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ponr/r/askMRP04/11/18 03:02 AM
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ponr/r/askMRP03/11/18 02:30 PM
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ponr/r/askMRP31/10/18 02:56 PM
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Yeah, I researched it a bit and realised it is pretty pointless.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/18 04:34 AM
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Is there any Avenue that I can take to procure the post nuptial and it actually hold up in court?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/18 12:23 PM
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Thanks man. She is pretty remorseful then after reading your link. It also touched on something we are taking care of next week. A post nuptial agreement. She gets nothing for a divorce for any reason. She is okay with that too. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/18 12:03 PM
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I am on the fence if I will sleep with anyone else. It's not something I want to bring into my life or relationship at this point in time. I might go there with one girl... she is the only one I am talking to of equal attractiveness as my wife (slim, pretty face, good hygiene), but she is 18. Lol. Shes never been grown man fucked, and she wants it, but like I said, I want to work this out with my wife and fucking needy teenagers right now just doesnt seem too smart. Seems fun. Not smart.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 11:37 PM
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These are solid leads with actual woman. But I'll keep this in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 11:29 PM
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Correct. I agree. Her hamster did the heavy lifting. She is actually working with our relationship therapist about understanding her hamster. After she re read old conversations between us, and talking to her family and friends, she admits her thinking became twisted and she didn't give me a fair shot. She says she felt like she was trying but looking back she wasnt. This is HER issue to work with the therapist.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 11:13 PM
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Mrp. Different rules for different people bud. Does plate theory actually state sex is mandatory to make her a plate?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 11:09 PM
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Not disagreeing with you. I've got a ways to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 10:41 PM
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Sorry man, I have hit rock bottom a few times but have yet to commit assault. If she cheats again I will next her. I cant re explain myself but it's not a hard decision to make anymore. She is killing herself to make it up, and has gone to great lengths already to fix this. She isnt even close but it's the direction I am going. My redpill adventure and my marriage are my next two hobbies.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 10:39 PM
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Lol. I agree. I am not rolling over. She is still earning her place in my house. I believe her tears, I doubt she rationalizes that far into it. I am not saying that isnt why. I am going to keep working on myself and when or if it happens again I will be ready and more comfortable nexting her. I hope I dont need to, I hope it works out, but I am not holding my breath men.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 10:36 PM
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Just talking and sexting. One girl fell off, I dropped one, one is "grabbing the next branch", and I'm working on a replacement for the first. I am trying to keep 3 in my arsenal. I get bored and dont know what to say but I am trying to keep it revolving.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 10:33 PM
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But I'm not but thanks for the reminder. It will serve its purpose I am sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 10:31 PM
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I am not saying you are wrong. I have had two options since her affair. I am spinning plates and agree that the more options the more clarity. We have made a lot of progress and she is doing a good job making up for it. I am making the rules and she is living by them. The sex is still great, she called his girlfriend and ratted him out to prove her loyalty to me, I feel good about how she is proving herself. I am reading nmmng and mmslp. I am working on that last part.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 10:30 PM
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I am focusing on myself right now. Maybe it will turn the relationship around, maybe it wont. I'll be okay regardless. The nightmare part is over. Everything is out in the open. She is cooperating and eagerly willing to live with a short leash. Given she maintains her low status in the house, and continues to invest in my well being, I will let her hang around. I have confidence issues, social anxiety, sexual anxiety... I want to tackle these problems before I head out into the world alone. Unti…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 09:50 PM
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Thank you. This adds a bit of clarity to my situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 07:09 PM
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What is firedtempered perspective? I want a better relationship. No doubt. If she proves herself though then why not. She is still putting in a hell of a lot of effort to fix this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 06:51 PM
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Before I knew the hypothyroidism was the culprit I was a waste of space. I would eat dinner and pass out, sleep 10-12 hrs. Neglect everything. I slept 14+ hours on the weekends and still felt tired. She really checked out. She would fight me so hard about being bored. It was all she would talk about. By the time I got my health situated she was hamster wheeling. I didn't know the term at the time but I knew the symptoms. I knew reversing her trajectory was difficult so I stopped giving a shit al…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 06:29 PM
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Everything I know was pretty much from her answering my questions. I had to force some confessions out but she read a thing on the internet on how to recover from an affair that said to be honest. She has been working at being honest about this, but it took a couple weeks to get the full story (her fucking him day before our wedding was the last piece). I asked her if I could talk to her best friend who I knew had all of the details. She said okay, her friend just told me everything she knew, co…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 06:08 PM
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We got married in September. We were having a really hard time and I wanted to call off the wedding until we had our shit fixed. She fucked a coworker the day before the wedding. I caught on to her behavior shifts and didnt even want or need to know the rest. I just told her she had a month to get out of the house. Well we went to therapy one night, about a week or so after the wedding. I was staying at s friends house actually because I wasnt putting up with this shit. She begged me to go to th…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 06:05 PM
