politeAndLevelHed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Why women can't appreciate fatherhood I've said it before, and I'll say it again, you rush into marriage, or even a long term relationship, and you will regret it. Fast relationships come from insecurity and selfishness. It is latching onto something to fill a need - be that a need to feel wanted, or a need to have fun. A long term relationship only lasts when two people want to be together, as opposed to need to be together. And that is why you let a relationship take time to form. It shakes out the needy because they will run alon…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/19 10:46 AM
1	Hypergamy is Monogamy So you openly tell your LTR that you're sleeping with other girls? When you do you deliver this news: during the first few dates after you're in the LTR and before each affair after you're in the LTR and as soon as you get home from each affair after you're in the LTR and weeks or months after the affair?	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/18 11:07 PM
1	Hypergamy is Monogamy Is this clickbait? Why is the full article somewhere else?	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/18 11:00 PM
2	The Diminished Respect for Fatherhood and "The Simpsons" A number of shows have the mother portrayed as a drunk, such as: Christy's mother in Mom Alicia's mother in The Good Wife Or overly controlling: Raymond's mother in Everybody Loves Raymond Leonard's mother in The Big Bang Theory	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/18 06:52 AM
103	The Diminished Respect for Fatherhood and "The Simpsons" It isn't just on dads. A few decades ago it became unacceptable for boys to excel in the STEM (science, tech, engineering, math) subjects and there has been intense focus on ensuring women get better results even if it means bringing down boys' marks in the process. Which I find almost comical because boys who excel at STEM at school are usually on the end of some heavy physical beatings by boys who mostly rank each other on strength. So you're now finding that weak boys are being physically ass…	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/18 06:45 AM
6	It boils down to two choices: take your chances with marriage, or enjoy sluts My view is that a marriage (being a union between a man and a woman) can work but it needs the following ingredients: respect trust love I'll go over those 3 points. Respect This is the most important factor. Respect is about both people accepting the other is different. The other person has different desires, different ideas, different emotions, different responses. So you can't demand your partner do this or that, or behave differentially, or think the same as you, or respond the same as you t…	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/18 07:56 AM
21	Being an Asshole Women Love To Hate vs Being a Dick Except that a lot of "not nice" guys play the jerk TO OTHER GUYS. They break whole swathes of the bro code. They don't have respect for other people because they are focused on the female and their entirely selfish goal of score no matter what the collateral damage. You pull that kind of person back into line and they'll argue "hey stop spoiling my fun! I'm just having fun!" while they are simultaneously leaving a wake like a tornado.	/r/TheRedPill	14/12/18 06:48 AM
19	State of the Manosphere 2018 I think the biggest awakening I ever had was to realise that there is zero point chasing someone that is not attracted physically to you. Life is not like the movies where the persistent guy wins the girl. Or where the girl wakes up and realises her best male friend was the right man for her all along. Either she's into you or she isn't. If she's not don't even bother, you'll just end up throwing in more effort on top of already spent effort ("Sunk Cost Fallacy") thinking it all has to count for…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/18 09:24 AM
14	Christianity may be founded on an alpha fux beta bux situation Science and Internet are not producing Einsteins. People are just as stupid as they ever were. The only difference today is that, in the Internet, propaganda is more global, more powerful, and more effective than it has ever been in history. So look to the absurd trends that people have suddenly come to "believe in" in just 5 short years, like "gay marriage", that would have been scoffed at as inconceivable for at least two thousand years prior. The "religions" people believe in now are anti-fam…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/18 08:23 AM
6	Bunch of women describing red pill teachings without realizing when asked how they feel about casual sex but it struck me how so many regret it Called "not taking responsibility for one's actions".	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/18 08:18 AM
4	FR: Went to a country bar, did some approaches, got a number, abundance, etc. Yeah, remember she gave you her number, when you call her all she sees is a number she's never seen before and assumes it is a scammer or robocall.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/18 11:42 AM
