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/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:08 PM
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Sometimes this sub makes me feel normal. And that's kinda concerning coming from someone who drowned 3 puppies in row.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:07 PM
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Says the "traditional" man in a ltr with a single mom who impregnated another woman while having an affair with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:02 PM
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hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:15 PM
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I'm really happy to go to the office this Tuesday. There was some strong horny energy oozing out of everybody's pants during our last meeting that I hope gets even more intense after the weekend. On another note, it filled me with immense sadness to learn that my boss is getting married. I spent my whole weekend crying that my opportunity to eat his soon-to-be wife's ass is long gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:55 PM
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If you don't know what to get, don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:46 PM
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I think I just lost my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:42 PM
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A shout-out to /u/lull and all the red blooded straight men who like dem big tiddies: BOOBY-LINK HERE
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:40 PM
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Interesting thing is his fiancée is the least attractive of his exes (that I’ve seen). He rode the pussy carousel for too long, hit the wall and now he has to settle before his sperm gets too old or his balls get to saggy for a young fertile woman. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:33 PM
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Being fat certainly decreases their chances of scoring with someone hot, but if they have realistic standards about looks and their complaints come from other issues about dating, I don't see why they should not complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:21 PM
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He must have a lot of money in his bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:18 PM
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Isn't having small boobs at least moderately corelated with being thin/petite. Like is it actually common for a woman to be fat and also have small boobs? Boob size is a matter of proportion. This woman, for example, would be considered small chested, but she is probably a C or a D cup. Her boobs have shape and stick out: https://theviraler.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/37-hottest-ariana-grande-bikini-pictures-will-you-drool-for-her-best-of-comic-books-4.jpg I don't think that men who say they …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:17 PM
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How does this explain women who get turned on by movie stars they never met, or by men they know irl who haven't shown interest in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:04 PM
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There's also the option of being single, but if being with men like this is preferable then it furthers my point about how this behavior is just accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:57 PM
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There are plenty of men out there that have no problem respecting women who they sleep with, and men who don't try to sleep with women if they would think less of her. Men who keep behaving that way do it because they know plenty of women out there think it's normal and just accept it. When I started showing the door to men who behave like the acquaintance's date, my pool shrank a lot, but the men who stayed were better quality overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:48 PM
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Average height in Canada is 5'10, it's 5'9 or 5'10 depending on the source in the US. My husband is 5'8 by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:52 PM
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Not gorgeous facially, but seems very well trimmed and fit. Women like this don't struggle with men based on their appearance alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:43 PM
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Men stick their dick in unattractive women all the time, I would probably need viagra. Not my problem that some men have abysmal standards. I'm not the one expecting men to date and fuck women they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:41 PM
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The average in North America is around 5'10. I've never seen a 5'9 dude struggling to get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:40 PM
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Settling is settling. I don't need to have had sex with an attractive man to understand that the unattractive ones make my kitten dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:34 PM
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Well, she obviously holds women to higher standards than she holds men to. She can't be surprised when she meets men who do the same and act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:31 PM
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Isn't a major complaint in this sub that women do settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:20 PM
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People forget that "small" boobs aren't often small when paired with a small body frame. Plus, all the women they're using as example are fit and beautiful. A completely flat-chested woman with an ugly face wouldn't be seen as attractive. Shorter than average guys aren't unattractive either unless they're very short and have ugly faces. I bet most women would take an Oscar Isaac sans the fame and money over a 6'0 with a busted face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:17 PM
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I'm aware some relationships are about that. I just wouldn't participate in those.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:58 PM
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Nope, not the point. She was blaming other women for his attempts to have first date sex, while giving him a chance. Why shouldn't men attempt to have first date sex when those attempts, whether successful or not, won't deter the women complaining about it from dating that same man when he's ready to have a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:57 PM
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I personally don't use men for their resources, but if someone approaches relationships that way then I don't know what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:47 PM
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For the same reason that men would get mad if I tried to use them for money on the first date by making spending demands. I'm sure that most of them would not keep dating me and happy that they passed the simp test
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:26 PM
