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Exactly bro doesn't know how good he has it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:37 PM
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<image> Some guys get all the luck . I love me a mentally unstable hello kitty girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:26 PM
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I love small boobs and I love the women that have them. That is all I'm gonna go back to rotting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:35 AM
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I'm not say it's not saying women or other people shouldn't hate incels. I understand why they do and don't blame them. I'm talking about the level of hatred. If there were frequent attacks by incels I would understand but there isn't. There has been some but their pretty rare. Maybe I'm not communicating properly here. I feel like the level of hatred and fear is out of hand. People don't need to make random threads shit on incels, or comparing them to garbage. There's no need to imply that rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:41 PM
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I never said there wasn't incel violence. But it's not to the level where you have fear some kind of incel attack or act like all of them might do something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:48 PM
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Yeah you shouldn't take them seriously. Why would you? 4chan is the best example because there are alot of legitimacy mentally unstable who say insane shit. Are they serious? Should you treat them like they're legitimately dangerous or anymore dangerous then any other group with radical elements? Well I'd say no Also where are you guys getting the mass rape stuff from? Like I've listened to hours of interviews with incels of all different strips. I've been in a few incel communities and I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:11 AM
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Look I know you hate incels but you have no proof this. This like saying Anons on 4chans would totally commit terrorist attacks if they could get away with it. Sure an insignificant amount might but it's not enough to blanket say they totally would if they vould get away with it or act like trolls are a threat to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:33 AM
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Honest question what do incels do to make people hate them so much? The way people online talk about it you would think there an incel terrorist attack happens evey couple of months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:19 AM
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That doesn't happen to me unless you mean women saying hi to me while I work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:36 PM
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Its not hard to get attention from women though, Speak for yourself buddy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:46 PM
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Thanks and I hope you have a good day as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:16 PM
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Went to a board game night yesterday. It was at the same place I went to before with the same people more or less. This time there was a few teens and girls of indeterminate age who I think were from the tennis court outside the building most of them was not play the games just enjoying the cafe. I played a new board game called rock hard 1977 it was fun but I lost. It's still fun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:48 PM
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I just ignore her tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:22 PM
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Okay I'm gonna say both mister 26 year old twink
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:19 PM
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People still get bullied for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:09 PM
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Congrats are they from men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:07 PM
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Oh well thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:43 PM
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Did you reply to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:38 PM
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Because of how low my self-esteem has gotten I've started thinking that it's better I don't interact with women. If I'm not charming, not charismatic, asocial, and apparently don't flirt I think it's better I stay away from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:27 AM
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To late for a nap I'd just be asleep the rest of the night. It's not a big deal I've been like this for like a month now. With enough time I'll go back to my normal amount of feeling like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:07 AM
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I had an okay day but my mood is shit. Funny how that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:57 AM
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I finally finished Goodnight Punpun. It was really good but I don't know how I feel about the ending. Did Punpun really deserve for everything to work out in the end? I'm happy he was able to work through his oneitis but I think it should have been while he was in a jail cell. It just feels kind of fucked up that by the end of it that he's in a good place in his life surrounded by people that love him. Especially after the shit that happens in vols 6 and 7. It just feels like he got away with it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:56 PM
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I don't think the problem is that a sizeable portion of women fuck those same criminals. Sure there would be men crying foul about that but it wouldn't be as many as it is now. I'm not saying you are one of those women but I know those women exist and they seemingly exist in quite a large number.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:17 AM
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I don't know if congratulations are in order I just think alcohol taste terrible and makes me feel terrible. Of the 4 or 5 times I've drank I've disliked the experience all but one of those times. I'm always left reminded why I hate alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:52 AM
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I don't think I can do that as I don't drink
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:22 AM
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I think conservative men are just going for whose chemistry they mesh with, no matter what politics they might have. I don't think most men care about women's politics except if it becomes an argument starter and something a couple can't get past. Bingo! This could probably be said about men in general. I never see men bring politics up as a deal breaker. As long as the politics doesn't cause constant arguments they don't care. Yeah some red pill guy will go on the internet and complain about fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:19 AM
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How would I get four female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:10 AM
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They don't love liberal women they just find them physically attractive. The politics are irrelevant because that's something they can talks about after cumming. Basically stop giving people the benefit of the doubt in how much of their behavior is thought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:42 PM
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It's not a conscious decision on their part so I can't imagine they could explain why it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:57 PM
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I mean if you're attracted to them sure though you're just one woman and we don't have cloaning technology yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:55 PM
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I mean they're bi so yeah they can date men. If a man is bi dating men will probably always be faster and easier then dating women. It's just a matter of willingness if anything. If we're talking numbers it's probably over 60% of them could successfully date men. I think most men would agree it's not hard to find men to date. At most I see gay men complain about commitment issues but that's it's.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:40 PM
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Do you mean how many of those men could date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:12 PM
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Yes and? It has nothing to do with population levels it's that those are all negative traits for men to have and they heavily effect your chances with women in general. If a guy is one of those things it would be hard for him to date women. If he was all three he's basically doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:05 PM
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By choice or by necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:41 PM
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Honestly if a guy is bi, short, and autistic he should probably just exclusively date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:34 PM
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I mean from men perspective it's not one criminal. I've see something like this happen online before and I would imagine every guy has irl examples of women going crazy for a criminal or violent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:24 PM
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Whenever there was a thread about him on any main sub there would be women simping for him. Saying that what he did was right. I think there were comments talking about if more men were like him there wouldn't be a loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:23 PM
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How is it creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:20 PM
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Shorter then me since I'm 5'9 that's not to hard to find I either like girls that are skinny or girls who are chubby but not to fat. This is one of those things that's hard to prove. Someone should just show me a pic and ask if I think she's to fat. I like small breast. The smaller the better tbh. Same age or younger. If they are older no more then 4 years. I like women who love to talk and are very expressive. They're the exact opposite of myself but they tend to be the easiest to read. If I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:19 AM
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So you have a type but your indifferent to two qualities? Isn't that fairly normal. I have a type but I'm in different to ass size for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:04 AM
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There's hope it's just not around Punpun himself. We see other characters grow. They have step backs but they get through it somehow. But when they get involved with Punpun it's he sucks them into his world of misery and stagnation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:59 AM
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It doesn't make me depressed but I also relate to the main character and his uncle so that might be why. I could see why it might make other's depressed though. It's like the world is just full of people who can't make positive changes in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:45 AM
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Actually I don't think it was supposed to be causal sex it just kinda ended up that way. The sex was the goal but I don't think it was supposed to be causal that's just how it ended up. But yes I would say any skills you have that make you good at sales or interviewing would translate well to attracting women. Regardless of wheatear we're talking long term or short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:40 AM
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It's a page from Punpun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:30 AM
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The context is that after jerking off to his neighbors having sex he, seemingly, buys new clothes in roles in a driving school and tries to pick up women while there. While doing that he lies completely about his name (using his neighbors name instead) and life in order to fit in and get laid. It works in the end. There's more stuff that happens after but that's drama. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:26 AM
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<image> He means when it comes to getting with women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:07 AM
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Same except I'm not sure if my ability to connect with other people is broken or if it barely existed in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:08 AM
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Bad like every other day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:06 AM
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I'm not strictly against muffin tops but why would it be feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:00 AM
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Most of the people saying this haven't been single for that long. So I wouldn't pay it to much attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:53 AM
