polocrusader Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal? I think most of the looksmaxxers are incels in hiding that want to be as attractive as possible to spite women who would’ve been into them had it not been for their repulsive personalities	/r/seduction	19/05/26 01:01 PM
1	Dancing one of the most attractive things a man can do Reduce anxiety generally and then it will improve your dancing nobody thinks about dancing while dancing they just enjoy the music and do it	/r/seduction	07/05/26 09:08 PM
1	I am sick of not being able attract women Cultivate virtue and find ways to make life vibrant without women, in addition to giving 100% in dating and approaching	/r/seduction	22/12/25 04:18 PM
2	Started working on myself, now I fell in love with the grind. I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing What’s your methodology for time management because I’m basically undertaking everything you’re doing and I’m terrified that I will crash and burn let alone find the time to talk to women	/r/seduction	17/12/25 12:28 AM
1	is most of new york city mainly tourists for day game? Yea Manhattan is pretty inflated cost wise and dating wise I typically spend most of my time in Brooklyn and Queens. You could go uptown but might feel out of place if you’re not Hispanic or a local. I would recommend those two boroughs for next time	/r/seduction	12/12/25 03:33 PM
65	For those who have done cold approach, have you had women be mean and immediately tell you to go away Yeahhh I’ve had bad nights where it feels like most of my approaches go like this. Just part of the game	/r/seduction	06/12/25 08:55 PM
2	Chasing P*$$y is the Ultimate Self-Development Motivation Me when I’m trying to sell a course	/r/seduction	25/11/25 05:56 PM
4	Approach Journey: Logging Every Interaction - Day 2 I like the way you wrote this like a story, I feel like it takes pressure off approaches when you can observe yourself as if you were a character in a book. Best of luck	/r/seduction	14/11/25 09:01 PM
2	When the scarcity mindset is justified Yeah bro it sucks. That’s why I think the most important skill to cultivate success with cold approach is not anything external. I think emotional resilience is the best skill to cultivate especially in your case. Because at the end of the day it’s a numbers game and even neurotypical people will start thinking about giving up after 3 rejections. But as long as you don’t give up, no matter how uncoordinated or embarrassing your approaches are, you’re still in the game. And eventually someone wil…	/r/seduction	14/11/25 06:18 PM
2	When the scarcity mindset is justified Yeah bro if you’re neurodivergent it’s hard I won’t deny. I don’t have any easy answers for you. Therapy and positive mental attitude	/r/seduction	14/11/25 12:33 AM
3	When the scarcity mindset is justified You get small wins that provide counter evidence that you’re unfuckable. For instance I recently started getting to first base both from day and night game. Getting a kiss isn’t that hard if you read body language and go for it. I was in the club while travelling and approached a literal 10/10 from my hostel and we danced for 15 seconds. She wrapped her arms around my neck while we danced then put her hand on my chest before leaving. She obviously wasn’t going to fuck me but she appreciated that…	/r/seduction	13/11/25 04:48 AM
1	[Hot Take] Fake it Till You Make it is actually A good Advice I think the saying is a little misleading because it’s more like every time you “fake it” you are aligning yourself with the ideal you want to become. And you get a little more comfortable living up to that ideal until it becomes second nature. So there’s nothing fake about “faking it” because you’re taking steps to become the person you want to be. Whereas the original statement suggests that it’s a binary where you start out as a sexless loser, every attempt to not be that way yields a certain…	/r/seduction	21/09/25 09:36 PM
3	What are your seduction unpopular opinions and hot takes? Things you truly believe, but would get downvted? Like basically idk if the answer is to keep up the pressure or chill. Or I’m overthinking it and it’s more what you said where she already made her choice even if we’re making out and dirty talking	/r/seduction	21/09/25 09:25 PM
11	What are your seduction unpopular opinions and hot takes? Things you truly believe, but would get downvted? I agree that it’s a numbers game, but what do you make of the situation where you can pretty easily make out with a girl, fondle etc but she’s not down to come back? Been having more success escalating but I’m thinking I need to do more to fully seal the deal. Logistically there are no hang ups as I live alone and go out close to where I live.	/r/seduction	21/09/25 09:20 PM
5	Im an OG pua Demon. let me share some PUA history Nice rage bait	/r/seduction	27/08/25 08:06 PM
12	A letter with the dating advice I would send to my 13 year-old self I would have loved to understand even one of these concepts when I pussied out on a first kiss at 13	/r/seduction	30/07/25 05:22 PM
2	Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with Women Yeah I struggle with this as well, specifically finding the time to socialize during the week. I want to transition away from night game as my main source of meeting women	/r/seduction	23/07/25 06:08 PM
2	Women will try to get you to qualify yourself to them, your job is to play by your own rules, not hers. If all these things are true then dating should be the last thing on your mind right now	/r/seduction	23/06/25 05:50 PM
4	Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s? Yeah I had an older woman practically throw herself onto me in salsa class but I’m not into that for the most part	/r/seduction	14/05/25 05:14 PM
2	How to Talk to Girls: Make Music, Not Noise It is very ironic to relate conversing with women to making music while using AI to make this connection, when AI is known to produce slop and pass it off as art. Would you use ChatGPT to talk to a woman? No? Then why use it here?	/r/seduction	25/02/25 08:06 PM
