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It depends on your goals. I'd say don't bring her a gift and if she tries to give you shit for it, totally ignore it and talk about something else. You're already taking her out. but I also don't want to fuck this up. You're going in with a losing attitude. Sure, she's hot, but if she acts like a princess that'll be annoying and not worth your time to deal with. The math in her head probably goes like this: "cheap gift, he must be cheap" to "expensive gift, he must be desperate". It's her mind g…
/r/seduction28/01/25 12:06 PM
5

are you sure they aren't bots?
/r/seduction22/01/25 03:04 PM
3

Taking pride in your life inspires confidence. Some guys fuck it up but Napoleon Bonaparte isn't some endemic example of life on Earth. Taking pride in your life is naturally attractive. That's why guys that are in shape are attractive. They demonstrably care about themselves and their life. Women are secondary to success. Personal success is way more important than sex, and women find it attractive to know that there is a man that puts himself first. Putting yourself first is critical in that s…
/r/seduction25/08/19 01:33 PM
6

just yanno, have a conversation with her mom. "oh your so-and-so's mom, how ya doing, me and your daughter are close, ok gotta go I'll see ya soon" nothing complicated, imply a budding relationship, imply she'll be seeing more of you, demonstrate your politeness and conversational skills. there's no magic word, just be fun to be around
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:02 PM
16

not every interaction is about getting laid. just making conversation and practicing game is fun and you meet new people too
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:53 AM
1

golden advice itt
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:03 PM
1

Just be playful and sexual. For example, I've been talking to a girl and I know she wants me but I don't care that much and I'm busy, so we talk every once and while. I told her I would do something (send her a link to a song or whatever) and she said "I'll hold you to that" so I just said "you can hold me to a lot of things ;)" and there u go sexiness maintained
/r/seduction20/11/17 07:37 AM
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If you get to have less meaningless interactions and you get to interact more with people that actually want to talk to you, you're doing great ;)
/r/seduction20/11/17 07:29 AM
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you're spot on, the other guy is way off. Most girls just wanna hear you're confident about your ability with other girls. They don't wanna hear you talk about how theyre "special and desired", that's conveyed by nonverbal communication. You can say plenty of things in response to the test, depending on your character, how funny you are, how playful, etc. Once a girl asked me "are you this charming with all the girls you talk to?" And I looked right at her and playfully said "only the ones I wan…
/r/seduction20/11/17 07:24 AM
1

This is a dumb thing that you've said here. But it's ok
/r/seduction20/11/17 06:42 AM
5

Just be completely aloof and indifferent. A happy little "ok! Have a good life!" With a smile and walk it off. This clip from Seinfeld is my favorite example of just clearly not giving a shit. It'll put perspective into the girl denying you and she'll get second thoughts about how she characterized you.
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:26 PM
32

This isn't a good play at all. Too wordy and insecure sounding
/r/seduction20/10/17 06:27 PM
1

Practice!
/r/seduction19/10/17 09:58 PM
1

Eh. I'm 22m and I'm a romantic type. I've hooked up with a bunch of girls but I enjoy being in love with someone too much to maintain hook ups. Hooking up with girls I don't connect with is more emotionally draining to me than being alone for whatever
/r/seduction19/10/17 08:53 PM
1

Why can't you do it?
/r/seduction19/10/17 08:51 PM
1

I'd use it as an opener if it seems like the girl would be receptive to it. I'm a musician type tho so it's in my character to say shit like that
/r/seduction23/09/17 03:37 PM
3

¿Por que no nos dos?
/r/seduction23/09/17 03:07 PM
14

Jesus dude project much? She's in college and wants to meet college guys
/r/seduction24/07/17 04:01 PM
5

just don't care about anything and you seem pretty cool. I don't like not caring about anything, so I care about a lot of things instead. but I still ride a motorcycle and play guitar because like ya gotta be cool yanno
/r/seduction20/07/17 03:04 AM
3

