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| 3 | I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible.The biggest tell is his fixation on sex as opposed to actually getting intimate with her (intimacy referring to emotional, physical and sexual here) by trying to learn more about her. The grandma incident would have been a great opportunity to foster trust, companionship and genuine care and interest in the relationship. The foundation of a long term relationship (aka boyfriend-girlfriend material) is in friendship; while sexual attraction brings people together, friendship keeps them together. … | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 12:16 AM |
| -1 | What to do if i make eye contact with my crush?Read my comment again. The commenter made an absolute declaration that “girls will never approach a man”. This is unheard of in this century, hence my question. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:38 PM |
| 0 | What to do if i make eye contact with my crush?Or woman who has been on both sides of asking guys out/being asked out successfully. The things that you guys are doing is putting imaginary pressure and expectations on yourself because of some pseudo-machismo that will eventually come across to the girl and she will bail. Instead, just be yourself and be comfortable with that. Remember that if it doesn’t happen, she was not right for you in the first place. If it does happen, figure out what worked (you can even ask her sometime down the line)… | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:19 PM |
| 38 | I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible.Yeah you are definitely not boyfriend material. Good thing she found out sooner rather than later. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 05:53 AM |
| -4 | What to do if i make eye contact with my crush?What century are you living in? | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:34 AM |
| -1 | What to do if i make eye contact with my crush?Remember You are the Boy...Never Afraid of anyone. What does this mean? What does being a Boy have to do with being afraid? | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?That is such a gross generalization based on personal anecdotes. Guys tend to overestimate their “value” but that’s just how society has trained them to feel. The whole suffrage movement wouldn’t have been needed otherwise. | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?Hol’ up.. you still treated her badly when she was down. How is that not your fault? And why are you tossing blame here? You seem like people who didn’t just get along eventually. Why this need to “be right” that you are relying on one random internet stranger (who was also wrong in treating his ex badly) for validation? | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 8 | The most important thing when texting a girl is you should utilize the phone as a tool to set a date not texting back and forth. If you text a girl back and fourth it kills the mystery and it kills the fun of getting to know each other in person.This. Unless you are looking for a quickie with a stranger (and even for that for the most part), if both parties aren’t engaged in a mutually interesting conversation, the date will soon fizzle out even if you had managed to get one to begin with. Honestly, if either of the texting parties thinks the other one is boring, that right there is one awful date avoided. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | “Woman falls in love with you for everything that you are, she spends the relationship trying to change you into everything that you’re not. If she succeeds she will dump you for a guy who is what you were when she met you.” -Dante Nero/s | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 12:09 AM |
| -1 | [meta] I feel like way too many posts are deleted, and a lot of good content is lostI don’t understand why it has to be the guy seducing the girl every time? I know most of the posts here are about guys trying to get girls to either go out with them or spend the night with them but I think it could be made useful for both sexes. Girls could definitely learn from some healthy opposite-sex suggestions or experiential lessons shared by other girls. And I do recognize that this a sub for seduction and not relationships so maybe more long-term viewpoints aren’t very common, but I ha… | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | NBC's reporting on the Fresno, CA shooting. As if Men getting shot is not equally horrible as Women and Children getting shot.Honestly, this feels click-baity. I don’t understand NBC’s fault in quoting Reid. These were the police chief’s words. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Dumb question: should you shit-test girls?Yeah.. no wonder there are “speed dating“ techniques for job searching. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | My 8 Favorite Core Confidence AffirmationsI like that you have put this out in the open and you might have received some critique on these affirmations but I just wanted to say that these are encouraging and overall optimistic, especially for folks who need a starting point. What's more is that this applies quite well across genders, so kudos for being inclusive, whether that was intentional or not. Edit: typo | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been at this university for over a year nowMen haven't had to deal with objectification and sexualization in all walks of life like women have. Also, not sure where you have heard it but I highly doubt that you would like being labeled as "very unattractive", whether it's physically or personality-wise. It also pays to genuinely respect women. It's an instant turn on. Clearly, it's not your looks that are making women stay away. | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 12:23 PM |
| 8 | Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyesWish I had the money to give you gold. 🏅 | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 11:39 AM |
| 2 | I’ve been at this university for over a year nowConsidering how you don't have any reservations in labeling women as "very unattractive", maybe more than your looks, your attitude is coming through to the women now. They can be pretty intuitive about these things. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 10:23 PM |
| 0 | The tinder date cheat codeWell, I don't know the girls who have been okay with you doing this, but girls can be different from one another. There really isn't a general formula for this. While this may be fine for you and your date based on both of your goals, it may be different for another couple. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | The tinder date cheat codeThis. Any self-respecting girl would feel this way. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | The tinder date cheat codeDepends on the girl. Everyone has varying tastes and preferences so while the same movie can be exciting for one girl, it could be torture for another. Just ask her if she would be interested in that genre, especially as Halloween is round the corner. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The tinder date cheat codeAs a girl, I can say that it is pretty creepy to talk about that on a first date. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 08:03 PM |
| -1 | The tinder date cheat codeSee, we get that guys quite often end up being the ones initiating kissing, but saying that out loud is just obnoxious. Just read the cues and lean in when you see her clearly interested. No need to be didactic about it. Bonus tip: if it's your first time kissing her, softly ask her if you can kiss her. She won't say no! | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The tinder date cheat codeSpeaking as a girl, sports doesn't make men interesting or desirable. Sometimes quite the opposite. A lot of women don't want to date Chads. A guy too much into sports is often looked at as more self-obsessed and less concerned about the girl. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give a virgin?Why? What's so different about Indian men? | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 01:13 AM |
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