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I'm divorced. I faced false allegations of abuse in court. I lost my children from my first marriage and for a long time I thought I'd never see them again. It broke a part of me. I pay child support. I paid alimony. I was literally homeless during the divorce as my ex wife wanted to harm me as much as possible for being a barely sexual porn addicted beta simp, and at this point I can see why she would. While homeless I had to pay half her bills, still. Just one part of the challenges I've faced…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:49 AM
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Eh I'm glad I made that much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:36 AM
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I see a lot of guys online making weird claims about how bad divorce is for men. I am divorced though I got divorced at 32. Like a decade ago. And I've seen what my options have been versus my ex wife, who I've become on good terms with. It's night and day. Well I guess if you want to try again it's never too late. Even if you don't want to put in the effort to go up some points of smv or whatever. I think most people want companionship. I think we need it. Though maybe a break to work on yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:35 AM
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Oh sweet that's great news for the single guys. Almost no more competition!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:17 AM
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Subsidize risk even more? At this point a lot of guys don't even try. The comfort zones are already too comfortable. Some guys will always try, though. And the harsh failure just makes you stronger for your next attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:15 AM
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The bug hives sap people's inner spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:08 AM
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Well if you just send me three hundred dollars I'll spend forty five minutes telling you my one secret tricks to getting into the pants of every girl you always watch on porn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:07 AM
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My wife is happier than she's ever been. She used to post around her but the other women would give her a lot of crap. She's got children, she gets to be a stay at home mom, to home school our kids, to learn so much she was never taught. What she says to me is, "thank you for letting me be myself". She's very introverted though. She's watching videos about how to dye her hair right now. She's never done that but I asked her to change things up a bit. She just got the kids to bed so now she's got…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:05 AM
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Oh I'm not worried about society I just see society continuing its slow decline. I'm just making the change for me and my family. Time to build up the clans again
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:49 AM
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Why do we need that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:49 AM
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No they don't. Men still approach all the time. Sometimes I still do a little cold approach just to have some fun socializing and my wife still gets approached if she's out and about without the kids. Which is why I make her take the kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:48 AM
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Always gotta have faith
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:47 AM
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Wow really? I'm at a pretty high elevation I didn't know I could get one up here. I'll ask my wife to look into it for us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:47 AM
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I like bananas. They come from a plant. I'm pretty sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:44 AM
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None of those things will change unless we change them. So stop watching porn. It's not only immoral but it messes guys up so they ignore the real woman around them. Grow spiritually so that you are your own emotional support. I do realize how difficult this can be when you're raised in our society. It sucks but you're going to have to realize you're a man. You are the one who is the rock a woman can lean on during the turbulence of her hormonal emotional roller coaster. If you need a rock the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:40 AM
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Why in the world would girls go act like guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:26 AM
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I know plenty of fat ugly slobs who date just fine. They just date other fat gross slobs. Heck my not fat but still kind of slob brother just got engaged to this really obese girl. He wants to pay for her to get her stomach stapled though and he acts like a baby around her so it's not looking good. I already predicted to the Mrs divorce number two incoming. I mean I even sat him down and had a talk with him before his first wife left him about how he needs to act like a man not a child with his …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:09 AM
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Women don't deem enough men dateable/marriable/fuckable to end the "patriarchy". What does this even mean? Women just dont deem enough men attractive anymore. This is very passive talk. Like you expect the girl to approach you and ask you out. Why don't you try approaching girls and asking them out? Girls like that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:00 AM
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Why are you spending money on dates? If you want to that's fine sometimes it's fun to spend some money but theirs a lot to do that doesn't cost much. A fun hike can give you a chance to hold hands, talk a lot, and find somewhere secluded to make out. Test your chemistry and get to know each other. What kind of dates do you usually do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:58 AM
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They all live in rural areas
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:47 AM
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What issues
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:44 AM
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Uh what about the touching, the leading, the kissing, the hanging out together, the talking, playing games, cuddles, sharing ideas, listening, and all the other stuff? I mean paying for sex is what you do with a prostitute. That's not dating that's being a john. Dating, For almost everyone is a financial transaction. No. This is just some blackpill incel nonsense. That's prostitution. Dating is hanging out and kissing and stuff. No normal person is giving money to a girl to go on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:43 AM
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How exactly is dating like a market? I read that article but gosh it was poorly written. Random blogs I find when I'm bored have better writing. What are people trading in this market?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:32 AM
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What's awart? I appreciate you looking out for me but no worries. The Mrs knows all about this place and my online hobbies. I'm totally open and honest with her and my marriage is fantastic. Plus a little bit of dread is a good way to keep a girl on her toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:25 AM
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So just don't date that way. Don't use online dating except to gain experience and practice your game. Meet women in real life or other places. Get to know the person organically. Put yourself in situations where you will meet women. Like seriously if the way you're dating is horrible then stop doing it. You don't have to use online dating. You can leave your house. Nobody is making you use online dating. Just stop. Oh and extra lolz at this part: I want a Jewish man who at least has a graduate …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:19 AM
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I don't think this is true. Men don't go to the girlfriend store and then find the prettiest girl. And women don't line men up in order of their income. People meet organically and date the people they meet. Most of the time they get to know each other and pair up long before it's clear what the man's income level will be. And with women when young the more voluptuous ones are in higher demand but as they reach towards late twenties the flat chested real thin girls start to really stand out as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:09 AM
