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Doesn't want extremist views in a partner, identifies as a radical feminist. Even regular vanilla feminism in its current form is an extremist anti-male ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:21 AM
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"Just be 6ft5 and jacked bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:20 AM
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Being skinny, and not being a fat amorphous blob like 7/10 American women. Not buying into the "all women were oppressed forever" origin story Being rational, for example admitting that paternity fraud is a serious crime (most American women are incapable of this). Having feminine grace (impossible mode for most American women) Not being a hypocrite. If you say you dislike toxic masculinity and are afraid of violent men, why is your spotify full of scummy rappers bragging about murder and drug d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:18 AM
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27.5% are overweight, and 41.9% are obese. Rounded up that's 70%. Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:15 AM
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That's such a silly thing to say. Yes, men on dating apps want sex. And criminals in the hood want your valuables. It's up to you NOT to go there. Jesus, fucking, christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:33 AM
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Mr Right doesn't want a hedonist, dick addicted chick with a high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:50 AM
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She isn't, but she could be within minutes if she chose to. Do you get the point now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:49 AM
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A rich person has their own problems, but they wouldn't switch their place with an impoverished 3rd worlder. Let's not pretend everyones struggles are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:15 AM
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?!?! Most women are not conservative. "Less than half are overweight" WTF? All of these things are backed up by statistics. Please do your research!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:14 AM
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Why don't women approach men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:22 AM
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Re-read it again to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:22 AM
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And society will begin to heal when those things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:51 PM
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Compared to men, women live life on easy mode with regard to relationships and dating, and many, many other things. Absolute beginner tutorial easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:41 PM
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They're not getting paid lol. They might be groupies, but they're still women. It's like saying oh she's a college student, not an average woman. What the fuck does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:37 PM
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The vast majority of men are unhappy with dating apps. The majority of women and the minority of men they give their sexual best to, are happy with the arrangement. Women are propping up this system where only a select few men get access to casual sex. It's disgustingly unfair, but women will gas light men and say nothing can be done. It's really truly disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:27 PM
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Then why do women criticize financial imbalances and age gaps? If it's "literally true", then why don't they keep their mouths shut?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:10 PM
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This may have happened in the past (before dating apps) but now it can happen much easier and more frequently. It's like saying drugs existed in the year 1000, when they're not at all comparable in potency to today's drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:07 PM
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It's all true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:06 PM
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Women also don't want to be the primary bread winner - yet complain about financial power imbalance. So, either acknowledge this power imbalance or NO power imbalances exist. PERIOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:06 PM
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Ban dating apps and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:05 PM
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Scary. Did they end up doing anything with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:05 PM
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You can name a handful of women, there are millions of men that don't need to be named that have exemplified deeds of valor and bravery that women cannot even begin to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:32 PM
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Most human history was 150 person tribes. Stop capping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:11 PM
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It doesn't matter what the source is - infrastructure is largely created and maintained by men as well - what matters is that women acknowledge that they have this privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:04 PM
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I just want you to admit that dating apps and social media have created a dating power imbalance in women's favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:56 PM
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While what you said is correct, it doesn't change the fact that this is an inherent power imbalance in favor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:54 PM
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Alright lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:51 PM
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Women are complex human beings, but they're women and they're not blank slates. There are certain behaviors that women commonly exhibit - such as crying - that men do to a lesser degree and vice versa. Women are not known for their bravery, they are known to be scared of seeing a spider.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:50 PM
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But women are people and sex is fun - are you suggesting that women and feminists have misled us about what women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:48 PM
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Everyone lies to some extent. What we lie about is different based on how society perceives it. Men will exaggerate their sexual activities, women will understate them. This is elementary stuff, I'm surprised I need to explain this to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:48 PM
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Women contributed to the collapse, the falling birth rate for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:46 PM
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Why are dating apps ubiquitous?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:44 PM
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I treat women with respect. I like women, but I'm not blind to women's nature. There are criticisms about men's behavior I have too - that doesn't make me a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:43 PM
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Of course, everything is men's fault. Women are never at fault, for anything, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:41 PM
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You mean you know so many bullshitters, because women tend to lie about sex to put on an act of being a "good girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:41 PM
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Sex usually occurs within the first 3 dates. Then a relationship slowly develops, once sexual and other compatibility is established. Sexual compatibility is a key ingredient to the start of any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:36 PM
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These are private thoughts - do you really believe I'd say these things to a woman? Men aren't allowed to criticize women or express their true feelings about women in the anglosphere, it's taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:35 PM