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And this is exactly the problem. Women are discarded by many men as potential partners for attempting first date sex or having a history of casual sex, while men are just made to wait. A woman who is flexible with men who already proved being hypocrites can't really complain about the state of affairs. These men behave like this because they know their behavior won't bring any major consequences with the women they really want to date. I've had men trying to pull this on me. I stop dating them b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:24 PM
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Yesterday I was an asshole to a female acquaintance, and I'm not even ashamed. An acquaintance of mine went on a date with a guy who tried to sleep with her on the first date. She got offended at first, but gave him another opportunity and went on a few more dates with him without having sex. He admitted that her saying "no" made her more respectable in his eyes. Their dating didn't last long as the guy broke it off after a month or so for reasons I don't know. My acquaintance went on a tirade a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:58 PM
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I don't think that the point is that bumble/tinder are for dating only, but more like if they're trying to date it's because they're not trying to have casual sex with that same person. I personally didn't have a dating pool for causal sex and another one for ltrs. I just met people and with some of them I wanted a relationship and with others it was just sex. None of them from OLD though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:42 PM
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Both choose. When you follow the traditional script, women choose but only out of the pool of men who also chose to approach them. You might argue that women have higher standards for sex, but that doesn't mean men don't have standards or that they're sexually available to any woman who wants dick. The same goes for relationships. No person is available to all so the choice has to be mutual. Question to everyone currently in married/ltr, do you feel like you were the one who choose your partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:16 PM
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Studies aren't about individual women but about their aggregate behaviors. Women as whole care about it, but many individual women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:06 PM
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Relationships are shifting from being milestones in young adulthood that need transition into marriage to just being a feature. This means that people that don't care enough about relationships or lack the qualities to be in one aren't forcing themselves to be what society considers marriage material. This means that your chances of meeting someone decline, but that whoever you end up dating is more likely to be doing so out of love/attraction and not to tick of a box in their long list of thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:02 PM
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That kitten ain't lazy. He's just playing coy while he's planning to take over your food and house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:48 AM
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Nothing wrong with them, but there's nothing ironic about it. The purpose of those apps is having you swiping left and right so they can harvest your data and sell it to a third party, or show you as many ads as possible (not sure if Tinder has adds though). The people who are making money out of it don't care if you get laid or not. That's not their main concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:44 AM
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Ugh, the worst, when a manlet punches above his weight height. You were basically raped psychologically, and you should sue. You know what I'm talking about!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:17 AM
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You really want a man who is 1 inch shorter than the minimum height required to qualify for a Chad certificate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:02 AM
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You might be more in love with the chase than with the actual guy, so once you get to experience sex you might lose interest. It's also possible that after so many years of being told that you get attached after sex, you're subconsciously avoiding attachment by blocking your feelings. Or it might be anything else. There's so many expectations about female sexuality that many women simply don't risk it by sleeping with men they don't like that much, so the attachment actually comes before and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:00 AM
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I got so turned on by Oscar Isaac while watching Ex Machina. I was also impressed by his charisma, intelligence and talent. You've no idea how disappointed I am right now after learning that he's only 5'9. Ew!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:45 AM
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That's conditional misogyny, a.k.a. benevolent sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:38 AM
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good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:37 PM
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Height is positively correlated with nerve, heart and skin diseases. Chad ain't as great as we thought he was :( https://www.newscientist.com/article/2322821-taller-people-may-have-a-higher-risk-of-nerve-skin-and-heart-diseases/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:36 PM
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I also keep hearing about all the gender quotas, but this does not seem to be a big thing either other than lip service to liberal causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:42 AM
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Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:20 AM
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But but women aren't held accountable for their mistakes and behavior: Female surgeons who have a patient die see a big drop in referrals compared to male surgeons who have a patient die, and in the former case, other female surgeons see a drop in their referrals as well. In contrast, male surgeons get a bigger boost in their referrals when their outcomes are positive than female ones do. Source: https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/sarsons/files/sarsons_jmp.pdf Female CEOs are more likely to be di…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:13 AM
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It cures cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:46 AM
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I’ve barely met ANY men (or women for that matter) with really bad personal hygiene. Consider yourself lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:56 AM
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No matter how good your sampling process is, you have very little control over who decides to take your survey. I have a slight suspicion that this is a problem of response bias, where either partnered women or single men are overrepresented. Unfortunately, response bias is very hard to verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:52 AM
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I know, that's the point. She has a small waist with large hipbones which is a matter of skeletal structure, not fat/muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:31 AM