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What a weird comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:23 PM
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I guess I dunno. I'll go ask. Oh she nervously laughed and said she noticed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:21 PM
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Well no guy ever wants to think about his girl having been with another man. Plus "pound her deeply"? We all know most if not all of these stories on reddit are made by guys but even then "pound her deeply" may mean the guys... "technique", for lack of a better word. Maybe the guy in that story was a more passive lover. That's not good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:41 PM
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😟
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:15 PM
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So being normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:03 PM
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I dunno what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:01 PM
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Well my wife was married to a guy before me and she tells me he had a very small penis. Like couldn't reach the back of her throat small. Meanwhile I've got a very large one. I'm mostly going by what she's said. The biggest turn off for her was that it affected his confidence. I've had women mention my dong but the biggest thing they've mentioned by far is how aggressive I am during the deed. Picking them up and moving them around and stuff so they can feel helpless and feel the energy I have fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:00 PM
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I really can't imagine a girl who likes you saying something that cruel. And a great deal of a satisfying sexual experience is in giving the woman a feeling of helplessness and ravagement plus security. Weiner size certainly matters but I don't think it's as important as guys might think. Plus you can't do anything about it so why worry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:44 PM
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What's a hebephile?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:38 PM
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From RL discussions with woman I've had the biggest deal is how it affects the man's confidence. I'm not saying it doesn't matter at all but from my understanding it's not that big of an issue. Not a lot you can do about it anyway so I would think the best approach is to not let it affect your confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:36 PM
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They may say that but it's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:24 PM
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I read about that a long time ago. Seems pretty extreme. I don't think that having a small wiener is that big of a deal. If the girl likes the rest of you then she'll deal with it. I guess if you're unlucky enough to be small enough that you can't fill in the vaginal cavity at all. The girl can still just do kegels though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:24 PM
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Men find that youth to be fundamentally attractive. It's just a guy thing. We know you can't look eighteen forever though. Just a guy dream
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:22 PM
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I dunno lady you must have me confused with somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:17 PM
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Why do you have a mushroom for this comment? Since when are their mushrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:04 PM
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This is true. I filed during my divorce but I know a lot of guys who just procrastinate cause they don't really care. This women file the paperwork most of the time really gets guys confused
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:03 PM
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So you can't function without pornography? Sounds like an addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:46 PM
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I've been discussing this stuff in depth with my wife for years. Neither of us are happy about how we were raised. It's like all wisdom was just lost with the boomers and we have to learn it all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:37 PM
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The first step in fixing a problem is admitting that you have a problem. Go for a month or two without any pornography and see
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:21 PM
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Yeah he's wrong. Most men are completely addicted to pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:20 PM
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I dunno but gammas really annoy me so I'm just gonna block you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:15 PM
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How in the world do they not know? I guess we have to tell them. Hmm but if we do that then they get all shy acting...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:14 PM
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You just be a blast at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:10 PM
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You are just repeating things that have been placed in your head from online
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:02 PM
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But women can't lead. Women are like water, they take the shape of the container they are put in. If we want change we have to make the change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:58 PM
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Oh no someone help I'm being amog by some guy on reddit! Mooooom
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:43 PM
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I bought the current wife some very thin capri leggings and when we were out playing frolf she noticed she could see a tattoo on her thigh through the leggings. So she got all concerned cause they were partially see through. So I went ahead and told her a lot of her clothes are see through including all of her leggings. And several dresses. I've been pointing it out to her and pointing out how other girls clothes are indeed partially see through. Somehow she didn't know. She told me that girls d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:42 PM
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Aggressive guys win the day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:37 PM
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Hmm OK. I'm not going to use any of that stuff it sounds awful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:32 PM
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Lol is this called amoging? You amoging me brosef?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:31 PM
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Why in the world are guys on tinder? Their are billions of women they are all around you just outside. Just waiting out their to meet you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:31 PM
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A friend of mine told me the other day that an acquaintance agreed to an open marriage. And then the obvious happened. The wife already had a guy in mind. The moron hubs apparently told friend that it was going to be so great. He was going to just be "drowning in pussy". My reply, how much porn is that guy watching?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:08 PM
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I think pornography addiction is also playing a very big part in this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:00 PM
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I think porn has a ton of very very negative effects. One of the worst ones that I don't see mentioned is it causes crypto trannyism. Men who watch women having these things done to them begin to imagine that they are the woman. I think this causes them to begin acting more submissive and less masculine. I would assert it makes men act far less attractive. Not to even get into everything else. Porn seriously fucks up mens brains. Nofap and no porn were put into the red pill for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:48 PM
