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Somebody finally paying you attention, that’s what you wanted, that’s why you commented You might be confusing me with someone I never talked about no body paying attention and never said I need attention. I do want the attention of women I want to date but that's it. At the bare minimum you could’ve said something like “well here are the things I struggle with” and probably had a good conversation with that person. You could’ve at least tried. Well sorry but I'm currently going through somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:10 AM
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No seriously what was I supposed to be grateful for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:00 AM
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I wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:56 AM
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Tbh she couldn't help I'm an internet stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:24 AM
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Exactly bro doesn't know how good he has it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:37 PM
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<image> Some guys get all the luck . I love me a mentally unstable hello kitty girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:26 PM
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I love small boobs and I love the women that have them. That is all I'm gonna go back to rotting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:35 AM
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I'm not say it's not saying women or other people shouldn't hate incels. I understand why they do and don't blame them. I'm talking about the level of hatred. If there were frequent attacks by incels I would understand but there isn't. There has been some but their pretty rare. Maybe I'm not communicating properly here. I feel like the level of hatred and fear is out of hand. People don't need to make random threads shit on incels, or comparing them to garbage. There's no need to imply that rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:41 PM
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I never said there wasn't incel violence. But it's not to the level where you have fear some kind of incel attack or act like all of them might do something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:48 PM
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Yeah you shouldn't take them seriously. Why would you? 4chan is the best example because there are alot of legitimacy mentally unstable who say insane shit. Are they serious? Should you treat them like they're legitimately dangerous or anymore dangerous then any other group with radical elements? Well I'd say no Also where are you guys getting the mass rape stuff from? Like I've listened to hours of interviews with incels of all different strips. I've been in a few incel communities and I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:11 AM
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Look I know you hate incels but you have no proof this. This like saying Anons on 4chans would totally commit terrorist attacks if they could get away with it. Sure an insignificant amount might but it's not enough to blanket say they totally would if they vould get away with it or act like trolls are a threat to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:33 AM
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Honest question what do incels do to make people hate them so much? The way people online talk about it you would think there an incel terrorist attack happens evey couple of months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:19 AM
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Not in the immediate area
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:09 AM
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That doesn't happen to me unless you mean women saying hi to me while I work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:36 PM
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Yeah I'm never sure where to look sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:49 PM
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Its not hard to get attention from women though, Speak for yourself buddy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:46 PM
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The best advice I can give you is that you just have to keep in contact a decent amount. It doesn't have to be daily messages just catching up with each other once a month or so. Also try to hangout when you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:15 PM
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Be at peace brother smell the roses <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:12 PM
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<image> I went on a walk yesterday and took so pics. I think this is one is okay so here's some flowers for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:37 PM
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Hey my last first date was last year!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:11 PM
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Yeah this is a messy situation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:43 PM
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I mean I definitely don't judge women for degenerate behavior. It would be rather hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:36 PM
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Are you two long distance? Are you planning to marry this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:34 PM
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Yeah no you're to horny to see cleanly. There guinually is no woman hot enough to spend 5k on. If she was your wife it would slightly understandable but otherwise it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:11 PM
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No it's normal though I'm surprised someone filming porn would care. Also don't pay someone 5k to sleep with you. No body is worth 5k.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:04 PM
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Granted I've never hide my feelings or whatever. But I can I tell you from personal experience it all feels the same in the end. The only difference is how much you'll miss that person but like I said a year or month later it's all the same. A rejection is a rejection. I think it might only make a difference if you pontional do find someone but if you only get rejected it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:15 PM
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Thanks and I hope you have a good day as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:16 PM
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Went to a board game night yesterday. It was at the same place I went to before with the same people more or less. This time there was a few teens and girls of indeterminate age who I think were from the tennis court outside the building most of them was not play the games just enjoying the cafe. I played a new board game called rock hard 1977 it was fun but I lost. It's still fun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:48 PM
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I just ignore her tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:22 PM
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Okay I'm gonna say both mister 26 year old twink
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:19 PM
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People still get bullied for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:09 PM
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Congrats are they from men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:07 PM
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Oh well thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:43 PM
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Did you reply to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:38 PM
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Because of how low my self-esteem has gotten I've started thinking that it's better I don't interact with women. If I'm not charming, not charismatic, asocial, and apparently don't flirt I think it's better I stay away from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:27 AM
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This has quite literally never happened to me. In fact I would say the closer I get to a woman the less interested she is ij me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:39 AM
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To late for a nap I'd just be asleep the rest of the night. It's not a big deal I've been like this for like a month now. With enough time I'll go back to my normal amount of feeling like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:07 AM
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I had an okay day but my mood is shit. Funny how that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:57 AM
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I know what you mean but this very much a vibe thing that you have to experience to understand. There's a away women treat me that's different from how they treat men and attractive men in particular. It's not that they treat me worse in all instances but it's just different. I can see it whenever they interact with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:18 PM
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I finally finished Goodnight Punpun. It was really good but I don't know how I feel about the ending. Did Punpun really deserve for everything to work out in the end? I'm happy he was able to work through his oneitis but I think it should have been while he was in a jail cell. It just feels kind of fucked up that by the end of it that he's in a good place in his life surrounded by people that love him. Especially after the shit that happens in vols 6 and 7. It just feels like he got away with it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:56 PM
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Again like I said to the other guy. If we go via his premises your constantly sacrificing time, freedom, effort, money, etc... everyday. Personally I don't see the big deal. You spend a night with you gf and lose time to do your hobby that night. You can do it another. It's such a miniscule sacrifice that it might as not be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:26 PM
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No I don't think that? Men aren't more toxic then women. They don't need humbling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:20 PM
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Okay but that's you interpreting what they're saying not what they're actually saying. They are in fact complaining about a personality. You're just reading between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:16 PM
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Sacrifice freedom (you need to compromise and often just agree with her demands) There's noting wrong with compromising and doing it often. I still don't see the issue. Sacrifice money. Your money are not your money now. At best you can keep part of them. Annoying but whatever presumably she brings some vaule so I can get over it. Sacrifice time. You have much less free time now This is the part I never understand. This can be said about anything you do. When you get a job you have less free tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:14 PM
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How is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:04 PM
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How? There's several post about that on the normie dating sub every week or so. Women online constantly complain about how low quality the average guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:03 PM
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How are men not humble? While I don't believe that men are more humble on average or whatever. I don't think they're in a state where they need to be humbled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:01 PM
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Ignoring the loser argument for a minute. I've never fully understood this idea that you're sacrificing anything by getting into a relationship with someone. I always see people sight freedom but from perspective I wouldn't loss any freedom by having a gf. You might lose time but that's the case with anything you pick up really. That new thing takes up time but I can't imagine new random hobby would have more weight then a gf or bf. This just seems like people who have relationship trauma tellin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:59 PM
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What women? There's no specific demographic I can give you And what is the problem then? Criminals are attractive sometimes The problem again isn't that they are physically attractive. The issue is that women, yes even one's who date criminals, will go on and on about how appearance isn't what matters and that it's what on the inside that matters when attracting them. A guy will see that and see that the same women go for horrible violent criminals. It looks contradictory. If women emphasize mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:28 AM
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I don't think the problem is that a sizeable portion of women fuck those same criminals. Sure there would be men crying foul about that but it wouldn't be as many as it is now. I'm not saying you are one of those women but I know those women exist and they seemingly exist in quite a large number.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:17 AM
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I don't know if congratulations are in order I just think alcohol taste terrible and makes me feel terrible. Of the 4 or 5 times I've drank I've disliked the experience all but one of those times. I'm always left reminded why I hate alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:52 AM
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I don't think I can do that as I don't drink
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:22 AM
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I think conservative men are just going for whose chemistry they mesh with, no matter what politics they might have. I don't think most men care about women's politics except if it becomes an argument starter and something a couple can't get past. Bingo! This could probably be said about men in general. I never see men bring politics up as a deal breaker. As long as the politics doesn't cause constant arguments they don't care. Yeah some red pill guy will go on the internet and complain about fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:19 AM
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How would I get four female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:10 AM
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They don't love liberal women they just find them physically attractive. The politics are irrelevant because that's something they can talks about after cumming. Basically stop giving people the benefit of the doubt in how much of their behavior is thought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:42 PM
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It's not a conscious decision on their part so I can't imagine they could explain why it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:57 PM
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I mean if you're attracted to them sure though you're just one woman and we don't have cloaning technology yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:55 PM
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I mean they're bi so yeah they can date men. If a man is bi dating men will probably always be faster and easier then dating women. It's just a matter of willingness if anything. If we're talking numbers it's probably over 60% of them could successfully date men. I think most men would agree it's not hard to find men to date. At most I see gay men complain about commitment issues but that's it's.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:40 PM
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Do you mean how many of those men could date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:12 PM
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Yes and? It has nothing to do with population levels it's that those are all negative traits for men to have and they heavily effect your chances with women in general. If a guy is one of those things it would be hard for him to date women. If he was all three he's basically doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:05 PM
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By choice or by necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:41 PM
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Honestly if a guy is bi, short, and autistic he should probably just exclusively date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:34 PM
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I mean from men perspective it's not one criminal. I've see something like this happen online before and I would imagine every guy has irl examples of women going crazy for a criminal or violent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:24 PM
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Whenever there was a thread about him on any main sub there would be women simping for him. Saying that what he did was right. I think there were comments talking about if more men were like him there wouldn't be a loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:23 PM
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That sounds nightmarish
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:26 PM
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It's hard to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:25 PM
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How would that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:54 PM
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Maybe they don’t use the term Chad but they definitely mention seeing women trying to flirt with their boyfriend all the time. This is common with women in genral. They always think women are after their men regardless of how he looks. I will never understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:53 PM
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Rare instances of you being right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:50 PM
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I had breakfast at a dinner yesterday with mom for mother's day since I'll be working today. She mentioned how she was happy I wasn't going around chasing girls and getting the pregnant like my cousins. My mom's a teacher so she hears and sees alot of teen pregnancy. Plus more then a few of my cousins got girls pregnant in their teens or early 20's. Apparently all my cousins (I have alot of cousins) but two have children. So she's happy I'm not like them. This is either the second or third time …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:31 PM
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How is it creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:20 PM
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Shorter then me since I'm 5'9 that's not to hard to find I either like girls that are skinny or girls who are chubby but not to fat. This is one of those things that's hard to prove. Someone should just show me a pic and ask if I think she's to fat. I like small breast. The smaller the better tbh. Same age or younger. If they are older no more then 4 years. I like women who love to talk and are very expressive. They're the exact opposite of myself but they tend to be the easiest to read. If I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:19 AM
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So you have a type but your indifferent to two qualities? Isn't that fairly normal. I have a type but I'm in different to ass size for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:04 AM
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No but I hear it's good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:00 AM
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There's hope it's just not around Punpun himself. We see other characters grow. They have step backs but they get through it somehow. But when they get involved with Punpun it's he sucks them into his world of misery and stagnation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:59 AM
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It doesn't make me depressed but I also relate to the main character and his uncle so that might be why. I could see why it might make other's depressed though. It's like the world is just full of people who can't make positive changes in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:45 AM
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Actually I don't think it was supposed to be causal sex it just kinda ended up that way. The sex was the goal but I don't think it was supposed to be causal that's just how it ended up. But yes I would say any skills you have that make you good at sales or interviewing would translate well to attracting women. Regardless of wheatear we're talking long term or short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:40 AM
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It's a page from Punpun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:30 AM
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The context is that after jerking off to his neighbors having sex he, seemingly, buys new clothes in roles in a driving school and tries to pick up women while there. While doing that he lies completely about his name (using his neighbors name instead) and life in order to fit in and get laid. It works in the end. There's more stuff that happens after but that's drama. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:26 AM
