poffincase Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit It's believed by many women that having a 'pussy' is less dangerous or risky than having a 'dick' which is why it's pedestalized. Even if there are bad women in droves it's believed that men are always going to be disproportionately worst in their nature in comparison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:48 PM
1	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit "So many people" Who exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:47 PM
0	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit Lots of men are DL though and very feminine-leaning when they cut up with women getting involved in their business. That is how it looks whether you like it or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:46 PM
–	Q4M: Does women shaming your sexuality feel dehumanizing? Conservative or liberal still animalistic in nature in my books. Not sure how a political affiliation would change that, just being on the other side it's more suppressed but it's still there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:44 PM
–	Q4M: Does women shaming your sexuality feel dehumanizing? Both are shamed for both things	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:43 PM
–	Q4M: Does women shaming your sexuality feel dehumanizing? The narrative is so tired. If men are so upset by their lack of options, why don't they expand them and have sex with men? There is always going to be a man somewhere willing to have sex with you, just as it is as a woman, but they don't care. They are jealous of women but don't even have a woman's body to live in to understand it's not worth shit to have a wide array of men to just have sex with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:42 PM
–	Q4M: Does women shaming your sexuality feel dehumanizing? coming out of the closet	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:40 PM
1	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? Nobody is "moral" because that is subjective and varies from person to person. Virtue signaling is something everyone does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:35 PM
1	Q4W: Would you rather be the king's mistress or a peasant's wife? "Q4W" sensitive af	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:30 PM
1	Young women are dating the same terrible men Oh you really showed me 🙄 as if men literally don't do that all the time here. Biased af.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:29 PM
1	Men aren't good enough as they are Are you agreeing or disagreeing with me I'm confused with your comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 08:28 PM
0	Men aren't good enough as they are Never said I was. Do you know how to read and comprehend?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 11:37 PM
1	Men aren't good enough as they are I fully said complaining is one thing and being entitled is another	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 11:37 PM
1	Men aren't good enough as they are I'm being honest, why would I not be honest here. Complaining is one thing but saying you deserve love and affection is different. And if you want me to compare this to a man, they mean sex and loyalty really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 11:18 PM
-3	Young women are dating the same terrible men "Young women are dating the same terrible men" don't be obtuse	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 05:58 PM
1	Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why: I don't have that experience on dating apps frankly but my standards are high anyway. I know where I stand in terms of physical attraction, and I just don't really jive with super handsome men to begin with. But the problem that I have is the ones who are a couple points below these very attractive men who I feel should be options for dating tend to act like they're 10s and I never understood. They are literally just less attractive, less fit, less tall, and less accomplished but they act like t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 05:54 PM
1	Why does it seem more common for women to be supporting a deadbeat bum than supporting a hardworking stay-at-home partner? My thoughts are ew and the concept of a house husband or stay at home boyfriend disturbs me. I would gladly be single than sign up for either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 05:46 PM
1	Q4W: Would you rather be the king's mistress or a peasant's wife? What is your point in asking this irrelevant question?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 05:43 PM
0	Men aren't good enough as they are They don't act that way there. Complaining about the way things are is different from exclaiming that you deserve love and intimacy for existing, which is an opinion here I see all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 05:42 PM
2	Men aren't good enough as they are lol what.. no one is entitled to love and intimacy for just existing. Why are you people like this... Entitlement for just being a man has gone to your head. You need to earn what you want. Those reasons you've listed in the last sentence is exactly why men need to stop acting entitled to these things. Their negative actions affect everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 05:41 PM
-5	Young women are dating the same terrible men I'm not dating anyone at the moment	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 05:38 PM
–	Hypergamy: Cannot treat a woman as equal It’s like they’re jealous we are attracted to men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 05:13 AM
1	Plenty of men are shallow unattractive assholes who never wanted to be good men. Working out is not a magic pill for all your problems. It can be helpful and keep you focused on goals but you can’t out run your unaddressed trauma.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 05:08 AM
1	Plenty of men are shallow unattractive assholes who never wanted to be good men. Yeah she’s right. A lot of women realize there is very little difference and end up trying for better looking men in the end. There is a notion that men who are less attractive are always better lovers and have more to give because they’re never chosen but it’s simply not true, most of the time as is the opposite. I’m a bit surprised at the audacity of some lesser attractive men too, as they often maintain high standards still considering they have absolutely nothing to offer. Coupled with entit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 05:07 AM
1	Plenty of men are shallow unattractive assholes who never wanted to be good men. Men who call women “females” are odd	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 04:43 AM
6	Hypergamy: Cannot treat a woman as equal Even if that's the case then how are men not also hypergamous	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 02:47 AM
3	Plenty of men are shallow unattractive assholes who never wanted to be good men. Yeah totally the chip on the shoulder can block their blessings too. A lot of women talk about giving less attractive men or shorter men or whatever a chance and how it ended up backfiring because their ego got the best of them after some point, so they stopped lowering their standards. I'm not saying that's the case for everyone but it's unfortunate when it happens because there are women willing to give these men a chance but they get Napoleon syndrome and it's over. As for friends with ugly w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 02:20 AM
1	Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusion Dating objectives are probably way more important than just someone being attractive. What you just find sexually attractive can be different from what you find compatible for a long term partnership, or at least there can be more qualifiers. So I think that's where men get this notion that they don't understand what women want or feel like their standards are always too high. If men just want to get laid, their standard doesn't need to be high as it's short-winded anyway. For women who are thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 02:11 AM
3	CMV: Let's talk about this topic. Why is it impossible to you that a man can't be a provider and be gentle? And if he's not gentle or a pillow as you call it, what is the alternative? How have you always been a man but you're a trans man? What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:55 AM
