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| 6 | Has anyone"surrendered" finances as a newlywed? | ADVICE | powderpufffluff | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/19 11:42 PM |
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| 7 | Roosh V's change of heartI'm a little familiar with his work. People grow, evolve, and change. It's a fact of life. My opinion is slightly on the positive side of neutral...if it makes him feel more fulfilled in his life, good for him. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/19 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Are Moms Doomed to Get Fat?Wow! She is amazing. Healthy but she also looks so happy and full of joy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/19 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Podcast Recommendations?Cannot get enough of them! Was so bummed when I found out that I missed Christina being in my town for a speaking event by two days! But seriously, it is a wonderful podcast and 10/10 would have a cocktail with them if I had the chance! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Worst Wife *ever*Oh yes. I'm well aware. My husband was in the group of "enlist at 18, married by 20, divorced by 22." Now that was almost 20 years ago for him, but I find it really interesting when I hear him talk about how common it is and how happy and fortunate that he didn't wind up with a kid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/19 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Worst Wife *ever*Oof #6 is harsh... But given some of the other comments, probably exactly what's going on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Book Recommendations 💓Surrendered Wife, Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, and Facinating Womanhood is a good start. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/19 02:13 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?I'm grateful for the weather. After several inches of rain and feeling like I haven't been able to see the sun in a few weeks, the sunshine is a very welcomed presence. I'm also grateful for the raised garden beds my husband made for us. Tending to a garden and having fresh produce and flowers brings so much joy to our home. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/19 01:54 AM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsHow are you liking the cloth pads? I've always been curious about trying them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/19 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, I need your adviceIt's pretty fantastic. Saved me so many times in a pinch. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/19 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, I need your adviceCheck out r/housekeeping! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/19 07:07 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsAmen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/19 05:26 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsTo those of you that don't have laundry sink, what do you use instead? Bathtub? Other sink? Plastic basin? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/19 05:26 PM |
| 16 | An intro, from a father looking to the future"Be the man you want your son to become, and be the man you want your daughter to marry." | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/19 01:15 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsCouldn't agree with you more! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/19 04:27 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsOh I know! I'm trying to reserve my audiobooks for the treadmill or when I'm cleaning the house! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/19 04:05 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsMay Goals: Read 20 minutes of an actual book everyday. Newspapers/mags/audio books/online doesn't count. Keep up with the 45 minutes of activity goal from April. I'm thinking my reward for hitting my goals this month will be a new lunchbox for work or some cute bike shorts since I've been really enjoying bicycling. April's Goals (well at least April 15-30): 45 minutes of physical activity daily. I allowed myself to skip a day if I doubled up the next day or skip a day if I did more than the 45 (… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/19 03:29 PM |
| -1 | Transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS)I'm sorry but what does this have to do with r/RedPillWomen | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Short hairstyles are really hot in the fashion industry. Many women go short nowadays as it requires low maintenance and besides, it is really sexy and beautifulDefinitely an ad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 11:22 AM |
| 13 | Am I reading him right + do men really like compliments like this?Ok. Well the first thing is that you seem to have a covert contract going on. It seems you want him to change his love language to match your's? That's not how love languages work at all. His love language is quality time, so he feels loved when he gets quality time with his partner. The whole point of love languages is for the giver (you in this situation) speak the love language of their partner. Focus more on giving him the quality time he needs. Have you ever communicated that you feel loved… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 02:01 AM |
| 2 | If you're a housewife, you can use your spare time for self-education. Don't let your intellect rot.Plus both of those things are so easy to really simplify down for kiddos. Same thing with entrepreneurship. I bet kids would have a blast with that too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 12:03 AM |
| 14 | If you're a housewife, you can use your spare time for self-education. Don't let your intellect rot.But have you tried trading while drinking wine? Kidding. But seriously, why do people who do the wine and cats thing are obsessed with talking about it. Like the all the merchandise that says "wine o clock" or "best friends wine together". Don't get me wrong I love a good bottle of Bordeaux, but I don't understand the need to advertise it on everything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 11:49 PM |
