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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-4	Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire? Money	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 05:34 AM
4	Red pill advice teaches men how to sabotage healthy relationships. Red pil … encourages emotional detachment No, it’s women who hate men that dare to share emotions (other than praising women). Noticing this pattern and warning men before thy get burnt is not sabotaging healthy relationships, but preventing jumping into unhealthy ones	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 10:35 AM
4	I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnel Of course, because only men have active role in relationships. Do women ask guys out? Do they plan dates? Do they pay for dates? Are women content with just spending time with a guy without demanding him to spend loads of money on her? Do women reciprocate any effort a man put in dating? No. They don’t. And it’s hella tiring to commit time and energy into dating with no clear goal	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/26 07:10 PM
5	A lot of men lack agency and responzibility Not true. Women have more options in both romantic and sexual market. They simply choose casual sex first	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 07:01 AM
1	Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are. Just listen to women? They openly admit that. Women don’t marry men who make even slightly less than them. The entire sexual revolution and hook up culture is a proof, that women separate short-term/sexual and long-term/romantic attraction - and act shocked when men expect intimacy in LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 09:55 AM
-5	Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are. That’s the point - „everyone in your life does something for you” but it’s mainly women who expect to do nothing for men in the relationship. Men understand, that it’s in both parties effort to start and maintain a relationship. While women see doing something for a man from time to time as some kind of slavery	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 09:48 AM
-3	Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships. Love, intimacy, genuine connection for lifetime	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/26 10:09 AM
1	There is no benefits to having kids as a women Anyone who doesn’t have kids past certain age (e.g. 30) shouldn’t have an option to benefit from labour of younger people - such as doctors, firefighters, trades and construction workers, shop assistants etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 09:24 PM
–	Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when dating Call me old fashioned but I think building long term relationships on lies is wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 07:16 AM
16	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender Of course they’re not, because they don’t need to. Women generally value money and work over love and bonding for a lifetime and there are numerous studies/surveys for that. It is what it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 06:56 AM
2	Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women do Men are taught from childhood that their only value is from being objectified. So men are get used to it and women are happy not to bother viewing us as human beings. Why have feminists always supported mandatory draft only for men, including underage? It is easier for women not to see us as fellow human beings	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 08:19 PM
1	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. What’s wrong with wanting to be desired in relationship? It’s as simple as that: if a woman has sex with strangers, but not with you - she’s not into you and never will. If a woman don’t find you (sexually) attractive at the beginning of relationship, she won’t miraculously be more into you further down the line. I’m not talking about sex itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 05:02 PM
0	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. In the first point you confuse men’s and women’s perspectives. Most men see intimacy as part of romantic relationship. The goal is to build a stable, long term relationship with one person - romantic and sexual. It is women who separate these two - the entire sexual revolution is a proof. Women have no problem with only sexual encounters with bad boys but are mad when a long term partner expects intimacy from time to time	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 06:27 AM
1	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' How can they if they have to work instead? Yes, if the retirement age was equal, men could have more time to take care of grandkids	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 07:59 AM
8	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' women can pop out more men to draft But they literally don’t. Women don’t have kids anymore age is 60, because they stop working to take care of grandkids And men can’t take of grandkids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:35 PM
3	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable Maybe men believe more in building a relationship? Most women have so many options that they can’t decide and look for someone better and better. And then treat themselves as a prize for him - he should be grateful for being chosen. Men want to build stable relationships on what they are offered - shared experiences build stronger connection	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 08:49 PM
2	Current dating is unfair for men because of woman have rid themselves of the responsibility that comes with the privileges they have, while men still have to still take on the responsibilities of theirs Dating is unfair for men because men expect relationships, family, intimacy. Women expect money and status. For centuries men traded resources for family, women traded nurturing for money. Nowadays, women earn more than men and don’t love them romantically. Women have no responsibilities in society so they demand more and more from men	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 08:59 AM
0	Holding up your partner to standards you can't meet yourself is not always hypocritical. What’s wrong with wanting a partner with the same body count as you? Exploring sexualities of both, instead of judging less experienced partner through the lens of previous ones?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 04:02 PM
-5	The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by society It’s radical that women willingly impose more duties on themselves (kids + work) and shame men when they can’t live up to it. So a woman gets a good job and won’t even look at a man earning less than her. If she gets a promotion, she looses interest in him. If a man doesn’t play with kids, he’s a burden. But if he take his kids to park, women may call police on him - because they can’t comprehend that a man can take care of his children. If we had a clear division of labour, this wouldn’t be a p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 09:27 AM
