postmodgirl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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25	Hi seddit. I'm a woman and want to know what drives you men crazy when you're making out/having sex with us women. God that's going to sound weird coming from me, I'm 38.	/r/seduction	06/06/12 02:49 PM
2	How weirded out are women of older male virgins? Well, this is what I'd suggest... Let the girl get to know you first. Don't roll this bit of info out until things start getting physical. Don't roll this info out like it's a terrible thing. It's not like you have cancer, or some terrible weirdness. Every one was inexperienced at some point. There are many guys at your age that don't have much experience with sex even if they've already had it. She will want to know why of course, and I know if I was dating you I'd understand if it was a case o…	/r/seduction	02/06/12 03:59 PM
3	Texting trick that has never failed me That's the problem with texts, you can't hear the tone of voice so it's hard to tell if it's in jest or not. Also if you catch a person in a bad mood they also might read it the wrong way. Just something to consider, something you might find funny or cute can be seen as bitchy/whiny on the other end, especially if they don't know you well.	/r/seduction	04/05/12 01:37 PM
6	Texting trick that has never failed me if I got a text like that, I'd either ignore the guy or tell him to fuck off. But then, I'm pretty busy and I like to put off conversations until I actually have time to sit down and have one. I would read a text like that as bitchy, & trying to get a reaction and I don't play games like that. Girls who would respond would be girls that have something to prove to others, that want guys to like and validate them. I want to be liked, but I'm not going to kiss ass to do it. So... yes this can work,…	/r/seduction	04/05/12 03:44 AM
2	My main fear in approaching women is having a dull conversation/running out of things to say. If you don't know what to say just ask questions that require a detailed answer. Could be about anything, her childhood, a mutual situation or friend, something shes interested in... doesn't matter, just get her talking. That will get the conversation flowing in a new direction and as you get to know her things will get less weird.	/r/seduction	17/04/12 05:23 PM
4	Best way to spin this into something positive?: Girl I'm into found out about me hooking up with some one else Well, it was tacky for your friend to relay that to the girl you liked... Maybe he had his own reasons (like he was interested in her... Or he's an idiot and wasn't thinking). As far as not coming off like a man ho... Heh well you fucked up slightly there. Yeah, you're not in a relationship and you can do what you want, but if a guy was showing some interest in me but then went home with someone else that would tell me that you were not really all that interested. Or, you didn't really care who …	/r/seduction	16/04/12 08:00 PM
1	Have you ever had a threesome? How did it happen? I get asked, a lot. I don't know why. I'm a single girl, late 30s, and not hot by reddit standards (I'm pretty fat). First one I was in was 10 years ago, I was approached by a couple online & figured 'what the hell'. Second was when I was having a fling with a guy who introduced me to another girl he was seeing, & we all fooled around for a couple months. Then a couple that I knew from elementary/high school decided to get me very drunk and seduce me... I've been asked since for FFM 3somes but I…	/r/seduction	12/04/12 03:37 AM
1	Went to a college party, horrible time, I had some questions. each scene is going to be different. Some types of college parties & college bars are going to have the same vibe, because people just don't have enough experience to relax. It's all RAR DRINK RAR HOOKUP, or at least that what everyone thinks they gotta do, so they all play a role. So yeah, sounds like a crap party that wasn't your scene. That's ok, as you go on you'll experience more parties and some will be cool and some will suck (not all social gatherings are created equal). Just keep experi…	/r/seduction	03/03/12 10:55 PM
1	Facial Hair: I know attraction is based on looks, but how do the ladies feel about it? Yes! Hell Yes! Just maintain it. Nothing more distracting than hair up your nose when you're trying to make out with a guy.	/r/seduction	17/01/12 02:52 AM
9	how can i get closure? You are over thinking this and making assumptions. Stop doing both right the fuck now. Let's look at the facts. You have a friend tell dude you like dude. Dude doesn't show interest when you confirm the crush. He doesn't reach out, doesn't make an effort to be more a part of your life... etc. One of two things are probably going on. 1, he has no idea. Girls sometimes think that guys are super observant or understand the subtle signals they give to show a guy she likes him. Everyone (male and fem…	/r/seduction	03/01/12 05:12 PM
14	Am I forever alone because I objectify women and don't even realize it? As a chick with boobs and stuff, I want to comment on the 'gentleman' thing. It seems lots of dudes that call themselves this seem to equate being a gentleman with never hitting on women, as if hitting on women is insulting to us. That's wrong. Ladies (well, everyone really) like to be seen as attractive & enjoy attention, even if we don't want to pursue anything with that person. To me a gentleman makes his intentions known. Of course decorum is a must. If the girl is in a relationship it may b…	/r/seduction	30/12/11 03:46 PM