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Women were never oppressed, this is a myth. They've benefitted from benevolent sexism throughout history, and in today's developed world they are treated as equals (despite not deserving it) under the law and in jobs, while still benefiting from being treated as special for being women. Giving women the right to decide how society is run isn't good when they're poor decision makers. For their benefit and everyone elses, it's better that they allow men to run things. Western society is on the ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:27 PM
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It doesn't matter - it's not the same and it carries a risk, not to mention that pimps and other criminal unpleasantries may be involved as well. A criminal record can destroy a persons career opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:26 PM
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That's fine - I care more about a healthy society than women wanting me. I also care more about a healthy society than women having casual sex with hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:25 PM
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Most women are cowardly, this is a fact, they aren't known for their bravery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:24 PM
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That doesn't matter. She has the option of picking. The luxury, the privilege, of having so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:23 PM
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Women should never be able to vote for what laws we live by. They only care about themselves and virtue signaling, neither of these are conducive to a long term healthy society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:22 PM
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All the women here, all feminists, etc say that sex is fun and healthy and that women should never be judged for being sluts. So, was I getting the wrong message or is this another case of denying what is obvious to everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:21 PM
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Nothing is thirstier than a woman going for the local chad or high status man, thats why she's okay with being in his rotation once a week. At least men aren't okay with sharing their women with other men typically. Women are perfectly okay with being some guy sides cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:20 PM
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Because he's the highest value man she can get. That song was about the unfortunate not as high value man, he's expendable. That's how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:19 PM
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You can't. Women are crybabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:18 PM
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I've gotten laid enough times that I don't need to chase pussy anymore. I also already have a child, so don't need a woman for that either. Women need to check their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:18 PM
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It seems there were very valid reasons from keeping women from power, and it shows in the deterioration of society. Same thing happened with the Romans - women were given more and more, and then society collapsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:17 PM
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Women don't like having sex with men? Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:16 PM
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Acknowledge your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:15 PM
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Just like women could stop crying multiple times a month at any time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:14 PM
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I thought casual sex was great and women are really into it? Which one is it - is casual sex bad, or is casual sex good?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:13 PM
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Female shaming tactic: Accuse man of being gay if he criticizes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:13 PM
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Ya myself and everyone I know. Do you think there's some kind of courtship ritual that lasts 6 months before people have sex? That only occurs for women conducting job interview type dating in their 30s and beyond after they're done being pumped and dumped a million times. For healthy adults, it starts from casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:12 PM
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So are drugs, that's again a very terrible comparison, "just risk a criminal record to get laid bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:10 PM
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"Gutter goblin" lmao, that was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:10 PM
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Nothing is thirstier than a woman going after a high value man. That's why rappers have orgies with 12 girls after the concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:03 PM
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Escorts are illegal in most places and porn is equally accessible. Terrible comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:51 PM
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What's also extremist is women having unfettered access to 100s of men at any point in time. If you told this to people 100 years ago they would collapse and have a heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:47 PM
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That's a silly question and you're being obtuse. Out of 100 men (hours worth of matches from online dating) they're likely to find some of them attractive. A woman can find an attractive guy to go on a date with (its up to her if sex happens or not, obviously) within 24 hours if she wanted to. And you say this isn't a privilege. It's very condescending. Check your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:39 PM
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Bro, I know of 5s who get guys simping on their knees for them. The dating market is so horrible that 73% of American women are comfortable with being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:36 PM
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Single moms who can't feed their kids shouldn't be my problem. Why does the government give them my tax money?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:35 PM
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Heterosexual women like men, how is this a valid comparison, at all? You say that having tons of dating options and access to casual sex at your finger tips isn't a privilege, because you haven't the faintest idea what it's like to have none of that. As I mentioned before, you sound like a rich person complaining to a poor person about rich people issues. You are privileged, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:32 PM
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Oh christ, so because women aren't half of ceos this is a societal problem. There have always been women who can't be ceos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:28 PM
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It might not be cheating, it could be a quick break up and monkey branching. Women tend to have someone already lined up prior to leaving their current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:27 PM
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Ya - they can have fun and sex, blame the "player" (who had very obvious red flags), then garner sympathy for being a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:25 PM
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They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:24 PM
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Having an endless amount of dating options isnt a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:23 PM
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The same power multiplied by 100x.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:22 PM
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Society is a mess largely due to women, yes. That's my thesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:21 PM
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I don't blame women, I simply want women to acknowledge their privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:07 PM
