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| 3 | Surrendered Wives VideoI was so excited to watch this, but it actually made me pretty sad. I can see facets of each of these three women in the way my own mother treats my father -- she relentlessly nags him about his weight and diet, she doesn't trust him to competently handle anything, she pushes him to be more religious, and she spends the rest of her day focused on her life rather than "their" life. It's taken its toll on their 20+ year marriage. Simply going to dinner with them is uncomfortable due to their nonst… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomeNot insulting at all. I actually appreciate your feedback! This post was mainly just a mini-guide for people who haven't waxed their brows at home before, since it worked out well for me considering this was my first attempt, haha. The before photo is quite blurry, I know, but it was the best one I could find that somewhat represented them pre-wax. In that photo, my brows were combed and filled in, so I probably should have tried to describe my natural brows in words. My natural brows aren't awf… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomeI feel like they don't care about eyebrows, specifically, but they do care if you look well groomed and put-together. Giving my eyebrows a defined shape is just one small part of the bigger picture, along with other small things that don't make a difference individually, like filing and painting my nails, wearing chapstick, and using lotion. Put all those small things together, and you'll get picked over the girl who looks just like you, but didn't bother with the small things. Regardless, I'm a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomeOMG you're the best, haha. Thanks a bunch! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomeI can only get them waxed for $12 at those Korean nail salons. While that normally works, every once in a while there's a language barrier that leaves me with less-than-awesome eyebrows. Most places around here charge upwards of $20, which would also be fine if I remembered to tweeze between appointments, but I don't, haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/16 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomeAh crap, you're probably right. I didn't think about that! I trust the internet too much, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomeI love the European Wax Center. I used to go there because hard wax definitely feels a lot better than soft wax with strips. But my lady I always saw moved away, and when I made an appointment with a different lady, she left me looking like a chola! My brows were sooo thin. D: I looked into sugar waxing, actually. I'm too scared to do that on my eyebrows myself because I'm really clumsy and might drip it on the wrong spot. But I wanna try it on my hooha. I've always wanted a brazilian, but no wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/16 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomeI have never tried threading. The only places I see it offered are at these kiosks in the mall, and I don't really like the idea of having my eyebrows done out where anyone can watch me cry like a baby at the end. Hair removal always makes my eyes water. D: | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/16 06:29 PM |
| 3 | I have assimilated...Haha, after looking at your numbers, now I just feel like I should be commenting way more. D: | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/16 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Advice For Supporting A First Time Mom In Household Duties?Oh my goodness, how exciting! Being a new mom is such a wonderful yet terrifying experience. I'll give you (and your friend) as much advice as I can. However, I was too impatient to read the other comments, so forgive me for any redundancy, haha. Cleaning and De-cluttering Do you think S’s home is messy, or do you get the feeling it’s all in her head? Because it sounds to me like S is nesting. She wants to clear out all of the junk from her nest in preparation for when her baby bird has hatched!… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/16 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Beginner's Guide to Cleaning RoutinesOh, I use lots of vinegar cleaners. That stuff is amazing. Mix in a couple drops of lemon and lavender essential oils, and you've got yourself a cheap cleaning powerhouse. I just linked to some well-known supplies that are commercially available. I probably should have mentioned vinegar alternatives though! :P Great tip! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Cleaning RoutinesThat is certainly true; you can't clean junk. I usually pick a spot each week and de-clutter/organize it. Sometimes, though, I feel like de-cluttering can feel way more daunting than cleaning. As long as people are doing something to improve their mess, it's a step in the right direction. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Cleaning RoutinesThank you! I feel like "home economics" has been tossed aside in today's world. I think I was the only 13 year old who took that class seriously back in middle school. Homemaking isn't a skill that people are just born with, after all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Beginner's Guide to Cleaning RoutinesThat's amazing! You've got yourself a clever man, haha. I feel like saying, "I can't," is almost just as, if not more, important than not demanding anything. It's all about being humble and honest. Good luck with selling your house! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 07:15 PM |
