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First off you're really young and that's great. You already have the insight into yourself that it took me at least another 5 to 10 years to develop. So be proud of that. The advice I would give you is to practice conflict. Practice conflict. I can't stress this enough. Now this is difficult to do without being unreasonable and unlikable. But I've found embracing and actually loving conflict to be liberating. If someone at work has a problem with me I happily tell them that I have enough friends…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:30 PM
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Quite simply you scared the cat.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:51 PM
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Hey man, you're in a very tough situation and it's very hard for those of us who haven't been in a situation like this to give advice. Having worked with young patients in similar situations I understand that all you want is for this problem to go away and to be able to get on with your life like it seems your peers are doing. What I would say is that since you're in a situation that is different than them and harder than anything most of us can fathom when you beat this you will come out mental…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:35 AM
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A lot of those dudes are gay.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:19 AM
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I have tried a gradual breakup before in a similar situation. It doesn't work. Just break up with her. One of the most important points to remember here and always is that you can't negotiate attraction. Both A and B seem to be attempting that.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:39 PM
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Sorry you're in this mess. In my opinion this relationship is doomed. You don't say your age but I'm going to assume early to mid twenties. Correct me if I'm mistaken. A dead bedroom at this age with no kids yet and this early into the relationship is a harbinger of relationship doom. There will never be a better time to leave than now. No kids, -again I'm assuming - but I'll guess that a split wouldn't be too costly for either party and (if you are young like I assumed) you have lots of time to…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/20 01:26 PM
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Judging by your post history the problem is that you're gayer than Christmas.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:01 PM
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One of the things I learned very slowly as I went through my 20s and 30s is that there is only one person I can always count on. You have learned this lesson in a harsher and hastier way than most. To help with your imposter syndrome I would advise you to give yourself credit for your successes but also blame yourself for failures. I have found that holding myself accountable when shit goes wrong is the price I pay for enjoying my successes and giving myself credit for them. You made the choice …
/r/askTRP13/02/20 11:54 PM
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I think you have misunderstood the psychology of alpha-widowhood.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:33 AM
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That's what he said. I had to read it twice too.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 02:34 AM
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Not sure why this is currently the most controversial comment. Most accurate IMO and it's pure sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 02:31 AM
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Previously dating an abusive guy like that (and for 4 years no less!) is an absolute exclusion criteria for anything more than occasional meaningless fucking for me. To each their own though.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:41 PM
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I respectfully disagree with this. The main tactic women use to bring you back into their web is the only bargaining chip they have in this situation: pussy. Sometimes they'll even try to get pregnant to lock you in. Resist this temptation at all costs.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 04:07 PM
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All I have to say is congratulations.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 04:04 PM
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Hahaha I would watch a TV show called "surrogates, nannies and hookers".
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:39 AM
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It's possible she used the "can I bring a friend" bit to gauge your reaction. The fact that she gave you an out (that you took) to me means that she is up for being alone with you at your place. N.b. if a girl is ok being alone with you she's ok being boned by you. Never forget that. I forgot that so many times in my BP days and missed SO many opportunities to bash some squish mitten.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:31 AM
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Interesting idea. I got lucky and found a wife who does an excellent job at home and can handle anything thrown at her and never bitches at me. I realize this can be hard to find but I'd advise you to be patient and you'll find they're out there. My concern is the effect not having an actual mom might have on them. There's a reason a traditional family is traditional and important in every culture. HIred help is never going to have the commitment to your family that a real mother will. As a busi…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:05 AM
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I think the most important thing to consider is finding a wife who won't constantly give you shit and is smart and organized enough that she can handle the kids during the day without calling/ texting every hour asking when you're going to be home to help. My advice to you is likely a bit different than others might give: I would prioritize this single trait over anything else. Believe me when I say that this is way more important than having a 10 as a wife. Now I'm not suggesting you get yourse…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:55 AM
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Hey not sure if it's been mentioned yet but joining a martial arts club is a good way to meet solid people. Also are you good at any sports? Joining a men's team would be another excellent option.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:06 PM
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I had this happen one time years ago and I just went over to the guy and grabbed his ass and when he turned around I just stared at him grinning. He got super uncomfortable and I continued staring deeply into his eyes. Worked for me.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:43 PM
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OK two things: First is that I think you lack insight into yourself. You are flawed (but fixable) and I don't think you realize that your flaws and your bad decisions have gotten you into this mess. Take some fucking ownership. That's the first step. Second problem is that you don't seem to have a plan. Or if you do have a plan it's half baked. You're in a mess and the task ahead seems insurmountable. It isn't. You need to make a plan and break it up into small segments which on their own are ac…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 08:36 PM
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Hahahaha savage!
