poorboy2022 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	what is the average man to you? (Q4W)	Question For Women	poorboy2022	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 01:07 PM
2	Hating on a man entirely for his looks	Misandry	poorboy2022	/r/AntiFeminists	21/03/22 04:18 PM
1	suspicion based entirely on someone looks	Discussion	poorboy2022	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 04:08 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptions It is important to not forget that FDS is full of old women from the previous generation who do not have a career or good income source. The 0.001% of wealthy high-income women in that sub (if they even exist) probably just struggle because men of their equal status care about younger women. Younger generations tend to focus on themselves more than the previous, men and women. Thus, younger women are not that drawn to marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 11:36 AM
6	Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptions I will do you one better. Even if you are marriage material, don't. Be child-free and focus on your own life. Fuck the narrative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 11:31 AM
12	most people who try to debunk red/blackpiller's statements on reddit arent good at debunking being disingenuous Almost everyone on this sub. We are only here for drama and petty grievances, not factual, logically sound, well thought out debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 09:17 AM
6	Men hold women to a higher standard than they hold themselves. Women just hold men to the standards they themselves set. This looks like pickiness because patriarchy accustomed men to being able to coast through artificial restriction of women's sexuality. link the studies. These are articles. Don't waste my time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:07 PM
6	Men hold women to a higher standard than they hold themselves. Women just hold men to the standards they themselves set. This looks like pickiness because patriarchy accustomed men to being able to coast through artificial restriction of women's sexuality. There are no sources. There are only vague references on some studies that never get linked. I know you are trolling but you put way too much effort in believing your lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:01 PM
3	Men hold women to a higher standard than they hold themselves. Women just hold men to the standards they themselves set. This looks like pickiness because patriarchy accustomed men to being able to coast through artificial restriction of women's sexuality. This gonna be juicy. Send the popcorn 🍿	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 04:08 PM
7	What do you think of this behavior? ^ this the answer you are looking for, OP? This is such a specific fake scenario. You could have been straightforward and simply said women who string men along and play games are immoral. That would have saved us a lot of time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 03:26 AM
7	Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriends We are just talking about anxious type behavior like in the study. That "clingy" definition seems like a normal secure behavior. Your "needy" definition might fit the bill a bit better on the anxious behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:52 PM
1	Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc? I agree that physical fitness is part of "dress to impress". But I disagree that there are any other reasons to dress up other than impressing others. When you say you dress for yourself, does it mean you dress entirely for your own eyes and pleasure in your own home? Because people only dress up to be in public and there is no other reason than conforming and impressing others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:48 PM
1	Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriends Fuck the moon. It is a false god. There is only one worthy celestial body and it gives life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:44 PM
3	Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriends But that is the actual definition of incels. I hate that some lunatics decide to hijack the term describing celibate folks and turn it into a slur.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:43 PM
8	Question for men and woman: why dont you use Instagram as a dating app? Like anything, moderation is key and I see people not able to find that key. Social media is dandy but the younger generations have an addiction problem that is rarely addressed. But to answer your question of why some don't use social media to find dates, I personally only use social media for networking (reddit is a guilty pleasure for anonymity drama). Dating online or using an online platform seems to attract shallow people more than not (my pov).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:37 PM
0	Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc? You tell me women dress up to do heavy lifting, self protection and personal fitness?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:22 PM
0	Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc? Partial influence, not all. The struggle of being physically unfit is beyond attracting female gaze. Heavy lifting chores, self protection, health, Zyzz, there are many good reasons to train your body. This take of personal fitness is faulty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:14 PM
1	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) There is no deeper reason for my post. People who have been here longer than I am have some pre-conceived notions of others when it comes to certain topics. I simply want to ask and assess others of how they perceive the opposite sex. The term average is neither an insult or a compliment but the baseline. I want to see if it fits with how I see it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 04:54 PM
10	Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriends This is kind of funny in a weird way. We just had a post about men not allowed to express their emotional vulnerability or else their women would leave them. Now, we have a paper on how women handle their partner anxiety behavior better than men. What would be the conversation now surrounding the topic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 04:37 PM
2	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) The comics or the show? Both are average in their own way but I think the show beautified him a bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 04:04 PM
2	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) That is way too detailed. My apologies if I offended you. I only jest because you call him a chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 04:03 PM