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Random thing but Nippon Ichi games have really good music. Tenpei Sato is a great composer and in my humble opinion a legend of video game music composition. One that I hope he get the same recognition as shoji meguro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:51 AM
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I finally got my breaks changed so that's one weight off my shoulders. I was supposed to drive to the beach this summer with a friend of mine. Granted that probably won't happen anyway since she used all her pto going in trips with her partner. But if it dose it's good to be prepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:00 AM
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It does sound nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:46 AM
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You should watch out for the devil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:53 AM
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You can’t be like “it’s okay that im a sexist because….” That’s not how it works. I mean seemingly that is exactly how it works in the minds of surprising amount of progressive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:52 PM
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8/10 I have a type and honestly I could understand someone saying 7
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:55 AM
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I mean they vaule them it just dosen't mean that they'll be attracted to them. How I think about it is that women like flowers but just because guy buys them flowers that dosen't mean they'll actually date or sleep with the guy. Nice gestures or kindness doesn't create attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:54 AM
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I mean presumably it's whoever you want to play as. I'm not gonna judge you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:22 AM
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No I thought it was always known you're playing as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:59 PM
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Why is it so hard to find your billy beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:23 PM
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Okay lady good luck fighting oppression or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:21 PM
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Okay I was kinda with you up until this point. A woman rejecting a guy for any number of reasons dose not equalit to the relationship they could have had being an unhappy one that's a silly and rather pessimistic way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:24 PM
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"how do we fix this issue?" You can't it's broadly not possible. Maybe someone in the next 30 years will think of something but no one here will come up with a workable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:03 PM
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She's trying to say that with all the examples of how bad some relationships are the men who are romantically unsuccessful should be happy that they're not in one of those instead of unhappy they aren't in any relationship at all. It's not a perspective I agree with. Everytime I see someone say this it always strikes me as somewhat privileged. Unless we're talking about literal abuse telling someone who has never been in any kind of relationship that they're lucky they aren't in a bad relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:01 PM
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Half and half. On one hand my self-esteem is still the lowest it's ever been but on the other hand I have accepted that I am unattractive to the majority of women on both a physical and emotional level. So I'm at peace. I have accepted the struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:14 AM
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You may just be more introverted than some of your friends. Oh I 100% am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:43 AM
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Why doesn't it? It worked for me and I can barely talk to people Idk you're asking the wrong person. I have no idea why people who seem to enjoy being around me and talking to me don't want to do stuff or make it hard to plan things with them. The best I figure is that they're open to the idea but you know life gets in the way. They would have to make time to do so and well logically why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:38 AM
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Bonding over a shared interest dosen't equal to doing stuff outside the club. It's scary to ask people to hang out outside of the thing but it's just something you need to do. I'm aware it falls on my shoulder to do this. But if you notice all the advice around this stuff assumes that this will just happen natrually without you having to intentionally invite anyone to anything. Like people will say that if people like being around you and enjoy your company they'll natrually invite you to stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:56 AM
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Sometimes I feel like everyone lives in a different world then I do socially. Like one piece of dating advice, and honestly just social advice in genral is just to be somewhere you enjoy and have fun. This has always confused me because how dose this equal meeting women? Let alone making friends? After thinking about it for a bit I realized most people basically just lived lives I couldn't really imagine. if I joined a club there an extremely high chance I would never speak to those people outsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:27 AM
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He thinks every woman is a stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:24 AM
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An 8 maybe the hair doesn't impress me but I prefer curly hair, red heads and brunettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:44 AM
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Because most of the comment seems to mostly be about some rando fat lady being amazing and holding out for her prince charming rather then how shitty men are. Also I've read a lot of you're comments and this seems idk different I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:35 AM
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I rate no one but women I love or want a relationship with a 10. I see a 10 as perfect and that reserved for specific women. Even then I'd probably be hesitant to rate a 10 because I don't think mortals can be a 10 but love can blind and I might feel someone is a 10 in my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:32 AM
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I'm honestly kinda confused by your world view? Do fetishize women? This comment seems less like man hating and more like self hating man who wishes he was one of the womenz. Do you have Autogynephilia?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:25 AM
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Ice spice is a female raper who is famous for being attractive and her songs being very explicit. She's also, as far as I'm aware, and proud hoe and has lots of songs about that. She's very famous. To the point where there are thousands of videos of kids as young as 7 singing along to her songs. I don't really care about rap but every now and then I see videos about the black community being brought low by women like ice spice. These videos are usually made by black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:19 AM
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Nah this pretty normal. You're average normie man isn't self aware enough to think this way. From their perspective they're probably just thinking it would come off as creepy or just not consider it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:10 AM
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Tbh I knew all of this I just wanted to see what your answer would be. Though like hot lack said this is typically said to guys struggling so it really seems pointless to say to men. Especially men who can't even get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:07 AM
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Is being successful at sex work bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:25 PM
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What dose it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:24 PM
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Yeah all data shows that it's better to raise a child in a two parent household. As far as I'm aware this was true weather the parents were gay or straight. Also people are more likely to stay together if they're married rather then if they're just in a relationship and living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:22 PM
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. Like I always try to give them the benefit of doubt but they 90% of the time fail 💀 I fucking knew, I KNEW this is what he was gonna say next. Really? All the cuckolds I've spoken to are straight. Actually I don't think I've ever spoken to a gay cuck. Edit: This reminds I've had two guys on reddit once asked me to fuck their wife. It almost happened to we just couldn't work out the time and didn't have my license at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:18 PM
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You'd still have the problem of much more men than women on the app This will always be a problem. It's an issue for clubs and bars irl and it'll be an issue for anything men think will help them meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:36 AM
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This thread is fustrating because as far as I'm aware the OP is right. While I can't say weather autistic men are less likely to be partnered then felons. Every study I've see shows that autistic men are far more likely to be unwillingly single and virgins then they're nurotypical counterparts. I think it's something like they are 3 or 2 times more likely but I'd need to actually look in to it to remember. So yeah he's probably right but he didn't post any of the frankly easily available studies…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:10 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:10 PM
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I'm 28 and I don't think my mom actively taught me anything. She did try to help me with my homework though so there's that. I don't think this started with the millennials and zoomers though. My gut tells me this happened right after the silent generation. Like the boomers got parented but didn't parent their kids and millennials kept up the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:51 AM
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Actually I'm asking because I see people talk about compliments as a conversation starter. But as someone who has done that before 99.9% of the time it doesn't start anything. It goes exactly how I stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:17 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:07 AM
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What dose "create room for conversation" entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:59 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/s/1ThMLgMBuY 20F this is my take. again every woman is different. i think the best way for a man to approach me would be for him to be transparent about his intentions and tell me how he feels by offering a compliment. this a big jump but i think the word beautiful would have the most effect. https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/s/kDNN3lJZSp But lets say you see me out and about, I think the best way to approach anyone is with a compliment. HOWEVER, be chill. Don't be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:54 AM
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Do you want me to give you specific examples or a group of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:05 AM
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Well that's too bad. But I honestly knew that already. I just see people say things like compliment a woman and see if she's open to conversation. But as a guy who has done that alot what I wrote is the result 99.9% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:43 AM
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I saw a woman while I was walking through a store and told her that her jacket was nice. She told me thank you, smiled, and went back to shopping. What did that mean? Was I supposed to do a dance? Did she secretly want me to keep talking to her? Was I supposed to ask her for her number? Am I supposed to interrupt a smile as a sign to ask her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:25 AM
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Would my enemies also be the government?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:43 PM
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From personal experience the way to improve reading social cues isn't becoming more aware. 99% of the time it isn't so much that I can't read cues it's that I don't see any no matter how much I look for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:42 PM
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I can't be more specific because I'm repeating a general statement told to men who struggle dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:39 PM
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How do I hear the lamentations of their women if I'm in jail from crushing my enemies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:19 PM
