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It's likely more of the men you know than you are willing to accept have "lowkey raped" someone and you just aren't privy to the info. I have a large group of male friends and more of them than I would like to admit have engaged in predatory behaviors like sharing nudes without anyone's consent, giving their girlfriends STDs, & other generally disrespectful bs. And thats just what I know about. That being said, I do agree that this doesn't seem like a porn only issue. Generally when children are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:35 PM
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Sickening. My 12 year old neighbor used to do this shit, to a lesser extent bc I didnt live there obviously. Touch me. Say things like he wanted to get me pregnant. I was 17 maybe? I told his mom, she basically said the same boys will be boys, and then told me to punch him if he said those things (she was just as awful as her kids, and later accused me of sleeping with the boyfriend she cheated on her husband with. Mom is toxic physical & emotional abuser, son's are too now. So glad there were n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:11 PM
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Oh for sure, I agree. But I always hold out hope that this could be the push they need, or confirmation of that weird gut feeling they've had the whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:07 PM
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Definitely block him right before/after sending to her. If she tries calling you a homewrecker and throwing a fit, well you tried and block her too. Tell her you're an ex, he friended you & sent you these messages that you feel are disrespectful to her relationship, then send screen shots of the interaction. You don't need to let yourself get roped into their drama afterwards. Just say no or block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:34 PM
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I'd send it. If she still wants to do the mental gymnastics to believe its not true thats on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:03 PM
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Its likely true unfortunately Where I live there is one case I know of where a 16 year old had a child with her fathers best friend she's known for far top long for this to be ok. All adult parties are aware and this is somehow not an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:32 PM
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I think it depends on the person - height in congruence with other things. If you act like its some kind of problem, or lie, or have some kind of napoleon complex issue. If you're short and thats the only issue and you are otherwise a well rounded & interesting person, I don't personally have an issue. I dated a guy over a foot and a half taller than me -- think Hayden Panettiere & her ex. Can be just as awkward or weird as dating a short guy, he just is less likely to have a complex about being…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:19 PM
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Even if just for slouching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:12 PM
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Within a few minutes of him posting it too, it seems... Not to be harsh but what kind of message does this send besides "pick me"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:40 PM
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Friendly reminder that while its true some guys were never taught it isn't ok, it also isn't your job to teach an almost stranger. Unfollowing without making a stink doesn't mean they won't just follow them again later, create a separate account, or just search it when they wanna scroll. Relationship advice subreddits are full of girls having this convo with their dude for the 2nd+ time. Communication is key in a long term thing, and once someone has proved themselves & that they care and want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:30 PM
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First, wow I'm sorry. Second, honestly this is why my dad cheated on my mom. They did long distance temporily for business reasons, she moved to the new area with my brother. I stayed back with dad. He started seeing another woman and for so long I was making myself feel like it was my fault, and the things my parents said would hint at it bc I wasn't a good enough homemaker. I was 18, attending school full time 7a-7p and working at the business until he let me go to "focus on school" really bc …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:55 PM
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Very possibly. Worth looking into if the rest of him is so great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:31 PM
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My advice is that people who are interested in that are thru exposure -- which is either porn or other people. Personally I'd be curious as to why he is interested in this before throwing out the entire relationship when nothing else is wrong. If he is really anti-porn could it be possible he was abused himself and needs therapy or doesnt realize this behavior is a result of trauma. It could be possible he's not really anti porn. Who knows. She might. He does. We dont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:22 PM
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I don't understand how you asked her permission to write a post asking for advice on how to tell her to dump him without already revealing you think she should dump him for this reason? Personally I view this sort of thing the same way people would if it were she who was being asked to be tied up and spanked -- theres likely a reason why but frankly thats between the two of them and a therapist, or him and a therapist, and not really your business unless she is concerned and asking for advice, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:07 PM
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Honestly you shoulda coughed at him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:23 AM
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Why are you assuming people who are poor are out here spending $300 on concert tickets? You are straight up delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:09 PM
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The talking to you less because you voiced a disagreement is the fed flag. Not necessarily him being calm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 09:15 PM
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Honestly, I don't anymore. I tend to be bitchy, play it off as a joke if I must, and then ignore it. In the past when I've tried to be nice, they've repeatedly pushed boundaries and end up repeat insulting me. If you don't even need to be around them there is no need to be polite. Also, when they play hot and cold like that they know what they're doing. They're trying to confuse you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:59 PM
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I don't shave anything -- on doctors advice, actually -- and its a great litmus test and time saver. None of my exes have had issues with it. If anything my female friends had more to say about my not shaving than the guy who knew he was just lucky to be seeing me naked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:23 PM
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Where I live in the US it is very common for domestic abusers, rapists, and other threats to society to be released on conditions and sent through a probation or diversion process only for them to become repeat offenders (for the most part). Whats happening here is a rarity. The Stanford case from years ago is a better example of how it works -- you could be caught in the act, and pulled off someone and still the judge and jury will be more concerned about how this effects your future than the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:21 PM
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After years of nyc commuting i found i don't even need a good pair or that loud, I just use it as an excuse to pretend I heard nothing. Still aware of my surroundings, still not responding. They still try and tap you on the shoulder and shit though. Theres almost no avoiding it, just discouraging some of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:54 AM
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