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My nieces are all over social media starting at like age eight. I tried to talk to my brothers about it but they are pretty mentally stunted and just obey the TV like every other meat puppet. No way I'm letting my kids on that addictive garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:38 PM
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What do people put on this instagram thing? Is it like snapchat?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:37 PM
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I wish women would have higher standards. So many sweet girls I've known have chased after such pathetic losers. Hits me right in the feels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:36 PM
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Which humans don't go through puberty until after eighteen?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:10 PM
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I think she just wanted to see how much power she had. She was pretty young and I think she was just testing out how much influence she had over guys. I think my refusing to commit was making her crazy because every guy before me committed right away and she had all these simps on social media always chasing her. I didn't commit to her because she would have made a bad wife. But I liked her and I liked the attention and she had a lot of young girl friends and I liked having access to her friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:09 PM
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Well I only meant physically eighteen mentally I'm OK with 25
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:20 PM
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Airports would be so drab without a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:19 PM
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Feet pics of course. I'm a classy guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:18 PM
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Are you implying that I did stuff like mention how cute our kids would be? Or ask what kind of wedding she dreamed about? It's pretty tricky keeping a girl on the hook that long lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:16 PM
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What about big bear like guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:10 PM
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Sure just post your only fans
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:04 PM
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Well as long as you're wearing a mask while you post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:03 PM
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Stay eighteen forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:01 PM
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insta-models leading eating disorders in women So you're saying we should get our girlfriends to follow Instagram models?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:52 PM
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Oh yeah? I once went like ten months without sex. Beat that lady
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:51 PM
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Well they can't get a husband who loves and protects them. They can't get legitimate children. They can't get a great father for their children. Also you guys really overestimate welfare. Living on welfare is living in extreme poverty. Also government ain't gonna kiss you and cuddle you all night. Nor will it aggressively bang you while choking you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:49 PM
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I checked out some of the mgtow videos on youtubr and for the next week when I would go watch Jessie Lee Peterson or go listen to music videos I would get ads from weird foreigners promising me that they could teach me to date the white woman with their simple tricks just click here. I didn't realize weird foreigners were so obsessed with dating the white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:44 PM
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Why is it really upsetting to you for a guy to refuse to commit to a girl when she wants it? I don't have to commit to a girl just because after awhile she decides she wants more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:33 PM
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Sex slaves? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:29 PM
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Oh my gosh I had a swimsuit edition of marvel comic book heroes I ordered from the back of a comic book I had. That was porn. Lol she hulk in a bikini. I wonder if I still have that in a box somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:52 PM
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There's a lot more I can do than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:17 PM
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I can only imagine how messed up younger guys brains are. Porn for me growing up was trying to bury my pc in blankets so the 28k modem wouldn't be so loud when I took the phone line over and then waiting thirty minutes for one picture of a girl's boobs to download.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:11 PM
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Where are these women who expect men to go support feminism after they are done masterbating to opiate addicted runaways?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:10 PM
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Eh this fwb girl I dated for like an entire year before I met the wife at one point was crying at my place because I wouldn't be her boyfriend and she pulled up her Facebook to show me all the simping in the comment sections of her random selfies. She went to one comment in particular where some guy she didn't know commented that he wanted to marry her. She legit showed me some simp comment to a selfie where some rando said "I'd marry you" and this was evidence she should be upgraded to girlfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:02 PM
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Someone give those men sex, pronto! I mean after they are done rubbing themselves to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:58 PM
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Oh no what will men do if other people don't tell them it's totes OK for them to think what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:53 PM
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This is possibly the most pathetic anti male anti masculine whining garbage I have seen in years. Wahhmen you must lead better or I'll cry!!!! Waaaaaah Women don't care enough about you to change or to help you, men Vomit. men. Get up and do some shit for you. Durh duh do you think? Duh ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:11 AM
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Oh, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:08 AM
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Hey not blaming you I like the attention too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:41 AM
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Their are other choices. But you've got to make them happen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:40 AM
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Funny song
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:38 AM
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Men cry about nobody else making the changes they want. The dating standards set by most Western women go ignored or unnoticed by most women/society, Women make supposed efforts under the guise of equality that in really benefit solely women Why aren't women fixing men's problems? "As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. Oh my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:52 AM
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Men are weak. Incredibly weak. They might go so far as to imagine a solution, but rather than enact they go ask for someone else to tell them to do it. Every man begging for someone else to tell them what to do, they'll even say what they want another man to tell them to do. Abdication of responsibility. My take is men are craving leadership. But at the same time they refuse to follow, because we're all equal. I'm more than happy to tell men what to do, or even just suggest what they do. But nob…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:38 AM
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Then realize everyone else is just like you, and they want your approval. So give it to them, king
