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| 12 | Green flags for breakfastGirl where do I find one?! Jesus I'm so sick of shitty, flakey, no personality men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 15 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬Fucking perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | If not anger, what emotion should a man display after discovering that he has been lied to about the true nature of women his entire life?Don't you guys do that same thing with feminists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/15 03:25 AM |
| 7 | Hi there r/mensrights, I am writing a report for school on how society undermines that men are marginalized and victims of sexism. Are there in your opinion any key ideas I should include, and do you have any sources/facts that would strengthen my report?Also, it's okay (at times even celebrated) for women to have masculine interests, but straight men are not to enjoy anything "feminine," such as knitting/sewing, certain types of music, childcare, etc. Expanding on the childcare thing, I think it would be interesting to include anecdotes from fathers who have been assumed to be pedophiles for walking around alone with their young children. It's not a study or a fact or something, but it is a real, unfair issue that men face and I think would be … | /r/MensRights | 24/11/13 08:41 PM |
| 2 | 6 in 7 people living in poverty are men. Guess what feminists care about. (Found on tumblr.)Ugh... this makes me cringe. "Feel sorry for me because I'm in the minority." As a feminist living in poverty - fuck everything about this. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/13 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Back in September I reported anti-male Facebook groups, and every single page request was ignored. After several emails, they're finally revising the decisions!I don't even know who that is, and trust me, as a feminist/egalitarian/men's rights activist, she doesn't represent what I, or a majority of feminists believe. She is ONE person, a radical psycho at that obviously, and she is in no way a mascot for feminist ideals. You can't base what you believe about a community on the straggler radicals teetering on the edge of sanity, otherwise all feminists would want to enslave men, all men's rights activists would want to beat the crap or of women, all Mu… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/13 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Back in September I reported anti-male Facebook groups, and every single page request was ignored. After several emails, they're finally revising the decisions!Okay, let's remember that feminism =/= man hatred. Just because this was a sub dedicated to hatred of men does not mean it was started by feminists. I know that the feminists I'm familiar with wouldn't support this at all. Probably some butt-hurt teenage girls who went through a crap relationship and got cheated on or dumped or something. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/13 05:06 AM |
| 17 | Back in September I reported anti-male Facebook groups, and every single page request was ignored. After several emails, they're finally revising the decisions!Seriously, it was literally called "I hate men" and they had to ponder over whether or not it was a hate group? I wonder how many members/followers it had... | /r/MensRights | 14/11/13 09:47 PM |
| 9 | One Direction star stunned no legal action being taken against crazed female voyeur - "If you flip it the other way round [...] I'd have been straight off to jail."True, but messed up. Waking up to sounds on your hotel balcony and looking up to see crazed eyes looking at you through the window... I don't care what gender is look at what gender, that shit would scar me for life. That is fucking scary. Sadly, being a "teen-heartthrob," he's probably going to deal with more shit like this in the future. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/13 06:42 PM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsOgreish? No. However as a female - even as a tallish, athletic woman at 5'8" and 130 lbs - I am a lot smaller than a majority of grown men. With the amazon women, I was trying to create the sense of physical intimidation a typical woman might feel. And again, this is just 90% of the women who approach/acknowledge you. You probably attract a lot of people who just don't come up and say anything. I'm trying to say that 90% of the people who try to pick up on me make me extremely uncomfortable. And… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/13 05:08 AM |
| 0 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsNo you don't. Stop trying to say things like "I hope you remain ignorant of what you are" and "you are truly deluded and I pity you." I know what you're doing and it's a stupid tactic for arguing. "Wow, you're so wrong that I'm not even mad I'm just so sad for you. Actually, I would try to help you if I could but you're so beyond hope just wow." My eyes just about rolled out of my head. I remember doing that when I was 12. I also happen to know you well enough to know that you're probably more s… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/13 09:47 AM |
| 0 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsI know enough about you to know that you're bigoted, arrogant, stubborn and a douche. Oh you brought up ad hominem? Wow, such big words. I took critical thinking freshman year like everyone else. I'm obviously not trying to get you to change your mind about the feminism issue and I haven't been since my first comment. You're one of those people, that no matter how many facts, statistics, or personal anecdotes a person shares with you, you will not budge. You don't want a debate, you want a fight… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/13 07:46 AM |
| 0 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsAgain, after discovering what kind of person you are, I couldn't care less that you don't like me. If anything, I'd say I'm glad - if you did like me that'd probably mean I'm a steaming pile of shit person. You sit over there angrily down voting all of my comments and tell me people don't like me and my problems are stupid and blah blah blah, like a petulant child. Ugh, I can only imagine how despicable you must be in person. What a fright. Whatever. Obviously the community was on my side for th… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/13 04:55 AM |
| 2 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsI need to preface this comment by saying I am SOOO sorry for the length, but I hope maybe it'll put some things into perspective for you. I think it's worth the read, and I hope you'll take the time to do so. Thanks in advance. I'm sorry that happened to you. That does make sense as to why you would avoid these women afterwards - and I guess I'll try to take this situation a little more lightly. However, I must say, there have been a few times when they'll learn I have a boyfriend and will still… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 07:58 PM |
| 2 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsNope, I'm a different kind of feminist. That's all. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 10:19 AM |
| 0 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsI sympathize with you a little bit because I've checked through your post history and I think I understand why you feel this way. There are a lot of stereotypes about your "typical" redditor that you meet. I imagine you're not very socialized and have probably not interacted with a lot of women in your life, and that the interactions you've had with women didn't go smoothly because, well, you're like this. So of course they were probably rude to you, and you're resentful over that and these litt… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 10:16 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsThat's very kind of you. Thank you very much :) When my check goes through I will be sure to return the favor, generous stranger! | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 08:11 AM |
| 3 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsUm... I disagree with them? I guess to some people maybe I wouldn't be a "true" feminist, but that's okay. I think I am. You're not going to get me to say I'm not a feminist because you go "Well, look at all this shit feminists did! Still think you're one, now?" The fact is, there are a lot of different kinds of feminists. I don't consider myself to be associated with the kind you shared just now. Simple as that. Sorry my beliefs didn't fit into your cookie cutter. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 08:08 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsJesus, here you are again! I really upset you, didn't I? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 07:59 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsVery well said! I definitely agree. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 07:57 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsNot a problem at all! Your curiosity is endearing; thank you for asking. Someone asked me this question earlier and I made a response that included a little list: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1iwc8s/rbestof_no_longer_accepts_links_from_rmensrights/cb9v8p1 It's just a brief description of some things I've personally encountered; I'm not looking to create a written lecture. If you have any more questions, let me know :) | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 07:55 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsThat's so awesome that you think I'm capable of something like that - thank you - but when it comes to feminism, I'm kind of the black sheep. Here's what I encounter with women in regards to feminism: Apathetic Radicals I have actually not once met a woman in person who shares my beliefs and passion (it's weird though, like 90% of the guys I talk to about it feel the same way). If they're passionate, it's because they're modern radicals. If they share my beliefs, they just don't really care abou… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 07:44 AM |