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I knew two guys I suspected of being incels based on how they talked about women and their experience. One was unattractive, the other one was actually slightly above average. Elliot Rodger wasn't everyone's cup of tea, but most men I've known that look similar have girlfriends. Alek Minessian is average at worst, and looks slightly above average in some pictures. So to answer your question, they'd probably be able to get laid, but they'd still have highly unsatisfactory relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:29 AM
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That's because a huge aspect of what makes a butt attractive isn't the size of the glutes but the shape of the hipbones relative to the waist. Side-by-side her butt looks small : https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Sofia-Vergara-Jessica-Rabbit-Red-Dress-SS-vertical.jpg?w=300&h=400&crop=1 But her butt also looks good because she has a waist. Plenty of women with big butts don't have much of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:10 AM
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Not that uncommon. The angle makes is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:04 AM
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The nanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:53 AM
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There isn't, unless you value something more than having kids, which is the case for at least csome of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:51 AM
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I'd rather have my cat roam around the neighborhood than anywhere close to these two.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:44 AM
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I'd be willing to pay more taxes just to get purple hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:49 PM
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Living in San José dramatically increases your chances of finding a sugar momma the love of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:44 PM
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Can't see the appeal of that one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:38 PM
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I thought you said "fist" and was about to say "damn, that escalates fast"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:46 PM
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Tried to masturbate to pictures of Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos. Cat is still dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:43 PM
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Considering the variety of answers, there is not one single way in which attraction works for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:40 PM
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It shouldn't be. I understand that texting usually comes first, but if he haven't seen each other for a while for whatever reason once attraction has been established, I'd rather get a call.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:00 AM
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After a short time of looking and interacting with him. There might many circumstances that could make me decide against it, but my sex switch turns on pretty fast. It feels like getting high without the nasty side effects of actual drugs. What makes me want to bed a guy is a combination of looks and certain mannerisms that are hard to describe over the internet. I've also bedded men I'm not crazy about. That happened when I were single, horny and the opportunity arose. These aren't men I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:56 AM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:49 AM
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Hard disagree. This was me at 29: www.beautifulwomen.com/pic This is how I woke up on the day I turned 30: pictures.com/randomwoman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:45 AM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:40 AM
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Now wait til you take of her panties off and also find out she's got a 6 inch dick that perfectly matches her DD boobies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:34 AM
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I'm not a fan of texting and prefer a phone call or talking in person, but if I like you. I'll text you back even if it's after a couple of hours. I don't need to be simping for another man though. If I don't like you I'll make sure to let you know I'm not interested, whether I have other options or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:30 AM
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If that man feels societal approval is more important than acting on his own natural desire to be feminine, then yes, he should force himself to be masculine. As for your next question, people see most masculine behaviors more valuable than feminine ones, that's why women are less likely to experience mockery for being masculine than women are for being feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:27 AM
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I dated several guys with whom I didn't have sex, but once I had sex or some kind of sexual contact for the first time stopped waiting for it beyond a few weeks. My decision to experience sex for the first time had more to do with my age and a change in my sexual attitudes than the guy I was dating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:14 AM
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The issue is, most guys who are commenting can't point to a specific example from their past either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:42 PM
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How old was she if you don't mind me asking? Dating a guy for a whole year and not kissing him sounds weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:38 PM
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I mean you hear about women talking about how they do it all the time? I've heard women talking about this in abstract terms on PPD. I heard from two friends that they did it at least once, but the guys also told them that they wanted to wait. That's why I asked, so see if someone had specific examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:36 PM
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Is this a bunch of random people eating ass in a row? Why isn't Chad eating ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:21 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:20 PM
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Not sure about your father/brother, but I find that the advice from older men who want to "protect" me is based on the idea that sex damages women and it's something that men do at the expense of women. I'd rather have men actually see me as an equal and not as some thing that gets devalued when enters in contact with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:14 PM
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My husband material dream is a guy who has a similar level of experience as I do and doesn't hold mine against me. In other words, both me and him are retired hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:59 PM
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I gotta admit though, I've had fantasies about fucking a pizza delivery dude after hearing him say with a deep voice: "Hello, woman. Here's your pizza. Extra sausage, the way you like it"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:56 PM
