11 | I think I'm deleting TinderI also got banned from hinge 🤛 | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Getting An Ex Back?As someone who got an ex back years ago… I DO NOT recommend it. Just move on | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 01:59 AM |
| – | How tall are you and what’s your lay count?5’9, 37, 20+ in 2025 Body type: moderately Active but I love craft beers, burgers & fries most weekends | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 02:07 AM |
| 4 | What is the difference between quiet and mysteriousNot sure why you got downvoted. I believe your response is spot on +1 | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between quiet and mysteriousI’m going to try to take a stab at this due to a recent interaction that I had with 3 women in my friend group. 2 who called me quiet and 1 who called me mysterious. Quiet is self explanatory. A pure introvert. Reserved and is just there… Mysterious is someone who is hard to read or elusive. This sparks curiosity. Think introvert with extrovert tendencies. An example of mysterious. Is when a girl gets hit on by 5 guys at the bar and she rejects all 5. Then you pull up, order a drink, make eye co… | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Any books to recommendThe Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Are Tall Girls hard to Pull as an Average or Below Average Height Man?As someone who is 5’9” and has hooked up with taller women.. Between 5’10” and 6’2”. JackSquirts is nothing short of truth. I have a buddy who is 5’6” and I’ve seen him pull women taller than him. | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | My ex came back, we had sex, but she says she’ll never want moreI’ve been in your shoes before. Same exact situation with an ex. If I was to do it all over again. I’d simply ignore her or treat her like a whore then kick her out. No rekindling.. None of that shit | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t testsThis was fun. Scored 70% in confidence but 50% for the other two. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:43 PM |
| 4 | She invited me to cook together at her place. Should I make a move before or after cooking?Cook together flirt while yall cooking. Go in for the kil.. Smash but the flirting part is very important. Just have fun tbh | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | What job profession have you seduced the most and why?RNs & school teachers | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Why does the chick keep staring after rejection?Had this happen to me sorta. Got the talking to a girl at Bar A but was getting a boring vibe from her. Told her I had to run. Later she comes into Bar B and she’s staring me down as she walks by me. 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 03:22 PM |
| 0 | What's a good opening phrase?“Hi” | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Would a women date a man, in a lower income bracket?Some women won’t care | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:05 AM |
| 3 | How do I keep her hooked over text?Like everyone has basically said.. Only text to set dates. Be a busy man even if you’re laying on your couch not doing shit. Trust me I used to struggle with this as well! | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | On a good and a bad month, how many lays you get at apps?Someone mentioned they only use it on the toilet. 🍻 to that I do the same. The apps are trash. I stay on the FL gulf and have tinder downloaded til next week. Only use the apps while traveling or if there’s a holiday. It’s much more fun interacting in person… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 11:02 AM |
| 0 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?Yes! Just saw this earlier today | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 02:26 AM |
| 16 | Stop playing video games, get out into the real world.What about anime? | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Dating tips as a man (to save time and money)Formatting looks like song lyrics | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: best and worst deodorants you smelled on a guyVersace man eau fraiche (I’m a dude) | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?Hinge. Went on 1 date and smashed. Been traveling a lot recently. So we haven’t hung out in a while. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | AMA: I've been on 17 dates with 10 women in two weeks and sealed the deal with 4 of them 6 times.How important is building rapport on a dating app before setting a date? I’m a straight shooter.. not sorry. I have lived in 2 different cities the last 3 years. I have had success with bumble, hinge and tinder In one city. Hinge and tinder in the new city I call home. What apps have you had success on? City? Age range for women? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | how many of you go to bars/clubs alone?I go by myself most of the time. If you have some social skills, going alone helps. But like everyone said going out with female friends is a power up. The few times I have done that. A lot of women were in my orbit. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:32 PM |
| 3 | What's an instant turn off for you guys from a girl?You’re trying to look good for yourself (health, confidence.. etc). When she doesn’t care about her health and wants to eat donuts. While you do the lifting! | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:03 AM |
| 45 | What's an instant turn off for you guys from a girl?When they are fat but want a fit guy | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 05:08 AM |
| 79 | How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of youI agree with you! I was in a similar situation on my 4th date with a chick. I ended up leaving her because she was accepting the guy’s advances. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Sex on the First Date, How to proceed?Text her letting her know that you had fun as well. Lay low for a few days but if she reaches out again. Suggest meeting up! I’m in the same boat as you after a first date hook up. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?I’ve learned after a first date or even sex. I’ve learned to never ever chase! Also learned some other things! | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 01:47 PM |
| 7 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?3% man and atomic attraction Book of Pook | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 10:11 PM |
| 15 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI’ll read her everything in Shakespeare, 8 different languages! Besides you’re the real hero she needs. Put on your cape and save her! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 06:43 AM |
