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Have an actual life.
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:30 PM
-2

Neither. If ur already asking you dont need it.
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:04 PM
8

You're attractive but you suck at everything else.
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:04 PM
5

Lmao she did not break up over dick size.
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:31 PM
1

Not to say it doesnt happen but ive never seen anyone think this.
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:30 PM
2

Meet other girls, date other girls. This is the easiest way. Please use the search function. The answer doesnt change over the years. Its been this way for millenias.
/r/seduction22/07/19 05:02 PM
1

One way you can find out is be very upfront about you being interested. But its very likely she isnt interested.
/r/seduction22/07/19 05:01 PM
1

If youre willing to put up with the risks then go for it. Its not gonna be easy though but i dont see why it cant be great relationship.
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:57 PM
3

You'll change your mind. You're young. People say this because they havent been in a good one. When you are loved by another its a special feeling.
/r/seduction21/07/19 06:40 PM
1

She has too many problems to deal with long term besides a fling. Move on.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:15 PM
1

U wont to much success. But the reality is you need to tell it to him directly in a non judgemental manner.
/r/seduction19/07/19 11:43 PM
3

The same fuckin reason men do. They have to think about it? Why ur life so slow you care how fast they reply? If its an emergency call
/r/seduction19/07/19 11:42 PM
2

Does she give you head? Then you should do it. Sex is about giving. Also its fun once you get into it instead of treating it like a chore. Most guys if they put some passion into it can make a girl cum with oral vs just penis
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:06 PM
3

Keep hanging out. Stop overthinking this. If its meant to be it will happen if you spend time together
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:39 PM
1

Shes a hooker now.
/r/seduction11/05/19 04:47 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction11/05/19 04:46 AM
1

Im not talking about rdj. Im talking about his character. They wrote him to be likeable despite asshole.
/r/seduction07/05/19 05:43 AM
1

I mean hes obviously an asshole but one people like. Because he is being himself.
/r/seduction07/05/19 02:25 AM
1

This thread is one giant cringe.
/r/seduction25/04/19 05:04 PM
2

It sounds like you were being genuinely cocky and arrogant. Nevermind then.
/r/seduction25/02/19 12:18 AM
3

Rolling the dice is better than nothing. In fact its superior to most other guys. Dont underestimate people getting lucky. Dont think you are better than them.
/r/seduction24/02/19 08:26 PM
0

The really attractive ones at clubs arent going home with you lol.
/r/seduction23/02/19 09:13 PM
10

If u dont u might be gay
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:17 AM
1

This is all this sub is nowadays. Just dudes writing stuff like this and projecting. I cant take anything at face value now. Really too many beginners teaching beginners. Sure this isnt science but cmon folks.
/r/seduction26/01/19 09:22 PM
1

Most advice here is just telephone from some. Guy who read it on the internet or a youtube video and never even tried it
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:45 PM
1

The fuck is this. If you want to be a virgin go for it.
/r/seduction13/01/19 06:56 PM
3

Most girls at work were already a no go because its work. I doubt you changed their minds.
/r/seduction13/01/19 06:14 PM
2

Why meet with your ex at all? What benefit does it provide?
/r/seduction28/12/18 11:50 PM
1

Its not that hard.
/r/seduction22/12/18 11:22 PM
2

if you dont text to confirm you're pretty much going to have people flaking on you because they have an excuse (Oh i thought you weren't coming). all you have to do is "still on tomorrow or today?" honestly this is so irrelevant, just be normal and how you are with anyone like your friends. you check up with them right? but you dont do incessantly and like a tryhard right?
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:59 AM
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what i mean is examine the reason you give her a compliment. don't give her the compliment if it's meant to curry favor or get her to like you. there are other more effective less needy ways to do that. DO give her a compliment if you genuinely think whatever it is looks nice. but imagine if you kept giving her compliments like that, then you're essentially looking dishonest. compliments are meaningful when sparingly used and actually from the heart. in general just avoid compliments in the begi…
/r/seduction21/12/18 06:29 AM
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do not make compliments if you want her to like you. do make compliments if you want to give her a compliment.
/r/seduction21/12/18 06:16 AM
2