| 7 | If you're a housewife, you can use your spare time for self-education. Don't let your intellect rot.If ladies want something that can also help on the day to day, you can always study early childhood education/childhood development or dieticics! Developmental psychology is good too. Art and Music Appreciation can be energizing. If you love to bake, try out culinary chemistry! Want to get the kids involved? Become back yard scientists! Make a lesson plan for them and a lesson plan for you! Tons of great stuff out there! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm a dude, got banned from askTRP because I want an LTR. Asking here is good?Go to r/askMRP | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 11:38 PM |
| 12 | Don't waste the waiting/single season: what are the things about yourself that you wish you would've worked on more when you were single?Definitely working out and paying down more student loans. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 10:19 PM |
| – | What's for dinner?Brilliant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 05:32 PM |
| – | What's for dinner?Oooh do you know if they have that posted online yet? Also, do you have a subscription to that mag? I'm looking to get a new subscription to add to my Good Housekeeping/Better Homes and Gardens subscription types. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 05:30 PM |
| – | What's for dinner?I have a Butcher Box coming in this week, so I'm desperately trying to clear out our freezer. Tonight might be spaghetti or stroganoff. Tomorrow, I'm thinking some form of fish. Blessing in disguise, have a ton of soup, which is great because it's apparently going to be snowing this weekend. Gotta love living in the upper Midwest! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Comfortable but stylish shoes?During warm weather, I wear a lot of sandals that have an ankle strap. I know this will sound weird, but the summer shoe that I get the most compliments on (and are the most comfy) happen to be a pair of flats from Crocs! Not actually the slipper/garden shoe, but an actual pair of flats. They kind of look like jelly shoes from the 90s. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How to CARE about my appearance?It's the worst isn't it? For the longest time I didn't even keep a Netflix account because all my time was spent on trying to figure what to watch! Another thing you might find helpful is creating a capsule wardrobe or do what I do and wear primarily dresses. No need for putting together an outfit if you only have to pull one thing off the hanger! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 09:14 PM |
| 7 | How to CARE about my appearance?There's tons of lower effort things you can do to overall improve your appearance. Like: Keep your eyebrows tidy. Use a good cleanser, spf, and moisturizer daily (r/skincareaddiction has great resources). Get enough sleep. Eat a variety of fruits and veggies. Take a multivitamin. Get fresh air often and 150 minutes of exercise each week (that's less than a half hour a day! Can be something as simple as walking!). Floss your teeth and use and electric toothbrush. Mend or get rid of any clothing t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 7 | How to CARE about my appearance?And if you do only two looks, I think it's more justifiable to buy higher quality products because quality over quantity. Unless make up and hair is a passion, it's good to have a day look and a night/date look and that's it! Plus it eliminates decision fatigue/time wasted trying to decide which eyeshadow/blush/eyeliner to use. One thing that can be done for more variety is to switch up lipstick. I have about 6 different lipsticks I rotate through that all look flattering with my day/night look. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Older menI think generally it's half his age plus 7 as the guideline? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Older menMy husband and I have a 12 year difference. I'm just about to turn 27 and he turned 39 a few weeks ago. Generally, I'd say that it's been a very positive experience. I've always been a pretty mature person and he's a really fun and very responsible guy, so it's a good match. We've both helped eachother grow as people. One thing that I think helped, and something that others with age differences struggle with, is our power dynamic. While he is still the breadwinner by far, and was very establishe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Challenge: Cookingr/breadit has tons of great inspo | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 02:19 AM |
| 12 | Challenge: CookingHomemade bread! Tasty and economical. Tons of fun to make too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Congrats! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/19 10:13 PM |
| 3 | How are you guys doing?That's so exciting you're getting married! Are you counting down the days!? Marriage has been a dream! It's hard to describe it, but he was an amazing man before and now he's killing it at the husband game. He's making all these plans for us and really showing that he can lead our family. I didn't know it was possible to be this content and happy! Newlywed bliss is a real thing! We have lived together for almost 3 years now, but due to some extensive travel for his career (like several months at… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/19 10:12 PM |
| 11 | How are you guys doing?Got married a month ago to the most wonderful guy and it's definitely renewed my motivation to be a good woman. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/19 01:25 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffPMS hit me really hard last week and a was a hormonal train wreck. I'm embarrassed to say that during some moments I was not my best self and took things out on my husband. I've apologized and he said its alright, but I still feel guilty. Definitely going to try and work on this next month. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/19 05:20 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?Congrats on the future little one! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 04:11 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?My (new!) in-laws/extended family. I got married three weeks ago and they have welcomed me with open arms and have been so kind. I'm also grateful for my family. They have been really supportive and have welcomed my new husband with open arms as the son they've never had. I am thankful for a group of women at my church that have welcomed me to their prayer group. I've been really struggling making new friends (especially women who are more traditional) in the city I've moved to, so I'm excited t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Co-worker is obnoxious, want to deal with her like a RP lady would.OP, I would talk to your direct supervisor about this. This is something he or she needs to address. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What's your favorite movie?Pride and Predjudice | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 08:03 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsA bookshelf with books, and house plants! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:22 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsDoes anyone use a household binder? I'm looking to make one but don't exactly know where to start. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?It's true to an extent, but I think that energy can be "given" to women though exercise and doing things in the fresh air and not sitting on their butt all day or walking slowly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?3 and entj | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 05:27 PM |
| 3 | SewingWe may talk a lot about how men are the "providers", but that doesn't mean that men don't need sometimes need our help, too. Really well said. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 04:37 PM |
| 14 | Vintage Recommendations?TIL: Playboy was surprisingly wholesome. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Pet names/terms of endearment?Aww I totally forgot about Puffin! I always thought it was so cute when "The Girls Next Door" was on TV. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Pet names/terms of endearment?I'm in the same boat, it's always honey, honey buns, or honey bunners since the 4th date...who knows what it will eventually evolve into. But I love it and it makes me feel cherished. In private I call him: love, lover, my love In public I say: Mr. Ourlastname, love | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | I need advice on my house furnishingIs it possible to mount a a fold down table on a wall? They primarily make them for desks for crafts/hobbies, but I think it could work for you too. There's even models where you can put a framed poster or painting so it looks nice on the wall. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my house furnishingI agree. Didn't there used to be a rule about not talking baldy about your man in this sub? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 04:44 PM |
| 2 | I could use some perspectiveAh. I see what you're getting at, especially with what his father told him growing up. That's a hard thing to unlearn. Maybe a way to approach the problem is to do some research on contractors/maybe even get some rough estimates, have a good idea of what you'd like done/paint/appliances and set a time to sit down with him and have him pick out someone to do the job or at least the parts he hates doing, and he'd do the stuff he enjoys. For instance, he hates installing sinks but likes staining ca… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/03/19 12:44 PM |
| -2 | I could use some perspectiveLiterally just finished (like 10 minutes ago!!) a chapter in Facinating Womanhood where the author goes over accepting your husband at face value. If you haven't read this book, I highly recommend it. You mentioned that there are certain things that you have a hard time with...is this the main thing? Or does this tie into a larger, overarching discontent you have? Is there anything you might be doing to contribute to the issue? Are there any other factors that may be at play that would cause him… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/03/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone"surrendered" finances as a newlywed?Any recommendations for budget apps or are spreadsheets the way to go? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/03/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone"surrendered" finances as a newlywed?Makes sense! For discussing "big" purchases, do you have a dollar amount threshold or is it kind of on an ad hoc basis? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/03/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone"surrendered" finances as a newlywed?This looks like a convenient set up. Do you use a separate account that he transfers to you or is it like your own checking account within the family account? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/03/19 01:15 AM |
| 18 | Homemakers, how did you start transforming your home?When I made the decision of getting serious about homemaking about a year ago, I first made a list of the little things that bothered me in our house, like scuffed floor boards, unrulely flower beds, unorganized cupboards etc. Every night after work, I'd try to tackle a little project. Took me about two weeks to get through a list of about 15 things. After I got out of the mini project stage, I started working on bigger, more conceptual things like re-evaluating our go-to meals to make them heal… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone"surrendered" finances as a newlywed?Very nice! Do you set the household budget as well? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/19 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone"surrendered" finances as a newlywed?That's so cool!! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/19 12:49 AM |
| 6 | Has anyone"surrendered" finances as a newlywed?Dave Ramsey is great! We listen to his show together. :) Did you do the Financial Peace University? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/19 11:57 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragThis gave me a good chuckle! Thanks for sharing. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 08:17 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragAh yes! The pinterest gamble! I think it would be so cool if there was a subreddit like r/instagramreality where they found some of the most obnoxious looking recipes/crafts on Pinterest and do a comparison. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 06:07 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragI think that's a part of it too. We try to buy grass fed/ethically raised meat so cost is a sizable concern as well. And of course the amount of time and effort it takes. There's nothing quite like spending a long time making something, not having it turn out, and rushing around trying to make something to have for dinner instead! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 05:42 PM |
