potatotoldmetodoit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women. Just maybe because you spend your money expecting appreciation? (Aka trying to buy appreciation) And not because of generosity...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 10:19 PM
1	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Then we need a post for it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:42 PM
5	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Yes please! Keep us being happy	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:29 PM
3	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? I have two of those, don't like them and working on improving. The home thing- it's not my fault and I worked with this so it doesn't affect my life anymore. Now what whould be those talking of men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:27 PM
3	Woman of PPD: can you give an example of a man who is overweight or obese who you find attractive? Leonardo DiCaprio... not my type, but that dad bod is good looking	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 08:50 PM
1	Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’ Please, those are not the standards for most women ( who are mentally stable anyway ). We want someone who respects us, treats us well and is an adult and knows how to take care of themselfes. Men can control those ones, but many don't want to. Having the double standards crosses out the respect...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 09:15 AM
4	I love everyone's ring pics, I decided to join in. I got myself my dream car! Taking myself and my pup hiking all along the east coast for 2021. Omg this post is amazing! You’re an inspiration	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/21 07:41 AM
7	Online dating be like.. Well, he’s got a point	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 09:45 PM
1	Queens. Help me not relapse. Think how you’d treat a men you’re not attracted to. Even someone you find gross. Take distance when needed, don’t engage, avoid personal topics. Trust you logical thinking, if you decided to cut him off, that’s for a reason and you’re the only one who has your best interests in mind.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/20 02:53 AM
2	Queens. Help me not relapse. This is quite difficult situation, imho it would be beneficial for you to stop any contact with him for you own peace of mind. Seize if there’s any opportunity to do that. Obviously don’t reply to his text and don’t engage him on any other level but the professional one. You can set the tone of your interactions, but it’ll take practice.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/20 01:52 AM
3	Queens. Help me not relapse. I’ve been there! It’s ok, you can do it! When was the last time you two talked?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/20 01:30 AM
3	How do you forgive yourself for what you did before you knew better? The part of loving yourself is realising it’s ok to make mistakes. It’s part of being human. I’m meeting new people and I know that I’ll probably make mistakes again on judging their character, as I did many times in my past. And it’s ok, I’m allowed to make mistakes. And I’m proud that I know better now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/20 01:29 AM
8	Queens. Help me not relapse. Stay calm sister! Read this article: http://www.mirrorofaphrodite.com/2012/11/dating-when-why-how-use-no-contact-rule.html?m=1 And remember, if he’s not contacting you, it’s because he doesn’t want to. Let that sink	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/20 12:58 AM
5	Yikes, girl. Whatever they expect is not your problem. I wish people would just naturally understand it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 11:49 PM
1	Incredibly easy technique to get her to put more effort into the convo That’s called a neg and only girls with low self esteem will react that way, OP. A normal person doesn’t have to prove you anything.	/r/seduction	08/02/20 12:56 AM