| 1 | What are your experiences with birth control?Mirena checking in! It's good for 5 years, and I have about one mini-period every three months. Before, I had an irregular cycle (sometimes 2 periods a month, sometimes none) and I had unbearable cramping each time to the point of fainting. I haven't experienced any negative side effects, but I still PMS monthly. I'll get super irritable and won't know why until I take a minute to think about it, haha. Please don't do the pull-out method. If that method was foolproof, nobody would have bothered … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/16 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Beginner's Guide to Cleaning RoutinesHaha, thank you! I have a couple of housekeeping books too, but I mainly have them because I legitimately enjoy reading about cleaning and organizing. Lol, I'm the worst kind of nerd. :P | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/16 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Beginner's Guide to Cleaning RoutinesYou know, I tried following FlyLady before settling in on my current routine. She seemed to look at cleanliness as the result of forming habits. That's great for a lot of people, but I quickly realized that I didn't need to form habits, I just needed to find my motivation. I feel like a lot of people who wish their homes were cleaner are in need of the same thing. I'm a natural clean freak as well, but my home never looked like it because I just got angry when I saw the mess. Your teensy tip is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/16 10:20 PM |
| 2 | [Just For Fun!] You've been assigned to develop an RPW school...Haha! I'd totally love to teach a home management class! Though I mean...I don't know how great of a teacher I'd be, since the last time I got to work on my next post was like a week ago. D: | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/16 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Who decided you would be a stay-at-home wife (or moms)Was it your SO? Was it your own choice? I knew I wanted to be a SAHM the moment I discovered I was pregnant, which was ~4.5 years before I met my husband. But as a single working mom, I fully expected any guy I settled down with to think "I want to be a SAHM" was actually code for "I'm a lazy gold digger," so I never even mentioned it. So even though I may have wanted it, my husband was actually the first one to suggest it. To my pleasant surprise, the decision was 100% mutual. How did it impact… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 12:14 AM |
| 2 | A New Way of Looking at Relationship Dynamics (Part 1)I believe Camille said in another response that whether you are an H or L is based on how dominant you are within your relationship. The last two letters represent just you, regardless of your man's dominance. For example, my current relationship is LLL, but my previous relationship was HLL (and it definitely did not work out well). Notice that the last two letters didn't change just because I dated someone new? I'm naturally submissive with my boyfriend, and I simply don't mesh well with high d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/16 09:22 PM |
| 3 | A New Way of Looking at Relationship Dynamics (Part 1)I love this! This post is an important read for everyone, but especially for newcomers. A common issue I often see here, particularly in posts of those who are still on the fence about swallowing the red pill, is that many people aren't quite understanding the distinction between TRP and RPW. The way I see it (and feel free to correct me if you disagree) is that TRP and RPW find common ground in their views on gender roles, each gender's sexual strategy, and each gender's biological imperatives.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/16 01:30 AM |
| 3 | muslims and feministsI also wish there wasn't such a strong religious connotation to it, because I actually really enjoyed my month in hijab for a variety of reasons. Kind of shallow, I know, but there are so many creative and beautiful ways to style a hijab. I thought they all just looked like this; I had no idea how much variety there was! You can make them look like side swept bangs, use two different scarves, add jewelry, or make it look like a pony tail. It has the potential to look prettier than if I just did … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/16 12:10 AM |
| 2 | muslims and feministsI haven't really encountered that either. The women and men I met at the local mosque (I attended with a group as part of another assignment) were incredibly friendly and welcoming. Of course all the women wore hijab to mosque, but while some wore abayas, none were in niqab or any of the more "extreme" types of coverings. A couple of the younger women even admitted that they only wore their hijabs to mosque and would remove them once they pulled out of the parking lot. Likewise, the men insisted… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/16 11:50 PM |