I'm glad you didn't cause I'd much prefer you give the 4 bucks to a person in need. :)
/r/seduction20/07/17 02:48 AM
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But at the moment I do care, how do I make myself not care when I am actually insecure about whether or not I'll be judged and dismissed for my virginity at my age? You can care, but as far as they know... you don't care. It's just a thing. You might not be able to make yourself not care, but it's pretty easy to act like it. Just say "whatever" about it. To yourself, to your friends, to yourself when you look at yourself in the mirror. "Whatever. It doesn't matter." And believe it, cause it's tr…
/r/seduction19/07/17 09:35 PM
8

I'm in a similar situation, my dad's friend (male) and his wife both want to set me up with their super cute daughter who's around my age.. her parents gave me her number but I have no idea how to initiate a convo like that. We met once like 10 years ago too so it's just like o_O On the real tell me what you end up doing OP cause I'm interested in this girl in my life and have no idea how to not make it awkward. It's like a damn arranged marriage
/r/seduction10/07/17 03:34 PM
1

Exhibit D
/r/seduction28/06/17 04:31 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with liking a little penis
/r/seduction28/06/17 01:20 PM
1

I'm good looking, and people always remember meeting me when I don't remember them,, I do some stupid shit sometimes but you just can't give a fuck yanno. Life is fun. Just have fun. You're not gonna impress everyone, you shouldn't even bother trying to
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:23 PM
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Sarcasm bruh
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/17 05:34 AM
1

Like 100 matches to 2 dates. Tinder is a flop I just use it for external validation
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:47 AM
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I'm bisexual, and I just needed to say that you're being a real fag right now
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:20 PM
2

If they ask if you play, say "I'm more of a producer myself" in your best suave guy voice. And play some of your songs for them if you think they'll like it? I produce music but I also play and sing so I never thought about it. If you see they're into the music you can make your music a topic of conversation while your tracks spin, and if it's whatever than just use your music and background noise and keep on doing your thing
/r/seduction05/03/17 03:18 PM
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Bro I can tell you you're probably not as great as you think you are. Calling other people pawns, calling people unworthy... you're just jealous. Recognize your own feelings, and let them go. Other people's gain is not your loss. Just work on yourself and keep talking to girls. If you say anything remotely close to what you said in this post to a girl, her legs would snap shut faster than the speed of light. Just work on being cool. And fun. And maybe pleasant to be around. Don't call other peop…
/r/seduction24/02/17 02:18 PM
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I just got out of a relationship of three years and am worried the next one won't be better. Have any advice for me? The next one in all likelihood WONT be better. Just have fun and keep the pressure low on yourself. Fuck around and see what you like. Don't commit to anything. Just do you. I just got out of a 4 year relationship with a girl I loved to pieces.. I'm not gonna find a girl like her for a while. I dont plan to. I know how good love can feel now.. I'm not wasting my time on girls I kn…
/r/seduction21/02/17 12:47 AM
1

Lol your thread about ego/pride. Is this the chicken or the egg?
/r/seduction03/12/16 06:08 AM
2

Just start being too busy to see her and wait for her to come to you
/r/seduction13/10/16 06:28 PM
1

He's confident and easy going with women. That shouldn't threaten anyone, if anything it should inspire you to improve your game one way or another. Its not his job to remember everything he said in an interaction, he posted a cool FR thing and that's the extent of it. Like I said, people are just disgruntled that he didn't memorize a chapter of a pick up book for his conversation game, and he wasn't panicking while talking to a cute girl
/r/seduction19/08/16 09:31 PM
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Special doesn't mean impossible to get into a relationship with
/r/seduction19/08/16 04:51 PM
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All these downvotes are guys that are angry that 1. You didn't cite a book and a chapter for the approach strategy and 2. You can approach women at all lolol
/r/seduction19/08/16 04:50 PM
1

Why would that be a beta thing to do? Ask her out!
/r/seduction28/07/16 01:17 AM
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I want to stand out from all the "nice guys" with "nice guy" haircuts but can't tell if I"m being tryhard. Hahah oh man. You weren't being too try hard until you said that bro. Just live your life! If you don't rock your haircut confidently, it's not gonna look nearly as good on you. Your hairstyle doesn't matter all that much. I prefer a bold look, shaved sides high top kinda thing, but that's just me. Be carefree and remember that people's opinions on your headpiece are just that, their opinio…
/r/seduction24/07/16 12:53 AM
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You don't actually talk to women, do you lmao
/r/seduction24/07/16 12:49 AM
0

