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MINDSET SHIFTpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 12:00 AM
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RANTpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:42 PM
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REMINDER 👑pozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:18 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:45 PM
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NAH, SISpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:05 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:15 AM
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STAY WOKEpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:08 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:28 PM
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How-To High Valuepozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:04 AM
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PICKME CULTUREpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:01 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨pozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:30 AM
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DISCUSSIONpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:48 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:19 AM
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DISCUSSIONpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:36 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:52 PM
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DISCUSSIONpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:24 PM
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DISCUSSIONpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:49 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:40 PM
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DISCUSSIONpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:33 AM
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DISCUSSIONpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:55 PM
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DISCUSSIONpozzalovah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:04 AM
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Consistency!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 02:23 PM
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I am running with concept that if a man "admits " that he sucks then he does not fear losing you . If a guy like he usually doesn't want you to know that he is a loser so he will try his best to be the best out there .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 05:43 PM
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Idk where I heard this quote but I try to remind my self with this " I love you but I love me more " .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:21 PM
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Something really random ,but I once mentioned this to one FDS user and got downvoted even tho I was just advising...lol had to ventt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:05 AM
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His general advice is good but his advice toward just women is a bit biased honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:47 PM
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I don't get why she is tolerating this . Ik it may sound judgemental but what does she see in this guy for her to risk her life ...she even lost her own job .This is a FDS rescue mission .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:33 PM
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I see it as red flag .
/r/askFDS06/02/22 05:55 PM
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That is unlike him = his mask slipped . (Side note ,3 years +of a relationship without an engagement is a RED flag )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:54 PM
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In all honesty leave him ... if he was sane he would have blocked A ages ago .Any high value person would be creeped out by the presence of a creep .Only pickmes and LVM would tolerate such ppl .I personally wouldn't want to be with a person who won't protect me in a time that I am emotional vulnerable ESPECIALLY if its against a MAN. What is the use of having a partner if they are not going to have your back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:52 PM
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Random thought ,but i have noticed that men don't initiate anything anymore .its sad .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:40 PM
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Is it a sign of depression not wanting to look good ?Some days i just have the urge not to look good as in sometimes i wanna wear PJ to school .Is it some kind of self sabotaging thing ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:19 PM
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If a guy cared enough ,he would be scare that you would perceive him as stupid .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:43 PM
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Ask her to offer a threesom with a guy cuz she want him to have the most fun .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:38 PM
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Adopt a cat ! They can reach to an intelligence lecel of a 4 year old .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:49 PM
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Well atleast he is self aware .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:47 PM
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Exactly ,sometimes I find people who lack boundaries but I don't go out of my way to tale advantage of them .I have damn self control and Ik whats right and wrong .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:27 PM
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Wtf man .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:08 PM
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I felt like he was just saying "you are not like other girls " lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:06 PM
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I assume we are talking about the dog here .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:47 AM
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Look at him back tracking his words .lol She should let him bring in guest then serve a head of lettuce since he has no problem with whatever she serves .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 08:54 AM
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Good for her honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:50 PM
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Why does a child know a thing about this .like he is still a kid .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:48 PM
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Honestly ,If the guy is that busy ,he shouldn't be dating .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:27 AM
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Never settle tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:40 AM
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I use to correct ppl on my name but rn i just use it as a vetting strategy to distinguish ppl who actually care to know my name and what not .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:04 PM
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Ig he meant don't trust /don't believe loyalty lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:52 PM
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I always thought that there was something wrong with him honestly ,he has had the dead eyes look for a long time .Its sucks that the media painted Yolanda Hadid as the controlling one .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:34 PM
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Trust me ,it just depends on the ppl who practice the religion . You can't really judge the religion as long as there are women who find themselves in it . I've seen lots of exmuslims argue agains islam and push their ideologies down muslim women's throat as they have had experienced awful situations in regards to islam. That is why I don't advocate discussions in regard to this unless its from a neutral point of view ,which is honestly pretty rare .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:39 PM
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I feel like in regards to this we've got to respect each others religion no matter what .we have got into lot of arguments in regards to religion on FDS .so all in all respect what ppl believe in .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:16 PM
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This is my 3rd time seeing this post on this sub .WHY??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:52 PM
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The guys are not inteoverted but they are just not as invested .Even if they are ,you would someone who can lead the conversation or atleast puts an effort .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:38 PM
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Plz tell me that he got backlash .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:07 AM
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Block and delete babe !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:56 AM
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Well, it would be really high value of he for example was late 10 min to their date and that is just a flashy way for him to apologize but I doubt that tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:28 AM
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Here is the thing , marriage might be a big decision but it is a safe way to vet whether the guy is taking you seriously or not .plus ,you can always get engaged . ( plus consistant effort during the engagement )A Guy knows when you are the right person ,so why take the risk of being a forever gf .plus if you feel like you are not ready to get married yet I think a person should refrain from dating to avoid the whole forever gf tale .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:25 AM
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5 years is too long according to FDS standards .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:42 AM
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You can have a full -filling life without a guy .Friends and family can make you happy or even happier than any guy ever could .so don't over stress your self in regards to relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:24 PM
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He should be the one thinking of ways to break the ice not you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:33 AM
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I've read a comment in which mentioned that pornography is filled with human trafficking and other awful stuff and that a documentary about the said subject repulsed them and they stopped pornography. So ig there is hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:27 AM
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Gotta be proud when no lvm dares to text you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:40 PM
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Would love to see a HVW version!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:39 PM
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FDS IS AGAINST THIS. block and delete. Huge red flag honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:05 AM
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Honestly I just recommend you o either leave or contact the mod that's such a dangerous place /toxic to your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:41 PM