5	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. But women don’t have dating problems. They already know that they can take initiative, but simply don’t have to	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 04:31 AM
–	Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anything It’s not that men „don’t want to do anything”. It’s that we used to have clear division on roles based on gender (providing, nurturing). Then women actively started pursuing money without changing anything else: they still want men to earn more money than them. Thus men have to both earn money and care for kids. And it’s exhausting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 03:53 PM
–	The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women. So you’re proving my point. It was u/mrsmariekje who somehow brought kids to the conversation, while the convo was about adults. Women (not kids) have more romantic and sexual (consensual) options to choose from than men. you were responding No, that was her response to mine Never in this convo did I support harassment (no, finding a woman beautiful is not harassment). By saying that women have many potential interests I was returning to my original point, not the scenario with kids brought out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 09:52 PM
0	The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women. Where did I write something about little girls? Yeah, that would be the problem How having a man loving you romantically is the problem? Why do you find romantic and sexual attraction mutually exclusive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 12:26 PM
-1	The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women. Again. Just because there are few constantly horny men doesn’t mean that every man only want sex from relationship. Every woman has a ton of men interested in her both romantically and sexually. And the only thing she has to do is to choose the best one. Assuming that an average man has 10 women interested in him is delusion	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 03:35 PM
0	The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women. Of course men desire women romantically. Both men and women want to be romantically and sexually attractive. The difference is that men view vast majority of women as both sexually and romantically attractive. Women don’t even acknowledge that men have romantic feelings. Also they are not sexually interested in men	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 12:47 PM
-2	The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women. Because women have 100 guys happy to have a relationship with them and they only have to choose the best one. if 10 women out of 1000 are interested that’s still something And there’s little to none possibility they are compatible. Why do women treat having more to choose from a disadvantage?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 12:34 PM
12	Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to society so why would women want to be around people like this? They wouldn’t and that’s the point - women already don’t want to be around majority of men. When men contribute to society they get nothing in return. If majority of men checked out, nothing would change for them - they would be as sexless as before, as emotionally starved as before, be treated as harshly as before	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 08:33 PM
14	Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to society No, intimacy is one of humans needs. If a disabled person couldn’t get food (hunt, gather, earn - whatever), changing mindset wouldn’t fill their stomach. There are things we need other people for	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 08:20 PM
-2	There is no moral failure in not wanting to sleep with whatever percentage of men. It’s not about sexual quotas or whatever but acknowledging basic biology that species enjoy reproducing. It’s simply sad that after thousands of years of men building civilization, creating and protecting culture and striving for giving their kids best possible life, women decided that they don’t like a concept of a family and found their life purpose in creating excel spreadsheets instead	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 07:58 PM
2	Why do you want women to tell men "be attractive" ? Women purposefully omit to tell, what they find physically attractive in a man and jump straight to personality traits they like. Which are worthless if a man is not physically good looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 06:49 AM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? Serving is a willing taking care of others’ needs. For example physical: looking after sick person makes your life harder. Emotional: you want him to listen to your vents, but it’s emotional strain and mental to work to deal with other people’s thoughts. So you wouldn’t reciprocate that These are chores to maintain in any normal relationship So since you wouldn’t do anything for your partner, what do you want from him, apart from him listening to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 02:14 PM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? Serving is a willing taking care of others’ needs. For example physical: looking after sick person makes your life harder. Emotional: you want him to listen to your vents, but it’s emotional strain and mental to work to deal with other people’s thoughts. So you wouldn’t reciprocate that These are chores to maintain in any normal relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 02:10 PM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? No, him serving you and you serving him. That’s mutual work. This is what you’re against since your first comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 12:56 PM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? This is what I said. You only care about what he must do to you and I said that relationship is working together. That’s mutual work. And this is what you’re against	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 12:52 PM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? Why do you act like mutual work in relationship is wrong or gross?