Welcome to society
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:15 AM
8

This guy wants to be the greatest pickup artist in the world. Follow your dreams but make sure your dreams are actually something positive and not retarded like that.
/r/seduction17/12/18 10:30 PM
2

it just wont work buddy. you can try to have sex a few times but whatever problems and issues will come up and complicate it again. if you just need to get it in and don't care about anything else just establish that right away though it still wont work. but atleast she has no one to blame but herself.
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:55 AM
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I tell her to get the fuck out, block her on everything. You sound like an asshole and insecure. This poor girl probably already had low confidence and self esteem from the sound of it and your pathetic selfish attitude made it worse. You're right, don't dumpster dive but you should take a closer look at your attitude towards other people. You got a lot to work on kid.
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:49 AM
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I dont see being fwb with my ex as a bad idea, i assume we both male and female have our own sexual needs. and who else other than ex would be a better candidate as we’re already somewhat comfortable with each other? this is just my thought, not sure if it is the right call though. you act like love, sex, and emotions are as logical as you think. they are not, they are complicated and not something you can analyze like that. feel free to proceed but don't be surprised.
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:47 AM
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you can't be fwb with your ex. wtf
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:46 AM
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It's mostly talk and not proven to be statistically relevant in regards to dating.
/r/seduction15/12/18 07:56 AM
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Why would you have so much value and emotion into someone you only are with because of work? Yeah you guys fuck and have fun but shes not even doing shit with you outside of work trips lol. I never understood this. You are sad because you probably never invested time into meeting women outside of work. You used that crutch and now you face the consequences of that. Workplace hookups are just that, dont ever put value into it or things get messy. Just be happy this is just personal.
/r/seduction15/12/18 12:22 AM
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You probably wont get aids from one time unprotected vaginal sex fyi. Id risk it if no baby lol.
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:51 PM
3

You really can't find someone else to bang? You just HAVE to bang this girl?
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:23 PM
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you're a 17 year old, stop worrying about having a one night stand. i don't recommend it at all, whoever would want to bang a 17 year old is probably most of these inexperienced a creep has some illness or repulsive trait go find a girl you have a connection with dude and go through proper dating. fuck me this sub needs an age filter.
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:13 PM
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you could've given it another try, if she still said no you should just go home. do not stay around.
/r/seduction11/12/18 10:05 PM
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now you dont have to worry about that shit. congrats
/r/seduction11/12/18 10:03 PM
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weird question but generally speaking less developed countries for someone who is from a developed one.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:56 PM
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This is the best advice but dont be surprised they still dont reply. It's 99% based on if you're attractive and whatever he state of mind is (she might just look at the attention she gets when shes low self esteem) just to offer perspective i've had fwbs show me their tinders voluntarily and they leave 99% of messages on unread and they get a ton. i asked them hey this guy had a funny line or he's a pretty good looking guy you wanna ignore him just to see if i could learn what exactly goes on an…
/r/seduction11/12/18 12:25 AM
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If they are single, I tend to waste months before asking them out (and finding out that they start dating someone else). what are you doing exactly that you know someone for months before asking them out? almost all these relationships are doomed into "friend" category. you wanna establish interest sexually early on.
/r/seduction11/12/18 12:23 AM
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it's to avoid being clingy and having your world focused around this girl you barely know. if you aren't clingy and live your life and text messages are not that relevant (IE i can also drop this convo in an instant without regret or thought after) then you can text girls all you want.
/r/seduction11/12/18 12:20 AM
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You can first have a less pitiful pathetic attitude towards yourself. Then you can accept yes there are some disadvantages that you can face especially as a minority in a predominantly White western society. But everyone is born with something that can be considered a disadvantage, that doesn't mean it can't become neutral or even an ADVANTAGE. Also I really don't see so many Asian girls with white guys. you're facing confirmation bias, you think it happens so when you see it happen you ignore t…
/r/seduction07/12/18 10:11 PM
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Yeah but like you should realize if you take even one serving of alcohol that means you're not sober. You might be able to control yourself more than say 10 shots of alcohol sure. And it's very easy to smell it.
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:36 AM
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You can't be sober if you drank alcohol.
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:33 AM
2

Be forward in a playful manner. Like it's all just for fun and you don't care about rejection. It's why you want to live a process focused life, not just a results focused life. You might be treating it like it's some sort of sales thing and way too aggressive.
/r/seduction27/11/18 09:13 PM
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I think you just have bad luck man. Maybe you're taking too long to ask them out too. Keep at it. I really can't speak with authority since I don't know your personality. A lot of girls just think guys who are forward can be creepy unless they are just so charismatic (you probably aren't).
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:43 PM
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like any other girl you see on the street.
/r/seduction23/11/18 02:30 AM
1

