poet_of_ambition Archive

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–	First date at the movies. What to do? Who said you had to show her that you were attracted to her? Or you that you had to kiss her? Just do what feels natural. If she's attracted to you then your only job is to make her enjoy your presence. Not to kiss her, not to show her that you're attracted to her, etc. Also, unless you're Captain Obvious himself, don't tell her that you like her. No worries though, good learning experience.	/r/seduction	02/12/18 07:50 PM
1	Girl asked if I wanted to go to the movies with her and said she’ll pay. What’s the protocol here. Straight up ask "So this is going to be a date, right?". If you're feeling zesty, you can say "Btw this is gonna be a date :)" but you must include the smiley face. Also, paying for movies is a bit forward, but you can reduce tension by saying "You can grab the movie tickets but dinner afterwards is on me." Also, I don't know why people make this so confusing. If you are confused, remember this: ask and you shall receive. Ask her and you shall receive an answer. No one on reddit can answer your …	/r/seduction	01/12/18 06:20 PM
2	How to get a girl that doesn't give a fuck LOL drunk people are a mess. Grab her number and shoot her a text when she's sober asking to meet up for a date. If she comes out, she's interested and it's up to you to close out (while sober, for the love of God don't take her to a bar). If she says no, she's not interested. Oh well, go find someone who is. And try this only once; do not be desperate. What you're doing is just about as hard as getting your two-year-old nephew to do your taxes.	/r/seduction	01/12/18 06:16 PM
3	How can I ask a smart and nerdy guy out? "Hey X, I know this is kinda random but are you free at all next weekend? I'm thinking of doing Y and I think it'd be fun if you joined." or some variation of that. For an extra trick, Y should be something that doesn't have a specific date/time (think grabbing food at a certain restaurant, movie, FroYo, hike, etc.) so that you don't have to get rejected if they want to come but are busy at the time of the time-specific event you asked them to.	/r/seduction	01/12/18 06:10 PM
7	Is this a good start? I have a close family member who has a severe mental illness that is keeping him/her isolated. It'll probably be a year or two before they can go back to school (after being isolated and only around doctors for the last three years already). You are 100% an inspiration and I'm proud asf of you OP. That being said, maybe if you're ready, try smiling? And maybe try a smile and a "what's up bro" nod at guys. Don't worry if people's eyes dart away. Some people are (a) pissed off (b) tired (c) rude o…	/r/seduction	01/12/18 06:08 PM
–	Assess this texting convo: what went wrong? I see where you're coming from, but I don't think extra texting is the best way to make her feel more comfortable. How I'd do it are Exchange instagram accounts over texts. This is a pretty clever move imo because it seems innocent but allows you to confirm that you're into her and lets her confirm that she thinks you're cute. It also lets her know a little bit more about you, so she knows what she's getting into. Meet in a public place where she feels safe. This might be a bar or restaurant ver…	/r/seduction	01/12/18 05:59 PM
–	Assess this texting convo: what went wrong? You want to build all rapport in person. You pretty much can't build a connection with someone over text so why even try. If she's intrigued, she'll meet up in person to see if y'all can build rapport. But no worries, all a learning experience.	/r/seduction	01/12/18 04:22 AM
–	First date at the movies. What to do? Either before the movie or after, ask her to grab Yogurtland or dessert or coffee. Since you wasted time with the movie, that's when you absolutely need to be smooth. Good news is that the movie is an easy conversation starter.	/r/seduction	01/12/18 12:27 AM
–	Assess this texting convo: what went wrong? There should be no such thing as a text convo. Text and FB Message are only to set up meetings in person. Also, your intuition is most likely spot on. It was probably too early to suggest meeting her was such a great thing, unless done correctly (in a smooth or funny way). But for the future, no text convos. Text to meet up, and do so in <6 messages. What I would have done is "Hey great meeting you, let's meet up sometime." She may or may respond. If she does not respond, feel free to wait a wee…	/r/seduction	01/12/18 12:17 AM
1	Looking for some advice First mistake, don't do anything over text or Facebook messenger. Text and messages (and even phone calls) are ONLY to set up a meeting in person. And you are to do this in fewer than six messages (unless extenuating circumstances but no BS). That being said, if she said she's not interested then she's not interested. Some people might say she is interested but is just playing hard to get. If that's the case, you're spending too much time and energy engaging in those games. Move on. This one's g…	/r/seduction	01/12/18 12:04 AM
1	23 y.o virgin needs advice at "making the next step" from casual talk with a stranger, to asking out. Not an expert, but my plan is to always close out quickly. You have sixty seconds. During those sixty seconds, do some small talk and be funny. When sixty seconds is up, close out. "Hey, I'm going to go to class/find my friends/whatever, but let me grab your number and let's hang sometime." Keep in mind the success of this depends on how smooth you are and how funny you were during those sixty seconds. Best of luck mate.	/r/seduction	30/11/18 11:53 PM