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I don't mind paying $50 for a haircut and I always look great after leaving the barbershop. The problem is that I take one shower and can't replicate the results by myself afterwards. Also wearing a hat tends to fuck up the hair yet caps are pretty mandatory during winter. Yet you've probably wondered about women not having hats even during the coldest weather, this is the reason. About the toothpaste, dentists typically don't recommend those whitening pastes, they're not good for your teeth lon…
/r/seduction09/11/14 06:03 PM
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Wow. This guy should be banned from every country in the world. He'd probably get along with ISIS quite well.
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:20 PM
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Seduction attracts a lot of "natural losers" who are led to believe that they can have any woman they want if they just use Mystery's or Style's pickup lines. Obviously it's not that simple. Don't be too hard on the guy, maybe he's just experimenting different methods. But he should probably try to go with baby steps on actual self-improvement rather than looking for the magic pill that makes him successful overnight.
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:12 PM
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Do guys still do black nails? That's one of Mystery's things that he used to do like 10 years ago. I would have thought that it's gone out of style ages ago. This guy sounds like a fake it till you make it type of dude. People were creeped out because his actions weren't congruent with his personality (like you said, he was fake). Maybe he's still learning, maybe he's just a socially inept person who believes that the right opening line will get him laid with hot girls.
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:00 PM
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Something like 90% of chicks end up regretting the circumstances where they've lost their virginities. If it hadn't been for Op, it would have been somebody else. Maybe you should take your white knight act elsewhere.
/r/seduction26/10/14 01:06 AM
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I had a funny experience with Tinder - I removed my profile description (left it completely blank), and I started getting more matches! What's your take on that? Perhaps women like the mystery guy with a decent photo and want to find out more about him, or perhaps my profile text was so terrible that it actually turned off the women who might have been interested otherwise?
/r/seduction14/10/14 08:56 PM
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As a man or logic and reason, the cognitive dissonance girls have is just mind-blowing. Here we have a girl who meets a guy on Tinder and goes to his place to fuck within a few hours of meeting him for the first time, and all this time she kept telling herself "we're not having sex". As if there ever was any other possible outcome for the evening.
/r/seduction09/10/14 06:54 PM
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Imagine you're 30, or 40. Would you rather think that "Damn, I'm making a lot of money right now and can do whatever I want" or "Yeah, I'll work at a dead-end job for the rest of my life, but at least I got a bit of pussy when I was a kid"? However you might want to think if you could fit both working and dating together. You might actually be working too much, which might do more damage than good for you long-term.
/r/seduction09/02/14 03:30 AM
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Whaat? You're saying that girls enjoy getting their asses grabbed by random guys at the dance floor? Personally I go there to have fun. I have no romantic (or sexual) interest in my female friends.
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:31 AM
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It happens every night at the club (if your girlfriends are moderately attractive). The drunk guy going for an ass-grab on the dancefloor is usually not much of a player, though the girls tend to be too shy to really do anything about it. You really don't want to be known as the guy who did nothing but watch either. Which is my point, you don't always know what to do.
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:23 AM
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Do you have young female friends who like to drink? Most of the time, they can't. Again, I'm not cockblocking anyone if they're having fun. But you do see legitimate creepsters in clubs all the time and most women don't know how to deal with them.
/r/seduction31/01/14 10:31 PM
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Great video. I have to say sometimes it's tough to know what to do when some random guy starts grinding one of my female friends in a bar. I'm not gonna cock- or pussyblock anyone, so if they're having fun I don't mind them going at it. But at the same time I do feel it's a man's responsibility to take care of his friends, so as a man I can't have some random douche start molesting my friend on a dancefloor, so I have to step in and do something. Sometimes you can see if she's into it or not, so…
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:47 PM
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I was just going to ask about Eastern Europe because I live there (Hungary)! Do you feel there is a language barrier, I'm assuming you approach speaking English (any nice opening lines?)? Do you ask if they speak English or do you assume they do? What do you do if they're receptive, but it's obvious that they just don't understand? Sorry if that's a lot of questions. Certainly a lot of women here are interested in meeting a (wealthy) foreigner, but at the same their their knowledge of English is…
/r/seduction29/01/14 01:35 AM
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It exists in Europe as well, but almost certainly originates from American TV and movies, where somehow getting a number gets you laid, almost as if it were some sort of a secret yet guaranteed method to get her to bed. Maybe in the age before cell phones and social media girls were more cautious about giving the number so that you were kind of special to get it, but nowadays it's almost as casual as asking for her name. Sure, getting a girl's number for the first time is exciting for everyone, …
/r/seduction22/01/14 06:39 PM
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I like to start comparing hands which is a smooth way to get some kino going. Then you could either say "well, you've got baby hands" or "well, you've got man hands" depending on which way she is. Just keep it funny and don't let that shit get to you. You don't need a canned line, just have fun out there.
