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ROAST-A-SCROTEpositivecatz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:21 PM
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:) good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:52 AM
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Pulling hair is painful and not intimate to me, like that’s not a loving act so how have you ruined it?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 08:18 AM
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This is lovely! It’s such a good thing to learn to love yourself, and to treat yourself how you wish to be treated. Keep going. All the self care!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:08 PM
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I definitely want a nice person/man. Anyone who helps others/community would score big points with me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 11:23 AM
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Lol men in my country “I like 5 a side, drinks and gaming”. That’s it. That’s there whole personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:19 AM
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The Venn diagram of men who say men are different from boys and men who call all women girls despite their age is a circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:54 PM
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You get chaffing with baggy clothes and it’s harder for your skin to breathe that’s why gym clothing is tighter. Even in rugby I wear undershirts/shorts- as do the men. It’s almost like... we’re there to work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:49 PM
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I think you’ve really nailed it by saying it’s really sad. Like it doesn’t make me angry anymore, it just makes me sad. I did an assessment this morning and the dad was fantastic though. Definitely not all dads! Just enough that a good one surprises us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:06 PM
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I’m an eating disorder nurse and most dads don’t even attend assessments. Our guidelines are for family based treatment and they rarely attend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:34 PM
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The explains why I’m banned from 2/3 of those!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:34 AM
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This is so pure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:11 PM
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It was purple pill. I’m banned from r/feminism for some other stupid reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:14 PM
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I wrote on another subreddit and was told I deserve to be killed by a partner or ex partner. I also got a nasty DM. Maybe I’ll just stay here, where I don’t get abusive messages from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:54 AM
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Men can practice more too then. Social skills do take practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:06 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:04 PM
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Women are mostly likely to be killed by their current or ex partner. Don’t @ me about risk of snakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:52 PM
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He should have got a vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:11 PM
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I’d call he a woman who left one relationship for another. Antidotal evidence isn’t evidence. I know men who have left relationships for richer women. I know men who’ve left women for younger women. Does that make them a youth parasite?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 12:51 PM
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I’ll just say when I broke up with my last long term boyfriend I stayed single for two years pretty much. I got a first class degree in nursing and started my masters in neuroscience. I started a job that I loved and got promoted within a year. I travelled to Thailand, then travelled solo around Italy. I started playing rugby. I made new friends (all mine where his really before).I reconnected with my family. I bought a car, moved into my own flat. I learnt to play video games for fun. I started…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:30 AM
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If women don’t work on improving themselves, why are we so much better at interpersonal relationships? Without just saying “because they’re women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:25 AM
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Sounds like they need to be nicer to people, do some human improvement. Like women have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:53 AM
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I’ve no idea why that means women shouldn’t leave relationships with men they’re unhappy with. If men want to be with more people they need to be nicer in relationships, both sexual and none sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:42 AM
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Men also have families, can also have friend, careers and hobbies. I don’t need to stay with a man just because he can’t build none romantic relationships. That’s definitely not a positivecats problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:35 AM
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You’re purposefully using extremes (100%) and attempting to degrade my thoughts and beliefs by saying “irrational emotions” which makes this a poor comment. Anyone can end a relationship at anytime, for whatever reason they want. But I think you know it’s not because they’re only 99% tickled pink.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:30 AM
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👏 empowered 👏 finically 👏 stable 👏 women 👏 can’t 👏 also 👏 be 👏described 👏 as 👏 parasites 👏 You’ve missed a big part of what the message is about highly educated women. The point is they don’t need men, and if the choice is a relationship which isn’t happy or no relationship, we chose not to be in one. Also no human being should be described as a parasite. Leaving an unhappy relationship is neither moral or immoral, life isn’t that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:23 AM
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Really? I feel shamed by men and society for not fitting what men like. I’ve had men cringe at me when I tell them I don’t shave all my hair off, with the reason being I am neither a child more a porn star. Can you give me an example of what men are shamed for liking? Or do you mean younger woman, because I can see how that can make women feel like men are shallow and all about looks/sex objects. I’ll let you know my vanilla ass doesn’t have any porn searches!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:17 AM
