porkgonzola Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
46	How do I surround myself with beautiful women without falling for the first option?	Lifestyle	porkgonzola	/r/seduction	25/11/24 03:30 PM
32	Need advice on sending the first text after getting numbers?	Escalation & Calibration	porkgonzola	/r/seduction	14/09/24 05:56 AM
12	How do I walk up to a woman if the time and place isn't really right for it?	Field Report	porkgonzola	/r/seduction	11/02/25 07:39 AM

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1	Why KINO is the Difference Between the Friendzone and Attraction This depends on the woman. If she's the type to touch a lot, then you want to reciprocate that and escalate accordingly. But if she isn't, (which is pretty common now that neurodivergency is basically a trend these days) then you want to make the moments you touch her matter. There's no one size fits all method for this either, you have to decide when it's the right time and place to break the touch barrier in a way that is memorable. Its a small moment that can leave a big impact on her. The fl…	/r/seduction	10/02/25 06:55 PM
31	Advice on seducing a man Username checks out	/r/seduction	09/12/24 09:14 AM
4	How much does a great body help in attracting females? You dont have to be ripped to look good with your clothes on and that's how you'll be meeting women most of the time anyway, it's more important to try look like the kind of guy that attracts the type of women you're interested in. I naturally have an inverted triangle torso with a large defined chest and a 6 pack but my arms are relatively small in comparison. I wear baggy clothes and have glasses so I look pretty average most of the time. But as soon as I have to take my shirt and glasses off …	/r/seduction	29/11/24 05:42 AM
1	How do I surround myself with beautiful women without falling for the first option? Ahh fair enough I can see why you made the correlation now. In my case I've been mostly in long term relationships since I was a teenager so there isn't a clear period of previous porn consumption, it's a lot of overlap with my relationships and I always had healthy communication surrounding porn use in those relationships. Ive definitely always had some issues with self esteem one way or another, but im working on that	/r/seduction	28/11/24 08:18 AM
1	How do I surround myself with beautiful women without falling for the first option? I dont mean to be rude but I think youre reflecting a personal experience you've had/witnessed that doesnt really fit my scenario. There's definitely a cyclical pattern but it starts and ends with the women in my life, not the other way around. I'm here to try and look for answers that might better myself after all, if I had an issue with porn worth exploring then there's no reason I wouldn't try. Porn just doesn't have any influence In my life that I'm not consciously aware/in control of. If yo…	/r/seduction	27/11/24 07:16 PM
1	How do I surround myself with beautiful women without falling for the first option? No, if anything my porn consumption is influenced by the women I've fallen for. Porn becomes less and less interesting the longer I go without sex. This is a bit of a 4th wall breaking thought to think out loud but I always tend to watch porn that reminds me of my girlfriend at the time. Its getting difficult to watch porn nowadays since it's been a year and the "type" that turns me on the most, reminds me of my ex..	/r/seduction	27/11/24 04:20 PM
1	How do I surround myself with beautiful women without falling for the first option? Yes and no. I can get into porn and sex very intensely and dive deeply into it just like any of my other hobbies, but in the same respect, I can also fall out of it for months at a time in favour of other interests. There were times where I felt like I should be worried given all the stigma around porn addiction but Ive come to the conclusion that even though my porn use might look problematic when I am into it, overall I have a healthy relationship with porn. It actually makes me more confident…	/r/seduction	27/11/24 04:17 AM
1	How do I surround myself with beautiful women without falling for the first option? I think I have the opposite issue, my life is filled with so many hobbies, interests, work, that I feel like I almost settle for the first option and try to ignore red flags because I know that if it doesn't work out I'll most likely be consumed by my life again and it'll be a while before I have the chance to start taking dating seriously again. I definitely struggle with limerance, I feel like im hard wired that way now, I have to fall in love with the idea of a woman before I can actually fal…	/r/seduction	27/11/24 04:07 AM
10	How do I surround myself with beautiful women without falling for the first option? My most important principles are honesty, communication and connection. If any of those things are off, then I'm off. But more often than not, it's usually too late before I notice those things lacking and my investment overwhelms my judgement... So you're absolutely right that im not making proper qualifying checks. I want to try your solution. I've always been of the mind that if im going to sleep with a girl that there has to be some level of exclusivity. I'm in my late 20s but Ive always had…	/r/seduction	25/11/24 04:57 PM
51	Have you ever picked up a girl that was grinding on another guy? Maybe she's just into older dudes. Not that uncommon these days. Either that or she's an escort.	/r/seduction	10/11/24 04:46 PM
6	How can I seduce a guy I connected with on LinkedIn? Unrelated but you sound like Tyrion Lannister	/r/seduction	05/11/24 07:44 AM
3	What are some of your go-to witty remarks? LOL brutal	/r/seduction	02/11/24 04:48 AM
2	2 random signs of attraction This sounds more in line with my experience. On the few occasions where a woman has approached me in a bar/club, they were all within 1-2 years of my age and correctly guessed my age within the same margin. (mid-20s) I tend to find that woman are more comfortable speaking to men around the same age as them and they will guess your age based on their own. If they're younger, they'll guess you're younger, if they're older, they'll guess your older, etc.	/r/seduction	18/10/24 07:21 AM