1	Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they do They love to bring up the criminals here	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:53 AM
4	Plenty of men are shallow unattractive assholes who never wanted to be good men. I agree with this take. Most of the meanest people to me were NOT attractive people. I figured it's due to some level of resentment or ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:44 AM
7	Hypergamy: Cannot treat a woman as equal Why when you're bringing it up and you're being disagreed with	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:29 AM
1	Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same men Dark = dark hair	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:13 AM
1	Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same men Instead of seeking a roommate? What a bunch of weirdos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:10 AM
7	Hypergamy: Cannot treat a woman as equal What does it teach	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:09 AM
6	Hypergamy: Cannot treat a woman as equal The same reason men prefer women younger than themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:05 AM
15	Hypergamy: Cannot treat a woman as equal A man? Hypergamy	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:05 AM
11	Hypergamy: Cannot treat a woman as equal I always thought hypergamy was strictly class and money... if those things make women hypergamous how are men not hypergamous? Most men are not going out with women uglier than them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:04 AM
1	Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's not It's a good question. I am straight even though I find women attractive. It's a bit much to explain but I'll just say this. I know that dating women would be a lot easier. I think women have lower standards for other women as the risk is lower than with dating men. But I can also see where the challenges would come. I actually know at least some of it trying to befriend women on bumble bff. It is extremely hard sometimes. Women can also be very flakey, expect you to approach them like they are d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 12:57 AM
0	Women’s Understanding Won’t Help — Because Pity Kills Desire I would rather simp to get a girlfriend if I really wanted one than try to prove a point to please men I'm not even interested in. Unless you're interested in men as well. A lot of you see simping as showing basic decency towards a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 06:37 PM
–	What if men were shown more compassion? I am not here to push any pill. I share that perspective of people in general including women, but I'm definitely harsher on stranger men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 06:34 PM
1	How many are looking for a financially equal relationship? Why would you stay with him? I'm not asking you to attack you I'm just curious? I couldn't be with someone who would get angry at me for asking a very valid and important question, that would feel like he didn't trust me. Finances are one of the top reasons for relationships to fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 06:34 PM
7	How many are looking for a financially equal relationship? That would be a major red flag to me that his finances are a secret, especially if yours are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:49 AM
3	How many are looking for a financially equal relationship? It's essentially way more value for the man than it would be for a woman to me. Many men will say they will only provide for their wife and not some woman they're dating and I think that's fair, so long as they don't expect sex until they become a husband. I don't do 50/50, mainly because I date MEN and not women, and I also date men who make more money than me who like to provide. If they want 50/50 as OP implied I would flee. Nothing is a bigger turn off to ME than a man who is very tight with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:48 AM
1	Women’s Understanding Won’t Help — Because Pity Kills Desire If you guys keep complaining about simping you will remain single	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:34 AM
1	Women’s Understanding Won’t Help — Because Pity Kills Desire I don't think it's hard for quality men to get dates. I can't speak to the hookup culture because I don't do that, I'm speaking about long-term. I do agree though that the pity party isn't attractive at all. Coddling grown men is silly, go find your mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:33 AM
3	Women judge men for promiscuity! As a straight woman the only thing that affects me here is straight men's promiscuity so woman's is irrelevant. I am not a fan of it and want my husband to be a virgin. In all seriousness he can't be a hookup ho. I refuse to date those men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:27 AM
9	What if men were shown more compassion? It's embarrassing	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:24 AM
5	What if men were shown more compassion? We're scarred too much by them collectively to just throw compassion around. For the few people that are men in our lives we genuinely care about of course but otherwise hell no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:14 AM
8	What if men were shown more compassion? It's always about sex for these people. It's their whole point of their existence I'm convinced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:12 AM
7	What if men were shown more compassion? He expects compassion for men for whatever reason, you ask a valid question about how that would look like, he doesn't even give you a proper response from his own brain lord	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:12 AM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. Just hitting the lottery should work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 03:11 AM
1	Why don't we never ask men to choose better but uglier women? Yes I realized after	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 09:35 PM
1	Why don't we never ask men to choose better but uglier women? Humble bragging that I'm not promiscuous? Thank you, never seen it that way. edit: I just re-read the context, sure you can say that. But I think it comes with the territory. When you're less attractive you're typically more approachable and often desperate for validation so it makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 09:31 PM
–	If you could date the perfect synthetic companion, more attractive than any human, would you choose that over a human partner? (Hetero relationship) It's really good but I think it was canceled	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 02:05 AM
–	If you could date the perfect synthetic companion, more attractive than any human, would you choose that over a human partner? (Hetero relationship) If you can make it not creepy then sure give me a synthetic mate like from the show Humans. But so far anything synthetic seems to be focused on sexual aspects for men which is a no for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 11:09 PM
1	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) I am a straight woman is what I'm saying. If you're implying it's different then say that, I thought you were thinking I was a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 11:03 PM
0	Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about it That's my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 05:27 AM
0	Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about it Thanks for the mansplaining as if I don't hear this take constantly here. So to reiterate, people who do hookups are lowlifes with an exception of prostitutes because they're getting paid. That's my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 05:04 AM
1	Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about it I would rather no sex than hookup with a random guy I'm romantically uninterested in, even if he's attractive. I'm not the only woman who thinks that way. If it's impossible for you to believe that oh well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 05:04 AM
1	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) People absolutely do describe themselves as boring, especially when they have very normal or regular interests. I'm not sure why I would want to appeal to women when I date men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 04:57 AM