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Sorry man. I just want to post a OYS. I am not in a good place. I am seeing a psychologist next week and have been exercising a lot. I am getting better I think.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 05:28 PM
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Thank you. I have hypothyroidism which causes serious fatigue, kills muscle recovery and cause serious weight gain. My diet is carefully monitored for energy and weight. I am slowly increasing intensity around my recovery. I am progressing, I just cant deal with the hypo-blues from too much excersize. It really sucks. I love working out. I love pumps and sore muscles. I just have a very busy life and have to be careful to avoid a crash. I am doing a 5x5 heavy program now, which is opposite of my…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 05:24 PM
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Stats. Dropped a few more pounds from depression and not eating. About 149 lbs. 5'7. Lift daily. Still recovering and gaining so I am not too concerned with the weight loss yet. Its helping my abs pop. Still crying a lot and having a difficult time coping with wife's affair. I struggle with motivation, discipline, and anxiety with woman. I own a business but my lack of motivation and discipline affect revenue. I'm losing about 5g a month. I also work full time (60hrs a week) in management and I …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 04:12 PM
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I had my test checked a few months ago and it was 970. I felt that was braggable but I know there are several other test values that should be considered first. I did do AAS for a few years off and on when I was in my early 20's, I lacked discipline and pretty much just waisted money. I did my first cycle at 16 or 17 but I was already having sex and experienced the erection issue prior. I always did good PCT and felt recovery went well. I wouldnt doubt that I fucked my puberty up but I felt in m…
/r/askMRP06/11/18 02:46 AM
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Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I am forunate to be married to a gorgeous 26 yo girl. I can reestablish erection and finish. I just have to slow down and focus on me. My issue is I am unable to fuck her hard and fast without losing erection. I am going to start boxing on Monday and read SGM again. As. Well 6 weeks nofap
/r/askMRP04/11/18 04:38 PM
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I'll give it a go. Thanks
/r/askMRP04/11/18 12:19 PM
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What do you mean that I could join it or it could join me?
/r/askMRP04/11/18 01:07 AM
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Thank you bud. No. She is not cheating anymore. But she is still trickle-truthing when she was supposed to have already came clean about it all. This makes wanting to move forward very hard. I wont take her, that was exactly what this post was for
/r/askMRP03/11/18 10:54 PM
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Lol. Ok.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 10:47 PM
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Yeah I switch it up. I'm comfortable with my size and body and am frequently told I am sexy and have nice features by friends, family, wife, girls.... drunk chicks... not really my main issue friend.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 10:32 PM
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Just the ones that dont know their assholes from the ground.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 10:28 PM
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Wow. Never read something so absolutely fucking wrong. Good job tool. You're stupid. Wrong on every account. But that's alright dude whatever makes you feel better about your life. I can take the hit, cause I know you suck.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 09:34 PM
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Look at my name. Lol
/r/askMRP03/11/18 08:06 PM
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Yep, short. 5'7" and I'm 155. I'm skinny if anything bud. I lift weights 5 days a week but I dont bulk. Just high reps and high intensity for fitness.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 08:06 PM
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Thanks for catching that. I will edit my op
/r/askMRP03/11/18 08:04 PM
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On and off again habit. I looked at it a couple days ago while trying to get hard to take a dick pick for a girl I'm friends with. I didnt masterbate to it or even after I took the picture. It's a guilt hangup for me and I do a pretty good job abstaining except once a month or relapse and jerk off 3 times a day for a few days and then I maybe do it ones or twice the rest of the month.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 08:02 PM
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I have it somewhere saved from several years ago. It was serious bitch to track down though.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:57 PM
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ypically I lose erection when I go hard and fast. I lose it sometimes but not often when we are casually having sex for orgasms. Regardless I always finish, it comes back, I just have to slow down and focus on what I'm feeling on my dick and direct my eyes to her pussy. Thanks for the advice, it is my current plan.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:56 PM
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Typically I lose erection when I go hard and fast. I lose it sometimes but not often when we are casually having sex for orgasms. Regardless I always finish, it comes back, I just have to slow down and focus on what I'm feeling on my dick and direct my eyes to her pussy. Thanks for the advice, it is my current plan.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:56 PM
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Lol, you guys are brutal. I have a terrible relationship, quality sex is a problem, but not a hangup... yet. Quality sex is my fault. My wife is very eager and patient and I can have sex with her just fine about 80% of the time, my dick drops when I want to rough her up and fuck the devil out of her. I cant go fast and maintain. Sometime I lose it when we're having boring sex, but it's not typical.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:53 PM
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Thanks man, I addressed this several years ago in past relationships with NoFap and I'm familiar with SGM however the last time I applied it in my relationship was probably 10 years ago and it was the best sex I've ever had.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:47 PM
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I'm 5'7 155 maybe 10% bf. Pretty fit, I excersize regularly bud.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:46 PM
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