popsickle80 Archive

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0	Ethnic girls are often easier to connect with than American girls...what say you?		popsickle80	/r/seduction	22/02/14 01:34 AM

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1	The difference between giving value and beeing needy I would also recommend you dig into some personal development books. My favorites are the classics like "Think & Grow Rich" and "How To Win Friends & Influence People". You can pick these up on Amazon dirt cheap. Reading these will begin to open your mind up to more ambitious horizons. You will begin to carry yourself with different energy. Everyone around you will begin to sense you have greater purpose and high goals for yourself. Women in particular will respond to this...trust me! Also, my f…	/r/seduction	23/02/14 08:52 PM
2	The difference between giving value and beeing needy That's bad ass! Love to hear the feedback. Keep at it man!	/r/seduction	23/02/14 08:43 PM
2	Need daytime picking up tips. I agree with you to an extent and I know where you are coming from. Every girl is different and I tell guys NOT to lead in with that in many situations. Telling a girl she is pretty does not build attraction alone and done with the wrong energy just looks needy - I get that. However, there are times when you can. It's really all about energy and whether he is being genuine and confident. If a guy comes up to you and offers a compliment and your female military grade radar for bullshit picks up o…	/r/seduction	23/02/14 08:33 PM
0	Ethnic girls are often easier to connect with than American girls...what say you? You are aware that you just brought zero value to the conversation, right?	/r/seduction	22/02/14 08:10 PM
1	How to keep up interest while away? This is were a little social intelligence comes into play. You obviously can't perfectly overlay every tactic onto every situation. What's important is to grasp the principles behind it and apply them in the context of your own situation. In regards to offending the girl...I would ask what kind of energy and connection he had with her. Is she a bubbly funny girl full of laughs and life or a home body who can't wait to relax at church on Sunday. Make a judgement call and go for it.	/r/seduction	22/02/14 08:05 PM
1	How do you find parties and stuff? I'm not so much into the EDM stuff personally - I'm in my early 30's so the house party and rave type scenes and all that I'm not so much into anymore. That being said, I still go out. I'm in LA and will hit up a nicer night club on occasion, but lately I've enjoyed more places with I can have conversations and not compete with the music volume to speak. Bars, patio lounges, 5 star hotel lounges, etc.	/r/seduction	22/02/14 07:46 PM
1	Need daytime picking up tips. So let's clarify here because I think our difference in opinion has to do more with semantics. When I mean direct I mean that your intentions should be very clear to her right up front...that your interested and not ashamed of it. This could still be communicated indirectly with your words, but your body language, confidence, and overall energy are still communicating this. What I'm trying to say NOT to do is come up and open on false pretenses such as "Hey...do you know where Starbucks is?". YE…	/r/seduction	22/02/14 07:40 PM
6	Need daytime picking up tips. For daytime it's much better to be direct. You usually don't have a lot of time to build rapport with the girl. Go up the girl completely confidently and tell her she looks cute, pretty, whatever. Flirt with her right off the bat. She will usually say something like "oh thank you!" - as soon as you hear that stick out your hand and introduce yourself. Don't allow silence after that as she will begin to feel awkward. Here's how I have done it: Me: Approach girl - "Hi...I just saw you and felt lik…	/r/seduction	22/02/14 04:38 AM
1	Guys: Why ask for my # if you're not going to call? lol...classic. Well here's the bottom line. You're attracting what you are currently energetically - someone who's not interested in commitment. You don't sound like you want to deal with a relationship but still want the sex. When you give it up that quickly the guy doesn't hold you to the same respect level as someone he had to invest more time and energy into...it's just biological attraction and no real connection (usually). He was horny...you were horny and you were both down to play. Even …	/r/seduction	22/02/14 04:08 AM
3	How do you find parties and stuff? I used to be terrified to dance and decided to face my fear. Now I get lots of attention from women when I do...and I'm not great. I just learned some basics and mainly feel the groove. Women are into the energy of it and don't judge you harshly. As far as the party scene. You just have to jump in and start. Make guy friends first and don't creep on their girls. Simply asking a guy his permission to talk to a girl you think my be on his radar will earn you man points...it's just basic respect...…	/r/seduction	22/02/14 03:33 AM
4	Shame of showing a sexual side. Many times guys are afraid to show their sexual intent because they have been taught it's creepy or bad manners - there's a primal fear that the woman will immediately reject. Other possible reasons could be much deeper such as stemming from sexual abuse. Many men raised by women and by fathers that are not very masculine suffer from this. I had to work through it myself to some degree. The reality is that women LOVE to be seduced and if you don't escalate quickly when she is showing interest yo…	/r/seduction	22/02/14 03:04 AM
4	How to keep up interest while away? I agree with deviantkrug...definitely don't stall out your game just for them. However, I would ping text them now and again to keep a little tension up and maintain good rapport. Here's an example of one I've done before. I recently took a photo of a rather old unattractive dude...you know one of those people of walmart types. haha I texted the photo to the girl I was talking to out of the blue and said something like "Hey...I told him all about you and he's totally digging you. Just gave him y…	/r/seduction	22/02/14 02:00 AM
13	The difference between giving value and beeing needy If you feel the need for her to recognize and validate your attempt at demonstrating value to her...then you're being needy. Here's an exercise you can try. First: Write out on paper exactly what kind of girl you like...I'm talking about your perfect 10. Find a pic of the ideal girl too if you can online...I don't care how hot...your ideal dream girl. But don't focus just on looks looks either. What's her attitude like? Common interest? Be picky as hell...women are. This is your ideal woman. Wri…	/r/seduction	22/02/14 01:50 AM