There's one main character, and two others are on screen for like 20 seconds. It's ok
/r/seduction23/07/16 10:54 PM
2

Possible to get at the girls anyway? Yeah. But the difficulty curve might be annoying. They all want to fuck him. Now he has the confidence that every single one of them want to wrap their lips around his dick, he gets to practice game and try out every girl in that group. What difficulty curve??
/r/seduction23/07/16 10:48 PM
1

Lmaoo dude you follow those rules
/r/seduction28/06/16 09:36 PM
1

Either way would be fine. I'd probably ask your friends for the girls number. Make sure you call her right away though, because you can bet your ass your friends are gonna tell your new girl that you asked for her number (or send a screenshot of you asking lmao) so you might as well capitalize on her excitement and not leave her any chance to think about it really. Then just give her a call and tell her you had a great time at event XYZ and you wanted to take her on a date
/r/seduction27/06/16 02:08 PM
1

What the other guy said. If the girl is 27 and she's into you, that's sweet. Bed a 27 year old and be the happiest 17 year old on the planet. Just talk to all girls. Eventually you'll get better at approaching naturally
/r/seduction27/06/16 01:59 PM
2

It depends on how comfortable you are being over the top confident with the girl. 3 dates and you should've kissed her by now. I'd say something like "it doesn't matter what you wear, either way you'll be getting out of them anyway" if you think she'd get down with that kind of flirting. Or more sexual/romantic: "it doesnt matter what kind of pants you wear, i want whats under them ;)". Or whatever. Don't say "I dont mind", that sounds lame
/r/seduction23/01/16 03:57 PM
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To an extent, at least
/r/seduction05/01/16 09:13 PM
1

I get it. The cat is the human condition, and the dog is man's internal conflict with nature, right? What a clever analogy for Easter Sunday
/r/seduction05/01/16 07:58 PM
1

Not straight up ignoring the girl you want, you just don't give her all the attention that she thinks she deserves. Acknowledge her, be friendly, but be cool and indifferent. It nonverbally communicates that she doesn't have you in the palm of her hand and she has to work to get your lovin
/r/seduction05/01/16 07:57 PM
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It's the same things for all stds. And if you think bc a urethra is a small hole that stds can't get in there I don't even know bro. You do realize that stds are so small that you can't even see them? And sex is the sloshing around of fluids and whatever microbes are in those fluids, they're gonna get in that urethra haha.
/r/seduction19/12/15 04:00 PM
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Bro this is ridiculous. You get genital warts and herpes from skin to skin contact, it doesn't have to get in your urethra to contract the disease smh. In fact genital warts are so common bc you can transfer them even while using condoms because you can get warts on your balls and transfer them that way. Same thing with all stds basically.
/r/seduction19/12/15 02:33 PM
7

Some people know how to compliment others in a way that doesn't off put the person they're complimenting. It sounds like he did absolutely fine
/r/seduction25/11/15 04:32 AM
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"I came here for that booty, girl"
/r/seduction17/11/15 07:42 PM
7

What if you only really talk to your close friends and by all counts you and your friends are clinically separated from normality? I used to relate strongly to this, so I'll tell you how I made it work for myself. So my friend group from high school was a bunch weirdos, but in the good way. Totally not societally acceptable by all standards but we're hilarious and we have a great time together, so no complaints. When I started dating girls outside the circle of people that knew me (especially fr…
/r/seduction14/11/15 04:02 PM
1

It's all about how you do it. It takes the confidence and comfort to be able to pull it off, it's just playful talk and if the girl is receptive to it you know you have something going. I'm very joking in my nature so maybe it wouldn't work if someone has a more serious affect but I've never had a bad experience saying it
/r/seduction07/11/15 09:49 PM
0

