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I rarely get matches, and i'd rate myself 6/10. Yet i've met up with nearly every girl i've engaged in a long conversation with. Seeing this girl meet up with only 1% of these guys who she had a conversation in tells me she is one of those girls who wastes guys time. I'll even put money on that the ones she did meet, were alpha males with high confidence.
/r/seduction16/07/19 08:33 AM
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It's not too late, it just gets harder. As a guy who was in a long term relationship for most of my 20's and next to nothing since 29 (almost 35 now), i'm getting over it all and accepting the reward is not worth the effort. I need to put in A LOT of effort to achieve the goals mentioned above because i am getting more estranged from socialisation the older i get.
/r/seduction08/06/19 04:38 AM
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You realise everyone critiques themselves right? You're probably just everage looking too. Maybe without style?
/r/seduction25/05/19 09:55 PM
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He's really not that great looking lol. Nicely trimmed and has style, but genetics are not exactly on his side.
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:42 PM
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The dominant part is what sold your Bio. Not all guys can pull that off though.
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:41 PM
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She definitely did, for years. It's pretty obvious to know when someone loves you back. However, she didn't for the final year, and it became obvious - she ended up emotionally cheating on me because of another guy. I knew the guy, but i never suspected it as he was like 16 years older. You have no idea man... sorry. Have YOU been in love? I love how internet warriors come on and tell me what i experienced as if they have experienced the same relationship. If you think love is eternal and an eve…
/r/seduction01/05/19 05:43 AM
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It's quite easilly actually... it's called getting wiser and less worrying. I had a relationship for 7 years, i know what it's all about. Now i just care less about it all.
/r/seduction27/04/19 09:20 PM
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Eh, it's easier to get over it all and not have sex. I don't think about it anymore, and i'm actually fine about it. It was easier in my 20's, but since 30 it's just not worth the effort and i have better things to do.
/r/seduction27/04/19 11:06 AM
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As a chemistry teacher... "Legendairy will you stop distracting Missdistracted!" "Remember, you are all Noble gases in my classroom, no bonding or reacting thanks" ... ... ... No i'm not really like that, i'm pretty chill as a teacher.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:58 AM
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Do stuff early on before you get settled. Otherwise you'll turn into a hermit.
/r/seduction21/09/18 09:13 AM
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It's more personal than Tinder or SMS, as it's a link to 'your life'. It's not a huge step, and not required at all.
/r/seduction02/08/18 10:02 PM
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I've never understood this. I don't feel like advancing from tinder to SMS is a step forward at all. Tinder to Facebook chat maybe.
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:59 PM
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I don't agree with OP, but i agree with u/Dichotopotamus In regard to OP's statement - I don't look at girls who are successful, fit, or well-educated as being any more attractive than girls that aren't those at all (generalising here). Why would i want the same in return? u/Dichotopotamus spoke of improving qualities that girls would love about you first. To me, this might mean also that you should have things in your life that make you happy and that you love doing. It might well be self impro…
/r/seduction06/06/18 08:36 PM
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I feel the same way. They are two different things. Sometimes you can skip the dating part and go straight to relationship though. That's when you usually meet people through common interest first. That happened with my ex of 7 years. We kind of talked for a few months online about music... then it turned to phone calls and sending photos (this was in 2006 before facebook was even a thing). Next thing i know it was a full on relationship (long distance at first). The times have changed though. I…
/r/seduction30/03/18 08:19 AM
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It's more attractive if it's something she will be able to participate in, even if only a little. The chef one might be you preparing a meal for her over a few drinks and discussing what you're doing (without sounding pretentious). I'm a PC builded and gamer - i can't see how this is going to come across attractive unless the girl is somewhat nerdy a little and she's after someone with the nerd in them - or she loves gaming too etc.
/r/seduction30/03/18 04:48 AM
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Some girls are just genuinely flirty as part of their personality though. Like they do it to everyone and probably aren't overly focusing on anyone in particular. I've met a couple like this. Agree in general to this post though.
/r/seduction30/03/18 03:43 AM
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Fashion and social circles are NOT important for so many people. Income is important to a degree... but, some people learn to sacrifice and are very well off on a smaller income and still can afford the things they need in life. For example, you could be a backpacker, temporarily homeless, living out of a bag with one or two changes of clothes and still have success. Backpackers are often poorer (after travelling for awhile anyway), limited with fashion and often solo travellers without much of …
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:43 AM
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I like the part about kissing before the next decision is to made... i might have to steal that one.
/r/seduction10/03/18 07:37 AM
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It's been fine actually, no issues?
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:39 PM
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I've lived with 3-4 girl roomates with no other males for like 5 years.
