What? Gross. I'm not googling any of that shit I'm not a weirdo who thinks about that kind of shit. But you, you have googled it before, you were interested. Says something about you I think.
A lot of the description here of the guy is classic kneckbeard shit. For the people that actually do dress like that in their real life, it shows other people how unaware they are of societal norms, or are purposely trying to break them. And in the end, most normal people want to date other normal people. Why would someone want to date a social outcast even if they are nice, funny, whatever.
I've never watched one thing she has been. Nor read about any of her politics, or any news on reddit I would see on her I'd usually look over. But god damn this girl is a terrible writer. How can she be a A or B tier comic yet can't compose, a smart? meaningful? funny? rhetorically purposeful? twitter comment
I would skip trying to understand their thought process because it's never going to make sense to you. Say no, ignore it, tell them to fuck off, whatever. Laugh in your head about how nuts they are and then enjoy the fact that karma came back to bite them in the ass.