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What dose it mean to "work on your personality"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:16 PM
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I only started to wear lighter colors recently. In part because some suggested it and also because I had been meaning to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:53 PM
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I like it, there's a dark purple and black one I have that I think looks better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:47 PM
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<image> Opinions on the shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:36 PM
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You have to be upper middle class first. So that you can actually interact with Yale grad Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:27 PM
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They're misunderstanding you're comment because you're first sentenced reads like you're saying men have a higher looks threahold.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:26 PM
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When you wrote that gay men have a higher looks preference he thought you meant they have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:18 PM
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Yeah meant that gay men have prefer looks more the women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:10 PM
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The reply is asserting that there's a male loneliness epidemic because men don't want real women. Real people have nasolabials so a guy (presumably) asserting that having them on characters is strange shows unrealistic standards. Now personally I think that's a ridiculous statment but hey that twitter for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:02 PM
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I've had a similar experience. Gay men love me seemingly. Women on the other hand couldn't care less
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:56 PM
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Thanks Lack you've always been cool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:31 PM
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Recently my self-esteem is the lowest it's been my whole life. Which is strange to say since I'm not nearly as suicidal as I was 4 years ago. But this is probably the first time I've actually felt this bad about myself. I usually make a distinction between how attractive I personally find myself vs how attractive other people think I am. I like the way I look and I like my personality, I've always thought of it that way. I've been called ugly enough times but my self-esteem was never so low that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:48 PM
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Once every two weeks. I might start doing it once a week though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:27 PM
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Am I supposed to be disgusted by fat women and treat them poorly? The way women on reddit talk about it you would assume every man is grossed out if a fat woman even looks in their direction. It's just so strange from my perspective since yeah I'm less likely to date a really fate girl but I'm not going to be angry if they talk or flirt with me. Granted not like I've had fat women flirt with me but still I'm not sure why it would bother me. Edit: On a similar note the way some women on reddit ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:39 PM
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Whichever is the most attractive both physically and perosnality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:35 PM
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Yeah I'd be happy but confused
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:36 PM
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you're still young. I never said I wasn't hours and days are good enough. people will convince themselves that the rejection was good and you weren't worth it, sour grapes and all. but it's not really about you. Yeah they'll probably fine someone else just as fast
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:50 PM
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I'm 28 and I'm not saying they won't feel sad I'm saying they'll get over being sad fairly quickly. Like it'll suck for a couple hours or days but they'll be fine. Also I didn't reject the girl who asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:45 PM
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The last time someone approached me was 13 years ago. I'm speaking in hypotheticals here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:40 PM
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Something I realized is that I'm so confident in my undesirabllity if I ever have to reject someone I figure they'll get over it pretty fast and they'll find someone that's interested in them just as fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:26 PM
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They say to clean yourself so earnestly while fucking men who don't. You will literally see post of women complaining that the men they sleep with don't wash they're ass. Clearly it doesn't matter that much but they swear up and down that it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:46 AM
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It's just so tiring and insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:19 AM
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I swear if I have another person recommend me a basic hygiene routine as a way to improve my chances with women I'm going to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:10 AM
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Today was one of those days I should've stayed home. I feel better after getting home from the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:28 AM
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I would depending on why they're a femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:38 PM
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You mean thinking Thinking Ape and yeah he has pretty bad insomnia. I like his channel as we have a similar view of the world and honestly it's rare to find someone on the same wavelength. Idk if he has a job currently but he's never to my knowledge talked about his insomnia effecting his career. I think he's approaching 60 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:34 PM
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Yeah I'd be uncomfortable asking for nudes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:36 PM
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Introvert
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:36 PM
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We aren't taking friendship but random men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:38 PM
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Believe the accusations of women against men. It can be something as extreme as rape to something small like staring at their breast. If a woman hears another woman claim a random guy does it she'll buy it. Sometime this can be mitigated if the woman has somekind of prior relationship with the man but even then it seems like a lot women are just down to believe any accusations a woman makes. There is also a rule of doubting that a woman did something wrong to a man and if she did do something wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:32 PM
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I got asked out once when I was a freshman in high-school and yeah I would say she was in my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:21 AM
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1)Money and 2)Help doing something. People don't really want anything from me normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:04 PM
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<image> I am this meme
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:58 PM
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Idk who this "we" is. I'm not a 20 something women. They're the ones who decide what men are attractive or not. Those other men are still attractive but so is Hasan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:33 PM
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That's always my question with these post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:07 PM
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Look I think Hasan Piker is a communists dude bro who no one should take seriously but he is very attractive to women. I would say the main reason he is as successful as he is, is solely because of his appearance. Women love him sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:57 PM
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No body, I don't have any role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:52 PM
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Would you say you've always been this fustrated about your lack of success?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:01 AM
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What do you do when you feel insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:17 PM
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Then he fucks her on the dirty couch
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:16 PM
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Honestly if I think about my everyday life then the answer is nothing. But thinking about my struggles when it comes to dating I think what needs to change, not necessarily what I want but what I think is needed is changing my personality as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:32 PM
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Yeah just say Yeah I had this kind of thing happen to me in high-school all the time and my answer was always yed (if it was true).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:25 PM
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I love 5ft women, I'm biased but all the cutest women are tiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:16 PM
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They really are so adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:13 PM
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I went roller skating last night and I'm not sure how much I enjoyed it. I liked it and it was fun to a certain extent but there was way to many people. There were cars double parked in the parking lot and parked on the grass outside the roller skatting rink. Usually it's busy but not that crazy. It was better then going out to some club I 100% don't belong in. But there's something about being in highly social environments where everyone comes with their friends or partners and all the regulars…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:52 PM
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we talked about any trauma family or dating issues all the time so we were very transparent Same for me except she doesn't tell me about her current dating issues only her past ones. the things she described women are attracted to were very virtuous but all the guys she had crushes on were walking redflags It's a mix in my case. She'll explain that she looks past appearance and goes after men for they're virtuous qualities. Obviously she wants to find a man physically attractive but emphasizes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:02 PM
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Actually part of the reason the conversion didn't end so well was because after telling her that I need to change my personality and her getting upset at I guess my wording or the idea of it. She started suggesting that I could change my appearance. Wash my hair, change my style, wear cologne, clean my facial hair, etc... I then got annoyed because I do these things, aside from the cologen, that is. She then got pissed that I thought she was implying I didn't groom myself. She was just giving ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:42 PM
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No I trust her judgment on that alittle more then most other people. We're pretty close so her telling me that is like my bestfriend telling me that. Like I straight up have to wonder if she thinks this way how do other women who don't even know me half as well feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:23 PM
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I had a, uhh, heated discussion with a female friend of mine about dating a few days ago that didn't end very well. I asked her the "How do I make myself want to make friends" question. I honestly didn't expect her to have much of an answer since it's a silly question. Which then made her ask why I wanted to do this. Which lead into a conversation about how I want to meet more people to meet more women. This conversation went on for a few hours and went down a couple path ways. Some key take awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:07 PM
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I would say that it helps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:28 PM
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You're right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:20 PM
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You made a generalized statement about the men in this sub. I am a man in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:49 PM
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So if you met a man that had the "personality of a woman" you'd fall in love with them? No probably not, I mean I guess I can't know but the answer is probably no lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:30 PM
