poppy03 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
306	Wish I knew about FDS when I was younger	MOOD FOR LIFE	poppy03	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 08:36 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
85	Tell Women The Truth About Butt Sex (FDS PATREON) This isn’t fair. I do enjoy it but with a toy or finger . You shouldn’t speak for all women about pleasure	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/22 05:14 PM
38	A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you? They always say that we are just fat with cats. Although I do have 2 kitties ❤️ They can’t fathom that attractive, successful women navigate the dating world as FDS. You just probably won’t know or notice	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 04:19 PM
14	Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you? Buddy tf - why would I marry someone who loves me and another woman romantically? If he wants to be poly, I’d just leave him. I’m not down for that. How is it dramatic if ur husband is cheating on you? Yeah I believe if someone cheats on you, they don’t actually truly love you because who would want to hurt someone they love like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 03:54 PM
2	If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reason I agree you shouldn’t try to change a man. Sometimes some men just process and express things differently. Women should be aware that you can’t change it and if it’s an important need for you, it’s best to walk away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 02:34 PM
37	Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you? 1 is worse. It’s effort, it’s love and it’s deliberate. It’s true betrayal. And clearly he doesn’t love me. 1 would hurt my soul. 2 I’ll be okay. I leave either way though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 06:31 AM
0	If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reason Yeah I agree, I think it’s nuanced too. I think some people struggle between understanding ‘is he emotionally unavailable or is he just not that into me?’	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 06:30 AM
1	If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reason So it doesn’t really show till later in the relationship, typically when you are becoming emotionally closer. They don’t talk much about your/their future, they don’t talk about their feelings much, what they hope for or their fears or their inner thoughts. When you ask things, their answers are off? It’s hard to explain. . They are bottling up a lot. In my experience it has came down to a previous break up that really hurt them and that they didn’t work through in a constructive healthy way. Wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 04:43 AM
14	As a woman which would be worse for you, to be solely valued as a success object or as a sex object? Lol when have men been only values for their looks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 12:04 AM
-2	If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reason How can you say that? He literally said men will get a woman who loves him but he doesn’t care about her. It’s literally not a woman thing. Clearly goes both ways. It’s just very difficult to find mutual love	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 12:01 AM
0	If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reason I’ve been with men that are emotionally available and one’s who weren’t. The latter hadn’t worked through their trauma or whatever was causing it yet. For any woman’s sake - please avoid these men unless you want a casual fling. Being with an emotionally available man is sooo much better	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 12:00 AM
10	How long does it take you to say that you love someone? I wait for him to say it first typically but I have said it first before. I do feel it within the first 3-4 months if I love him and I think that’s the same for most men. If he doesn’t say it to me within the first 4 months of dating, I usually make plans to leave.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 03:28 PM
102	Is it just me or do men not know how to talk to women anymore? It seems like every conversation involves some sort of pick up artist technique instead of being genuine Idk why they are like this. Just tell her she’s pretty and buy her a drink or ask her to dinner. If she finds you attractive she’ll say yeah - if she doesn’t no. I know some guys are normal though I was asked out last week by a guy telling me he thought I was really pretty and asked to take me to dinner.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 04:48 AM
1	One woman with 4 husbands Ah okay, I didn’t know about that. I knew about nikkah but I didn’t know about the contract and how enforceable it was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 04:47 AM
1	As the Relationship Grows More Committed, Sex Declines I honestly don’t know. In all my relationships, sex didn’t decline that much. But I did enjoy it a bit less in a different kind of way? It’s like I needed more effort. I think it’s more her sex standard goes up. Before you didn’t have to do much to get her in the mood, the newness of the relationship helped her. Now you are comfortable, you need to step it up. That being said, often times men don’t. This also happens vise versa!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 10:57 PM