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Most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:53 PM
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Ban dating apps and remove women's ability to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:29 PM
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Women are the ones who have campaigned against "slut shaming" and embraced the sexual revolution and birth control pill. Women are the ones who thought the internet was for nerds and losers, until social media was invented, then all of a sudden it's cool to spend hours looking at a screen. Women love having this power: having attention, validation and the occasional option to have casual sex with a hot guy, and no matter what you say women will support this because it pleases them greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:18 PM
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Ahhh, the genesis of all female hostility towards men. "We believe we are oppressed therefore any injustice or unfairness towards you is fair play". Thanks for admitting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:15 PM
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99% of relationships begin with casual sex. Am I supposed to feel bad that a woman got fucked by 8 guys this year and none committed - when men get 3 online dating matches a month? This reeks of "feel bad for us rich people, we have struggles too".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:11 PM
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"Your complaint isn't about looking out for your best interests. It's about men being hornier than women - which isn't women's fault, nor a "scary power imbalance." Ah, the typical MEN BAD response to anything and everything that criticizes women. I'm not looking out for my best interests by avoiding dating in a place where women have 10,000 options? Actually, I am. And if the roles were reversed, women would be shouting about this. You can see this in news articles about women that go to univer…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:09 PM
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"If you date a sensible and loyal person, no amount of age gap or financial control should tempt them to abuse you." See how easily your narratives crumble, when they're changed to something you care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:03 PM
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Most women like sex and attention from men (in reference to the main topic), most men aren't serial killers (in reference to what you just said), perhaps you're confused
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:02 PM
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In the west? Where laws are stacked in women's favor? LOL! Women don't even get a slap on the wrist for committing paternity fraud, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:01 PM
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Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:58 PM
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Even then it's rare. Women are cowardly by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:57 PM
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"Just change male nature bro". That's not a viable solution. Human behavior can either be restricted, rewarded or punished. Expecting male attention to simply stop without any of those incentives is ludicrous. Some dating apps have already implemented certain restrictions (to the benefit of women of course). But women ultimately love and crave validation from men, so this will never go away while women have the right to decide how a government is run.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:56 PM
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Then women shouldn't worry about financial power imbalances, or age gaps correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:47 PM
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"Make sure you meet all her needs and requirements, and keep her happy all the time, and she won't do anything to harm you bro, it's that easy". If this was said to a woman about a man, it would be called the ingredients an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:46 PM
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Women don't approach men (or it happens so rarely it's not worth speaking on), so men who don't shoot their shot stay invisible, while the numbers game guy gets some sexual attention occasionally. Do you understand why men have to act this way? Women utterly refuse to make the first move. Stop blaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:44 PM
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100% agreed, and very insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:42 PM
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100% agreed, and very insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:41 PM
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Those FWB exist because women are having sex with Chad who is having sex with multiple women. It's self-caused, women don't want anything less than the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:40 PM
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They brag about it songs too, here's beyonce: "You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I could have another you in a minute Matter of fact, he'll be here in a minute, baby You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I can have another you by tomorrow So don't you ever for a second get to thinking You're irreplaceable"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:39 PM
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You said "if you're a good option, you're gold" as if women are complete rational actors 100% of the time and what you said isn't loaded with subjectivity depending on the woman involved. It's so utterly disingenuous and dismissive of the valid concern about dating apps and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:38 PM
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It's both, and it depends on which one suits you at any given moment. We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:37 PM
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Women say "women are just people, like you", now it's "men and women are different, DUH!". You can't play both sides of the fence - pick one, we're tired of the female hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:34 PM
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It's always opposite day on reddit. Women never post selfies on social media, they never use dating apps, they don't have casual sex, and they're always good people who look for good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:32 PM
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When kids and assets are involved, how is that not having leverage in a relationship? And I think you're suffering from the "women are wonderful effect". Are women people (who are prone to mistakes, emotional/irrational choices, etc) or are they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:31 PM
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Online dating is popular and women have said they don't want to be bothered anywhere else (not even in clubs or bars - they're there to have fun with their friends, not be sexually harassed by incels!). The point of this thread is to highlight the massive power imbalance women have with dating options, and how quickly they can get sex or a relationship if they desired to. You downplay it as "well most women aren't like that". Most men aren't financial abusers either - so why are women concerned …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:24 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:13 PM
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"Someone having financial control over you isn't a bad thing, unless you think you're a bad person and that they shouldn't have chosen you which sounds like insecurity to me."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:12 PM
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One can leave you with paternity fraud, loss of assets, loss of mental health, etc. Dead? I'm not sure what you're referring to - are you implying women can't and don't kill their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:10 PM
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Why are power imbalances okay when they benefit women, but bad when they benefit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:07 PM
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"You should be comfortable with knowing that the moment your woman is bored/irritated/angry/unhappy she can meet someone hotter than you for a dick down, and if you say that you feel anything but happy with this arrangement, you're an insecure incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:06 PM