You should see a therapist. If you cant love your parents its clearly something that should be discussed and dealt with. Its not healthy to be this angry and hateful towards them.
/r/seduction20/11/18 06:29 PM
0

Why dont you talk about stuff you find interesting?
/r/seduction20/11/18 06:26 PM
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Tbh it sounds more like older women are attracted to you and thats because youth is attractive to them Nothing about that is unusual. Older people want to find younger mates
/r/seduction20/11/18 05:48 PM
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Saying Hi to everyone is practice. I do not expect you to be doing that as a routine. I expect you to do it as a way to think "hey its not a big fucking deal to say shit to people even if its a little weird". Thats why I said you graduate from it. It would be a little stupid to be doing 5 pound weights after 3 months at the gym no? Because guess what if you sit around thinking oh man approaching women is a little weird and people are gonna judge me which they are then you will never do it.
/r/seduction20/11/18 05:45 PM
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say hi to everyone you see then graduate to saying hi and remarking something about them through a joke or compliment then graduate to saying hi and making an actual convo and getting their number you really have to treat every person the same and this is the best way to do it because you're doing to EVERYONE. you practice this for a few weeks (really not actual weeks because im assuming you will do this for an hour or so when you're free).
/r/seduction19/11/18 11:25 PM
1

the likelihood of you getting the bad form of herpes from kissing is nil. oral herpes is a negligible disease.
/r/seduction19/11/18 07:35 PM
3

I'll answer this. The chase is fun and exciting. The atmosphere in nightlife attracts certain kinds of people and I can find my type easier. Also a lot of my relationships are from one night stands and I feel more comfortable starting things extremely sexual and moving from there to a more emotional connection etc.
/r/seduction19/11/18 07:56 AM
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What I learned is that most people are nice and won't reject you in a cruel way but are rather pleasant about it.
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:58 PM
1

you made her friend an enemy.
/r/seduction16/11/18 04:24 AM
1

I doubt you're that ugly man. Unless you have a severe deformity or skin condition I wouldn't do it.
/r/seduction16/11/18 04:22 AM
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Move on. Don't reply, she's not interested. She just wants you as a backup stool to sit on. These kind of questions are interesting though. Because the issue guys are having is not that they can't figure out how to "attract" these flakers. It's the fact they are so dependent on this potential person to say yes and be attracted to them (because they unfortunately don't have any options) they don't want to give up on them even though they should. If you have to ask, you already know the answer...y…
/r/seduction16/11/18 12:57 AM
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Doesnt work Also doesnt cost any effort so why not
/r/seduction13/11/18 03:44 AM
0

Watch porn, imitate it, fail, get experience from failing. Same as anything in life. Except failing is still fun for the most part.
/r/seduction12/11/18 06:32 PM
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the fuck kind of girls do you attract....also your friends are pieces of shit.
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:41 AM
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yeah people lie a lot. women are always confused on their feelings. i bet if you stop texting her, she'll be very clingy or upset. tread carefully.
/r/seduction09/11/18 09:19 PM
1

yes because nobody has 100% failure rate.
/r/seduction08/11/18 08:17 PM
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It sounds like you don't really need to flirt lol. If you have a great convo then just ASK THEM OUT. If you are so happy and pleased with yourself it'll show in conversation. No need to flirt, that's simply a form of communication to demonstrate what I said.
/r/seduction08/11/18 03:36 AM
3

For your specific situation? Please give more details. Is she a classmate? Do you know her before? What did you guys talk about. Generally speaking, you can't. A first impression is a first impression for a reason UNLESS she is in your friends circle and is around a lot. Then it's quite obvious isn't it? Be a man, dress well, look good, and ask her out.
/r/seduction08/11/18 03:15 AM
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New to what? Girl has feelings because you keep fucking and spending time together How do I make her not have feelings! How do I turn off her brain! Yeah I'm the new one here. You want to undo basic human psychology and conditioning. Find a new girl once she acts this way or be exclusive. I'm being nice to you so relax on the condescension. EDIT: Actually I thought of a way, you can start making it a transactional relationship but in that case you would have to lose money so....
/r/seduction08/11/18 02:16 AM
3