/r/seduction22/01/14 03:05 PM
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I already commented of a few other comments but here's my opinion, unfortunately I don't have any easy answers. I'm 28, lost my virginity at 22, never been in a relationship for more than 2 weeks. I get along with girls just fine, getting kisses, dates, sex, every now and then. Focused a lot on my career and it's starting to pay off quite well. But never a relationship with anyone, because I've been to scared or didn't think the girls were good enough. What I can tell you from experience that wo…
/r/seduction12/01/14 08:16 PM
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This is the correct way to do it. I'm shocked that the two top-voted comments at the moment say "let's stop looking and hope for the best".
/r/seduction12/01/14 08:04 PM
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While I agree in principle, this can be a very dangerous path if taken too literally. I see a lot of older people, men and women, who have come to this realization and stopped looking, and never found anyone. The women in particular have replaced boyfriends and children in their family with pets and flood their Facebook feed with pics of their dogs as if they were her children. I think this is the type of person who has been single for so long, his brain has given up on hope and started to accep…
/r/seduction12/01/14 07:58 PM
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This would be my guess as well when I read that he did this in places like Thailand or the Dominican Republic. Maybe not literal money-in-exchange-for-sex relationships, but almost certainly some sorts of sugar-daddy arrangements were at least expected by the women. Frankly, I wouldn't even have the energy to sleep with 100 different women in a year, assuming that you have to work on gaming all of them before getting them in bed. That's 2 new girls every week.
/r/seduction11/01/14 05:07 PM
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I won't comment on if it was fake or not, but 2 things. The guy said that he did it a few years ago, so they may have started banning people more easily since then. Second, posting a photo of a Ferrari on a dating site just screams fake rich and I'm sure most girls would see past that. Being a chubby normal guy would probably give you better success simply for being genuine.
/r/seduction11/01/14 03:48 PM
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Sure, but you should know where you stand. Does she want to see you again, or did she just give you a number to get rid of you? If you can't answer that, then the report can be terribly biased. Maybe you think you did a fantastic approach, but she secretly hated it? Since you're going to follow up on those numbers anyway (right?), then at least shoot her a simple text after meeting her to see if she responds.
/r/seduction09/01/14 10:20 PM
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One thing I don't like is field reports about #closes that haven't been followed up. Getting a number isn't difficult. What you need is a number that's verified, and one that the girl responds to when you call or text her. I'm certain that a lot of these enthusiastic, "eye-opening" field reports end up with "tried to call her, she didn't answer, texted her, she didn't answer". So, if you want to write about a #close, at least check that she responds to the number first. [edit] Better yet, set up…
/r/seduction09/01/14 09:39 PM
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Forget about 'em. Be polite and all when you see them, but don't give them anything more than that, you're unlikely to ever get them in bed, much less in a relationship. These are the types of girls who are trying to game you, not the other way around. Classic push-pull maneuver. They want to have you at their fingertips, and prove to themselves that they could still have you, IF they wanted to.
/r/seduction09/01/14 12:38 PM
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Single - Can't get a girlfriend, there must be something wrong with you, better stay away. In a relationship - You are at least good enough to keep a girlfriend, therefore you must be attractive. In addition they want to know if they'd be better than your current one.
/r/seduction08/01/14 05:19 AM
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That is impressive, well done. Gotta ask, I assume you live in the US, what sort of a city/area do you live in? As in size, how many people live there? I couldn't do that simply for the fact that there are barely 100 women in my city, if that.
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:16 AM
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My issue has always been how to game girls who are already in your social circles. Classmates, friends of friends and so on. They already know a lot of things about me, yet we don't meet often enough to be considered friends. So they know about my history and flaws, and I can't pretend to be any better than how they already see me. I think some of them are attracted to me, but it's very difficult to make a move when you've already established a sort of friendship (not friendzoned, but you're use…
/r/seduction06/01/14 11:59 PM
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Only HB5? I don't mean to criticize but typically when a guy is interested in a girl he'll rate her at least a 7, even if she isn't beautiful in a traditional sense :)
/r/seduction27/12/13 01:26 PM
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I hate to be a cynic and a hater, but... 1) There is a reason gym game is frowned upon, and 2) getting a number doesn't mean jack shit if she just gave it to you to get rid of you. Have you even verified the number? Takes less than a minute to send her a text "nice meeting you" or whatever to see if you actually got something going on or not. I hope you succeed and do a follow up if she actually picks up the phone and you meet her on a date. What I'm afraid of right now is that she's looking for…
/r/seduction23/12/13 10:12 PM
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I've yet to finish Mr. Nice Guy, but I so far I don't see anything contradictory. Sounds like you've misunderstood at least one of the books. Actually it sounds like you think that the message of Mr Nice Guy is "be an asshole". Don't do that.