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The women who are raising the child while the father is not there? Sounds like the woman is taking a lot more responsibility than the father. Newsflash, most women don’t chose to be a single parent, they choose not to parent a baby and a man child. If a woman gets pregnant by a man he should have used protection. A woman is fertile 2 days a month, a guy is fertile 31 days a month. There should be more responsibility on the man to not produce a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:11 AM
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Getting divorced does not exclude a father from a child’s life. It excludes them from a romantic relationship with a woman. Maybe men should be less shit fathers during their child’s development so they don’t get “daddy issues” which is what I think you’re implying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:38 PM
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It’s both objective and subjective to both individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:30 PM
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You’re putting the blame on woman for leaving an unhappy marriage, rather than the man for being a subpar husband. Men can be good fathers despite divorce too. Like woman can be bad mothers in or out of a marriage. Maybe don’t have children with a woman if you can’t be a father. Fuck having to stay in a shitty relationship, most kids I’m sure would rather not see an unhappy mother/woman for the first 18 years of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:19 PM
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I can’t virtual signal on an anonymous platform. I think we’ve run away from the point, my point remains of a woman is not happy in a relationship she should leave. Men have the same choice, if they choose to take it or not (I’d argue cheating is a cowards way of implementing a divorce). It’s not about the value we place upon the opposite gender (money, looks, gender). We, as adults, should also be honest about our preferences in others, be it youth (I’d like it if you dyed your hair and wore ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:56 PM
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I have no issue with woman being hedonistic in relationships. I have no issue with men doing the same honestly. We all have safety nets in our life (I think I said career, friends, family, hobbies which aren’t gendered). Is this more because you feel woman can be happy without men more than men can be happy without a woman? Thank you for explaining those terms. LTR, STR and no relationship periods all have a space in our lives to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:49 PM
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I agree, you can’t buy a man. I can buy a good vibrator and some batteries though. I get my emotional needs met by friends and family. My career engages me intellectually. I wouldn’t be in a bad relationship. Apologies I don’t know what LTR or STR means?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:37 PM
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It’s a cliche but also known that man press more value on younger woman. Most men date a little or a lot younger than them. Reddit’s (now banned) r/barelylegal showed us that. I find it really hard to have a discussion with someone who would describe another person as a “raging cunt”, I’m going to state if a woman (who has a husband as you’ve just said is “100% more likely to cheat”) chooses to leave a cheat... GOOD FOR HER. Well educated are not more likely to make more in a divorce however. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:30 PM
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Fair enough, you’re speaking from personal experience and I agree I’m not really into rating people against one another. I’d say there is a difference in analogies slightly in that I’m saying it’s okay to leave a relationships which makes you unhappy, you’re feelings are that woman leave when they feel they can do better... but again I don’t agree that’s what’s happening. When I’m happy in my career, family, friends, hobbies I feel secure to be single. So in a relationship if I leave a man, it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:08 PM
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More options as in financial options. She can buy her own home, afford to raise children, afford a car, holidays. If you have a choice between a crappy man and no man, no man every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:55 PM
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Most people get married after university, so I don’t think that works as a reason. But ego (read: confidence, being self assured) is a a good reason to leave a relationship if you’re unhappy. Not needing a man to feel confident is positive. Insecurity, poor self esteem, is not a good reason to stay in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:52 PM
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Yeah, woman don’t have to be altruistic. Men use woman too, for sex, child birth, house keeping, rearing children, providing income... not as unique individuals, only commodities to be used until something younger comes along with no regard to emotions. I’d copy your “emotional feelings” but it’s basically a synonym.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:14 PM
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So woman with financial power who are higher education (and probably therefore have more options) leave relationships they’re unhappy in? Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:20 PM
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This makes me happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:58 PM
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Lol did go on a date a couple weeks ago and the guy was like “my dad taught me two things, firstly always to pay for the first date”. He picked the place, then when the bill came said to the servicer we will be splitting it. I was like “okay so he’s not expecting a second date and I’ve my own money so fair enough”. We walk out and he is says “I’m ready to go all in with you, like delete (dating app) and be committed”. Like, no I feel lied to about paying for this expensive place you’ve picked wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:50 AM
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I would like a duck buddy. They’re extra pair of eyes to spot rare birds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:45 AM
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Oh I love having flowers in my home, I buy them all the time and it drives my mum wild that I buy them for myself. But why wouldn’t I? They brighten up the place and I’m single, why wouldn’t I get something that makes me happy and supports my local florist business? Plus I’m working from home 3 days a week so now I get to make my desk space nicer! Those roses you’ve picked are stunning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:37 AM