| 14 | The Big BragI made pork butt for the first time ever last Sunday and it turned out amazing. My fiance said it knocked his socks off! I'm typically intimidated by cooking a new cut of meat for the first time, and having something turn out so well on the first shot has increased my confidence. Currently thinking of fun ideas for next Sunday's lunch. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Am I overreacting? (probably)Amen! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Fashion, overall adviceUnfortunately too common of an occurrence these days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Fashion, overall adviceFellow tall lady (5'11). I pretty much exclusively wear faux wrap dresses with a cardigan or suit jacket depending on how formal I need to be for the day. Sheath dresses work well too. However, I will never get caught in a button down since I'm a DD and the line from professional to naughty secretary is too thin for my tastes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 06:35 PM |
| 8 | Fashion, overall adviceAgreed. I'm 5'11 and am a weightlifter. Unless she's in competitive bodybuilding/has a ton of muscle with under 15% body fat, then there might be a chance they wouldn't believe it. However, by the looks of OP's comments that is definitely not the case. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 06:32 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsAnyone have recommendations for good homemaking/RPW interest boards to follow? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Fashion, overall adviceHey OP! I'm 5'11, weigh 175 (at my heaviest I was 215) with a 34 inseam and have a ton of info for you, but I'm heading to work. So a few quick questions: Are you doing anything for exercise? How clean are you eating? What is your lifestyle like? Sedentary? What are your fashion aspirations? Is it to keep wearing jeans and blazers? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 01:25 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsI've been doing the program on and off for about a year and a half now. Did a few cycles of bootyful beginnings and glute goddess. It made my legs and bum look great! Also was surprised how much it helped with lower back pain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Your best domestic engineer / lazy homemaker tips?My fiance and I love our robot vaccum! It's amazing how much stuff it can pick up. Do you have tips for picking out a cleaning lady? We don't have kids yet, but have already made the decision to have some help with cleaning if I keep working. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 01:36 AM |
| 3 | I feel like I’m becoming depressed and I don’t know how to stop this?Adding onto this, seeing a therapist could be beneficial for this situation. If OP is depressed, it could help. IMO, if she's not actually depressed, but is still having such a severe emotional reaction, she should probably still see a therapist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/19 08:58 PM |
| 28 | Where to go from here? Red Pill SO abandons animal in parkYikes. Get out now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/19 06:14 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsLove Strong Curves! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 12:27 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsLove Strong Curves! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 12:27 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsThis is one of the sweetest monthly goal posts I've ever read. :) I think you'd enjoy some of the language learning/speaking partner subreddits. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 12:26 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsAt this point...survive my wedding that's in three weeks! We are doing a destination wedding and will have over 30 people joining us from across the country! My main goal is that my soon to be husband and I have an enjoyable time on our wedding day and when we are at the resort. Other goal: not take out my stress/negative emotions on the people who are close to me, especially my fiance. When emotions are high, I just need to take a breath, gather my composure, and be my poised, cheerful self. My… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 12:24 AM |
| 21 | Fiancé is bipolar and stabilizing on his medsNot only that, according to her post/comment history he's either currently or a recovering heroin addict. She needs get out of there before this ends very badly. Breaks my heart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/19 12:21 PM |
| 8 | Fiancé is bipolar and stabilizing on his medsOP, I popped into your post history because I thought this sounded familiar (but I was mistaken). I did see both of you had some drug issues in the past. Is he still using heroin? If so, you need to get the hell out of there and find someplace safe...immediately. If not for you, for the sake of the baby. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/19 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend doesn't Love me after 9 monthsThank you! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | How do I let my captain be more of a captain?It's really great! It made a big difference for me and I try to re-read it every few years. The author also has a series on Amazon Prime called Empowered Wives. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Is it deception to get my scars removed?Hi OP. First off, my heart goes out to you that you had to go through a period of self harm. Did you see a therapist or other mental health professional for this? If no, that should be your top priority, even if the self-harm/attention seeking behavior was in the past. As much as many people hate admit, depression/mental health issues are a disease and statistically speaking, there's a chance you will go though it again, which is why I recommend working with a therapist. I see that you're alread… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 01:24 PM |
