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Yeah, you're right... It's just hard to not be nice/soften the blow to a certain extent. Honestly even sending a rejection text at all was a big step for me lmao. That deeply ingrained Female Socialisation i guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:15 AM
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It's because he literally asked me if I had plans on Christmas. Like to spend Christmas together. I'd met this guy once and I wasn't a big fan so I definitely wasn't going to do that. I'm willing to bet he's pretty low on options, to be fair he's living in a foreign country where he doesn't speak the language which I guess narrows things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:39 PM
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He's probably just dumb tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:28 PM
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At the bottom it says I blocked him but yeah, should have done it sooner. Honestly the reason I didn't was that I didn't care enough/was too busy to even really deal with his messages. After the third one today I was like ok better do something about it. At least this way he feels shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:17 PM
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Haha I was trying to work out what being vulnerable had to do with not playing video games (number 7). Not playing games in either sense is a must 😂 Good list! I personally would add confidence, the kind of quiet confidence that comes from true security in onesself, not bravado/arrogance that hides insecurities. Insecurity or shyness is unattractive to me. I also appreciate someone who is motivated and makes an active effort to see me. Laziness and flakiness is a the biggest turnoff. I want some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:34 PM
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Agreed! I'm also seeing three men (I'm a student and it's summer so I have time) and just knowing I have options keeps me from getting attached to one. I'm having fun, not taking it too seriously. I'm 23, studying and have no thought of marriage or even long term at the moment, what I want to explore is my own self in a relationship. Since I don't seem very invested they pay a lot of attention to me and try hard to impress me. The onus is on them to "maintain" the relationship. However, I'm very…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:58 PM
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Sleeping with a male friend never works out, even if he's been your friend for years and you "trusted" him. I feel so bad for her 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:55 PM
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Me literally passing out or throwing up because of period pain: This genius: yeah she's just exaggerating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:20 AM
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Because men get totally wrapped up in their ego. Everything is always about them, especially if they have some sort of passion, their personal interest becomes the most important thing in the world. Think of all the mad geniuses in history who were extremely antisocial. On the other hand, women are driven to care for others and constantly better themselves for society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:50 AM
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Same. Like for me sexual compatibility is a huge factor, I never want to have mediocre sex again. And I really don't want to have invested in someone before finding out they're terrible in bed. If they suck in bed then they're gone, it's part of the vetting process for me. I'm definitely a fan of waiting and having several conversations in which we can determine what our preferences/expectations regarding sex are, though. If I make it clear I have high standards regarding sex men will either be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:29 PM
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Male lack of self-awareness is astonishing. I would be so, so, so ashamed to do something like this and yet he kept trying for months... it just screams pathetic, what a turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:12 PM
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You just gotta block these sad losers and not engage, it's not your fault they dont have a life other than stalking an internet forum so they can send women creepy messages. They're just desperate to provoke any kind of interaction with a woman because most women irl wouldn't look twice at them. Don't encourage them, leave them to wallow in their frustration and impotence 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:54 PM
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I feel like this tweet is literally about this couple: https://www.instagram.com/p/CBMbiyZFxl_/?igshid=1bzermgztc1o7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:34 AM
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I think all men HAVE watched porn, but honestly there are a few men who don't actively watch porn because they don't have the habit. These are usually 30+ men, most younger men are complete porn addicts these days and you can always tell, it's soooo obvious when you sleep with a guy if he watches porn. Younger men typically have less access to sex and less sexual experience/confidence but extremely easy access to porn online, which ends up substituting their sexuality and their ideas around sex.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:09 AM
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Omg this is ridiculous. As if the things women are scared to tell men are whether or not she wants chocolates. Any woman will tell you they've suffered physical discomfort during sex because they were too nervous to tell an overconfident man he was doing it wrong. This is just some loser roleplaying his fantasy about women being whiny, shallow bitches when in reality we bend over backwards, sacrificing our happiness and pleasure so that we don't accidentally hurt their precious feelings. Edit: e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:35 AM
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Ugh this happened to me the other day. I live in a big city and the guy lived in a smaller town just outside the city. He asked where I wanted to meet and I said the center of my city (easy to get to by train) and he was like "so... do we HAVE to meet in [city]? 😅" I ignored him and he sent a voice message saying that he was only asking because he usually liked to go for walks in the forest and did I have a car? I replied "I don't have a car" and ignored his messages. It's just lazy. Like I am m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:29 AM