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I'm explicitly not finding those things but you asked why I keep trying and those are my reasons. I get that you think friendship is enough but it isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:28 PM
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The gender matters because I prefer the personality of women lol. Idk what you want me to explain to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:27 PM
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They are definitely not good enough. I'm speaking from experience. All my close and emotional intimate friendship have given me a deeper yearning for romantic and sexual companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:25 PM
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I prefer women sadly and guinually I'm probably just never going to love a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:20 PM
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Why this person must be a woman? Because despite being bisexual I prefer the general personality of women when it comes to these aspects. even if you find a woman, she might break up or divorce And if I have a friend they might move to a different country and we'll lose touch, or we get into a really bad argument and stop talking to each other. All relationship of any kind can fall apart and personal experience has taught me that once someone has left my life I'll never see them again. But that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:19 PM
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Becauseb I don't hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:08 PM
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Because I have an internal desire for companionship. I realized last year that I really want to be apart of a team. I want to life my life in conjunction with another person, and I want to give someone my all and get the same (or at least close) to the same treatment in return. I sadly have a preference for women, but they don't have a preference for me so thing's aren't going so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:06 PM
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No offense taken I have some awareness of how women view me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:05 AM
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Strange how that works. I would figure there has to be some commonality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:00 AM
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I think part of my problem is my unwillingness to conform to usual social rules. I've never really viewed myself as any kind of non-conformist. I've always just done my own thing and other people just thought I was off or weird. Which confused me as a kid because as far as I could tell I wasn't doing anything that different from anyone else. Granted I'm not good with social cues and subtlety so it's possible people were doing something different but I couldn't tell. Anyway that's all to say when…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:35 AM
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Don't you have sex with average men? Aren't you one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:11 AM
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Everytime I look into single events in my area most the ones I find are in NYC (shit parking but whatever), are for people 30+, and are $35+. There are very few of them for people in their 20's but most of those are on nights I work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:07 PM
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I do enjoy occasionally outings I just don't talk to random people. I literally did so today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:03 AM
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think about it you don’t really want to live with anxiety for life do you? Generally I don't care as it doesn't actually affect my life all that much. I honestly only now started considering that I might have social anxiety since it's not something that would occur to me to talk to anyone and not doing so doesn't negatively effect my life normally. If your anxiety is debilitating, maybe you can start with small talk. “Nice weather today” “How’s your day” etc to cashiers or people you pass by. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:46 AM
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Thanks for your reply and you do seem to understand where I'm coming from. The people in the post you linked are doing thing I've noticed. Eveyone has advice about how to talk to people (though I often find it vauge). Suggestions on what to do when you meet people. But very few of them touch on something like social anxiety and getting past that. An issue I've personally noticed is that people will not come up and talk to you. You must start all conversations and realistically will probably have…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:15 AM
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I leave my house I just don't have a reason to talk to people. Like I went to a cafe and then walked through a park today. Did I have the opportunity to talk to anyone? Yes in as much as there are people outside yeah. But is there reason for me to do it? Was there any organic way for me to do so? The answer to both was no. So realistically I have to make opportunities. Think of things to say (that's not a compliment since those never lead anywhere), and come up with reasons to do so. The issue i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:48 AM
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Okay that's okay advice, though I've personally found that the "people don't get the opportunity to talk about themselves" style advice is just wrong. But that wasn't my question. I just want to actually desire to talk to people as opposed to no where I am at best neutral towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:36 AM
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My issue is I don't want to and I really can't think of anytime I can. There isn't any organic way for me to do that and I don't really want to. I can tell you that it extremely rare for people to come up and talk to me. So I have to make opportunities. Hense the question of how to get myself to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:26 AM
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I alread try to out effort into talking to people. 99% of the time it leads no where. But that wasn't my question. What I mean is how do I make myself want more friends? Like how do I get my brain to want to talk to random strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:59 AM
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I want a gf. Dating apps don't work for me and all the irl dating advice that isn't some variation of "cold approach 100 women" comes down to building a larger social circle where you're regularly introduced to new women. Even cold approach involes practicing on random people. The only problem is I personally don't have a friend group where I am regularly introduced to new women and have no real desire to make alot of new friends. I've always been someone that's been satisfied with a small group…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:56 AM
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I'm personally a birth rate doomer but I think most just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:40 AM
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Why would sand be band? He only realky hates on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:39 AM
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How do I make myself want friends? I don't hate people and am not adverse to new friends but I don't really have any internal desire to "build my social circle or talk to random strangers". It's difficult for me to force myself to do these things despite knowing I need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:37 AM
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3 but I only have one memory
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:28 PM
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You could also just be attributing more meaning to a phrase that didn't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:21 PM
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No I honestly have no idea why you mentioned race in first place. It read like you meant the phrase was only intented for leftist. I see now what you meant, I think your forgot a comma and word. Either way I'm black as well and I've never heard the phrase said irl. I don't think it's race thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:52 PM
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Yeah I think you're wrong because they just assume a guy struggling is all those negative traits. They never have postive to add and all the negative assumptions are used when talking about good people. No body says "Tim is a good guy but he dosen't treat women like people".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:42 PM
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Really? Another PPD woman clarified it last couple days. And was upvoted. Yes really I've read frankly to much threads about dating and I've never seen it until today. I think she’s black too. Idk maybe this is another “woke” and “based” left its intended tribe thing. Are you trying to say that the intended audience of the phrase is leftist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:38 PM
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Okay but we arent talking about you right? No one thinks being undesirable makes you a “bad person.” You're speaking about other people here and I'm saying other people do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:27 PM
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No he meant the horn effect. It's the opposite of the halo effect. but you guys always fail to mention that someone’s alluring personality positively impacts their attractiveness to others. Whenever the halo effect is talked about no one metions personality. Not men, not women, or researchers. I think you're the only person I've seen say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:21 PM
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I have quite literally never seen a woman clarify that. In fact that is the first time I've seen anyone say that. Everytime I see the phrase it's directed at men in genral or at men having difficulty dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:18 PM
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But in conventional social discourse, many women in that situation absolutely start moralizing and conflating that awkward man with a sexual predator (despite sex predators often being charming). Something I only learned relatively recently was alor of people associate the feeling of being uncomfortable or feeling awkward with someone being creepy. It's difficult to say that no one thinks that being unattractive means your immoral when just being social awkward means your a creepy. And yes I'm a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:14 PM
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Everytime some guy complains about his problems dating online people's immediate assumptions are that he's a misogynistic, violent man who dosen't bath, groom himself, talk to women, and lives with his parents. Those are not postive things to just assume about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:07 PM
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Do you like Indian curry? Jamaican curry?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:59 PM
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When I see that dress I think wholesome and sweet. My mental imagine is of a girl who bakes cookies and is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:29 PM
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Yeah but you have a lower likely hood of eating him alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:18 PM
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Man, I don’t hate or fear you, and I feel the same way about generic gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:17 PM
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Maybe it would depend on the woman and her vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:14 PM
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that's where most men who have your same thought fail to realize. I've never had a woman complain about how I treat her. I don't treat women poorly so that would guinually be the last of my worries. I've had multiple women say that if women knew me the way they did they would like me. I've had multiple women they thought I'd make a good boyfriend. Now all those women rejected me but it wasn’t due to issues with how I treat them and I didn’t treat them any different after they rejected me. if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:54 AM
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I would normally agree with you. But I'm trying to be realistic with myself. The vast majority of women don't find me attractive or at least not attractive in a sense where they want to date or sleep with me. Maybe I've just been acting like a guy women are actually attracted to when really I should act as desperate as my situation demands. I need to cast as wide a net as possible and that will include dating women I consider unattractive or at the very least only very slightly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:49 AM