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:44 AM
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Oh I just got this fancy pants car I drive it to work and back but I like it cause it just mostly drives itself. Asset inflation still happens though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:34 AM
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Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:26 AM
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I just call one of my friends or brothers. Speaking of one of my frens two weeks ago had his mom call the cops on his wife cause she pulled a knife on him. After he told her he doesn't think they can afford a vacation this year. I guess he took her phone for unspecified reasons muffled giggle and she tried to stab him up to get it back. While he was on the phone with his mom. Mums called the cops and somehow the wife went to jail! And he got an EPO!!! I'm out of the loop I guess. Too busy with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:22 AM
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Be careful their a lot of bucket crabs out there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:14 AM
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This is my favorite Mike moment. https://youtu.be/hx66LWV-CCk God it's just so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:13 AM
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Oh my I will then!! I'm gonna just go off and do my own thing! I'm gonna go make my life really sweeeet. And you'll be so sorry ahhahahhahahha the tears are so yummy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:10 AM
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Hmm 🤔 maybe stop watching porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:09 AM
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It's a numbers game. They got the time and a natural dgaf attitude to approach a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:06 AM
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What if you're goal, at least for a bit, is to chase a bunch of skirts? Like say four years worth of skirt. And then you just pick the best one and build a nice garden together? Maybe with some chickens
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:05 AM
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In the long long ago, the before times, men going their own way meant men leading and not following women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:04 AM
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If I want to chill with men online I just fire up the old x box and play some shooting game like modern warfare
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:02 AM
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I think mgtow3 or even mgtow4 are the best ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:01 AM
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But what if they want a cutie to kiss and touch her butt?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:00 AM
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It's all in the game bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:54 AM
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Wouldn't this just mean that American women are so fat that they have more breast tissue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:51 AM
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I've found something I find strange. In the upper middle class neighborhoods the women are quite fine. A vast improvement over the lower class and middle class girls. But when you get to the multi million dollar mansions the women take a big dive in quality. A lot of very fat women living in them houses with their door men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:49 AM
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I got lucky with a breakfast date at dennys once
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:38 AM
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Ah you like the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:35 AM
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It wouldn't have mattered anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:09 AM
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Monetary deflation has caused asset inflation. Asset inflation hits the poor and the young particularly hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:08 AM
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It's worse than you think. In the nineties I had a fast food job that paid $11 an hour. My one bedroom apartment was $350 a month. My fast food job provided me health insurance, paid vacation, and paid six leave. This was twenty five years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:07 AM
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Do whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:53 AM
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False. Online dating is perhaps the worst place to meet women. Most women don't use it. Meeting through friends, shared activities, hobbies, or just plain cold approach are all far better ways to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:51 AM
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The best thing about Rollo was the great do women drool more when they are horny debate with each guy one upping the next with tales of ever greater drool puddles. The best thing about Heartiste was the two page and two hundred comments pondering just why girls orgasm most from anal. And the best thing about Roosh is how he can never keep his stories straight about all the hot stuff he's laid in bed with, stealing pictures on Facebook of girls to claim he bedded them, and then giving an intervie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:12 AM
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She is your sister
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:54 AM
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No weight I think. Good or bad man is an argument amongst men. Strong or weak man is the girl trying to justify why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:45 AM
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Do you think he ever did, or he wanted to, love your sister? I don't have to worry about that. My wife has already told me multiple times, which I found very bizarre, that she would love me more than the babies. Is that why she did it? Because things like this? But how do I love her back? I have dreams where I hurt her. Among my crazy dreams. Surely I'll tell you and surely you'll care. It really is just that we can't love what we don't own. I wonder, is all of libertarianism just a cope for muh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:43 AM
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Is their any love left? I joke, half truthfully, that I'll do that with the wife. Will I? I want to be able to love my wife but tbh I don't. My love ran out a long time ago and am I glad? I'm glad? I miss it. I can see how much she loves me. Old random guy comes up to us at cracker barrel, he shakes my hand, he says, "you need to keep this one". Wife is thrilled she has told me this story so many times. "He went back and sat at a table with his wife!" "they held hands!" Yes he did I just think k…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:18 AM
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I need to use a real better word than control. My wife always says lead. Perhaps that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:59 AM
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Do you think he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:33 AM
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Works better to say they want a strong man. They'll take a bad strong man over a good weak man. And after strong vs weak they get pretty confused about good vs bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:33 AM
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I'd do what I just wrote. If she was shaking and saying no please I'd get up right away, go make her a sandwich, and pay more attention
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:31 AM
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I wonder if fds realizes their entire plan is already written down we just called it the epiphany phase. They think they discovered something new and think it will work but we already know it doesn't work. If it worked we'd be all for it. With everything I know and all the thought I've put in it the best I can think for a girl to do is to take your wisdom and be the pick me of right about thirty year olds. Reconnect with who you once were at sixteen and really love a man again. I can't think of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:30 AM
1