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So you were being disingenuous? I only speak in reality, not comfort, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:05 PM
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Out of 1000 matches, there will be all types of guys, most will be unattractive, but there will be some heavy hitters in there too. Why do you think it's all bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:04 PM
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Some put in more effort, some less. It's not all olympic level make up application like it seems it is for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:03 PM
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Having the ability to do so creates a power imbalance. Do you admit that there is a power imbalance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:02 PM
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"A man who loves you isn't going to financially abuse you. If he does that, great the trash took itself out. Stop worrying so much, you only have so much life to live." I hope you have the same energy to say this to women who are financially dependent on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:00 PM
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I've lived with women, dating multiple women and had sex with more than that. How would I have zero clue? Maybe you think women are all like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:48 PM
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A woman can make a dating app profile and have 1000 matches to pick from within 24 hours. How is that not leverage on her part?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:44 PM
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Then olympics should be mixed gender for sprints, no? Women are so bad ass, they can outcompete men in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:43 PM
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Women aren't a hivemind, speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:40 PM
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Women are attracted to men "who have leverage over them". Women purposely seek out men that have higher status than themselves for a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:50 AM
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"50% of American marriages contain a woman who makes the same amount of money as their partner OR more than him." Ummm this is a boldfaced lie. In 55% of American marriages, the man outearns the woman. Either edit your post or apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:42 AM
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Expats generally come from countries that are much wealthier. It's not about being "special".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:41 AM
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It's easy to achieve for women who are around 20 years old. If you're older and fighting aging, just say so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:22 AM
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Every girl I've dated long term only wore make up for special occasions. I'm sorry that you think we're all as blind as you as to what women put on their face. The girls I date are actually naturally pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:20 AM
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You enjoy wearing make up when you sleep? That's odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:18 AM
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Why do misandrist women feel everything is a competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:17 AM
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That's what they all say, but now we have to also get on our knees and praise them for spending hours on their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:16 AM
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Women are better and smarter than men, I was taught this from the latest Netflix show and Marvel movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:15 PM
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I don't date, I go to a 45min coffee meet up then make up an excuse to bring them to my place, then we usually fuck, if not, she's gone. MUH DATE. Only suckers "date" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:12 PM
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"...collective systemic bullying of the past several millennia involving treating women like animals or children..." This is feminist propaganda. Most peasants/slaves etc women OR men weren't treated very nicely. Men were canon fodder in war. Enough with your oppression origin story, this isn't 1950.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:11 PM
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If no sex on first date, no second date for you either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:08 PM
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You can't even get a McMeal with $10. Stop capping.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:53 PM
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It would be government mandated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:14 PM
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So you agree that there is massive inequality in dating that favors women heavily and that they're ok with this status quo?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:13 PM
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That's a strong word. It becomes watered down and meaningless when you misuse it. The average woman is not beautiful, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:09 PM
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Wow, women behave differently based on who the man is, no way!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:08 PM
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I'm sure there are ways to do this. For example, capping the amount of matches someone can get on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:08 PM
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"A little gay" for preferring non-fat women? That's such an attack. You deserve a temporary ban for that. Also, skinny chicks are superior to "thicc". I wouldn't even engage in polite platonic conversation with a thicc woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:54 PM
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Buddy, I wouldn't talk to, let alone have sex with, a woman who is anywhere close to being overweight. And it has nothing to do with being gay. I would counter what you said about us being gay, with you never experiencing being with a woman with an attractive body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:54 PM
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Lmao. Keep on gassing up the sisterhood, babes. The average woman is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:52 PM
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There's no easier woman to fuck than one that is travelling and partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:50 PM
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If Justin Bieber said it to a woman, do you think she'd consider it demanding, or would her pussy get wet? All that matters is how attractive/high status the man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:49 PM
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Why can't women lead? Don't you guys believe that you're oppressed living under the patriarchy? Why wouldn't you take the reigns and lead in a relationship, you're capable right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:48 PM
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73% of american women are fat. Majority of women are left leaning politically (aka feminists). Being promiscuous and having a "hook up phase" is culturally embraced by American women. American women with degrees complain about not having enough men on their level, so they are in some way "whores" because they still greatly value a man earning more than them. They are entitled because they believe that the patriarchy oppresses them, and that any male wants, needs or standards are bad. So I'm not …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:44 PM
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They go to get fucked by handsome southern european men, or aussie chads in some sweaty hostel. Of course, they don't frame it this way, its just "a eurotrip" or "travelling", but because dick is so easy to come by for women they know this will be the cherry on top of their trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:37 PM
8

