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Be the catalyst for your friends. It's really easy when you see someone who does it naturally. I'm lucky I've seen it from my sister who is a natural planner. She decides she's gonna do something cool. Then she recruits people to go do it with her. Then she does it and they go and it's fun. Then she has cool experiences to talk about. So that's why she had such a wide and large network of friends, and they have these cool shared experiences so they're better friends for it. I've always been a so…
/r/seduction28/04/17 05:30 AM
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Imagine you had no dick, no sex drive, no need to get laid and no reason to try to find a mate for life or even the night. What would you do with your life? Now do it. And when you're fully on the path to fulfilling your own dreams, women will throw themselves at you.
/r/seduction24/04/17 02:54 PM
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Are you trying to make eye contact with them, or are you inviting them to make eye contact with you. When your frame is right and you're feeling good about life and happy and healthy and just radiating positive energy, they'll come to you, and then all you have to do is smile back. What makes you truly happy? Like from inside by yourself happy? What do you love to do and would do if there were no ulterior reasons. Do you run for fun? Lift for the feeling of the burn? Play drums or piano or guita…
/r/seduction30/01/17 04:03 PM
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I was the arsehole today. So I went home. Fuck being that guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/10/16 11:21 PM
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How sexist that they would just assume women don't need counseling on how to become abusive. only men get help with becoming abusers?!? Presume much?
/r/MensRights05/10/16 02:29 PM
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Bookmarked
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 01:58 AM
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Well, you gotta fuck that dudes wife. Hey, sis, watcha doing...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/16 02:46 PM
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Tell her you aren't sure you want to raise a child with her and you're going to wear condoms with her or anyone else. My body, my choice, my sperm, my choice. Okay, you might not be ready for the manipulation she'll bring when you try the truth. But it is the simplest approach.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 09:10 AM
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You don't need drinks. Any asshole can get drunk. It's a way better to fuck this Milf than to get drinks with her. Come up with something else. She's hot, so she works out. Invite her for a run or a swim or a shag. damn, to be 18 again.
/r/seduction14/06/16 08:03 AM
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Sup babe...sooo diarrhea huh? That sucks. Had that once. So PM me.
/r/seduction11/02/16 08:54 PM
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Do what girls do, say you have friends... It really doesn't matter till it matters, and then it won't matter bcaue you'll like her.
/r/seduction11/02/16 05:25 AM
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Ain't nobody got time for that. Dude you're gonna be old and fighting cancer before you know it. Fuck that shit.
/r/seduction11/02/16 05:20 AM
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In the context of OP's post sometimes it's as simple as saying no, let's reschedule. Recruiter calls to schedule appointment for interview, asks for availability. You say well it will have to be next week because I have ... a life. Whatever that life is, fill in the blanks. In have interviews with your competition this week. I have something else that is important to me. You have to wait a bit if you want me, will next week work? Even if you are free as a bird sometimes you make it seem like you…
/r/seduction16/02/15 02:38 PM
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do you ever watch Dancing with the Stars? the judges don't like to see you counting.