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A cheap price to vet whether he was a lvm or not and to find FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:09 PM
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Girl, I avoid women who are in relationships bcuz they re such pickmeshas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:45 AM
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Yea I agree with you! I don't find this a lv song honestly. It's just describing a relationship with 2 point of views and we get to know why the women left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:04 PM
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Honestly, these kind of posts kinda hurtled my feeling at first but after a while you get to the point where you know a guy liking you is not an accomplishment at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:04 AM
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Avoids confusion and low effort and fake intimacy like likes /comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:22 PM
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If I may ask, why haven't they gotten married till now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:44 PM
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i've read it as fire fighters and I was like do they expect women to stay in burning houses for their safety ... well at this point its the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:48 PM
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same with friendships guyss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:28 PM
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I love how the commenter was most probably trolling ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:03 AM
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So he is admitting that women can bring lots to the table right after saying women have no inherit value. Nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:52 PM
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The amount of red flags in this post is outstanding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:19 PM
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Block +delete
/r/askFDS20/08/21 08:58 PM
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Oh Yea I've noticed that... I thought he got over the red pill bs. Preach sounds nicer tho esp that he has a wife that he seems to appreciate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:46 PM
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Yea, I had to toughen my boundaries when I got my first job. All the crafted emails and speeches never works unless you follow through what you demand /consequences that you have mentioned that will happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:21 PM
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It feels like she is some kind of pet that he is keeping around lol. A toddler would have demand more... I honestly thought this was a troll account...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:56 PM
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"I love you but I love me more" "I love you but you gotta do more to convince me" " you are not actually alone, you have people/pets who love you and good food to keep you at company"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:08 PM
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Can I get an idea on why aba and peach are lvm cuz I've been watching some of their videos and now I am curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:49 PM
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Hv ppl are very difficult to meet. It's really rare for me to find women are high value. I still have a long way to go to consider my self HV, will still keep my standards hight tho. Hv is hard to find bcuz it's alot of affort, it's easier to stay lv. Maybe easier for men but with the societys pressure on women to be in a relationship women have to be pretty lv to take bs from lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:43 PM
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What I like to do is not to have any personal social media and if I do need to vet a guys/girls profile just use my pseudo account and stalk ppl / ask my friends about how their profile look. At this point having no sm helped me out to vet friends/ppl in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:21 PM
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Well I don't mention FDS to guys honestly, let them think whatever they want to think. We aren't here to convince the masses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:17 PM
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Oh Yea it took me long to realize if it's not a hell Yea then it's a hell no lol. Dating is not as complicated as many ppl think if you don't take bs like mixed signals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:07 AM
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Honestly, the whole concept of women not going 50/50 just bcuz she goes through pregnancy is a bit problamatic. It kinda insuniate that all a women is worth is giving birth... What if a women can't give birth or dosnt want to, should she go 50/50 then? I think we should go with, if you want me in your life don't expect a 50/50 deal. It is just a thought my mother pointed out. I am sure that this post didn't have this intent but we have to stop discussing what a women is bringing to the table. If…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:08 PM
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Lol when I read the fist part I was like this reminds me of Mathew and it turned out to be him lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:20 PM
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"unsanitary" yet he dives into the trashcan with his bare hand and unwraps stuff. Wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:22 PM
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He is scared that she will find someone who will treat her better thus convincing her to "dress down".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:51 PM
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It's a weird concept honestly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:54 PM
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I thought the point of this advice is that you should wear intact underwear as in not ripped etc just incase so the paramedics dosnt judge your socioeconomic status through them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 10:08 AM
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Yea I really hope that we as women level up so we can either force lvm out of existence or force them grow up. Unfortunately with the huge amount of pickmeshas/media and patriarchy it gonna take time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:06 AM
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Yea I totally agree the lv:hv ration is just depressing.That's why I personally don't put the effort into searching for a partner. If I was lucky enough find a partner then cool if not, cool too. I try to invest my time into cultivating my own happiness. I just use FDS to vet the average Joe in my life and potential dangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:05 AM
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Well it can be taken as victem blaming but I also advocate for Taking responsibility and vetting men and setting tough boundaries. Men are trash but we shouldn't make it easy for them to reach us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:13 AM
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The bar is so low...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:20 PM
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Yes that's true.some of the ppl ik will say things like atleast he is not a cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:59 AM
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Something random but, For some reason, I am the type of person who dosnt like meeting any of my friends bf as I can always see redflags and how NV they are...and I hate seeing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:53 AM
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He didn't care about her well being but cared about the house...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:30 PM
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I love it when they actually take your advice seriously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:17 AM
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What a beautiful love story, the love btw a pickemesha and a nvm. Ha, they make me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:30 PM
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I had this teenager who literally was dating a uni students and I told her several times to Stay away from men older than her by years. She once called me and ranted for 4 hours after "breaking up" with him and then told me an hour later that they are back. After that incidents I literally blocked her from my life. She is in a very toxic relationship but I've learned that it's non of my business. So ppl just want to live the role of the tragic hero with their one and only unique lv of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:49 PM
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Ha! Nice one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:42 PM
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I agree about the 19 thing. I honestly believe that we us women have to invest in ourselves for atleast 25 years but what can I say all this pickmeshas influences bombarding us from every corner. It's very unfortunate that the average young women is heavily influenced by pickemesha bs. I personally have friends with unhealthy relationships which is painful to watch... Well it was never an easy road to be a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:17 PM
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For some reason with friends I rarely confirm on the day of the outing. We pick a date and time confirm the day befor and we meet up at the scheduled timing. If one of us are going to be late we call befor hand and apologize. It's the basic decency honestly. If one of my friends turns out to not be coming suddenly without a real valid reason they aren't my friends anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:00 PM
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Thank uu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:57 PM
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Thank youu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:48 PM
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Is there a specific section talking about age gaps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:38 PM
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Thank you very much for your insight! I have been wondering about age gaps for a while!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:24 PM
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Thank you, so it more about the life style /finances. So a maximum of 2 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:58 PM
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I was waiting for the redemption arc where I expected her to say but I can't anymore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:48 PM
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What is the maximum age gap that is considered acceptable according to FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:45 PM