You call her out to gauge her feelings about you based on her reaction. Like I said you have to say it real playfully or it could come off as rude, but if she shuts you down after that you know that she's not interested which is fine, but if she jokes back at you and plays along with the ribbing you know where she's at. I like being direct and to the point with people I talk with, and calling her out in a joking way let's you see if she was just busy and she's interested or if she's not tryna ge…
/r/seduction07/11/15 06:53 PM
1

Oh yeah I wouldn't text that, I meant saying it in person to her the next time you see her!
/r/seduction07/11/15 04:31 PM
0

Really? I don't see it as negging at all, but maybe that's because I have a really playful personality so I can say pretty much whatever I want and have it be construed as a joke
/r/seduction07/11/15 03:33 PM
7

I'd mention the fact that she hasn't answered in a really playful way and then ask her out in person then and there. That'll tell ya all you need to know if she's interested in ya. One phrase that I use for missed texts is "hey i don't know if you heard the news but texting back is a free feature!" Or something in that vein. Don't let her get away without asking her out, because I feel like snapchat is weak for game because it doesn't always necessitate a response, more people will ignore a snap…
/r/seduction07/11/15 02:48 PM
3

Yeah I knew I wanted to write more. I know for a fact I'd have more chemistry with a girl who would be down to play an impromptu game like this. Adventurous chicks that are up for whatever are the girls I want in my life anyways, this is a good test to see if they're even worth the time in the first place
/r/seduction06/11/15 03:29 AM
13

Weird is in the mind, if you present this properly I could see women enjoying this simple spontaneous gesture, maybe not with connect 4 but something similar. I actually love this idea
/r/seduction06/11/15 02:09 AM
5

Hell yeah. This line also works at the end of dates when you know there was chemistry but don't want to flub the pre-kiss moment with awkwardness. I just look into their eyes, get my face closer to theirs, and say "let's make out!" (For more playful girls) or "I'm gonna kiss you now" (for more shy submissive girls), or some variation of those. Takes away the awkwardness and makes you look confident and self assured in yourself and how you make her feel
/r/seduction04/11/15 04:44 PM
7

This happened last night to me. Girl called me weird playfully and I said "you love it. I don't believe in your kind of normal" but I have this girl in the palm of my hand though so your situation might be different
/r/seduction03/11/15 10:14 PM
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I was absolutely stunned i was almost certain she'd stop replying when she figured out she was above me I just wanted to reply to this part in particular. To win "the game" of dating, you really have to internalize your self worth. To the point that you exude confidence that says that when you talk to these women you are giving them the privilege of having a shot with you. Not the other way around. The part I quoted speaks for itself, you don't have much self esteem and girls will pick up on tha…
/r/seduction01/11/15 04:10 AM
4

Sometimes a dickpic is mighty appropriate, ymmv
/r/seduction02/09/15 03:11 AM
28

I'd suggest to subtly touch his butt to communicate interest
/r/seduction19/08/15 09:03 PM
1

if you want to really round it out, go the extra mile and make a sensual massage feel like it's all about her. I'm talking scented candles, warmed massage oils, dim lights.. you get what I'm saying. Get them all oiled up and touch them in all the right places, get them real relaxed and do some light dirty talk while you're doing it. get them so they don't want anything but to be fucking you!
/r/seduction12/08/15 01:31 AM
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why so serious though? what OP wrote in his post was just his opinion, and tbh using social engineering to get with girls can be questionable morally. But all this "unconstrained feral nature", I don't get it. Sure, there are predatory women out there, but most of them are just normal females looking for cool people to have relationships with. You don't have to neg a girl to confirm your manhood, basically. Society doesn't give a shit about it. Why should it? Society is the current state of affa…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 03:04 AM
1

if that's boring, what do you think the perfect boyfriend is?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 01:35 AM
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being an enjoyable person to be around =/= being a beta
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:21 PM
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because a severely mentally handicapped man was taken advantage of by a doctor that was supposed to help him. he's a victim in this case, it doesn't matter what he did before that
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 07:09 AM
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under the auspices of "I trust her. They're just friends." be careful there bro, you're insecurities are showing. girls are allowed to have friends, and if you're so insecure that you think your girl is fucking every guy she sees then you're gonna have a rough time in life.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 06:38 AM
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