/r/seduction16/02/15 02:15 PM
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Time to level up. Try to get her to offer you her number by being so fun/awesome that she won't want to let you go. Think about making the connection real for that moment and extend the moment a bit. dont ask for the number. just try to make a really amazing moment in time. you know when you hear part of an awesome song on the radio and don't hear the artist or title but have to find out what it is so you right down the few lyrics you hear and then go and google for it and post stupid questions …
/r/seduction26/02/14 02:45 AM
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http://wallpoper.com/wallpaper/barney-stinson-321116
/r/seduction24/02/14 04:14 AM
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One thing I think hurts guys is watching romantic comedies. The guy is usually an asshole at he beginning and the girl supposedly can't stand him. Then he opens his eyes and cones around and they fall in love but don't realize it. Then he screws it up. Then he becomes a chump and does the super sweet romantic thing and wins here back. So we see this and think I'd i just skip to the sweet romantic part i can win her over and avoid all the crap. But really its not like that at all. Better to be th…
/r/seduction26/11/12 07:24 PM
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He's right, it's not your face. But just to pile on, you can improve the initial reception of your face by optimizing the layout/framing of it. Have you ever seen "curb appeal" where they take a house and make it look a million time better by mowing the lawn and painting a window trim or two, cutting a bush and planting a tree. It's the same with your face. Find out what shape of face you have. If you have hair, get hair that frames that face in a good way. If you wear glasses, get frames that a…
/r/seduction14/08/12 09:33 PM
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Negs should never have been called Negs. They should have been called differentiators. The point is to show that you're not the typical AFC. When all the other chumps line up to kiss her ass, you ask her why she's not in line to kiss yours. Or something like that. The point being you're doing it to show her you're not the same as the rest of those guys and she doesn't phase you. That's why it works best with 10s, because it's the 10s that expect people to line up and kiss their asses. Backhanded…
/r/seduction14/08/12 09:20 PM
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For some reason I picture Buzz Lightyear.
/r/seduction13/08/12 11:47 PM
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How do you approach people in the park? I feel like I'm intruding into their peaceful space. Talking to people who are on their way somewhere seems way more reasonable.
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:05 AM
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4 and up if it's just fucking.
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:31 AM
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You'll be in your bunk?
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:07 AM
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If you're not bf/gf then you're friends who have a hobbie in common. If you and I were buddies and we liked to play golf together and one day I golf with someone else, would you have to have "the talk" with me? If it's casual sex you're looking for, you can't get upset when it turns out it was casual sex you found.
/r/seduction03/06/12 03:42 AM
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Sounds awesome. Where can I find one?
/r/seduction01/06/12 01:54 AM
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Yeah, situation is key. But if you think about it you can spin most cases in a positive way. Compare: "I'm here alone, I was home.and restless and wanted to get out" With: "im here alone. I hadn't made plans because the fight was scheduled for 12 rounds, but i knocked him out in 33 seconds" Or whatever. The point being you had lots of awe inspiring work to do and you got it done early because you're awesome. I had something hard to do for something impressive, but i did all that and more early a…
/r/seduction30/05/12 03:49 AM
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I'm a cunning linguist myself. I think you handled it just fine. Nice finish, i think.
/r/seduction27/05/12 08:07 PM
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If the dude is actively trying to fuck her (and he probably is), then here's the problem, by hitting on her he's not only disrespecting you and your relationship, he's disrespecting her because he's basically saying to her "your relationship doesn't matter to me." Which means the things she cares about don't matter to him. Girls always pull out the " you think that lowly of me, that I would cheat on you?" line of defense. Throw that shit back in her and his face by saying "NO. But he does, clear…
/r/seduction26/05/12 02:52 AM
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pretty 3 column html table form. Print it out and make a tri-fold pamphlet if you want. http://pastebin.com/f24wuscu Couldn't figure out how to get reddit to accept the html, or to get the fake reddit table format to accept the numbered lists. So you gotta fire up notepad and IE6 :-) do it the hard way.
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:15 PM
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Netflix late night comedies.
/r/seduction24/05/12 06:34 PM
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Watch stand up comedians, talk show hosts, self-help gurus and other tv-pitchmen. They all have mastered the art of story telling. Get 10% of their skill and it'll make a world of difference. Also listen to NPR and notice how they use descriptive words to paint a picture. Imagine sounds, tastes, scents, colors. You weren't just sitting on a couch, you were sitting on a lumpy dark purple corduroy couch that had probably witnessed at least three murders in it's lifetime. practice. bullshit people …
/r/seduction24/05/12 04:59 AM
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saw a terrible movie where the AMOG was giving advice to the AFC and told him to "be yourself, say what comes to your mind." Dude opens the set and then blanks and says "So you have really big tits. Do you like titty fucking?" haha. It wasn't really funny in the movie, but it's funny now. I like shitty movies like that.