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I've been considering it for a while now but maybe I should try to date women I consider unattractive. While I think I'm honestly fairly average and I don’t think I have high standards. Maybe I'm just wrong on all fronts. Maybe instead I should just try dating women I consider unattractive. If women in general don't consider me attractive maybe that just mean I should try with unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:54 AM
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Men don't need to be perfect to attract women more news at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:27 AM
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Where you in my friends position or mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:23 PM
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When men say “choose better” they mean choose a man you’re not sexually attracted to because all of the “good men” who are attractive are partnered. I mean choose a man who you are attracted to and has good moral character.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:00 PM
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If there was a dude that consistently went for the hottest, most popular women regardless of any warning signs, dull personality or other clear negative traits, and he kept complaining about being cheated on, about his GFs being shallow or having a dull superficial life, everybody would agree he has to choose better. I've had a similar conversation with a male friend of mine. He was complaining about some girl he was sleeping with and I just straight up told him to pick better. He kept choosing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:54 PM
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Are you saying men still pick women based on fertility signals such as waist to hip ratio and youth markers? Yes men are higher beings or something they have all the same grey matter in their head that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:47 PM
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True, something I have to remind myself is that most redditor seem to live in wealthy urban areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:24 PM
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Don't get me complaining about cities. I've lived in them my whole life and yeah I can see the convenience but in my experience they're dirty loud places full of people and crime. I probably can't escape the crime part, but I would love to live someplace with less people and less noise. I want to take a walk and not see use condoms outside my house or hanging off of someones fence. If it happened once then whatever that's a funny store but it's happend so many times. There's broken glass everywh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:26 PM
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I guinually have no idea how all of you can stand loud noises going on every night. Also I already have to drive everywhere. Our public transportation system is shit and everything is like a 30min walk away. While I normally have little issue making that trip, driving has bad it extremely convenient. Man don't get me complaining about my city cause I can do it all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:13 PM
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I can when it's to loud. Just do it quietly. Have an orgy in your backyard for all I care just don't scream so loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:32 AM
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Because I like sleeping and it's 2am for 2 nights in a row.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:25 AM
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My fucking neighbors have started to play loud music late into the night now that the weather is warming up. Loud Spanish music blaring at 2am and I know it'll only get worse because my other neighbors are caribbean and they party until it 1am. I can't wait for the winter to come back. I don't understand why my family continues to live in cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:20 AM
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My mom and sister have both started to worry about me being lonely and alone. They've only started worrying about it within the last year and a half, though I think my mother would have started sooner if she knew just how isolating my college experience was. I don't know how to feel about it honestly. While on one hand I can appreciate their concern for me, on the other hand I've all but accepted that I will die alone. Yeah I'll try dating apps, and I'll do different group hobby activities when …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:53 AM
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but absolutely none of them will date him or even introduce him to their friends. If they introduced him to their friends none of them would date him either. My question for those women would be if you don't want this man (understandable) and seemingly known of your friends want him (strange but okay) and if I had to guess none of those friend's friends want this man. Where is this mans alleged queen? Something I've noticed is that all the women I've known seem to believe that the idea that ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:20 AM
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I think you could make an argument either way tbh. My gut says women but I'm a man and I know women would say women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:51 AM
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My first thought was swindlers who peddle lies and false hopes easily get women. I've never particularly liked sales so I natrually view it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:35 AM
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I'm confused why is this supposed to be a gotcha? That seems like a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:27 AM
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Abes, hands, cock, arm, big cock. Not so much thought of body parts (though that is totally a thing) but more actions. Note: I'm not saying you, yes you woman reading this, flick your bean to gian dick. I'm just saying there is a suspicious amount of big 7+ inches dicks attached to 6ft tall pale skinned brooding chads in chick lit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:48 AM
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No I'm not surprised guys want the man hater I'm surprised they want the one who dresses like a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:48 AM
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The thing is I see alot of conservative men (which this sub is full of) say the opposite. Sure I like women who dress in very little but I'm a degenerate lib so of course I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:04 AM
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Yeah but I would expect more guys here to have an issue with B and atleast fuck A. Everyone just noped A hard. I mean I get it but it is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:50 AM
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A reject B Merry C Fuck I generally don't care if a woman dresses in skimpy clothes. At least three of the women I've been into the most did that and I've never had an issue with it. Any woman that will leave me when something better comes around is a no. The misandrist would be insufferable and we'd never get along. Also I'm an anime, jrpg playing degenerate I would never be able to stand that type. Edit: It’s interesting how everyone is rejecting A
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:28 AM
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I'm agreeing with you just because one person got lucky that doesn't mean you or I will. Something I always try to remind people is that if something happens to most people it will probably happen to you. Chances are you aren't an outlier. Sometime you can be but most the time you aren't. It's the strange thing about dating advice especially if you're male. People just sort of expect you to keep trying no matter how many times you fail. If you throw in the towel and are kinda sad about it you'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:23 AM
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If one person wins the lottery that means everyone should play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:53 PM
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As a man, no one gives a shit about your struggles,they only care if you win, so win. Those people can fuck off. Why would you want those people to give a shit about you? If people only care about you if you look a certain way or act a certain way then those are shitty people who should be disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:15 PM
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Then it's a statement that requires nuiance. Yes those who are successful do most likely get rejected less. It's why they're successful. But there is probably a subsection of those men that still have to get rejected 99 times before they get a yes. The men who keep going despite the odds are indeed persistent. Of course you or I might say those men aren't really "successful" if they had to get rejected that many times but OP might disagree. There is also something to be said about how success br…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:05 PM
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She's Canadian
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:46 AM
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God if 4chan's gone the internet really is dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:25 AM
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I've also found networking events and singles nights good when I've gone on stints of not being invited to parties. I have signed up for Single events they're just hard to plan around my job, expensive, and some are just scams. I'm also not suggesting per se you do anything. You can't say that your whole post seems like you're trying to shame men who don't ask women out. So clearly you are saying I should ask more women out .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:23 AM
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Looking at your reply and your edit again. Aren't you doing the same thing I am? You just get invited to parties and matches on dating apps. I can't ask women at parties out because I don't get invited to them and I've asked out so few women on dating apps because I rarely get matches. I would ask out female friends but one is aromantic and the other has repeatedly told me she only sees me as a friend (no it's not because I've asked her out several time). No I'm not being repeatedly introduced t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:25 AM
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Is this a joke? I unironicly can't tell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:05 AM
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I feel terrible about myself and had an okay day 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:02 AM
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I'm confused what's the problem here? She just seems like some random normie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:01 AM
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Every advantage men have is either something I don't value Yeah I don't really value being taller or stronger then most women. It doesn't positively effect my life enough for me to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:37 PM
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Nothing really, I largely view being male either indifferently or negatively. I don't hate being male I just dislike all the gendered expectations that come with it. Alot of it feels like alot of effort for no rewards aside from the occasional thank you. Yeah it's better then having periods I guess but that's about all. In comparison to the worst treatment a woman could get being an invisible touch starved ghost is slightly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:35 PM
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I voted for Kamala and am pro-choice. I also can't attract a woman to save my life. What's her explanation for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:32 PM
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I think all three of those men would kill you for calling them liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:30 PM
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I'm gonna encourage them to pursue their dreams and become resilient to rejection / find ways to cope with it. Kind of like how I wouldn't encourage someone not to apply to jobs just because they'd been rejected by some. I hate applying for jobs lol. If I could avoid it I would. I do it because I have to and I'm happy that I don't. Sending out thousands of applications and not hearing anything back was a terrible experience. I gained nothing positive from that experience. Re: parties I think you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:32 PM
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You shouldn’t be waiting to ask women out till they indicate interest. I actually agree but I also feel more comfortable doing it this way. Also I have very real fear of creeping some woman out and I want to avoid that if I can. But realistically I and everyone should just ask out anyone you're interested in. Usually I get rejected, but I don’t understand why people think being rejected is such a big deal. It's not about the rejection. Though I do view rejection as a waste of my time and energy …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:25 PM
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may have kids If they have kids chances are they are getting approached. All the overweight or obess women I know regularly date and have relationships with men. The quality of those relationships varies but they all have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:58 PM