| 0 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsMy Dad called me a slut for wearing "revealing clothing" (a shirt that showed mid drift when I lifted my arms and low cut jeans). This is all while he had a framed portrait of Lara Croft in our living room. When I get upset about something people will ask me if I'm PMSing (also the catty "raour" noise that drives me nuts). My place of work refused to promote me from "counter girl" to line cook because they said the last time they tried to train a woman to work in the kitchen it didn't work out. … | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 07:32 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsWell, I'm just speaking from experience. I mean, I don't come to /r/mensrights to preach feminism because that would just be stupid, but I'm here quite a bit, and when it comes up and I inevitably say I also identify as a feminist (I try to make it clear I'm not a radfem), I get downvoted into oblivion and slammed with hateful responses - without fail, every time. As much as I love MRM, there have been a few times when I've almost unsubscribed just because of this issue. "I shouldn't bring up fe… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 06:56 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsAh, look at that. I just finished responding to a silly comment you left, and here you are at it again. If only you could take all that passion you have for internet bickering and put it towards something meaningful. I'm sorry the MRAs agreeing with something logical that goes against your beliefs gets your panties in such a twist. I hope you feel better. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 06:47 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsHahaha. I was merely correcting this person who said this insightful comment "tore feminism apart." Some of you crappier "men's right's activists" (I put this in quotes because I doubt you really are one) will absolutely scramble to find a reason to attack a feminist, even if she's an MRA as well. It's dumb shit, dude. I don't know why you want to look for reasons to fight. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 06:42 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsSo do I not exist? Because I'm pretty sure I'm a feminist and I don't agree with radical second/third wave feminism. I think what you're doing here is looking for a reason to hate ALL feminists. Feminism is not ALL bad - the idea at its core promotes equality, just like the MRM. You know what's bad? Shitty people who twist good ideas into excuses to perpetuate hate. Why don't you hate them instead of creating a blanket policy of hate for an ENTIRE movement that was originally started to fight fo… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/13 06:38 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsI hate the label, personally - I think it's inherently sexist. I don't think it's fair to call what's supposed to be a gender equality movement something that favors one gender. It's kind of contradicting of itself, really. I also think if it had a gender neutral name, it would be a lot harder for misandric women to justify their beliefs/actions with it - because for some people, "feminism" just means "anti-man." | /r/MensRights | 24/07/13 11:03 PM |
| 3 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsThanks! It's the thought that counts :) | /r/MensRights | 24/07/13 10:54 PM |
| 30 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsYes they are. I know this isn't a wise sub to mention this in, but there are plenty of issues women face today based on their gender. As a young woman I can say that with the utmost certainty. However, do I believe that my gender-based social issues are all to blame on men? No (there are PLENTY of misogynist women - PLENTY). Do I believe men face zero social plight based on their gender? No, men absolutely face gender-based issues in society. Do I hate men? Abso-fucking-lutely not. I love men - … | /r/MensRights | 23/07/13 10:31 PM |
| 18 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsUm... I do not support mainstream, modern, radical feminism. You are just... wow - really, horribly bitter about this subject. I support the MR movement, and I support the idea of classic liberal feminism. I don't even know how that was seen as "derailing" in your eyes, that was essentially what the poster of this comment that "tore feminism to shreds" is saying. He supports feminism at its roots - just not the new wave radfems. FEMINISM is not the enemy. Classic, liberal feminism and the MR mov… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/13 10:10 PM |
| 259 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsHe didn't tear apart Feminism, he tore apart radical second/third wave Feminism. I actually AGREE with the Classical Liberal feminists. I also agree with the early (non-radical) Second Wave feminists who simply argued that gender stereotypes were constraining women's indivduation. He literally said that - that's a direct quote from his post. The whole theme of his post is essentially that MRAs and Classic Liberal Feminists have the same ideas, but that these new wave Feminists are too radical an… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/13 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Cosmopolitan (women's mag): How common is female on male DV?I hope so. My best friend Becky is the stereotype of a 21-year-old woman in a lot of ways, and is relatively uneducated about the MR movement (or even just what REAL "equality" is - she's the type of woman who thinks the Lorena Bobbit scandal is "fabulous"). She loves Cosmo, and maybe this combined with my occasional badgering will help her come around :) | /r/MensRights | 20/07/13 05:15 AM |
| 6 | Wise wordsThis is why you guys don't get more female supporters. Feminism was women's attempt to be equal and it's bashed all over the place here. There are obviously people who are going to take a movement and run with it in the wrong direction, but to bash the entire movement based upon those few idiots is ludacris. I would trust my own understanding of feminism much more over yours because I come from an objective point of view. I'm an MRA and a feminist. Not some red pill swallowing misogynist, nor a … | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Wise wordsNo, that's not what feminism is. Although I agree that the term "feminism" is inherently unequal because it's aimed towards a single gender, the movement itself stemmed from people believing that women deserve the same modern social equalities as men at a time when they didn't have them (most schools go over this in high school history. Remember the civil rights movement?). The movement was/is supposed to be geared towards equality, not towards women chopping men's balls off and taking over the … | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 09:18 AM |
| 5 | Wise wordsSeriously. People (especially women) are not going to take this movement seriously when a lot of front-page posts are ignorance/stereotype-filled. It's blatant hypocrisy. I feel like all too often I read something to the effect of, "I'm a man, and I don't like being stereotyped because of my gender, but let me stereotype ALL feminists negatively." SOME feminists are like what this woman is describing. Some. Then, there are feminists like myself who are legit concerned with gender equality and wi… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 08:18 AM |
| 9 | I found out today that my son hanged himself.Yes, I would definitely replace "feminism" with "misandry" in his post... not all feminists are man-haters, and honestly, in my opinion, the "feminists" who use the movement to hate on men are not real feminists. Regardless, my greatest condolences for your loss, OP. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/13 04:31 AM |
| 1 | This is why i ignore SRS private messagesJesus christ this isn't /r/beatingwomen | /r/MensRights | 16/01/13 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Don't be THAT girl - 2Well they don't do something about it often enough. Women get away with hitting men all the time. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/12 01:38 PM |
| 29 | Don't be THAT girl - 2I think they might know it's a crime, they're all just confident they can get away with it. Just like how a woman hitting a man is technically assault, but the law will do fuck all about it. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/12 09:35 AM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 08:14 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.hey thanks :) | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 11:04 AM |
