poetichippi Archive

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1	As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you : Awesome, on nights out he has this ultra hot chick on his arm, on days in he has his girl who he can be his average comfy self with. Win-win	/r/seduction	01/02/22 01:12 PM
–	As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you : I think a guy can become more or less attractive overtime as his personality shines through. That’s why funny guys who are average looking can get with girls who seem to be out of their physical league and why some good looking guys have trouble maintaining a long term relationship. For women(at least in my own case) the physicality is second to the mental connection and stimulation. Appearance still matters (caring for yourself vs. being blessed with a beautiful face are also two different thin…	/r/seduction	01/02/22 05:48 AM
2	My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for me A good, easy way to test the waters is to compliment how she looks in what she is wearing. Not the clothes. Her in the clothes. Be specific, speak in a paced, confident tone and look at the item of clothing while saying it, meeting her eyes at the end of the sentence. For instance “you look, amazing, in that shirt,” then meet her eyes. “Woah. That dress looks, great on you.” Offer a slight smile when you meet her eyes. Only slight. This is a subtle gesture but an intuitive woman will feel the vi…	/r/seduction	18/01/22 05:05 AM
6	My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidence The lie she told without you asking is a common one. It’s not only intended to stroke your ego, but intended to make her feel better about herself for wanting and enjoying sex. Men want to feel special because they unlocked the box, women want to feel respected and not judged for being more sexual than what’s “allowed” of them. I’m not saying all, I’m generalising people yet to work through their insecurities in a society that perpetuates them	/r/seduction	17/01/22 12:08 PM
1	[deleted by user] Haha yes that’s true. Perhaps the advice OP needs is to sort out what he’s looking for before getting to the third date	/r/seduction	02/01/22 02:55 AM
9	[deleted by user] If shy and timid mean the outward expression of insecurity then I’d agree, although insecurity also comes in the form of cocky, arrogant and grandiose behaviour, which I think is equally unattractive. Also, shy and timid are not to be confused with quiet and reserved. A bit of mystery and challenge is intriguing to a self assured woman. In my own experience, it’s the reserved and composed men that have the most brilliant surprises when you get to the bedroom. The same with cockiness and arroganc…	/r/seduction	01/01/22 10:13 PM
2	Was I being shit tested? I think her text was kind and reasonable. I think she left it til the last minute because she was really hoping to go. Considering you were late to the coffee date, she still waited for you, seems to me like she is interested. She gave you the benefit of the doubt then too. It’s only fair that you reciprocate, if you’re interested in her like you’ve said you are. Even if it’s not her friends dog, i would still believe she has something to deal with and may be too embarrassed to say what it reall…	/r/seduction	23/11/21 11:42 AM
9	How to approach girls in the club? To approach a woman in amongst a group of friends, it would be helpful to also be with a group of friends. That way, both groups can mingle and there is less spotlight on your personal approach to the woman you’re interested in. Also, I’d recommend that even if you’re interested, don’t zone in and make it your goal or motive. Just enjoy yourself. If the opportunity arises for a conversation, start with something open and casual, then finish honestly about what you’re interested in. Are you wanti…	/r/seduction	21/11/21 08:21 PM
12	Unprotected sex Your motherfucking conscience	/r/seduction	05/10/21 11:21 PM