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Another update: her friend (my ex) found out about us fucking and now they're not talking to each other. But my ex has sent me a load of texts (which I still haven't replied to) asking to "come over to her place to sort this shit out" LOL
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:34 PM
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Update: sent her a few messages and she invited me over to hers on the basis of "talking over a few things as she was worried about her friend (my ex)". I escalated/kino but she gave off ASD so I was like "fine" let's stick on some Netflix. Half way through she turned down the volume and started kissing me and touching my crotch. Ended up fucking her about 6 times overnight. Bug eyes knows how to ride. Before leaving she told me to keep this a secret between us as she doesn't want her friend kno…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:01 PM
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She's higher smv than my ex for sure.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:20 AM
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She's kinda weird looking but hot at the same time. Lol.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:57 AM
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I'm god awful at smv scoring
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:53 AM
1

Exactly. She's 22 and I'm 30. She's definitely in her CC phase..
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:36 PM
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Exactly. Women will bend over backwards to see you. I think I've maintained frame for the most part. She was sending me loads and loads of messages compared with the few logistical messages I sent. I've just left her last message on read. I noticed on her insta story she's going to the local club instead (she's a total party junkie). No shame.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:19 PM
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I've dropped it now. Gave her one last chance and she blew it. Next.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:08 PM
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Should I not reply to her last message of "I'll get back to you" ? Probably looks better if I just leave it up to her to get back to me now so I'm not chasing?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:58 PM
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I setup Thursday but she sent me a message saying "hmm I'll let you know RE Thursday"
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:49 PM
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"I'm busy Monday but I can do Thursday or Saturday at xxxx at 7" How's that?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:33 PM
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Preach sista! But seriously... I know what you're getting at. I think you should approach red pill pragmatically/holistically. Keep what works, and discard what doesn't.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:54 PM
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Now go roam free and tap a fine bitches arse!
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:23 AM
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Just a small town girl living in a lonely world. Took the midnight train going ANYWHERE. Small town girls will do anything in the sack. Buckle up, you're in for the ride of your life.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:18 AM
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She'll notice. It was diarrhea type consistency. Not good. Worst part is she rolled over to face my side and half her face/arm was on my shit. Maybe that's me asserting my dominance and this is me ascending to black pill shit.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:07 AM
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You can either be the dog that is led on a leash, or the dog that is free to use its own instincts to choose their own path. The first option there is guaranteed security, but not guaranteed happiness. The second option securiy is not guaranteed, but happiness is only a bum sniff away.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:46 AM
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You can tease her for her if it's daft shit. Or you can plain straight ignore it and change the conversation to something YOU want to talk about. Always leading the conversation. Don't ever follow her lead and agree just for the sake of it. Challenge her in a jovial way.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:50 PM
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Leave the sexualised chat for when you see her in person. Texting should just be for logistics for plates. Fwb's can have some light texting in between setting up dates but don't go overboard. The rule is for every 3 texts she sends you send her 1.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:43 PM
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Yeah, I was leading, being dominant etc. Got her to climax through finger stimulation. I think if I had stayed around a while longer and gave her more validation/comfort i would have banged her but I had other surefire (higher smv) plates on the go so didn't see the point in wasting time.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:36 PM
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Power of the pussy. It's their only real power over us. Once they give that up they're liked piles of mush on our rock hard abs.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:18 PM
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She was throwing herself at me but playing the cocktease game at the last minute. I have more self worth than that so left her. She sent me loads of messages after I nexted her but I never replied.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:16 PM
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The problem was I had her clothes off and fingered her three separate times and she still said no at the last minute. When I decided to leave she tried to use her pussy to lure me to stay knowing fine well she wouldn't give me sex. I wasn't going to be manipulated/disrespected like that so I nexted her.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 09:26 PM
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You handled it well by the sounds of it then. Good job.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:56 PM
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Sounds like you were in her frame. Did you employ dread/soft nexting tactics when she misbehaved? Did you only reward her when she did something good?