Any other answer will lead to the problem again
/r/seduction08/11/18 02:04 AM
1

Break it off. There is no better way.
/r/seduction08/11/18 01:37 AM
1

Imagine if you had cancer knew you would die in 2 weeks. Would you care about being a depressed idiot afraid of doing daring uncomfortable shit for fun or live those two weeks to your max? So why really as a fully healthy and capable individual are you wasting time when millions of people arent as fortunate as you
/r/seduction06/11/18 06:32 AM
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heres the thing: if someone is interested in you, they will keep the convo flowing and interesting (unless they are obscenely shy). one of the ways you can tell you have no chance and she isnt interested? she doesn't talk much especially when you ask some questions.
/r/seduction06/11/18 05:15 AM
2

You don't handle anything. What difference does this make.
/r/seduction06/11/18 12:08 AM
1

meh this is such a negative take on it that doesn't help anyone and isn't even true. whatever "points" mean to you is irrelevant to anyone else. every mate someone has is specific to their needs. not your arbitrary judgements.
/r/seduction05/11/18 11:20 PM
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Things are difficult logistically. People don't want to constantly travel to date new people. Easier the better.
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:55 AM
1

pees on cars He's a liar.
/r/seduction25/10/18 01:09 AM
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better than most girls who will just ghost. she told you why.
/r/seduction21/10/18 08:47 PM
1

you can't get rejected in a social gathering
/r/seduction21/10/18 01:11 AM
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it sounds like she just wants attention because she doesn't like her boyfriend. play the waiting game, the breakup will happen soon.
/r/seduction18/10/18 06:20 PM
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it's all in your head. you should go see a doctor. i'm not sure how not fapping is supposed to change anything. if you can't get hard around woman it has nothing to do with your testosterone. it's about your mental state with women.
/r/seduction15/10/18 07:12 AM
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nope a bad strat. i'm assuming if you bring a girl home you've already kissed her. that means she's pretty down to fuck if she wanted to come back with you. all you need to do is make the move. it's basically understood that fucking is probably going to happen unless the man screws it up (he's suddenly a turnoff, he takes too long to escalate to sex, his house is utter shit) or there's something out of the guys control (she doesn't have sex on first dates, she has a period, etc. etc.) even if sh…
/r/seduction15/10/18 07:09 AM
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You act like bar game is so easy with all of this sexual harassment bullshit going on. i guarantee if you actually sexually harassed someone you would get away with it every time. so if you ARENT a sexual harasser then absolutely nothing would happen to you.
/r/seduction14/10/18 02:32 AM
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Anyways, it was a relatively uneventful night (didn't get any numbers or anything). And feeling dejected, I found myself at a strip club at the end of the night. Don't do that. You're gonna make it a habit. If you feel like shit because the night sucked just go home and feel like shit and sleep it off. And remember it's part of the process. Every day is a restart, what happened before is irrelevant.
/r/seduction14/10/18 01:05 AM
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Most people aren't gonna have sex with you if their coworkers can find out. They already don't want to sleep with people if their FRIENDS find out. Your best bet is just be friendly and find someone who acts a little flirty and extra. Or just do the same thing as usual when finding women but not give a shit about some consequences that can be very damn awkward. But you're right, people look for casual sex anywhere but the barriers of entry for work conferences are really high. You might need to …
/r/seduction14/10/18 12:07 AM
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I mean hanging out for an extended period time with someone you have romantic interest in is a date. Its not a bad thing bro!
/r/seduction13/10/18 10:25 PM
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i'm pretty sure the answer to that question is the same as flirting with anyone. if he doesn't flirt back it's because he doesn't want to. i suppose you can use force to make him flirt with you. like get a gun and point it at his head. that should work.
/r/seduction13/10/18 09:44 PM
5

how about you don't do that?
/r/seduction13/10/18 09:34 PM
1

You asked her out when you guys already went on a date lol. Hope you guys have a good time!
/r/seduction13/10/18 09:34 PM
2

I am a 24 year old male virgin who currently lives with my dad in Las Vegas. go on the strip, go to clubs and bars and just hit on everyone you see. you're gonna get laid. maybe twice in a night if you really go at it.
/r/seduction11/10/18 06:28 PM
0

joining a weekly class?
/r/seduction11/10/18 02:35 AM
1

plus, it isn't the easiest thing for me to do to go up to a random girl and talk to her. You are going to struggle anywhere then. But i woild recommend doing a group hobby
/r/seduction11/10/18 02:28 AM
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Group or solo is irrelevant once you feel good. But groups and wingmen might make you feel good from the beginning. The issue with solo is a lot of people never feel comfortable and feel stiff. That's why you gotta boost yourself by just talking to everyone and getting anxiety out of the system.
/r/seduction11/10/18 02:18 AM
1