–	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. I would rather look better in person than in my photos	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 04:54 AM
–	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. It might make you better to be honest, but it doesn't make much of a difference at the end of the day. Too many men on apps care about hookups or how close they could get to one. Honest or not it doesn't make much of a difference to me. I value depth and values which these 99% men are like devoid of, even just reading their profiles alone. Like they're scared shitless from seeming vulnerable. I'm deleting mine tomorrow as it's a big waste of time if you're looking for anything serious. These app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 04:51 AM
1	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards What? Who's talking about lesbians?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 04:45 AM
–	If you could date the perfect synthetic companion, more attractive than any human, would you choose that over a human partner? (Hetero relationship) What quiet marketplace?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 04:39 AM
2	Why don't we never ask men to choose better but uglier women? What is ugly to you exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:55 AM
2	Why don't we never ask men to choose better but uglier women? Well I can attest to that one, I am not promiscuous!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:54 AM
1	If you could date the perfect synthetic companion, more attractive than any human, would you choose that over a human partner? (Hetero relationship) That's creepy	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:50 AM
3	Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about it I think you need to respect the fact that there are actual women out there that only want to have sex in serious partnerships. I have never participated in hook up culture, it's frankly disgusting to me and I value my body and sexuality immensely. Most men are the opposite where they don't equally value this and will fornicate with randos because they're horny, as long as they look ok. That's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:47 AM
1	I don’t think it’s a man job to protect his girl Yasss queen!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:45 AM
2	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. "I'm oddly attracted to slightly autistic women"	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:44 AM
1	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. Hookups likely. Most 'top men' just want to hookup because it's easier and more beneficial than locking it down with one girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:42 AM
0	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. We're not even scrolling through a catalog though, we're swiping through each person (well at least women are going through them one by one). I would prefer the catalog actually. The last paragraph is true, unfortunately I'm in this group. But I'm going to try to connect with more people in general, it would be nice to make some new friends and overall improve my social circle since it's abysmally small). OLD is pretty bad for someone like myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:40 AM
5	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. This is why my preference is to go on a date as soon as it makes sense to (earlier than later). I need to feel out the vibes to know if it's going to work. You can have an amazing profile but be a shit and vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:38 AM
1	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. I get a lot of likes on Tinder which is irrelevant for several reasons, and very, very few on Hinge since I've limited my distance like crazy and that's ok. My profile is not sexy or suggestive or anything, I just have normal pictures by myself with simple prompts of what I'm looking for and a bit about what I like. That's it. If men want to be picky they will be picky. If men want to give me a chance that's their choice. I know who I am and if I can't represent that well on a dating profile, we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:36 AM
4	Some of the attitudes I'm seeing in straight male culture as a bisexual, seem toxic to me. I don't like being approached by men in public. It's also a reason I'm so dead serious all the time walking out because it is so uncomfortable and makes me feel disgusted. Mind you, the men are not like my age and normal, that has happened once and I wasn't uncomfortable at all, he was mostly respectful. But it's ALWAYS the older, aggressive black men, sometimes on substances that are straight up creepy and threatening. I am mixed so I think that's why they think they can talk to me freely but i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:27 AM
1	If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage? Because those are not the same women saying it tbh the ones who want marriage either want it for the status to say they're married/taken esp if there are kids in the mix or they only want one that is going to be extremely beneficial like financially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:21 AM
1	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) Have you thought of doing the limb surgery	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:19 AM
1	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) I am VERY introverted but FAR from boring. It's possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:17 AM
3	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) I can't speak for women since I don't date them but I know this is a problem for men big time, they just talk about themselves... A LOT. I talked to a guy recently on Hinge and all he did was talk about himself. It's a shame because he seemed interesting and was willing to answer everything but not even a question for me. It felt like an interview so I unmatched him. THAT is boring!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:16 AM
1	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) What do you think it's like as an introverted woman? I don't go out anywhere lol we are in our homes "missing out". Sometimes I want more friends to do things with but it involves putting yourself out there, that is the advice everyone would give you. I think that's just the reality and naturally if you are introverted it would make sense you want an extrovert to "adopt" you so you can actually be more outgoing. But frankly I would like an introvert or ambivert partner, but he can't be boring! I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:14 AM
1	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards Still men lmao I would argue the reason it's easier for them to do it is because the behavior is less stigmatized. There's more barrier to getting with women since they would have to be open to the lifestyle which is not going to be as common as it would be for gay men to fornicate freely. That's why STDs are a bigger more obvious issue for men having anal sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:06 AM
1	lusting after a body =/= unconditional love I think pets would eat you if you die however I'm totally ok with that because of how loyal and amazing they are. They are unconditional til death for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 10:03 PM
1	lusting after a body =/= unconditional love Because they're overconfident and women are punched down their whole lives to be humble and love people for who they are and not what's in their bank or how they look. Only now you're seeing a surge of women being most picky on those things because they can, I am one of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 10:02 PM
1	Don’t Underestimate Good Hygiene. There isn't a day that goes by in the hot city where I don't smell people. Their clothes, BO, breath etc. I put a lot of effort into being, smelling and looking clean. If you don't know basic hygiene, YouTube is a good resource. There's no judgement for not knowing good hygiene if you're actively working towards it. And it's ok to wash your ass like get in there and scrub into the hole. Not enough people, especially straight men, seem to understand this one. Legs need washing as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 09:58 PM
