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Inner Game pool_of_fire/r/seduction27/05/24 12:52 AM
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Lifestylepool_of_fire/r/seduction26/12/24 02:24 AM
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Lol most of the responses didn't but there are a couple helpful ones. But this shows that this is definitely something we need to work on, good scope for monetization as well tbh Women have a lot of advantages in the dating market. It's time we learn from them and find all possible methods to be better wherever they exist. Otherwise women will always be able to say "men are not good enough", we will continue to be taken advantage of, and we will see more toxic black-pilled or simp like behavior …
/r/seduction27/12/24 03:10 AM
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The only way to fix it is for men to become more attractive so that they can get dates with women irl And everyone can win, right now men just don't meet the basic threshold for women to find them attractive
/r/seduction26/12/24 04:29 AM
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Thanks, this is helpful. There is a lot of random content about skincare, along with which products help or don't (serums, mucin, etc etc) How do you separate the good content from the bad content? Or is the only solution to buy products and experiment yourself? For e.g. despite all the content, people who get really good, noticeable results seem to be few - you have celebrities and a lot of korean people for some reason lol
/r/seduction26/12/24 04:04 AM
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There is another dimension to it. Right now 90% of us are suffering while the top 10% of men benefit. If we all collectively boost our attractiveness, at least we will pass that minimum threshold and more of us will be able to get dates. Makeup ends up making the vast majority of women attractive enough that they all can date the most attractive men. This leads to an inflation of attractiveness standards, where now even ugly women think they deserve to date men who are extremely attractive. But …
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:51 AM
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Thanks. Wanted more responses like this.
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:16 AM
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They wear it wherever it's required. And they don't need to wear it all the time, that much is enough to get men to ask them out. But men don't even have that advantage. Other solutions aren't enough in today's dating market, for obvious reasons
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:11 AM
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Exactly! This is what I'm saying Are there any male influencers in this space that you know about? We could always experiment ourselves but some help would be nice
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:07 AM
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That may have been true in the past. But with social media and apps becoming more common it's not true anymore. You need looks to even get your foot in the door. At the end of the day, attractive men get matches. You can only show your personality if women go on a date with you lol
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:05 AM
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Clearly this isn't working for most men though. But even ugly women can do well simply by looking like a different person by using makeup. And it is a very low effort option. So I am asking how we can learn to do this.
/r/seduction26/12/24 02:55 AM
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How can you learn how to do that as a man? I don't want to look feminine
/r/seduction26/12/24 02:52 AM
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Lmao why is everyone suggesting (i) extremely high effort/long term options like getting rich or going to the gym, or (ii) low effort options that don't make much of a difference, like cologne or editing photos? In a way this shows that we have a real problem. Women have a relatively low effort but high reward option when they use makeup. They can look like an entirely different person every day, simply by spending 15-20 minutes every morning.
/r/seduction26/12/24 02:51 AM
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Do you know about any resources to learn how to do this right?
/r/seduction26/12/24 02:42 AM
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It's also about real life, you don't want to go into the date looking different from how you look irl so simply changing the photos isn't enough. Women can wear makeup to the date as well so you don't know what they really they look like. And makeup can significantly change your appearance. I see this with women in my college campus all the time. You can look up celebrity pics with and without makeup to see more of this.
/r/seduction26/12/24 02:33 AM
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After work, gym, cooking and managing regular stuff I barely have any time left. I usually just spend that watching some TV show or reading some manga. On the weekends I do stuff like what I mentioned in the post. My work helps other people I guess. But I don't think that's what you're talking about.
/r/seduction27/05/24 11:09 PM
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If I could regularly find women to hang out with there would probably be no issues 😂 That's the whole problem, and instead of feeling bad all the time I decided to try to just be happy the way things are
/r/seduction27/05/24 11:06 PM
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When I go out with them it does take my mind off certain things. So I'm less lonely. But I don't think that's a permanent solution? Like I still feel bad when I see groups of guys having fun with multiple women, and the stuff I said about external validation and women still holds. I want to be able to feel secure even when I'm doing stuff alone
/r/seduction27/05/24 02:37 PM
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I do talk to people, but the conversation is always surface level and I never really meet anyone again. Like it feels good in the moment, but it doesn't really help in this aspect.
/r/seduction27/05/24 02:32 PM
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I get your point, but to get better at dating women you have to think about how they perceive you, right? And then optimize your looks/fashion/etc? Otherwise I just wouldn't put that much effort in.
/r/seduction27/05/24 06:35 AM
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I used to prioritize my career. But then I felt like it was getting too stressful and I was neglecting other things that made me happy. So now I try to do everything sufficiently well. I don't have some huge life purpose as such. But I have goals that I want to achieve. And things are coming along fine in general, except the stuff with women. But that doesn't help me feel better on a daily basis. I don't understand how to develop the kind of purpose you are talking about. Could you explain more …
/r/seduction27/05/24 01:09 AM
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Curious what you lied about But in today's society a win is a win. And getting laid is a good thing. I don't think anyone's going to judge you based on her age unless you both get into a relationship 😂 Would you mind sharing your conversation at the bar?
/r/seduction19/05/24 04:06 AM
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Why do you feel guilty about it? Do you think other people will judge you negatively?
/r/seduction19/05/24 04:02 AM
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