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Honestly, I never was convinced by this idea, my reply was always I wouldn't want to meet my said "soul mate" at a supermarket. Weird but my reply made sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:05 PM
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Yes this is a perfect post. + if you can't stop your self when you hear stories about your friends LVM just tell them directly that you don't want to listen to these stories unless they want some advice. It may sound a bit mean, but that's how I preserve my energy.. As sometimes I just can't kindly listen to ppl in toxic relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:03 PM
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Yes
/r/askFDS24/07/21 08:29 PM
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Thank you honestly, your message has put me at ease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:59 PM
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Well are you an Islamic scholar to be so aware of the ins and the outs of a religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:15 PM
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Hey, you gotta respect peoples religion. You can't go to India for instance ask them why do they find the cow Holly. I do not condone violence, and any sane person does not like violence so don't speak to me as if I am ignorant and preaching that violence is okay. My main point is, unless they ask you for advice don't come and preach that their religion is wrong. This was suppose to be a friendly discussion but you are here attacking my beliefs as it does not align with yours. What makes you dif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:14 PM
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Honey, with all due love and respect. If you are indeed convinced with what you believe you don't need to argue and convince other people with your beliefs. You can not go around and ask these kind of question toward people, that disrespectful. Religion and moral codes are boundaries that one should not cross unless is advice is seeked from you. I am sure you are in deep pain but this is not how you should cope with the said pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:09 PM
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To be honest with you, as I said befor, you have the freedom to believe in whatever you want and that applies to me too. As much as FDS have taught me to conserve my energy I will refrain from any further discussions of this topic. Just make sure to spread love and not argue on the basis religion and morals as we all have worked hard to find our truth in life. Xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:05 PM
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Well the thing is he did not get marry out of lust but because God have asked him to do so. If you check the status of these women, some were widows, divorcee and women of power. 2nd, about the striking part, if you do read about it you will notice how ppl has misinterpreted this part and how they take advantage of this verse and hit women immensely. I am not here to push my beliefs on you honestly, I just wanted to clarify the parts of the religion that has been tainted by the hands of misagony…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:55 PM
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Is it only me who felt a bit uncomfortable that he took a video while she was in the comfort of her home... Like I feel like he could have given her the gift when they were outside together or something..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:17 PM
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By differentiating btw cultural and actual Islamic values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:15 PM
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Well wow same. I would like look at a male model and just appreciate how pretty they look and move on. I have pretty much emotionally distanced myself from everything in life and just think "logically" as in prioritizing my self and my needs . I would just keep my guards down with my girlfriends and family members. I think you might find it weird bcuz society tells us that women are emotional blah blah so maybe we kept ourself emotionally available to everything in life. FDS generally have allow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:21 PM
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Well Yea I will accept the capacity of said relationship by blocking lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:58 PM
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I had this pickme friend who would vent to me for hours about her bf and then go back to him in 2 hours not even a day!! An HOUR. So I just stopped responding to her texts and have decided that I won't be receiving any calls from her. My life is already drama free I am not going to be allowing this bs into my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:57 AM
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I love how he gaslighted her into thinking that she is not young young at 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:51 AM
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Honestly, move on... You just know this guy for a month. Why the hassle.
/r/askFDS20/07/21 03:59 PM
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I just watched the movie today and I honestly liked how the movie wasn't objectifying the women much. One thing that bothered me is that they always had perfect makeup on? But maybe they compensated this by mentioning how black widow is over the top in poses? That bit was funny. but for some reason I didn't connect to the character, I didn't feel an emotional connection with them. I am not sure whether it's bcuz I I don't follow the marvel franchise much but it just felt a bit weird I didn't fee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:11 PM
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I am not sure about the word you are talking about, but the word I used is written as "u za i".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:23 PM
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There is this japanease word called "ウザい" which roughly translates to annoying. That is what I felt while reading these messages. So in conclusion if a guy is whiny af just block him lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:58 PM
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The only time you might "change" a guy is to have high standards and have the ability to just leave at the first sight of a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:54 PM
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He is low key admitting that he is not a man...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:27 AM
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Unless it's a debate, I would go on to say "okay" and just move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:24 AM
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The thing, even tho it sounds so simple and dum, just don't look at other women... And try to focus on your issues through a therapist /self help books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:23 AM
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Oh that's some kind of negging technique lvm do to attract you lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:08 PM
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The thing I learned is that sometimes you gotta just let go and don't care anymore. I've got several mild pickmeshas who I adviced several times and tbh when I got the memo that they want live through the role of the tragic hero and their lover I kinda stopped caring and emotionally distanced my self. Even though it sucks to be able chat your friends up, I deserve ppl with the same energy I give out and honestly I don't like having pickmeshas friends cuz they piss me off. So all in all let go. +…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:00 AM
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You gotta start loving ppl who geniunly love u.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:29 PM
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Well I am still not aware of how many years is considered an age gap, but I have noticed that you have not mentally leveled up. The thing about FDS is that you must be okay with being single forever so that you don't find your self in a situation here you rush into a relationship /put the man on a pedestal. Try taking a break from dating for a while and concentrate on your self you just have been out of a relationship + you must use OLD, FDS is against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:51 PM
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If I am being honest the Islamic culture is pretty toxic compared to what the religion it self preaches. Second why is she not saying men and women why bring the girls into this. 3rd... Well, respect is deserved honey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:08 PM
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Generally speaking, this sub dislikes age gaps and if I am being honest I don't get why he has told you that he has this specific disease... Is he thinking of making you his take carer?Because if I have a certain disease that is non infectious I would manage it by my self mostly/wouldnt want to throw the responsibly on someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:06 PM
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She is a pickemesha ig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:47 PM
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How is 10 years age appropriate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:23 PM
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From the first few sentences, he has transformed you into his therapist, if he is an actual hvm he would have not been dating rn.trust your guts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:21 PM
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Block and delete, cuz its just going to keep on becoming worse.
/r/askFDS08/07/21 12:14 AM
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I love the nameee, welcome home Regina!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:52 AM
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When a girl likes a boy but decides she does not Wan a relationship bcuz she want to focus on her self. When a start puyto g boundaries and cuts toxic ppl out her life. When a girl realize that being alone dosnt equate loneliness and it's actually dosnt suck. When a girl starts a small business cuz she just wants some money. A girl who realize that sometimes you can't save someone and that it's not her responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:49 AM
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Thank you for mentioning it, I too thought that her comment was toxic af it made me doubt for a sec there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:45 AM
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If we follow their logic we will start giving drugs to drug addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:27 PM
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Block and delete.
/r/askFDS06/07/21 09:07 PM
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When in doubt block
/r/askFDS05/07/21 01:51 PM
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something interesting I have discovered is the fact that men KNOW when you are out of their league and they will think there is something wrong with you even if you merely even talk to them/associate your self with them .moral of the story :keep your standards high and it will keep the dust away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:54 AM
50