1	If knowing your own attractiveness was like having a spider-sense, women generally have it way more finely tuned than men , and a lot of men don’t have it at all. Where safety is a concern, it absolutely is a problem. If I'm in an environment where it's ok to approach people in general, I'm not going to be offended if a guy I don't like approaches me, as long as he politely backs off as I politely decline. But if I'm minding my own business, in a vulnerable space etc. it's a huge problem and I have the right to be upset or on guard. Not all men take rejection well, and they're more likely to get that way when you're randomly out than in a controlled envir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 09:52 PM
2	Most of us are here because we're shallow My understanding is there are a ton of ugly ducklings on this sub that are too angry about not being chosen. Historically women have been more likely to get with any kind of man looks-wise because of economic reasons, but even if you just cared about economic reasons today and not looks you're flamed for that too lol they're not only ugly but broke as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 01:47 AM
1	Most of us are here because we're shallow I also think a lot of women are single for this reason too "I can't find a kind, nice guy", get off it - theres more good men now then any other point in history, theres plenty of kind, nice men - you just dont find them attractive AND they dont have the high flying social life you desire They need to be attractive. Women won't say it but most have a physical looks standard that needs to be met. High flying social life doesn't really matter, I like introverts as I'm one myself so I'm not sure wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 01:45 AM
1	Most alpha/sigma grindset guys or dating coaches are really just normie/attractive men subconsciously preying on the undesirable Am I the only one who likes it when men do the opposite?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 01:33 AM
-1	Most alpha/sigma grindset guys or dating coaches are really just normie/attractive men subconsciously preying on the undesirable I think a lot of people who sell courses are insufferable but I've seen a Hamza video on YT, I think the one about friends, and I thought what he said was very good advice for anyone. I quickly realized I wasn't the target audience though, but I respect people who have the right idea trying to help other men out with the right intentions. The truth is a large majority of you simply aren't working on yourselves as much as you should. And also no course is going to 'fix' your life, it takes time a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 01:32 AM
6	If knowing your own attractiveness was like having a spider-sense, women generally have it way more finely tuned than men , and a lot of men don’t have it at all. It depends on what kind of attention you're getting. If it's sexual then it doesn't matter, it just means you're not gross to the guy which is a very low bar so I wouldn't use that to gauge anything except for maybe the more attractive you are, ironically the less likely men will try to make a pass at you as men don't want to be rejected and will go for someone more approachable. Re. pretty privilege there are many nuances. The society you live in, city size, your age, your demeanor/approachabil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 01:21 AM
2	If knowing your own attractiveness was like having a spider-sense, women generally have it way more finely tuned than men , and a lot of men don’t have it at all. I totally agree with you. I have said many times here that men lack a self-awareness and are often over-confident. I notice this on the apps even, they really kill their own chance with some of the things they put on their own profile. It's unfortunate. But more specifically on looks, I do think that it is an issue with straight men to not typically grasp where they stand in terms of attraction realistically. This is the especially the case with men in the West. Women are humbled from a very you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 01:10 AM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. You're welcome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 12:57 AM
1	Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional. It fully does given the context. Many people feel the same way so it's not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 12:52 AM
2	Why do men here cry about Casual sex? So you agree with me then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 12:50 AM
2	Once and for all, explaining things for men Men self reflect? Plastic surgery can improve someone's appearance and self-esteem. Good plastic surgery looks natural and undetectable. But considering how many men think women don't wear makeup when they do I don't value you're opinion on what you can or cannot perceive on a woman. How is women in the gym a meme and where are you getting dead and lifeless eyes from? And it's funny you bring up astrology. Men love to bash astrology which is basically just people, usually women just trying to le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 12:49 AM
-1	Why do men here cry about Casual sex? You clearly don't, we're not a monolith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 02:34 AM
2	Once and for all, explaining things for men So you're commenting to say what? Do you even know? You seem to be going out of your way to show people that your stupid. Great job\ What about my stupid? Embarrassing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 02:32 AM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. If we're going to speak on accountability, let's hold everyone accountable. Both men and women. Women can date women if they like, I'm not sure how that's unproductive at all. The same could be said about men's happiness. The things that make y'all happy are irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 02:29 AM
1	Once and for all, explaining things for men Why do you perceive that behavior as being whipped? I want a man who will do the most for me, it's super attractive to me. I don't see that as a bad thing literally the opposite but for some reason a lot of you feel that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:25 PM
5	Once and for all, explaining things for men lol fr the tables have turned a bit and they can't even just accept it and move forward. Women will do anything and everything to look better and improve themselves. Plastic surgery, gym, hobbies, self care etc. whatever and men just want to complain instead of looking in the mirror to see what they can do. Not everything is fixable but a lot is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:22 PM
1	Once and for all, explaining things for men You told her to see the harsh reality but criticized her for saying dating apps aren't real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:17 PM
1	Once and for all, explaining things for men You're giving them the cheat codes but they will act like it's all wrong anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:15 PM
–	You don’t get to claim you’re lonely if you’re unwilling to reciprocate. So what is male loneliness epidemic then	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:11 PM
3	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there That's a good point. Those women can literally be minding their own biz dating other women or even men that like them or whatever and there are these men that want to tell them their gross and unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:10 PM
-1	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there I believe it's because a lot of these men left their wives or are cheating on their wives with these young women, sometimes even children. Taking advantage of the people there because they're desperate for money and getting away with things that are basically illegal and immoral. So the perception is very negative as it should be. I watch 90DF and sometimes the couples are genuine but you also see a bit of the (legal) stuff I described play out as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:08 PM