1	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) That is fine. I just want an opinion. There is no right or wrong one for this kind of question. Thank you, it seems you had quite few meaningful relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:27 PM
11	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) I would argue that education, income and height wise, that is quite above average for a man. But everything else seems to fall in line with everyone else opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:20 PM
2	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) Hey, thanks for your comment. I have been around for a week but I recognize your name everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:19 PM
3	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) That is such a detailed and clear assessment. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:17 PM
-1	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) Lul, your status is perfect for this post. How would you describe your husband if that is not too personal? Your comment is rather level-headed when it comes to describing the average man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:04 PM
3	what is the average man to you? (Q4W) God, unrelevant but I freaking love Paul Dano and I am so glad his name is being passed around because of the new Batman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:01 PM
2	Maybe it's a modern thing, but I always thought of relationships and sex as a product of attraction. Not something you do for the sake of it. Thanks boss. Been doing a strict 6 days a week schedule and trying to get a high protein diet. Do it for zyzz 💪😎	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 01:09 PM
2	Maybe it's a modern thing, but I always thought of relationships and sex as a product of attraction. Not something you do for the sake of it. Damn bro. I did that and I am still skinny. Bodybuilding is tough on the average man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 12:54 PM
1	Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women? If you want to hear my sexism talking, what do men have to gain? Practically nothing. Marriage for men has been a rite of passage to adulthood and parenthood. Beyond what we have discussed which pertains only to parenthood, marriage is what a mediocre man uses to get sex and what a mediocre woman uses to get money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 12:49 PM
1	Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women? Marriage is not worth it for the new generation, especially child-free couples. Tax cuts are nothing compared to divorce fees. Healthcare benefits are negligible unless you are constantly threatened by unemployment. Any legal protection for assets and property in case of spousal death is pointless because this can be done with written wills. Overall, unless both want children and can actually manage to survive the 50/50 divorce rate, you are just adding more financial and emotional stress on cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 12:25 PM
1	If TRP men here think women are inferior and are exactly the same, then why bother being around us? I think the "black pill" folks are overrepresented in this sub that skew the image of red pill arguments. As a red pilled man, I don't think women are inherently inferior to men. But I believe mediocrity threatens and harms men much more than females. Simply put, women are the one that owns the tool for reproduction. People downplay this value a lot but they either are lying or simply ignorant. Just by existing, the average woman has more value to society than the average man. For the men, they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 09:28 AM
1	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? I think skinny men are more accepted in Asian culture (and I don't mean westernized asian culture) because it is the average physique. That said, it is something easy to change so if OP does not feel comfortable, he can just hit the gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 07:28 AM
2	Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women? Thank you. Appreciate the effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 07:19 AM
3	Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women? They deleted their profile. You got any links or search results I can take a look?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:37 AM
1	Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective? The only woman I ever pursued rejected me after us being "more than friends". I talked to her daily, constantly tried to make her laugh and poured in as much effort as I possibly could. We were practically glued together for the time we spent at school and I thought we shared the same feeling. I asked her out, only to find out she was double-timing and decided on the other guy. I had few women approached me after. Some were acquaintances and one of them was a friend. I never let them on and I th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 05:12 PM
1	CMV Men should emulate avoidant attachment styles in today's dating world if they want massive success. I beg to differ. I have seen the anxious type in full blown before from my male friend. He dumped his secure gf to go back with his avoidant ex. His secured gf was a league above his avoidant ex. She was as charming and pretty as this guy can get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:52 AM
2	CMV Men should emulate avoidant attachment styles in today's dating world if they want massive success. Wow, I want to agree with your post but calling batman a LVM just shows your bias hatred. I would dump any woman for Batman and I am a straight man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:45 AM
4	sleeping with neighbors People react differently to rejection or failed relationships. Some don't do well and tend to respond horribly. Some practice avoidance and likes to avoid their exs. Literally all of this sub would benefit from talking to another human being. Everyone just fking forget that people are different and behave differently. They just use their own experience and make that the default setting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:29 AM
15	Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society. I don't subscribe to the bleak reality that some of the men here see (where all women are just lining up for sex from a top 10% male) but I see a valid point from OP. People give excuses for rape, murder, abuse when the perpetrator is attractive, famous or both. Celebrities are prime examples of this phenomenon. Look at OJ simpson and the backlash from the community when he was on trial. Chris Brown becomes more relevant amongst female fans as he assaults women. This is stupidity in its ultimate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:23 AM