I don't know what you expect me to say to you. You are entering this in a combative and hostile manner and you have already made up your mind. To you, a man dating a woman who is poor is doing so for the primary reason of having an unhealthy power dynamic. That's all you see. And you don't believe that that woman can have genuine attraction for that man. I spent years in a developing nation "chasing pussy". And I can tell you that you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:21 PM
9

A man earning $60,000 (the median US salary), would be a top tier provider in a developing country. In the U.S. he wouldn't gain any points, and would likely be viewed as undeserving of an attractive woman. You don't understand how bad dating in the US/Canada is for men. Most women are fat and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:56 PM
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What I'm saying is that they have an abundance of options, so they can pick the guy who is attractive enough but can also be a provider. It's not much different than women in the developed world, who are rich in comparison to these poverty stricken women, yet still expect men to out-earn them and provide. Prior to the explosion of social media and online dating, their options may have been limited to sleezy old expats, but that is no longer the case. There are tons of desperate good looking youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:33 PM
11

Women who are poor but attractive still have a plethora of options to choose from, especially if they market themselves on online dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:17 PM
4

73% of american women are fat or obese, compare numbers to russia or vietnam. Don't cherry pick, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:12 PM
5

Women are not all the same. In some countries they're actually skinny and not fat, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:11 PM
5

A muscular male body requires far more effort than what women have to do. As for behavior: Women's behavior is awful. Feminine grace and etiquette is lost on the modern "boss babe". Women who are physically attractive often become repulsive when they speak. Also, your misandry is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:17 AM
2

I've replied. You can apologize now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:12 AM
0

I'm in my 30s, I don't go to parties. I work, go to the gym, and go home. Your advice is not practical. It's blue pill feel good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:12 AM
1

You're the one who is arguing in bad faith. A simple question was asked, and you keep beating around the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:10 AM
4

100% in agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:15 PM
2

No and I don't think she should.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:12 PM
3

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:09 PM
4

I would like to clarify that I do believe harassment happens. But the vast majority of interactions between men and women are respectful. There are undoubtedly creeps out there that poison the well. Women used to be much more approachable prior to the popularization of social media and online dating. They have plenty of options for men now from the comfort of their phone, they don't need to be sociable or friendly in public anymore because of their abundance of options. This is the thesis that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:09 PM
7

I don't understand what you just said. Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:59 PM
9

So, to be clear, a man approaching a woman because he's attracted to her and would like to proposition her for a date is considered harassment by you? I would like to further inquire, do you believe that men are the one's that should ask women out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:58 PM
4

In Canada, where I live, men are respectful to women in public. In -insert catcalling area of the world-, they may not be. So which places are we speaking of? Furthermore, the problems OP described apply to Canada, so your suggestion that men's inappropriate behavior is the root cause is false in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:56 PM
12

Attraction isn't a choice, it's subconscious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:53 PM
8

Online dating and endless attention from social media has created the problem. And women fuel those.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:47 PM
6

This is blue pill advice. These "group activities" usually involve women who are taken, unattractive women, a skewed male:female ratio, or it's frowned upon to flirt with women in that setting. I'm acquaintances or know of men with 100s of notches. They got these from cold approach, clubbing and online dating. They also aren't anything special in terms of your 2nd point. They simply shoot their shot with a lot of women and play the numbers game. As for relationships, usually people meet through …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:44 PM
22

Women don't care. Even fat 5/10s have a ton of options. A woman can get a boyfriend within 2 weeks of arriving to a city where she doesn't know anyone. A fat 5/10 will have 100s of Tinder, Hinge and Bumble matches with attractive men within a week. She will be approached in public by guys who don't care about being perceived as creepy by women. She will be flirted with at work. She will have guys from her past hitting her up. Women live in a majestic fantasy land of ubiqutous dating options. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:38 PM
2

It's strange - women bring up history as a warning about their former alleged oppression, but you bring it up to justify taking all of a man's resources. Which one is it, sweetheart? Will you be the feminine, graceful, submissive housewife who is a virgin at marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:31 AM
0