2	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there So you're suggesting they're ignorant? How is that surprising? A lot of Americans have this mindset that if their state sucks they should go to a new country instead of try another one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:05 PM
–	Online dating, If Truly Designed to Satisfy Users, Would Solve All Our Dating Woes It already does. Hinge does this to my knowledge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 08:03 PM
1	Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocrites It's being on the other side of the fence. Men do it as well as it's a people thing. Give people a chance to switch sides and they will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 07:59 PM
2	Why do men here cry about Casual sex? I have not had a hoe phase and I know women who haven't had one either. It must be the kinds of women you're meeting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 07:56 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. So be likeable then? Also having standards and sticking to them is a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 07:50 PM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. So if they're not incels what are they then? Cause it seems like most men are incels by that logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 07:43 PM
1	Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional. Ok Trumper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 07:42 PM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. Ok and? Very skinny doesn't equal anorexic either so what's your point...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 07:40 PM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. Jojo Siwa is one person out of many. She is also quite young still discovering herself clearly. I also don't deny there are many women who date women because they aren't getting men they want. That is ok, you guys should do the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 07:38 PM
-1	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? No I'll stay here. Y'all can downvote all you want, it's not going to change your reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 03:10 AM
-2	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. Because 'fucking dudes' is so different from sleeping around... My point doesn't change. Not all women sleep around so your whole argument becomes irrelevant. If you are a woman who is not sleeping around then these out of league men are irrelevant. In theory I only talk to average men because I don't want to sleep around. What do you have to say to that now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 03:09 AM
1	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards I feel disgust sometimes, depends on the guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 03:04 AM
2	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards You lost this one lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:54 AM
4	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards Got 'em lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:53 AM
5	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards I am the same way. I do not want casual sex. But I have a libido.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:46 AM
10	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards I think you're missing the point. Not every woman values casual sex period. I am one of those women. We can typically get ourselves off as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:44 AM
6	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards Happened to me last night in the park. This guy took a long time to walk up to me and ask me why I was alone and when I tried to brush him off he was offended. I was genuinely scared because he hovered around for a bit before leaving. Men, stop approaching women who are not giving you any attention in the first place please. And especially not at night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:41 AM
9	You don’t get to claim you’re lonely if you’re unwilling to reciprocate. When I go out I see many partnered people and the men and women look average. Sometimes one will look a bit better than the other but generally it's the same. Normal people are going to be with normal people typically. As for the men that talk about things like height, most of the men are the same height as the women or just a bit taller. Very few giants out here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:32 AM
9	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Teen boys today are cooked fr	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:27 AM
1	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. I literally talk about some of my personal experiences here and men will refute and disagree with me quoting what people will say on Twitter or Reddit or whatever social media as an argument when I repeatedly say it's my own experience. Misery loves company as well, you will see that online. So what are you surprised about? And of course you swing this to blame women when the same could be said for men crying all day about how hard everything is for them. Everyone complains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:23 AM
2	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. Men do the same thing though, it's not just a woman thing. No one wants to be up front about what they really want because it can be very specific and rare, and could make the person seem shallow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:18 AM
2	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. Some women date women just so you're aware	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:17 AM
2	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. I wish the man who approached me in the middle of the night alone while I was minding my own business, and had the audacity to get a bit mad I wasn't interested would see this. Like I seriously wonder what goes through their heads. I need their confidence and audacity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:16 AM
3	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. Men do it too pleaeeaaase be fr. You guys will pretend and say just be fit, just be not overweight, which is probably true BUT what you REALLY want is someone that's very skinny, skinny with big boobs or a butt, whatever very specific body type you have in your mind, not just someone who isn't fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:13 AM
-2	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. Not all women sleep around	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:11 AM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' Well I think there are trash people, men and women. And they tend to like each other, each with very low to non-existent standards. I know people in my own life who basically did very little to nothing at all to get women. I think it spoke to more of the low self esteem the woman had, but that's just speculation. I may have lost the direction you were trying to go with here so I'm just giving you my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 12:53 AM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' Why would I need to take accountability in this scenario. I am speaking from my dating experience which none of you guys have here. Go touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 12:47 AM
-2	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? No I want an echo chamber like the rest of y'all	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 04:27 AM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' That's not true at all. There are desperate women that would do anything for certain men. I'm not sure how a beaten, cheated on, disrespected woman is a prize to a man exactly. If she was a prize she wouldn't get treated by garbage, she would be treated the opposite. You teach people how to treat you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 04:26 AM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' Ok you define it differently	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 04:23 AM
1	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? Your point? Actually nvm I don't really care	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 04:22 AM
2	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? High quality women take accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 04:21 AM