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<image> He means when it comes to getting with women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:07 AM
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Same except I'm not sure if my ability to connect with other people is broken or if it barely existed in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:08 AM
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Bad like every other day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:06 AM
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Okay seriously I have no idea how one thing leads to the other in this instance. I can't even tell if this is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:03 AM
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I'm not strictly against muffin tops but why would it be feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:00 AM
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Most of the people saying this haven't been single for that long. So I wouldn't pay it to much attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:53 AM
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Random thing but Nippon Ichi games have really good music. Tenpei Sato is a great composer and in my humble opinion a legend of video game music composition. One that I hope he get the same recognition as shoji meguro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:51 AM
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I finally got my breaks changed so that's one weight off my shoulders. I was supposed to drive to the beach this summer with a friend of mine. Granted that probably won't happen anyway since she used all her pto going in trips with her partner. But if it dose it's good to be prepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:00 AM
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It's a race thing probably. My first thought was black men. If there is a black man who isn't single there's an extremely high chance his gf is overweight and calls herself "thick".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:53 AM
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The subs quality hasn't really improved
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:47 AM
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It does sound nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:46 AM
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Of course it wont immediately improve your sex life. The whole point of de-centering sex and relationships is that your lacking sex life would no longer be such a catastrophic issue for you (or anyone else who does it). That part was mostly a joke. Since I know it wouldn't improve my sex life at all. Even saying it would have any effect is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:45 AM
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Decentering isn't about social engineering, it's about yourself. I mean every post I see about it talks about social engineering so I'm inclined to believe it dose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:40 AM
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I to can cum and go to sleep. It does not help. Also don't call me little bro asshole it's condensing and makes you sound like a prick. I hate when redditor do shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:14 AM
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Also, adopt a more female mentality around sex No offense lady but you aren't male and don't have my libido. You straight up have no idea what it's like so I'm going to tell you that's not possible. desperation is unattractive, I don't care take an active role in choosing who you want to get involved yet, you have free will. I do and it changes nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:57 AM
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With all the post about men need to decanter women, or how men need to stop slut, or stop giving women, etc.. I always wonder what the role of the men who struggles to form relationships is in all of this? Obviously I'm speaking for my self here. Realistically speaking me decentering women, or not simp, or not slut shaming (I don't do that anyway but I digress) isn't going to make any difference in the wider world and certainly isn't going to improve my sex life lol. But seriously even if every …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:54 AM
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You should watch out for the devil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:53 AM
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So what are the men struggling to have sex at all supposed to do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:31 AM
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It's always hard for me to feel too bad for couples on Caleb hammer because everytime I just think they choose that person. Like there will be this couple, the wife is finically irresponsible but they've have been together for five years and he enables all her bad decisions. The same situation will happen with the genders reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:03 PM
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Actually I think the gay one might be more common then we'd like to think. The amount of women that sight that or something similar for why they'd never date a bisexual man shows that the fear is there they just think they're safe dating a straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:57 PM
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You can’t be like “it’s okay that im a sexist because….” That’s not how it works. I mean seemingly that is exactly how it works in the minds of surprising amount of progressive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:52 PM
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I mean if you want max cynicism this is just an evolutionary bottle neck. The men who can reproduce with all the pressures of socual media and dating apps are just evolutionary dead ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:15 PM
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It's the strangest shit honestly. It happens with autistic women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:24 AM
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Yes actually they do. But just having sex with a man period will do that for alot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:19 AM
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8/10 I have a type and honestly I could understand someone saying 7
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:55 AM
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I mean they vaule them it just dosen't mean that they'll be attracted to them. How I think about it is that women like flowers but just because guy buys them flowers that dosen't mean they'll actually date or sleep with the guy. Nice gestures or kindness doesn't create attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:54 AM
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I mean presumably it's whoever you want to play as. I'm not gonna judge you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:22 AM
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No I thought it was always known you're playing as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:59 PM
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Why is it so hard to find your billy beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:23 PM
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Okay lady good luck fighting oppression or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:21 PM
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Okay then not discrimination. But you do realize the argument that it's no worse then women rejecting men for being short isn't good right? Like sure it's not immoral but so what? That doesn't mean that short men shouldn't be frustrated or annoyed that women reject them for being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:20 PM
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Just to make sure is your argument that since bisexual men (might) have it as difficult to date as short men that it's fine for women to have the standard that discriminates based on sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:07 PM
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Fair enough I've just never heard a not bi phobic one. Op couldn't even give one. All her reason were bad. Dose that mean she should bi men? No but she should stop justifing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:23 PM
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Does it make me straightphobic or homophobic then? It depends on the reason. The reasons op gave for not datinf bi phobic men are bi phobic. If you said I wouldn't daying a gay man because the idea that a man is only attracted to men gives me the ick. Then that would be homophonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:18 PM
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What dose a man having a low body county have to do with him being bisexual? Do bisexual mean tend to have high body counts? Is there like some study saying that? Is that just a stereotype?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:02 PM
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I mean it's not morally wrong but all the reasons not to are all bi phobic. Just stop trying to justify it and own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:57 PM
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That dose seem to happen alot online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:56 PM
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?? It’s already legal for straight people to not date bi people. I know and so dose OP she's just arguing against bi people saying it's bi phobic to reject someone because they bi sexual. Are you saying “bi people shouldn’t be allowed to be upset”? Or shouldn’t be allowed to talk about it where straights can hear us? Yeah that's what she's saying basically. Bi people shouldn't complain about being rejected for their sexuality.Also I'm bisexual myself so I don't agree with her but that's to be ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:49 PM
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She means as opposed to straight people dating bi people. She's making an argument that it's okay to reject someone for being bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:43 PM
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I am using common sense. There are people I would reject but aren't necessarily not interested in. I know women experience this as well because they talk about it. What are you not understanding about someone rejecting someone simply because of something minor that dosen't mean that they aren't interested and would be in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:38 PM
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Why are we assuming the two people don't like each other? Just because you're incompatible in some way that doesn't mean you dislike the other person. There are women I like well enough but I wouldn't date mainly because I'm not sure we're compatible. But I doubt the relationship would be bad just not amazing we might break up in a year but whatever it wouldn't be terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:33 PM
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Okay I was kinda with you up until this point. A woman rejecting a guy for any number of reasons dose not equalit to the relationship they could have had being an unhappy one that's a silly and rather pessimistic way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:24 PM
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"how do we fix this issue?" You can't it's broadly not possible. Maybe someone in the next 30 years will think of something but no one here will come up with a workable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:03 PM
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She's trying to say that with all the examples of how bad some relationships are the men who are romantically unsuccessful should be happy that they're not in one of those instead of unhappy they aren't in any relationship at all. It's not a perspective I agree with. Everytime I see someone say this it always strikes me as somewhat privileged. Unless we're talking about literal abuse telling someone who has never been in any kind of relationship that they're lucky they aren't in a bad relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:01 PM
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Third
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:05 AM
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I vaule my close friends alot and try to maintain those connections the best I can. That said I don't really value losse aquaintances or place specific friendships. They can be nice I guess but from my perspective they've never really brought me as much vaule emotionally as my close friendships have. I value relationships that I think will last and extended beyond they're designated area or beyond a short amount of time. If I think we're only going to know each other for say 5 months then that r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:21 AM
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Half and half. On one hand my self-esteem is still the lowest it's ever been but on the other hand I have accepted that I am unattractive to the majority of women on both a physical and emotional level. So I'm at peace. I have accepted the struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:14 AM
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You may just be more introverted than some of your friends. Oh I 100% am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:43 AM
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Why doesn't it? It worked for me and I can barely talk to people Idk you're asking the wrong person. I have no idea why people who seem to enjoy being around me and talking to me don't want to do stuff or make it hard to plan things with them. The best I figure is that they're open to the idea but you know life gets in the way. They would have to make time to do so and well logically why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:38 AM
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Bonding over a shared interest dosen't equal to doing stuff outside the club. It's scary to ask people to hang out outside of the thing but it's just something you need to do. I'm aware it falls on my shoulder to do this. But if you notice all the advice around this stuff assumes that this will just happen natrually without you having to intentionally invite anyone to anything. Like people will say that if people like being around you and enjoy your company they'll natrually invite you to stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:56 AM
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Sometimes I feel like everyone lives in a different world then I do socially. Like one piece of dating advice, and honestly just social advice in genral is just to be somewhere you enjoy and have fun. This has always confused me because how dose this equal meeting women? Let alone making friends? After thinking about it for a bit I realized most people basically just lived lives I couldn't really imagine. if I joined a club there an extremely high chance I would never speak to those people outsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:27 AM
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He thinks every woman is a stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:24 AM
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I just think whenever a woman puts her hands on another woman no one really gets hurt. A broken nail here a scratch there Have you been in physical fights with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:21 PM
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How often do you see someone and want to say something Almost never, it doesn't really occur to me to comment on something or talk to someone about something. It might just be how I was conditioned I guess. People don't do it in the city I'm from and so I never thought to do it. I don't really have anything to add here besides that the world your describing or implying doesn't exist as far as I'm aware. When I go out it's rare that people talk to one another more then a few sentences. I don't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:28 PM
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Many men here do not see a point in community unless it leads to direct social outcomes. I'm confused by this point everything has a a direct social outcome on a macro level. Do you mean that someone isn't personally benefiting from a community? In that case there is vaule in community for society as a whole but if someone isn't directly benefiting from a community what would be the point for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:12 PM
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An 8 maybe the hair doesn't impress me but I prefer curly hair, red heads and brunettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:44 AM
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Because most of the comment seems to mostly be about some rando fat lady being amazing and holding out for her prince charming rather then how shitty men are. Also I've read a lot of you're comments and this seems idk different I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:35 AM
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I rate no one but women I love or want a relationship with a 10. I see a 10 as perfect and that reserved for specific women. Even then I'd probably be hesitant to rate a 10 because I don't think mortals can be a 10 but love can blind and I might feel someone is a 10 in my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:32 AM
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I'm honestly kinda confused by your world view? Do fetishize women? This comment seems less like man hating and more like self hating man who wishes he was one of the womenz. Do you have Autogynephilia?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:25 AM
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Ice spice is a female raper who is famous for being attractive and her songs being very explicit. She's also, as far as I'm aware, and proud hoe and has lots of songs about that. She's very famous. To the point where there are thousands of videos of kids as young as 7 singing along to her songs. I don't really care about rap but every now and then I see videos about the black community being brought low by women like ice spice. These videos are usually made by black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:19 AM
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Nah this pretty normal. You're average normie man isn't self aware enough to think this way. From their perspective they're probably just thinking it would come off as creepy or just not consider it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:10 AM
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Tbh I knew all of this I just wanted to see what your answer would be. Though like hot lack said this is typically said to guys struggling so it really seems pointless to say to men. Especially men who can't even get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:07 AM
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Is being successful at sex work bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:25 PM
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What dose it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:24 PM
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Yeah all data shows that it's better to raise a child in a two parent household. As far as I'm aware this was true weather the parents were gay or straight. Also people are more likely to stay together if they're married rather then if they're just in a relationship and living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:22 PM
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. Like I always try to give them the benefit of doubt but they 90% of the time fail 💀 I fucking knew, I KNEW this is what he was gonna say next. Really? All the cuckolds I've spoken to are straight. Actually I don't think I've ever spoken to a gay cuck. Edit: This reminds I've had two guys on reddit once asked me to fuck their wife. It almost happened to we just couldn't work out the time and didn't have my license at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:18 PM
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So first this seems more like a debate topic then a question. Second yeah I agree that societies cater more to women then they did in the past because women fought for it. As for weather men should band together to make society more supportive of mens issues I largely think that won't happen. Besides you never being able to get all or most men to band together and fight for the cause. You're always going to fighting an up hill battle for societal recognition. Once the various crisis effecting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:17 PM
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You'd still have the problem of much more men than women on the app This will always be a problem. It's an issue for clubs and bars irl and it'll be an issue for anything men think will help them meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:36 AM
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This thread is fustrating because as far as I'm aware the OP is right. While I can't say weather autistic men are less likely to be partnered then felons. Every study I've see shows that autistic men are far more likely to be unwillingly single and virgins then they're nurotypical counterparts. I think it's something like they are 3 or 2 times more likely but I'd need to actually look in to it to remember. So yeah he's probably right but he didn't post any of the frankly easily available studies…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:10 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:10 PM