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Where are these women being asked out? How would I know? They just say it happens everywhere. Are they average? Which means 37, 5’4”, 174 lbs? Again how would I know what random woman on reddit looks likes? I guess they're average looking 20 somethings normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:56 PM
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Women say they're being approached left and right. I regularly see women say that guys approached them, asked for their number, asked to take them out, hit on them. That and everytime I run into a woman she's always seeing or sleeping with someone. A large amount of what I think about women's experience or perception of men comes from what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:42 PM
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Well that's because they don't think you have to ask out 100 men to get a yes. They think at worst you'll have to ask out 5 to 10 men. Your chances are way higher then your average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:23 PM
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Why would anyone expect men to behave differently? It's just how things have always worked. You try over and over again. Sometimes you change your approach and hope that yields any results. You keep this up until you get a gf. This is how it has worked for 1000's of years. Well that and arranged marriage. But I imagine those had similar issues. Since this is how it's always been people expect men to just do the thing they're expected to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:48 PM
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Seriously where are all these parties people keep mentioning? Is getting invited to parties this super common thing for everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:18 PM
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Ketchup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:39 PM
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But for men I wanna ask... how many times have you asked a woman out? 0 zero times within the last 12 months and 5 times in total over 28 years. This isn't counting the my ex who asked me out or the girl who liked me but had a bf and then by the time she was single had moved to a different state. us guys have nothing to learn re: asking them out more There's nothing to learn there. Unless you're telling me to ask out random women. I asked out the women I was close to and thought had some interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:03 PM
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Avg UMC frat guy who actually goes to the gym, they're a dime a dozen at decent+ universities They are a dime a dozen but they're also considered hot. Generic UMC sorority girls are just as common but are still considering generally attractive. Attractiveness isn't about being unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:35 PM
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Are you okay? This seem oddly critical of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:27 PM
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Something I realized is that I'm honestly really easy to please. Well relatively easy to please. If a woman talks me somewhat frequently, hangsout with me, share some form of physical intimacy with me (that isn't only hugs), and gives me the occasional present I'm all hers. At somepoint I'll want to have sex but I'll be satisfied for a good half a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:39 PM
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I'm honestly not sure. The rational part of my brain says no but I have a woman in mind and if she asked me that at 1am I'd be annoyed and confused but do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:28 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DHyv2WoyiT5/?chaining=true&img_index=3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:25 AM
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why don't more incels just go to kink play parties in order to get some? I don't think I've ever run into an incel into kink. I mean I guess technically I fit the description but I also have sex with sex workers so I'm already abnormal. I have personally looked into kink play parties but I'm fairly certain it going to be mostly gay guys. In the same way all the NSFW r4r subs are just gay guys and all the NSFW chat platforms are mostly gay men and sex workers. So I assume kink parties are the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:24 AM
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Yeah that's what I've noticed. People sort of expect you to do alot of the heavy lifting. It's made me rethink alot of my past behavior. I'm I or was I like this? If so I feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:15 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:27 PM
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Eh, sounds boring
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:23 PM
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Do female abusers actively seek out victims? I was thinking about the claim that male abusers seek out potential victims who will put up with their treatment so they'll see a girl talk to her and if she doesn't seem like she has potential or whatever they pounce for lack of a better word.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:22 PM
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I have never been to a social even in a business setting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:11 PM
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They’re sweet innocent “desperate” angels who had to do it I get your criticism but when it comes to situation like that I never really talk about the guys at all. I understand pointing out the hypocrisy and I do personally believe if you have an issue with promiscuous behaviors you should criticize men and women equally. But this is an instance where no one care about the guys one way or another. What you should be pointing out is that no one is talking about these men and how degenerate they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:35 PM
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Is this supposed to be a money thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:09 PM
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Have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:21 PM
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I asked a few of them if they wanted to go hiking or bowling and the answers were yeah I'll get back to you. Then they either don't get back to me and I have to ask them about it learning that they either forgot or were busy. After that happened a few times I just stopped. People are busy. They might enjoy talking to me and like my company. They have they're own lives of work, school, relationships, and friendship. So they'd have to squeeze me in. I'm not someone to squeeze in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:27 AM
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Do you not make friends at work Outside of one exception all my work friends are just work friends. This is true of other places as well for me. Most "friendships" are place specific. Gym friends are gym friends and people at hobby groups are just at those hobby groups. I'm always confused when people talk as if people are just going out with strangers they met in a class. I've never experienced that past high-school. not go to networking events Never been to a networking event. The way people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:10 AM
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It's an extrovert thing. It's what being and extrovert vs an introvert is about. If you're drained my socializing with people then you're an introvert and if the opposite is true you're an extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:03 AM
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From what I've seen it's because female clients are hard to work with. There are stories of matchmaker working with female clients only to give up at some point after many failed attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:56 AM
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The person who told me was the person who was told about it. The girl who told her any of that was probably someone I don't talk to. If it's someone I don't talk to then realistically there's not much for me to do. If she has a problem she has to come to me or tell someone I know. I doubt I'll be fired and the women I asked would stick up for me so I'm not worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:41 PM
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I have officially asked all the women I talk to at my job wheater I have a problem stareing at them or if I overshare sexual details. They've all told me I don't and the orginal girl who told me that she heard I do those things explained that she didn't really have the context for any of those comments i.e. what sexual details I shared, and what girls I was staring at. The last girl I asked even seemed confused and concered I would ask her anything like that. So I've decided not to worry about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:07 PM
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So you understand why this wouldn't be equal? It would natrually lead to men paying more times then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:57 PM
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Does this make things more equal in your eyes? Why or why not? It's not equal because I'm still expected to initiate everything. Disclaimer I've never been in a relationship, I understand people saying things are different in a relationship. But in my experience women don't invite me out regardless of how close we are or they do but it's extremely rare. So if I wanted to hangout or go on a date it's up to me to ask. As long as I'm the person doing all the inviting I'll always be the person payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:17 PM
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Because that will drop any man's chance to date to 0. I can't imagine that working even for some super attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:11 PM
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Get a journal or start a twitter account.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:30 AM
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I see radfems called out all the time. Where and when? The only time I can think is when it's about trans people. Otherwise I don't see radfems criticized?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:37 PM
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In my experience the second bit isn't true. I've known fat women, and single moms. Their standards are the exact same as young pretty and thin women. Unless you have some kinda of study disproving this I'm at the very least skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:13 PM
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functional human being This is negotiable. I mean when was the last time she had a job and what was the crime she committed? If it's manslaughter then that's a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:08 PM
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Yeah I went to 3 alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:40 AM
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I could post my neurotic spiraling if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:35 AM
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Actually I personally don't have to worry about buying a home. My mom's leaving me her house when she dies. So unless I want to homes there wouldn't be a reason to buy one. Granted she'll hopefully be alive for a long time so I'll probably be in my 40's by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:40 PM
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Whenever you feel anxious like this, look at graphs of the stock market over a 20 year period. I'll try that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:36 PM
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Nah that's a gen-beta problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:21 PM
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Gen-z and Gen-alpha are just fucked. Between the housing crisis and the (american) tariffs everything is unaffordable we'll own very little in this world. Can't even relay on social stuff either. Since gen-z is so isolated. There might even be a depression on the horizon. Maybe things will be better for gen beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:49 PM
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I'm a shy, socially awkward nerd, who has trouble connecting with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:03 AM
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Uhh it might be one of those shows that get good once you shut down your brain Hmm it's not subtle and is over the top. The writers just have a message and want to convey it. Rereading this, the actual bad thing he's guilty of is dumping the women when they get pregnant which is scummy in itself but getting pregnant isn't one person's responsibility and he even pays for the abortion (he's not forcing them to have one right?), All this is true, girl 5 even chooses to keep the baby so yes it's a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:15 PM
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The thing is there isn't any manipulation or false promises. Sure he never out right says that he's doing this for fun. But he also dosen't put on some charm where he tells the girls they're special and promises the world. It never seems like he tricks anyone, I'm not even sure how he could since quite literally eveyone at the school knew. I would guinually recommend the show. It's an interesting look at Thai culture. Also a good thing the series dose is cast teens as well teens. Besides the mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:43 PM