FDS really did help us to put boundaries and amplify our own voices that has been toned down by patriarchy. We are now able to cater and listen to our need and wants and trust our guts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:33 AM
124

Something so random but for many years I disliked the idea of marriage because of the duties "expected" from a women like cooking, cleaning etc and I honestly hated the fact that I was just expected to do everything so I had always avoided the idea. After FDS and other level up communities, interestingly enough I am more open with the idea of marriage as I have higher standards now and i won't be accepting a life style that would be so inconvenient... It's like if I had to do this cleaning and c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:03 AM
86

Nobody told men not to wear makeup tho lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:42 PM
89

It's so weird that in society it celebrated when you turn "player" as in a man hoe into a husband while it's stigmatized when turning a women who fools around to a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:42 PM
8

Honestly, I've always look really young but I started taking myself seriously and carrying my self better. It work. A tip of mine is how you carry the conversation. Talk in a calm and slow manner with a low voice (in contrast to high pitched voice)+and walk slowly too .+ use how you look to your advantage, if guy says that you look young and starts to persue take it as hint to be cautious. And honestly I embrace how I look... Like I ain't going to change how I look for no man. If a person dosnt …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:13 AM
4

It's not your fault babe, lvm have been always creepy toward all women. 2nd, you need to level up your mindset, having a certain feature want attract a hvm, what attract a hvm is how you carry your self, how you prioritize your self and how in love you are with your self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:06 AM
5

Random thought, I still remeber when someone mentioned that if a guy listens to Jordan peaterson or Joe Rogen, I have to run. RUN I did When the guy who was interviewing me mentioned Jordan lol. No job is worth a toxic place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:42 AM
4

Block, Ignore. Out of sight, out of mind. I stopped incorporating any guys opinion unless its someone in my family I trust and respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:12 PM
29

the issue here is the fact that its not even a sigh, its a whole raging concert of sirens .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:20 PM
3

Well, they think it sounds so "cooool".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:16 AM
3

:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:40 PM
11

Are they aware that actual hvm wouldnt be dating very young women... Like they are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:18 PM
9

Agh man, why does ppl like being toxic like it's weird af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:04 PM
21

Honestly I will never get why it's common for women to have the "captain save a ho syndrome". You never see this bs with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:03 PM
44

I bet you that she is the only one romantisizing this whole bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:49 PM
21

Well the fact you feel embarrassed means that you have changed /leveled up, so good for you girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:25 PM
10

Righttt, even the pretty Privilege bs.... Like I honestly don't see it man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:30 AM
18

It's even scarier when they don't even "settle" they geniunly find those men attractive..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:28 AM
16

I like this bit where she is like I don't want my husband to be judged for being an house husband while she is low key shading women if they do choose to be stay at home wives lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:59 AM
17

I didn't know it was rule in the handbook, but honestly even b4 knowing that it was a rule, I instinctively knew that there is something inherently wrong with marrying vry young and having children.... Like its just a bit weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:57 AM
13

Talk to your friend about an imaginary hvm of a friend of yours. She will eventually notice what she is missing.
/r/askFDS26/06/21 06:50 PM
49

Well if he was able to make you feel loved for a month and the next not enough that means his mask is slipping. He is not HV girl. It's like he is already not afraid to lose you.
/r/askFDS21/06/21 12:10 AM
4

You shouldn't be talking with him tho... The age gap is huge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:46 PM
3

In the defence of the 2nd quote. I have given this as an advice to women befor and I do believe it have been misinterpreted by many as it truly sounds victem blaming. What I mean when I mention the 2nd quote is that you may be the one who have poor boundaries, the one who accept the bare minimum from ppl thus I advice you to check your self. I mention this in the context of men already being shitty and there is no denial in this. I just felt the urge to write this bcuz I have been down voted by …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:36 PM
9

It's not a high value thing for him to do to ask you to pick a place. He is already not making an effort. A smart thing to do is to just agree that you will pick a place, then don't send or text him anything. If he later on asks you why you haven't mentioned the place just say you didn't have time. If he takes the initiative to find the place this time cool, of not give it a block. He is already slacking man, so please don't assume whatever he is doing as HV
/r/askFDS19/06/21 02:28 PM
17

cool concept but they are still objectifying themselves and the video is taken through the male gaze .liberal feminism is weird af .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:21 PM
2

best thing ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:38 PM
2

let me just say that the husband is in love with her wife and he is just jealous that he cant pull her.The wife seems sane i hope they get divorce soon honestly .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:55 PM
10

some quotes (more of mental dialogue ) that helped me stay out of bs : I love you but i love me more . God ik I am amazing but you've lost your chance boo. its fine to feel nostalgic but I shouldn't act on y impulses ,I am a HVW. leave me alone you rodent . I will get me a HVM this time . if i am being honest with you ,you've gotta be honest with your self and move on .You know that this dude is just doing this for a show .He did not change and if you do actually stay he will lose more respect a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:48 AM
41

It's would be nice if you share it with us here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:43 AM
9

Jonah hills himself dosnt even like his own movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:45 PM
2

how about recording whatever insult he does and keep reporting it the HR. IG when they see you coming frequently they will eventually do something. Cuz if I am being honest he seems like a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:02 PM
4

Curious tho. What is the acceptable age gap and condition in which a relation ship may work /not problamatic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:38 AM
4

Oh man such a roller-coaster, I was waiting for a redemption ark. Let's hope she finds FDS soon enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:12 PM
1

Well atleast he asked women for their opinion this time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:05 PM
30

Esp if the guys is truly a "neuro scientist".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:04 PM
1

Whatever the reason is, we shouldn't have empathy for them. As they feed of that and eventually abuse us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:49 PM
49

I have this habit of looking at the age since entering this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:39 AM
37

If I think about, they were pretty much FDS lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:36 AM
23

....... He did what.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:35 AM
101

She is and looks like a child. I don't get it man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:06 AM
149