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:54 PM
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Actions speak louder than words remember. They'll figure it out for themselves.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:31 PM
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I recently went out with a virgin and stuck to the rule. Other guys may give them a wee bit more leeway but it's time consuming.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:02 PM
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I cap it off at 3 days maximum. Ain't got time to be waiting around. There's plenty other girls that will be more receptive.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:55 PM
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The only thing you should be concerned about is being in a calorie deficit (with the right macros to achieve your goals). How you get there is up to you.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:54 PM
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"I'm just a bumbling peasant bowing at the crown of your feet." Nah but seriously... Hit her with "Yeah I'm an animal and just use hands when eating. Wouldn't want to dirty your table"
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:55 AM
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I'd hazard a guess that his fibre intake is low. Start eating foods that are more satiating with a high fibre content to stave off hunger pains. Good foods to eat: oats, sweet potato, lean meats, veggies, rice
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:34 PM
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My maintenance is 2700 calories and I'm 5'10 @ 160lbs. You just need to shoot for ~500 calories below maintenance level to lose around 1lbs/week.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:52 PM
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Maybe just game her when you next meet at a social event?
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:23 AM
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Maybe she's growing up. Girl > Woman
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:16 PM
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If a women hits you it's beyond disrespect. Walk away and never return. Hard next.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:15 PM
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I find a lot of creative/artsy burds have nose piercings.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:56 AM
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If a woman ever tries to hit you then you hard next her. It's beyond disrespectful.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:54 AM
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Hard next your friend. Ain't got time for negative Nancy's.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:52 AM
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Noted. Turns out she's coming to see me in a play I'm in next week. I'll see what's cooking after I walk off stage.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:21 AM
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Exactly. They're DAFTIES.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:28 AM
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She's a virgin. They can be a bit trickier.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:22 AM
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Cheers for this. Locked down a date with her tomorrow night. She discovered I hadn't been to the place (it sells churros and gelato) before and she sent me a passing comment "you look like insert places name virgin tbf" How should I respond to this? I was just gonna say "I've been holding out for the right time" or could flip it and say "well you definitely don't" I think the last one is overly offensive though..
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:41 PM
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Problem was she wanted validation for the sake of validation all the time . I only gave it to her after a blowjob I got and after she got me a gift and cooked for me, which was fair. I'm not rewarding bad behaviour.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:22 PM
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And then she sends me a few messages asking to see me again blah blah blah. I ignore and she sends me a few more getting burthurt and demanding a yes or no. So I send her my final message and hard next. At that point she tells me "I didn't think you were interested" and "I was tired of waiting around wondering if you were interested in me"
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:59 PM
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She asked me out all three times. I was busy doing my own thing. I went to her place and escalated, kino, got her naked, super wet and she said no each time. Couldnt have done any more, kept frame, was dominant etc. After the third time I stoically left even though she wanted me to stay, and continue kissing etc.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:53 PM
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She was the one that thought I wasnt interested. I just sent her that message as she kept asking about seeing me again. I was advised on trp to send her that message and leave it at that and hard next.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:44 PM
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Her pal unfriended me while I was still seeing her. We were at a party and her pal noticed I didn't give her "enough attention" as I was talking to other girls. Two girls in the same circle unfriended me. Ha!
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:56 PM
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Aye, be super on the ball. The guys will even shit test you so watch out.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:57 AM
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From what I gathered Australians are very brash. They're like Brits on crack.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:51 AM
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Aye I won't be replying to any of her pleas. Honestly, girls can be so self-righteous.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:08 AM
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I've got a long drive to an audition tomorrow so I'll give him a listen. Cheers for the suggestion.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:52 AM
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Girl: now Sarah (her friend) really hates you * Girl: I had to phone mark (male orbiter) as I couldn't sleep Her friend has "hated" me ever since I "ignored" her and chatted to other girls at a party
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:48 AM
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Should've kept the post up. There was some nuggets in there!