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I'm 28 and I don't think my mom actively taught me anything. She did try to help me with my homework though so there's that. I don't think this started with the millennials and zoomers though. My gut tells me this happened right after the silent generation. Like the boomers got parented but didn't parent their kids and millennials kept up the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:51 AM
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It's also no different from any other dating app in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:42 AM
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That autism thread is fustrating because as far as I'm aware the OP is right. While I can't say weather autistic men are less likely to be partnered then felons. Every study I've see shows that autistic men are far more likely to be unwillingly single and virgins then they're nurotypical counterparts. I think it's something like they are 3 or 2 times more likely but I'd need to actually look it to remember. So yeah he's probably right but he didn't post any of the frankly easily available studie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:39 AM
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Actually I'm asking because I see people talk about compliments as a conversation starter. But as someone who has done that before 99.9% of the time it doesn't start anything. It goes exactly how I stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:17 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:07 AM
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What dose "create room for conversation" entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:59 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/s/1ThMLgMBuY 20F this is my take. again every woman is different. i think the best way for a man to approach me would be for him to be transparent about his intentions and tell me how he feels by offering a compliment. this a big jump but i think the word beautiful would have the most effect. https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/s/kDNN3lJZSp But lets say you see me out and about, I think the best way to approach anyone is with a compliment. HOWEVER, be chill. Don't be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:54 AM
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Do you want me to give you specific examples or a group of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:05 AM
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Well that's too bad. But I honestly knew that already. I just see people say things like compliment a woman and see if she's open to conversation. But as a guy who has done that alot what I wrote is the result 99.9% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:43 AM
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I saw a woman while I was walking through a store and told her that her jacket was nice. She told me thank you, smiled, and went back to shopping. What did that mean? Was I supposed to do a dance? Did she secretly want me to keep talking to her? Was I supposed to ask her for her number? Am I supposed to interrupt a smile as a sign to ask her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:25 AM
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Two things baring one exception every piece of shit guy I've known has been that way rather openly. They aren't that much smarter then you're average guy and they aren't amazing liars either. The second thing is that when I think of women with Abusive men I think of women like my coworker who has a penchant for dating scumbags. The last guy she told me about would degrade her and other women he was sleeping with. He also had 4 kids from several women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:07 PM
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Would my enemies also be the government?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:43 PM
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From personal experience the way to improve reading social cues isn't becoming more aware. 99% of the time it isn't so much that I can't read cues it's that I don't see any no matter how much I look for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:42 PM
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I can't be more specific because I'm repeating a general statement told to men who struggle dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:39 PM
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How do I hear the lamentations of their women if I'm in jail from crushing my enemies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:19 PM
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What dose it mean to "work on your personality"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:16 PM
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No it's not true. In the gym I go usually everyone is busy just changing and taking selfies. Occasionally you'll have two guys who know each other chat about this or that but that's is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:06 PM
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Yeah as long as the gorilla dies the humans win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:40 PM
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do you do anything to make sure you are your type's type? Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:53 AM
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It's stupid to debate 100 men vs 1 gorilla. The humans would obviously win. Of course the whole question Itself is a meme so really that meme is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:57 PM
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I'll look into it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:10 PM
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I only started to wear lighter colors recently. In part because some suggested it and also because I had been meaning to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:53 PM
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I like it, there's a dark purple and black one I have that I think looks better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:47 PM
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<image> Opinions on the shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:36 PM
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You have to be upper middle class first. So that you can actually interact with Yale grad Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:27 PM
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They're misunderstanding you're comment because you're first sentenced reads like you're saying men have a higher looks threahold.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:26 PM
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When you wrote that gay men have a higher looks preference he thought you meant they have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:18 PM
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Yeah meant that gay men have prefer looks more the women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:10 PM
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The reply is asserting that there's a male loneliness epidemic because men don't want real women. Real people have nasolabials so a guy (presumably) asserting that having them on characters is strange shows unrealistic standards. Now personally I think that's a ridiculous statment but hey that twitter for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:02 PM
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I've had a similar experience. Gay men love me seemingly. Women on the other hand couldn't care less
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:56 PM
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Thanks Lack you've always been cool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:31 PM
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Recently my self-esteem is the lowest it's been my whole life. Which is strange to say since I'm not nearly as suicidal as I was 4 years ago. But this is probably the first time I've actually felt this bad about myself. I usually make a distinction between how attractive I personally find myself vs how attractive other people think I am. I like the way I look and I like my personality, I've always thought of it that way. I've been called ugly enough times but my self-esteem was never so low that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:48 PM
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Once every two weeks. I might start doing it once a week though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:27 PM
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This is an alt account that I made after I deleted my old one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:13 PM
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I mean to some degree it is a choice in as much as I can choice to date men or women, well I mean I can't date women but you get my point. For most bi people it mostly a preference thing. I prefer women so they're all I try to date though sometimes if I'm horny I'll exchange nudes with guys. I do think about just dating men but I really don't have much interest in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:10 PM
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Yeah I'm bi and it's not impressive since I paid the women to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:41 AM
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0 I've had sex with both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:09 AM
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Did you call for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:56 AM
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Am I supposed to be disgusted by fat women and treat them poorly? The way women on reddit talk about it you would assume every man is grossed out if a fat woman even looks in their direction. It's just so strange from my perspective since yeah I'm less likely to date a really fate girl but I'm not going to be angry if they talk or flirt with me. Granted not like I've had fat women flirt with me but still I'm not sure why it would bother me. Edit: On a similar note the way some women on reddit ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:39 PM
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Whichever is the most attractive both physically and perosnality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:35 PM
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Yeah I'd be happy but confused
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:36 PM
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you're still young. I never said I wasn't hours and days are good enough. people will convince themselves that the rejection was good and you weren't worth it, sour grapes and all. but it's not really about you. Yeah they'll probably fine someone else just as fast
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:50 PM
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I'm 28 and I'm not saying they won't feel sad I'm saying they'll get over being sad fairly quickly. Like it'll suck for a couple hours or days but they'll be fine. Also I didn't reject the girl who asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:45 PM
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The last time someone approached me was 13 years ago. I'm speaking in hypotheticals here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:40 PM
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Something I realized is that I'm so confident in my undesirabllity if I ever have to reject someone I figure they'll get over it pretty fast and they'll find someone that's interested in them just as fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:26 PM
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They say to clean yourself so earnestly while fucking men who don't. You will literally see post of women complaining that the men they sleep with don't wash they're ass. Clearly it doesn't matter that much but they swear up and down that it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:46 AM
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It's just so tiring and insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:19 AM
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I swear if I have another person recommend me a basic hygiene routine as a way to improve my chances with women I'm going to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:10 AM
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Today was one of those days I should've stayed home. I feel better after getting home from the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:28 AM
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I would depending on why they're a femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:38 PM
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You mean thinking Thinking Ape and yeah he has pretty bad insomnia. I like his channel as we have a similar view of the world and honestly it's rare to find someone on the same wavelength. Idk if he has a job currently but he's never to my knowledge talked about his insomnia effecting his career. I think he's approaching 60 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:34 PM
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Yeah I'd be uncomfortable asking for nudes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:36 PM
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Introvert
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:36 PM
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We aren't taking friendship but random men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:38 PM
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Believe the accusations of women against men. It can be something as extreme as rape to something small like staring at their breast. If a woman hears another woman claim a random guy does it she'll buy it. Sometime this can be mitigated if the woman has somekind of prior relationship with the man but even then it seems like a lot women are just down to believe any accusations a woman makes. There is also a rule of doubting that a woman did something wrong to a man and if she did do something wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:32 PM
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No not really, I'd only do it if I was familiar with a girl. I'm not normally not social so I haven't been cold approaching many women at anywhere. I've just been enjoying myself and expand my social group. Though I do plan to start cold approaching women at the roller rink and just other randome places.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:29 AM
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Dancing I think has more women than men and in general has a reputation of being a good place to meet women (since touch is part of the hobby + you pair up with a woman). While I hear people say social dancing is a good place to meet women, whenever I look for practical experience about it from other guys it seems like it's rate of success has been over sold. One guy made a lot of female friends who want to go dancing with him but none of them were interested in him and those friends only wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:18 AM
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I only did things I had any interest in. I bring all this up because people on this hell site keep recommending hobby groups to meet new people. But they don't say what hobby groups or the dynamics of them or anything really. All you're told is to not do something all because you want to meet women. Which is obvious and unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:07 AM
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Of all the hobbies I've tried within the last couple of years I would say roller skating had the largest amount of women in it. It's just a mainstream thing that everyone dose so the population is pretty diverse and honestly alot of the women that do it are attractive. That said is it a good way to meet women? Idk honestly probably if you're somewhat good at it and are pretty social already then yeah. If you're shy or take time to warm up to people then probably not. While you'll meet regulars t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:46 AM
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Tbf no one was in a costume or dressed up at all. Just bunch of regula nerd. Idk nothing happened really just some games were played.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:44 AM
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Tonight I went to a board game event held at a local café near my house. The people where average to below average looking nerdy men and women. I would say everyone there that wasn't a child with their parents was in their late 20's to mid 30s. It was fun and I enjoyed myself so I'll probably do it again next monday. But as far as a place to meet women I'm gonna go with no. Most of the people there were male and there was hand full of women. The women tended to come with a friend or bf but for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:59 AM
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Alot of these will overlap because people aren't that simple. But I would say it's the comedian, generic hyper masculine tough guy, stoic men who aren't emtional (different from the tough guy), life if the party charisma machines, and some variant of bad boy. Those are the ones off the top of my head and I wouldn't say women are onyl attracted to these kind if men I just think that most the couples I know guys fall into these categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:32 AM
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For me personally I genuinely do think it’s a personality thing. Like the other guys aren't that much more attractive then I am. They're always just falling in the usual archetypes women tend to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:59 AM
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I never had it that bad but I have been passed over by women or had a woman hook up with other guys in my friend group except me. I've been passed over so many times for some many different kinds of guys that it makes me wonder what actually wrong with me. Because it can't be nothing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:51 AM
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Okay in what way? Like using them for thing money or favors? How is it a nice guy thing? I can tell you from personal experience women do indeed do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:48 AM
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What does he mean by selling guys out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:38 AM
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I got asked out once when I was a freshman in high-school and yeah I would say she was in my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:21 AM
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I am the guy in the corner wondering why I agreeded to come here. I don't even like dancing!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:19 AM
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1)Money and 2)Help doing something. People don't really want anything from me normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:04 PM
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<image> I am this meme
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:58 PM
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Idk who this "we" is. I'm not a 20 something women. They're the ones who decide what men are attractive or not. Those other men are still attractive but so is Hasan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:33 PM
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That's always my question with these post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:07 PM
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Look I think Hasan Piker is a communists dude bro who no one should take seriously but he is very attractive to women. I would say the main reason he is as successful as he is, is solely because of his appearance. Women love him sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:57 PM
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No body, I don't have any role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:52 PM
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I've started wearing my patterned dress shirts and I've been getting compliments from my coworkers. What I've noticed about myself is I'm more likely to keep doing something if I'm given some kind of compliment about it. Sure if I like something I'll wear it regardless but I'll have more incentive to wear something with tbe postive feed back. If I tried something all I got was crickets or negativity I'm likey to stop unless it's something I really wanted to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:18 AM
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Would you say you've always been this fustrated about your lack of success?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:01 AM
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What do you do when you feel insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:17 PM
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Then he fucks her on the dirty couch
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:16 PM
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Honestly if I think about my everyday life then the answer is nothing. But thinking about my struggles when it comes to dating I think what needs to change, not necessarily what I want but what I think is needed is changing my personality as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:32 PM
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Yeah just say Yeah I had this kind of thing happen to me in high-school all the time and my answer was always yed (if it was true).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:25 PM