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:14 AM
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I was 22 before i lost my virginity. Who cares? Just enjoy life, sex is not the greatest thing ever - it's damn nice but it's only a small part of all the good things in life. I'm doing SOOO many things now and enjoying life more since coming out of a relationship.
/r/seduction14/11/17 08:29 PM
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I was 22 before i lost my virginity. Who cares? Just enjoy life, sex is not the greatest thing ever - it's damn nice but it's only a small part of all the good things in life.
/r/seduction08/11/17 08:09 PM
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The problem with Tinder for me (and a lot of other mobile swiping dating apps) is fake profiles. I live in a small town and it's VERY obvious which are fake now.
/r/seduction21/08/16 08:56 PM
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It's NOTHING like that? I read that article and i feel that's more about crushes/short term etc, not long term relationships. I'm not obsessing over her etc, it's more that is was such a good 7 year chunk of my life that i remember and largely miss. I'm failing to find a similar connection to other girls. I met her when she was quite young an inexperienced, and now i'm meeting older experienced girls set in their lives. It's a completely different thing, and harder imo.
/r/seduction19/07/16 09:29 PM
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It's been 3 years since my ex of 7 years and I split. I STILL can't get over it, despite meeting other girls etc. She was just... better and more interesting than everyone i meet. This is the one hurdle i fail to breach, no matter how many other ones i make along the way.
/r/seduction19/07/16 11:07 AM
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Can relate, 7 year relationship here, was best time of my life, but now i'm not interested in anyone else, and will be 'forever' single :P . Not because i can't get a relationship, but because i kind of don't want one, just not interested in anyone these days. I'm sure things will change, but meh. Not too fussed about it.
/r/seduction22/02/16 07:21 AM
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I find people's pictures tell a lot about them. Some are just pictures of them out with friends or with pets. I always see these people as pretty boring and typical.
/r/seduction09/02/16 08:19 PM
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No. It's about looks at first AND THEN whatever you make of it after. I live in a small town. Tinder here can be used as a basic dating app as well as for hookups. Some girls are after more than casual sex. I'm on tinder to increase my chances of meeting new girls. Whether it be for casual or not.
/r/seduction25/01/16 09:23 PM
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I am not huge on Romantic Movies, but Before Sunrise was a classic. The questions thing is helpful in general life i think, for dating or any conversation. I like your changes. I should give this a go one day!
/r/seduction03/01/16 02:37 AM
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Sure in some cases i'd agree, but definitely not my ex. Just can't assume all girls are alike. First breakup: I think she kind of lost feelings before hand, but never told me, and in 2 months or so everything happened and we split (for 10 weeks). Yeah ok, disrespectful as fuck, but she was over me at that stage (i didn't know at all). The second and last breakup: She had mild Aspergers Sydrome, which meant she had obsessions. One of those were whales/dolphins + photography. So naturally after sh…
/r/seduction29/09/15 04:56 AM
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It's probably worse than physically cheating because it's when your partner gets feelings for another during your relationship, but doesn't tell you. It's a sure end to a relationship, where physical cheating can be just a fuckup (drunk nights / led on) that is forgiveable. In my case, my ex would be messaging this guy, but pretending to be talking to her friend. I knew something was up, because she wasn't receptive to me AT ALL emotionally or lovingly. She'd hold on to her phone everywhere we w…
/r/seduction28/09/15 05:25 AM
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My ex (7 year relationship) emotionally cheated on me with a girl she met online on a game. They ended up meeting a few times and after he got what he wanted from her, he dumped her. I stupidly took her back after she admitted she fucked up and really wanted me back. I agreed to get back with her because i still loved her to bits, even after she did that. I made sure we got back together on the condition we resolved our issues (we even wrote down the major issues we had with the other to work on…
/r/seduction27/09/15 11:27 PM
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Hmmm i am thinking more "I feel like YOU emphasized the WRONG word."
/r/seduction12/09/15 10:22 AM
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I kind of have this too. It's usually just the first time though, i'm fine after that. I think it's that feeling of not knowing what to expect. You aren't really nervous, but you're thinking about what to do etc. First sex is worst sex.
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:26 PM
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It's about a 1 in 3 chance for me to find one without kids lol. It's tough.
/r/seduction20/07/15 11:26 AM
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The last girl i met was super shy and our first date was climbing around the coastal rock face in our local area. Hardly hook up material, and neither am i.
/r/seduction20/07/15 11:25 AM
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I live in Port Macquarie, which is only about 45,000 people. Lets just say it's not the same experience. I've met 1 girl off Tinder (just one activitiy date - no sex), and about 7 off online dating sites (5 i didn't get past the first date, 2 i had a fling with - one of those is current). That being said though, i've been looking for almost two years now. Pretty poor. It's just so hard to find people you find attractive, and who don't have kids here.
/r/seduction19/07/15 09:59 AM
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Why? Some people just use it like online dating. Probably moreso in less built up areas, but still.