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:43 AM
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Phew!
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:33 AM
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No worries mate. Tough love and all that. I should really pin that list to my wall!
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:31 AM
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Aye she sent the last three messages. And she's sent a couple more now. I only said "it's best we don't hang out anymore" and left it at that
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:30 AM
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I think you read the messages wrong. I only sent the first message. The one about "wondering if interested" was from her.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:26 AM
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Ah I'm annoyed at myself now. Lesson learned. No more messages to her. Hard next.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:21 AM
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Sidebar is your friend.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:56 AM
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So fb convo went like this: Me: I think it's best if we don't hang out Her: Any reason why? Her: Honestly I was getting tired of waiting around wondering if you were interested in me or not Her: Actually don't worry about it I'm not surprised Probably gonna get more messages. Just keep ignoring?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:54 AM
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Aye, and she definitely would show it to her friends. Especially her best friend that's a guy, that she always talks about, and who she is friendzoning. She likes to bring up the fact she's been talking to him to make me jealous. Okay I'll let her know I'm not taking her. Hedging my bets she'll reply with about 20 messages asking why or trying to rearrange..
/r/askTRP14/01/20 05:27 PM
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She's in my social circle so I'll probably bump into her now and again when out so was planning on soft nexting her. She will probably reply and ask a shitload of questions on my reasons. Should I ignore or reply with more info (keep it as general and vague as possible)?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 05:15 PM
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If your a lifting newb then it's definitely possible (especially if obese). More experienced lifters need to be in a calorie surplus to gain appreciable muscle.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 02:46 PM
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Is this fine to send over text or should I see her/phone to tell her?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:43 PM
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Aye, there's no problem up until the point where I'm about to go in. And it's not as if she isn't super wet, turned on etc. I completely agree. I think there's more negatives than positives with this one. Should I just forget the soft next and send her a message along the lines of what you wrote, then hard next her from there? She will no doubt hit me back with "so you only want me for sex?" Or "I like you as a friend, can we stay friends?" Type of spiel.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:38 AM
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Aye I don't do deadlifts either. Not crucial. You'll still get a great physique providing your diet is on point and you're progressively overloading.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 09:23 PM
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If you get to the point where you have enough plates on the go, when you have the urge to wank you can just arrange a shag with one of your many plates instead. Better for the male psyche in so many ways.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:29 PM
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How much porn do you watch? How much do you wank? Could he factors.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 05:42 PM
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She's on the back burner now. Nexted her. Using the time to pursue my career goals and other plates.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:34 PM
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She has tattoos, nose piercing, high n count and has cheated in the past so she isn't LTR potential anyway. She's super intelligent, great banter and has a banging body so I'll keep her as a plate if it works out. Fyi: I actually broke my virginity with this girl at uni. Does that make a difference? I feel like it doesn't change things
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:36 PM
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Well i went to her place and we fucked. But then she started opening up about her boyfriend dying in a car crash and the cancer he had before he died. She showed me fucked up pics on her phone of his dead body. She told me she still has a bag of his bloody clothes in her wardrobe. All pretty heavy stuff. She told me I could go if I wanted to at that point as she wasn't expecting me to carry the burden. Then she told me she liked me more than a fwb after getting to know me. I just told her "i had…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:24 PM
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She's a total cocktease mate. seriously. I did everything I could and she used her pussy against me. I've hard nexted her now. Her loss.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 10:57 PM
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I think the vote is unanimous. Hard next all the way.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:53 PM
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Well I did mention "you done this before" in funny way when she jumped on me while we were standing and started dry humping me. She just laughed it off but she probably knows I'm on to her. But you're right. Do you think I should soft next her for a week to see if she gets the message? And if it's the same the next time we meet just hard next?