/r/seduction22/05/12 06:29 PM
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That's a great way of putting it, the concept isn't so much about the woman but about the man. It distinguishes him from all the other guys who fall right in line to kiss her royal ass. The most classic case I think of is Han Solo working on Princess Leia. He wasn't trying to "break her" or anything like that, he was just holding his own ground despite the fact that she's a beautiful Princess.
/r/seduction22/05/12 06:26 PM
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I creeped your post history to see if you had any progress pics on /r/fitness, to see how big a factor that was and to give you mad props in that department, and I came across the most hilarious sequence of posts: Need Some good bank heist movies. followed immediately by: Came across some money, need some excellent Xbox 360 games that are worth approx. 20 dollars. Any ideas? Which leads me to believe you robbed a bank and only got 20 bucks, but it seemed to be all you needed, so that's pretty ba…
/r/seduction22/05/12 06:03 PM
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Agreed. Although most of the guys I know who are married did require a nudge or even a shove from their girlfriends. But this wouldn't be a good way to do it. Still, there comes a point where like it or not the relationship gets defined. You need to commit to something bigger or define it as nothing too serious. Tests like this come up whether it's her intention or not. When they do you get a choice. If your intentions for the relationship sync up with hers, then you're fine, and you define the …
/r/seduction21/05/12 10:57 PM
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Either she's letting you know she's not that serious about the two of you, or she's trying to get you to take the relationship to the next level. Depending on what you want, you can either let her push you into asking her to marry you, or you can let her walk and see if that doesn't make her desire you even more. A royal bad-ass wouldn't be fazed. "Have fun, meeting some chump who won't even come close to comparing to me. I'll be busy being a badass." Though he probably wouldn't say "have fun". …
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:43 PM
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You're right. And looking for " the one" is oneitis, but the image of some guy finding his true love by tapping her on the head despite getting slapped down by the first girl he tried it on just cracks me up. Sorry.
/r/seduction18/05/12 05:27 AM
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Somewhere out there is a person who likes getting tapped on the head and OP will find her if he taps enough chicks on the head. Lol.
/r/seduction18/05/12 05:05 AM
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You must seduce his mom or sister. When he goes to rip you on fucking fatties, you can pull out the "like your mom?" line and mean it. The look on his face will let everyone know there's more to it than the typical "your mom" joke. If you don't seduce her, you could at least fuck with him making him think you're serious. Carry her picture with you, shit like that. Sister might be better depending on age. http://www.myspace.com/video/blue-eyed-devil/homebase-i-know-what-i-have-to-do/1777632
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:58 AM
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Great point.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:46 AM
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Oh you should some time. They're tons of fun! My friends and I make it a drinking game. We try to spell and if we misspell the word, then if the kid does too we're saved, but if not we have to drink. It's a lot of fun. But my friends are really smart, they're all IVY league nerds so it's tough. You'd enjoy it since you're into science and stuff. blah blah. See what I did there? We had no problem finding stuff to talk about. If I were better at this (and you were a chick) I would have said someth…
/r/seduction14/12/11 12:27 AM
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Oh cool, well not that you lost, but spelling bees are cool. Have you seen the ones on espn? They're so intense. Have they made a movie about them yet? Like strictly ballroom. That would be great.
/r/seduction13/12/11 10:19 PM
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Why is your username silent letters suck? Do you hate silent e's more than silent a's or g's?
/r/seduction13/12/11 07:46 PM
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"It is better to be high pitched and slightly fast, if there is playfulness in our hearts, than to put on the cloak of baritone voice to cover insincerity." -Mr. T
/r/seduction12/10/11 09:37 PM
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It's not cheating, you know, because it's your dog.
/r/seduction12/10/11 09:29 PM
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I love how we learn abundance mentality and then every other post on here is how to proceed with a girl who has a boyfriend, husband, family.