Using the court system is very feminine behavior. Choose to invest into pregnancy with a woman who understands this. Don't invest into one who doesn't. Use your freedom and you'll be surprised at how a woman reacts to it. Show her your value as a man by removing it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:24 AM
2

It doesn't fit in with the arrangement I have with SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:21 AM
4

Why? Because he has made us a minimum of 1 meal a day since we have been married You wouldn't do it just because you love him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:20 AM
0

I can't imagine this happening. Laugh and ask how do I slice the bread? Where do you even keep it? Where's the bread prison? I need to know I'm going to free all the slices. Do you know it's normal for a man to ask his woman to get him food? Usually she has to fight off a horde of bad guys first but lucky she's got ninja kicks. How do you think she slices the bread?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:49 AM
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It's the "alpha widow". A girl who thinks she's the special girl, for a guy she looks up to. Her heart is demolished and then she ties her heart to the next guy but she's too afraid to give it to him. Because she won't give it to him she won't be marrying a guy who demands she does. So she marries a guy who believes the story she makes up to explain how she gave her heart fully to a guy and he didn't take it. She'll never be able to respect him though. I think two is a special number because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:37 AM
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Women do want a good man. But you forgot to add what they want more. So I'm gonna add it for you. Women want a strong, good, man. Now I'll write this another way. Women want a strong man. Women do want a good man. But first they want a strong man and as upsetting it is for men women will take a strong bad man before they hitch the wagon to a weak good man. "but we studied scripture together" and so now I can be weak weeps the good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:25 AM
2