4	Why do women care more about facial attractiveness than men? I think if we’re talking relationships - men care about face just as much as women. That being said women who typically care about body are women who take really good care of their bodies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 10:54 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m sorry, I misunderstood when you said no effort. I thought you meant no effort in relationships not dating. I do agree on average men put way more work in dating and are expected to. But I agree once in a relationship, on average - women do more of the work. I don’t agree that the guy is better overall half in the relationship. If we’re talking overall, I have to say 50-50. Especially if we look within our friend groups, it’s basically some couples the guy is overall better or the girl is. An…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 10:45 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I honestly think this is an over generalization of womens sleeping habits. I know it’s not fair to use anecdotal references but within my own friend group theirs like maybe 2 that do the every 6 months thing if they don’t have a bf. The rest don’t. More women than you know are virgins, don’t have sex unless committed (maybe had 1-3 mistakes earlier in life when women aren’t good at showing boundaries). I don’t know why men think all women are just having sex. Some women go years without it. I we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 10:19 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean I think theirs an over generalization that women are just having sex with ‘chads’. Like my friends have had regrettable and non-regrettable sex with average men. I think some men WANT to believe that the reason they are having trouble getting casual sex is because some Chad is getting it all. Divorces are majority initiated by women. I don’t think it’s because ‘chad’ again some men finding this invisible man to blame. When most of the time the women is tired of doing all the housework, em…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 09:32 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The chad thing is dumb. I mean just like any person, they want to be in a relationship with someone they are attracted to. But let’s be real - in relationships the woman is typically always more attractive than the male. I feel the men that bitch about this are just feeling mad/bitter about their failed sex prospects. That’s why I’m saying most women just stop having casual sex cause it’s just disappointing. And super hot guys eventually lose their sparkle after 2+ failed orgasms/sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 08:04 PM
3	One woman with 4 husbands I think some the first wife has to agree, but in practice I’m sure her opinion doesn’t matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 07:19 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I meant women who do go after the hottest guys for sex. And I typically mean short term-arrangements. Those who aren’t looking for friendship or understanding from a sexual partner. Usually a woman eventually stops the former though. I’d say pretty quickly cause he isn’t going to make her orgasm either lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 06:08 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I feel like men don’t lol. plus a lot of women lie about having an orgasm (I certainly have). We need to say this louder, maybe we’d finally get orgasms if we choose to participate in casual sex!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 06:01 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah I’m taking purely sex/casual. Like I’m not even going to orgasm from a casual thing and him being hot doesn’t matter to me. So I just don’t have sex unless I’m in a committed thing. Way less disappointing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 05:42 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I honestly think the reason women go after the hottest guys for sex is because 99% she’s not going to orgasm anyways so he might as well be hot. But then they grow out of that because that’s gets disappointing too. I think if female orgasms were as closely guaranteed as male orgasms - women would have more casual sex and not just going after the hottest guy,	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 05:27 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread How can a virgin push for rough sex if she’s never had sex lol, she’s not pushing for any sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 05:25 PM
1	Does her history matter? pt.2: Divorce, Relationship Stability & Happiness (tags: n count, body count, sexual past, sexual history, promiscuous, promiscuity) Righttttt. And like if I was very conservative and married my first boyfriend/sexual partner and stayed with him 🤢🤢 I would have never experienced the better sex/better partners I had post-him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 05:19 PM
-1	If you discovered your son was redpill/incell/mgtow how would you handle that. Idk, I’m calling my brother to take care of this so he can knock some sense into him. Since he’s like this - he prob won’t take my advice srsly m since I’m a woman. So need to have my brothers talk to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 03:53 PM
3	Fellow men, women don't say the truth because WE get angry when they do Honestly so freaking factual. I never care about a males physical preferences. More power to him, he SHOULD be picky! But damn if I say I only prefer to date men with bigger than average dicks, good money, fit and a nice buff chest - it’s at the stake for me. Like damn I also make good money and I workout a lot 🥲. But I also say avg male height and a 6 in the face typically fine - im lying. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 03:51 PM