| 11 | Boyfriend doesn't Love me after 9 monthsOP. You are not his mother. You're his SO. You can love him very deeply and that may look like unconditional love. But please be very careful with "loving" him so much that you become a doormat and never speak up if something upsets you. Not saying that he does this, but I've seen many women use the excuse of unconditional love to stay in really atrocious/toxic/abusive relationships. Unfortunately, wow'ing him with your maturity is most likely not going to suddenly change his mind. Given his age… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 11:55 AM |
| 18 | Boyfriend doesn't Love me after 9 monthsI was thinking the same thing. I wouldn't be surprised if there's another woman being considered by him right now too. Just seems like a huge red flag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | “My SO is Red Pilled”That's considered to be a part of what is female sexual strategy. The goal of RPW is to secure commitment from a man they have vetted and would like a relationship. Trust me, the majority of r/theredpill is not into traditional gender roles. They are focus on sexual achievement/bedding multiple women. Edit: so because of the quarantine links to the sub aren't working. But if you Google r/TheRedPill you'll be able to access it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 04:01 AM |
| 1 | “My SO is Red Pilled”Added more to my top comment. Sorry for the confusion! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 03:01 AM |
| 3 | “My SO is Red Pilled”Basically using the term as synonyms for alpha I've been seeing it used for "traditional" as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 02:36 AM |
| 1 | “My SO is Red Pilled”That's incorrect. Being red pilled focuses on that "men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex" and "men have an easier time forming relationships, and a harder time maintaining a consistently active sex life". There's a huge write up on this on the TRP and RWP section of the sidebar/wiki. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | “My SO is Red Pilled”Right now? Not that I know of. I don't really care what he did in the past, doesn't really matter to me/wouldn't judge about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 02:13 AM |
| 0 | “My SO is Red Pilled”It means he follows the Red Pill Philosophy. My SO found it himself years before I met him. IIRC typically women are not advised to share TRP with their SO. Edit: Grammar Adding for clarification: following the red pill philosophy means believing that men are gatekeepers of commitment/women are gatekeeper of sex and other tenants discussed within the Red Pill community which include men's rights, divorce rape, PUA, plates, dread theory, casual sex, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 02:04 AM |
| 5 | My boyfriend is just coming out of a severe depression after a period of unemployment. I have engagement on my mind. If and when do I bring this up or do I even need to?That's exciting he has a new job, and things are looking up. But he hasn't even started yet. What if it doesn't work out? I'd wait a few months. Let him get his feet on the ground first, if he brings it up great! If not, just be patient and wait a while. He just came out of unemployment which is a pretty traumatic thing for even the strongest of person. Focus on enjoying the excitement with him and don't badger him for an engagement. This is his moment right now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 12:29 AM |
| 11 | What are the most important qualities to look for in a partner?Stability. Intelligence. Good sense of humor. Willingness to try new things. Underrated/Not often discussed: Being kind to strangers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 12:23 AM |
| 3 | How do I let my captain be more of a captain?If you have't already read it or haven't picked it up recently, I suggest reading the Surrendered Wife. You might benefit from checking out What To Do When Your Captain Won't Lead and Encouraging Your Captain to Lead post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Should we care about a man's sexual history?I wish this could be pinned to the top. RP is amoral. I'm not sure why the mods haven't stepped in for some of these threads...because rule number 10. I understand that women have their preferences but a man who has sex prior to the relationship are not inherently a "bad" man and definitely does not make him a bad partner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/19 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Should we care about a man's sexual history?I know others care about men's n-count, and it can play a big part in the vetting process. For my relationship, I never asked about it because I think it's an invasion of privacy to flat out ask about it. N count did come up in a conversation in the first few months of dating. I volunteered to share my information, even though he didn't ask it, and I didn't feel it was necessary to ask him for a specific number. Men are entitled to have some secrets. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/19 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Ideas for sweet ‘welcome home’ gestures for my husband?Lots of great ideas in this thread! Its also good to keep in mind that despite all the efforts you make, he may be feeling really tired from the business trip and just wants to order a pizza and wants some alone time. I had that happen once when I made a really high effort/timely meal. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't upset and frustrated. So now, I send out a feeler text a few hours before he's supposed to arrive at home, because the welcome home should be about him and his wants, and not what… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/19 01:31 AM |
| 5 | Ideas for sweet ‘welcome home’ gestures for my husband?This is exactly what I do and it works every time! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what do you do when you miss your SO and he isn't available (in an LDR)?I've been in an LDR for almost 3.5 years. When he does come home its for about two months at a time and then he goes away for about 3 months for his job. The longest time was 8 months. We also have a 9 hour time difference. We have a standing phone call date on my Sunday Morning/His Sunday evening. During the week, we use whatsapp to text a bunch, even if its just about the most random thing (right now we are in a GIF war and have been sharing a lot of articles about SpaceX). My big thing is kee… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you ladies confessed your feelings or made the first move?He approached me and asked me out first, but I said "I love you" first. I remember it so clearly when it happened too, because he literally picked me off the ground and said it back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/19 01:09 AM |