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 12:23 PM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? Because I wrote two comments, you gave the same reply to both and I only continued conversation to one? Even in the original comment you wrote all the work he has to do but it’s a dealbreaker “if I need to serve him”. Your point didn’t change. Your argument is that I omitted things I will do to a partner. Yes, and I clarified further, that I don’t know, what she may want from me. While your argument from the start is that you don’t want to do anything to your partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 12:10 PM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? I wrote from the start that BOTH people put effort in relationships as a reply to YOUR statement that ONLY men need to work Your ‘got you’ argument is that I answered your question on what I like in women. Imagine that women are different from each other and may like different qualities in men. So I won’t answer that for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 11:20 AM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? Because I already stated before: both people put effort in a relationship. It’s up to a woman to decide, what does she want from me and what does she find attractive. I won’t speak for them. On the other hand, you wrote all the things a man needs to do and clearly stated, that you don’t want to do anything yourself towards him	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 11:00 AM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? if I need to serve him in some way You literally wrote that any effort towards your partner is a dealbreaker	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 10:42 AM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? Kindness, smile, looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 10:33 AM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? So you want a man to put all his effort into you while you don’t put any effort into him. That’s not partnership, that’s slavery. Relationship is mutual effort so both of you are better together	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 10:23 AM
1	How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism? You’re so downvoted, but it’s so right. In relationships both parties share something and total outcome is greater than individual effort. Thus, both parties are net positive from transaction. She only described what she wants from man and how she can benefit without putting any effort - thus, draining him	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 08:02 PM
–	If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage? This is exactly why it matters. Firstly, you are attracted to each other physically (phenylethylamine rushes in your body), form meaningful relationships and continue bonding by shared experiences (oxytocin and dopamine sustain happiness when phenylethylamine spike fades). Marriage (or generally LTR) is a form of sustaining satisfaction when both of you ages. I think you have twisted idea of red pill. They don’t say that woman’s value is only in her looks. But it’s easier for a her to start a re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 03:14 PM
3	Most women are terrible at giving dating advice for men. The RedPill is needed. This is what women don’t understand about manosphere. Men take red pill, because advice from women never works	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 06:43 AM
1	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. You sound like there are no kind men among those who want to have sex. These are not exclusive. Women have thousands of men interested in them and only have to pick the best one. Men don’t even have the opportunities to choose from	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 07:15 PM
1	Misandry creates MORE misogynists. Where do I blame women or mock those seeking therapy? I don’t blame women for what government does (although our minister of equality does absolutely nothing towards equality). I blame women for supporting military draft, when they won’t fight themselves. Here is a survey from Poland: 49% of women support mandatory military draft (47% oppose) but only 29% support equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 02:44 PM
1	Misandry creates MORE misogynists. Men are primary victims of war and women support mandatory military draft for men Men commit more suicides - which is/may be result of emotional abuse they experience from women. Men’s issues are neglected and mocked by feminists	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 11:38 AM
1	Being hookup material is much better than being husband material. Yeah, I agree. It’s easier for hookup-man to settle down and become husband-material than for husband-material to even get into single relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 10:01 PM
–	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard I hate this analogy because it implies that all women are great matches and men should be happy to get any attention. Yes, men are on the desert, but the quality of water presented to them is of this in swamp. And women behave like we should be grateful to get anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 10:07 AM
2	If men think women are expired by the age of 30, why do men even bother to get married in the first place? And by that same logic wouldn’t a single man in his 30s also have bad character? Yes	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/25 07:14 AM
-3	If men think women are expired by the age of 30, why do men even bother to get married in the first place? Somehow when men say they like beautiful women, women assume they mean „only beautiful”. Women in their 20s are beautiful in both physical non-physical ways (character). When beauty fades with time, there are still other components of attractiveness left (being kind, loyal etc). When a semi-beautiful woman is single after 30, it means that her character was a put off. And she is left with neither physical nor character beauty. Hence, not worth pursuing	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/25 05:49 AM
3	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed Yet only women lie about that	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 01:13 PM
1	Men, what’s something you love about being a man? Maybe only slightly related, but I am tall and love being dressed in a suit. People really treat you differently. Additionally: the possibility to spit on someone I dislike	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 01:09 PM
1	The reason why I think pro-male ideologies fail Pro-male ideologies fail because a) they are not as uniform as feminism b) feminists have support of all women and most men, while pro-male activists have no women and minority of men on their side	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/25 05:34 PM
12	Why Most Men Who "Give Up on Dating" Are Just Reacting, and not Thinking. First, you just use „not all women” as a proof. So I may counter it with typical counterarguments: „not all women but always a woman”, „not all women but many enough” or something equally stupid. Secondly, you say that it’s just our echochamber, social media algorithms and so on. You write „even though there are 4 billion women in the world. But sure, let’s trust 20 TikTok”. So I ask: where are the alternatives? Let’s say I see 20 videos claiming that all women hate me. And exactly 0 women irl a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 08:32 AM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. You sure can claim that you’re entitled to safety. But you’re not entitled to me risking my life for yours	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 06:07 PM