| 6 | muslims and feministsI've actually had the opposite experience with feminists, honestly. In college, I studied religion heavily. Not as in seminary school, but as part of my anthropology major, learning about various current and ancient world religions and what affect they have/had on cultures throughout history. A project I did for a final in one class was to wear hijab for a month and share my experience with the class. Keep in mind, this was about 4 or 5 years ago, so this was after 9/11 but before this whole "mi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/16 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderThat is amazing. I wish I had a fitness binder at all, let alone one heavy enough that I could use it for strength training! But I swear, I'm like fitness-stupid, so I'd probably end up staring at an empty binder and hoping a routine will land in my lap. That's kind of why I'm considering giving up on trying to build a custom workout and just sign up with Orange Theory. :P Whatever works, I guess! Haha. My paper addiction rears its terrifying head not only in the form of binders galore, but also… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderI've always felt a little too shy for IRC, but I think the reason you've just given me to check it out is a good enough excuse for me to get the hell over it, lmao. I only listed the three, but I have, like, 20 different planners I'm considering, so a decent review of one would be so helpful. Yes, of course, no problem! Hopefully my other posts will end up being helpful too. :P | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderThank you so much! I have seriously been eyeballing that Day Designer, but I'm still on the fence between that and a Color Crush or Kikki-K. (I know, I should already have my '16 planner by now, but I can't decide!) I keep a command center above my desk with a dry erase calendar, the weekly menu, and my weekly cleaning schedule, but I still keep paper copies of the menu, schedule, and all my other routines in the binder as well. It sounds like we run our homes pretty similarly! I had all my reci… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderThank you! I wouldn't dream of carrying mine with me -- even with my giant purse, I can already feel the shoulder cramps that would give me. If I expect to need info out of it when I leave the house, I either write the relevant info down in my planner or I take out whichever page I'll need. I bet you could keep this info on Google Drive, though; just scan any paperwork that you want included and find the PDF copies of any manuals you would want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderThanks for reading it. :) Good luck with making yours; I'm sure mine took me so long because I didn't make it until I already had a husband and a kid. Collecting info on 3 people is so time consuming, haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderI'll probably end up making at least a couple of other posts! I'm not sure about a series, though, since I'm not totally positive about what subjects should be included. :P Thanks for reading! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderLol, thanks! x) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderYou're very welcome! My parents think my binder is overkill and often ask "why don't you just look stuff up when you need it", so I never really thought it would be of interest to others. I'm glad my post helped you out! I'll definitely try to type up some posts on those subjects. :) I know all of these things can be pretty tricky when you first start trying to get your household in order, haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderA fitness binder...? What goes in there? :o I think if I split them up that much, they'd never get very full. :P But I definitely love binders too! Haha. I'm considering making a DIY binder as well, though, with small things (like homemade lotion recipes) and larger projects (like rebuilding the deck). My husband used to be a contractor and really enjoys "fixing up" the place, so I figured organizing it all into a binder would help him out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Guide to Building a Household BinderWow, that was really nice of him! I don't think I've ever had a landlord give me anything helpful...not even my security deposit, haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else trying to balance life with their writing?I'm sorry! D: I didn't mean to be a bummer. Since this seems to be causing you a fair amount of stress, I feel like I owe you a more thorough review of motherhood's impact on my writing. (I apologize for how stupid long this comment ended up being. @_@) About becoming a worse writer after kids I actually think my writing has improved since having my daughter, based on the revision I tried working on when my daughter was 3. More specifically, I feel the creative aspect has improved, like characte… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/16 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Meeting the Parents/Family of your SOI felt the same way, too. My reasoning was that my first long-term relationship lasted 2 years before we broke up, and no relationship before or after that seemed to last that long. I ended up finding out that life doesn't work according to my rules, haha. The last person I dated, I was with for almost 4 years and still didn't marry him. I only dated my husband for 1 year before we eloped; my friends thought I was crazy, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/16 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Temporary SAHW looking for adviceThank you! :) Maybe I should just write a big long post of tips for managing a home, haha. I used to wish there was a wiki for homekeeping when I first started staying home, but I guess it's one of those subjects a lot of people don't care much about these days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Temporary SAHW looking for adviceThanks! As a stay at home mother with ADHD, being ultra-prepared and having everything as organized as possible is basically a necessity if I hope to get anything done, haha. I spent tons of time scouring blogs and books on home economics when I first left my job, so my brain is full of household management ideas. If only that were a Jeopardy category. :P | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 04:36 AM |