Why do you want to be in her circle first? Just ask her out.
/r/seduction11/10/18 02:12 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction11/10/18 02:11 AM
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These are a bit better than the other awful examples. But dont open with these.
/r/seduction11/10/18 02:00 AM
1

Nobody do these unless they are a 10
/r/seduction11/10/18 01:56 AM
1

they're retarded? really, everyone can be lonely money and fame does not change it. if anything it makes more sense to be alone at the top. there's fewer humans who can relate to you at all.
/r/seduction09/10/18 01:58 AM
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i was gonna unfollow her cause shes a thot but first i messaged her saying it's also possible to send nudes on ig and she asked me what im expecting her to answer that you're gonna need to be more creative with trolling
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:47 PM
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Nah man, you def can do some of those things. I would give it a shot. Ask your therapist about it.
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:32 PM
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Except it doesn't end with you keeping your mouth shut. Just like you being an experienced rider doesn't end with you ending up as splatter on the concrete from a driver who doesn't check his blindspots.
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:31 PM
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if they should. Yes they shouldnt then. General advice is you shouldnt ride a motorcycle given the risk. It's not for everyone. And experienced bikers would agree with me. Not everyone should ride a bike like it's a car. But they do it regardless of the heightened risk. That doesn't mean the risk isn't there. Now what you're doing is pretending that risk is meaningless and doesn't matter at all when it absolutely does and it's something one should be highly aware of when riding a motorcycle. But…
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:27 PM
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changing your state of mind doesn't just start and end with thinking differently. there's ways to improve your general outlook in life towards positive thinking and loving yourself. some things off the top the of my head that can help accomplishments (promotions, meeting your fitness goals, etc.) group activities (do things with other people esp new people, things that you WANT to do) travel/vacation (i a week getaway somewhere new that you've never been to can make your whole month feel awesome…
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:11 PM
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So how is this different than Fuckin any other girl? Once you fuck any girl, there’s ganna be drama. i'll give you a chance to think about this. the answer is pretty obvious and i've explained it to you already. You act like you’re the first to discover this. Again, OP asked if anyone has fucked a teacher and how to go about it. I have and told him if he chooses to do it, don’t fucking tell a soul. it's the equivalent of asking has anyone shot themselves in the foot before? please tell me how to…
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:07 PM
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ya it is, loneliness is is being sad when you are alone there's so many celebrities and famous people who have plenty of relationships and are adored by so many who feel lonely too.
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:05 PM
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I didn’t say that. If she acts irrationally, she gets in trouble more so than him. I think you don't understand irrational behavior. It's not logical. She wouldn't think "Wow I since I fucked this guy I can't be upset by what he's doing that. he has the advantage here". have you ever dated women? they do bizarre things when they're upset and if you try to use logic to solve a conflict you won't win. Irrational people don't follow common sense or logic. They often act AGAINST their self interests…
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:58 PM
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stop fucking posting on reddit. you are not helping whatever issue you have. your post history resembles a sociopath. go seek professional help.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:42 PM
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Do you think someone who is a teacher wants to have sex with a student would act rationally and mature if he broke it off with her and basically used her to get off once? What kind of advice are you really giving here? That you think she's a logical mature human being with no personal problems, that's why she would want to have sex with her students? No it's the opposite. She's going to be all drama and problems. And she would act unreasonably if something goes wrong (including things that are s…
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:39 PM
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And if she wants to date him? Or she catches feelings and he has to break it off?
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:23 PM
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Lmfao write another post about it? You'll need to be a bit more convincing than believing this place has even 1% of answers to most peoples problems.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:22 PM
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no....you don't get it. if he doesn't like the relationship and breaks it off (will happen) and she gets upset about it she will make his life a living hell. or it'll be so awkward to go to class etc. etc. the chance of them having a long lasting relationship is unlikely given the situation this relationship would begin with.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:04 PM
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sure sure, but you don't want to pick up ones with guaranteed drama that can screw up other parts of your life (school).
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:01 PM
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It sounds something a nice guy would do, sure it takes balls, but it expresses too much interest on one girl. A nice guy wouldn't do what I said. That takes confidence and not caring what other people think because you put yourself out there for people to potentially laugh at you. I’d like to keep my options open and only express when I’m comfortable. Then you'll be waiting forever my man. But do whatever you'd like then. There is no rigid process in place.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:00 PM
1