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To filter out men who are obsessed with n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:45 PM
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If this wealthy womanizer publicly dates a post wall single mom 13 years his senior who also has three divorces and a sex tape, why are you ppd users so bothered by high n counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:39 PM
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That's what I'm getting at. It seems like an idea rather than an actual experience people had.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:22 PM
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I got rejected because I'm depraved even by ppd standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:20 PM
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I think those are some double standards taken to an extreme. I remember a guy being outed from the group because he went to the beach with the girlfriend of one of them and took non-sexual pictures with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:35 PM
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That's fucking true, but who the fuck has so much fucking time in their fucking hands to make those fucking studies? Those goddamn scientists should be doing more important shit with their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:32 PM
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He broke it off with his girl but is still best friends with his homie to this day. He claims he’s actually glad his friend proved that his ex gf wasn’t loyal or worth his time. Now imagine if it it was a woman calling her "friend" to tell her she fucker her boyfriend. Your friend is probably the kind to think that men have no responsibility over the sex they engage in with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:18 PM
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I'm not expecting anyone to do anything, I'm just asking if anybody has a personal experience with this considering this topic is brought up several times every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:13 PM
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I'm sure it happens, I just wanted to know if anybody has a personal experience with this. Oh, happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:07 PM
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Sure, but have you witnessed this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:03 PM
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Nothing like a man of God lying to his underaged lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:02 PM
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The only thing he told me is that God loves me anyways, so no, he won't be punishing me any time soon. Boring, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:01 PM
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That's often not the case, unless the last man she slept with traumatized her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:48 PM
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Couldn't do that. There was a chair in the middle :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:45 PM
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Yesterday I went to my second confession. I also called the father "daddy". Thanks to the person who recommended me to call him like that. It was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:12 PM
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Ok, thanks for your insights about the female mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:04 PM
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I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:04 PM
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Namely because they know men prefer a challenge vs easy women, and because the woman likely gave it up too quickly to someone she liked in the past and it hurt her. The fact that the burden of not being easy falls on the woman is very concerning. I've had men tell me that they respected me more for not sleeping soon with them. I couldn't stomach another date with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:14 PM
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Or has some terrible hang-ups around sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:11 PM
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It's not manipulation, it's fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:08 PM
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Didn't you call women who fuck men below their league anti-feminine and worse than sluts who fuck the men above in the hopes for commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:59 PM
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They are two very different things. Marketplace of ideas is when ideas I agree with are supported by other people. Cancel culture is when ideas I agree with are criticized by other people. You being mad at me for sending you unsolicited titty pics is cancel culture and oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:57 PM
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They get sex easier because men have lower standards, and sluts get shamed for having standards as low as men's. I don't find your arguments convincing and I truly can discuss this with someone who keeps doing mental gymnastics around the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:46 PM
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But he didn't get canceled because of Twitter, which is my point, he got canceled because of rape/assault allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:54 PM
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Women who don't bring anything to the table generally date their male equivalent who doesn't bring anything to the table either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:53 PM
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Nope, the equivalent to your n count preference is a woman with an n-count preference. The equivalent to women's height preference is any other preference that men have for a woman's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:51 PM
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You keep getting bent out of shape about women who sleep around. When someone reminds you that women who sleep around have preferences too and often find themselves in relationships with men they find attractive you go on a hamstering rage about how sluts suck or about how they're lying. If women criticizing your preferences is gaslighting, then "gaslighting" is what you've been doing to me in the last a few comments. I don't want to be the one to remind you this, but your behavior and your pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:38 PM
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They're not imaginary. I have the screenshots to prove that a woman I've never seen in real life called me an idiot. That's some serious shit right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:01 PM
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Who cares? They got what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:00 PM
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Men: Women are loved unconditionally, just for who they are. Also men: So what do these hoes bring to the table besides pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:58 PM
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You don't see them hamstering, you just expect them to because their experience doesn't fit your narrative. I can't speak for the women here but looking at how these specific friends of mine treated their casual partners I can assure you they weren't as interested in their commitment as you think they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:45 PM