| 15 | Temporary SAHW looking for adviceI agree with /u/I_Love_Donuts412, you might do well to start by focusing on building your social circle and finding hobbies or volunteer work. Not just because getting yourself out of the house from time to time is so important when you aren't working, but also because this situation is temporary. Let's say you dive headfirst into housewifing, and you've started taking on the cleaning, the cooking, and all that goes with it. Then you start working. Suddenly, you're no longer happy with being stu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how do you plan your Christmas & Birthday gift giving?That is a great idea. Unfortunately, I'm definitely a "gift person". Christmas is my favorite time of year because of how awesome it feels to flex my "thoughtfulness" muscles. That probably makes gift giving sound selfish, now that I think about it, haha. Oh well. I might try this anyway, though. We end up going to a handful of white elephant parties; plus, we'd have backup gifts in case we miss anyone. EDIT: Btw, your Vikings story made me laugh. My dad's side of the family learned I liked Barb… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how do you plan your Christmas & Birthday gift giving?That would be amazing, except my husband has the computer skills of an 80 year old. Even if I could convince him to keep up on an Amazon wishlist, he'd probably manage to accidentally order the whole list, haha. I might try this out with my parents, though! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how do you plan your Christmas & Birthday gift giving?You're probably right, I'm just being stubborn, lol. I wanted to be able to tag the pins so that I could have one board for all gifts, and then tag and sort them by gift recipient. I might just suck it up and make a board for each person, or go through one gift board and rearrange the pins by person. (I know what you mean though, I'm definitely a disorganized perfectionist...I have three separate organization-themed boards though, lmao.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, how do you plan your Christmas & Birthday gift giving?Thanks for the tip. :) I tried to get into using Evernote once, but when I installed their Chrome extension it gave my computer an ad injector. I later found out that a third party made a fake Evernote extension that looked exactly like the real one, so it wasn't Evernote's fault, but I just never bothered to try again. I might have to give it another shot though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how do you plan your Christmas & Birthday gift giving?I use Pinterest pretty heavily already. Like for real, without Pinterest, I probably wouldn't even have been able to decide on what colors to use for my eventual wedding. Now Pinterest just needs to figure out how to put money into my wedding fund as well, haha. I was mainly just griping about not being able to figure out how I should organize a board for gift ideas. :P | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else trying to balance life with their writing?No tips here, just empathy. I used to be pretty damn good at creative writing and drawing. I was posting about a chapter a week to some website, probably fictionpress, and my number of readers grew significantly with each new chapter. In storage, I had boxes and boxes of short stories I had written and pictures I had drawn over the years. When I had my daughter, the writing stopped. I picked the story back up when she was 3 and completely revised everything I had already posted, since 3 years is… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Work, study and housework - how to manage time?This is really cool. Just wondering, what is "Lectio / recollection"? Is that just time spent thinking, almost like a meditation? Also, do you happen to know why they eat breakfast in silence? I'd love to see an update about how the schedule has worked for you after a couple of months. I've been slowly trying to build a schedule for my day. Schedules and checklists are incredibly helpful and kind of soothing, and for me they're almost necessary since I have ADHD. So if this one ends up working w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/16 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, how do you plan your Christmas & Birthday gift giving?I guess Pinterest would do fine, I just wish I could have sub-boards, or be able to tag pins within a board so I could sort/filter. I'm too picky! x) I downloaded Keep but I haven't opened it and I have no idea what it is. I keep hearing how useful it is though, so maybe I should test it out, haha. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/16 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how do you plan your Christmas & Birthday gift giving?Keeping a list of things you want is a really good idea! My mind goes blank when people ask me what I'd like, and I usually answer with something generic that I could always use more of, like clothes or books. Then after they leave, I'll smack my forehead and remember I actually really need a new purse or some more yarn. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/16 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, how do you plan your Christmas & Birthday gift giving?Ooh that's a great idea! How is the spreadsheet laid out? Just a column for the person's name, then one for gift ideas? Speaking of keeping an eye on sales, by the way, have you checked out Camelcamelcamel.com? It keeps track of items sold on Amazon and shows you when, during the past year, they were at their cheapest price. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/16 10:40 PM |