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:04 PM
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3 times and each time we've been practically naked, she's super wet, but she's still an adamant "no"
/r/askTRP12/01/20 01:52 PM
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No, that's the smv of the girl. I'm 5'11
/r/askTRP12/01/20 01:50 PM
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I have my doubts she is a virgin. I'm not pissed off, but I don't want to be wasting my time meeting her if I'm not getting sex when I could be spending time to better myself.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 01:42 PM
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She seems to know what she's doing in some aspects. All a bit suspect in my eyes. I was standing kissing her and then suddenly she jumps on, wrapping her legs round while I held her, then we dry humped. She's not religious and she told me she wants her first time to be special and wants to wait a while.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 04:23 AM
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It's probably a 7. Could get to an 8 once I make more gainzzz in the gym and invest in a better wardrobe.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:05 AM
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She said she stuck up for me when her pal berated me. Whether that's true is debatable.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:32 AM
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Better bring two bottles. She's Irish, remember.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:27 PM
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My fwb's friend is actually the highest smv of the group by miles (well there's another girl who comes a close second). And that's a solid piece of advice for when I meet her. If her "hate" actually transpires to be really rough, passionate sex then all the better.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:17 PM
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Just seems like extreme measures she's taken. Her friend unfriended me on Facebook and unfollowed me on instagram. Maybe she genuinely hates me but I will see if/when I do meet her. My fwb did mention that her friend told her she had "bad experiences with guys in the past" which is why she's acting overprotective over my fwb by warning her of me.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:16 PM
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She's Irish and hot AF. Never spoke to her properly though.. Her smv(8.5) is considerably higher than my fwb's (5.5). Hypergamy like a manny?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 08:19 PM
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Aye, I was thinking I shouldn't lower myself to that (even if I do get a shag out of it). More generally, what does it usually mean when one of your girl's friends hates on you? I think there's multiple reasons, isn't there?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 08:10 PM
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I did consider sending something like that but isn't that entering her frame? I'm agreeing to do what she wants.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 01:40 PM
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"I make up for it elsewhere" is the one I sued with my fwb. She laughed and we carried on.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:31 AM
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She replied with "Whoo!" She's all excited. Cute.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:09 PM
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Aye, I get you. Good advice, thanks. I'll be sure to use that on a girl that's more experienced/confident sexually. "Different horses for different courses"
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:53 PM
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I thought you were meant to keep text strictly to logistics? I just sent her "no worries, I'll pick you up at 12 on sat" Don't want illicit asd as she claims she's a virgin. Ofc, I'll kino/escalate when I meet her on sat. Maybe get a cheeky blowjob while driving too.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:49 PM
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Aye the message was pretty annoying. Still feel bad cause I acted like a bit of a dick. (She hasn't replied) I got a few numbers from tinder/actors social event today so I'll give them a spin.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:23 AM
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"anyway shouldnt taking me out be worthwhile on its own"
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:22 PM
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Cheers. I'll just ignore her until she comes round. She's sent me another message now lol.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:19 PM
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She gives off mixed signals then as she was all over me, grinding against me in bed. And then she told me "down the line it would be nice to be exclusive" Maybe she just likes the validation?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:06 PM
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I mean, she has cooked for me and gave me a gift, and has asked about any other girls I'm seeing. But this seems like a lot of work. "if a girl makes you wait for sex it usually isn't worth the wait."
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:01 PM
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Seems like so much effort man. If I do meet her again I'm just gonna take her somewhere near her place instead of going a drive, then try to escalate. That keeps me in my frame instead of going to where she wants to go. If she's still acting the same then I'll next her.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:57 PM
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I know, I know. Text for logistics only, and don't be overt about desires. I did try to guide her but it was still halfhearted. Maybe she was nervous, unsure. I was very dominant in bed and put her where I wanted her, and she said she wanted it but she wanted it to "be special" as in being in a proper LTR. I'm thinking of soft nexting her.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:40 PM
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