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Went on a first date yesterday, he bragged about money and shopping the entire time... then missed his train and asked me for money for a taxi. FML.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:19 PM
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Order a hooker, it’s literally like ordering pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 10:31 PM
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Wait you didn’t like this woman, but you slept with her and dumped her the next day? By text? Yeah I hope she is on FDS and I hope she stops herself from being treated like that again. That’s really sad. She was obviously feeling very vulnerable if her ex was abusive as well.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/20 11:18 AM
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I obviously don’t want anything on this sub to change, but can anyone explain what we would have to change to keep it up? I don’t understand what “rules” it’s breaking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:47 PM
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It’s such a dumbass thing to say too, like who’s ready that like “oh a human who likes fun, how unique. Maybe he also likes laughter and breathing?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:22 PM
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Yeah 100%, they can’t ban us and pretend feminism is about a women’s choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:56 PM
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I’m banned from TrollX already, but I’d rather have this sub than that one anyway. I’m surprised the feminism is anti FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:45 PM
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So I work in CAMHS and this lass was explaining about how her boyfriend was pressuring her to “be a 7”, which basically means she has to always look like a 7/10. If she want to school without makeup and hair in a bun he’d be angry that she didn’t “look good enough” for him and that was embarrassing him in front of his friends. If she wore more makeup, did her hair and looks more than a 7 he’d be angry that other boys are looking at her, or that’s she’s asking for attention. My heart when I heard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:07 PM
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This is great news!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:07 PM
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I would follow this as an account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:22 PM
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Oh he could do it. The issue was I was doing everything and still being criticised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:56 AM
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The worst part of this is realising her user name has nurse in it. So I assume that’s what she’s doing for her days off from 12 hour shifts, cleaning the house... during a pandemic... For her lazy ass boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:23 AM
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My ex told me I hung the laundry wrong once. Man, how foolish I think I was for putting up with that now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:20 AM
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Man I love this lady. Serious her tiktok is all truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:42 PM
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I used to be physically sick before my ex bf got home from anxiety. I went to a doctor cos I couldn’t figure it out because it had become so normal. We broke up it went away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:22 PM
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Tbf he doesn’t seem like a very good doctor and he doesn’t like being a doctor much. He dated another nurse in the department who no longer speaks to him either. He can’t seem to see he’s the common denominator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:35 PM
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I’m immigrating soon. A doctor asked me out for a walk recently (I go hiking a lot and had some pictures in my Instagram he’d seen). I said yeah I’ll show him some nice places to visit. He said he’d enjoy just looking at my ass. I said I’m not attracted to him, I don’t want a relationship as I’m moving after lockdown. He said he didn’t see the point in a short term friendship and blocked me. Like totally fine with having sex with me before I go but not being friends... anyway he blocked me, unbl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:08 PM
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ED?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:38 AM
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Lol I edited it. I’m so bad at typing and watching tv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:51 PM
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I don’t know what it means?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:12 PM
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Thanks to lockdown I have pubic hair for the first time in my life... being nearly 30 that’s a really strange thought. Why did 13 year old me feel the need to shave my hair off?? No one saw me naked for another 3/4 years. Such sexualised youth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:36 PM
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I can’t think of one good reason to ask a man out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 11:26 PM
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Be a real man, ask how much I can lift bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 11:06 PM
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There are so many comments on it like “this isn’t rape” and “BDSM isn’t really like that, it’s safe!” Also just random comments like “hahaha you were raped!” Wtf is wrong with people. So scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:38 PM
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Plus shaving everything, breast implants, butt implants, lip filler...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:45 PM
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Hey - just FYI my ex did this, was very shitty then two weeks later was crying in my car telling me how stupid he is. Don’t fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:31 PM
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I hope she is rubbing his nose in it before she cleans up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:25 PM