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I love 5ft women, I'm biased but all the cutest women are tiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:16 PM
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They really are so adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:13 PM
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I went roller skating last night and I'm not sure how much I enjoyed it. I liked it and it was fun to a certain extent but there was way to many people. There were cars double parked in the parking lot and parked on the grass outside the roller skatting rink. Usually it's busy but not that crazy. It was better then going out to some club I 100% don't belong in. But there's something about being in highly social environments where everyone comes with their friends or partners and all the regulars…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:52 PM
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I figure I should give those kinds of place a chance on occasion despite disliking them. People are always talking about them when it comes to meeting women so I should occasionally give them a shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:14 AM
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I was thinking of going bar and club hoping but after walking out the door and watching screaming teens walk past my house I figured going roller skating would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:00 AM
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Where is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:59 AM
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I know anti-woke grifters are robbing the country They are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:45 PM
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we talked about any trauma family or dating issues all the time so we were very transparent Same for me except she doesn't tell me about her current dating issues only her past ones. the things she described women are attracted to were very virtuous but all the guys she had crushes on were walking redflags It's a mix in my case. She'll explain that she looks past appearance and goes after men for they're virtuous qualities. Obviously she wants to find a man physically attractive but emphasizes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:02 PM
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Actually part of the reason the conversion didn't end so well was because after telling her that I need to change my personality and her getting upset at I guess my wording or the idea of it. She started suggesting that I could change my appearance. Wash my hair, change my style, wear cologne, clean my facial hair, etc... I then got annoyed because I do these things, aside from the cologen, that is. She then got pissed that I thought she was implying I didn't groom myself. She was just giving ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:42 PM
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No I trust her judgment on that alittle more then most other people. We're pretty close so her telling me that is like my bestfriend telling me that. Like I straight up have to wonder if she thinks this way how do other women who don't even know me half as well feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:23 PM
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I had a, uhh, heated discussion with a female friend of mine about dating a few days ago that didn't end very well. I asked her the "How do I make myself want to make friends" question. I honestly didn't expect her to have much of an answer since it's a silly question. Which then made her ask why I wanted to do this. Which lead into a conversation about how I want to meet more people to meet more women. This conversation went on for a few hours and went down a couple path ways. Some key take awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:07 PM
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I would say that it helps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:28 PM
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You're right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:20 PM
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You made a generalized statement about the men in this sub. I am a man in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:49 PM
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So if you met a man that had the "personality of a woman" you'd fall in love with them? No probably not, I mean I guess I can't know but the answer is probably no lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:30 PM
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I'm explicitly not finding those things but you asked why I keep trying and those are my reasons. I get that you think friendship is enough but it isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:28 PM
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The gender matters because I prefer the personality of women lol. Idk what you want me to explain to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:27 PM
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They are definitely not good enough. I'm speaking from experience. All my close and emotional intimate friendship have given me a deeper yearning for romantic and sexual companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:25 PM
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I prefer women sadly and guinually I'm probably just never going to love a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:20 PM
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Why this person must be a woman? Because despite being bisexual I prefer the general personality of women when it comes to these aspects. even if you find a woman, she might break up or divorce And if I have a friend they might move to a different country and we'll lose touch, or we get into a really bad argument and stop talking to each other. All relationship of any kind can fall apart and personal experience has taught me that once someone has left my life I'll never see them again. But that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:19 PM
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Becauseb I don't hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:08 PM
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Because I have an internal desire for companionship. I realized last year that I really want to be apart of a team. I want to life my life in conjunction with another person, and I want to give someone my all and get the same (or at least close) to the same treatment in return. I sadly have a preference for women, but they don't have a preference for me so thing's aren't going so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:06 PM
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No offense taken I have some awareness of how women view me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:05 AM
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Strange how that works. I would figure there has to be some commonality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:00 AM
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I think part of my problem is my unwillingness to conform to usual social rules. I've never really viewed myself as any kind of non-conformist. I've always just done my own thing and other people just thought I was off or weird. Which confused me as a kid because as far as I could tell I wasn't doing anything that different from anyone else. Granted I'm not good with social cues and subtlety so it's possible people were doing something different but I couldn't tell. Anyway that's all to say when…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:35 AM
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Don't you have sex with average men? Aren't you one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:11 AM
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But what would even be the point of them? Alcohol isn't illegal and people just do drugs in clubs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:02 PM
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speak easies Are you a time traveler
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:36 PM
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Everytime I look into single events in my area most the ones I find are in NYC (shit parking but whatever), are for people 30+, and are $35+. There are very few of them for people in their 20's but most of those are on nights I work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:07 PM
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I do enjoy occasionally outings I just don't talk to random people. I literally did so today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:03 AM
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think about it you don’t really want to live with anxiety for life do you? Generally I don't care as it doesn't actually affect my life all that much. I honestly only now started considering that I might have social anxiety since it's not something that would occur to me to talk to anyone and not doing so doesn't negatively effect my life normally. If your anxiety is debilitating, maybe you can start with small talk. “Nice weather today” “How’s your day” etc to cashiers or people you pass by. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:46 AM
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Thanks for your reply and you do seem to understand where I'm coming from. The people in the post you linked are doing thing I've noticed. Eveyone has advice about how to talk to people (though I often find it vauge). Suggestions on what to do when you meet people. But very few of them touch on something like social anxiety and getting past that. An issue I've personally noticed is that people will not come up and talk to you. You must start all conversations and realistically will probably have…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:15 AM
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I leave my house I just don't have a reason to talk to people. Like I went to a cafe and then walked through a park today. Did I have the opportunity to talk to anyone? Yes in as much as there are people outside yeah. But is there reason for me to do it? Was there any organic way for me to do so? The answer to both was no. So realistically I have to make opportunities. Think of things to say (that's not a compliment since those never lead anywhere), and come up with reasons to do so. The issue i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:48 AM
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Okay that's okay advice, though I've personally found that the "people don't get the opportunity to talk about themselves" style advice is just wrong. But that wasn't my question. I just want to actually desire to talk to people as opposed to no where I am at best neutral towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:36 AM
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My issue is I don't want to and I really can't think of anytime I can. There isn't any organic way for me to do that and I don't really want to. I can tell you that it extremely rare for people to come up and talk to me. So I have to make opportunities. Hense the question of how to get myself to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:26 AM
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I alread try to out effort into talking to people. 99% of the time it leads no where. But that wasn't my question. What I mean is how do I make myself want more friends? Like how do I get my brain to want to talk to random strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:59 AM
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I want a gf. Dating apps don't work for me and all the irl dating advice that isn't some variation of "cold approach 100 women" comes down to building a larger social circle where you're regularly introduced to new women. Even cold approach involes practicing on random people. The only problem is I personally don't have a friend group where I am regularly introduced to new women and have no real desire to make alot of new friends. I've always been someone that's been satisfied with a small group…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:56 AM
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I'm personally a birth rate doomer but I think most just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:40 AM
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Why would sand be band? He only realky hates on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:39 AM
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How do I make myself want friends? I don't hate people and am not adverse to new friends but I don't really have any internal desire to "build my social circle or talk to random strangers". It's difficult for me to force myself to do these things despite knowing I need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:37 AM
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I'm having a good day today. I went out got some manga from the library, got some food from a Cafe, went for a walk through a park, got a shake and relaxed. Days like these remind me I have a peaceful life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:00 PM
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Based though the only thing I'd add is things didn't "get this bad" they've always been this bad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:57 PM
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I to some degree (I still hate it) get it on YouTube. But when it's places like reddit, or twitter it's stupid. If people are worried about being wrongfully reported then the issue are with the platform and people reporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:04 PM
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For the love of the one that sleeps below stop saying unalived. Just saying killed, murdered, stabbed, etc... I missed when people could talk normally ok the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:31 PM
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Man I don't undesirable your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:28 PM
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Idk you sound like prude to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:27 PM
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3 but I only have one memory
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:28 PM
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You could also just be attributing more meaning to a phrase that didn't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:21 PM
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No I honestly have no idea why you mentioned race in first place. It read like you meant the phrase was only intented for leftist. I see now what you meant, I think your forgot a comma and word. Either way I'm black as well and I've never heard the phrase said irl. I don't think it's race thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:52 PM
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Yeah I think you're wrong because they just assume a guy struggling is all those negative traits. They never have postive to add and all the negative assumptions are used when talking about good people. No body says "Tim is a good guy but he dosen't treat women like people".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:42 PM
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Really? Another PPD woman clarified it last couple days. And was upvoted. Yes really I've read frankly to much threads about dating and I've never seen it until today. I think she’s black too. Idk maybe this is another “woke” and “based” left its intended tribe thing. Are you trying to say that the intended audience of the phrase is leftist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:38 PM
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Okay but we arent talking about you right? No one thinks being undesirable makes you a “bad person.” You're speaking about other people here and I'm saying other people do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:27 PM
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No he meant the horn effect. It's the opposite of the halo effect. but you guys always fail to mention that someone’s alluring personality positively impacts their attractiveness to others. Whenever the halo effect is talked about no one metions personality. Not men, not women, or researchers. I think you're the only person I've seen say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:21 PM
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I have quite literally never seen a woman clarify that. In fact that is the first time I've seen anyone say that. Everytime I see the phrase it's directed at men in genral or at men having difficulty dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:18 PM
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But in conventional social discourse, many women in that situation absolutely start moralizing and conflating that awkward man with a sexual predator (despite sex predators often being charming). Something I only learned relatively recently was alor of people associate the feeling of being uncomfortable or feeling awkward with someone being creepy. It's difficult to say that no one thinks that being unattractive means your immoral when just being social awkward means your a creepy. And yes I'm a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:14 PM
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Everytime some guy complains about his problems dating online people's immediate assumptions are that he's a misogynistic, violent man who dosen't bath, groom himself, talk to women, and lives with his parents. Those are not postive things to just assume about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:07 PM
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Tv, movies, books, and their own imaginations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:11 AM
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Do you like Indian curry? Jamaican curry?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:59 PM
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When I see that dress I think wholesome and sweet. My mental imagine is of a girl who bakes cookies and is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:29 PM
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Yeah but you have a lower likely hood of eating him alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:18 PM
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Man, I don’t hate or fear you, and I feel the same way about generic gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:17 PM
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Maybe it would depend on the woman and her vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:14 PM
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that's where most men who have your same thought fail to realize. I've never had a woman complain about how I treat her. I don't treat women poorly so that would guinually be the last of my worries. I've had multiple women say that if women knew me the way they did they would like me. I've had multiple women they thought I'd make a good boyfriend. Now all those women rejected me but it wasn’t due to issues with how I treat them and I didn’t treat them any different after they rejected me. if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:54 AM
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I would normally agree with you. But I'm trying to be realistic with myself. The vast majority of women don't find me attractive or at least not attractive in a sense where they want to date or sleep with me. Maybe I've just been acting like a guy women are actually attracted to when really I should act as desperate as my situation demands. I need to cast as wide a net as possible and that will include dating women I consider unattractive or at the very least only very slightly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:49 AM
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I've been considering it for a while now but maybe I should try to date women I consider unattractive. While I think I'm honestly fairly average and I don’t think I have high standards. Maybe I'm just wrong on all fronts. Maybe instead I should just try dating women I consider unattractive. If women in general don't consider me attractive maybe that just mean I should try with unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:54 AM
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Men don't need to be perfect to attract women more news at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:27 AM
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Where you in my friends position or mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:23 PM
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Why is getting a girlfriend so easy for some men but impossible for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:46 PM
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When men say “choose better” they mean choose a man you’re not sexually attracted to because all of the “good men” who are attractive are partnered. I mean choose a man who you are attracted to and has good moral character.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:00 PM
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If there was a dude that consistently went for the hottest, most popular women regardless of any warning signs, dull personality or other clear negative traits, and he kept complaining about being cheated on, about his GFs being shallow or having a dull superficial life, everybody would agree he has to choose better. I've had a similar conversation with a male friend of mine. He was complaining about some girl he was sleeping with and I just straight up told him to pick better. He kept choosing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:54 PM
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Are you saying men still pick women based on fertility signals such as waist to hip ratio and youth markers? Yes men are higher beings or something they have all the same grey matter in their head that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:47 PM