Canadian women are the absolute worst
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:55 PM
1

Prostitutes are an option
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:41 PM
2

You're really not though, given that most women believe that the #1 solution for men's problems is to cry more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:26 AM
4

Is that after multiple abusive relationships, getting pumped and dumped, shameless promiscuity etc? Personally, I'm not interested in a traumatized baggage heavy near 30 or over 30 year old woman trying to scrutinize my finances and past for her personal future benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:25 AM
2

Ummmm why? How is that fair? Who said that this is the default of a relationship. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:23 AM
1

She doesn't have to clean up after me, if you agree that I don't have to pay more of the expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:21 AM
2

I asked a question, care to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:21 AM
2

They wont respond to you because anytime statistics prove a point they don't like they ignore it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:44 AM
3

It's mind numbing how they actually think that dividing house work 50/50 is okay in a situation where the man pays the majority of expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:42 AM
3

All expenses should be divided equally as well. The man should not pay a penny more than what the woman is paying. Agreed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:41 AM
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And you have the mindset of a bitter old feminist spinster. I suggest you stop reading, watching and listening to anti-male propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:09 AM
1

Billions of people wish they had your opportunities. You're the equivalent of a multi millionaire complaining about not having more millions. Have you tried being grateful?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:05 AM
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Why would I want to be in a relationship with an old woman anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:56 AM
1

Keep complaining about not having a perfect life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:54 AM
1

Being non fat is considered hot in america these days? pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:53 AM
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You're arguing against yourself, keep it up. Between this and not knowing what the anglosphere is, you're unpleasant to speak to so please lose my number thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:53 AM
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Do you know what the Anglosphere means?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:51 AM
1

The women here say that its impossible to raise children on a median salary- that they will grow up in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:11 AM
2

Ill give her anything she needs and wants. Shes feminine and not fat. That's a GOOD woman right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:24 PM
2

I use my passport and date slim women. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:19 PM
5

70% of american women are overweight or obese. I wouldnt go to dinner with them if they paid for the whole thing, let alone try to impress them with my income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:55 PM
1

I think Anglospherian feminism and victim complex + victim story (women were oppressed!) is what fucks up anglospherian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:53 PM
2

I said keep nitpicking. It's not 99% its only 92%, Canada is slightly happier etc. Clearly for a female, unless everything is absolutely perfect it's complete shit? Is that your line of thinking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:51 PM
1

Skilled trades people here earn comfortably in the 6 figure range after 3-5 years of on the job training. Hundreds of thousands of dollars on education isnt a necessity. This is fiction, similar to the fiction that a bear is safer than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:44 PM
1

Keep nitpicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:41 PM
1

You don't have 100 billion therefore you're an exploited victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:23 PM
3

Dutch and other western european women are far easier to get along with than anglospherian women, from my own experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:22 PM
0

I think women in general are like this. That's why anglosphere females, who come from top income earning countries on earth, complain about not having enough money to raise families
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:21 PM
1

That's actually incorrect. A woman in India would be happy with a guy earning $1500 USD a month. In the US he'd need to earn $10000 USD a month. And before you mention cost of living, goods and quality food are similar price if not higher in the developing world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:41 PM
1

Im well into my 30s and women over 21 very rarely do anything for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:39 PM
3

So how much income do you require for that? Is 10million a year enough or is that too little?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:07 PM
1

What are you on about? You can raise children very well in the anglosphere with two adults working median income jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:07 PM
1

Regardless, what I said still applies to all anglosphere countries
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:05 PM
0

They can afford them, but they prefer to splurge on hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:59 PM
0

99% of people on earth can only dream of having the money and opportunities that americans have. I'm sorry that you can't understand this very simple idea. You have it better than the vast vast majority of people on earth and complain that you are slightly lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:58 PM
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What does being fit have to do with not being overweight? Do you think humans are either overweight or dedicated to fitness? American culture is really over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:55 PM
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Why would men date you and not a hot impoverished woman from the developing world? She'd be much cheaper to satisfy. Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:52 PM
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A woman in her mid 30s, unless exceptionally attractive, should be grateful a man of any socioeconomic class is willing to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:51 PM
2

American salaries are significantly higher than most western european countries. You are again complaining that you don't have it all. That is incredibly insulting and disrespectful for the vast majority of the population on earth. Do you understand how entitled you're coming across? Also I live in Canada. We get decent pensions, free healthcare, maternity and paternity leave. But we pay much more in taxes than the US. So please - gain some perspective about how GOOD you have it compared to 99% …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:50 PM
1