/r/seduction19/07/15 09:53 AM
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I don't like this comment. It sounds like you read it as a negative comment which is purely subjective. Looks ARE important, no matter how much your point about being dealt your yards is true. You still have to come across as attractive most of the time. That DOESN'T mean being a stunner, but just generally not below average. Someone (lets subjectively rate them a 4/10 is going to not be very successful in randomly meeting new people and getting numbers UNLESS they have a lot going for them in o…
/r/seduction16/05/15 06:15 AM
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Don't worry mate, i think your point is valid. It's VERY circumstantial that women were approaching him. Every time i've gone to a live show by myself it's all couples or undesirables.
/r/seduction10/05/15 06:29 AM
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I don't like the advice at all. It promotes the 'grass is greener' or 'window shopping' effect, where you never really pick a.... mate.
/r/seduction06/05/15 06:56 AM
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Okey dokey
/r/seduction03/05/15 09:35 PM
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This is my problem too. I feel like it's fairly obvious to me, but obviously you need to steer the girl into the common mindset of what you both want. Otherwise that wall remains between you and you only can talk across it. I guess my main problem is that i try and learn about the girl too much early on as i can never really make my mind up if i like them or not. I should be just trying to bed them, but it doesn't work like that for me...
/r/seduction29/04/15 09:24 PM
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POF: The most active in my area, very basic but effective, and the one i've had the most luck with. OKCupid: MUCH better profiles, but far less girls.
/r/seduction25/04/15 09:26 AM
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Depends if you want to meet people by knowing a bit about them first or not. Not everyone is outgoing also, so what about girls who don't go out you might be interested in?
/r/seduction25/04/15 09:25 AM
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When you get to 30, you understand why 'old men' seek youth. I'm not saying i'd act on the impulses, but you don't suddenly get uninterested in young girls because you get older. If anything they are more desirable. I understand now why paedophiles exist (no i would never be one as i can suppress impulses, but there are those who can't). It's tough being a man! But yes, your point is valid. There wouldn't be much to talk about other than getting to know and hopefully sharing interests.
/r/seduction21/03/15 11:16 PM
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I'm in the same vote as OP except i'm 30. I came out of a 7 year relationship almost 2 years ago now, and i'm struggling to get past getting to know conversations. I just don't know how to come across as desirable, interesting or sexual. I've been told i'm decent enough looking, and i can seem to get attention from that, but i don't have the balls or the skill for dating.
/r/seduction20/03/15 11:25 AM
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The only right answer.
/r/seduction18/03/15 06:09 AM
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Thanks i love this response! I do still think though that the societal culture of today is a big part of it.
/r/seduction04/11/14 09:11 PM
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If the girl is like this, then i probably wouldn't bother with her. This is one of those stupid misconceptions, like men have to make the first move etc. "girls" expecting stuff from guys means the guy is going to be under pressure and it's probably going to be a shitty date from it. If both the girl and the guy alternate the 'asking', then both are more comfortable, and you learn the other persons expectations one step at a time. Being dominant is nice, but it comes at an expense.
/r/seduction03/11/14 09:23 PM
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I've had compliments with Calvin Klein - One before. It's pretty common though.
/r/seduction09/10/14 08:32 PM
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I know what you mean with the part about your type. My type is basically Evangeline Lilly (obviously not expecting her, but similar features). My ex looked a little bit like her - not as good, but still hot. For a personal win, i feel like i need to date someone hotter and better, but realistically, that's a tough ask! Damn my brain. Before my ex, i would have gone out with a 5/10, so much easier.
/r/seduction18/09/14 09:50 PM
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The biggest problem for you now? Being attracted to girls less attractive than her. It's been my bane for ages now. I think physical attraction is pretty important for most people.
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:21 PM
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I can get all lovey dove, i have been in a 7 year relationship after all. It's GETTING to that stage i am lost. I can't seem to get from 'General onversation' ----> 'I'm interested, your interested - lets get lovey'. If i get to there i think i'd be ok. Sometimes it's just incredibly hard reading a girl to see if their interested AND being a bit of a pussy with making a move doesn't help.
/r/seduction19/08/14 09:28 PM
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Even in person i do it though really, i find it hard sometimes as i always just seem to talk, and not make the next step. Probably from anxiety knowing it might backfire on me. Then they get bored and we chat less and less as there is little to talk about. Getting in early with meetings and taking the next step would be my goal for me next attempt i think.
/r/seduction19/08/14 09:24 PM
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I think getting those dates in at closer times is a very good point. I always seem to chat online too long to the point where interest is lost.
/r/seduction19/08/14 12:22 PM
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I have exactly the same problem, i could have written that word for word. Advice is for two now haha!
/r/seduction19/08/14 07:55 AM
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