It really weird tbh. Like one side would say it's empowering but why is it empowering tho?? Like why was her being modest /wear baggy clothe not empowering enough? Lots of ppl be like she just changed her style /trying new things...but you are appealing to the male gaze. The issue is that we as women literally need to ask our selves why are we doing this as we are severely influenced by patriarchy. It's like cool you are trying to be sexy... But from where did you get this definition of sexy and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:39 AM
6

Let's hope that she is going through the 7 stages of grieve and moves on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:30 PM
12

I kinda was in the same situation few week ago. I just told my friend to not talk about her guy unless she needs advice from me bcuz I don't want to "ruin" things for her. I did this cuz 1) she already knows my opinion on the guy so when she does come to me for advice she will actively listen then 2) won't waste my time or energy 3) we can remain friends as she is a good friend other than her taste in men. All we can do is to provide the tools for leveling up, we can't force them to use the said…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:27 PM
5

I never got the bad childhood part, like Ik ppl who had vry rough childhoods but they never lay hands on anyone.. They are even more aware of there actions bcuz they fear they may be abusive subtly. Like it's just bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:47 PM
0

Well damn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:33 PM
10

A honest question tho, was donkey a better husband to his dragon wife than Shrek was to Fiona?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:16 AM
12

Till when are we going to tolerate the bare minimum?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:16 AM
3

Studying mannn, I've got to honestly keep up my lectures so I can graduate in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:12 AM
2

Ask him to do it with a man, see how he reacts lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:10 AM
5

Well damn. Thanx for explaining btw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:25 PM
3

I was just wondering what that stands for lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:00 PM
3

Omg..... Can't he even act like a decent person?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:56 PM
1

Best thing to do is to be that FDS cool role model. Treat her well, speak to her about your positive experience with men whom were hv. Show her how much you are confident and enjoy your life. Make her ask you question, be indirect as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:57 PM
1

Oh cool thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:52 PM
13

Yea, that why I learned to just leave. Don't have energy to solve anything esp with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:52 PM
45

Tbh I do thing we do experience more rejection as we get the the hint that the person is not interested even tho if it's subtle while men don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:55 PM
4

Oh cool that makes sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:31 PM
8

So does the compliment thing also apply to hvm? Cuz I can get around the other stuff but really even compliments? Cuz I geniunly like to compliment ppl who generally don't give me red flags..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:13 PM
3

What is a plate???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:08 PM
1

I've heard this story and it broke me tbh... Even her own family doubted her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:31 PM
1

How does one become a HVW tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:04 PM
2

Tbh, I wear being intimidating as a badge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:00 PM
6

A good webtoon is your throne , man the Mc is such a badass woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:32 AM
2

Honestly, good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:29 PM
3

Lol honestly, I am glad the cat is with her. He be helping her vet those men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:04 PM
4

Well most probably he was fooling around . He can say that he follows Islam and everything but fool you as most probably you are not aware of the rules in the islamic religion and that's normal. +in islam its permitted for an Muslim man to marry a non Muslim women if she was either Jewish or Christian (the abrahamic relegions). If he was a true religious man he would have been honest with you from the start and become engaged to you in no time. An advice for the future is to make sure to be awar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:19 PM
4

Interestingly enough,its forbidden to date in the first place in islam so that's an instant red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:35 PM
3

That's actually smart, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:56 AM
2

Rand question, what is the difference between being offended because of lack of self esteem and being offended because of lack of respect bcuz I tend to confuse those 2 sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:04 PM
3

I was going to say he should have not compared him self to to the guy cuz each of us need to find our own unique comfort zone then saw the edit where I found out he is blaming his life style on his ex fiance.... Lol nvm be weird af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:02 AM
12

Microagressions of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:09 AM
3

Hahahaha saw that video, I was like he is still wearing the pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:48 PM
8

WTF???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:21 PM
141

Lol the only gd thing she said is take up space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:48 PM
8

How much was the age of consent befor then???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:02 PM
1

I thought he was being sarcastic at first lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:06 AM
2

..... :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:50 PM
12

Is this a skit? Please tell me that this is a skit..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:26 PM
3

Why is she mothering him lol. He is probably happy af for making 2 women "fight" for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:33 PM
42

I am glad Liza and David broke up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:29 PM
9

What do you mean supportive??? Even her husband called the man a pedophile?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:53 PM
19

Haahhah same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:16 PM
12

she just said addicted, addiction ain't good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:57 AM
14

Ohh, thanx!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:19 PM
19

I am sorry but what does Mena stands for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:43 PM
9

My theory is that they romantisize and want to be the one and only girl the killer would be kind to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:44 PM
6

Well damn, I am in the exact same situation.... And this just causes me so much stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:03 AM
5

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:56 AM
7

Damnn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:51 AM
9

Why are they so obsessed with women tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:38 AM
-2

I agree with you tho...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:13 PM
12

Damn can't believe that I would see radwa El Sherbeny here! This women is an Egyptian icon who teaches FDS tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:38 AM
1

Plz tell Me that she is okay..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:55 PM
6

Cuz they themselves are almost always narcissistic and disrespectful toward women. They are literally exposing themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:47 PM
10

I am glad he got Backlash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:40 PM
1

Damn, I thought the post said she was 19 and he was 18... Well I guess I can't expect much from men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:27 PM
5

I bet he is asking her whether she is okay or not so when she conforts him later on he would be like but I asked you if u r ok.like geniunly tho... The girl was not okay wth man m
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:21 PM
9

Omg yes! I tried to listen to her music but the lyrics were just awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:01 PM
21

Convinience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:02 PM
8

Well damn, men be sneaky af, wth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:54 PM
17

In the past I used to think this was a good idea but at this point of my life I am like why even bother being in a relationship if this is going to be a transactional type of business, like why keep counts whether I did this or not. I'd rather stay single and do my own thing and live comfortable with my own income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:52 PM
12

Exactlyyy. Lvm will now know how to act hv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:46 PM
29

Well cool thing she is nice but we've gotta keep in mind that we can't help everyone . We've gotta take responsibility for our own actions and grow. There are communities dedicated to self help for free. We give our kindness to ones who cherish us as much as we cherish them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:36 PM
80