The answer is that it depends. Not something reliable though.
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:57 PM
1

You aren't blowing your chances with other girls by having fun. No matter what other girls say.
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:56 PM
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i have never done it no. but it opens up drama you don't want in your life. so unless you think this is the only way you can ever get laid....
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:55 PM
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lmfao what the fuck dude? dont do this. don't have sex with your teacher.
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:53 PM
1

If you have some community board for your uni then post you're looking for a lost connection. Make the post kind of cute, i've seen some success on this but if not atleast it'll be a good laugh for everyone.
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:53 PM
1

Eh....most women seduce through good sex. If it's special and you want more.
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:51 PM
0

Uhhhh there's as many fat girls as skinny girls so the same places you meet skinny girls.
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:50 PM
1

lol you are thinking so much about this. it could've stopped at I felt a cool connection and all. then go after her. do what you want. even if it leads to disappointment you'll never learn better than a 1st hand experience. all the reservations and overthinking is already indication you're gonna be passive and miss out the chance of meeting the love of your life.
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:49 PM
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lonely? that's a state of mind. so you change your state of mind and enjoy your own company. or find new friends?
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:47 PM
1

Reality check for you means get off reddit and go get As. dont worry about anything else.
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:43 PM
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quit the pity party and posting so much woe is me and victimizing yourself. get your fucking grades in order first then come back here. you dont need women, you need a reality check.
/r/seduction08/10/18 04:10 AM
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Sounds like you have a poor relationship with your parents. You care if they make fun of you? They fucking made you man. You guys should be able to talk about stuff like that without anyone feeling anxiety or intimidation. My pops and mom talk about this shit all the time. But if its really the case you gotta realize that you wont get laid until you stop caring what other people think. If you still care about your parents judging you then you gotta get that fear out of the way. Really who cares …
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:42 AM
1

You need practice. Its like anything. Think about in sports. Think about the first time you caught a ball as a baby you reacted to late but you eventually could catch it like instinct. Then you startedDo it after they smile even if its really delayed.
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:38 PM
5

Sometimes the easiest path to getting laid is to just party. no shit. people want to have fun, not deal with a guy who takes everything so seriously.
/r/seduction01/10/18 09:21 PM
2

I mean unless someone died, got hurt, etc. And even if that happened Life is gonna move on and none of this will matter 3 months down the line. We move on.
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:11 PM
1

If you want to believe you are attractive. Go workout consistently for atleast half a year. If you do this theres no way you dont believe you got more attractive. Otherwise what the hell were you doing at the gym :)
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:06 PM
1

Doesnt make sense. Dont take what she means at face value. All boyfriends were once mostly sexual relatonships about hooking up. Seems like you just dated one or two girls who said that doesnt mean much. Unless youve dated hundreds and they all do this it could just be chance.
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:03 PM
1

Lol she wants you to be a cockblocker for her.
/r/seduction27/09/18 10:08 PM
0

What does you hanging out with friends have to do with you flirting with girls? Controlling your social life? If your gf doesn't like it when you hit on girls she is not controlling your social life. She is asking you to be respectful and faithful to her. I'm not saying don't hang out with girls or be nice to them. Flirting is obviously something that more or less is 'cheating' (depends on the relationship but most serious ones it's not okay). It seems like your own toxic relationship has affect…
/r/seduction27/09/18 10:01 PM
1

You arent meeting the right women. We live in an age where we encourage women to pursue more than being house wives.
/r/seduction27/09/18 07:26 PM
0

sex itself is unfulfilling, the process(however enriching that may be) to get to it is what makes it rewarding. you could always pay for sex by why is it people never find that kind of sex truly satisfying compared to one where you actually attract a women you like to your bed? so take that idea of sex being the goal out of your mind. you enjoy life, you enjoy the process of attraction via approaching, flirting, dating and you will get to that point where sex just happens.
/r/seduction26/09/18 09:08 AM
2

why not? in terms of things that could be bad this is probably a millions items down the list. if its uncomfortable because it didnt work out or you got rejected then so what? it's just a temporary feeling. it's also uncomfortable to be alone and lonely jerking off to porn all night but you live with that too.
/r/seduction26/09/18 09:03 AM
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A lot of your list is complete nonsense. No offense, since it could apply to you as I don't know but I doubt you really learned from your mistakes. Still flirt with girls. Don't be an asshole and cheat, but it's a boost of confidence/shows her you don't need her. This is pretty red flag for me. At a certain point in any relationship you cannot do this sorry. If someone sees it, she will hear about it and you will be in trouble.
/r/seduction26/09/18 08:21 AM
2