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Cancelation is when feminists hurt your feelings over Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:35 PM
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Being forced to watch a ship that ain't yours sinking slowly into nature's wet hole is indeed cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:31 PM
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I've no idea. I'm content with my life, but there's no way to know just exactly how content I am relative to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:28 PM
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I've seen that happening way more times than PPD cares to admit. Many of my hoe acquaintances ended with men slightly above their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:24 PM
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"Cancel culture" is just a new term for "progressive people bitching". Many of the "canceled" celebrities haven't even lost contracts or jobs. They were just criticized on social media, as it was the case with Joe Rogan and Matt Damon. Truly canceled celebrities like Armie Hammer didn't lose on projects because someone was complaining about them over Twitter. There were serious allegations against them from multiple sources. Now, I could see the point that unless he has been proven guilty on cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:23 PM
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What about us who fucked down 29.9 times and partnered up above our SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:00 PM
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Some want to cum and keep looking for that unicorn that makes them do it. Others find sex fun regardless of orgasm. Also, people overestimate how much partners others have. "Many men" can easily be 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:57 PM
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Both are bad, but they're good for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:53 PM
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Doesn't that turn you on though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:52 PM
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Or when you're bitchy and disagreeable and they think you're shit-testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:50 PM
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Nope. He would remain a virgin well into your marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:47 PM
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Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:45 PM
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Sorry, but jaw is too small. No man is Chad unless his jaw looks at least like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:41 AM
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Yes, you would think by 2022 we would be past assuming all women want relationships, but I'm still getting advice on how to be "wifey" and guys on tinder Keep telling me everything I need to change about myself if I want to be taken seriously. They think way too highly of themselves. That's the thing. It's not that they have a preference, but the fact that they expect you to change to live up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:37 AM
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There are no Chads on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:45 AM
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And I'm ok with that considering I'm already in a relationship which is not my first one either. If my small pool was a problem I would still choose the small pool of men I want to be with than a large one with men I'm not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:43 AM
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I used to live in a place where abortions are illegal, and it's estimated that the number of those is really high. When something gets banned it doesn't disappear, it just becomes another illegal service everyone knows where to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:37 AM
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Every woman is aware of this. We have a long list of names we get called for sleeping around . I've just never wanted to be with men who looked down on me for things that they happily did themselves and I knew that my preference for this wasn't any less valid than men's preference for well behaved women. The most ironic part is that I never had issues getting commitment from men I wanted. Many of the people who gave me their advice are still single or stuck in a toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:33 AM
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Because the idea of 'just fucking for fun' grosses most men out. That's not my problem. I have a long list of things people do that gross me out. I don't go around giving unsolicited advice to people who do things that don't harm others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:23 AM
1

she wants you unconditional love though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:16 AM
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Those standards would be over the top, but it wouldn't change the fact that you wouldn't love the woman with 4 phd's that can only give you 7 kids, so being single would be preferable for you and any other woman that would have to bear your resentment of her not being good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:05 AM
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I got the impression that she was just an exhibitionistic troll who created a persona just to fuck around with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:00 AM
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I want the same, but I want my ass to get eaten as I read the bible or watch some wholesome talk show on tv. You have all my sympathies and my understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:56 AM
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A long time ago I casually dated a guy. After things fizzled out, I had people telling me in things like: "I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you, he's not the kind to settle down" or "Don't worry, you will find someone who wants to date seriously". Thing is, I don't remember telling anybody that I wanted to commit to him and the idea of ltring him, given certain details about him I won't get into, made me feel uncomfortable. In fact, I told one of my friends that I wasn't in it for the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:54 AM
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Not to mention that with more free time people can now afford hobbies that might be incompatible with having many children. Also, women going to work and bringing a significant share of the household income means a huge financial hit if they were to leave the workforce to raise children. Children might be good for society, assuming they can fulfill the roles that society needs, but are terrible for individuals who ain't that interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:22 AM
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Which comes back to the fact that there are many desperate men willing to fuck these women. This is a two way street thing, not a woman problem, assuming again that this is really happening at a large scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:16 AM
