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’ve never gotten tinder gold, so my like list usually hovers around the 100 mark, but that sounds quite high even for gold users, so go through and get talking! What I’ve always been curious about is when an appropriate time to allow those beta behaviours in is in a FWB/LTR... Indeed bro, I know the girls should push for the relationship, but meeting up just to fuck isn't gonna make them do that. Not that a relationship should be a goal, but doing something else than just fuck is nice once in a …
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:49 PM
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I'll do that. I just got a date with a new girl from Instagram this wednesday. This is what I should've been doing all along, lol. Not getting blindsided on one girl. Anyway, I'll try texting her tomorrow for a date friday, if she doesn't comply, fuck it, new girls. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:11 PM
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Right on. The thing is I’m actually a hard working musician and have a good thing going on, so I am that catch, but still haven’t learned to really fully live it. I’m focusing on new girls to get a rotation and the abundance going, but since this is my own fuckup, how should I treat this one - give her space and let her come to me, or set something up in a week or so?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:51 AM
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2 months. And no lol, what I mean by that is, she hasn’t show any red flags, and she invests a lot in me when she sees me. So for now, so far so good. Eventually If she pushes for the relationship, I so far haven’t got anything that would definitely make me NOT consider her ltr worthy. I get your point, but; she sees me as a high SMV guy (which I am) - she respects my time. Anytime I hit her up, it’s INSTANT response (like 30 seconds max). The time I went 10 days no contact, some of her friends …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:24 PM
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I'm so fucking confused on the balance of things. Our timeline goes like this: I hit her up on instagram, set up date at my place, we fuck 5 days later, 2nd date at my place then no contact for a week, she hits me up, 3rd date at my place 2 days later I text her (to chit chat, very short) then 10 days no contact. Then I try to set something up, she's not able to meet. 1 week goes by, she hits me up, we set something up. After that meet, we text very little with a couple of days in between, I the…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:25 PM
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Appreciate it. My reason for soft nexting is based on the fact, that I'm sure this have caused a loss of attraction. I've chased her too much. If I chase again (IE. setting up our next date), she will be further turned off. Wouldn't giving her space be the correct move, in case of a loss of attraction? I'll acknowledge her existence by looking at her stories once in a while, but we never chit chat anyway, so shouldn't I wait for her to reach out?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:15 PM
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I realized it was a comfort test first when I got home, that's why I called her the next day, but the test wasn't serious at all and she was a bit baffled why I called ("if you think I'm mad at you, you're very wrong!") So how to proceed from here - I suspect attraction is lost, so soft next until she reaches out herself - right? Keep in mind it's still just FWB.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:26 PM
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Thanks for the support I just downloaded Tinder Gold and have 1800 girls that already liked me. Lol. But I'm used to that, I'm a high SMV guy. I still have those beta fantasies though, and it's hard to keep them out, you think you have it, and then you lose it!
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:17 PM
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Recover how? In my mind I'm fine, what's done is done. But recover this thing with her, you mean? How?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:16 PM
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Thanks for your reply anyway, you're right, I fucking hate how oneitis always creeps up on you when you land those dimes. She'll be back, and hopefully my mind will be at ease by then
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:04 PM
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Of course, I wrote that in the post, we've seen each other 6 times, fucked probably 12 times
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:29 AM
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Lmfao dude
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:28 AM
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She’s proven to be helpful to my mission, and I’m tired of banging plates - she’s invested a lot in me. I’m not needing a relationship but I did want one, but fuck it, since I now scared her away, lol.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:07 AM
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I just did something similar, today actually. Lol. Everything had been going well with this girl, but all of a sudden I just got real oneitis and anxiety about the relationship “working out” (she was LTR worthy). So after a date where we playfully fought and she called me an asshole (semi playfully) and complained I just came to fuck and leave, I got in my head about it and decided to ... call her, and tell her she shouldn’t be worried, and that I’m an asshole but not THAT much of an asshole, ju…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:30 PM
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!RemindMe 12 hours
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:43 PM
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Dude could you post the pic, of course with a blurred face?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 03:33 PM
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Don’t respond, if she’s interested she’ll hit you up later
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:08 PM
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You chill out, dude. Of course she’s gonna have old family friends to run into, and if she shortly side hugged him (which friends and sometimes acquaintances do) then I don’t see the big deal, since it was very short and you went on your merry way. Because she sidehugs some dude she knows from work, family, friends, doesn’t always mean she’s gonna gargle hardcore on his cock later that night lol.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 05:48 PM
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Good stuff man, appreciate the reply
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 11:45 AM
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I totally agree with you. I know that zone and when I’m in it, it’s like being a god and you can attract everything (and everyone) you set your mind to attracting. It’s like people gravitate to you, because as you said, those guys are rare. What’s your tips for being in that zone? I have periods of weeks, even months, where I’m naturally in that zone, but sometimes it fades. I’ve found lifting several times a week, cutting porn, and eating healthy is vital. Do you do anything specific?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 09:21 PM
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Enjoy the journey
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:45 PM
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Yeah. Can’t believe I let her get away with it.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 08:28 PM
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If a bitch slapped me I’d leave right then. You really gotta have a scarcity mindset if you’re willing to put up with this shit. I don’t know what you did to make her act like that or if she’s naturally like that, and I wouldn’t even bother trying to find out. Yeah thanks for being straight. Gonna block her on everything and realize I'm the prize and above that shit.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 06:48 PM
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You’ve nothing to lose. “Hey, you should stop by xxx and we’ll (refer to something funny from last time”
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:00 PM
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Hey man, is main sub up again? I totally agree with your post btw.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:44 AM
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LMFAO
/r/askTRP25/08/17 10:31 AM
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Then read the sidebar and start improving! That's your X leading to Y
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:34 PM
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Think for yourself a bit you fucking idiot. That was a priceless comment right there.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:17 PM
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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy and you'll get the answer
/r/askTRP11/08/17 08:21 PM
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That's a hell of a point too. You're right!