| 2 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Well just gotta win them over with kindness and keep chuggin on, I spose. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 04:57 AM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Wow... I didn't know all that; not in so much detail at least. Some people just want to watch the world burn. It's pathetic how they can't find something negative within the community they hate because they don't understand it, so they have to create something. I have not read one misogynistic comment yet in all my posts. For what it's worth, I love you guys, I'm a supporter of the MRM and a frequent this sub. Would never try to hurt you guys. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 04:50 AM |
| 2 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.That's a good point. I guess I just can't understand why someone would put so much effort into a post just to trick people. Yeah! I exposed these suckers as a helpful, supportive community! Fools! Hahaha! And yes, she's aware that he's moving. Apparently in one of her drug induced soliloquies she was ranting about how she wanted to come with him, even though she knew he was moving to live with me. She's nuts. Luckily he didn't tell her where in California he's moving. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 04:13 AM |
| 4 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Oh, I've been here a while. This is just my first real experience with male discrimination. I like you guys. Every rose has its thorn. Sorry to be corny about it, haha. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 03:02 AM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Thank you so much! :) What a kind response. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 02:36 AM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Well thank you. That was very well said. I appreciate your response. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 02:35 AM |
| 7 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Men's rights issue because a woman is getting away with illegal activity that a man would be slammed in jail for (assault/destruction of property/home invasion/false accusations/etc). Check my posting history. This is a legitimate account and a legitimate post. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 12:24 AM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Sorry to be somewhat crass, but we're fucking done trying to deal with the Oklahoma police. We just want them out of our lives for good. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 11:30 PM |
| 5 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Oh, I know. It's just a subreddit oriented around male discrimination... seems pretty unlikely complimenting a woman would come up; not out of hate, just that it seems like it wouldn't be relevant. Which means I must be extra cool for someone to say it here. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 11:18 PM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.That is fucking sickening. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 11:15 PM |
| 4 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He did. A couple times the night it was happening, which is mentioned in both threads. I called the police the next day to try to get a statement on record because he was at work and couldn't start the police report himself. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 11:14 PM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Thank you. I'm sorry you guys have to go through that crap :( | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 11:13 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He just brought her home one night from work after we had a fight and broke up. He had met her that day. She just refused to leave from there on out; guilt tripping him by saying she had no one to come get her and had nowhere to go, and he tried to make the best of the situation I guess. He's one of those people you just want to punch in the face sometimes because of how much he lets people walk all over him (I mentioned in the comments in the other thread somewhere about how this had happened w… | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 09:14 PM |
| 7 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.The restraining order suggestions were among the more helpful ones, in my opinion. My frustration is only directed at people who were saying I was a troll and calling me stupid. He can't change his locks because he rents an apartment, but I'm pretty sure he told me his keys say "DO NOT COPY" on them. He said he never even gave her a copy anyway and kept his on himself at all times. He's moving to California in less than a month, so hopefully we just don't have to worry about it. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 08:45 PM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Well put. I guess all I can say to that is I agree it was a horribly stupid decision, that he learned a lesson and apologizes for it every day. While his decision was stupid though, I still think his experience very well demonstrated some of the unfair issues men face when dealing with the police in matters of assault/domestic abuse/destruction of property etc. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 08:25 PM |
| 4 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Oh my gosh, it was. I hope no one else goes through it. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 08:21 PM |
| 8 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Well thank you!! That means so much coming from someone in /r/mensrights :D | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 08:20 PM |
| 8 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He didn't cheat on me because 1) we weren't together when he had sex with her, and 2) regardless whether we were together or not, I had given him the okay to have sex with other girls as long as he's safe because I'm not a sexually jealous person (though he never granted me the same freedom). As I said in my previous post I was in a poly relationship before, and I see sex as a human need. I would feel bad depriving someone of that just because I live so far away. Cheating for me would be more of… | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 08:18 PM |
| 2 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Yep. Really blew my mind. I mean, he wasn't crying to the police because she gave him a little smack; this was full on assault, destruction of property, home invasion and threats of false accusations she got away with. Be careful, man. It was a really scary situation and I absolutely dread knowing this will likely happen to some poor guy again. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 07:29 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Me too! Thanks :) | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 07:18 PM |
| 5 | [UPDATE] Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Thank you very much. I hope so too. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/12 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Yes. I will probably post one tomorrow :) | /r/MensRights | 24/12/12 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Thank you! That really means a lot to me. I'm pretty much all my boyfriend has right now and he's had a really tough time since he moved to Oklahoma. He hates it there. He has a really shitty job schedule (nights 6 days/week), he makes very little money, has no car and he doesn't know anyone. He's an amazing person and I believe he deserves all the patience and help I can give him. It's the least I can do to repay him for making me so damn happy. I've also just learned in life that if you can av… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/12 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I know right? If this were going on in CA I think it'd be much easier to get her out. The weather isn't freezing and there are a lot more services available to the public. Honestly, she's a fucking bitch, but I can't blame her for not wanting to leave. My boyfriend's a sweetheart and Oklahoma is, in my opinion, just very unpleasant. I can't wait for him to move back here. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/12 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He did initially; he told her in the morning she had to leave and then when he got home she wasn't gone. Also, found out she's not actually homeless. She admitted that when she says she "has nowhere to go" she actually means nowhere she wants to go. Before she started squatting at his house apparently the bitch lived with her grandparents. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/12 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He acknowledged her as a visitor/guest/intruder, not that she'd been living there. Luckily the only thing he mentioned was that she had stayed the night previously. You're right though. Luckily he hasn't touched her at all. Despite what everyone's saying here we both know that's just grounds for trouble, no matter how fair it would be if he shoved her out the door. It's not worth the risk. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/12 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Haha thanks, but this issue is going on in Oklahoma. I just personally live in California. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/12 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Thanks :) | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.It's clearly a men's rights issue because she is a clear danger to him and they refuse to take him seriously. We all know if their genders were switched a dude would have been out of there immediately and probably be facing a slew of charges. But because she's a little chick the police aren't taking her seriously as a threat. Edit: also it's been over ten days since he initially asked her to leave. He's wanted her to leave this whole time, he just didn't get super aggressive about it until yeste… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.They never even showed up. That's how unseriously they're taking the situation. They wouldn't even send an officer in. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Might be the way we have to go, assuming the police continue to not be of any help. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.The police aren't believing it's not her place of residence. They think my boyfriend is lying to them. (edit: or something like that) | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Totally would if we had any money to do it. One person earlier mentioned hiring someone from a security firm temporarily. Great ideas, but we just can't afford it. He can barely even make rent this month. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Will do! And I just thought it was relevant to explain why she was there in the first place... I guess I could have just made something up. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.This reply is very helpful. I will be using a lot of this to help fix his situation. Thank you so much :) | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Trust me, I would have called 911 if I were there. He just called the station. I swear they told him he couldn't do anything even though she is assaulting him and breaking his things. That's what makes this situation so unbelievably fucked up. Going to try calling again when he wakes up with a new plethora of legal knowledge thanks to all you guys. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I think I'm going to encourage him to take the offensive route. If that fails then what you're saying will be our only choice. I don't think he has a lease; I think his landlord does month-to-month under the table renting. As far as his job goes, he's moving to California in a month anyway so him getting a new job is not a concern really. He is actually already looking for something else anyway though. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Yep told him to do that too. Again, not sure if he did. During the time he wasn't talking to me on the phone I think he was listening to her "kidnapping/rape" story. When he finally called me back around 5ish in the morning he said he just wanted to go to bed, but let me know he had locked himself in his room ahead of time. Not sure yet if he recorded anything or took pictures yet. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Whatever. Think whatever you want. I've gotten some solid advice in this thread and that's all I care about. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Thank you :) | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.That's what we're afraid of :( | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:59 PM |
| 8 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I will certainly relay this information to him when he calls me. I think he needs to call his landlord as well. Thank you for commenting! | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I think he just called the police station. I will let him know next time to call 911. Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Physically throw her out with her stuff. She will fight back in a way that will give her an advantage to say he assaulted her. She has already threatened to make false accusations of rape and assault without him touching her. Call the police if she stays on your property and have her arrested for trespassing, assault and battery, and perhaps harassment. Did you read my entire post? He did do this. The cops told him he can't do anything about it. It is incredible injustice he is dealing with righ… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I don't know if that would work; the police said he had to go to the courthouse to get an official eviction notice. I don't know if one he makes himself would hold much weight. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Well unfortunately the local police think otherwise :( | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I will. I think the next thing to do is to get him to call his landlord and see what he says. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Hope so. Told him to record her just in case. As I've said before though, I don't know if he actually did. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Uh, yeah, that is the first thing I thought of being hundreds of miles away from him, unable to do anything but listen to him over the phone while this girl makes his life a living hell. I don't know if you're aware of this, but this sub is full of a lot of really smart people who have experience with this kind of shit. In my opinion it was the smart thing to do. What would you prefer? I use all this imaginary money I'm sitting on and take the next flight out to him and get her out myself? Not e… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Could work. Not sure how to record phone conversations though... | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I checked the laws for OK in regard to that and it says both parties need to be aware they're being recorded. I mentioned that earlier in response to someone else and it got a good amount of downvotes. If I'm wrong I wish people would tell me. I can't trust everything I find on the internet is true! I told him to try to record her anyway just in case. As I also said earlier, better to not need it and have it than need it and not have it. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.We're both broke. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Thank you for your sympathy. We're working on getting as many people to stop by as possible so he can get witnesses. Apparently he has a female friend who he called but she didn't want to come over, which pisses me off a little. I would be witness for anyone in a second in a situation like this. I hate how the general public has such a "Deal with it" attitude when it comes to men dealing with batshit insane women like this. It's unacceptable. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I don't think I should give too much information, but he's pretty close to the border of Arkansas. About 30 minutes away from Fort Smith. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Maybe I'll just tell him he should turn his webcam on in his living room and record what he can. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He doesn't have many friends in the area. He did invite some people over last night, and one dude from his work showed up. He ended up leaving after like 20 minutes because he was uncomfortable, but at least he can be a witness to the situation. I love your idea though. If he could make that work it would be hilarious. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Trust me, if I were there, this would be a whole different situation. I'm athletic and 5'8 and apparently she's this petite little anorexic druggy chick. Things would be so. Fucking. Different. If I were there right now. It's torturous to hear my boyfriend struggle with her on the phone while I'm stuck here, unable to physically help him do anything. However, I don't want him to touch her because if she manages to writhe around in the right way it could look like he assaulted her from the injuri… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:26 PM |
| 9 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Sounds like a good idea. I will share this information with him when he wakes up and calls me. Thank you so much for your response. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Jesus Christ dude... I'm sorry. That's horrible. I hope our situation turns out differently :( | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Oh my gosh... that story scares me. I wouldn't be surprised if this is exactly what this girl's been doing. Yes, at the moment we are anticipating her leaving to go to work or go get food so he can just lock her out. I think she's knows it's coming though and is trying to put it off as long as possible. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I know :( The best we can do right now is stay on the phone with each other while it's all going down so I can know exactly what's going on. He locked himself in his room for the night so she couldn't get to him. He's moving back in a month, and I hope it's soon enough. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.That's... not what's going on. She wouldn't leave and guilt tripped him about being homeless, so he decided to try to be nice and let her stay on his couch for a few days. Now she really won't get out. He did the same thing a while ago with a guy, but he was much more compliant. Trust me, had he anticipated this, I'm sure he would have made better decisions early on. I warned him but he chose not to listen. Regardless, even if you see him as a douche, I don't think anyone deserves what he's goin… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I'm not a fucking troll. How dare you. I am a woman sharing my boyfriend's story of gender discrimination by the police to a subreddit that's all about male discrimination. I haven't come across any replies yet that I consider misogynistic yet, by the way (and trust me, it wouldn't slide - I'm an FRA as well). I don't even know how I would prove to you that I'm not lying, but you can go ahead and check my post/comments history and see I'm not a troll. If you don't like my story then by all means… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I don't appreciate your insulting him. His initial interaction of her was indeed skeezy but he's more than paid for his actions and apologized. He was trying to do something nice for someone who has nowhere to go. And he's not in California he's in Oklahoma, which my post mentions. I did post this for some advice but mostly I just thought the story was relevant to the MR movement. It's a clear case of gender based discrimination. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Man I wish we could get her out with an ultimatum like that! We already called the cops and even that didn't deter her; obviously because it didn't work... fucking cops... I can't believe this. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I don't know if he knows how to record our phone conversations :/ I certainly don't. I know he could easily use an app on his phone to record audio but I don't know if it would pick up our conversation. I feel like you have to do something different to record a phone conversation on your phone, if that makes any sense... | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Luckily he's actually moving back to California within the next month and a half or so. I don't think he has a lease... I think his landlord does everything month by month under the table with his tenants. He lives in a pretty shady complex. Even if he's leaving pretty soon, it's still a problem that she's there for any length of time, and the longer she stays, the bigger a problem it is. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.We're working on it! He's going to call me when he wakes up. He always wakes up very late due to his work schedule. It'll probably be some time around 1:30 or 2:00 p.m. PST that he calls me again. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I'm concerned about the drugs being in his house though. If they aren't on her but are in his house I'm afraid he'll be held responsible for them. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I did, and hopefully he tried. I never found out if he did. It honestly wouldn't surprise me if they not only ignored the evidence but found a way to use it against him. As I'm sure we're all aware, a lot of times in domestic disputes, the police will do more bad than good for a male party. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Right? Jesus Christ. This has never been more true. He dun fucked up. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I looked up the recording laws regarding conversations in OK and apparently it's one of those states where both parties have to be consenting in the recording otherwise it's useless. He could actually get fined for doing it, which wouldn't surprise me considering how much the law has already fucked him in this situation. I did push him to at least try to record her just in case; it doesn't mean he ever has to use it - it's just better to not need it and have it than need it and not have it, you … | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 02:01 PM |
| 11 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Good idea. I'll definitely mention this to him. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:54 PM |
| 50 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Haha I like that plan. I'll let him know about the cancelled check idea for sure. Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.That's what I'm trying to do. He's been so busy dealing with the situation that he's not documenting any of it. I'm writing down whatever he tells me just in case. As for your questions... apparently she's anorexic or something and doesn't eat much; boyfriend works nights; she is at his apartment alone at times; she does not go out so far as I know; he cannot take a day off. He has missed enough work to the point that if he misses again one more time in the next month he will be fired. I like th… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.She does quality control at the same place he works at. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He did, thank goodness. I don't think any officers have showed up to his apartment yet, but at least he called and got his word in first. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.Unfortunately he did acknowledge that he knows her already. Luckily, he never said she lives there which is good. I don't know if saying she's an intruder would work because I'm pretty sure his neighbors have witnessed her being there. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:13 PM |
| 9 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I live in a different state. It would be up to him to do all of this. He doesn't know a lot of people in Oklahoma because he's not from there and I have my doubts his acquaintances from work would help him. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 12:54 PM |
| 7 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.I understand you're being facetious here, but I would appreciate a healthy dose of discretion considering the severity of the situation. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 12:44 PM |
| 4 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He's tried that. She's not biting. I'm pretty sure she knew what he was up to. Luckily, she does have a job, so she will leave for work at some point. Maybe when she does he can lock her out that way. edit: spelling | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Currently listening to my long distance boyfriend being threatened by an insane woman in his house. Police say he cannot do anything to remove her.He has nowhere to go. He moved there with his ex a couple years ago not knowing anyone else there. When they broke up, the only people he knew were his coworkers. Most of his friends and family are in California. Unfortunately in Oklahoma it's not so easy to be homeless; the temperatures can drop to below freezing at night and they don't really have any public funding for public transportation or homeless shelters. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Why Do We Demonize Men Who Are Honest About Their Sexual Needs? Society pressures men to initiate sexual relationships, yet punishes them when they express their sexual needs.No, because I clearly don't care what you think. For some reason you think I'm some sort of judgmental bigot and I know I'm the complete opposite. I could argue with you but it's not worth my time to type out some long argument to indulge some douche on the internet. If it makes you happy to think I'm some bad person, go ahead. Life goes on. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 09:17 AM |
| -1 | Why Do We Demonize Men Who Are Honest About Their Sexual Needs? Society pressures men to initiate sexual relationships, yet punishes them when they express their sexual needs.Just shut up. You're annoying and if anyone is still in this thread you're embarrassing yourself, trust me. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Why Do We Demonize Men Who Are Honest About Their Sexual Needs? Society pressures men to initiate sexual relationships, yet punishes them when they express their sexual needs.Yeah, I'm not going to get into this pointless debate. I support gay rights and vote accordingly (in favor of all of them, I don't know why you think marriage would be exempt from that), a ton of my friends are gay, and I don't think it's anything special living right next to San Francisco. You find it offensive that I notice when people are gay? Well whatever. I pay more attention to a dude walking his dog. You're not making me or anyone else question my acceptance of human sexuality or standin… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/12 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Why Do We Demonize Men Who Are Honest About Their Sexual Needs? Society pressures men to initiate sexual relationships, yet punishes them when they express their sexual needs.Maybe it's because I'm in San Francisco all the time, but when I see a gay couple holding hands or kissing, the only extra attention I pay to them (if I notice them) is a momentary thought of, "Oh, they're gay." Otherwise I honestly don't pay them any special attention unless it comes up in a conversation or something. I support gay rights and vote in favor of them and will defend them if they are being shit upon by bigots, but I've never been to pride and I don't own any gay-pride type of memor… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/12 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Remember the Warren Farrell protest video? Of course you do. Well, now feminists are trying to get that removed from YouTube.“before we began calling this date rape, we called it exciting”. This is supposedly a quote from Warren Farrell that I read on the UTSU response. That's not something he actually said, right? Regardless, their reaction is threatening and inappropriate, but I am very curious to know if this guy actually said that. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/12 08:33 AM |