2	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' None of them men I talked to had all those things going for them nice try	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:37 PM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' I don't get what you're saying exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:36 PM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' I fully explained from MY EXPERIENCE that I'm not getting masculine energy from these men. You are projecting and generalizing based on MY EXPERIENCE when I give my account of dating. How is that fair exactly? My standard is a man who can take action which is masculine. If I have to be the masculine one, it would be towards another woman, but I'm not interested in them. And then you bring up the top 10% again like I was literally talking about them. You guys create your own problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:34 PM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' What? That has nothing to do with my post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:30 PM
1	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity I don't see 'lesbian' women here. Even if they are, many are not always 'lesbian' to start. Many will start dating women after their negative experiences with men. Don't project your bs on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:30 PM
1	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? You'll disagree either way why ask?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:28 PM
2	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? Go date men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:28 PM
3	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? The difference is men largely aren't actually taking accountability for their issues. You guys complain and victimize yourself without any solutions in sight. That is not taking accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:28 PM
2	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? Because we're not the same. And gay men are still different from straight women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 03:24 AM
2	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' Instead of downvoting me why don't you tell me how it's not true at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 03:23 AM
1	Dysfunctional women are desirable because they have low standards. I can vouch for that. I know actual real life attractive women with good careers, hobbies, personalities and standards most importantly who are left single. The selection of men is simply lacking. Too many are mediocre and the good looking, tall ones are definitely taken or bombarded by low standard, toxic women as you've described. Whether they're toxic or not sort of becomes irrelevant as women like myself wouldn't go near them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 02:47 AM
1	Dysfunctional women are desirable because they have low standards. What is a 'good girl'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 02:23 AM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' Everyone wants to be validated for their worth in a romantic partnership please be fr	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 02:05 AM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' I don't. Don't generalize.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 02:03 AM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' I think these men are pretty focused on good looking men being the ones that get all the attention, but really a big part of this equation is the desperate women willing to do anything which you've described.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 02:03 AM
2	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' As someone who doesn't seek the top men for the reasons OP has described (I have standards), I find the 'options' are not great to be completely honest. Half the time I'm sitting there wondering if they even like me or they genuinely have never talked to a woman in their life before. Like they need to learn how to be masculine and not so pussy. Constantly beating around the bush and not being direct with me. I am a woman you're speaking to, act like a man. The worst though is when they act like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:58 AM
0	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' They do if they take even a bit of accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:55 AM
1	Men are seen and treated as the 'Prize' I agree with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:55 AM
-2	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? I don't think men and women should be considered the same when it comes to their thirsting behavior, but that's just my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:52 AM
1	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. Well I do that here. I don't think the group of women that want to date criminals isn't necessarily large, but anyway I insist that women in general should not be sleeping with strange men, at least for free. I am not anti-sex worker and I think if men want to have sex easily without any strings attached should be paying professionals. But at the same time, I do think the concept of casual sex and hooking up is frankly disgusting and creates a very large barrier for people to find meaningful rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:47 AM
2	Men who are desperate to find a woman are actually desperate for something else. A meaning to their lives. How do you define a 'nice guy'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:28 AM
4	Men who are desperate to find a woman are actually desperate for something else. A meaning to their lives. I find desperate men clearly not desperate enough because they still don't want to take accountability for their shortcomings (grooming, physical looks, personality, interests, income etc.) they would rather blame us for having high standards and wanting the top whatever percent of men. You may not be in the top percent of men, wahtever that means, but you can at least move up a bit. I'm not saying this is the case for all women, but I think as a woman we are basically raised knowing that we nee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:24 AM
1	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity You're just throwing words around. For someone who's content dating men, I'm still not sure why you would want to focus on bashing women. If anything, you dating men should make you more understanding of what a lot of us go through. That's typically the case with gay men... oh wait, it's not so much that their gay but rather they respect women. Something you don't do. But of course you'll call me homophobic because you're already biased.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:14 AM
1	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. Yes, that is true for some women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 01:09 AM
1	Women are amazing Good women are amazing but rare. I'm saying this a straight women who has struggled to make good women friends. Most are extremely fake and superficial lacking depth. Men are a different story as to why but I would say good ones are rare as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:44 PM
7	Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional. There's nothing wrong with wanting that unless you're very conservative and a Trump supporter. Believe me, I know VERY good people who want Trump to drop dead including myself. I feel bad for saying it, but that man has cause so much harm and problems and literally no one is doing anything to get him out of office so people just wish for his death. I was about to date a guy who was great, very kind and attractive. Had a lot going for himself. But he was a devout conservative so it could never wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:39 PM
2	Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional. You need to work on your judgement if you can't tell the difference. Pick better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:37 PM
3	Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle it Good for you. I wouldn't even be here they hate to see people happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:33 PM