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how are they greedy? I'm not following.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:07 AM
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Yup, the option appears when you click on the follow button of a profile you're following.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:07 AM
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There are several countries such as Hungary offering benefits to parents, the problem is that none of these policies seem to have a significant impact. Having children can be very expensive and time consuming to the point that no policy can do enough to compensate for the losses of having more kids than a couple would like to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:05 AM
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Is she getting into a different career or going back to school?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:58 PM
1

If the huge chunk of men you're talking about weren't that desperate that wouldn't be a problem, assuming of course that OLD is the culprit of celibacy, which I doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:54 PM
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except that muting someone is one click away and if you haven't done it after the first couple of pics this probably means you're not as bothered as you claim you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:47 PM
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celibacy is also increasing for women. This is a problem of social isolation, not old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:44 PM
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OLD is very visually driven, so the only thing people judge each other on is their looks. People who meet in real life have many way to compensate physical unattractiveness, but if someone is ugly in a picture, they will still be ugly to other uggos. That said, I'm pretty sure this was a thing before OLD, it's not like there were no chronically single people before 2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:28 PM
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You realize that instead of complaining on PPD you can mute those profiles or unfollow these acquaintances altogether, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:25 PM
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This content is being shown to you probably because something in your instagram activity signalizes that this is a kind of content you'd be likely to consume. Just keep scrolling if it bothers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:17 PM
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If you don't like people at your level you'd still be better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:13 PM
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And you probably had parents with a healthy outlook on sex. Nothing fucks up your sex life more than parents who threaten you with how no man will want you if you do x.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:20 PM
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Chadwick Thundercock Sr.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:21 AM
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Got a six pack and a massive bank account Oh Chad can't you see? You're just not the guy for me I know you're not so bad but I'm in love with your hot dad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:06 AM
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Selective amnesia. People never remember the bad things that happened in other decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:52 AM
1

But then he will also expose all of us unhinged PPD users.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:51 AM
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I'd stay out of it. Unless you're his close friend, he might not even believe you and assume you have ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:50 AM
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I can't breathe... and that's hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:45 AM
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You're not the only one. I'm here to support you and everyone else who doesn't give a fuck about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:44 AM
1

What about Chad's dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:43 AM
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Everyone can BS all they want, but casual sex is like 70% ego based and 30% sex. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:37 AM
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Sexual "liberation" is only liberation if you compare today's world to the one from a few decades ago when virginity and chastity where fetishized in women. Women are still looked down on for having casual sex and the idea that their celebrated by the majority of people for doing it is contradicted by most studies on sexual attitudes and standards. Many women have casual sexu with the fear of being judged in the back of their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:36 AM
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Because the women who keep having it aren't necessarily the ones regretting it. Furthermore, people can have conflicting desires. Much of the regret for having sex comes from morality, but sexual desire doesn't care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:32 AM
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Good advice, but the problem is that many women (and men) still see sex as something that men do at the moral expense of women. Therefore, the feelings of regret would still happen. You're probably capable of doing this not only because of your rules but also because you can separate sex from your self-worth. Many women still base their worth on their ability to secure a man after sex, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:29 AM
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Psychopaths most likely favor one night stands, but I'm pretty sure that most one night stands aren't had by psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:22 AM
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There needs to be some balance. Non-committal men are bad for women looking for relationships, but too much too soon can also come off as desperation, and not only in men. Imagine you went on a first date with a woman who started talking to you about ltring you. That would probably feel too much unless you had significant interaction with her before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:20 AM
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And the thing is, society keeps promoting this by putting the burden of sexual restraint on women. If only women are told not to fuck around, then the message many men receive is that the only women who are worth "respecting" are the ones who don't fuck around. They don't seem to feel bad about themselves for doing this because their respect isn't conditional on their sexual restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:15 AM
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Given how hard it is for people do admit shame, I'm afraid that lack of sexual enjoyment isn't really the most important reason. Lack of enjoyment can simply mean boring and meh sex. Boring and meh don't make an experience negative, just lackluster. I'm pretty sure that a perceived loss of self-respect is much more of a reason than women care to admit. There was another study on the matter, and the most common complaint was that the woman felt "cheap", "easy" or some variation of these words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:10 AM