/r/seduction23/12/13 02:21 AM
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Absolutely. I used to talk in a very fast pace, and it was most likely because of my insecurities. I would feel that I have to quickly finish my sentences, because deep inside I felt that whatever I was saying wasn't very important and was just bothering everybody, and afraid that if I took too long people would stop listening, or stop me from talking. Practice speaking slowly. Make meaningful pauses. Never use filler words like "umm" or "like" (it's like, very important).
/r/seduction09/12/13 02:40 PM
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Yeah me too. I'm probably thinking too much into it, but it feels very artificial, especially if I say that I'm in a hurry to go somewhere and then I stay there to chat, doesn't that make me a phony?
/r/seduction06/11/13 03:08 AM
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Great stuff. A big problem with a lot of pick-up material is that it's all about the USA, and you just know that stuff like that wouldn't work in Europe. I'm from Scandinavia and bragging does not go well over there at all. I'm also glad to see that other countries aren't that big on touching either, I find that really strange if I have to do that, even with friends. Can also attest to the fact that breaking the ice is difficult, but once you make it, you're good. Whereas a lot of the Americans …
/r/seduction30/10/13 06:00 PM
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Having a lot of money is like having a big dick. Either you have it or you don't, there's no reason to let that define who you are.
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:11 PM
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The key here is that YOU CAN BE THAT GUY if you only believed in it.
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:05 PM
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Absolutely. Other here seem to suggest that you start flirting with her, teasing her, and that's exactly what she means when she orders you to entertain her. I would, depending on how well I know her, either not respond at all or tell that bitch to fuck off, and see if she comes up with an apology and understanding that this is not how this relationship is going to work.
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:01 PM
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Yeah I agree. Many girls will gladly take new people on Facebook just to inflate their friends counter, but it usually comes with mutual understanding that we add each other but don't talk to each other because that would be weird. Getting a number is a lot more forward and sets the tone for future interactions.
/r/seduction07/10/13 04:14 AM
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Thanks, some of these are very clever without being forced. I always suck at openers, that coupled with AA makes me a terrible PUA. edit: make sure to give us an update if you come up with more of these :)
/r/seduction03/10/13 09:41 PM
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It's all about social status in my opinion. If you can convince people that you're a 10 then they'll believe you and are willing to overlook any (minor) flaws that you might have and even consider those things as features. Look at Ryan Gosling. If he was a regular guy, women would probably rate him between 7-9. I'm not dissing the guy but I don't think he's particularly handsome or anything. But he gets to play cool guys in movies and he's very popular at the moment, so women consider him to be …
/r/seduction25/09/13 04:23 PM
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I would agree that if you're in your mid to late 20s then you'll want to get rid of your virginity any way you can. While it can get expensive, it's good to see what sex is and that you are physically able to do it. However prostitute sex is nothing like real sex. It's mechanical, you're in a hurry so no cuddling or chatting, no connection at all. You probably don't ever know her real name and age. I think you're problem is that you are too concerned at "performing" at bed. Remember that sex is …
/r/seduction19/09/13 03:37 AM
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It's probably not the best opener, but it's never a bad one. In other words, if you can't think of a better one, "hi" will do just fine.
/r/seduction17/09/13 06:32 PM
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Wow this is my first top comment, exciting! Anyway I wouldn't call it a technicality because so many people take it at face value, although there are plenty of good point made here. A lot of men seem to genuinely think that being a nice person is a bad thing, and then they do everything in their powers to be as much of an asshole as possible (thus likely making their chances with women even worse).
/r/seduction03/09/13 03:19 PM
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I dislike the word "nice guy" because it has nothing to do with the problem, and it leads to the thinking that men have to be the opposite of nice. You can have loads of confidence, success, be a rock star, and still be a genuinely nice person. And then again you can still be an insecure needy asshole.
/r/seduction02/09/13 06:27 PM
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