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True, something I have to remind myself is that most redditor seem to live in wealthy urban areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:24 PM
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Don't get me complaining about cities. I've lived in them my whole life and yeah I can see the convenience but in my experience they're dirty loud places full of people and crime. I probably can't escape the crime part, but I would love to live someplace with less people and less noise. I want to take a walk and not see use condoms outside my house or hanging off of someones fence. If it happened once then whatever that's a funny store but it's happend so many times. There's broken glass everywh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:26 PM
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I guinually have no idea how all of you can stand loud noises going on every night. Also I already have to drive everywhere. Our public transportation system is shit and everything is like a 30min walk away. While I normally have little issue making that trip, driving has bad it extremely convenient. Man don't get me complaining about my city cause I can do it all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:13 PM
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I can when it's to loud. Just do it quietly. Have an orgy in your backyard for all I care just don't scream so loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:32 AM
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Because I like sleeping and it's 2am for 2 nights in a row.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:25 AM
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My fucking neighbors have started to play loud music late into the night now that the weather is warming up. Loud Spanish music blaring at 2am and I know it'll only get worse because my other neighbors are caribbean and they party until it 1am. I can't wait for the winter to come back. I don't understand why my family continues to live in cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:20 AM
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My mom and sister have both started to worry about me being lonely and alone. They've only started worrying about it within the last year and a half, though I think my mother would have started sooner if she knew just how isolating my college experience was. I don't know how to feel about it honestly. While on one hand I can appreciate their concern for me, on the other hand I've all but accepted that I will die alone. Yeah I'll try dating apps, and I'll do different group hobby activities when …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:53 AM
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but absolutely none of them will date him or even introduce him to their friends. If they introduced him to their friends none of them would date him either. My question for those women would be if you don't want this man (understandable) and seemingly known of your friends want him (strange but okay) and if I had to guess none of those friend's friends want this man. Where is this mans alleged queen? Something I've noticed is that all the women I've known seem to believe that the idea that ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:20 AM
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I think you could make an argument either way tbh. My gut says women but I'm a man and I know women would say women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:51 AM
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I don't have gf so women don't plan things with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:55 PM
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I guinually wonder where all these women that plan things are. The only women I know who plan outings are my mother and older sister. Ever other girl I've known has all but required me to plan everything I do with them. It's a similar thing to women checking in and texting first, or even being available. Those are really rare traits that I've only really found in one or two women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:47 PM
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Yeah this is really depends. For instance I've never had a women, who wasn't my mom or sister plan anything. They also are just as hard to get a hold of as the men I know. The one's who will reach out are the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:33 PM
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I find the act of "selling someone on something" it's part of the reason I was so hesitant to work the current job I have. I genuinely have no desires to sell people things. I never "try" to sell people things I just ask them what they want and if they want it cool. If they think something is to expensive then honestly it probably is and they shouldn't buy it. I just let customer go back n forth with themselves while giving my own opinion and that's basically it. Luckily I don't need to make sal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:39 AM
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I work in retail so I see a lot of different personality types and regardless of how nice the person it still boils down to selling people crap that they don't need. I don't have a very positive opinion of sales in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:00 AM
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It seemed like she presented it like it was supposed to be some kind of revolution. Men who lie and use subtle manipulation tactics often have an easy time getting laid. Of course sales people get into relationships it's their whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:38 AM
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My first thought was swindlers who peddle lies and false hopes easily get women. I've never particularly liked sales so I natrually view it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:35 AM
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I'm confused why is this supposed to be a gotcha? That seems like a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:27 AM
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She fucked minimum wage workers but expects you to have a high paying job. You could apply the same criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:47 AM
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This might be because you're gay but those two are definitely not lookmatched. He's a good point or two above her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:42 AM
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Abes, hands, cock, arm, big cock. Not so much thought of body parts (though that is totally a thing) but more actions. Note: I'm not saying you, yes you woman reading this, flick your bean to gian dick. I'm just saying there is a suspicious amount of big 7+ inches dicks attached to 6ft tall pale skinned brooding chads in chick lit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:48 AM
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No I'm not surprised guys want the man hater I'm surprised they want the one who dresses like a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:48 AM
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The thing is I see alot of conservative men (which this sub is full of) say the opposite. Sure I like women who dress in very little but I'm a degenerate lib so of course I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:04 AM
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Yeah but I would expect more guys here to have an issue with B and atleast fuck A. Everyone just noped A hard. I mean I get it but it is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:50 AM
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A reject B Merry C Fuck I generally don't care if a woman dresses in skimpy clothes. At least three of the women I've been into the most did that and I've never had an issue with it. Any woman that will leave me when something better comes around is a no. The misandrist would be insufferable and we'd never get along. Also I'm an anime, jrpg playing degenerate I would never be able to stand that type. Edit: It’s interesting how everyone is rejecting A
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:28 AM
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I'm agreeing with you just because one person got lucky that doesn't mean you or I will. Something I always try to remind people is that if something happens to most people it will probably happen to you. Chances are you aren't an outlier. Sometime you can be but most the time you aren't. It's the strange thing about dating advice especially if you're male. People just sort of expect you to keep trying no matter how many times you fail. If you throw in the towel and are kinda sad about it you'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:23 AM
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If one person wins the lottery that means everyone should play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:53 PM
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As a man, no one gives a shit about your struggles,they only care if you win, so win. Those people can fuck off. Why would you want those people to give a shit about you? If people only care about you if you look a certain way or act a certain way then those are shitty people who should be disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:15 PM
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Then it's a statement that requires nuiance. Yes those who are successful do most likely get rejected less. It's why they're successful. But there is probably a subsection of those men that still have to get rejected 99 times before they get a yes. The men who keep going despite the odds are indeed persistent. Of course you or I might say those men aren't really "successful" if they had to get rejected that many times but OP might disagree. There is also something to be said about how success br…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:05 PM
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she was hitting on you? why else would a woman just strike a conversation like that with you. Idk man, its normal for women to ask how I'm doing or my day is. The only difference is usually it's older women. The lady was, mid to late 20's probably. also no offense she probably did think about it like that before she was just stroking your ego 😭 Maybe? Idk, I'm skeptical not out of intelligence thing I just doubt most people care enough to put that much thought into it. I honestly thought she was…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:43 PM
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I was at my job putting some shoes on shelves and a lady and her friend walked past me and ask how my day was. I forget what I said exactly but she told me that at least I was alive. This lead into a short conversation where I questioned how much one chooses to live and wheater we have free will or not. All the woman said in at the end was that she never thought about it like that and that was interesting. She seemed to ultimately be an optimist I suppose and her friend was silent the whole time…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:17 PM
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If a man has trouble attracting women his own age or younger he will most likely have the same difficulties with women Older then him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:09 PM
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She's Canadian
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:46 AM
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God if 4chan's gone the internet really is dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:25 AM
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I've also found networking events and singles nights good when I've gone on stints of not being invited to parties. I have signed up for Single events they're just hard to plan around my job, expensive, and some are just scams. I'm also not suggesting per se you do anything. You can't say that your whole post seems like you're trying to shame men who don't ask women out. So clearly you are saying I should ask more women out .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:23 AM
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Looking at your reply and your edit again. Aren't you doing the same thing I am? You just get invited to parties and matches on dating apps. I can't ask women at parties out because I don't get invited to them and I've asked out so few women on dating apps because I rarely get matches. I would ask out female friends but one is aromantic and the other has repeatedly told me she only sees me as a friend (no it's not because I've asked her out several time). No I'm not being repeatedly introduced t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:25 AM
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Is this a joke? I unironicly can't tell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:05 AM
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I feel terrible about myself and had an okay day 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:02 AM
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I'm confused what's the problem here? She just seems like some random normie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:01 AM
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Every advantage men have is either something I don't value Yeah I don't really value being taller or stronger then most women. It doesn't positively effect my life enough for me to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:37 PM
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Nothing really, I largely view being male either indifferently or negatively. I don't hate being male I just dislike all the gendered expectations that come with it. Alot of it feels like alot of effort for no rewards aside from the occasional thank you. Yeah it's better then having periods I guess but that's about all. In comparison to the worst treatment a woman could get being an invisible touch starved ghost is slightly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:35 PM
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life is a swamp watered with the tears and cum of men trying to cope with the fleeting nature of true happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:56 PM
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Then have a relationship with LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:11 PM
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But that would require those women to actually sleep with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:41 PM
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I mean I doubt she was sleeping with the men experiencing said loneliness. It was probably just the same men she would have slept with regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:15 PM
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True still hot though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:12 PM
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Because they wanted to see the hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:31 PM
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Did you mean khv? How dose still gay khv exist? Internalized homophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:05 AM
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I suppose my reaction to obsess women, overweight women, and single mothers is similar to peoples reaction to incels. All the women I know who fit into one or all these categories are dating someone or regularly hooking up with some guy. They all have the seemingly have the same standards as the none single mothers, overweight women, and obsess women. We could maybe argue that they are more likely to accept worse treatment from men they are already attracted to. But they don't seem to have signi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:52 AM
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What dose hhk mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:34 AM
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I voted for Kamala and am pro-choice. I also can't attract a woman to save my life. What's her explanation for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:32 PM
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I think all three of those men would kill you for calling them liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:30 PM
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I'm gonna encourage them to pursue their dreams and become resilient to rejection / find ways to cope with it. Kind of like how I wouldn't encourage someone not to apply to jobs just because they'd been rejected by some. I hate applying for jobs lol. If I could avoid it I would. I do it because I have to and I'm happy that I don't. Sending out thousands of applications and not hearing anything back was a terrible experience. I gained nothing positive from that experience. Re: parties I think you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:32 PM
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You shouldn’t be waiting to ask women out till they indicate interest. I actually agree but I also feel more comfortable doing it this way. Also I have very real fear of creeping some woman out and I want to avoid that if I can. But realistically I and everyone should just ask out anyone you're interested in. Usually I get rejected, but I don’t understand why people think being rejected is such a big deal. It's not about the rejection. Though I do view rejection as a waste of my time and energy …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:25 PM
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may have kids If they have kids chances are they are getting approached. All the overweight or obess women I know regularly date and have relationships with men. The quality of those relationships varies but they all have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:58 PM
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Where are these women being asked out? How would I know? They just say it happens everywhere. Are they average? Which means 37, 5’4”, 174 lbs? Again how would I know what random woman on reddit looks likes? I guess they're average looking 20 somethings normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:56 PM
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Women say they're being approached left and right. I regularly see women say that guys approached them, asked for their number, asked to take them out, hit on them. That and everytime I run into a woman she's always seeing or sleeping with someone. A large amount of what I think about women's experience or perception of men comes from what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:42 PM
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Well that's because they don't think you have to ask out 100 men to get a yes. They think at worst you'll have to ask out 5 to 10 men. Your chances are way higher then your average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:23 PM
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Why would anyone expect men to behave differently? It's just how things have always worked. You try over and over again. Sometimes you change your approach and hope that yields any results. You keep this up until you get a gf. This is how it has worked for 1000's of years. Well that and arranged marriage. But I imagine those had similar issues. Since this is how it's always been people expect men to just do the thing they're expected to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:48 PM
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Seriously where are all these parties people keep mentioning? Is getting invited to parties this super common thing for everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:18 PM
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Ketchup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:39 PM
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But for men I wanna ask... how many times have you asked a woman out? 0 zero times within the last 12 months and 5 times in total over 28 years. This isn't counting the my ex who asked me out or the girl who liked me but had a bf and then by the time she was single had moved to a different state. us guys have nothing to learn re: asking them out more There's nothing to learn there. Unless you're telling me to ask out random women. I asked out the women I was close to and thought had some interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:03 PM
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Same brother same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:33 AM
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You have thatproblem? Usually I get 3 or 4 messages in and then they disappeared. Recently I got two days in and she disappeared. I once tried to make plans with a woman and she said she could do that day and then disappeared after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:06 AM
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Avg UMC frat guy who actually goes to the gym, they're a dime a dozen at decent+ universities They are a dime a dozen but they're also considered hot. Generic UMC sorority girls are just as common but are still considering generally attractive. Attractiveness isn't about being unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:35 PM
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Are you okay? This seem oddly critical of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:27 PM
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Or African or Asian mother
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:22 PM
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Something I realized is that I'm honestly really easy to please. Well relatively easy to please. If a woman talks me somewhat frequently, hangsout with me, share some form of physical intimacy with me (that isn't only hugs), and gives me the occasional present I'm all hers. At somepoint I'll want to have sex but I'll be satisfied for a good half a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:39 PM