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But not as high as some of these dudes after they smoke that weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:04 AM
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The amount of guys who think smoking weed together is a date is way too high It is very high indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:03 AM
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Guy two. 1 doesn't look bad, but it's a little bit big for my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:58 PM
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Justin Timberlake. I have no idea now what the heck I saw in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:57 PM
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Reading PPD posts is bad for your IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:56 PM
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It's a nice quality to have but it's very low on my priority list.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:50 PM
1

There's no such thing as properly masturbating. Some people are just more likely to become desensitized by this than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:47 PM
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I got approached a lot back when I lived in Latin America. I don't remember the exact lines but it was usually some kind of compliment such as "you're beautiful". Here in North America men seem more likely to approach during an event or some kind of activity. And most of the time they do it in a friendly manner that's indistinguishable from women approaching be just to talk. I prefer this. Direct approaches generally turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:53 AM
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I don't think it's physical desensitization as much as it is a psychological one. When you fear something, some psychologists recommend that you imagine the scenario over and over again until it stops instilling fear. I believe that imagining sexy scenarios in order to masturbate also makes them less appealing and normal sex less arousing after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:44 AM
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Sure, I have no desire to change your mind. You asked me a question and I replied how I feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:04 PM
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Not the kind of pleasure that I would feel without love. Also in animal kingdom animals also have sex for bonding reasons other than pleasure. Some animals don't even have sex for pleasure. Sure, but that's not relevant to how I feel about sex. You seem to view sex in a certain way and expect others to live by those same values. Some people just don't feel the way you do and no amount of reasoning will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:53 PM
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Cuddling and hugging isn't pleasurable in the way sex is, or do people also masturbate to show themselves love? Buying flowers for someone isn't expression of love because I buy stuff for people to show off my wealth. You really think there aren't people who buy and pay for stuff to show dominance, their status or anything other than love? You must be lucky if you haven't had the pleasure to deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:41 PM
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Something tells me none of those options appeal to him. And you're not wrong. He just thinks he deserves a unicorn and gets angry when someone reminds him that those don't exist outside his wild imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:36 PM
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If men are complaining then it means that they see it bad when women do it. Just for the record, the men complaining aren't necessarily the men who got ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:10 PM
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I said it's not necessarily an expression of love. Some of us also have sex for the pleasure alone. I also bet that there are other people having sex for 1000 other reasons. It's up to the individuals involved to decide how they want to express love and how they don't. I don't know their individual motivations. For me it's the fact that I can separate sex from love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:09 PM
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Someone I know constantly complains about the lack of women going through the homemaking route, but every time he meets a woman he might like he also complains about her high standards in terms of salary. I'm not sure how much money he makes but based on his profession it must be high 5 digits per year, which can support a family in my area. However, he insists that he doesn't want some gold-digger who is waiting to be hitched by Billy Millionaire. He doesn't want a low-life waitress either. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:05 PM
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Is it? I've seen more men complaining about ghosting than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:46 PM
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It depends on you tolerance for loneliness and you social network. Also, if you're not the family type or the people you could have had a family with weren't good options, loneliness might actually be the preferable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:15 PM
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Slut-shaming is more prevalent among women and guys generally don’t do it. I've seen as much slut shaming from men as I've seen from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:11 PM
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That woman had some serious sex appeal going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:08 PM
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if i have to pick one, B? You were planning to pick both? That's very selfish of you, young lady!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:03 PM
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Guy B
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:01 PM
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Because it only has as much value as you put in it. I don't base my self-worth on the sex that I have nor on the sex that I don't have, and I don't necessarily see it as an expression of love either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:53 PM
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Russian Doll first season.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:14 AM
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She's too thin for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:11 AM
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So crowded and so noisy, how does anyone like this shit ?!? Whaaat? Sorry, I can't hear ya
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:07 AM
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Of course, I absolutely forgot about him: https://i1.sndcdn.com/artworks-000433743165-2whke7-t500x500.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:44 AM
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Greek yogurt doesn't belong in a taco.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:14 AM
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All I care is that the man has enough money to not use mine for lottery tickets. Is that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:05 AM
2