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:18 PM
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Right. That's noted. I guess even just a one word answer is still validation to these bitches man... but yes, that is how I'll proceed. Thank you!
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:14 PM
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Yes, you're correct. I forgot to lead. Can't believe I blew it, what a fucking rookie mistake
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:22 AM
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Fuck dude, you're totally right. Don't know why I didn't think of just basic fucking shit. Definitely won't happen again.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:22 AM
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That's the way to go. Good work mate
/r/askTRP03/08/17 06:00 PM
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Open, don't reply.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:28 PM
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You only "feel like it". What gives?
/r/askTRP15/04/17 02:35 PM
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You are correct. My abundance mentality is something I'm working on. She just texted me she moved her plans for tomorrow (I didn't respond yet) so when Saturday comes up tomorrow I'll just tell her I've made other plans and can only come by at night so that it's on my own terms.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:07 PM
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She just texted me she moved her plans tomorrow so we can hang out. When the plans for Saturday then comes up tomorrow I'll probably tell her I can only stop by at night.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:05 PM
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Thank you for the feedback!
/r/askTRP28/03/17 11:38 AM
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Thanks. My fear is just that if I drop her, I'm not sure when I could get another plate. I'd like to get other ones secure first , you know?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:45 PM
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Cheers. What should my next step be? What should I text her? I thought of just "as of now, were not exclusive."
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 05:26 PM
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I start a new job this Wednesday. I still want to plate her, because I'm not extremely experienced in bed (ie. currently I'm not plating any other than her) and the sex is amazing. I am getting laid with another girl tomorrow though (however, just a one night stand) I just need to know what cards I should play right now. Ignore her? Respond to her text about the talk at work?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:43 PM
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Thanks for the reply. What about the next steps?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:31 PM
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So if it bothers me, she loses the prize (me) - true. But why would that be good? Can You clarify?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 09:19 AM
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I appreciate your replies man. However, there's nothing wrong with my "self worth" if that's what you're getting at - I lift 3x a week, look good and am in general highly thought of by girls - I just never chased them and such don't have any other plates to spin. This is of course what I'd also like to change though.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 07:24 AM
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I think he means, that it's her who should write those texts, if I start ghosting her.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 07:19 AM
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Right on. Makes sense!
/r/askTRP24/02/17 08:37 PM
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I initiate anal often (no words, mere foreplay with fingers) and it usually always goes through.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 08:23 PM
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Right. Yeah of course it's great they write it. Just funny in a way they have to mention it. Not complaining tho!
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:21 PM
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I actually quit last week and have my last day in march. Wonder what the girls mean with those vag messages though?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:38 PM
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Awesome point cause it makes sense the way you say it. Would like others input to this? Thank you for all the great responses man.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:37 PM
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Makes sense. However this is one of my first serious lays for a very long time. I'm not in any abundance at all right now, which is, like you say, probably why I react like I do.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 05:54 PM
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We work together yes, but it's in a big call center. Today three hours ago, after work I fucked her in the bathroom. We only talked briefly during a break, then after work I pulled her inside the bathroom. She's since texted me "you destroyed me" and FB'ed me but I haven't responded yet.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 05:53 PM
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Needed to hear that. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 03:32 PM
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You know what, that seems worth trying. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:19 PM
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Awesome reply, thank you. What would the tactical advice be for locking her down?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:15 PM
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