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| 8 | ExactlyWhat do you do in a situation where you see someone’s boyfriend on tinder or another dating app and you’re not close to the girl? I’ve had a few situations like this but I felt afraid of overstepping and ending someone’s relationship. Another situation was when a guy and I matched and I looked him up on IG only to see a very recent post of him gushing over his gf. It disgusted me and I wanted to message the gf saying that he actively was on tinder but I didn’t want to cause her pain 😪even though… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I genuinely think I’m too afraid to keep dating menAbsolutely. Especially this past year, I’ve been through the ringer between being sexually assaulted, harassed, emotionally abused, gas lighted, ghosted, and heart broken. It’s too much for one person to handle. My close friends are shocked by the things I’ve been through since they all say I’m a kind, successful person. I’m taking a break from dating to focus on my own personal development. My mindset right now is that if it’s meant to be, it’ll come along. There’s no use in forcing anything or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:28 AM |
| 1 | First date100%. Actions speak louder than words is such a poignant phrase and accurately describes this situation well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:09 AM |
| 2 | First dateWas it consensual? Did he ask for permission before he did it? If the answer is no to both questions, it is absolutely a red flag. No good man touches you without permission just as you wouldn’t touch him without consent. My own experience: A few months ago, I went out with a guy I’d met at my dog training class (lol). We made out on the first date and held hands the entire night. As he was walking me home, he pushed me against my apartment’s parking garage wall and slide his hand down my (bare!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Yet another example of the importance of abiding by the FDS rules - woman goes beyond her way to prepare nice date and ends up being used like a sex doll by NVMOh yeah, definitely! Unfortunately I thought we were headed towards a relationship and I really liked him. But his “commitment issues” got in the way. Got my hopes up and it hurt for months afterwards. Fun fact he charged me $7 on Venmo 5 days after our date for wine. Fuck boys have no shame 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:40 PM |
| 20 | Yet another example of the importance of abiding by the FDS rules - woman goes beyond her way to prepare nice date and ends up being used like a sex doll by NVMThis has happened to me before. The first guy I slept with after my ex (who I deeply loved) left immediately afterwards and I felt like shit. One of the worst things to happen to me and it still shocks to me to this day that men do this regularly and act like it’s okay. I’m sad for her and the countless other women (including myself) who deal with this. I learned my lesson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:03 PM |
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