0	Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle it I like how they're all glossing over the fact that there are literally SO many men that open up to their partners, fiancees, wives etc. emotionally only to dump them the next day. Sometimes it will be the women that open up with the same result. No one is talking about how common that is. I think that's why a lot of women feel any resentment towards this because it's clearly about being taking advantage of. You're not going to tell me your deepest darkest secrets with me supportive only to prete…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:32 PM
0	Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle it Thank you for getting it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:27 PM
1	Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle it Absolutely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:26 PM
2	Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle it We do not see sex the same way. Why is this such a difficult concept for you guys to understand? Easy free or whatever sex to us is not an asset for most women. Single life IS more enjoyable than being in a bad relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:26 PM
-2	Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle it Telling men to stop being emotionally vulnerable to women is blaming women. You framed it that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:23 PM
1	Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle it Yes. That's what you call not taking accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:22 PM
1	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity I would say that's amazing and good for you, but you're still here going on about feminists so I'm wondering how dating men has anything to do with that? Don't you have other more important issues to discuss in the LGBT community than what we think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:09 PM
2	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. Would I at least go for a drink or two to see if we're actually compatible, then sure, assuming I also found them physically attractive lol that's the problem, it's such a tiny subset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:06 PM
1	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:05 PM
1	Women don't move on faster after a relationship ends. Men are just easier to replace. Yes I have inherent value, you got that right. As for the relationship whenever part, a relationship is easy to get into. A good one where I'm genuinely interested and not bored is another. Most men I meet are genuinely boring, unattractive or both. It's more a people thing but I don't date women so that's irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:04 PM
1	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity No one "demolished" me. I don't know what you're talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:02 PM
1	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. Because being a non-criminal or abuser is not enough for most women? Do you look at women and worry they're going to be an abusive criminal? That alone should give you the answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 09:04 PM
1	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. You guys can lead a thread in any direction you please, it's not that deep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:53 PM
1	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men Didn't think I would need to explain that those are obviously not the same groups of men I'm referring to. I brought both up because the concept of free sex shouldn't even be a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:52 PM
5	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. Ugly men need to try harder but they won't. They would rather complain they aren't treated like attractive douchebags and blame us for having standards, meanwhile I'm not even interested in those men because they aren't trying to settle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:50 PM
2	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. We have been socially conditioned to give ugly men a chance. That conditioning happens early in life. Now that women want to actually have standards and not stoop to a low (like you guys always keeping your standards high), we have essentially flipped the script and that's what makes you guys so upset. We aren't buying into an illusion anymore which leaves a majority of you ugly men basically irrelevant where you weren't previously. There are too many ugly men on this planet that's why you have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:47 PM
2	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. That means it's in hell. You're telling us to be happy with someone who is non-violent and and not a criminal as if that's the be all end all. Are you serious?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:45 PM
1	Women don't move on faster after a relationship ends. Men are just easier to replace. I have been celibate. Dating can mean literally anything, dating for short term or long term are two different things as the expectations are different. If you're ugly and you want sex that bad go get a hooker. For women wanting a relationship with a decent guy they're attracted to that's a lot more difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:44 PM
1	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. The bar is still in hell even if you're good at filtering trash because it means you'll need to be content with being single until you come across someone decent that you like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:42 PM
0	Women don't move on faster after a relationship ends. Men are just easier to replace. I joined some apps not too long ago. My DMs have not blown up, I am still single. Access to sex is not an asset to someone who is not promiscuous. I will say that again, access to sex is NOT an asset to someone who is not promiscuous. It will always be of value to you, because men value sex differently. You have different sex organs and needs than us. That said, none of my pictures are promiscuous nor have I ever been. That has NEVER been valued as you all like to claim. I have been shamed by me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 12:05 AM
2	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity Saying feminism is like saying woke to them. It's a trigger word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:53 PM
1	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity There are a lot of soft men here hence them constantly complaining about everything that is not even important frankly. And if it's so important to them why do they never take some accountability? Very few here are actually asking real questions that can help them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:50 PM
3	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity They be cherry picking everything for their own narrative. This sub is so predictable I actually want someone to have a hot take that isn't rooted in redpill garbage all the time. Cause dating men is always an option but they won't do that cause they know what they're like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:44 PM
1	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. They want women to date ugly or less attractive men claiming they will get treated better. Women have been socially conditioned to give ugly men a chance and give him a pass for bad treatment regardless of his looks. I've seen it in my own family (my own father was terrible), I see it every day as well. I saw the way my mother and her mother gave terrible men chances and how that ended up. I've seen several stories of women today complaining about how the ugly or less attractive guys' egos will …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:40 PM
3	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. As you can see, the bar is in hell. They're not abusers or rapists!!! Ok you want a prize? This is why good women are fed up, it's not enough to just not be a criminal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:37 PM
–	Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in charge So why don't you date men if they aren't lazy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:28 PM
2	What makes a guy boring? Most men are boring to me because most people are boring. They like things that appeal to the masses. A guy once told me that he liked me because I wasn't basic, I asked him to explain and he said most women are basic. He was nice but too conservative politically for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:27 PM