3	Got punched for saying a girl is beautiful There are women who actively try and hurt men, either physically, or mentally through abusive comments in person or online. There can be many reasons behind this; from having suffered abuse at the hands of exciting but ultimately hurtful "bad boys", to being sick of chat-up lines and assuming all guys are the same (worthless). But it doesn't matter. There's an old saying: you give a friend $100 and he doesn't pay you back? It was worth the $100 to discover he wasn't really your friend.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/18 11:41 AM
2	"Kick him kick him! He just said being a misogynist is ok, he's a misogynist" Once a false allegation has been made against you and others begin to believe it you've got no alternative but to get out of there. It no longer becomes about frame or confidence or even being right - it is about numbers - and unless you have a posse to back you up you're never going to win by staying where you are.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/18 07:22 AM
4	"Kick him kick him! He just said being a misogynist is ok, he's a misogynist" the guys I was talking to looked at me like they wanted to fight. One even touched my shoulder and said "woah dude, you've got to calm down" Had this happen to me on a bus tour for 18-30 year olds. We were at a bar, all drunk, and some girl started telling everyone in the tour that I called her a "cunt". This is a word that I didn't even have in my vocabulary at that time. Next time thing I know half the guys on the tour start squaring up to me and threatening me. Men who attack other men on the…	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/18 07:19 AM
2	How To Prepare Our Sons for the Matriarchy There was a Saturday Night Live (who are usually so far in their liberal bubble it is quite refreshing when they joke about their own shortcomings) comedy clip about this very issue: Girl at a bar - basically a woman gets hit on by all these guys who try to impress her with their feminist credentials, then try and use that to get sex.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/18 02:14 AM
39	FR: Went to a country bar, did some approaches, got a number, abundance, etc. How a girl feels in the moment, on a night out, flirting and having fun, maybe the fear of a negative reaction if she doesn't, will lead her to give you her number. But the next day, in the cold hard light of day, with societal expectations, a foggy memory, and a different mood, what value is just another guy she knows nothing about sending her an SMS? Zero. It's not to say you can't start something from a phone number, but the odds are extremely low. Getting a phone number at a bar is not a win…	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/18 01:54 AM
9	FR: Went to a country bar, did some approaches, got a number, abundance, etc. I still don't get how you guys can even consider ever going out alone. If you ever move countries you're going to have to get used to the fact that you're going to have to do things all by yourself! In fact this might be the very definition of adulthood - being able to venture out in public by oneself.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/18 01:48 AM
1	LTR, the loss of attraction, and how easily I slipped and probably fucked my self over. Consider a LTR like a job. You start out unemployed. You want a job. So you go to interviews. Initially no one will hire you because you've got no experience, you look scruffy, and you're nervous in interviews. At some later point in your career you're aceing interviews, you come in confident and smartly dressed, you're cool under questioning, and every employer wants you. Do you now take a job? What about all that work you did to become a great interviewee? Well if you take that job you don't b…	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/18 11:07 PM
8	“I’m Broke and Mostly Friendless, and I’ve Wasted My Whole Life” University degrees are largely worthless these days. I look around others I work with, all getting paid largely the same, without degrees. Sure, they may have less theoretical understanding of what they do, but that's not important in today's mass market of everything. Computers do most of our work so all we're left with is pushing buttons and there's little additional reward for more understanding. There are times, of course, you can do better with a degree, it helps when travelling to a foreig…	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/18 11:01 PM
2	A reminder to live your fucking life First things first, realise you're not alone, others have felt depths of despair, too. Next: your existential crisis - what is the meaning of life? That's completely normal. Everybody has to pass through this particular gate of adulthood to get to the other side. Maybe the answer is there's no answer. Perhaps you'll find an answer for yourself, though, and I'd start with how much better you felt with your father around, and you probably help others around you feel positive, too. I was going to t…	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/18 12:22 PM
52	Take Control Of Your Birth in reality both sexes are scumbags morally This is the truth. Look you have guys and girls who care. They care about who they hurt and how they affect others. They are a lot more cautious in who they date because they don't want to be used. But you've also got guys and girls who only care about one thing: feeling good - and it doesn't matter one little bit how that personal good feeling is achieved.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/18 11:35 AM