Lol. As an average height guy short guys have no clue how much tall girls want to be approached by guys shorter than them. Because nobody does since they get intimidated.
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:46 PM
1

Tl dr whatever gets your approaching is gonna get you laid.
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:39 PM
0

Unless you guys are finished fucking and having pillow talk keep convo to the minimum in general. If you must, Get her to leave the club or go to a less packed place and chat for a brief moment before you get her to go home with you or give you digits (though if you go this route she probably will not text back the next morning unless you are very high in attraction and value)
/r/seduction24/09/18 01:07 PM
25

Dance clubs are trash for meeting women but the important thing is if you have fun. You will eventually find something just by repetition.
/r/seduction22/09/18 09:50 AM
1

I mainly watch Netflix and play games like Fortnite whenever I’m not studying or with friends. m8 go do other things that involve the outside. and don't be like "im not interested in those things" because you are, you just for whatever reason aren't doing it (insecurity, laziness etc.)
/r/seduction10/09/18 06:33 AM
1

I'd rate myself a 7,5/10. I've been working out for a few years, I dress alright, have a big group of friends, am 5'11 and have good facial aesthetics. I used to go out to a club every 2-3 weeks, hooking up with a girl there is no problem but that's it. Never really tried to go back to my or her place since I don't live close to any club. here's the hard truth. i doubt any of these girls agree with any of these perceptions you have about yourself. you have quite the ego and a few personal issues…
/r/seduction10/09/18 06:30 AM
1

6' tall being skinny is fine. if you're short then being skinny is bad.
/r/seduction10/09/18 06:26 AM
1

see if she gets close to you when you do an activity. then start rubbing shoulders and put your arm around her. if she is okay with it just go for the kiss. even if she rejects you at this point, it will be a very soft rejection. you haven't ruined anything but have indicated heavy interest
/r/seduction10/09/18 05:29 AM
1

I'm of the opinion if you don't have a reputation of being a flirty player then it's a major problem that can ruin your social circles. But if you DO have the reputation then people let it go if you make a move and get rejected. Of course...guys who are players and sleep around a lot tend to have different sorts of social circles to begin with that accept that sort of thing.
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:41 AM
2

It matters, but not that much. Plenty of good looking guys squander their genetic advantages by having zero game or being as insecure as the ugliest 40 year old virgin.
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:39 AM
2

yes what do you have to lose if you make a move?
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:38 AM
1

mmmm there is no advice that is universal for AA. you just do it and look like a fool until you realize it's not a big deal.
/r/seduction10/09/18 12:26 AM
1

you salvage it by forgetting about her and going to ask out other girls. there is no better solution to getting back a girl who rejected you than sleeping with other girls. the rejected girl will change her mind about you when that happens.
/r/seduction09/09/18 09:16 AM
1

if you pay attention you'll notice many solo people
/r/seduction09/09/18 04:50 AM
5

phone number = 50/50 most girls will give them out like no business
/r/seduction07/09/18 09:05 AM
0

You wish it was you. Thats your ego protecting itself with a good excuse. You are just being a pussy.
/r/seduction07/09/18 05:37 AM
2

I've done it. Its easier to go solo if you want to pick up women. with friends or whatever it becomes a major hassle. people ask where you are, your friends might even look at you and ruin the vibe etc. etc. most of my friends are in relationships and they just have this really obnoxious attitude towards pickup (making fun of everyone who tries to pick up girls because apparently because they're in a relationship they've figured it all out) you can set the condition when you go solo.
/r/seduction06/09/18 10:08 PM
2

