pointlesslypointing Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	She Doesn’t Appear To Be Worth For Anything Other Than Sex. Get gone. I hope you only hooked up at her place.	/r/seduction	18/07/22 02:04 PM
1	She asked me if I liked her Not at all. "I am telling you my intentions, clearly and without pretense, while attempting not to pressure on you to feel a certain way." It isn't indirectness to allow a woman to decide how she feels about your advances. Direct ≠ pushy. Edit: You can disagree if you want, I'm literally just saying what has worked for me.	/r/seduction	04/05/22 01:01 PM
1	She asked me if I liked her Works for me, and I am not a physically attractive man.	/r/seduction	04/05/22 12:43 PM
3	Any advice (with examples ideally) when it comes to being charming/flirty and just what I should consider adopting? In my experience, directness without being pushy is the way to go about this. If someone's been enjoying your company, just tell them that you're attracted to them and you'll leave it up to them to decide what to do with that info; and its crucial that you fully intend on respecting their decision. It'll either work immediately (great), she'll come back to the topic and be receptive after a little bit (great), she won't be receptive and will tell you so (great), or she won't be receptive and wil…	/r/seduction	04/05/22 10:48 AM
1	She asked me if I liked her Nah, a lot of men can't tell the difference between being direct and being creepy, can't read social cues, and their attempts at directness come across weird. I am far from an attractive man, but if I've been getting along with a woman all night, she's been laughing and she's been spending time with me without me needing to chase her around like a lost puppy, I have honestly had a pretty high success rate with just saying some variation of "Look, I think you're attractive, it's up to you what yo…	/r/seduction	04/05/22 10:40 AM
1	She asked me if I liked her It's not needy to tell someone you're interested in them, especially if they said it first. The fact that she came right out and said that she's interested in you implies that she appreciates clear and open communication and is less interested in games, so don't play them. Hell, you could just ask if she wants to hang out / come over / etc if you're scared you'll drive her off by telling her outright you like her. She'll understand by the implication.	/r/seduction	04/05/22 03:43 AM
4	She asked me if I liked her Tell her you like her. Women are receptive to direct communication, it shows confidence.	/r/seduction	04/05/22 02:50 AM
2	Asked Ex to Hook up - Went Horrible No. In fact, you did the best possible thing. The point of seduction is to encourage someone to do something they already want to do, not trick or convince them into doing something they don't. She didn't want to hook up, that's her boundary, you need to respect that.	/r/seduction	30/03/21 06:07 AM
1	How do I seduce my ex boyfriend ? Seduction is about making people feel comfortable with doing what they already wanted to do. It's not about convincing them to do something they don't.	/r/seduction	15/01/21 12:00 PM