Tldr it's not about you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:10 AM
2

Special boys think it's about fooling them. You can't explain to them that it isn't about fooling them because then they aren't special boys anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:06 AM
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You would be surprised at the human capacity to invent a story, a narrative you might say, about their own lives. When something doesn't fit into the internal narrative then it is overlooked. Forgotten. Or rewritten. You might say rewritten to make you look better just so you can fool me! But you would only think that because you imagine your the emperor but your new clothes are the fanciest pants. It's not about you. People aren't lying to you. I don't even think we can or should stop doing thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:05 AM
1

Not possible. These deceptions are not done deliberately the first person deceived is the "deceiver". So what you are truly asking for is that we no longer deceive ourselves which would require that we no longer have to in order to get through to the next day. You're asking for people to grock a feeling into a knowledge that can be communicated through words, not through poems, songs, or tales. We struggle with this it's not deliberate that we can't turn our feelings into logical robot words. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:39 AM
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I don't think it's a cuckolding fetish so much as an extreme end of a domination and control fetish. I think men want to control a woman to such an extent that they can make her do anything and she'll still be totally committed to him. At the same time a lot of men are living in delusion based on internal lies yet their male fantasies are the same. Hence they go for the fantasy but they don't even know how to exercise that level of control nor are they worthy of it. I think the actual cuckold fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:28 AM
2

Men complain about divorce laws, about custody, and all this other stuff because they don't want to acknowledge the truth. That he failed to control her and that the law didn't help. Men don't actually want custody of the kids. They just want help controlling the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:20 AM
1

How do ya know he isn't the one making her do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:18 AM
2

I think might have my zipper down
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:13 AM
1

I think y'all got cause and effect backwards for most things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:13 AM
2

Coming soon
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:12 AM
1

What if it's not what she's giving but what he's taking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:12 AM
1

Said man would be confronted by me due to my privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:11 AM
1

I think what has changed the most is men. Starting with the boomers men decided to give up their responsibility and then what you are attributing to technology was just the result of boomers as fathers. This is all a result of men giving up their own responsibility and wishing they could give up their accountability as well. So it can also be changed back
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:10 AM
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Note I said marry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:09 AM
1

Wait I thought you guys were saying some pareto. I'll blame it on my add
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:55 AM
1

Then just explain it to me if you can explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:53 AM
2

Oh God for sure if the girls are given a choice every night of who to bang, why cross your fingers they'll only know you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:50 AM
2

You say all this but then why not do it? Oh my the sickest thing about modernity is when they say you can do anything they were really just talking to you. You can do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:48 AM
1

