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Thanks bro, It's very hard not to gaf in every scenario - for me that seems almost rhetorical. The amount of grafting i've been putting in to get places makes me crave some kind of outcome. Given i'm not chasing but it would be nice. I will continue to come back if the advice gets me to another sticking point but until then thanks for the advice; i'll try internalise that attitude.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 09:25 AM
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My point exactly.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 05:45 PM
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Good idea - I just feel like somehow that may lower their view of me. I only care because work is easier with girls that are more cooperative.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 01:22 PM
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They've obviously either been on trp or tumblr lol
/r/askTRP20/02/17 01:21 PM
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UPDATE: So she bailed as soon as I offered a date at mine, everything was balls deep until then.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 07:50 AM
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LOL, good way of filtering out a goos sense of humour.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 11:11 AM
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;)
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:29 PM
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No worries, i'm still getting to grips
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:28 PM
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Got you. I actually like how low effort this reply is, will use this in nightgame - cheers bro.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:05 PM
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Thanks bro, awesome reply. I rolled with this reply - I'll let everyone know how it plays out if they're interested.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:03 PM
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hmm, and subject change?
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:01 PM
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Made me chuckle.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:00 PM
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Thanks for the insight and it's definitely an assumption on her part.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 08:59 PM
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UPDATE: Just incase anyone actually checks this again. The girl mentioned in this post flaked big time but I made sure to have some fun with it before I nexted. BUT this weekend I managed to keep myself busy with an old plate. Within that time FOUR previous flakes from tinder suddenly messaged me asking me if I was free on that night (both Saturday and Sunday). Abundance and SMV works; I'm still learning it's applications. Just a testament to asktrp I guess. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 09:31 PM
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Thanks bro, I'm definitely using this soon. Please see her reply, I feel like she's full of tests.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:51 PM
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repeats abundance to himself over and over So I went with W_O_M_B_A_T's answer and she replied "surprise me" Any thoughts? I'm getting better with shit tests, but i'm hoping this doesn't fall apart when she's round mine on my couch (notice I said 'when' not 'if'; i'm getting there bro... )
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:47 PM
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She has a nice ass too... How do I get into this mindframe haha.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:42 PM
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Thanks bro, used this approach - see above for the reply. Not quite sure how to handle it lol. She sounds annoying but I want the lay
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:42 PM
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Thanks bro. Definitely using this next time.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:41 PM
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EDIT: So I went with W_O_M_B_A_T's answer and she replied "surprise me". I cba to follow shit test after shit test. Shall I next?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:40 PM
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nah she got nexted lol
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:41 AM
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the f***, this line actually worked.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:31 PM
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I'm not from the US so that would come off incredibly beta.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:27 PM
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I get you guys, it just seemed like it was in the bag lol
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:37 PM
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I tried "wash dishes, but mostly netflix n chill ;)."; she's read it but hasn't replied. Should I wait or next?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:57 PM
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Thanks bro, this girl hasn't the best sense of humour so i'm trying to think of something she might actually get as being funny...
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:39 PM
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I don't have my N64 here though :(, like I get that will put the pressure on her but wouldn't it be awkward if there isn't one when she gets here lol.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:18 PM
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Thanks bro, I thought so too but I did want the lay lol (She's not even that physically attractive)
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:22 PM
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UPDATE: Same thing happened. She flaked at the time I mentioned then tried to text me later when she thought it was appropriate for her to come round. I'm gonna leave this one to simmer and next it, I honestly don't have the time to be waiting until the early hours for a chick to say when she wants to come over.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:30 PM
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Cheers bro good idea! Got watching the superbowl with some mates as a backup, now I almost don't mind haha
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:02 PM
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Fingers crossed, Will keep you updated. Thanks for all the help.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:55 PM
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Thanks bro, sounds like a plan. Will try this.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:55 PM
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Great advice, I called and gave her the low down. She giggled, shit tested and then said she'd message me later. How long should I leave it, before the 'date', to make sure she won't flake.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:13 PM
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I've got truffles here from a dropped plate. So if she starts about that should I just be like forget the chocolate?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:11 AM
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Made me crack up - thanks for this. I think this is one giant shit test she's not replied and just waiting for me to say something. Should I wait? Where I live it's nearly 1am (I know this sounds beta) but it's unlikely she'll come now.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:48 AM
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Okay hopefully i didn't fuck it by putting a chocolate emoji. I also sent a message literally saying "i'll meet you here" ('here' being a club I recognised by her photos and it's real close to me so saves fuss about not knowing where i live etc) Have i fudged it?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:31 AM
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She just replied saying "doesn't sound like much of a date *laugh emoji" So i'll go with - It is, and don't forget the chocolate I like galaxy any emoji or just cold? This advice is amazing. thank you all
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:23 AM
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Oh also I was wondering, there's a chance this girl doesn't live close. Should I meet her or tell her where I live and wait.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:21 AM
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Thanks people! awaiting reply. hopefully i didn't leave it too long.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:14 AM
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Studying at the moment, finances won't allow etc. In this city most things (including my college) is within walking distance; this girl just happens to be an outlier. EDIT: But I AM working on it.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:22 PM
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man your advice is great! thanks. Now an update, the chick has just said she doesn't know my area should I comprimise and then take a taxi home?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 06:51 PM
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Out of interest, in your opinion is the problem with me and how I perceive the situation, her or both.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 06:40 PM
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That's a good point. I live really close to some bars too hence why I wanted to bring her down to me. If she shit tests me on the distance, how do I react?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 06:28 PM
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Thanks that actually helps alot. I'll do this next time and see how it progresses. So my ultimate goal is to be a lot more forward but still light-hearted right?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 09:16 PM
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You think? Literally in the message before this she asked "I didn't see this, but what did you mean by "the time of my life" :)?".
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:33 PM
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Thanks! I didn't know you could be this forward. I've just realised that most of the time I focus on having to start a conversation I forget the important parts like actually complimenting or asking them out for a coffee. I will definitely search and will post updates if I make progress.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:08 PM
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Usually I approach outside where there's no music, talk for maybe 5 minutes whilst trying to isolate from friends then lead her to the dancefloor away from her friends and continue from there. Btw thanks for your reply
/r/askTRP22/01/17 09:40 PM
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This is really helpful, one of the reasons I do nightgame is because I find it easier to play to my talents; I'm a dancer so it usually can attract attention. I also find it alot easier to talk to girls during the night. My daygame approaches flop terribly as I always lose frame, strategy and momentum. I honestly would not know what to say between, for example, asking questions about where they're to escalating/ using kino. How would you say I make my intentions clear during daygame?
/r/askTRP22/01/17 09:38 PM
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I doubt that's the issue, the girls that approach me say i'm muscular and tall and always copping feels of the biceps when they can; also mentioning that they approached due to appearance. Though I agree with the routine possibly being the issue. Do you reckon it's down to a loss of interest? I do find it hard to talk on the dance floor but the issue is whenever I go to pull them aside is usually around the time they start texting for their friends.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 09:32 PM
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