| 25 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetBeen thinking about doing this during my date tonight. Good to know this is effective! | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for going to a dance night club solo?How did it go OP? | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Any advice for going to a dance night club solo?Have fun! That will give out a fun vibe. And smile but keep dancing if chicks are in your orbit | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | How has your height affected your dating life? What is your current mindset about your height?5’8.5 here without shoes! I’ve been on dates and slept with a few women who were between 5’10-6’1. Doesn’t really bother me. To me it came down to.. Do we vibe and would we like to see each again? | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 03:56 AM |
| -1 | Fun little things to have in your home for when you pull girls?Nintendo switch & Mario Kart. Loser takes one piece of clothing off. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelFitness makes a difference. I have had women approach me and start a conversation. I am about 5’9 | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How should I show intent?Also show intent with strong eye contact and smiling. If this helps.. Try to smile with your eyes. Be playful! | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 12:26 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Thanks for the clarification. Can’t believe I missed that! I feel he should have kept his options open instead of constantly messaging her on tinder | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I think you messed up when you continued to message her via tinder after getting the number. You should have immediately set up that date | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:43 PM |
| 8 | [FIELD REPORT] Physique matters more than heightYou can’t change height but you can change your physique! | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 01:05 AM |
| 4 | DPS, the 3 pillars of attractionOkay I see what you’re saying. I think sneakers with a suit is tacky. I was taught very young, that a suit goes with dress shoes not sneakers. | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | How should you approach groups?I agree with this! I did this Saturday night. | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 17 | DPS, the 3 pillars of attractionNice post but I’m going to have to disagree with the last part of dress. You can still have a style while wearing Jordans. I have had both men and women compliment my Jordans even though I do not wear them as much as I used to in my 20s. | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I was in a situation like this a few weeks back. Idk why I didn’t use the “.. Didn’t feel a connection.. etc”. I just told her I’m heading out to watch the game (NBA playoffs at the time). She had a lot of red flags leading to the date (late, didn’t want to be stood up, cig smoker, had to leave early to get her roommate.. etc). Sorry didn’t mean to hi jack this thread lol | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 11:24 PM |
| 0 | I’ll ask one final time, should I approach a girl I find attractive🤦♀️ | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | How many women have you had sex with? Between what ages did you get the most? Where did you usually go to find them? (Bars/Dance Clubs, Dating Apps, etc)Most of my success happened between 25 and 30. I’m 33 now in a new environment so I’m starting up again. I’m 5’9 but I’m also able to attract women fresh out of college since I look 5-10 years younger. Some of my success came from online dating, some from women approaching me and others from me approaching. I have lost count but there was a time when I was fresh out of a relationship I was sleeping with 2 different gals per week in the span of 4 months! | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 3 | How to build a reputation downtown/nightlifeThis has worked for me in some way. Great post! | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 09:38 PM |
| 11 | “Do women like muscles?”I feel being easy to look at, having style and being in shape will at least get you in the door with women! | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 03:23 AM |
| 6 | How do i get her attention thru text?Agreed move on buddy. Also, use your texts only to plan dates. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been interested in this girl I met on online who I’ve been talking/ texting since October but don’t know how to proceed☝🏿 💯 what he said | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Great First Date ended with sex but she felt “No Spark”I left my kinky shit in my apartment. Probably should keep that in the trunk for now on! Did make out with her, took her clothes off, fucked her, she enjoyed my fingers deep in her mouth.. etc | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Great First Date ended with sex but she felt “No Spark”Was low key waiting for this lol. Bed game was solid though I will admit it could’ve been a bit better if I wasn’t dealing with Phlebitis which is thankfully gone now! | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Great First Date ended with sex but she felt “No Spark”I will certainly do this instead of waiting. I thanked her for the honestly. Now I won’t purse her | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Great First Date ended with sex but she felt “No Spark”All good. This is a learning experience! | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Great First Date ended with sex but she felt “No Spark”Yeah I think that is something I will have to do next time. I didn’t text her until Monday but it was me asking her how her weekend went. And she seemed interested in knowing how mine went. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Great First Date ended with sex but she felt “No Spark”Oh mate? | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Great First Date ended with sex but she felt “No Spark”That’s what I think it was. Was talking to my buddy about this and he said exactly that! “She might have just wanted a hook up” | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Best cologne helps seduction, girls love it on men?In the past I’ve had women drop their pants quickly when I used Fahrenheit by Dior which I have yet to replace! But when I go on dates I get very good compliments (including strangers who are women) when I use Dior Sauvage. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Men, which one do you like most, thick woman or thin woman?Thick thighs with a Slim waist | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 05:05 PM |
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