/r/seduction10/10/11 12:43 PM
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Ah college. There should be a rule that says no keeping your HS relationships long distance when you go to college. It always ends in broken hearts. "I'm waiting for that final moment, You say the words that I can't say"
/r/seduction06/10/11 05:01 AM
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So what's your sedditor's name.
/r/seduction03/10/11 01:42 PM
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tl;dr? Seriously, I tried to read it 3 times now, twice on my phone, once on a big ass monitor. too hard to read - and kinda long. pretty though. /like my johnson.
/r/seduction30/09/11 11:31 PM
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You could respond that opposites attract, right?
/r/seduction30/09/11 02:36 AM
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What are you in to besides bdsm and philosophy (work)? Whatever hobby you have could be a good way to meet prospects.After you get some prospects its going to be a matter of being up front about your open relationship so as to not lead guys on. If you do go out you will probably get pretty good at spotting the players and then you can let them think they're picking you up. Also: call me.:-P
/r/seduction28/09/11 04:11 AM
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make a date. Instadates are the best for that. Even with dudes. Hey how'd you do on that quiz Blah blah Oh nice. What you got after this? Break Good. come with me to the union/bookstore/gym/ I need to blah blah and we can talk about the next blah blah. I'm not necessarily great at this, but the people I've become friends with all did something like this to me. I didn't realize it until I wrote this comment. Good question. Thanks for asking.
/r/seduction28/09/11 02:11 AM
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Lol. HSN. Telemarketers. Its election time, thank God. Sure I'll take your survey. Yup, I want to sign your petition. Etc. That's how I feel at those times anyway.
/r/seduction26/09/11 04:13 AM
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Great post! Good luck!
/r/seduction25/09/11 01:30 AM
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Pretty sure asking if it's a shit test is a shit test.
/r/seduction25/09/11 12:56 AM
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no, fuck you. here's the problem. Your kid and her kid are gonna be friends. And then one day her husband is gonna find out or she's gonna want to move on or something and now your kid loses a friend and doesn't understand why. That's fucked up.
/r/seduction23/09/11 04:46 PM
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Next time you see her look at her real serious like, say out loud as if you're announcing to her, yourself, the universe, "I have to know" pull her in close and kiss her. Then you'll know if you are friends, more than friends, or less than friends. Seriously, from what you've said you can recover from a bad kiss or a failed kiss and it just might be bold enough to respark her interest in you. She's beautiful and in college. Every day that goes by with you not making a real move on her is another…
/r/seduction23/09/11 05:37 AM
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Great report. Very helpful to the rest of us. I appreciate it. Just remember: she can't hear what's going on in your head. And even though you're surely right all the time about everything, much like myself, you don't need to judge yourself in-game. Let it ride and you might even find that you're wrong, you didn't fuck up. I've asked girls what it was that attracted them to me and found that what they liked was the one part of our encounter I would have deleted had I had it to do over again. As …
/r/seduction22/09/11 11:56 PM
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Do the same thing, only with her panties instead of her watch.
/r/seduction22/09/11 09:33 PM
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Be sexual: Nice guys are just... nice. Sleazy guys are uggh. What do they have in common? They both feel ashamed of or as though it's wrong to demonstrate their sexuality and desires. The nice guy pretends it's not there, the sleazy guys act on it anyway but in a way that attempts to hide their embarrassment or in a way that allows them plausible deniability when called out on it (picture the sleaze whistling or grabbing ass in a way that if (when!) he gets blown out he still gets to high five h…
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:18 AM
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Haha you're gonna look back on this one day and laugh. You had it going until you got caught up in magic the gathering. Lol. Classic. Well no sweat, you'll close her out next time. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/09/11 01:32 PM
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Tell the chick she's full of shit. If she's telling the truth, she will think highly of your loyalty to Sam. If she's fucking with you, then you called her on it.