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I’m a children’s mental health nurse. Recently, we very tragically had a child die. I told the guy I was dating (via text) - he write a paragraph about himself then at the end wrote “sorry about the kid”. Like what!? A child’s death it one of the worst things that can happen in the world, never mind my line of work... 4 words of acknowledgement about it. Some men have no empathy, compassion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:08 PM
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Why did you make this meme about me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:29 PM
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I can only play PS4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:17 AM
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“You’ll never find a guy like me” “That’s the point”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:32 AM
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I spent 20 minutes one bored night during quarantine swiping right on everyone after a bad fight with an (now) ex/some wine. Woke up to 260 messages like... yeah I’ll be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:00 AM
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In my pick me days I was dating this guy who was messy, unorganised, but really sweet and we had a lot of friends in common for a shared hobby. Also pretty cute ngl. Anyways I posted on r/relationshipadvice how I could get him to tidy up more, clean his home to a higher standard. All the comments were stating that I should clean it for him. Like, no!? I didn’t make that mess?? My shower is clean thank you very much I’m not responsible for his. I broke up with him. I told him why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:56 PM
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So estimate about 450 per month in a population of 60 million / woman (but not always!) /children under 18 (just less statistically likely to be viewing). Not a kind outcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:47 AM
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The dark web my love. Some sites you need to show original child porn to enter. It’s evil, and online footage never goes away. We have woman in their mid age, with children themselves being taunted by men online who saw them raped as children. It’s multinational and difficult to police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:46 AM
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We estimate we catch about 1% in the UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:43 AM
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As a children’s mental health nurse... with weekly police reports... we aren’t even getting started. There is an estimated 1 million peadophiles in the UK currently. UK prisons holds currently 83,518 people. We can’t handle the capacity of illegal pornography. We’ll have a generation of scared children. That’s globally too, it’s not children in the UK always. It’s children in Thailand, the Philippines, the poorest parts of China which are being prostituted online. It needs to be stopped. The peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:42 AM
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This makes me the most sad for the children. Any incredible years leaflet will tell you that children need nourished, praises and supported to grow healthy and happy. Not just physically but mentally. A “head of the household” does not provide these messages of building self-confidence, resilience and independence, it teaches you are “below” in a pecking order. It builds aggressive children with attachment issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:26 AM
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I’m giving you basic human decency, don’t worry about the internet stranger (although I wanna give you a hug too) just make this your normal minimum standard! This is just how people should behave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:07 AM
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Actually, everything I said was still correct, because you learnt that if someone doesn’t want to cuddle after sex something[one] isn’t right, and to walk away. You know how to make future decisions. You learnt to work on your self confidence and self worth. You GOT this if you ever had to repeat the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:02 AM
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Positively, you learnt and walked away from an abusive relationship, which is something to be really proud of. They may have loved you in a million ways, because you’re worth loving in a million ways. Doesn’t mean that the way they showed it wasn’t bad (also not all men’s fault with all the porn and pressure they’re under) but also they didn’t true and show you how amazing you are with kindness and compassion (which is their fault, via their actions).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:55 AM
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So from a biological/psychological/cultural point of you definitely be attracted to touch, warmth, strong proprioception with making love with someone you trust. Physical harm and hurt from someone you love/depend on and/or share genes with in children is not positive for you or society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:44 AM
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Nooo don’t say sorry! I read back and saw youre OP and realised it didn’t make sense if you’d caught the end of the conversation! I think it will if you look at the comment I made on trollx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:28 AM
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“Choking” (cutting of respiration) and “slapping” (hitting a individual) is aggressive. Not with OPs post, with another post I was downvoted on of this isn’t in context for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:22 AM
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Why? I have a neuroscience degree in mental health. If you can tell me how sex with aggression can be positive if honestly love to listen. If you can explain how pain can contribute to pleasure in a healthy way I will honestly change my opinion. If this is an unhealthy coping strategy (like cutting, just realising endorphins) I’ll stick to the mindset it isn’t healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:06 AM
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Yeah never ganna think your partner hurting you is good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:01 AM
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Currently getting downvoted on trollx for saying I don’t understand why a meme that says being “choked, slapped” by my boyfriend is scary because I’m “kink shaming” and “cOnSeNt”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:16 AM
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Even weirder, this guy is from the UK...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:55 AM
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