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There is this Taiwanese horro series called Girl from Nowhere. If you watch anime and are familiar with hell girl and Mushishi it's sort of like that. The series is about a supernatural mysterious girl who goes from school to school causing trouble. Each episode focuses on a new school with new students and a new issue the writers want to talk about. If you have netflix I would recommend it. Episode 1 of season 2 really stuck in my mind because I kept asking one question throughout the whole thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:58 PM
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You've asked this question before I think. My answer hasn't changed yes I would date someone who fetishizes me. I see no reason not to. It's better then the state I'm in right now if anythingI have a better chance with her then any other woman. I would act like I saw nothing and just go about my day. Actually I think I can explain this even better. You didn't say this but my brain automatically went it's either this girl or no one. Like would I date someone who fetishize me vs no one. There is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:23 AM
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Then there not anything you can do 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:35 PM
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I don't think you can. You can lose weight in general and that will help obviously but otherwise you can't. You can't target fat lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:23 PM
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It's shin chan so that's probably a grown woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:08 PM
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A classic anime if there ever was one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:05 PM
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What would you do without your daily Lilith post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:05 PM
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When I say gender roles I mean things that men and women are expected to do. Not necessarily things that are men or women are only capable of because of their biology or things that are just natrually easier for men or women to do. So saying men natrually tend to be stronger then women or that women tend to be more flexible isn't really about gender roles imo. Sure women can be very strong and even stronger then most men with enough training (and drugs) but natrually if they just exist in the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:45 AM
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Kinda but not really. Gender, for the most part, is just sex so realistically it's linked to your biology. Gender roles are a mix of both soical convention and biological influence. I would say if something is predominantly biologically influenced it has nothing to do with gender roles. Of course there's a debate to be had over how much influence biology has over anything. But that debate will rage on for all entirety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:43 AM
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Men I guess? But that just feels more like a component of biology. That's like saying child birth is a female gender role. Not really as it's a part of biology that men can't really do. Both things are just the consequences of our biology and aren't something I would consider a "role".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:10 AM
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You're just wrong, I don't know a better way to say it. You can have a theory of mind and still struggle with dating and feel highly anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:55 AM
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She just mean these men don't view women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:39 AM
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The more I workout and build muscle, the better I feel. What dose this have to do with male gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:24 AM
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Seriously what are you talking about? Theory of mind (ToM) is the ability to attribute mental states to ourselves and others, serving as foundational elements for social interaction. Having a theory of mind is important as it provides the ability to predict and interpret the behavior of others. Okay you just mean they don't see them as sentient thinking people with their own feeling, opinions, and free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:23 AM
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Being free How is that a male gender role? Love being able to walk where I please. Being physically capable. How are either of these male gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:06 AM
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Is that a gender role?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:52 AM
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Q4M What part of male gender roles do you like? Edit: What do you think male gender roles are in broad strokes? You can go into detail it's just not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:30 AM
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I think the assumption is that said men will eventually develop these traits with time (aka, fake it till you make it). But I ask myself how common this process actually is. True, we can't know how common the process is as there isn't really a way to test this or truly know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:13 AM
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Like the other guy said Alice can be a confrontational go-getter or is laid back and non-confrontational. She will still want the confrontational go-getter she'll just want that in different level and ways depending on her personality. There is no winning scenario for Bob unless he get's lucky and finds a woman who likes his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:08 AM
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That's okay but what does that have to do with other people the man isn't trying to sleep with being dismissive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:19 AM
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The thing is even if you say it in a nicer way like "I wish I could experience sex and physical intimacy. It's an important part of the human experience that I crave and just being able to negatively effects my mental health." Even if you witre all of that it will just get dissemed off hand. People are weird about sex and the desier for it. If you just say you want physically intimacy which, yes includes sex. People will say that you're just lying and are just trying to use women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:01 AM
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It's not that they don't wanna It's that it would just be shamed even harder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:28 AM
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If that was her crime then he was right she clearly didn’t acknowledge him or know he existed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:46 AM
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Strip clubs, and it would basically be like dating a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:02 AM
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I'm not sure what this picture is trying to convey. I also never read his manifesto so I have no idea what she did Also those are nice tits 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:00 AM
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Experience probably and it's probably not wrong. Like I think she can find what she's looking for but it's going to be extremely difficult. She's asking for alot just from dating the only guys who would agree to that are extremely lonely men. But even those men would rather have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:57 AM
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Look man I get you but you understand that your not really the kinda guy I'm talking about in my post right? Sure you never "tried to attract women" but you do so realistically the question is boradline pointless to ask you. Guys like you will be fine regardless so I'm never really worried about them. Like I'm more interested in the guy who can hangout with people but still struggles then the guy who dose or doesn't and still finds sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:38 PM
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So then you just never struggled in attracting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:20 PM
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What does this even mean? He just means change the approach after being rejected. So if just going up to a woman and asking her out immediately dosen't work do the small talk and flirting thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:00 PM
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This is why I tell men to stop listening to women Men give this kind of advice as well. Honestly my question can be directed at red pill tier advice as well. The rest of your comment doesn't really answer my question and it's just more advice that would make me ask the men following it if they find it personally useful. Who cares about the theory if it isn't working for that person. I want to know wheater it worked for them (the romantically challenged) or not .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:44 PM
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Okay so just make an exception in case of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:11 AM
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Good taste
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:08 AM
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Same, it doesn't really mean much besides strippers randomly telling me they can tell I have a bkg dick. I wish size alone did anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:07 AM
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I made no friends in college
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:26 AM
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How do you build your social circle after you've left university?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:14 AM
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No he definitely has a point but I wouldn't it's all or even most guys with a skincare routine. The skincare routine thing is unusual for American men so it point's to some potential abnormal behavior but I would say it's a yellow flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:03 PM
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Yes I'm a massive redflag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:51 PM
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No I just put lotion on after showers and regularly put some on my hands through out the day. Yes I'm a massive reflag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:50 PM
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One bad experience with a nice guy and they will never date a nice guy . Plenty of experiences with toxic guys and they keep dating those guys again and again . When I read shit like that I do wonder where's my chance. There are women who constantly date nice guy's but they seem less common then the one's who date toxic one's for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:23 PM
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I hate to defend this lady since I hate the term "nice guy" and how it's used. But if we're being charitable she means she was dating a guy who is insecure, multiplicative, and controlling. Very much the stereotypical male feminist, well the negative stereotype of them anyway. What she will do, or at least claim to do is date guys who are "kind". Little relationship history, put women on a pedestal and spent many years chasing emotionally unavailable women who strung him along To defend this bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:13 PM
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You have to be both sociable and attractive. If you aren't one you have to compensate by investing very heavily into the other. If you're only weak in one of these two things then you can just rely on the one your best at. If you're neither then your shit out of luck. Try very hard to change your personality or find some luck somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:48 AM
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Idk man I can agree it's ridiculous and maybe dosen't fit the definition of affordable, fair enough, but I personally, as a FA male living in the US find that liveable. Maybe if you have 2 kids it's not but that's still a maybe. I know someone who makes half of that and has a one kid and she's struggling but very much making it through life. I think rent is to high but I don't think it's to the point where someone making 75k a year can act like their poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:30 AM
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Are you telling me you can't live off $6250 a month? I did my own math and that still leaves me 2k left. I think 2.5k is a ridiculous average but if you're making 75k a year that is more then affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:08 AM
