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Outer Game portuguese_bees/r/seduction30/04/25 08:10 PM
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Yes, but you don't need to have a prestigious job or make $250,000 to seduce women
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:26 PM
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Be like Frodo. Frodo pulls all the women.
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:45 AM
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Sure, but the definition of success is different for everyone. Confidence comes from acheiving what YOU want in life, not what society says you should want. Success for could be being broke, but having a strong network of close friends and family. It could being travelling as often as possible, and making just enough money to cover cost of living and travel costs. It could mean working a normal job, saving ruthlessly, not having kids, and retiring at 40. It could also mean having 10 kids and wor…
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:43 AM
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Exactly. The rude rejections are there to deter weak men. If all rejections were "no thank you, I really hope you find what you're looking for!", our species would be done for genetically. We can't have men who can only handle nice rejections spreading their seed.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:44 PM
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That's a good analogy. I think they also do what they can to keep their options open, so they can collect data for a while instead of accepting or rejecting immediately. Leave all the (base)balls hanging in the air for a bit and later choose which one to hit.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:41 PM
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Ya i don't think those 40-year olds were being honest. They were probably trying to sabotage the date, hence why I had some questions for them after lol. They even said some things to her without me hearing. Some other girls invited me outside after, which was totally a plot by the husband to get rid of me. All of them are in Kahoots lol.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:33 PM
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I think that even with good game, there is still an element of risk that you need to accept. It comes down to having a thick skin, and also taking steps to mitigate the risk like avoiding 18-20 year old women, even if you are an 18 year old guy yourself. I once saw some 18 year old guys get followed down the street by some homeless men with a knives, because they hit on an 18 year old girl.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:29 PM
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Exactly, women have the opposite problem that men do. Men need to do everything they can to facilitate attention from women, while women must do everything the can to slow down attention from men. This makes me realize that BCWs are really natural selection for guys who have balls / are risk-takers.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:14 PM
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You may be right that these women are rarely trying to ridicule men, and are doing this for different reasons. I still think it is common for women to make guys think they have a chance with them, just to enjoy the attention. Naturally this requires a rejection to happen, which is planned before the conversation starts, possibly even the day before. I have even had guys tell me they do the same thing to women. I have one friend who is on Tinder just to mess with girls over text without actually …
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:09 PM
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It is definitely weird out there lol. One time I had a first date and during that some 40-year-old women approached both of us (we are both 25) and said some comments on how we looked cute together or something. Afterwards I tried to ask them for feedback but one of their husbands thought I was hitting on her and then least 3 other guys tried arguing with me.
/r/seduction30/04/25 08:31 PM
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I think its time to start handing out resumes with other girls listed on there as references lol.
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:09 AM
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RIP your inbox lol
/r/seduction25/04/25 11:10 AM
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You can't just magically jump past that phase because you didn't do it sooner 🙄
/r/seduction25/04/25 11:09 AM
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I've heard that Argentina has a strong pro-cold-approach culture, and that it is more normalized to talk to girls in public than in North America. Idk if that's true or not lol but interesting to hear this perspective.
/r/seduction25/04/25 11:06 AM
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Depending on your relationship with the other roommates, you may be able to get your way by setting strategic boundaries. Most roommates respond well to suggestions of reasonable house rules, or are at least willing to discuss these. Boundaries like quiet hours after 11pm, curfew at midnight to avoid noise of entering the house late, no guests, wash your dishes right away, etc are not abnormal. You could suggest "I think it would be a good idea if we had a rule where we don't have overnight gues…
/r/seduction25/04/25 11:01 AM
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That's an interesting idea. Ethics is no match for biology. Simply admitting that chasing and obsessing over women is unethical, is not enough to stop your biological urges. Biology is evil, but it has the power, so you have to negotiate with it, not fight it.
/r/seduction25/04/25 10:49 AM
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I would consider getting different roommates. Yes it is sometimes good to surround yourself with people more successful than you in certain areas (sex), and working towards the same goal in other areas (work), but only if they mentor and assist you, instead of gatekeeping women from you lol. This Jealousy + having intimate knowledge of your roommates'' lives, combined with being coworkers ... Hmmm, Seems like an HR catastrophe waiting to happen.
/r/seduction25/04/25 10:40 AM
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