10	An annoying thing other guys do in clubs/bars with regards to competition Idk if anything I’ve had both men and women say or signal respect after I’ve approached. Even if that weren’t the case it’s my belief that you need practice selfishness in this area of life. While you risk coming off creepy or making some girl uncomfortable, I consider the risk of loneliness and social ostracization in the long term a far greater threat to personal health and the health of our society.	/r/seduction	21/10/24 12:50 AM
1	How would you handle this? This happened to me too but I scheduled the date 6 days out from when I last texted her, hit her up to confirm the day before and she cancelled. Might be worth it to text at least once in between the set up and the date	/r/seduction	17/10/24 02:24 AM
2	I’ve hit a roadblock and I need help OK bro I mean you need to take a Birds Eye view and understand that your biggest obstacle right now is your mindset not whatever you do or don’t do with women. Unless you have a severe learning disability you will learn how to seduce it just takes many many many attempts and the emotional bandwidth to face many many many rejections. Make peace with this and you will improve	/r/seduction	16/10/24 01:56 PM
1	Any advice for Gym game or church ? Idk I bedrotted for a week didn’t go to the gym, my first day back was yesterday I saw her and didn’t say shit just goes to show you how consistent exercise is important for confidence I’ll try again at some point she’s a manager at that gym so not like she’s going anywhere	/r/seduction	15/10/24 08:05 PM
0	I’ve hit a roadblock and I need help I don’t have any outer game advice just breathe and trust you are getting better with every interaction. Reflect on how far you’ve come in your interactions, recognize the improvements you’ve made and recognize there is a long way to go. Focus on the journey not the destination. Negative emotions is part of the game, tell yourself you love being able to play the game even if it brings you these emotions. There are men who are physically/mentally disabled, have micropenises, or some other conditi…	/r/seduction	15/10/24 07:56 PM
7	Any advice for Gym game or church ? You need to be very indirect in the gym. Talk to everyone so you give an impression that you’re extremely sociable and not just trying to talk to women. Once you find a girl you like, talk to her like any other person and slowly start flirting. I’m talking like over the course of 5-10 gym days. Intersperse some days where you just say hi and bye, don’t go up to her every time you see her. She comes up to you that’s a good sign. Ask her to get açaí bowl or something when that happens. I was in th…	/r/seduction	10/10/24 04:00 PM
1	Advice Try working in kino (touching her) and slowly work to more intimate areas. When you move her from one spot to another I.e. from the bar to the couch, take her by the hand and then don’t break contact. Put your face closer to hers while talking. Be mindful of signs that she is not comfortable with you escalating, if she doesn’t react that means she is comfortable. Be patient in learning this, I just recently got over this same hump of having a good mouthpiece but not knowing how to escalate from …	/r/seduction	10/10/24 03:44 PM
12	How to avoid the friendzone The exception proves the rule, I would only become friends with a girl I was attracted to if I had other promising prospects. Not knocking the decision but from experience I can tell you it takes a lot of emotional labor if you decide to sustain a friendship while nothing else is going on in your dating life. For me it’s not worth it 9/10 times	/r/seduction	09/10/24 03:50 PM
5	10 Crucial Lessons for Building Solid Emotional and Sexual Connections with Women Idk I try to spit bars for example this girl told me she doesn’t eat vegetables and I left the conversation lol but my last name is a vegetable in Spanish so I could’ve told her she’s eating her veggies tonight or something along those lines. Just have fun with it	/r/seduction	29/09/24 11:08 PM
0	For Men, Incompetence is Death You can ask for help without coming off as incompetent. When you’ve exhausted your ability to research and have weighed the risk of taking action with the knowledge that you have and decided it’s too much, then you can ask someone else for help, because you’ve demonstrated that you did everything you could to solve the problem on your own. But I largely agree with the premise, my brother in law is like this where he will ask me the most Googleable questions about tech repair and I just end up ig…	/r/seduction	27/08/24 03:33 PM
2	How to not let rejections wreck me It happens dude, going out with friends helps mitigate this. These days I don’t consciously set aside time to approach women or anything like that because I found I was being too results oriented and that caused me to act really weird in order to get the girl, as well as take it really personal when I got rejected. Taking a break or having things that you like doing to fall back on can help	/r/seduction	24/05/24 05:59 PM
-2	Which nationality of women age the best? Colombians Koreans basically any culture where it’s important for the women to look good	/r/seduction	30/04/24 10:36 PM
16	¿How can I meet a "goodie"? This is probably one of those times where the supposed “natural” way of meeting women through hobbies, interests makes sense	/r/seduction	30/04/24 09:16 PM
7	Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours? Possible but why not go to a day party instead. This is location dependent but for example in Brooklyn NY a great day party is Mr Sunday’s at the Nowadays venue. There’s a fantastic food truck	/r/seduction	17/04/24 09:47 PM
1	She said I was too young... I think that’s hilarious but not like I have game lol	/r/seduction	05/04/24 11:10 PM