portlandobserver Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	When do you just surrender?	portlandobserver	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/21 06:30 PM
4	Change parenting schedule for just a few hours?	portlandobserver	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/21 04:33 PM
1	Numerous Issues	portlandobserver	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/21 03:59 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Change parenting schedule for just a few hours? I actually have primary custody. I have them four nights a week, she has them three. This has nothing to do with weakness, being under her thumb or any other sort of macho bullshit. I'm not paying a lawyer $2000-$3000 dollars to avoid a $200 ticket fee. I could care less if she's angry.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/21 11:33 PM
1	Change parenting schedule for just a few hours? okay, just wondered if there was some sort of 'emergency patenting plan' change form or motion to file. something related to grandparents right. going to talk to the family court advisor tomorrow. I'm not giving the attorney any more money.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/21 11:54 PM
1	Change parenting schedule for just a few hours? But that does nothing to help me now. Our flight is in two weeks and i'm just asking to pick them up at 10 am instead of the usual 4pm. I'm not going to say no - just for the point of saying no. I'm not an asshole. I try to be fair.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/21 07:05 PM
1	When do you just surrender? In all fairness that's what I'm hoping happens to her as well. I think we're both playing a game of chicken with this going to trial BS	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/21 04:25 PM
1	When do you just surrender? The $20,000+ for going to trial just doesn't justify what we're arguing over. ($700 a month in child support, ) Im pretty sure we're on the same page over week on/week off about the kid, and re-financing the house and splitting the equity.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/21 02:37 AM
1	When do you just surrender? I had the full amount of child support then she got it brought down due to me being part time and "not working up to my full potential". Even though I supported her staying at home, and only went to part time after she returned to school and got a job.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/21 08:24 PM
3	When do you just surrender? We've got a trial date, it's just the cost involved. The lawyer of course wants something like a $10-$20k retainer for trial. I'm also concerned she's going to do some sort of bizarre surprise witness or trap thing at trial. Is going to trial with no lawyer and just hoping for the basics (50/50 split, divide the house) even an option or will I get screwed?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/21 07:38 PM