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There's like 81 MILLION people like this. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:31 PM
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What your looking for is someone with gynephobia which is probably very rare. Most men who "avoid women" are not gynephobes. They still go out and live their lives like normal they just don't go out of their way to be around women, work in industries of majority men, keep conversations with women short, don't befriend women, etc... They don't go to the lengths you're imagining.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:29 PM
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I wonder the same thing. I sometimes think I bait for manipulative women but I've never met any irl. I figure maybe I'm just not social enough and I don't approach enough women Maybe you have a similar "problem". Toxic women are still women so they expect you to do the approaching and heavy lifting in the early stages of a relationship. They also still have all the same standards so if you aren't attracting that many "normal" women you aren't going to be attracting the mentally ill ones as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:43 PM
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I'm honestly not sure. The rational part of my brain says no but I have a woman in mind and if she asked me that at 1am I'd be annoyed and confused but do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:28 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DHyv2WoyiT5/?chaining=true&img_index=3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:25 AM
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why don't more incels just go to kink play parties in order to get some? I don't think I've ever run into an incel into kink. I mean I guess technically I fit the description but I also have sex with sex workers so I'm already abnormal. I have personally looked into kink play parties but I'm fairly certain it going to be mostly gay guys. In the same way all the NSFW r4r subs are just gay guys and all the NSFW chat platforms are mostly gay men and sex workers. So I assume kink parties are the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:24 AM
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I never said I was personally I'm just explaining that it's actually very easy to rarely come across women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:04 AM
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Honestly living on the city I do, l it's not hard to not run into women below the age of say 33. Like if I don't go to the mall or roller skating I will only come across older women. Even if I do come across young women we never interact so it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:24 AM
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Lmao even
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:27 AM
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Since I technically don't avoid women I don't apply completely. But I do try not to look to long at women at the gym and if you asked me to approach a stranger it would be a man. The reason for both of these is that I have a fear of being viewed as creepy and that getting around. I know it won't kill me as I lived with that kind of reputation for 4 years of my life but I would rather avoid have every time I walk into a room girls start whispering about me or saying that I was staring at them. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:43 PM
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Yeah that's what I've noticed. People sort of expect you to do alot of the heavy lifting. It's made me rethink alot of my past behavior. I'm I or was I like this? If so I feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:15 PM
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Hey but how?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:21 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:27 PM
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Eh, sounds boring
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:23 PM
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Do female abusers actively seek out victims? I was thinking about the claim that male abusers seek out potential victims who will put up with their treatment so they'll see a girl talk to her and if she doesn't seem like she has potential or whatever they pounce for lack of a better word.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:22 PM
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I have never been to a social even in a business setting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:11 PM
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They’re sweet innocent “desperate” angels who had to do it I get your criticism but when it comes to situation like that I never really talk about the guys at all. I understand pointing out the hypocrisy and I do personally believe if you have an issue with promiscuous behaviors you should criticize men and women equally. But this is an instance where no one care about the guys one way or another. What you should be pointing out is that no one is talking about these men and how degenerate they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:35 PM
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Is this supposed to be a money thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:09 PM
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Have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:21 PM
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I think you're understanding the sequence of events wrong. In the realm of the pills they're saying the world isn't just because of the rejection. It teaches or re-enforced that the world isn't just.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:06 AM
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People online already do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:59 AM
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I asked a few of them if they wanted to go hiking or bowling and the answers were yeah I'll get back to you. Then they either don't get back to me and I have to ask them about it learning that they either forgot or were busy. After that happened a few times I just stopped. People are busy. They might enjoy talking to me and like my company. They have they're own lives of work, school, relationships, and friendship. So they'd have to squeeze me in. I'm not someone to squeeze in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:27 AM
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Do you not make friends at work Outside of one exception all my work friends are just work friends. This is true of other places as well for me. Most "friendships" are place specific. Gym friends are gym friends and people at hobby groups are just at those hobby groups. I'm always confused when people talk as if people are just going out with strangers they met in a class. I've never experienced that past high-school. not go to networking events Never been to a networking event. The way people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:10 AM
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It's an extrovert thing. It's what being and extrovert vs an introvert is about. If you're drained my socializing with people then you're an introvert and if the opposite is true you're an extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:03 AM
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From what I've seen it's because female clients are hard to work with. There are stories of matchmaker working with female clients only to give up at some point after many failed attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:56 AM
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Eh, in my experience that hasn't been the case. But I leave around alot of uhh large women and men who like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:27 AM
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I'm stupid what's the point you're trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:25 AM
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I don't think I'll ever have it in me to take a hundred rejections to hear a yes that's a maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:51 AM
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This but it's a guy saying he likes "skinny women"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:36 AM
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The person who told me was the person who was told about it. The girl who told her any of that was probably someone I don't talk to. If it's someone I don't talk to then realistically there's not much for me to do. If she has a problem she has to come to me or tell someone I know. I doubt I'll be fired and the women I asked would stick up for me so I'm not worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:41 PM
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I have officially asked all the women I talk to at my job wheater I have a problem stareing at them or if I overshare sexual details. They've all told me I don't and the orginal girl who told me that she heard I do those things explained that she didn't really have the context for any of those comments i.e. what sexual details I shared, and what girls I was staring at. The last girl I asked even seemed confused and concered I would ask her anything like that. So I've decided not to worry about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:07 PM
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So you understand why this wouldn't be equal? It would natrually lead to men paying more times then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:57 PM
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Does this make things more equal in your eyes? Why or why not? It's not equal because I'm still expected to initiate everything. Disclaimer I've never been in a relationship, I understand people saying things are different in a relationship. But in my experience women don't invite me out regardless of how close we are or they do but it's extremely rare. So if I wanted to hangout or go on a date it's up to me to ask. As long as I'm the person doing all the inviting I'll always be the person payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:17 PM
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Because that will drop any man's chance to date to 0. I can't imagine that working even for some super attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:11 PM
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Get a journal or start a twitter account.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:30 AM
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He is probably going to have 7-8 years of good sex even if he finds someone now. Is it worth it? Excuse me for my ramble but this is something I think about quite often. Often times whenever these sorts of experiences are brought up people will default to that guy could find love later on in life. But as you say is it worth it? Personally I would say no. I still vividly remember being 20 and the horniest I had ever been and probably ever will be. Looking back now 8 years later I can say I very m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:17 AM
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I remind myself I haven't killed myself today and likely won't for the foreseeable future. As someone who is forced to live I need to work, pay bills, take care of myself, and get prepared to live a life alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:52 AM
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I see radfems called out all the time. Where and when? The only time I can think is when it's about trans people. Otherwise I don't see radfems criticized?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:37 PM
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In my experience the second bit isn't true. I've known fat women, and single moms. Their standards are the exact same as young pretty and thin women. Unless you have some kinda of study disproving this I'm at the very least skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:13 PM
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functional human being This is negotiable. I mean when was the last time she had a job and what was the crime she committed? If it's manslaughter then that's a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:08 PM
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Ask people to point out when it happens could be good too. That way people will know you are not doing intentionally. I actually only really talk to 4 or 5 people in the first place. Ones a guy, I asked two of them if I had problems staring at people and they both said no, I asked one of those two if I said anything that made her uncomfortable or said anything creepy and she said no, the forth person is someone I only started talking to a few months ago so really I doubt it's her. This only leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:40 PM
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I was told a week ago that apprantly the women at my job found me creepy. Well to be specific that they thought I was a sweet guy that but that just did some creepy things. This was told to me by a cowoker who I have known for a year and was very close too. We aren't really close anymore for related reasons I suppose. Apparently I stare at selective people randomly and not saying anything then walking away or just being silent about it. I don't really remember doing this. The closest thing I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:14 PM
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Yeah I went to 3 alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:40 AM
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I could post my neurotic spiraling if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:35 AM
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Actually I personally don't have to worry about buying a home. My mom's leaving me her house when she dies. So unless I want to homes there wouldn't be a reason to buy one. Granted she'll hopefully be alive for a long time so I'll probably be in my 40's by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:40 PM
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Whenever you feel anxious like this, look at graphs of the stock market over a 20 year period. I'll try that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:36 PM
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Nah that's a gen-beta problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:21 PM
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Gen-z and Gen-alpha are just fucked. Between the housing crisis and the (american) tariffs everything is unaffordable we'll own very little in this world. Can't even relay on social stuff either. Since gen-z is so isolated. There might even be a depression on the horizon. Maybe things will be better for gen beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:49 PM
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I'm a shy, socially awkward nerd, who has trouble connecting with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:03 AM
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Uhh it might be one of those shows that get good once you shut down your brain Hmm it's not subtle and is over the top. The writers just have a message and want to convey it. Rereading this, the actual bad thing he's guilty of is dumping the women when they get pregnant which is scummy in itself but getting pregnant isn't one person's responsibility and he even pays for the abortion (he's not forcing them to have one right?), All this is true, girl 5 even chooses to keep the baby so yes it's a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:15 PM
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The thing is there isn't any manipulation or false promises. Sure he never out right says that he's doing this for fun. But he also dosen't put on some charm where he tells the girls they're special and promises the world. It never seems like he tricks anyone, I'm not even sure how he could since quite literally eveyone at the school knew. I would guinually recommend the show. It's an interesting look at Thai culture. Also a good thing the series dose is cast teens as well teens. Besides the mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:43 PM
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There is this Taiwanese horro series called Girl from Nowhere. If you watch anime and are familiar with hell girl and Mushishi it's sort of like that. The series is about a supernatural mysterious girl who goes from school to school causing trouble. Each episode focuses on a new school with new students and a new issue the writers want to talk about. If you have netflix I would recommend it. Episode 1 of season 2 really stuck in my mind because I kept asking one question throughout the whole thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:58 PM
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Q4A Do you chat with people when your out, running errands, taking a walk, doing a hobby, etc... If so do you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:33 AM
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You've asked this question before I think. My answer hasn't changed yes I would date someone who fetishizes me. I see no reason not to. It's better then the state I'm in right now if anythingI have a better chance with her then any other woman. I would act like I saw nothing and just go about my day. Actually I think I can explain this even better. You didn't say this but my brain automatically went it's either this girl or no one. Like would I date someone who fetishize me vs no one. There is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:23 AM
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Then there not anything you can do 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:35 PM
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I don't think you can. You can lose weight in general and that will help obviously but otherwise you can't. You can't target fat lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:23 PM
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Because most people are able to find sex and/or relationships naturally, they don’t necessarily think to provide advice on the parts that seem obvious to them...People who find relationships naturally don’t necessarily feel the need to state these things that seem obvious to them. True, that's how it is with social things in general. I can't tell you how many times I've read some piece of advice about social interactions or social skills and been annoyed that the writer was never explicit. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:00 PM
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But if you aren't getting into any kind of relationship and aren't attractive at all it's a distinction without a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:51 PM
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I'm generally unconcerned about the qualities that makes a man attractive in a long-term sense. I can't even get into a short term relationships much less long term ones. If I'm stuck at step 1 of something I'm not sure why I need to me super concerned about step 10. This probably why alot of struggling men why blue pill advice useless. It's so concerned with health relationships, finding a good partner, and maintaining those relationships, and marriage. It almost treats getting into relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:10 PM
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I think it really only matters for long term relationships. But for hookups and just starting relationships of any kind it matters little.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:56 PM
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I will never understand this response. I'm not even the kinda of guy that obsess over women like "bad boys" but all you need to do is go outside to see that empathy and emtional intelligence have noting to do with getting into a relationship or hooking up with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:58 AM
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It's shin chan so that's probably a grown woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:08 PM
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A classic anime if there ever was one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:05 PM
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Yeah, they do it's mostly weekly adult skate nights or family skate. Other then that there's the odd lesson and occasional theme though that's less consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:10 PM
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Book club? They don't care if you read or listened to the book. I've looked into bookclubs. There might be some at my local library I have to check more closely. Other then I looked into ones on meetup but they're always to far or it conflicts with my work schedule so I can't really do them. Is there a venue for rollerskating where you live? Yeah there's one like 20mins away. I go occasionally but not constantly. It's an whenever I feel like kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:41 PM
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I like roller skating, I used to write poetry 10 years ago I liked that, I like walking lol, and hiking. That's about it and audiobooks but I don't really read traditionally much unless it's manga or graphic novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:14 PM
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What are some reoccurring classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:57 PM
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What are some reoccurring classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:57 PM