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>How much is rent in NJ Zillow says it's $2500 but you can totally find you safe places for below 2k easily. Here's a place in South Orange for $1595. Though if you want someplace really nice like say Union your looking at closer to 2k. >can you shoe me the Zillow ads with how unsafe it is to walk around the area alone at night as a woman? I have no idea what you're talking about with the ads. I can say that South orange is nice area that's safe for a woman to walk around in at night. Newark isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:49 AM
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In my state, NJ, it’s not even livable (alone) in many areas. It’s very modest here, and very modest in almost every state above NJ. I'm constantly confused by reddit's idea of affordability. 75k is $6250 a month and that in NJ is not "It’s very modest", 75k is very much "livable" Sure you won't be living the high life but you can live a comfortable life in decent apartment in a nice neighborhood. Sure you won't be living in some of really nice places up there but you'll be okay and be able to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:02 AM
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I think sex with anything more then two People is gross. I might be willing to have a threesome but that's as far as I'd go and I'd be hesitant. Let's say even just two couples making out in the same space. Is that bad? It's not bad Isn't it hot when it's not just strictly two people but even multiple who are turned on? No why would that be hot? What's wrong with that? I think it has a cool kind of liberating feeling to it. There's nothing morally wrong with it though I do find the idea of alot …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:53 PM
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Yes everyone looks good in glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:00 AM
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I just thought of something funny, well funny to me. As someone who lives in lower class community and who's family (well the women in it) is made up of alot of teachers I find the notion that middleschoolers would refer to themselves as incels is ridiculous. I have never heard any of my relatives complain about anything like that. They'll talk about kids being disrespectful, rude, valger, getting pregnant, getting into fights, saying slurs. But not one has said anything about incels lol. Just l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:11 AM
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Whatever music I like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:05 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:46 AM
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is feminism good? I see feminism as okay though not that useful in modern western society. do you like it or hate it? If those are my only options then I would say I hate it. While I view feminism as a female empowerment movement and not a movement for "gender equality" that's not the reason for disliking feminism. My dislike for feminism comes from having most my interactions with self evowed feminist being negative. I love anime, manga, and video games. Being a fan of all three of those things…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:40 AM
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I'm gonna strongly disagree with you on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:37 AM
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Around two years ago I did some light research into getting rid of my sexual urges. The end result of the research was that there isn't a guaranteed way to do that and even if you did some how do that you wouldn't remove the need romantic intimacy or just intimacy in general. Every method people bring up only has a chance of work and some medication might have the exact opposite effect increasing your sexual desire. I wish there was a switch in my brain that I could flick and turn off my sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:34 AM
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Because of all the cock you've had inside you. Don't worry I believe you sand. You have can sex with men and be a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:25 AM
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Then that's okay I guess. It's pretty clear that is a danger even of the reverse is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:35 AM
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Rejection mostly and not being very social.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:34 AM
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I have a strong relationship with my parent and I remember every single girl I've had strong feelings for. I even remember the first girl I had a crush on when I was 6. I chalk that up to only being dumped once and only ever having one sided feelings. So I never have messy breakups because I never get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:59 AM
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Yes I would 100% marry that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:55 AM
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My dad died when I was 3 and my mother never remarried. While I do think having a father figure is important in a child's life I would be liying if I said I thought it mattered much in mine. The whole not having a father thing and never knowing my dad's side of family thing (since they're all in Jamaica) bothers my mother way more then it dose me. As I never really have any memories of him besides the day he died. So I don't really miss him. I can't help but think that one of reasons my mother n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:37 AM
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<image> Meet the 5 foot Indian janitor stealing all your women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:29 AM
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What you don’t believe that massive giga chad couldn't get super models?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:12 AM
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I hate having to make responsible life and financial decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:41 AM
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I figured I might never have sex ever and if she was offering why not. She had already fucked like a bunch of other guys and I might never get this kind of chance again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:29 AM
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Maybe? Idk I used to think I did. But honestly after thinking about it I'm not sure if anything I did would have made a difference. Like we agreeded to meet at my place and hookup but she ended up flacking on me. Maybe she thought I was cringe, or maybe she got cold feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:19 AM
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I actually would be completely fine with people criticizing my taste in women. My issue is that the compliant that I'm going after one girl while rejecting another is completely misplaced. I'm not rejecting women left and right. I don't get to choose between the good girl or bad girl. So it always just confuses me when the accusation is thrown at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:15 AM
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2, well 1 because I did try to get with her later but turns out she wasn't that interested in me. One was a a former friend who was going through a very bad breakup and wanted to sleep with me as a rebound I guess. I said no because it felt off, like she was clearly going through something and I felt like I would be taking advantage of her sorrow to sleep with her. In the end I did try to sleep with her after she fucked a bunch of other guys in our extended friend group but it never happend. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:39 AM
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Holy shit, does that mean 45% of young men are virgins/ incels? Incels maybe but probably not virgins. Alot of guys can get lucky once or twice and then see nothing for long stretches of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:15 AM
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I'm never sure how to react to actuation that I'm either chasing women out of my league or that I'm rejecting women who are actually really nice but are just average looking. I'm flattered you think I get that much interest from women but I assure you I'm not. I will admit I would reject a nice religious girl. But that's because I'm a degenerate bisexual atheist. So I don't forsee that relationship going well. Though a situation like that has never come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:10 AM
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Yeah though there struggles tend to be different. While men are more like to have trouble finding anyone into them at all. Women will struggle to find guinuan relationship's with someone who truly cares about them and who they are attracted to. Of course this is speaking in generalizations and there are men who have stuck trying to find guinuan relationships and women who struggle finding anyone into them. I think both of problems for men and women when it comes to dating can be blamed on gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:07 AM
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Working retail for three years has really lowered my expectations of your average person. It really seems like most people can't read or lack basic observation skills. Also I learned that if you give people the idea they aren't responsible for cleaning up after themselves they will just make a gaint mess. I don't know what it is about shopping that turns grown adults in to messy animals but you would think the people that come to the store have never cleaned or picked up after themselves in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:35 PM
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True it is amazing. Guinually probably one of the best manga out there about a terrorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:05 PM
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If anyone here reads manga I would recommend Dandadan. While I don't think it's the best thing ever like some people seem to, I will conced that it is a quality manga. It's art is great, it's monster designs are interesting, and the characters are great 4 volumes in. My only real complaint is that the fights don't feel as engaging as the character drama which is a shame since it is a component of the series though it very much feels like it's not the focus. If you told me it was orginally planne…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:01 PM
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I get your point but most autistic men typical don't get laid. I don't believe this is because they don't participate in the autistic community.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:41 AM
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Never mind you were replying to the last sentence. Honestly that sounds like a you issue. You picked men that didn't actually like you. You should work that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:18 PM
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An annoying aspect of arguing with people on here is people assuming I'm talking "Chad" or "Tyrone" when I never use these terms. I say men women are attracted too, and I just mean men that women are attracted to. It's vague because despite how black-pilled and cynical I am I can acknowledge that there is some variation in attraction. Sure there are certain traits that are going to be more attractive to most people. But that dosen't mean every woman want to date a blond haired, blue eyed, jacked…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:05 PM
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That dosen't disprove anything I wrote. Those were still men you were attracted to. So yeah you found a man who checked those boxes and also happened to be attracted to you. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:48 PM
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The issue is that all the things you “don’t need any more of” are things that will be MORE abundant in a relationship than sex. I meant I don't need more of in a platonic sense. So if you don’t need any more time with women to enjoy talking to, hanging out with, cooking and cleaning and watching TV with, you don’t want a relationship. First of all cooking and cleaning with women is not included in friendship. Not that I would be against doing those things with my friends (I run errands with one …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:03 PM
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Some men who want to fuck a woman but otherwise don’t care about her or her personality don’t like this, because they’d like sex, and don’t want the rest. This is, idk reductionest I guess. I could be wrong but it seems like you're saying that the only reason a man wouldn't want to be friends with a woman he's interested in is because he only sees them as a sex object. I'm speaking from person experience here and I can tell you that it's not fun constantly being a guy women like being friends wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:39 PM
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But I do think it’s inevitable that women will struggle, like men, to find a partner who will value her as a person, care if she’s upset, go out of their way to make her happy and have good boundaries and the ability to communicate them in a way that’s productive and reasonable? Absolutely. You forgot who they are attracted to and is attracted to them. They can probably find men who check those boxes but they might not be attracted to those men for one reason or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:15 PM
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