Can't you just say no don't be a sheer reddit genius Just explain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:47 AM
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You lost me. Trying? The latter part. I guess just go try, right? Feelz, but then everyone claps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:43 AM
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Men are lucky women are such kind loving and caring people. Imagine what men think they would do if they carried the eggs as they throw it in every woman's face every single day. "I'd fuck you over" says every man every single woman talks to every single day right before he cries about how he can't. And asks for comfort. And she comes and tries to bring him comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:29 AM
1

Wow. Where did that come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:19 AM
1

Are you on Facebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:18 AM
0

Even in the gym my gosh. I always appreciate a girl trying to look good though don't let anyone stop you from being your best. Moxie power is real
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:16 AM
0

So you're too scared to let her know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:14 AM
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You're defining people for them to put them in a box in advance. A not real box and they aren't in that box. You just imagine they are for your own comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:12 AM
5

Every comment you copied is just a guy larping
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:10 AM
3

I find it intriguing but I have a certain privilege and so I'm not afraid. I apologize for this I didn't choose it I never did. I just wonder why do they look at me so much? I never even realized I should be afraid. More privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:09 AM
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Hmm. I'm not sure why I would want men on reddit to think about other men at all. Can men even do that? Can men even think about other men? I don't think they can they just get twisted Talk about solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:00 AM
1

Cause he doesn't try as hard now that he has what he imagines is a guarantee?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:58 AM
1

I'm glad you can define yourself better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:42 AM
4

You're getting confused. I'm just wondering why women would want a guy with no ability to have normal feelings anymore. Hmm I guess I could see it's just promiscuous women argument but I think it's just that they get it more as they are closer to that kind of emotional emptiness. Why other girls though? Ah maybe it's the challenge! Like how a man wants to climb a mountain? Oh my maybe they want to climb the mountain of your challenge!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:41 AM
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You imagine all these plans like theirs all these plans. Their no plans
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:35 AM
1

How can you avoid it though without going celibate? I don't see guys who are OK if you tell them you'll be celibate until marriage. They'll say it but watch what they do. How can you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:26 AM
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No not really
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:18 AM
2

Well I was talking about men here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:18 AM
1

It doesn't bother you that none of it is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:17 AM
1

Oh my gosh a nice clean apartment. I guess our definitions of poor are a bit different
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:15 AM
2

Hmm so you think it's a kink? Are you OK with this? Hmm what if he doesn't have a bunch of partners but he has a lot of groupies. What if his n count is only like ten, but he's got a bunch of groupies? Or wait what if it's like one or something. Say he's a prude. Hmm wait that wouldn't work cause he's a prude. Oh wait what if it's like five but one of them was a long term girl and the other ones tricked him into bed? And he's got a lot of groupies. But he's still good at sex and we both know wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:14 AM
1

What's with the bi reference? Is this a way of saying you don't want a sexual primitive? Are those guys still single and trying to date in their forties? You don't think your boyfriend would have been attracted to you when you were younger? So what changed? Wait you already answered this. I think? Now you're underweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:10 AM
1

So you just don't know what's going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:01 AM
2

Practicing thankfulness never sounded better. Appreciate the response
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:50 AM
2

Even if women are truly attracted to all kinds of other things can't you just go get and be those other things and then get all the romance you wanted in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:49 AM
2

I just don't see women acting like this. And why wouldn't you want to filter out the gold diggers? Isn't it a plus to filter those girls out?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:48 AM
3

So men used to think that women were just like men only they were being repressed through marriage? And once we did away with no sexual intimacy before marriage woman would become indiscriminate? Why would men want that? Hmm I guess that makes sense. No wait I'm still confused. So the guys in the past thought by releasing and encouraging the more primal side of female sexuality that they would get some of it. I'm on board with this idea. But why do they think some other guy will deliver it to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:44 AM
3

How does being dissatisfied a bit explain guys who are lonely and alone coming online to more or less demand and freak out about not having a door dashed porn star on demand? Is this just a negotiating technique? Then who do they think they are negotiating with? Nobody owns all the girls around. Nobody is door dashing them out. You got to go meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:35 AM
3

Oh well that's too bad. I really like all the romance stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:33 AM
3