Well we ain't here to fix or build men are we.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:30 PM
52

Pay and ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:27 PM
65

So they are aware that trauma is the root of kinks..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:14 PM
2

I've got a random question tho... I've heard that she discriminates against Muslims. Is it true?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:18 PM
-7

Well Obv you are the common factor. Youve gotta start setting boundaries and vett friends as much as you vett guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:33 PM
6

Well Obv you are the common factor. Youve gotta start setting boundaries and vett friends as much as you vett guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:20 PM
15

That walk date was an enough of a warning lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:17 PM
2

Never heard of this bs. WTF is wrong with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:32 AM
11

Well I hope it's a man, cuz the pickme phenomena is just bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:44 PM
74

WTF.... What kind of trauma did she go through to spew this bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:17 PM
1

Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:27 PM
7

Your friendship with your friend sounds adorable. I really adore how you guys communicate and understand each other. This was really helpful :). Thanx again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:28 AM
3

Thank you, this was really insightful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:35 AM
11

Does this apply to friendships too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:09 AM
125

Notice that he didn't say marry but get pregnant...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:35 PM
3

Love this, thanx.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:48 AM
11

Damn thats great to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:58 AM
2

Damn he is resenting her hard man. Even a toddler wouldn't need this much attention lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:57 AM
20

Well personally I think it depends on what genre of anime the person is watching and how frequent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:33 PM
3

Thanx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:33 PM
20

Did someone link her to FDS or gave her some sound advice cuz I am geniunly worried :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:37 PM
2

I feel like men will change when they see that their old ways won't work on anyone anymore thus reevaluating their choices and having no other r choice than to change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:19 AM
125

It feels like she is training a dog...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:07 PM
3

Am I wrong hereee??? Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:45 AM
1

If you can, can you tell me the story of amber?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:37 PM
8

Can't believe it's considered as flirting somewhere lol... That's just plain disrespect. Thanx for replying btw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:02 AM
8

What is negging if i may ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:30 PM
40

Tbh I feel like both parties are just weird af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:54 AM
10

Mother's shouldn't suffer either tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:31 AM
4

I just stare at them to examine how clueless they are tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:29 AM
2

Many things start to make sense rn..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:27 AM
8

Exactly! But whats wrong with aging tho... It's a like something which happens to us all. Why can't I be a women with wrinkles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:43 AM
3

Ain't this true tho...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:40 AM
33

Why does it matter even if we do hit a wall. Nobody ever complained about men hitting the wall b4 that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:03 PM
30

So the guy is over compensating that fact that he is a closet sexist human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:45 AM
22

I don't go around men and say that I am a femenist so that they don't take that in consideration and tweak their words around me. I am a proud femenist but I won't let a man fool me through words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:43 AM
6

Oh I already do that tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:23 AM
8

WTF I am speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:54 PM
17

Aha, makes sense. Thanx for replying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:08 PM
40

Why do they do this tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:12 PM
5

Omg and I was here being like what kind of field is mixology....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 08:00 PM
0

Oh, okay. If that's your opinion it's okay! I do hope that you have a great day! Sending you love. Please do care about your choice words tho as they can be misleading. Have a great day, cheers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:33 PM
1

Yess exactly, especially because of the fact that culture itself are more loose toward men and more strict toward women. It was really great discussing with you, I will be sending you love ~ cheers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:29 PM
0

You just had called Islam an oppressive relegion and that's shaming someone for being in a relegion that you perceive as oppressive. As I said many times it okay that you are against one religion but you shouldn't degrade the people who choose to foow the said religion. Anyways I am tired of this whole discussion, I hope that you have a great day and I will be sending you love! Cheers ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:05 PM
2

Yess, Thank you very much for pointing this out! Plus the Islamic relegion is against pornography and masturbation as FDS, and has mentioned its many negative aspects!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:56 PM
3

I am sorry that you have went through those awful events but I am just going to comment on the edit as just a simple Google reserch will tell you that it's actually fault and no where in the the Holly book is mentioned that you are going to meet 72 virgin women etc and it's actually fallsly created when the whole suicide for God to meet 72 virgins brainwashing statement was made to convince Muslims to do the whole suicide thing. Furthermore,in islam, if the man or women are not married when they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:15 PM
1

Can you link me where it's said the women are lesser than men and in the hadith it did say women are made from mens rib but it can be interpreted literally or as in women must be caring or protective as a rib is to a heart. (btw thank you for being nice). About inheritance here is a link :https://www.dar-alifta.org/foreign/ViewArticle.aspx?ID=120&. About the covering up, it's more about being modest and it's done for God not for avoiding harrastement and men are asked to put their gaze down. And…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:11 PM
1

Omg sis, I am aware that you are not a dude. Can you link me a website which supports your opinion then, would love to read it. I am not going to push you into a relegion you don't agree with (as it's not in the Islamic value to do so nor my own personal values) but you shouldn't shame women or men that believe in that certain relegion as that's is not HVW vibe nor a nice thing to do. Have a nice day, cheers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:41 PM
1

Dude, the quaran contains a sura named after virgin Mary (who is a women) and there is non named after a man . Plus, Islam must be taught through the Quran and the teachings of the prophet Muhammed not the texts alone as it can be interpreted differenty according the reader. Islam can not be taught directly from the Quran as words that are translated directly holds different meaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:35 PM
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Oh, so now I am cherry picking. Well aren't you doing the same then. By choosing the argument that support the fact that women are oppressed. May I ask what is sexist about my reply? If you talking about the part where men is suppose to provide, isn't this one of the principles in FDS? You asked me whether I've read the Quran and hadith and I answered yes. I am aware that the teaching of Islam may be biased according to where it's taught as the curriculum tends to be different from one country t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:25 PM
-2

Yes I did. Here is a link on some of the ways Islam have empowered women :https://www.arabnews.com/islam-perspective/news/896806 An a point I remeber that in FDS ask the man to pay for everything and in islam it is required from the men to supply every need of a women, and if she does contribute its seen as a charity work. Unfortunately, not all Muslim men abide by this rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:14 PM
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I am really sorry that you went through this but I can assure you that Islam does impower women. Unfortunately people (mostly men) take the parts they want from the religion (especially the you can get married to 4 but fail to rember that the women need to consent or it's not allowed and that it was allowed when women and children were left behind as in their men were killed in war so to provide them with protection etc) and dismiss the parts where women needs to be respected and cherished. One …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:49 AM
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Believe what he says and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:38 AM
1