2	Does her history matter? pt.2: Divorce, Relationship Stability & Happiness (tags: n count, body count, sexual past, sexual history, promiscuous, promiscuity) If you don’t know what good sex is or don’t have anything to compare it too - makes sense you wouldn’t be dissatisfied if it’s all you know lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 03:43 PM
1	Do you have any male friends? I have one male best friend. We both like video games and we’re both ambitious and have ‘high power’ jobs. He’s also really emotionally intelligent so we talk about a lot things with each other. We are very supportive of each other. I love him so much as my friend and whatever girl gets to marry him will be really happy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 01:11 PM
-2	Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For Men That’s oddly specific. She didn’t pay and maybe she didn’t want anything to do with him either? Two consenting adults who didn’t have to be paid to say yes. I mean if a guy had casual consenting sex with women he didn’t have to pay for, that’s fine. But if you’re mad about what you said - I think it’s more personal. It seems you’re upset because you don’t think you have the ability to have casual consenting sex with women you find very attractive. A guy paying for sex seems like someone who can’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 01:00 PM
0	Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For Men I’m not sure what your definition of most women getting paid for sex means? When I would have sex with my ex-boyfriend it was because I liked him and found him attractive. I loved to have sex with him and our connection. If I didn’t feel that way about him, I wouldn’t have sex with him. With prostitution - he or she doesn’t need to find you attractive/like you. You pay and they say yes. That’s the gross part - it doesn’t matter how he/she feels about you. You literally had to pay for it. You cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 05:31 PM
8	Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For Men It’s not that. We’d think you have options for sex regardless of prostitutes or other women. It’s just gross to many women that he paid for sex. So the woman is literally obligated to have sex with him even if she isn’t attracted to him. Like he is totally okay with that. That’s the gross part, it just seems desperate. And who likes desperate? That being said I do think prostitution should be legalized. It’s safer for the those who are prostitutes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 02:51 PM
0	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date I don’t think anything is inherently wrong with it, I just personally would not ever go on a walking date for the first 3 dates. The guy would not be the right one for me but I’m sure he’ll be the right guy for someone else who doesn’t mind it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 05:31 AM
5	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 39 - Casual Sex, Part 1: Don‘t Do It, But if You Do, Sit On His Face) + Real Estate Stalker Love this podcast so much, I listen when I’m working and when I’m working out LOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/21 04:39 PM
393	Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds. as if avoiding mentally ill men or financially insecure men is a bad thing 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 02:24 PM
114	Men who want to be there for you won't let excuses stop them. I’m gonna just say even LVM do this. If I was sick or not feeling great my ex would come over with food, medicine, drinks etc	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/21 07:30 PM
19	FDS is NOT categorically against OLD. Thats a shame, I’m assuming your black (I am too) and would love to hear your experience and learn from you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/21 12:49 AM
56	[deleted by user] My ex was real tall with a muscular swimmer body, great jaw and lips and dark thick hair. I thought he was really handsome. I liked looking at him. I loved being under him. The only thing that sucks is he def put my look standards up and it’s quite hard to find men 6’1+ - I didn’t notice how few men are that tall. Although I did wish his dick was longer lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 03:39 AM
7	How do I [27F] forgive myself for my past dating mistakes? How did you work on your codependency? I think I have this issue too	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 04:05 AM
21	How do you deal with rejection? Just need to accept it. Rejection isn’t a reflection on you. It’s just redirection.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 02:44 AM
6	If he needs space from the relationship, it's a no. thanks so much for posting, I really needed to read this in case that happened in my relationship. Really proud of you and totally look up to you for handling it the way you are	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/21 03:37 AM
1	How do you feel about snooping? Why would the sub be banned for a post about snooping lol? I personally don’t snoop and I don’t like people to snoop in my phone. But I have nothing to hide so I’m not gonna do 1-3 lmao. That’s so extra	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 01:03 AM
21	“…he’s choked me unconscious before. I didn’t really mind…” UM WHAT. what is worse than a red flag. This is like a eject button situation	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/21 04:41 AM
6	Why is it the most hideous men that are Ethically Non Monogamous (ENM)? It’s the ugliest guys I swear	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/21 09:31 PM
2	Why is he single ladies??? Where is his queen?? Lmaoooo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/21 03:15 AM