| 3 | Remember the Warren Farrell protest video? Of course you do. Well, now feminists are trying to get that removed from YouTube.So if you're a feminist who just assumes that all MRAs are rape apologists, you are probably suffering from epistemic closure Had to lol a little at "suffering." If you don't mind me saying, I think these people are all pretty pleased with themselves. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/12 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Feminist logic in regards to MRA'sSimilarly, I've dealt with the same crap from misogynists who misinterpret the MR movement. It's just bizarre how blatantly illogical people looking to hate the opposite gender can be. Good luck fighting the good fight, brother :) | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 07:54 AM |
| 11 | Jenny McCarthy grabs Justin Bieber's ass and kisses him on the neck without consent. Can you imagine the reaction if a 40-year-old man had done this to an 18-year-old girl?He's 18 now edit: not saying that makes it okay, just correcting the "assault on a minor" bit. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/12 09:32 PM |
| 1 | On a more positive note for men- my local thrift store made me smile today after I saw their updated sign... Craig's warehouse? | /r/MensRights | 21/10/12 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Feminists butcher congressman who warns young men to avoid women because "consensual sex can turn into rape in an awful hurry"I didn't ask them not to downvote me, I said if you do downvote me, have a valid reason. The past few times I've shared an even slightly controversial view in a MensRights thread I've just been downvoted into oblivion with no replies and it's frustrating. edit: note the ironic downvote sans explanation. Stay classy MR. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Feminists butcher congressman who warns young men to avoid women because "consensual sex can turn into rape in an awful hurry"I understand what he was trying to say, but I do find the phrase "Some girls rape easy" to be a little offensively worded. I think this might downplay what rape is to some of those people who actually did push it a little too far; it gives people who did do something wrong to think "I didn't hurt anyone; she just rapes easy." You know what I mean? I agree with what he meant and I do acknowledge that false rape accusations are an issue, but I don't think it's an issue that can be explained in one… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 06:33 PM |
| 1 | The double standard of having a choice on whether or not you want to be a parent.I certainly will! | /r/MensRights | 29/09/12 07:32 PM |
| 0 | The double standard of having a choice on whether or not you want to be a parent.Yes. Even in more "liberal" places - like where I live; the Pacific Coast of California - women are still condemned for their choice to abort. In other parts of the U.S. it is worse, but the hatred is not localized to one place. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/12 07:01 PM |
| 8 | The double standard of having a choice on whether or not you want to be a parent.Seriously? "She's pro-choice" is all society says? No, pretty sure it's something more along the lines of "murderous slut going to hell." I understand what the comic's trying to say - the women typically have more of a choice whereas men pretty much have no choice - but wow, I don't know if there was a worse way to put this. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/12 08:02 AM |
| 29 | "I then asked, 'How many of you women have hit or otherwise abused men?' Every hand went up."I hate that show for this reason. I just want to give Raymond a hug. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 07:39 PM |
| -1 | I get these type of text messages all the time. I'm sure a lot of you guys can relate. (Needless to say, I had to resist and I didn't reply)I doubt a lot of people will agree with this... but I don't really see how this is worthy of men's rights. It's just some dumb lady trying to piss you off and making stupid accusations. She didn't say anything sexist to you (or even anything about you being a man) and so far as I know your rights weren't infringed. She probably treats a lot of people like this, male and female, just because she's a bad person. I haven't seen anyone else say this though, so maybe I'm missing something. If someone… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/12 07:51 PM |
| 0 | I Had thought You guys were kidding, Until I met a real Reddit Feminist. Now I understand.It's especially infuriating when people with stupid, self-righteous, misguided ideals like this can't even communicate them correctly. For chissake, someone throw this shithead into a second grade English class. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/12 08:25 AM |
| 1 | So I was stopped by some lady Sunday at an amusement park...Eh... I just couldn't do that. If my kid was crying from an injury I couldn't sit and watch callously. Again, your prerogative to to whatever you want. I can think of 100's of examples of strangers trying to be nice where they are also not respecting boundaries. I completely agree. That, however, does not prove that strangers can't be helpful. Even if you disagree with what my mother did in regards to the little girl on the bike, surely you don't think I was crossing the line when I took that li… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/12 01:05 AM |
| 1 | So I was stopped by some lady Sunday at an amusement park...If you were right there with your kid then I agree, definitely unnecessary. I do think you over reacted a little bit, though - the lady was clearly not trying to hurt your kid. However, it's been established here that it is your prerogative to raise your child in whatever manner you please, so I'll just leave it at that. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/12 01:01 AM |
| 3 | So I was stopped by some lady Sunday at an amusement park...:( I don't know what to tell you. I certainly hope society quits being a bunch of jackasses though. I'm sure you'll be an awesome teacher. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/12 12:19 AM |
| 6 | So I was stopped by some lady Sunday at an amusement park...I completely understand why. My boyfriend said the same thing. I'm sorry you have to live like that. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 11:49 PM |
| 3 | So I was stopped by some lady Sunday at an amusement park...In regards to your edit: OP's situation was way different. Honestly I'd equate you more with the hostile woman he encountered than him. The woman you encountered was not trying to separate you from your children because she assumed you were a threat to your child. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 11:25 PM |
| 6 | So I was stopped by some lady Sunday at an amusement park...You know what? I was hanging out with my mom in front of our house a few months ago and this little girl from down the street was riding her bike and crashed. Nothing big, but the little girl fell and scraped her knee and immediately started crying. I froze because I didn't know what the best course of action would be, but my very maternal mother instantly runs over and helps the little girl up and calms her down while her dad runs over. He thanked my mom and took his little girl home. I honestl… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 11:20 PM |
| 8 | Crazy Landlord Assaults Man, Realizes It Was On Camera Then Acts Like He Raped HerI honestly had to stop the video because it was making me uncomfortable to watch her... what a nut bar | /r/MensRights | 04/09/12 01:44 AM |
| 5 | [x-post from 4chan]Anon gets a fair shake after being assaulted by 4 girlsYeah - I bet even /b/ would have a good laugh at someone trying to call them egalitarians. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/12 01:37 AM |
| 15 | [x-post from 4chan]Anon gets a fair shake after being assaulted by 4 girlsThey're not putting down feminists, they're putting down women in general. Not all women are feminists, nor do all women put down men. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/12 01:08 AM |
| 36 | [x-post from 4chan]Anon gets a fair shake after being assaulted by 4 girlsEqual treatment? Are you serious? If it has to do with a woman or a non-white person they destroy it. "Woman logic" and "Nigger logic" threads are so common it's disgusting. There has to be at least a couple every day that receive hundreds of bumps and positive responses. I love that website sometimes; there is some funny, crazy shit on there - but don't even try to say they promote equal treatment. They promote the white man's rights and justice - and sometimes it'll lead to sweet, victorious s… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/12 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Teen Girl hit man - hahahah , man hit teen girl - monsterGlad you think so. These kids are just an embarrassment to society. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/12 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Teen Girl hit man - hahahah , man hit teen girl - monsterUgh... I was a little goth kid once and I never did this. We used to just smoke, drink coffee, listen to death rock and wander around graveyards. When did this psycho shit come into play? This isn't the first time I've seen something like this. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/12 07:37 AM |