Tbh the whole situation seems messy and it's seems like both of them hold resentment for each other and that's unhealthy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:52 PM
4

It's more about teaching them common decency smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:28 PM
19

This made my day lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:39 PM
3

Uk being an electrician or a plumber is a respectable job and they fail to understand that we as women don't look down upone those jobs but we are aware that the level of education and many other factors does affect the success of a relationship. Plus,why is this man ranting about a so called issue that we are unable to find a partner to settle down like nah man you are just asking us lower our standards as other pointed out so you can find an educated women to marry smh. Men who are electrician…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:50 PM
1

She was a bit masagonistic tbh not gonna lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:53 PM
31

Tbh love for me is all what is mentioned above, if anything is missing then it's not love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:00 PM
6

WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:49 PM
6

HE WANTS HER TO CARRY IT UPSTAIR WHE PREGNANT??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:13 AM
12

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:08 AM
5

That's disrespectful af plus he doesn't care whether she is get hurts or not. Why is she with himmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:04 AM
6

This is such a beautiful reply! Plz keep on spreading positivity and don't be discouraged when r/niceguys down vote.
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:56 AM
1

I am in the same boattt, I just realized that one of my friends are a pickme.... Tbh being alone is not bad and it's easier. Go alone with all confidence and belive that you will mind hv friends in your journey. Agh I just realized some of the pickme stuff rubbed on me and I was pissed af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:06 AM
4

I thought it was a joke omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:04 AM
16

Such a beautiful psa tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:02 AM
3

Congratulations baeee, I am genuinely happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:24 PM
7

Smh, this is geniunly messy af. But it proves that women are not seen as human but a thing that pops baby out smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:21 AM
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Aha, that's really interesting. Never have thought that the word kind or sweet may have this dark aspect behind it. Thank for taking the time to reply. I really appreciate this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:54 AM
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Take a break from dating. The fact that you are afraid of being alone means that you are not yed in the right FDS mindset Concentrate on your self and level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:21 AM
12

I think I may be having a stroke but how is 3*0=3??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:19 AM
25

Men who complain about height are not confident literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:29 AM
12

Hope that they broke up. That women probably doesn't know that she doged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:28 AM
5

Is it the same with women tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:24 AM
30

Wow, the amount of manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:23 AM
11

Well I think it depends on the reason why he gives you this compliment. Let's say he sees you offen helping the homeless, stray animals and kind to the waiters for instance so he may call you a kind person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:22 AM
5

lol such a drama queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:03 PM
17

Lol at first I was like oh maybe he is offering a tennis related date then I was like oh of course. Those lvm never seem to fail to surprise me smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:54 PM
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Why are there this amount of inhumane toxic men, I am sure there are toxic women too but it's not as common. And when I see "nice guys" I don't see "nice girls" who feel entitled as the nice guys. But there are pickmesh girl who would provide lots of service, as money, love, etc. Like why are women always giving and men taking its just so weird to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:14 AM
5

Make sure to like someone who likes you and like someone you like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:10 AM
3

Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:07 AM
3

She has such queen energy. I love that she didn't hesitate to do this infront of ppl etc.. But I wonder if she didn't see redflags b4 that or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:05 AM
3

That's means 62% of women has in some way been abused in their past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:59 PM
2

Me understand why my own father never noticed anything when I chopped my hair in half lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:57 PM
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The line where it's says let me know if you are cool with that indicated that he is testing your standards /boundaries. Don't go over his place and reschedule. Little rain doesn't cause restaurants to close smh. If he goes let him go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:34 PM
3

Omg, this is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:59 PM
12

When was being a wolf a good thing lol. They are always the deceivers and they always lie. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:38 PM
5

This just called me out. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:47 AM
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And we are emotional they would call us crazy. Lol they are the ones who be crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:45 AM
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Tru, haven't done that since middle school smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:04 PM
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I don't get why women put themselves in those kind of situation tho... Like you deserve way better :( plus the drawing of the ring was ugly smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:41 PM
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:( 7 month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:36 PM
3

Going anywhere in the world and dressing in whatever outfit I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:27 PM
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Thanx for replying. Your reply was just so interesting, I am going to check out the Anna Duggar case. And yes they are as brainwashed and uneducated unfortunately. Its just so unfortunate tho, they have the internet to seek answers yet they decide to stay ignorant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:41 AM
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Well that's an interesting perspective tbh and I am sure part of the women above are comfortable. But it's just weird that women who would have everything would preach to revoke other womens right. If you are living a comfortable life wouldn't you want other to live a confortable one too? Needless to say they lack education on this subject. I've seen women who just aimlessly get a job (not aiming for a career) , get married to a lvm just bcuz that's what society tells them to do and I don't thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:25 PM
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This is just too sad. Imagine what kind of shit they went through to degrade themselves to this point... I pray for a better future...They are literally killing themselves with their own hands and dragging us with them smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:38 PM
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And they say that we are not oppressed any more smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:32 PM
8

Never thought I would see a rl dead person lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:23 AM
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Omg yes that's true, it's like we are extentions that they can manipulate and do whatever they want with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:54 AM
2

That's makes total sense..... And it's really sad... I hope more awareness about healthy relationships are spread and I am really proud of you for consciously putting effort to stay away from bad relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:53 AM
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It's really creepy af when grown ass men call themselves boy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:10 PM
14

Why do people tend to claim that someone loves them even tho they treat them really bad. I literally hear women say that even tho he disrespect me /beat me etc he still loves me and I love him too. Like???? What is this twisted definition of love. Human beings are a mess smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:07 PM
9

It's just 3 hours of class. What is he doing the rest of the day??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:01 AM
2

Nah, you good sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:45 PM
1

That's a way to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:07 PM
10

Oh that's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:46 AM
20

I admit the girl seems to be a bit of pickmesh vibe, but I just wanted to share the good part of the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:09 AM
15