2	Good response to "You have beautiful eyes"? Yes, your Monday. :) I get autocorrected and I roll with it.	/r/seduction	27/12/11 03:56 PM
2	Good response to "You have beautiful eyes"? No way you're older...IRL :) I am probably old enough to be your mon	/r/seduction	27/12/11 03:45 PM
42	Good response to "You have beautiful eyes"? ... I say that when people compliment my eyes and/or tits. this is my comment, & I won't have anyone else using it. Clearly we need to fight.	/r/seduction	27/12/11 04:27 AM
1	How do I start talking to a girl I've sat next to all semester? Say, 'hey we've been sitting next to each other this entire time and we've never talked! My name is XXX, what's yours?', go from there. Ask one or both out for coffee, (ladies feel safer & that you're not perving if you address them both). Remember if they blow you off you will probably never see them again after the class so you don't have anything to lose. Protip: ladies like a man with balls, do grow some and talk to them already. Btw, wait till the end of the day to chat. Or do it when you f…	/r/seduction	28/11/11 03:23 PM
1	The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't. Being awesome & having fun is relative. It's not my job to tell you who you are and how to be. If you are unable to know yourself to figure out what you enjoy or what you're passionate about then there is no help for you. To define, being awesome is to love yourself and your life. People who take joy in being alive and who have a passion that drives them is infectious. There is no one right way in being awesome, you have to find your own way. There are no simple answers... All I can tell you is …	/r/seduction	21/11/11 02:00 PM
6	The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't. Bingo	/r/seduction	18/11/11 08:16 PM
15	The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't. Take 10 bucks and go to your local ghetto & find a lady addicted to crack. You'll get laid and she will get 10 dollars. Tada!	/r/seduction	18/11/11 06:42 PM
20	The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't. None taken. You're right, if you treat a girl like a sexbag with legs & holes that require a game, it will turn off most if not all ladies. As a dude you're also dealing with a supply/demand. Men who have the attitude that a game is required to get laid are a dime a dozen. They are easy and everywhere. Why should a lass screw a guy who obviously wants to towel off on her good bed sheets & leave after he's done? What does she get out of that? Fucked sure, but if you're coming off as a selfish dou…	/r/seduction	18/11/11 06:40 PM
138	The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't. Sorry, any girl can get laid any time they want. Age doesn't matter, looks don't matter. We can summon cock at any time. There is but one thing we need to have to accomplish this. Have absolutely zero standards. True for guys too, have no standards and you too will get sex. The rub, is that it most people want quality fucking. They might require terms & conditions to the fucking (like a relationship or financial exchange). Some people don't. Only way to roll & get what you want is to be honest a…	/r/seduction	18/11/11 04:24 PM
1	Escalation and sexual tension in text? If you've already had sex, even if it was a while ago then you are not starting from ground zero. You are rekindling, completely different.	/r/seduction	16/11/11 06:38 PM
8	The Virgin Dilemma... Hey OP Chill out, first off. You are not alone, your condition isn't unique. I have met, and dated, guys who lost their virginity at 22 &amp; 23. Here is what you can do. BE HONEST! If you're going on a date, and things are going good &amp; the subject of sex comes up, tell her, and tell her why. There are women who will understand, hell there are some who will take it as a challenge. Right now you are giving yourself a lot of anxiety thinking everyone was fucking way earlier than you, a…	/r/seduction	02/11/11 09:57 AM
2	How to choose good friends? There is no foolproof way to be sure someone is worthy of trust. Trust is a leap of faith, that they will respect you an honor their word. She broke that. It happens like that, in the course of your life you will meet people and they will fuck up... sometimes you will fuck up. Cheating isn't always cause to break up though, depends on the problems inherent in the relationship & why things got that far and if both people are willing to forgive and recommit themselves. Your ex is one girl, not all…	/r/seduction	01/11/11 06:10 PM
2	How to choose good friends? Well, meet people and hang out. Not everyone you spend time with has to be a good friend, just as in a romantic relationship getting to know a person takes time. But, in deciding on who's quality and who isn't there are a few things to keep in mind. Watch how they treat and talk about others. Do they take ownership of their actions? Do they treat others with respect? Do they brag about hurting others or other asshollery? Are they constantly surrounded by drama? If they can drive their own bus an…	/r/seduction	01/11/11 05:42 PM