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Why do people recommended cooking classes in order to meet people wheatear it be for the purposes of dating or making friends? As far as I can tell a class is a one time thing where you pay $60 go to some place for an afternoon learn how to make a dish and go home. How is this suppose to lead to "meeting someone"? This is a genuine question. Is this suppose to be an instant connection thing? I don't really get invited to things or make connections easily so the idea of going somewhere meeting pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:34 PM
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I got a pay raise from $17.30/hr to $20.80/hr! I still want to leave the place but having more money is nice though it will be hard finding a place that pays as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:29 PM
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How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:21 PM
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Two important pieces of advice from you local dateless loser. Don't marry someone you've only known or been dating for a year and discuss your financial situation with each other before getting engaged. Show each other your bank accounts, know how much debt you each have, and look at your savings account. Financial problems really strain a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:41 AM
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Go outside and look confused
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:30 AM
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Lol so you have a few months without dating or sex and telll other guys to "decanter women". If you were 40 and had never been in a relationship I'd give this post more credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:24 PM
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What would you do without your daily Lilith post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:05 PM
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Like me, I hate scented items.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:16 AM
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Do you ever feel like your life is like a play. The actors, setting, and script change but the overall events stay the same. Maybe the writing is a bit more subtle or overet but the samethings keep repeating themselves. I've been feeling like that this past two weeks. I thought I learned my lesson and was making progress but nope. Same shit new place and actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:47 PM
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When I say gender roles I mean things that men and women are expected to do. Not necessarily things that are men or women are only capable of because of their biology or things that are just natrually easier for men or women to do. So saying men natrually tend to be stronger then women or that women tend to be more flexible isn't really about gender roles imo. Sure women can be very strong and even stronger then most men with enough training (and drugs) but natrually if they just exist in the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:45 AM
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Kinda but not really. Gender, for the most part, is just sex so realistically it's linked to your biology. Gender roles are a mix of both soical convention and biological influence. I would say if something is predominantly biologically influenced it has nothing to do with gender roles. Of course there's a debate to be had over how much influence biology has over anything. But that debate will rage on for all entirety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:43 AM
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Men I guess? But that just feels more like a component of biology. That's like saying child birth is a female gender role. Not really as it's a part of biology that men can't really do. Both things are just the consequences of our biology and aren't something I would consider a "role".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:10 AM
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You're just wrong, I don't know a better way to say it. You can have a theory of mind and still struggle with dating and feel highly anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:55 AM
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She just mean these men don't view women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:39 AM
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The more I workout and build muscle, the better I feel. What dose this have to do with male gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:24 AM
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Seriously what are you talking about? Theory of mind (ToM) is the ability to attribute mental states to ourselves and others, serving as foundational elements for social interaction. Having a theory of mind is important as it provides the ability to predict and interpret the behavior of others. Okay you just mean they don't see them as sentient thinking people with their own feeling, opinions, and free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:23 AM
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Being free How is that a male gender role? Love being able to walk where I please. Being physically capable. How are either of these male gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:06 AM
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Is that a gender role?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:52 AM
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Q4M What part of male gender roles do you like? Edit: What do you think male gender roles are in broad strokes? You can go into detail it's just not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:30 AM
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I think the assumption is that said men will eventually develop these traits with time (aka, fake it till you make it). But I ask myself how common this process actually is. True, we can't know how common the process is as there isn't really a way to test this or truly know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:13 AM
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Like the other guy said Alice can be a confrontational go-getter or is laid back and non-confrontational. She will still want the confrontational go-getter she'll just want that in different level and ways depending on her personality. There is no winning scenario for Bob unless he get's lucky and finds a woman who likes his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:08 AM
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That's okay but what does that have to do with other people the man isn't trying to sleep with being dismissive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:19 AM
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The thing is even if you say it in a nicer way like "I wish I could experience sex and physical intimacy. It's an important part of the human experience that I crave and just being able to negatively effects my mental health." Even if you witre all of that it will just get dissemed off hand. People are weird about sex and the desier for it. If you just say you want physically intimacy which, yes includes sex. People will say that you're just lying and are just trying to use women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:01 AM
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It's not that they don't wanna It's that it would just be shamed even harder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:28 AM
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If that was her crime then he was right she clearly didn’t acknowledge him or know he existed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:46 AM
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Strip clubs, and it would basically be like dating a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:02 AM
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I'm not sure what this picture is trying to convey. I also never read his manifesto so I have no idea what she did Also those are nice tits 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:00 AM
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Experience probably and it's probably not wrong. Like I think she can find what she's looking for but it's going to be extremely difficult. She's asking for alot just from dating the only guys who would agree to that are extremely lonely men. But even those men would rather have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:57 AM
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Look man I get you but you understand that your not really the kinda guy I'm talking about in my post right? Sure you never "tried to attract women" but you do so realistically the question is boradline pointless to ask you. Guys like you will be fine regardless so I'm never really worried about them. Like I'm more interested in the guy who can hangout with people but still struggles then the guy who dose or doesn't and still finds sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:38 PM
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So then you just never struggled in attracting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:20 PM
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What does this even mean? He just means change the approach after being rejected. So if just going up to a woman and asking her out immediately dosen't work do the small talk and flirting thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:00 PM
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This is why I tell men to stop listening to women Men give this kind of advice as well. Honestly my question can be directed at red pill tier advice as well. The rest of your comment doesn't really answer my question and it's just more advice that would make me ask the men following it if they find it personally useful. Who cares about the theory if it isn't working for that person. I want to know wheater it worked for them (the romantically challenged) or not .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:44 PM
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Okay so just make an exception in case of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:11 AM
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Good taste
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:08 AM
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Same, it doesn't really mean much besides strippers randomly telling me they can tell I have a bkg dick. I wish size alone did anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:07 AM
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I made no friends in college
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:26 AM
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How do you build your social circle after you've left university?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:14 AM
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Well did she go on the second date? If she didn't, there are definitely women that would.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:01 AM
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Can you post a picture of an average girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:47 PM
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No he definitely has a point but I wouldn't it's all or even most guys with a skincare routine. The skincare routine thing is unusual for American men so it point's to some potential abnormal behavior but I would say it's a yellow flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:03 PM
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Yes I'm a massive redflag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:51 PM
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No I just put lotion on after showers and regularly put some on my hands through out the day. Yes I'm a massive reflag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:50 PM
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One bad experience with a nice guy and they will never date a nice guy . Plenty of experiences with toxic guys and they keep dating those guys again and again . When I read shit like that I do wonder where's my chance. There are women who constantly date nice guy's but they seem less common then the one's who date toxic one's for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:23 PM
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I hate to defend this lady since I hate the term "nice guy" and how it's used. But if we're being charitable she means she was dating a guy who is insecure, multiplicative, and controlling. Very much the stereotypical male feminist, well the negative stereotype of them anyway. What she will do, or at least claim to do is date guys who are "kind". Little relationship history, put women on a pedestal and spent many years chasing emotionally unavailable women who strung him along To defend this bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:13 PM
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You have to be both sociable and attractive. If you aren't one you have to compensate by investing very heavily into the other. If you're only weak in one of these two things then you can just rely on the one your best at. If you're neither then your shit out of luck. Try very hard to change your personality or find some luck somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:48 AM
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Those people are retards there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:40 AM
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Idk man I can agree it's ridiculous and maybe dosen't fit the definition of affordable, fair enough, but I personally, as a FA male living in the US find that liveable. Maybe if you have 2 kids it's not but that's still a maybe. I know someone who makes half of that and has a one kid and she's struggling but very much making it through life. I think rent is to high but I don't think it's to the point where someone making 75k a year can act like their poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:30 AM
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Are you telling me you can't live off $6250 a month? I did my own math and that still leaves me 2k left. I think 2.5k is a ridiculous average but if you're making 75k a year that is more then affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:08 AM
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>How much is rent in NJ Zillow says it's $2500 but you can totally find you safe places for below 2k easily. Here's a place in South Orange for $1595. Though if you want someplace really nice like say Union your looking at closer to 2k. >can you shoe me the Zillow ads with how unsafe it is to walk around the area alone at night as a woman? I have no idea what you're talking about with the ads. I can say that South orange is nice area that's safe for a woman to walk around in at night. Newark isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:49 AM
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In my state, NJ, it’s not even livable (alone) in many areas. It’s very modest here, and very modest in almost every state above NJ. I'm constantly confused by reddit's idea of affordability. 75k is $6250 a month and that in NJ is not "It’s very modest", 75k is very much "livable" Sure you won't be living the high life but you can live a comfortable life in decent apartment in a nice neighborhood. Sure you won't be living in some of really nice places up there but you'll be okay and be able to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:02 AM
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Idk, I've never felt lonely due to my friends and family. I don't feel loney really, welll I did start feeling that way recently but that's due to me going through some health issues. Otherwise I don't feel loney anymore I had a friend and we talk everyday so I don't feel loney anymore. When I say alone I mean single, like completely single. No hookups or short term relationships. I have my family and bestfriend (who are basically family as far as I'm concerned). But they don't fill the same nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:34 AM
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I hate it I don't want to be 30 lol. 30 and still alone. Hopefully I'll have more money so I can sleep with more escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:49 AM
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In 2 year I will officially stop being a young man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:02 AM
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Procrastinating and listing to a political podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:55 PM
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I think sex with anything more then two People is gross. I might be willing to have a threesome but that's as far as I'd go and I'd be hesitant. Let's say even just two couples making out in the same space. Is that bad? It's not bad Isn't it hot when it's not just strictly two people but even multiple who are turned on? No why would that be hot? What's wrong with that? I think it has a cool kind of liberating feeling to it. There's nothing morally wrong with it though I do find the idea of alot …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:53 PM
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I can tell you I've really only had one gay guys flirt with me 13 years ago. But I think that's unusual judging by the answers I'm getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:39 AM
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Q4M Have you ever had a gay man flirt with you irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:09 AM
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Not really that would require me to have regular sexual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:06 AM
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It's nice to be flirted with and feel tits. But it's a drain on the wallet and I often think I just be saving my money instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:04 AM
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No, I know or knew sex workers and strippers and I would never recommend anyone do either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:03 AM
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Yes everyone looks good in glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:00 AM
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I just thought of something funny, well funny to me. As someone who lives in lower class community and who's family (well the women in it) is made up of alot of teachers I find the notion that middleschoolers would refer to themselves as incels is ridiculous. I have never heard any of my relatives complain about anything like that. They'll talk about kids being disrespectful, rude, valger, getting pregnant, getting into fights, saying slurs. But not one has said anything about incels lol. Just l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:11 AM
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Whatever music I like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:05 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:46 AM
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is feminism good? I see feminism as okay though not that useful in modern western society. do you like it or hate it? If those are my only options then I would say I hate it. While I view feminism as a female empowerment movement and not a movement for "gender equality" that's not the reason for disliking feminism. My dislike for feminism comes from having most my interactions with self evowed feminist being negative. I love anime, manga, and video games. Being a fan of all three of those things…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:40 AM
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I'm gonna strongly disagree with you on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:37 AM
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Around two years ago I did some light research into getting rid of my sexual urges. The end result of the research was that there isn't a guaranteed way to do that and even if you did some how do that you wouldn't remove the need romantic intimacy or just intimacy in general. Every method people bring up only has a chance of work and some medication might have the exact opposite effect increasing your sexual desire. I wish there was a switch in my brain that I could flick and turn off my sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:34 AM
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>There are many medications that legitimately lower sexual desires and impulses. Correction there are many medications that can potentially lower sexual desires. Nothing is guaranteed and there are cases where people have taken SSRI for instance and had their sexual desires and impulse increase. Then even if you get lucky and get the desired result it doesn't eliminate the romantic desires. I've checked and castration also doesn't work sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:25 AM
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Because of all the cock you've had inside you. Don't worry I believe you sand. You have can sex with men and be a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:25 AM
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Then that's okay I guess. It's pretty clear that is a danger even of the reverse is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:35 AM
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Rejection mostly and not being very social.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:34 AM
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I have a strong relationship with my parent and I remember every single girl I've had strong feelings for. I even remember the first girl I had a crush on when I was 6. I chalk that up to only being dumped once and only ever having one sided feelings. So I never have messy breakups because I never get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:59 AM