| 3 | 2016 Goals Mega ThreadYou're welcome! Yeah, I tried FlyLady, Todoist, and some other apps/websites, but I realized that if I have to get on the computer or phone before I start cleaning, then I get distracted and never begin cleaning at all. I printed the schedule out and hung it on a clipboard on my wall, so now I see it everyday without risking getting distracted. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | 2016 Goals Mega ThreadThank you! I'll look into those. I tried ChefTap but I didn't find it all that helpful, since I could only sync recipes I got on the computer with recipes I got on my phone once a month. :S | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/16 08:08 PM |
| 4 | 2016 Goals Mega ThreadI commented to someone else about having a cleaning schedule, which has made cleaning so much faster. For a more thorough cleaning, maybe consider a monthly checklist? Like this one (Warning: PDF). | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/15 10:14 PM |
| 4 | 2016 Goals Mega ThreadIn regards to the chores to help your mom out, I use this cleaning schedule (Warning: it's a PDF). Here's the whole packet (more PDFs), including a blank version and black & white versions. I used the blank one and I edited the sides to say "Every Morning" and "Every Night" instead of weekly and monthly chores. Having a cleaning schedule/checklist will make chores so much easier. Now that I'm on top of cleaning the bathroom weekly, it takes less than 20 minutes to clean it, whereas before I had … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/15 10:09 PM |
| 6 | 2016 Goals Mega ThreadRelationships I'm going to take more time to focus on hobbies. Doesn't sound like a relationship improvement, haha. But my husband already works more than 40 hours a week, and in his line of business, they only get busier during the summer. As a SAHM, I tend to go a little bonkers when he works so much while I'm home all day with the kid. I think the best way to keep the both of us less stressed would be for me to dive head first into some hobbies that'll keep me preoccupied when I'm feeling som… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/15 09:54 PM |
| 2 | What does your "Spending Plan" look like? (From Surrendered Wife)That is true. Maybe I could give him a list of expenses I anticipate each month when I first hand over the finances (including groceries, cellphone, and co-pays), and then just give him my spending plan every pay period after that? I don't want to tell him what to do, but I also don't want to throw him in the deep end without any of the info I already have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/15 07:37 PM |
| 2 | What does your "Spending Plan" look like? (From Surrendered Wife)That makes sense. I figured I should include the groceries at least because then I won't need to keep the debit card when I go to the store since he would've given me the cash for it along with my spending money. Thanks. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/15 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What does your "Spending Plan" look like? (From Surrendered Wife)I just started crocheting (like, I'm currently working on my first ever creation, haha), and I've been wanting to pick up needle felting and sewing for a few months now, but I never put my "wants" in our budget so I just haven't been able to pick up wool and fabric. I only have crocheting supplies because my husband snuck a kit I had been eyeballing into our cart when I wasn't looking! Another part of why I really am excited to hand over the money is because even though I'm good with crunching n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep things fresh in (and out of) your relationship?Mile High on the Cheap We live in Denver, so I check this site almost every Thursday to see what free & cheap events are going on over the weekend. I'm willing to bet there's a similar kind of website available for most other cities. Ice Skating/Roller Blading Every winter, there's a couple free skating rinks that pop up, and the skate rental is usually under $5 a person. During the summer, most roller skating rinks offer a free/cheap day like once a week. It's fun, and it's a nice leg workout. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/15 05:05 AM |
| 9 | 18 Rules Of Behavior For Young Ladies In 1831Know that a man of good sense will never marry but the pious, industrious and frugal. This advice must have been lost on some of the women in that "13 Women & Their Engagement Rings" article, haha. Never be afraid of blushing. I thought that one was kinda sweet. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/15 02:11 AM |