"Where you lived" might be LA or NYC. Where the majority of americans live, isn't. Presumably the woman would earn something too. $100k USD gross income is great in the majority of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:46 PM
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Certain cultures prefer overweight women (i.e. certain african countries). East asian, southeast asian, and south asian women tend to be on the slim side. White american and canadian women tend to be fat or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:42 PM
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Women in their mid 30s shouldnt be entitled to much of anything, considering theyre of low value in terms of looks and baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:40 PM
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Very few places have it better than the anglosphere. You're complaining about being in the top 20% of the top 1% instead of being in the top 10%. It's really strange that you can't find gratitude for living in some of the cleanest, safest and wealthiest countries in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:35 PM
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Mid 30s means I date women who are 25 max. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:28 PM
2

Those women become overweight after having 2, 3, 4 kids and being older. Anglospherian women are overweight or obese without having any kids at the age of 25. You're comparing apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:27 PM
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You are misinterpreting the statistics. Overweight and obese are in their own exclusive categories, they do not overlap. If you add up the numbers it's 69.4%. How is that not a majority? Please read what you link.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:24 PM
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Being educated doesnt make you smart, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:20 PM
0

It's something like 73%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:12 PM
1

$60,000 USD is the median income. That's poor to you? LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:11 PM
-1

I know a guy who runs his own business, ivy league educated, handsome, tall, he lives in asia and has sex and dates women who earn 1/50th of what he does
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:07 PM
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The women from those traditional cultures you mention, bring other qualities: they are likely not overweight or obese, they do all housekeeping and chores, and spend time at home with children, and usually have more kids and at an earlier age. Earning 100k in toronto, as a sole earner, if you're frugal you can definitely save up for a downpayment on a condo with a year or two. I save 66% of my net income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:00 PM
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Considering the vast majority of women in the anglosphere are overweight or obese, many college educated men would much prefer to date down socioeconomically rather than have sex or be seen with a large woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:53 PM
-1

At least they're not likely to be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:41 PM
0

Which part of evolutionary psych is women having their first pregnancies at the age of 30+? Lets not cherry pick where evopsych applies and doesnt in societies that are radically alien to the setting of the hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:38 PM
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In the 1st world, being in the middle is being close to rich anywhere else. I can get a shit ton of free furniture and other items off craigslist, get free food from food banks, I have free healthcare. I have access to high quality food that is cheap, I can live off of $150 a month grocery bill and eat like a king compared to most people in the developing world. I can stack up enough money to put a down payment on a house within a year, I can save and invest 10s of thousands into stocks, commodi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:33 PM
1

You've been proven wrong. Apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:26 PM
1

I asked why a man has to out-earn them by a SIGNIFICANT amount. You females keep bringing poverty, which implies that a man earning a median income is equated to poverty or that you have unrealistic views of financial reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:24 PM
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People have different priorities at different life stages. It's actually not the same woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:21 PM
-1

That's great - you are at a high level of financial success, there is nothing wrong with wanting a guy to match you. What I'm referring to is women who earn say 30k a year and feel entitled to men who earn 120k.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:18 PM
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Why do you keep spreading this deceptive and false information? Only 29% of American marriages are egalitarian, and only 16% wives earn more. That is not "over 50%". Please stop spreading misinformation or I will report you to the mods for trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:13 PM
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So, "HighestTierMaslow" stated that in 1/3rd of American marriages, wives earn more. This link shows that in 55% of marriages husbands earn more, in 16% wives earn more (16% is 1/6th, a FAR cry from 1/3rd as stated by "HighestTierMaslow"), and 29% are roughly equal. Why did HighestTierMaslow deceptively state that in 1/3rd of American marriages women earn more, when pew research shows that its 1/6th, and that men are still overwhelmingly outearning women in American marriages? I, and everyone in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:10 PM
-4

This is a false statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:04 PM
0

In terms of median income, the US is ahead of all of those, Canada and Australia are ahead of Finland and Germany, New Zealand is close to Germany and ahead of Finland. What were you trying to prove exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:04 PM
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Why do american women only think in extremes? Broke or RICH! I'll take option 3, the normal girl, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:01 PM
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To clarify, I'm discussing women over 25. Not a 19 year old in her "hoe phase".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:00 PM
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Why do you females keep bringing up poor and poverty, as if I said anything about that in my original post? It's really weird how american females think in these extremes, it seems to be a cultural issue with you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:58 PM
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Why are you bringing up poverty? Is rich and poor the only way you view the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:58 PM
-2