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What I find most infuriating about this "preference" is that the purpose of pubic hair is actually to prevent infections. Men literally expect women to compromise their sexual health and wellbeing to satisfy their sexual appetites that have been warped by porn and pedophilic culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:13 AM
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He did try to hide it for 3 years...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:59 AM
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I don't think it's a troll, I know a couple who do this, they have a bed but don't use it because it's covered in stuff 😭 the girl was my friend in high school and she always had a bed but chose to sleep on a pile of clothes. And when they moved in together he just conformed I guess, and since neither of them know how to maintain a house like adults their apartment is just a disaster, clothes everywhere and the whole place smells like their stinky dog. I will never understand how people can live…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:55 AM
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You sound cute and down to earth and natural and this will only attract men who can appreciate these things and most likely embody them themselves! I also tend towards a natural, hippie vibe and I find weeding out the menchildren who cannot handle body hair on women is a pretty good start. Men who actually find ADULT HUMAN FEMALES and not a pornified hairless version attractive will be attracted to you in your most natural and comfortable state! This isn't to say don't take care of your appearan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:19 PM
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Thank you so much for this comment, it expresses perfectly how I feel and what's going on with me at the moment. I definitely think there's a strong element of emotional neglect from childhood and not feeling like I deserve love at play here. I will check out your recommendations! I'm trying my best in therapy and I've made progress but it's frustratingly slow. I just feel stuck and too fragile to really let anyone in. Thank you again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:46 PM
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Yeah, basically he meant he ran into his "producer" and was whisked away, aka he chose to forget about his arrangement with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:14 AM
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Heheh yes, I forgot I had my phone in catalan! 💕 me alegro de ver otra española también!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:13 AM
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This dude literally blew me off ON THE FIRST DATE to hang out with his "producer" and then like three hours later sends me a stupid cringe video and bullshit excuse. I ignored him obviously The last few messages are him being like "please forgive me, can we hang out today, can you forgive me?" 😂 so pathetic and desperate, he knew I was way too good for him and he fucked up which he later regrets Is it me or do men sometimes "test" you to see how much you're willing to put up with from the get-go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:10 PM
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Men always hate when women know they're beautiful. It means their stupid little negging tactics have no power. Women who know they're beautiful know there's always another, better man around the corner. And secretly men know (and fear) that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:13 AM
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Siii, me encanta la idea! Ahora te hago un DM 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 10:47 PM
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Right? I'm a bisexual woman but I'm very much aware that functionally the world treats me as heterosexual most of the time and therefore I reap the benefits and privileges of being heterosexual. I have very little to do with the experience of a woman who exclusively dates other women which is why I don't see it as a hugely defining part of my identity. It just is, but it doesn't really affect my life most of the time. Therefore, I don't see any practical difference between a bisexual man who exc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:48 PM
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Maybe this is because I'm younger but the trend I see in "bisexual" men I've dated is the opposite. They often have never and I'm certain would never really sleep with a man, they just say they're bisexual (+polyamorous genderqueer bla bla bla) in order to impress girls. Maybe they've made out with their friend at a party or something at most. But it makes them seem woke and liberated and "in touch with their feminine side". It gives an impression of harmlessness and puts women at ease because a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:58 AM
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Anyone like that fundamentally believes you're lesser than him. He doesn't believe in your humanity or civil rights. The minute you assert yourself or stand up for yourself you'll become a "crazy misandrist" like the others. Not a HVM. Being a literal MRA is antithetical to HVM in my opinion. Respect yourself enough to not date an actual woman hater! Spend your energy on worthy pursuits and not trying to educate and pander to misogynists who obviously will not change their minds. Jeez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:23 PM
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Ugh yeah... especially that last point. It kind of feels like they've constructed this whole romantic fantasy around you that has little to do with who you actually are. Them "catching feelings" fast is really just falling for this romanticised version of you they've put on a pedestal... suddenly they're obsessed with someone they don't even know. This has happened to me a few times, most recently over the summer with this guy who would text me NOVELS waxing poetic about his feelings or how much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:03 AM
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A simple nose ring can look quite tasteful and stylish on men in my opinion. Not so sure about a stud but I'm sure some men could pull it off if they had a certain look/style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:59 PM
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Men are equally shit everywhere, that's just the rub. I've lived in the U.S. and Europe and there isn't a lot of difference, though American women tend to think so... a friend of mine was going solo hitchhiking around europe and when I asked if it wasn't dangerous for a woman she said "well, men in Europe don't do that stuff".... honey.... men EVERYWHERE will take advantage of you if they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:53 PM
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