| 1 | I Thought I Should Introduce Myself :)Sorry I'm responding like a day late...but I think you should! Honestly, I was scared to write this post. I don't like talking about the abuse; I'd much rather pretend like it didn't happen. I didn't tell my husband about it until we had been dating for ~5 months. Aside from him, the only other person I've told is my mother, and I didn't tell her until a year after the relationship had already ended. Maybe you're feeling a little scared too. But despite taking a huge risk by being vulnerable to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/15 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Female Monk Mode Grand ListNo problem! Oh, one more thing! (Sorry, I'm way too talkative, haha.) Before starting a capsule wardrobe, just make sure you're really familiar with your personal sense of style. It'll make it so much easier to pick out pieces you like that can all be mix & matched. Maybe you already know your fashion sense and this advice is useless, but if not, what I did was I started a pinterest board for clothing and just pinned every single piece/accessory that I liked for a few months. After I had a decen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/15 11:46 PM |
| 5 | I Thought I Should Introduce Myself :)The red flags were glaringly obvious in hindsight, but red flags are difficult to see when you're standing right under them. Before him, all I knew about abusive relationships was, "If he hits, it's abuse." It wasn't until afterwards, after educating myself and utilizing the Hotline, that I learned how all of his behaviors (crazy jealousy, controlling behavior, degrading remarks, drug abuse) were textbook precursors to domestic abuse. I think a lot of women (and men) don't understand that the ph… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/15 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Female Monk Mode Grand ListWriting it all down sounds obvious, but that's really good advice. I tend to just look in the mirror, pick one thing I have an issue with and focus on it indefinitely. But having a plan in advance would probably make it a lot easier. Plus, you can look back on your list and see how far you've come. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/15 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Female Monk Mode Grand ListOh, Sally's sells Form-A-Nails for $7, those are the ones I got. They also sell acrylic nail starter kits (I got this one), but I would reeeally recommend buying a decent brush separately. Brushes are like $20, but it's worth it if you don't want brush hairs stuck to your nails, haha. Having a planner has been awesome. Having a paper planner AND an app might be overkill for some, but I have ADHD, so I need all the help I can get. x) I'm still working on my capsule wardrobe. The ideal wardrobe wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/15 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Female Monk Mode Grand ListThanks! I actually thought a self-improvement "Master List" sounded like a really good idea, so I figured I'd offer as much as I could. Maybe I'll take some of the other ideas people posted here and make a huge post about it. Self-improvement is a lot easier when you have an idea of where to begin, haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/15 08:10 PM |
| 25 | Female Monk Mode Grand ListI think everyone enjoys their time in the monastery a little bit differently. After all, we all have different things that need improvement. I was a single mother for the entirety of my monk mode, and I started it upon ending a long, abusive relationship, so not all of my topics would be applicable to most women. But here's is a bit about mine; what aspects of myself I chose to work on, what I studied up on, and why: Hair Hair Types Product Ingredients Products other than shampoo & conditioner B… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/15 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Is there an appropriate way to help him handle finances? I don't want to undermine him in any way; the truth is that he simply doesn't know how to manage money.Haha, I'm glad I could help! Just pick a set amount for savings, like $200 monthly or whatever, withdraw it immediately and put it somewhere difficult to access. Maybe stick some of it (not all!) in a CD or money market after you've built up enough. Stick some more in an IRA. And keep in mind, new budgets & strategies take some time to work out the kinks, so try one for a couple months before giving up on it. Good luck; I really hope something will work out for you guys! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/15 02:12 AM |
| 11 | Is there an appropriate way to help him handle finances? I don't want to undermine him in any way; the truth is that he simply doesn't know how to manage money.Oh man, this right here is possibly the only "issue" in my marriage. I'm scroogey as hell, whereas my husband is the reason impulse racks work so well. Right now I handle the budget, because when my husband sees an Excel spreadsheet filled with math voodoo, his mind goes blank (in fact, he was the one to suggest that I do it). But when he has the debit card in his wallet, it doesn't matter what budget I made, because he simply doesn't stick to it. Looking at the budget sometimes makes me wanna p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/15 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Workout FR: Booty Class! ( ) )I...I kind of want to see before & after pics...but I feel a bit weird about googling "butt exercise before & after", haha. I should look into nearby gyms though, this sounds fun. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/15 11:33 PM |
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