2	Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible women Because women date who they want. Men date who they can. Men date horrible women, because they have no other options. „Would guys choose the nice sweet girl who’s very plain over a hot bitch?” Yes! Most of us would! But this „sweet girl” would never consider being in relationship with an average guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 06:23 AM
1	Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyone Yes, desire to be loved should be a basic in relationships. LTR/marriage should be about good relationship, friendship, love, sex etc. Men settle for less because we know that it’s a fairytale. We can accept this reality and humans’ flawed nature. Contrary to women, who seek for Prince Charming and can’t lower their standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 10:56 AM
1	Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyone Wrong. Men have standards. We want to be loved and cherished. Do you think we don’t want to come back home to the person who loves us? But this is exactly what women call „unrealistic expectations”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 10:35 AM
19	CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options. Yes. Men also strive for genuine love, not sex. Women can only be happy when all of their unrealistic expectations are met. I will ride on your analogy a bit: both men and women are in a dessert. Women are presented a variety of water: still, sparkling, with multiple flavours and different temperatures. And they refuse to try any of them, until they are presented THE ONE and only perfect water. Men are given no choice whatsoever and will be content with swamp water, even if they still want a cle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 06:48 AM
–	Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism created It is not and never has been. Feminists are against equal educations of boys and girls (they always push for more girls at uni even though they already make majority). Feminists are against men’s right to live (because they support mandatory military draft, but only for men). Our minister of equality is against equal retirement rights. No, feminism is by name to only support women. Especially by being against men’s rights	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 07:26 AM
1	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women We recently had this situation in Poland. Mother left the baby without father’s knowledge and he can’t be given the kid back, because the kid is officially orphan, with new identity and so on. Mother is of course blameless	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 07:46 AM
14	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 I fully agree. This war clearly showed that only men have legal obligations towards the country. That’s insane, that feminists will happily send men for years long war, but at the same time treat nine month pregnancy like the worst thing that can happen	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:15 AM
10	Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why? More like: man takes his kid to the park? Why is he around children? Probably ped0	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 06:32 AM
41	Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit it Yeah. That’s why feminists support mandatory military draft for men - they don’t see us as humans with family, friends, passions. For them we are nothing more than a disposable tool to get rid of as quickly as possible	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 04:58 AM
4	CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriage Within 50 years (hopefully sooner) I won’t be a member of society anymore. Why should I care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 09:15 PM
4	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men Yes, there is ton of law biased against men in Poland such as higher retirement age and military conscription. At the same time there is no law biased strictly against women. Moreover, by law, women cannot work as hard as men in some jobs and are entitled to bigger benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 06:22 PM
-2	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. True. Every first-aid training says that firstly you should consider if the situation is safe to you, so that rescuer won’t have to be rescued. You are not obliged to risk your life, even for a woman. What’s interesting is that some time ago there was a post where OP suggested that ‘women are not entitled to feeling safe in public’ or something like that and women were mad. I think it’s the same scenario, but responses are different. Women state obvious facts that no one has to be forced to be a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:10 AM
0	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion I agree. Women have way more options to not have a child than men. Men’s opportunities (condom + vasectomy) last till intercourse, while women can prevent pregnancy before, during and after sex, while also nine month past. If a man doesn’t want to have a kid, he should have the same time period for decision	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:18 PM
3	The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issues Yes, but feminists lie that they care about equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 08:04 PM
1	The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issues Feminists don’t care either. Does that mean that the problem is nonexistent? The right wing at least raises awareness while leftists actively act against men’s rights	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 06:53 PM
-4	The viral trend of labeling every man who finds younger women attractive as predatory has gotten wildly out of control I find girls 15-25 yo hot and I don't care, what you or feminists say about it	/r/MensRights	05/05/23 10:57 AM
1	Women and men are so different, for example, women get compliments and barely think about it. Same with flowers. Now, on the other hand, men are so put down, that whenever they get a compliment, they will never forget it. The first time a man receives flowers, is generally at his funeral. The only place I'm complimented at is my part time job at philharmonic. Usually about look (probably only because of suit) and politeness/manners (well, they pay for being polite). That's where I realised, that good look is everything and I can boost my overall appearance by elegant wear	/r/MensRights	01/05/23 05:15 PM
2	Wtf does mgtow have to do with misanthropy On Facebook I had in proposed a group about relationships because I visited group about death and corpses	/r/MGTOW2	22/08/20 01:49 PM