potatocakes1989 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	I am not physically attracted to her. What to do? "IF" is a very dangerous word to use here. Because just because something COULD be doesn't mean that it is. Look at the actual situation, and read the actual post, because you're just projecting your personal opinions. I'm a happily married woman who looks at porn when I feel like it, and so does my husband. We are fine. This person just isn't attracted to the girl he is referring to, and it's just that simple.	/r/askFDS	12/05/20 03:36 AM
9	I am not physically attracted to her. What to do? No, I think you two need to talk about where you both stand, because it's very unhealthy to try to develop an attraction that you don't already have. She can definitely find someone else, and so can you. It's very sweet that you're so concerned for her feelings, honestly. But just remember that nothing good comes from anything that isn't already true from the heart. Even with good intentions, "just dating her" isn't a good idea. I think your desire to work on yourself is also super healthy and y…	/r/askFDS	11/05/20 11:56 PM
1	Is it unhealthy to be friends with potentially Low Value Men? I understand where you coming from and being alone is not easy. But it is better to forge your own path than to be around toxic people. I would suggest trying to make some new friends and then gradually wean yourself off of the old ones. That is what I've had to do in the past.	/r/askFDS	11/05/20 03:57 AM
4	I am not physically attracted to her. What to do? What actually is wrong with you? This man said nothing about porn but you're making assumptions? From his description, it sounds very much as though he is friends with someone who is attracted to him who he thinks is wonderful but he doesn't share her feelings and he's not sure how to go about it. People like you are why good conversations don't happen about sensitive issues.	/r/askFDS	11/05/20 03:56 AM
22	I am not physically attracted to her. What to do? if you're not attracted to someone then don't be with them. Its ok to just be good friends. You should find somebody that you connect with on both a sensual and spiritual level. Nothing good comes from pretending to be attracted to someone or trying to force feelings, I promise.	/r/askFDS	11/05/20 03:55 AM
1	How to not come across as a porn-warped freak? I'm not really invested in this but you sound like you're actually trying to solve an issue so I'm not going to be a jackass, just read this with the understanding that I'm in the army and I don't mince words. It seems like you two need to have a conversation about what she is and is not comfortable with. As a 30 year old married woman, my honest opinion is that anyone who's an adult and is shy about sex probably has something deeper going on, like maybe past trauma. I'm sorry but that just isn'…	/r/askFDS	11/05/20 03:53 AM
5	And in all its variations. Holy crap, this is so true!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 04:37 AM
1	Know your worth and don’t accept crumbs He made me feel like everyone else was bad and that he was the best thing ever, the only one who understood me, and always made sure that I knew I just wasn't quite good enough for him. I was very young and hadn't formed meaningful relationships yet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/19 06:38 PM
5	Know your worth and don’t accept crumbs Definitely, and they don't take being told very well. They will happily insult you, though, or anyone else they deem as "less than" them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/19 08:33 AM
11	Know your worth and don’t accept crumbs Omg I needed to read this. I recently stopped seeing and talking to someone who is exactly like this. I still miss him and feel guilty about it but I know that I couldn't emotionally handle the way that he strung me along and always put me down. It was affecting my other relationships and making it difficult to function.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/19 08:32 AM
10	Never let him "talk you into" sex. I needed to read this. Ive had this happen to me ao many times, by randoms and by people I once cared about. Thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/19 08:32 AM