But isn't it a trait tho, the flair is how to, as in steps to reach hv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:23 AM
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Well what I took from the post was to be with someone who is afraid to takes risk cuz that will just Inc the probability of losing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:19 AM
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My point was the person who is hv must not take risk to upset you bcuz if he did he would have the risk to lose you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:18 AM
3

Well I can't help that much as the other commenters but all I just want to say that I am proud of you for seeking professional help! And keep in mind that he is suppose to make you feel safe around him not you. So you don't need to give excuses. If you do feel safe, great! If not, that means there is probably something u are picking upone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:23 AM
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Well that was eye opening, thanx for taking the time to answer my question. Hope that you have a great day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:37 PM
11

What do you consider as subtle cruelty/arrogance tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:39 PM
3

Rarely yells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:33 PM
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It's as if they want to strip every humane aspect of women just to see her as an object so they don't feel guilty when they abuse us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:27 PM
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Bcuz men don't see us as human and pickme get influenced by those men and stop seeing women as human too. In summery they both objectify women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:24 PM
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She sounds amazing, she does deserve better :( can i ask a question tho, why doesn't she leave him, especially if she is the bread winner? And again please shower her with compliment on my behalf! Tell her that she is the most beautiful being to ever exist in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:11 PM
1

It's okay if you believe so but do know that your way of thinking will put you in awful situations. Second, your statement is offensive toward girls whom are naturally thin. It's an attack toward them, so please keep those kind of opinions to your self if you have no will to change your way of thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:22 PM
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This is really sad.... I want all women to feel pretty and appreciated... I hope your mom is doing good and please shower her with compliments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:57 PM
3

I just laughed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:31 PM
12

The accuracy tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:59 AM
4

I am proud of you, I am genuinely proud. You've come a long way. And that line where you mentioned that you've learned from her what to not be shook me to my core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:57 PM
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Never knew that it was this normalized.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:55 PM
5

That's sounds delightful. You should sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:54 PM
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I am sure she is proud of you as I am very proud. You've come a long way and you deserve to feel good. Try to mention your mother from time to time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:24 AM
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I am really proud of youu on her behalf girll. Seriously, you've come a long way. Please mention her in your prayers from time to time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:26 AM
15

That's unfortunate, well, shout out to those ladies for leveling up even while having abusive parents!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:23 AM
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lol that's a way to see it. But what I meant was that some men deliberately wash the dishes in a bad way so they don't have to wash them again and to force you to do house chore bcuz you are just "better" at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:38 PM
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Aren't those rare. I hope you guys stay friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:40 AM
2

Yess exactly, guy friends are really rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:13 AM
21

I am interested to read if you are free to write!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:40 AM
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It looks so innocent but the meaning behind is abusive unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:39 AM
35

Well wow, that's some low level man sh*t. Glad to hear that he is your ex now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:35 AM
3

Why are guys just so weird, even the one who are just friends. I kinda came to the conclusion that befriending a guy is just impossible. There will be always most probably ulterior motives. A friend of mine who didn't text me for a long time just texted me out of the blue and asked about how I was doing. Even tho it sounds Innocent enough I can't shake the feeling that there is something behind it... Anyone feeling the same way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:33 AM
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Amen sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:08 AM
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Why are we suppose to take responsibility that men us find intimidating. Like wth, why are they so obsessed with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:10 PM
1

Why is she so concerned with parents decision of choosing the baby sitter???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:07 PM
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Well they lower your self esteem to a point where you think you don't deserve better and date them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:01 PM
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Well from experience f riends tend to give bad advice without any ill - intention as they too get emotional as they are your friends. I am sure you will eventually become the great women you want to be so dw. And I am proud of you for taking steps to initiate change!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:47 PM
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Same here I had at first felt resitence when experiencing this sub first but after a while I've went through those emotion and I am fine rn. It takes time but you will be okay eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:34 PM
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You better block that lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:21 PM
10

No honey that's not how men work. Men consider even bad attention as attention so he will see u as needy.you just need to back off, the fact that he is being cold means that you showed some needy behaviors or found another girl. Just stay cold and when he does text don't respond just enjoy the ego boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:21 PM
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Everything will be fine, I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:34 PM
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Just give him radio silence too. Don't block him, I promise he will send you a message eventually just make sure when he does, you see it and not respond. Don't answer anything for a week uk. I am sure your poem is really pretty and I would love to read it! Try to enjoy your day and as we all know men suck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:33 PM
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I always remind myself that people only accept love that they think they deserve. And the fact that you were just more loving. It ain't your fault that he is a mean person. We can not change the past bit we can change what it meant. Forgive your self and learn something from the experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:56 PM
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This is creepy af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:44 AM
2

If this isn't truth idk what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:30 AM
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I am really proud of you sis! Keep moving toward your ideal life. Wishing you best of luck. Xoxox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:42 PM
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I used to listen to his videos and find it boring and I thought I had a low attention span . I am glad I saw this comment made me feel normal lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:14 AM
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Why are men so concerned about us so much, don't they have anything better to do?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:59 AM
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If you find your own life exciting and fun then you've reached your goal.
/r/seduction02/09/20 06:04 PM
4

This is just so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:27 PM
19

Why in hell are the celebrities bullying the girl not that creepy guy?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:18 PM
10

r/niceguys lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:55 AM
30

Amen sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:30 PM
46

Thank you for your positivity and kindness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:27 PM
25

This kind of comment makes me genuinely happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:36 PM
71

Omg yes! I totally agree especially those "nice guys"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:42 PM
2

Oh thanx, would give it a try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:24 PM
11

Look at hot guys online and you will realize he is not that hot/not the only handsome guy in the world. And you should face the fear of being alone. Cuz if u r fine being alone it wouldn't matter to u if he is handsome or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:45 AM
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Oh is it a page where I can ask questions or are there resources I can read which can help me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:40 AM
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A genuine question tho, does this apply to all situation when the person comments on the outfit for example for a specific occasion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:42 PM
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The fact that she is defending him probably means that she knows that it's wrong but don't want to acknowledge it cuz she is prob in the same situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:25 PM
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