The vast majority of women date men who significantly outearn them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:54 PM
-2

Wrong. Cost of living is far worse in the developing world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:53 PM
1

Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:52 PM
4

That is a false statistic. Provide evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:51 PM
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They do, after the age of 25. A liberal woman is just someone that says nice things while being ruthlessly self serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:24 PM
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The difference being that women in the anglosphere significantly outearn other women, except for a handful of places (switzerland, hong kong etc). Money in the developing world is a matter of survival. South Koreans earn a lot less than Americans as well. Women could have a 10 bedroom house and complain that it isnt a 15 bedroom house, its disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:23 PM
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Compatibility has nothing to do with seeking out men that out-earn you. So it's about kids then? The thing half of women don't even want these days? How do you explain women who dont want kids, who still filter men based on income? I'm frankly tired of the kids excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:21 PM
4

Why do countless studies show that women's attraction for the exact same man shoots up when his income is shown to be higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:19 PM
1

Except you don't need to use an umbrella for the rain, you can be in the rain without one. That's a matter of practicality, not conforming to social norms. The thing is, you wouldn't go shopping wearing a a swastika, or some other super controversial symbol or phrase on your shirt. And you keep a number of other clothing conventions every time you go out. Another example would be, you don't walk around with huge stains. You aren't the freewheeling completely independent rebel you think you are, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:42 AM
0

I bowed out first!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:37 AM
2

Society would crumble within 2 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:31 AM
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It's as if you asked if 1+1 = 2. If our conversation has to be so elementary, Ill have to bow out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:31 AM
2

So you do -in part- wear specific clothes for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:30 AM
6

So you admit that attention from your celebrity crush wouldnt ruin your day. Now, from this we could also postulate that attention from men you find attractive wouldnt ruin your day either. So we go to the final conclusion, that in reality, the only thing that is ruining your day here is attention from men you dont find attractive. Why couldnt you be specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:29 AM
1

When women wear push up bras and make up, and lie about their n-count, do you agree that that is also deceitful and lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:24 AM
2

If sex is about love and commitment, why are american women/feminists promoting hook up culture and promiscuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:23 AM
1

Dude.. women have historically and literally shaped society to make men compete with eachother for access to sex… men have had to fight and kill each other throughout history for resources and status to impress women. So when a woman uses her sexual privilege to coerce men into providing to her financially… are you surprised that other men are offended by that???? You have to be completely ignorant of the world to even ask this question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:21 AM
4

But when the middle class american woman gets swept off her feet by the multi millionaire playboy chad, shes not at a disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:16 AM
7

We're 10 steps beyond that sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:14 AM
2

So if -insert celebrity crush- gave you attention, it would ruin your day?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:13 AM
1

You sure? Why aren't you outside in your bra and panties or naked then, since you don't do it for others and purely for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:12 AM
15

Why do lesbians ovulate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:11 AM
-4

Why is consensual sex between an 18 year old woman and a 40 year old man a moral crisis for women, but sex with narco and sex traffickers okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:38 AM
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So physical attractiveness trumps womens "morality". Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:37 AM
3

Im a volcel here (Cucknada), and only have sexual relations with women in normal countries, where they aren't totally fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:39 AM
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I didnt move the goal posts, sweetheart. I was responding to the list of so-called attractive traits being found in jobs that you listed. I pointed out that these traits are found in a variety of other jobs, but you purposely chose to the cool ones. And now you're making it about economic class, which goes back to the original point about womens insatiable greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:38 AM
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Women dont just want financial stability, they want to live as lavishly as possible. A median salary earner with a modest condo isn't hot. 3 cars and a 5 bedroom house is. Women have an insatiable desire for materialism and status. Also, there are many men whos careers involve risk that you dont give a shit about because they arent cool. Roofers, garbage collectors and truck drivers have a higher injury and fatality rate than any of the COOL jobs you listed. Why are these men less confident and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:09 AM
3

Why do women insist on sweeping the discussion under the rug when an inconvenient truth is exposed about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:02 AM
3

Because such men frequently go through 100s of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:00 AM
0

Men do what women respond to. Women love getting fucked by a hot criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:58 AM
0

Why do women reward immoral men with the hottest and most passionate sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:54 AM
-4

Men are immoral because women reward it with passionate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:53 AM
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