| 1 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditIt's so mentally stimulating though! :) | /r/MensRights | 30/06/12 05:18 AM |
| 1 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditThat's very unfortunate that that's what you believe this place to be. Sorry you had to encounter such ignorance from someone to make you think that. Maybe you will remain one of the many men who will never face problems (being falsely accused of a sexual crime; losing your children in a divorce battle; being mocked for being a nurse, etc.) that might lead you to seek comfort here. Good for you; I would wish no different upon you. However, there are some men who face these problems and probably … | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 10:43 AM |
| 4 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditNo, I legitimately frequent both TwoX and MensRights. I contribute comments to both; critical and agreeable. It doesn't matter what sub I'm in though - when I see people like you just trying to hurt someone's feelings for a laugh... I don't know. I feel like I have to say something. I have noticed a lot of people don't really think about how that text on the screen they're insulting for fun as another person somewhere with feelings. I just like to remind people - because personally, that's not s… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 10:25 AM |
| 5 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditThe one spouting hatred and nonsense. Going to a sub that perpetuates a message that you strongly disagree with to debate people is not trolling to me. Throwing around hurtful insults and pretentious bullshit and fucking with people is trolling. Have a great life getting your entertainment from such negative things. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 09:39 AM |
| 9 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditAh, I get it. You're the troll. Touché; you got me. What a suprising turn of events... | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 09:25 AM |
| 9 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditNo, I'm serious. You really can't come up with a legitimate response, can you? You mocked me, saying you farted and what not - so I offered a defensive rebuttal. Now that you have photographic evidence of me being a woman, not a troll and such, will you kindly indulge in some decent conversation with me? Those questions I posted, if you forgot are: From comment 1: Why do you come in here just to try to hurt people's feelings? Does that make you feel good, to hurt anonymous people over the intern… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 09:08 AM |
| 5 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditGood for you. Hope you let some hot air out of your head so you can come back down to Earth. Now, how about a legitimate response? Woman to woman here - no evil men to muck this up. Do you think being so aggressive and mean will accomplish anything for you? Why not initiate polite debate? Or, even more simply - respectfully disagree? And do you get satisfaction out of hurting random people on the internet? | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 08:39 AM |
| 15 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditI downvoted you, as a woman, because in my opinion, it's condescending, aggressive women like you who make the fight for equal rights for women look so bad to so many people. Why do you come in here just to try to hurt people's feelings? Does that make you feel good, to hurt anonymous people over the internet? You know that won't fix any hurt you're feeling, right? | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 08:21 AM |
| 2 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditI think you're an egalitarian, not a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 08:12 AM |
| 15 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditYep - that's one thing as an egalitarian woman that I've always hated about the term "feminism" - it's inherently unequal. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 08:08 AM |
| 32 | To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with redditWow, I just checked and it's true. That's sad. I think the problem is that in such a thread, be it related to the plight of men or the plight of women - people are all worked up and ready to attack any possibly, even slightly opposing view. I frequent both MensRights and TwoX, and I see this happen all too often. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 07:55 AM |
| 6 | Dublin is a paradise for whom?This is confusing... is this person trying to use this picture as an example to support this claim? That is a woman attacking that woman with the baby right? | /r/MensRights | 25/06/12 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Got this chain mail today. It came from the HR dept. ಠ_ಠSo, I'm here to point out something a little more shallow: 1) Katherine Mcphee is not between 41 and 50, she's 28 2) Jane Fonda is not between 51 and 60, she's 74 Your HR department is idiotic on many levels. I feel sorry for you and I hope someone gets in big trouble for sending this out. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Cool ways to say that you're an engineer?Let Wolowitz from Big Bang Theory be your guru. Dude is smooooooth. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 07:05 AM |
| 4 | Life hacks/Pro Tips/Bro TipsBravo - seriously impressed female over here. You made me want to clean my room and sexify it :] One thing to add: FUCKIN MINTS! So sexy to go in for a kiss and the guys mouth tastes clean. That might be a no-brainer though. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Bro, you are blogging about anonymous users on a website. You might want to step back and re-evaluate everything you have done in your life leading up to this moment.It's the thought that counts. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/11 04:19 AM |
| 5 | Bro, you are blogging about anonymous users on a website. You might want to step back and re-evaluate everything you have done in your life leading up to this moment.I don't think anyone would pull the "reddiquette" card on you if you deleted those posts. You're a mod for an excellent sub and shit like that is going to give people (especially people against r/mensrights) the wrong idea. The only way us redditors know anything about you is through your posts and your comments, and those two posts stick out like a sore thumb, man. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/11 11:42 PM |
| 8 | Bro, you are blogging about anonymous users on a website. You might want to step back and re-evaluate everything you have done in your life leading up to this moment.Yeah, okay. You still posted in r/beatingwomen for karma. As a mod of r/mensrights, I would expect a little more integrity to the standards that you are supposed to represent here. I come here as a woman actually wanting equality for men and women looking to educate myself on current events relating to sexism against males, and I just found out a mod here posted to a blatantly misogynist forum. Are you for mens' rights or for exploiting female stupidity? I will still come here because I love thi… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/11 11:22 PM |
| 13 | Bro, you are blogging about anonymous users on a website. You might want to step back and re-evaluate everything you have done in your life leading up to this moment.Wait - but you actually did post a video where women were getting hit in r/beatingwomen? Why the fuck would you even post there? That subreddit is exactly what a crazed feminist would use to call men sexist, violent pigs and it goes against a lot of what I thought this sub was promoting (men and women should be treated equally, men should not be assumed violent, not all men are sexist, etc). Edit: Oh my god you did actually post there. I'm confused now. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/11 09:20 PM |
| -2 | And this is justifiable how??Well every word has a meaning behind it (that's called semantics), so I'm not apologizing for comprehending our language it was meant to be. Maybe try saying what you mean. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/11 08:39 AM |
| 14 | And this is justifiable how??2XC? You guys know that's not r/feminisms, right? It's a sub dedicated to feminine discussions and topics, not man-bashing. In fact, that chart about public opinions on rape and males that made the front page here the other day was originally posted on 2XC by a the creator - a woman. Really amazes me how often people misunderstand that sub. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/11 08:15 AM |