2	The Hypergamy Illusion LIFT. Or go back to school and work your way up the education or corporate chain. Doesn't matter if it is physical or mental - just better yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/18 08:19 AM
14	The Hypergamy Illusion This is why a guy who hits his 30s (30-36) should never feel guilty about suddenly attracting interest from girls in their mid-20s. That's a man's peak age for attracting women - ladies view the guy as more experienced, mature, while still being young enough to be physically appealing. Go on any Internet dating site - it is a flood of desperate under-30s men, and over-30s women. It's just basic statistics.	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/18 08:08 AM
5	Applying theory, coping with the hamster, and a thanks to the community. Im not just talking about this specific question, but after a face-to-face conversation with some kino, girls tend to bring up sexual personal questions through text. I usually go with something along the lines of "we can talk about it in person, don't worry" or some shit. Don't underestimate the power of text. It's a blunt communication tool, emotionless, so the other person is forced to colour in the message with emotion. You'd be amazed what deep dark secrets you can fish out using text when …	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/18 10:59 AM
4	Dalrock: Our family policy is designed to terrify married fathers. In my opinion there's often a positive of an older man - younger woman dynamic. It means that the man will always have that edge in experience and helps the man retain some "power". Sure, the woman can always be right, except when the man puts his foot down, which if done through confidence rather than as a means of control, will ultimately be respected. You have to approach a marriage as "equals" to a large extent - that means no single person holds all the power. A guy with all the power looks…	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/18 10:54 AM
1	Finding Purpose and Stability: Your First Step I am the master of my reality and everyone is a guest in it. Well, for the most part, until a group of men think you're the wrong skin colour for the area and choose to assault you. Remember: sometimes the only way to "retain your frame" is to remove yourself from the situation.	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/18 09:32 AM
1	GAB is Down Because the Culture War is Real and the Overton Window is Shrinking For example TOR Browser bundles stuff with Firefox Mozilla (the company behind Firefox) is not your friend in this fight, in fact that are one of the leaders in eroding your freedom to think whatever you want.	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/18 10:26 AM
1	GAB is Down Because the Culture War is Real and the Overton Window is Shrinking I'm still angry with Mozilla for ousting the inventor of JavaScript as CEO because he made a donation to the winning side in a gay marriage referendum in California years prior. At the time I was completely shocked - how can your personal political opinions determine whether you may be CEO?! Especially in a tech company when your claim to fame was inventing JavaScript?! Now it has become completely normal for the far-left to target individuals who dare to have a different opinion - and demand th…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/18 10:24 AM
4	Why are guys here shocked that girls sleep around and cheat? Isn't it time for a paradigm shift? Lets talk about it. I think the warning signs have always been there. Growing up I'd listen to the Genesis hit, "Easy Lover", which pretty much talks about this. In fact a lot of Phil Collins songs are centred around a woman treating men as an object, have a listen to "Who Said I Would".	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/18 01:51 AM
1	CNN: What if women went on a sex strike before the midterms? I think refusing to take the garbage out would do the job after about a week.	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/18 01:48 AM
1	Kissed a Pro Cheerleader and more he can leverage the situation to give himself more social proof and cement himself as an alpha to the girl This is the attitude of a drowning person. They, in desperation, push others under the water to try and get themselves above the water. A true alpha wouldn't need others to prove themselves to a woman. They'd be able to swim unaided.	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/18 07:17 AM
1	Kissed a Pro Cheerleader and more I'm a top 20% male. I don't give a fuck about the bottom 80%. They aren't even trying in life, why should I respect them? Who didn't start out beta? You respect beta for the same reason you respect children, everybody has to learn and grow.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/18 07:21 AM
12	Kissed a Pro Cheerleader and more I decided to grab billy beta as he walked by and chatted him up. I grabbed his keys out of his hands because he had like a million fucking keys. I made a janitor joke and basically made him look like his beta self, but in a nice way. I then acted a bit friendly to him and used a consoling tone as I talked to him. Then I sent him on his way with a high five. I dunno, acting a bit of a dick to "beta" guys to look good to women seems to defeat the purpose of this sub which is to lift all guys up. I…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/18 06:16 AM