0	Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelings No, trust me. I lived with abusive people before and the comfort you feel when being with them is not comfort in being in a relationship, it is the comfort from predictability. If you cannot handle being single, there are underlying mental issues you have yet to recover from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 07:35 AM
9	The ManChild is brough up as an Insult, Articles are written for Women to avoid him. Yet those ManChildren are prevalent and evidently score relationships. What are their benefits? I hate that I agree with Peterson here, worst representation of my uni and my city, but there seems to be a disconnect for a lot of women (not all). You want to be considered independent and strong but you will leave your partner if you are the breadwinner of the household and they do not match your financial goals. That is the traditional men role and how many men criticize their women for not matching his income, spending his wealth? Women never complain when their man is above them but will e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 02:33 AM
2	Women really are wonderful: Men benefit more from marriage than women do, and it's due to patriarchal misogyny that so many men believe it's the opposite. First post is for women above 50 ONLY and that is reasonable since women were homemakers/caretakers for those generations. Second post refers to an article that is 13 years out of date, not the actual study itself and does not link the damn study. And again, unsurprisingly, the study that is referred specifically says that the difference is largely between parents and not sexes. This does not address the issue of divorce rape but simply the lost of income due to childbirth. Fair asset distributi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 06:00 PM
1	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? Sorry for digging up an old comment but you are an admirable woman. You and your husband have a great relationship from what I see. Not many can have what you guys have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 05:10 PM
3	Has there been any adverse affects to female sex positivity in your opinion? All the men with a vendetta come on this sub to vent their hate against women. I honestly feel like this sub is slowly corrupting my mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 04:55 PM
5	Has there been any adverse affects to female sex positivity in your opinion? Red herring fallacy, my guy. An indicator of a failed marriage does not mean it is the reason for such failure. Thus, it has nothing to do with why men commit to a long term relationship. Your post is also a complete mess. I feel like you are not arguing in good faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 04:53 PM
2	Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelings Lul, no. I have seen women in my family alone standing by their husbands through worse than crying. You can express your emotions and vulnerability without your woman leaving you. You can go through the list of female domestic abuse victims to see how much a woman is willing to put up for her partner. I am sorry for your experience. I do not dismiss the pain those men in that thread had gone through but if you think that 50 comments are comparable to the whole 3.5 billion women on the planet ...…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 01:47 PM
19	Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelings Any woman who does not stand by her man during hard times and shares the burden is only looking for an easy ride. Those women are simple accessories and nothing more. I have seen women and men standing by their partner through worse hardship. They are doing you a favor if they abandon you early on before you need an actual shoulder to cry on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 01:21 PM
9	Hollywood is guilty of influencing men to bend over backwards for women who aren't that into them People really are saying whatever they want on here without thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 08:42 AM
1	Hating on a man entirely for his looks I don't consider myself an Anti-feminist but the vile hate that comes from the "women-empowering" subs just disgust me. A man is minding his own business and some woman went out of her way to insult him online without him knowing. His only crime is not looking to her liking. Visiting a coffee shop is "invasion of space" and putting hands in pockets and sitting next to the window is automatically watching porn.	/r/AntiFeminists	21/03/22 04:23 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread How are my unlucky men and women doing? What is your one "win" for this month? Mine is staying on my diet and workout routine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 01:40 PM
0	Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ? I am in my mid 20s. An advice I get from my married 40s friends is that I should "hoe out" to get a feel of how my relationships go and what I want from a partner. I am not sure what to take of that. They are all well adjusted experienced men so I kinda trust their advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 01:13 PM
11	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? OP does not ask for men opinion but in my experience as a baby face skinny asian guy, I did have women approaching me but they were all Asians. I guess that was also because the university I studied was mostly Asians. There are women who would prefer this type but it definitely does not fit the conventional beauty standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 06:35 AM
0	The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a woman Hypergamy is causing some issues but I think the problem is exaggerated and used as a boogey man for a more nuanced problem. Sure, women standards have risen due to hookup culture and some men are left behind because they lack the tools to compete. But my belief is that, like puberty, men peaks later in life than women. The 20s for men are the roughest. Men has more to offer once he gets his feet firm on the ground. I guess TRP would call me a coping male but I don't think we are in a bad situat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 04:12 AM
3	The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a woman The average man still has the chance. I think this sub downplays the attractiveness of men a lot. We struggle more because we are the one to put in the effort. We also live in a digital world where men are more reclusive and have less social skill than the previous generation. That does not make all of us becoming celibate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 02:24 AM