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:37 PM
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Classic borderline personality disorder. You have dodged a very serious bullet my man.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:37 PM
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That cunt looks pretty ugly too.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/19 02:09 AM
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I totally agree. If you want to collect trash go hang out at the dump. That being said some of the less mainstream clubs in the bigger cities may have some interesting people inside. Bars with good jazz bands playing or actual non mainstream music are probably going to attract people for the music and weed out the girls who come dressed like hookers collecting in-person likes. For me I find the type of music playing is pretty indicative of the calibre of people inside. Top40 low effort shit musi…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:39 PM
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I hear you man. My wife is (in my opinion) really beautiful too. But there's no doubt that beat off thinking about her when she's not there attraction dissipates no matter how hot she is. I think that must happen to everyone. And she probably feels that too. I just wonder if that's the problem. And what's your libido like? I mean do you think it's lacking even regarding other women? Like so many answers in this community... Could the problem be something to do with you? Something that you haven'…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 08:05 PM
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I have a question for you: How badly do you want her sexually? Could that be the problem?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 07:49 PM
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My favourite reaction when someone's annoying me by trying to get a reaction is to let out a big yawn while they're talking and start doing something else. Edit: I can't think of a time in the last ten years where I've let a conversation get that out of my control. Why would you even be talking about this shit with a girl? Or anyone? A conversation like this... It's like a chess match: you need to be evaluating possible outcomes a few moves early.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 11:32 PM
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After the edit I'd say it sounds like this "friend" of yours is a mate guarding orbiter trying to throw you off her scent. I'd disregard what he says and make your own fucking decision. The shit she reads is irrelevant. You think hypnotists can't be hypnotized? If you want to fuck her fuck her if you don't don't. Simple.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:23 AM
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This is a fucking great answer. After reading OP's post I was going to mention something about leading by example but you said it 100x more eloquently than I would have. I'd also add that OP unfortunately likely isn't in much of a position to negotiate. For that reason you probably need to just STFU around his mom and as said in the above comment it would probably be wise to silently collect evidence/document everything along the way. I'd keep as much of your correspondence with her in writing a…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:01 AM
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Hey man. Sorry you're going through this. I know what it's like to live in a small place. Can you make a move to a bigger city? Maybe it's worth sacrificing some career opportunities for social opportunities with a move to a better locale?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:48 PM
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What in the blue fuck are "soul ties". What the fuck are you talking about???
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:03 PM
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Or instead of blaming laws and society and drugs and their parents and everything but themselves the addicts (all types) could take responsibility for their actions and use their fucking free will.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:24 AM
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Haha really good question. It was actually good advice that I unwisely disregarded. She said that if I admitted cheating to her it was the most selfish thing I could do because it would just be to assuage my conscience and would just end up hurting the girl unnecessarily. She also said I should break up with her. I unfortunately followed neither of these pearls at the time (although I did break up with her a few years later).
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:28 PM
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I meant more physical prime. That being said I'm probably in better shape 20 years later than I was then...
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:25 PM
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Ok I'm about to make all you fuckers feel a lot better. I was 25 and just finishing medical school. Fucking prime of my life and in amazing shape with no idea of my worth or potential. I was with a girl who was not even close to good enough for me and for some background I'd been with her for over 5 years. I found out she'd cheated on me recently and I literally cried to her like a scared child practically begging her to stay with me balling like a borderline bitch hoping she'd feel bad for me. …
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:29 AM
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How many people do you think had embarrassing cringeworthy pasts that they are ashamed of? I would guess three quarters of men easily. More probably. How many were able to harness their insight into that and drag themselves out from that? Maybe 5 percent of those? When you're feeling down and embarrassed about your past take comfort in the rarefied group you now belong to of men who were able to increase their worth by orders of magnitude. This is uncommon and you should be immensely proud.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:48 PM
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I second that.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:02 PM
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Options (in order of idiocy): 1) Do nothing and fall into father role by default and give life away voluntarily. 2) Wait until it's born and get paternity test at which point it'll probably be too late to do anything about it anywaysb regardless of the result and end up with same result as 1) 3) Take responsibility for his actions and suffer the consequences in full. 3) Get a prenatal paternity test Most people don't know this is a thing. It is a good option but if he is the father this will not…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:48 AM
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Overcoming the fear of rejection and knowing how to handle getting rejected is one of the most important things in Game Life.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 12:55 PM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted as I couldn't agree more. I am in your exact same situation but in Canada. 0.5M. Half to taxes (surgeons here can incorporate so it's a bit different but I'll just pay it later). I wouldn't describe my lifestyle as lavish by any stretch. In fact I worry about money now more than when I was a student/resident. I've always felt that those income/happiness studies are deeply biased commie horseshit. I guaranfuckingtee the people authoring those "studies" aren't…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/19 06:34 PM
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Because it's easier. Although the hard things in life are almost always better for us taking the easy path is just... easier.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:49 AM
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My advice is to be proud of yourself for doing the right thing. When I was in my early 20s I did the exact wrong thing in this situation. So if it's any consolation I'm sitting here wishing I had the presence of mind back then that you do now. My other piece of advice: ride out this shitty time. It gets better. SO much better. Edit: some other advice my dad gave me when I was younger: girls will try to get you back at this point with their pussies and they'll often try to get pregnant. Whatever …
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:11 AM
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You know I think your point is a very good one. A 4 is not going to have the same neuroses and craziness as 7/8+.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 03:30 PM
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Ok I'm going to go against the grain a bit here. I'm not going to go one way or another but I'm going to lay out the risks for you. I'm sure these are obvious to you but you wouldn't be the first one of us with blue nuts to forget the potential downsides: 1) Imagine if she gets pregnant and what that would do to your life. Despite all of your precautions it could still happen. 2) What if she catches feels and she's hard to get rid of. 3) She might not deal with rejection and might try to fuck wi…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:06 AM
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I always ask myself: would I do this "nice" thing for a normal middle aged dude I've never met before? If the answer is no then it's white knight shit.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 06:07 PM
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Here in Canada there was a case where a guy's ex had two people break into his house. I believe he took the knife off them and killed one and hospitalized the other. Even here where we say sorry to burglars he was not charged.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:58 AM
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