1	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men I absolutely agree. Pay sex workers for their services. The stigma should go away and men should stop expecting sex first and women should stop throwing themselves at men for nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:21 PM
0	Average guys are expected to abide different rules when it comes to dating Ok since you want to be right so bad, what are you going to do? Date men? They also have standards and treat people based on how they look just so you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:19 PM
-1	Average guys are expected to abide different rules when it comes to dating What? That is literally why y’all so mad. We say we don’t want ugly guys approaching us and you guys have an issue when that. That still circles back to what I said. You guys give a pass to women you deem hot all the time and want to get mad when it’s the other way around. Hot men acting a way raises red flags for different reasons too, not everything is about looks but y’all obsessed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 03:38 PM
6	There is a War against Male Sexuality today fr like if you have such a problem date men and see if it’s better lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 03:30 PM
1	Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with them Do you ever think maybe it’s just about reading the room? Why would you approach a random woman and ask her for coffee? If you’re not random and she knows you she wouldn’t be offended even if you aren’t her type. It’s crazy how men can’t even grasp this and they wonder why women respond the way they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 05:07 PM
2	Average guys are expected to abide different rules when it comes to dating The irony of it all. These guys are so upset because they know they’re attracted to women who wouldn’t give the time of day instead of them lowering their standards which they never will, they tell us to feel bad for having ours high. I’m not fat but not skinny and I know being skinny to underweight gives you so much more privilege as a woman where I live, they get more grace in basically all circumstances. Not even going to factor in racial biases. People are judgmental nothing is changing that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 05:00 PM
-2	Average guys are expected to abide different rules when it comes to dating Well then he should stop complaining about it and not be creepy if he knows he’s not attractive? Who is surprised that hot people get away with more things? Hot women can be bitchy mean and terrible and they will get away with it. Ugly women do those same things and it’s not gonna work out for them. People need to know their place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:57 PM
-2	Dating is not as hard for men as they claim Proof outside. Plenty of regular degular men dating their equivalent or better. Of all statures. There is a surplus of good women single in comparison to good men because they are a smaller group so they’re usually taken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:46 PM
7	There is a War against Male Sexuality today So are you going to date men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:45 PM
2	Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desire 18 is too young for basically everything in my opinion they should have to wait until 23 or 25.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:45 PM
1	Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desire Maybe for white people they don’t age well	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:44 PM
1	Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desire They want us to be offended so bad but who no one wants an old man either	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:43 PM
2	Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desire You think too highly of men then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 04:41 PM
1	Banned from subreddit I just replied to a post here for the first time and just got banned from r/blackladies! Which I don't mind because that subreddit is very non-inclusive anyway--I thought I had already left it. Here's the message: You have been automatically banned for participation in RedPillWomen, the self-described "women's space in the RP network". Its promotion of incel/redpill/mgtow ideology inherently violates our Rule 2. Its moderators allow disruptive and harassing brigades aimed directly at this commun…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/23 05:17 AM
2	How to move forward in this situation I don't know both of you so I'm just speculating, but based on what you've said it he might just want to take it at his own pace, assuming his visa situation is fine I don't see why he would want to rush into marriage either (this is not to say he would only marry you to stay or anything, but obviously if you're with someone foreign it's a consideration that it happens sooner than later). It looks like the decision of converting, and children might just be to appease you rather than it being som…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/23 04:37 AM
2	How to move forward in this situation Is he a Japanese national in the US or are you the foreigner in Japan? I think it’s important to know to discern cultural differences and visa status because that can determine a lot imo. And what is your religion? It’s a lot for someone to convert and commit to kids, 3 especially.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/03/23 02:08 PM
13	Confused about our relationship - DESPERATE for help You know you’re not happy, you know you’re getting downvoted etc. But you still go on with it. I think you’re settling because it’s not “bad enough” to move on yet. You need to just listen to your gut which is obviously telling you to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/22 10:38 PM
20	Don’t idealize a man before you get to know him. The equally important lesson that you gladly did not need to face the potential consequences for also comes from dating a coworker. Terrible idea for so many reasons. Consider yourself fortunate he never asked you out and you moved on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 08:57 PM
16	I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’” I saw “Billionaire Bernie” in a headline and stopped reading. Says it all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/22 08:49 PM
67	What’s with men not giving a damn about birth control This is the first comment I’ve seen mentioned porn. I think it’s a huge reason why a lot of men would have a problem with using proper birth control like a condom or something.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/22 08:53 PM
14	Attracting HVW on Bumble BFF? I’m on there, also your age. As others have mentioned here, there are A LOT of flakes! After talking to a few women since December, only 1 has continued the convo, but even I’m thinking of not replying to her because I’m bored. Another one I’ve talked to deleted her account but we are talking over social media (she’s the most interesting person I’ve talked to so far). I should mention that the convos typically go fine but the convo doesn’t like naturally taper off. It’s more or less someone just…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 06:20 PM
4	Men Double Texting it's ok for them to be busy and disappear off the face of the planet, but if you get busy for any stretch of time when they want to text it's a problem. as someone has mentioned here, it is very selfish. these are people you need to stay away from.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 03:28 AM
1	Dating 'travellers' and the Visa it's so awkward really. i love watching 90 day fiance and although it might not represent a majority of LDRs well, i think it's really uncomfortable to see the power dynamic between the american and the non-american sometimes. in some cases it seems so predatory. obviously someone from a poor country wants to make sacrifices for a better life, and sometimes they're taken advantage of. and then sometimes the american really is looking for someone good, but they do get scammed for a visa. added pr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 03:18 AM