You sound like a lunatic rn
/r/seduction05/09/18 01:21 AM
2

you need to join social groups. there are plenty of nice people out there that will accept you and befriend you no matter what you are. keep trying.
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:30 AM
2

this concept has been explored by every self help/development speaker/author etc. not to bash your recommendation but just type rejection therapy or anxiety online and you'll find plenty of free content that will help you understand why it's great
/r/seduction03/09/18 02:22 AM
12

is it awkward for them if I just walk up to them, introduce myself and strike a conversation with them? the act itself is not awkward. anything awkward is determined by if you are attractive to someone or not. if you are attractive you can get away with anything, if you aren't then everything you do is awkward. so in conclusion it doesn't matter if it's awkward, just do it you can't change anything out of your control.
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:33 AM
3

take better pics copy some poses and shit from hot dudes on ig really fucking easy, once you get them to meet you then it's all in your control.
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:10 AM
3

Are you from America? If yes, the answer is no. You’re from California. There has been/is a lot of anti-USA sentiment around the world, however cali has been widely regarded as liberal and not full of shit bags by the international community. Just trust me on this one(especially in Europe). lmfao this is so silly. no one cares dude. most people are envious of america no matter what trump says or does. i'm CA but i always say america first. and if the girl is opposed to me because of it then i'm …
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:29 AM
6

Sex is better with someone you like and feel comfortable with especially with inexperienced people who havent discovered their sexual demandem
/r/seduction27/08/18 04:02 PM
1

And so I ask, what might happen if I do dance with them? And then how does that progress into getting to know them. And when I am talking to them, what the hell do I say? the worst thing that can happen is you don't like it and move on. that's it. have you ever tried some new food and decided "oh this isnt for me" then forgot about it an hour later?
/r/seduction24/08/18 08:11 AM
1

define rejection i think more than half of girls will give a number or some form of contact but they lead to nowhere without the smoothest best game game in person and via text.
/r/seduction22/08/18 04:23 PM
1

Open with some shared experience or personal joke.
/r/seduction21/08/18 06:16 PM
1

It's good enough, but seek more support from people in real life on the internet. Seems you have more personal details you need to tinker with than anything reddit can give you.
/r/seduction16/08/18 09:54 PM
1

better to just tell a funny joke that also demonstrates a little interesting fact about you. nobody reads a length whole bio. why should they?
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:24 PM
2

These people are in front of a studio audience with cameras rolling. Not natural at all.
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:21 PM
2

Are you working out? Are you doing group hobbies? Joining clubs or groups that have common interests? This shit is all over the internet. I don't feel like giving you the nitty gritty details.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:27 PM
1

You clearly aren't trying enough.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:19 PM
1

Yes. You need to put in effort. How much you choose to put in is up to you but realize the more effort you put in the more rewarding the outcomes will be.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:12 PM
1

I would say I heavily invest in myself. I read, listen to podcasts, meditate, and go to the gym every day. I have plenty of friends and I’m in a band. All things that are traditionally attractive. If you feel it's not enough then maybe you should try different hobbies.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:57 AM
7

Well 100% of mr nice guys arent genuinely nice. They look for approval. In reality they harbor darker negative mean attitudes and behaviors behind closed doors. They look afraid to express themselves. Its a sign of dishonesty. Now there are guys who are genuinely nice but you can tell. They make great self sacrifices and are a joy to be around.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:24 AM
1

You are such a fucking victim its pathetic. Get over your woe is me mentality before you care about women. Trust me when I say your behavior is self destructive and makes your life worse.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:18 AM
1

Because you gain inherent knowledge and experience by the pursuit of something. Its never a negative unless you are physically injured or killed. This is all part of mindset.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:12 AM
2

Absolutely yes.
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:52 AM
1

The pursuit is better than doing nothing
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:20 AM
2

Ya because what else would you do? Be alone?
/r/seduction16/08/18 12:10 AM
2

This is pure delusion. This isnt happening its all in your head.
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:06 PM
8

Lmfao just say dirty jokes tbh. Dont take this too seriously. If she gets actually repulsed just say sorry with a smile. In the end what you say doesnt matter that much. They either put you on the list of fuckable or not and you have a huge safety range to say whatever dumb shit you can if she finds you fuckabls and she wont be turned off.
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:05 PM
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the essence of asking someone out online is you dont give a shit about the result. it's a 5-10 second text then you move on with your life. y why is the success rate low? because you didn't have to really do anything. infact you shouldnt even be making threads about it. if you feel like doing it, do it. if you don't, then don't. the only POSSIBLE reason to obsess about this topic is because you found some chick that you have some relationship with that you want to take the next step with or some…
/r/seduction26/07/18 05:04 AM
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