/r/seduction17/09/11 11:53 PM
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Dude, what a great idea. Are you down to share any of that? I've often thought about doing something similar. I even started a wiki site for it once, but it was on a cheap wiki hosting page that sucked and I abandoned it.
/r/seduction17/09/11 03:58 AM
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I'm happy with my love life, but surrounded by introverts at work. I came here to re-learn how to make friends, but I like the content about learning to influence people going on in this thread very much as well. So maybe seddit isn't the best place, but I'm here for the same reasons. Keep it coming.
/r/seduction17/09/11 03:57 AM
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+saved!
/r/seduction17/09/11 03:50 AM
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Alpha Trait #1: Take Nothing Personally. One of the most prominent traits of an alpha man is that he doesn’t take things personally. Far too often guys will take things personally and make the words or actions of other people about them. An alpha man doesn’t care if other people are talking about him because he is secure in who he is. He is not afraid of rejection because he knows that other people have their own realities. source
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:45 AM
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"I've learned everything I can from that, and thinking about it longer is just harmful" Universally good advice. I mean, that's straight up wisdom. Thanks.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:31 AM
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Watch the little mermaid. Then "kiss the girl". Tra-la-la-la ...
/r/seduction06/09/11 05:19 PM
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If you have a pretty good idea she was sketching you, you could go that route. Have to have balls cause you may be wrong . But if you are, just make her the offer to sketch you some other time.
/r/seduction06/09/11 05:15 PM
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Truly funny chicks are super rare. More valuable than beauty. You might be done gaming, if you're smart (and lucky)!
/r/seduction06/09/11 01:21 AM
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nice :)
/r/seduction05/09/11 01:47 AM
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Didn't mean to offend. It just sounded like something I'd say after a few tokes back when I smoked. I always used to rehash convos in my head and come to profound realizations about them. Anyway, they're still good points. It's just funny to think of it being a stoner realization. Guess you had to be there.
/r/seduction05/09/11 01:45 AM
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Serious. Re-read ops post in a whoa dude voice. "When we say...they hear...whoa dude. I totally figured out women man."
/r/seduction05/09/11 01:38 AM
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Dude, you are so high right now, aren't you?
/r/seduction05/09/11 01:35 AM
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Ask your friend what she's interested in and make your first call simply saying hey, I was telling friend about this thing I want to do and he couldn't go cause of his blah, but said you might be intesredtrf. I can tell you more about it tonight if your free for drinks/voffee etc. Goal is to get off phone, get in person, and make calling her merely a step towards somethibg bigger rather than an end to itself. Downlmay the call, downplay the first date even as ita just an "informal" to talk more …
/r/seduction31/08/11 02:46 AM
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was that a tri (you mention swimming/riding)? A lot of people I know were up in Canada this weekend for the ironman. If you did it, how'd your race go?
/r/seduction30/08/11 06:15 AM
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Brilliant advice and good info too. Thanks.
/r/seduction29/08/11 05:49 AM
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How'd you go for the phone number?
/r/seduction29/08/11 05:41 AM
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Good move leaving while ahead. I suppose that's the abundance mentality you're talking about.
/r/seduction28/08/11 10:34 PM
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I'm usually thinking about doing the Old King Clancy to her, and she'll read my mind and either blush or give me the "Creep" look. I need to work on that. Maybe picture something more mild like the squatting eskimo.
/r/seduction26/08/11 07:03 PM
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With respect - mutual respect, if you will.
/r/seduction26/08/11 06:59 PM
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Spose - I'm Awesome - Just don't pay attention to the lyrics, they're all self-depracating. But the Chorus is bad ass.
/r/seduction24/08/11 04:41 PM
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I've been waiting for someone to bring up those Harvard photos. Were they ever released in full? There were some "ruling class" people in that group, were there not? I do see parallels here. I would be surprised if TMZ hasn't already started talking to the TSA workers at LAX.
/r/MensRights18/11/10 09:32 PM
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