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Yes I would 100% marry that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:55 AM
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My dad died when I was 3 and my mother never remarried. While I do think having a father figure is important in a child's life I would be liying if I said I thought it mattered much in mine. The whole not having a father thing and never knowing my dad's side of family thing (since they're all in Jamaica) bothers my mother way more then it dose me. As I never really have any memories of him besides the day he died. So I don't really miss him. I can't help but think that one of reasons my mother n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:37 AM
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<image> Meet the 5 foot Indian janitor stealing all your women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:29 AM
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What you don’t believe that massive giga chad couldn't get super models?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:12 AM
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I hate having to make responsible life and financial decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:41 AM
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I have no idea the last thing I heard about Bieber was that he was groomed by Diddy or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:12 PM
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I had never heard of this series until yesterday and now that I have I find the concept kinda funny. Like there are people who guinually believe Andrew Tate will radicalize 13 year old boy into murder lol. Ignoring that the threat of incels is overblown. They could have at least made the kid 17 or something that would have been more believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:09 PM
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Why do I keep seeing this meme
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:54 PM
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I never really considered joining a league since I've never been that into bowling. I hadn't been bowling in 10 years and then I went twice last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:30 PM
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I'm gonna go roller skating tomorrow night. It's fun and nice watching people enjoy themselves. I also want to go bowling tonight but that's expensive. It's always confusing whenever I tell people I'm going out and doing something and they immediately ask if I went with a friend or something. Then I have tell them I went alone and no matter how many times I tell people this they still ask if I went alone. Yes I have invited people but they're normally busy and I eventually just got tired of cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:20 PM
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Every thing I hear about single events is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:09 PM
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I never said I was sane and in a good mental state.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:17 PM
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What dose the average American man and average American woman look like? I'm always curious what people here mean when they say average. https://np.reddit.com/r/selfie/s/vw5CzKlygO Like this is an average guy as far as I'm concerned. But I know there are people here who would say he's a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:15 PM
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I'll go for the second option . Weight is sadly a deal breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:12 PM
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I guess she is, idk I think she cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:48 PM
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But she's cute and pandas are cute as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:30 PM
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Is she supposed to be unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:29 PM
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Like the style and hate the price
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:28 PM
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Idk if I really want kids so maybe. Idk it doesn't sound like a bad deal I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:20 PM
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I figured I might never have sex ever and if she was offering why not. She had already fucked like a bunch of other guys and I might never get this kind of chance again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:29 AM
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Maybe? Idk I used to think I did. But honestly after thinking about it I'm not sure if anything I did would have made a difference. Like we agreeded to meet at my place and hookup but she ended up flacking on me. Maybe she thought I was cringe, or maybe she got cold feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:19 AM
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I actually would be completely fine with people criticizing my taste in women. My issue is that the compliant that I'm going after one girl while rejecting another is completely misplaced. I'm not rejecting women left and right. I don't get to choose between the good girl or bad girl. So it always just confuses me when the accusation is thrown at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:15 AM
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2, well 1 because I did try to get with her later but turns out she wasn't that interested in me. One was a a former friend who was going through a very bad breakup and wanted to sleep with me as a rebound I guess. I said no because it felt off, like she was clearly going through something and I felt like I would be taking advantage of her sorrow to sleep with her. In the end I did try to sleep with her after she fucked a bunch of other guys in our extended friend group but it never happend. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:39 AM
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Holy shit, does that mean 45% of young men are virgins/ incels? Incels maybe but probably not virgins. Alot of guys can get lucky once or twice and then see nothing for long stretches of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:15 AM
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I'm never sure how to react to actuation that I'm either chasing women out of my league or that I'm rejecting women who are actually really nice but are just average looking. I'm flattered you think I get that much interest from women but I assure you I'm not. I will admit I would reject a nice religious girl. But that's because I'm a degenerate bisexual atheist. So I don't forsee that relationship going well. Though a situation like that has never come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:10 AM
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Yes what can you tell me about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:32 PM
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and then when you say "but I dont get any signals" y'all say "woW SweaTY soundDS entiTILED to attenTIon, its pRobably cuz you dresss like a sLob and dont comb your Hair wow" You forgot the person telling you "You do get signals you just aren't noticing them" or "I'm sure you get signals but they're from unattractive women so you must be ignoring them or they're just invisible to you".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:25 PM
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I mean it just frustration at being told to read signal and signs and look at body language to know when to approach. But you never get any or those signals or signs so advice seem pretty useless on a practical level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:23 PM
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Yeah though there struggles tend to be different. While men are more like to have trouble finding anyone into them at all. Women will struggle to find guinuan relationship's with someone who truly cares about them and who they are attracted to. Of course this is speaking in generalizations and there are men who have stuck trying to find guinuan relationships and women who struggle finding anyone into them. I think both of problems for men and women when it comes to dating can be blamed on gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:07 AM
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Working retail for three years has really lowered my expectations of your average person. It really seems like most people can't read or lack basic observation skills. Also I learned that if you give people the idea they aren't responsible for cleaning up after themselves they will just make a gaint mess. I don't know what it is about shopping that turns grown adults in to messy animals but you would think the people that come to the store have never cleaned or picked up after themselves in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:35 PM
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True it is amazing. Guinually probably one of the best manga out there about a terrorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:05 PM
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If anyone here reads manga I would recommend Dandadan. While I don't think it's the best thing ever like some people seem to, I will conced that it is a quality manga. It's art is great, it's monster designs are interesting, and the characters are great 4 volumes in. My only real complaint is that the fights don't feel as engaging as the character drama which is a shame since it is a component of the series though it very much feels like it's not the focus. If you told me it was orginally planne…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:01 PM
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He means that she might be trying to scam him to get her green card or just stay for longer. It's basically a 50/50 she could be being totally honest and have no ill intentions but that's a risk he's not willing to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:13 PM
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Men marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:53 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:13 PM
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I've followed the artist on Instagram for a few years now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:54 PM
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Here's a standing one but she's clothed https://www.instagram.com/p/C1AMiWSyx1J/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:52 PM
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What about her? https://preview.redd.it/7ou9kad0u9pe1.jpeg?width=576&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=13ea5073309c7d7f5101eb218754aa0023fdb3e2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:49 PM
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Depends who you ask. I would say no but I'd understand someone saying they are. There's a clear threshold in my head between the two. I like chubby girls but not fat ones. The difference is arbitrary honestly just a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:46 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/C94-0x3SicY/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link How would you describe this body type? Fat or chubby?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:42 PM
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That's not a redditor thing I see it everywhere. I think it's one of those silent majority things. Like if you gave guy a chance to speak about their preferences for or against tattoos women with tattoos alot would be against.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:32 PM
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That sounds exhausting and horrible. I have no idea how you live like that. If I hangout with my 3 closest friends twice a week I get exhausted and need a break from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:27 PM
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I do better 1:1 and I only really have one extroverted friend so it works out for me. If you sit me in a large group of people, say 10 people, I'll just stick to the one person I know or alternatively just find a nice quite place to sit and eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:55 PM
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And that's a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:37 PM
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Since I've been thinking alot about mixed gender friendships lately. I wonder if other people have a greater desire friendship then I do. Like even in my most lonely I never wanted a large group of friends. I've always just wanted basically one person to talk too and hangout out with. Having a small group of 4 or 5 people to talk to on occasion is satisfying and the only thing I feel like I'm missing is a romantic relationship. I don't really place alot of vaule in loose aquaintances or none clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:37 PM
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It did happen natrually. I natrually talk about sex that is apart of my vibe. Pretty much anyone who's known would tell you that conversations about sex are just part of hanging out with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:58 AM
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That is an accurate picture of my state of confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:46 AM
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You seem to think a lot about whether you creep women out or make them uncomfortable which probably clouds your vision of what flirting looks like. I did a fea years ago but I don't as much anymore. It could still be clouding my judgment. But I think really it's that I don't know what normies think flirting is. Like I didn't really try flirting growing up. I just talking to everyone more or less the same. Sometimes I would tell some girl she had nice tits and sometimes I wouldn't. I never consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:27 AM
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Part of what inspiring my epiphany is having multiple women be guinually surprised I struggled dating. I've had three explain that they'd think I'd make a good boyfriend and I've had alot compliments on many different aspects of my personality. Idk, being told explicitly that a girl thought about having sex with me but because of her own reasons decided that would be a bad idea so she rejected me and having that same girl explain that she feels safe with me fucked me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:19 AM
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Thing is I flirt and makes moves. It just always amounts to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:53 AM
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My problem is I don't think I'm that physically unattractive. Overall I think I'm a fairly average black guy and I've been called cute a few time. I'm just not attractive enough maybe idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:00 AM
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On the brightside about my life I don't think I make women uncomfortable. Well maybe I do but that appears to an overexaggerated worry that I have some what gotten over. On the other hand I think my problem, well one of them, when it comes to attracting women is my personality. I mean in more of a wholelistic sense. Like my overall vibe is wrong. Not bad wrong just weird and that throws new people off. Then even when I get closer to a woman I think I'm clocked as this sort of sad, helpful puppy …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:47 AM
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I get your point but most autistic men typical don't get laid. I don't believe this is because they don't participate in the autistic community.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:41 AM
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Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:01 AM
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God no I hate cities
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:03 AM
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The guy who they're trying to push as the next male sex symbol Wouldn't that require men to care about him? Wait or dose being the male sex symbol just require women online to thirt after him? I guess the second option would make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:02 AM
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Are there enough women in this sub to answer this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:01 AM
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None I hate alcohol it ruins whatever it touches
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:00 AM
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That's logical but I want to know what I said that was so triggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:52 PM
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Lol I meant they click your profile and just reply to comments. Not that they have access to the account thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:49 PM
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How do you respond when someone randomly goes through your account and just starts replying to random comments? This is new for me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:45 PM
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Never mind you were replying to the last sentence. Honestly that sounds like a you issue. You picked men that didn't actually like you. You should work that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:18 PM
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An annoying aspect of arguing with people on here is people assuming I'm talking "Chad" or "Tyrone" when I never use these terms. I say men women are attracted too, and I just mean men that women are attracted to. It's vague because despite how black-pilled and cynical I am I can acknowledge that there is some variation in attraction. Sure there are certain traits that are going to be more attractive to most people. But that dosen't mean every woman want to date a blond haired, blue eyed, jacked…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:05 PM
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That dosen't disprove anything I wrote. Those were still men you were attracted to. So yeah you found a man who checked those boxes and also happened to be attracted to you. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:48 PM
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The issue is that all the things you “don’t need any more of” are things that will be MORE abundant in a relationship than sex. I meant I don't need more of in a platonic sense. So if you don’t need any more time with women to enjoy talking to, hanging out with, cooking and cleaning and watching TV with, you don’t want a relationship. First of all cooking and cleaning with women is not included in friendship. Not that I would be against doing those things with my friends (I run errands with one …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:03 PM
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Some men who want to fuck a woman but otherwise don’t care about her or her personality don’t like this, because they’d like sex, and don’t want the rest. This is, idk reductionest I guess. I could be wrong but it seems like you're saying that the only reason a man wouldn't want to be friends with a woman he's interested in is because he only sees them as a sex object. I'm speaking from person experience here and I can tell you that it's not fun constantly being a guy women like being friends wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:39 PM
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But I do think it’s inevitable that women will struggle, like men, to find a partner who will value her as a person, care if she’s upset, go out of their way to make her happy and have good boundaries and the ability to communicate them in a way that’s productive and reasonable? Absolutely. You forgot who they are attracted to and is attracted to them. They can probably find men who check those boxes but they might not be attracted to those men for one reason or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:15 PM
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If they answered "no", that would be weird. Not really you could just come up with a new word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:28 AM
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I don't ask anyone their relationship status it just comes up in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:21 AM
2

Last year I was "single" the entire time but going through another slut phase. All those women I was dating were also telling others they were single. Yeah I don't want to gate keep the word single because technically neither you or those women are lying. But when I say I've been single for 10 years I don't mean it the way they're probably thinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:45 AM
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One thing I have started to really internalized that I need to me skeptical whenever some normie tells me their relationship status. I've known way to many "single" people who sure aren't in committed relationships but have fwb, casual hookups, frequently date and sleep around. Sure these people are "single" but they're still sexually active so they aren't single in the same way I'm single. I literally knew a guy who told me he was single while hooking up with a cowoker of ours who is obsessed w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:16 AM
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