| 7 | My Captain is GoneWeighted blankets are great! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/02/19 02:49 AM |
| – | What's for dinner?Tonight: Spaghetti Monday! Have a nice bottle of red to go with it. Tuesday: Chicken Ceasar Salad Wednesday: leftovers Thursday: Chicken Tikka Masala Friday: Fiance is home after a 4 month long business trip. Thinking of making tacos (one of his favorites) but will ask what he's craving. Saturday: Turning the house into a steakhouse. He loves taking care of the steaks, and I break out the candles, make the sides, mix fancy drinks, and make a dessert. We have a Butcherbox delivery this week, so I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/19 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Yes or No: did/do you have childhood trauma?You're welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Yes or No: did/do you have childhood trauma?Not a single bit. Grew up in a loving family in a town that was filled with extended family and a strong sense of community. Parents are still married after 40 years. I did face some acute trauma when I was 16, but it was promptly taken care of by seeing a counselor for a few months, and being supported by my family/people at school. I don't really consider it to be trauma for me. You might be interested in learning about ACEs, adverse childhood experiences. There's a ton of research and informa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/19 01:12 PM |
| 9 | Wanting Children Earlier Than I Planned?Hold on. You're living together, you want to marry him, but all you seem to care about is your "schedule" and having your babies. It's not all about you and you're being selfish right now. He's already expressed that he doesn't want kids until he's older. Sounds like you are looking for some pretty toxic blue pill advice on how to get your boyfriend to bend to your will. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/19 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Quilette: "Women Needed a Magazine that Doesn’t Lie to Them. So I Started One"Or maybe it's just something that's really targeted to Gen Z and I don't get it as a Millennial? Who knows. Also, a lot of the article photos reminded me of stock photos places use on Groupon in my area. Could not unsee. But it did make me chuckle. Looks like they are fairly new at all of this, and maybe the brand will find its voice a little bit better. I really wanted to like it, but couldn't take it seriously. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/19 12:33 AM |
| 31 | Quilette: "Women Needed a Magazine that Doesn’t Lie to Them. So I Started One"Some of the articles are great, but reads really bloggy. Others are straight up bizarre...especially in the health section. Getting rid of parasites naturally? Ummm...why not go to a doctor? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/19 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it acceptable to make Bacon and Pancakes for dinner?Sounds like a great idea! If you have the ingredients for pancakes and have some other savory ingredients around, crepes are a good option too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 11:18 PM |
| 4 | how did you meet your guy?Hahahahaha don't forget about having MySpace profiles too! Edit: Also feels so weird thinking that MSN was almost 15/20 years ago. Doesn't seem possible. Time flies! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 08:06 PM |
| 3 | how did you meet your guy?So adorable! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 06:55 PM |
| 4 | how did you meet your guy?Oh MSN messenger. Hearing the new message sound brings up so many memories! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 06:54 PM |
| 5 | how did you meet your guy?OkCupid. Surprisingly enough, we found out on our first date that we were from the same (small and rural) hometown and our parent know each other and have mutual friends. He did have friends a few houses down from mine, but because there's an age gap we would have never really crossed paths! We've been together for 3.5 years and are getting married in 4 weeks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | In a little bit of a funk today, so tell me about your day!So adorable! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/19 10:42 PM |
| 14 | In a little bit of a funk today, so tell me about your day!Doing final prepping for my wedding (5 weeks away!) with my parents today. My dad came shopping with me this morning as an advisor...I'm buying my fiance a chainsaw with all the extras and such. Then my mom and I went to my final dress fitting. Fits just about perfect! Lately, my fiance has been looking at replacing his car for an SUV so we could potentially pull a camper. Judging by his excitement over the phone (we are currently ldr), he's is about to pull the trigger on buying a new vehicle f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the advice: "Men should date women half their age plus seven"Yup! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/19 05:18 PM |
| 10 | What are your thoughts on the advice: "Men should date women half their age plus seven"Always makes me chuckle...as I'm a 26 yr old getting married to a 38 yr old man next month. But success really depends on the maturity of both people in the relationship/where they are at in their lives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/19 03:49 PM |
| 9 | In honor of Love Day, what is the best relationship advice you have ever received?Don't nag! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | What are the most useful / beneficial things to spend money on or take out a loan for in the beauty/ health category?26 here as well. I am lucky to have the financial resources to have personal care as sort of a hobby that keeps me sane. I don't do it to maintaining/increasing SME (that's a huge side benefit), but it makes me feel like my best self. Here's my current: Regular Brazilian waxes Regular Eyebrow threading Massages about every two months Weekly personal training with a woman trainer who actually helps me attain the physique I want Therapist and psychiatrist Dentist for cleanings but also to help out… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/19 06:41 PM |
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