US culture is really twisted and sick if you look and think about it. Just really horrible. I'm glad to hear your marriage is going well! May you have many children and grow old together
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:32 AM
1

Lots of girls make really bad decisions as teenagers. It's quite a paradox, though I don't think that's the right word, that women at the most attractive any man will find them also have the least wisdom they will ever have. With age comes wisdom. But what if the guy went through a bad phase? To be honest yes out of anger and fear, rage, just the male emotions. How long would he have to be single and alone for you to think it was OK? It's hard to be alone. I'm not sure how people can even handle…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:31 AM
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I think it matters for everyone. But in different ways. Why would a woman want to marry a man with a high n count? That's a scary man. That's a man who can compartmentalize his feelings, if he even has feelings anymore. That's a broken man who gets off to others pain and who thinks of sex as just domination, or just a feeling, an appetite, to be diminished. Like a charlie horse in your leg you rub the charlie horse out. Only he does it inside of you. I don't know why girls would want such a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:25 AM
1

A human connection? Marriage? All night long cuddles? Inhaling the scent of the woman in your bed? Children? Holding hands on a walk? Everybody always going to be judging everybody else though if they say they aren't they either do it unknowingly or they are a clever boy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:19 AM
1

What things have happened to you when you've approached different girls? I think the biggest problem young men face is they don't. Just do it. Go ask out some girls at random you can literally be random. Report back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:17 AM
2

You can date girls before whatever age for the area but sexual relations have different laws. Usually the laws on the books say that sexual relations are fine at younger ages than consent laws inside of a marriage with her parents consent. Culturally though people usually just do what they are expected to do and it's a pretty big mess right now. How is your marriage going? Happy life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:13 AM
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If it would work at the lower level I don't see why others guys couldn't copy it. They might have to go live in the dark for awhile but I think the most important part is to never ever tell her and in fact just accept yourself or pretend to accept that you're poor. When she eventually like a year after you're married realizes that you just tell her to pay the bills no matter what she'll get suspicious or weirded out. When you just buy stuff. It's cute though to see a girl shopping at the dollar …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:12 AM
1

Hopefully things are going well for you now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:02 AM
2

Pretend you're very poor while dating. Have a garbage vehicle to use. Act poor. Go on dates that don't require any money or very little money. Don't let her know you have any money until you know she's totally in love with you for other reasons. Then when she finds out she'll just be all happy and surprised but not in that mental state of using you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:51 AM
1

Alcoholism is a progressive disease and progress isn't always good. After he lost his job how did he respond? I'm assuming that still wasn't rock bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:47 AM
2

How do you think you will meet and marry a virgin? Or how would you meet and bed one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:46 AM
1

Have you ever felt like this very open and truthful communication has backfired? What would you do if you met a really great guy but he went through a period of very deep depression and possibly psychosis and during this time he was intimate with many women? If he was totally honest with you about it? Let's say you really like the guy in every other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:43 AM
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Are a lot of young men now upset that society isn't doing everything for them? Sex before marriage is now seen as acceptable hence any guy with a normal dating life will be able to experience a multitude of sexual partners. Yet so many men are still quite upset. I'm beginning to think that society allowing them freedom to explore dating and relationship isn't what they think they were promised. It seems guys now think they were promised that society would serve them with door delivered very top …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:40 AM
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Not a problem at all. Young men should build a sound career and then after they are established they should date women a tad bit younger to find a wife and start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:35 AM
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Any guy could live that life. The path to it has been laid out and any guy can follow it. But why would you want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:33 AM
1

How do you know what their past is? I'm curious here do you ask? If they are in their forties are they usually divorced or if they aren't how do you know they didn't spend some years as players in the game?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:33 AM
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If you don't have to worry about a job to live and can spend your time chasing tail then you can wrack up big numbers. It really is just a numbers game and in college women are taught, or you could say they are told, to explore promiscuity. So they do. I do have a question for you though. What disgusts you about his intimate life? What is it about his life that is causing you these feelings? Is it just envy or is it something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:26 AM
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