| 1 | And this is justifiable how??when im high i like to talk sexist FTFY. Have some respect man. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/11 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Only Women can Stop Child AbuseThank you for explaining that. I'm not going to lie - I was totally confused and was scared to ask for clarification. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/11 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Mom sends nude photographs of herself to her friend’s 16-year-old son and pleads guilty to online solicitation of a minor. She's sentenced to five years’ probation. What would happen if a father sends nude photos to his friend's 16-year-old daughter?Read on fellow redditor - it said internet in general, I believe. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/11 09:21 AM |
| 22 | Mom sends nude photographs of herself to her friend’s 16-year-old son and pleads guilty to online solicitation of a minor. She's sentenced to five years’ probation. What would happen if a father sends nude photos to his friend's 16-year-old daughter?5 years without the internet? Dear lord... I personally consider this a fair punishment considering the minor was at the legal age of consent - but yes, I agree that it would probably be upheld only for a woman. A man would likely receive an unnecessarily long/harsh sentence that would be a further waste of my tax dollars. Damned American legal system... | /r/MensRights | 15/11/11 08:34 PM |
| -3 | Office sexism?I see what you're getting at - but skin color is not the same thing as gender. Different genders have different hormones, which means they might bond over different things. The same doesn't necessarily go for skin color. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/11 08:12 PM |
| 16 | Cosmo puts in its two cents on how to prevent sexual assault.I also raged at the fact that they said "men, make sure your friends aren't raping people." What about female rapists? | /r/MensRights | 07/11/11 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Man sues university, its dean of diversity, for discrimination in handling of sexual assault charge against himThis guy's a badass... I hope other men discriminated against can/will take note. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/11 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Fuck that mentality.Well I live next to a lot of peoples who are home all the time... Also in a condo so my neighbors could hear me through the walls. Thanks much for your concern though! :3 | /r/MensRights | 24/09/11 04:22 AM |
| 12 | Fuck that mentality.I, a woman, actually had to do this myself today. I'm sitting here alone, not expecting anyone, and there's a knock at the door. I was a bit caught off guard, but I went and answered it, and guess who it was? The fucking mailman dropping off a package for my roommate. Big whoop. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/11 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Site encourages women to take pictures of men on London underground without their knowledge, then upload them so their appearance and clothes can be rated and bitched on - but men taking photos of women is not allowed as 'it feels different'.I wish they would have gone into deeper detail about this concern in the story. It was like a little snippet, like it didn't even matter to the reporter. I mean, as "subtle" as female-on-male sexism is considered to be - that was pretty damned blatant. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/11 07:38 PM |
| 30 | Found this on r/fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu... I find it pertinent...That picture went from striking empathy to jealousy. Suddenly because a guy compliments the girl, she's competition. Pathetic. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/11 10:02 PM |
| 0 | Reported Fake Rape Story On Reddit Massively UpvotedYou did a good thing, sir. I'm sorry that you had to deal with so much stupidity and craziness, but someone needed to say something. Thanks for being that guy. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/11 09:05 AM |
| 2 | :(Good for you man; you make me proud. That's how shit should be. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/11 06:44 AM |
| 8 | I am fucking tired of being perceived as a pervert for being attracted to women and their bodiesA Guy will be out at a club or a bar, right? And a girl walks by and man she looks good. Not “Good” in that classical way, I’m talkin “good” like she got half her ass hangin’ out her skirt her boobs are poppin out the top of her turtle neck and shit! And you’re with your buddies, got a couple drinks in you, and you wanna talk to her but it might not come out right, you don’t know. Boy: “DAMN LOOK AT THEM TITTIES!!” And she gets mad at you! Girl: “OH! Wait a minute! WAIT A MINUTE! Just because I’… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/11 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I am fucking tired of being perceived as a pervert for being attracted to women and their bodiesIsn't it interesting that even though it's seen as perverted it's used against you in like 60% of video advertisements? Hmm.. what bastards. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/11 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I made one little post to /r/againstmensrights and they got scaredThat's a subreddit? Oh lawd. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/11 04:25 AM |
| 1 | :(Indeed it is! Good call. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/11 08:33 PM |
| 2 | :(Well sir, I believe you are the condescending one now! And I agree with what you said; just felt like throwing my little sentiment out there. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/11 08:40 AM |
| 9 | :(That sort of cultural acceptance of the man having to leave the house or sleep on the couch during a dispute has always enraged me. If I were a man and my wife told me to get out... she would get a serious lecture about maturity and fairness, she would. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/11 08:01 AM |
| 2 | "For decades, women have been inundated with unrealistic, thin images in magazines, movies, ads and other media outlets. And now, men are also feeling the pressure for physical perfection, surrounded by unattainable images of muscular physiques, six-pack abs, bulging biceps and lean bodies."I met a guy in my English class freshman year at university who was totally affected by these standards. He was a decent looking guy - not quite my type, but somebody's; he was in good shape and a real sweetheart. Anyway, he told me he had body dismorphic disorder and he got down on himself occasionally and it was very depressing. I think in the media there's just as much if not more pressure on men - because you all have one body type that's popular: buff. Women can be curvy, skinny, athletic o… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/11 08:50 AM |
| 2 | explains so much . . .(ht kleinblo00)Oh my god... those subreddits are VILE. Thank you for posting this. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/11 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Woman Cut Off Husband's Penis, Threw It in Garbage Disposal: Note the commentsNo I get it... However, I feel the need to assure you that we do not have different opinions on what the legal verdict of this woman should be. :/ I'm not trying to work against you man, I'm trying to resolve what I see to be a pointless disagreement. I'm sorry if what I said misconstrued that message in some way. That woman deserves a life sentence or near life sentence! That's all I'm trying to say, and I think that's all anyone else is trying to say. I just think it's silly that people who fu… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Woman Cut Off Husband's Penis, Threw It in Garbage Disposal: Note the commentsHey! You guys, I think the point here is that we all agree that this act of violence was completely wrong and disgusting. We shouldn't have to dissect anyone's argument and prove them wrong when we all believe the same thing: this bitch was crazy, and she should be very harshly punished for what she did. You guys both agree with each other in that respect, right? What else is there to prove? That one person is smarter/more eloquent/informed than the other? Come on :] That's not the point, yo. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/11 07:51 AM |
| 12 | Woman Cut Off Husband's Penis, Threw It in Garbage Disposal: Note the commentsWomen like these (Catherine Becker, Pam, other violent man-haters) are giving good women a bad name. I'm so sorry all you guys have to read this and know that she's probably not going to be adequately sentenced. If a man genitally mutilated a woman, this would be much bigger news and he would get a harsh sentence. It's not fair to all of you. Sorry :[ | /r/MensRights | 12/07/11 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I think my wife might be baby-crazy and I'm afraid of being trapped in a loveless marriage with a high-conflict woman who constantly guilt-trips me and isolates me from family.Think about it like this: if the tables were turned and you were treating her like this, you would be considered by society an abusive husband - emotionally, and borderline physically - and you would get a lot of crap for it. Not many people would consider it abuse when a woman does this to a man, but it is. Abuse is gender neutral. GTFO of that relationship, and if you can't bring yourself to do it, I would recommend getting a counselor to help you. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/11 07:27 PM |
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