Polygonal penises are great, polygonal asses are even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:57 PM
3

Watch what they do, not what they say...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:50 PM
1

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:47 PM
2

Anybody plays Outlast? This is how a fan imagines Miles Upshur looks like: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/8e/98/41/8e984143d74a1ca0b6f04284f3f2eddb.jpg Isn't he hot? I'd let that hit it all night long
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:45 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:41 PM
1

this is how many regular women look.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:40 PM
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Since this has been going on for a while, I'd assume it doesn't have a negative impact. They want to sell and everything they do, no matter how noble it looks, if to increase sales. A lot of consumers want someone they can identify with. Super models are hard to identify with if you're a regular woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:53 PM
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5: stick my head in an anthill and get ass-raped by bigfoot. Number 5, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:31 PM
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Michael Lucas 1:69-70 Thou shalt shave your asshole and cleanse it with holy water for it might be eaten by thy neighbor. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:27 PM
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I'm your friend and you indeed have something in your teeth, bad breath and bad body odor. I'm telling you this because I love you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:19 PM
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I agree. It's a false dichotomy though, women can find fulfilling relationships by dating men whose lifestyle matches theirs, but the concept of finding a relationship that fits your needs instead of fitting to the needs of the relationship isn't something society teaches, unfortunately, hence the countless dating advice to basically become a completely different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:12 PM
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Women don’t have sex drives, so they don’t really “need” men, unlike idiot men who think with their dick and can’t live without women. My cat entered the chat, and she disagrees with this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:06 PM
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I'm not sure if it is happiness that drives women be less likely to seek a relationship. Women are less tolerant of risk and if the woman who is single has had at least one bad experience with men, she's more likely to be deterred from pursuing another relationship/marriage. This is speculation, or course. There might be many other reasons that I don't know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:00 PM
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Exactly, nobody should stay in a relationship they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:56 PM
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Someone's past is not an excuse to cheat and mistreat their partner. This woman doesn't owe her boyfriend her purity, if he can't accept her past than he should've left. On the other hand, if you decide to stay, you owe your current partner fidelity. You comment seems to justify bad behavior in a relationship that you're free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:45 PM
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So many men have low standards and seem to talk about how they don't give a damn about anything as if they were proud. If a man is only interested in sex that's all the women he dates will bring to the table. Besides, I'm not sure what this has to do with what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:35 PM
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The job itself needs to be normalized and respected, because otherwise these women will be abused by the system, regardless of its legality. And if this job becomes normalized and respected, then it means that the stigma of women engaging in sex had ended, and the notion sex as a trophy for men to pursue will end too. Therefore, the demand for sex workers will fall considerably.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:10 PM
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Because this is PPD and we gotta have an opinion on absolutely everything, even hypothetical people we will never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:50 PM
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This wasn't really about the laundry but about him flipping out. If someone had such a strong reaction to how I fold some stupid clothes I'd be reconsidering my relationship as well. Assuming this is real, of course...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:46 PM
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Prostitution is already legal in many places, not to mention that like weed, it doesn't seem to be something authorities are particularly concerned about unless it involves minors or actual slavery. The frustration doesn't come from not getting their dicks wet, but from the belief, real or not, that these men are undesirable. Paying a woman to pretend she wants to fuck you doesn't solve this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:40 PM
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Angrily trashing her ex from almost 20 years ago would be more of a red flag imo. And would also be "proof" that she settled for him and branch-swung to alpha O'Connell with whom she must have been having sex while married to Stamos. You can't be a woman with a normal romantic life in this corner of reddit without things you do and say being the result of your hypergamous female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:35 PM
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And has a cute face
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:31 PM
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Of course it is. Choices made for the wrong reasons are always a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:30 PM
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It depends on the person and on your state of mind. I suspect I had vaginismus so it took several rounds and was painful. This should not be the case with someone who isn't afraid of penetration. Asking someone to get tested doesn't seem like a standard practice, but it should be. It might be weird to some guys but your safety comes first. If a guy feels offended that's a sign he doesn't take his health seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:29 PM
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I find him cute, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:25 PM
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He can have mine on tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:18 PM
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Boyfriend material: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MFbkUAgxK4Q You guys should raccoonmax.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:16 PM
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Yeah, looks like it didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:48 PM
0

I miss the times when news paper printer actual news.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:29 PM
1

Dhaffer L'Abidine, Thimothee Chalamet, Glenn Quinn...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:01 PM
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Because the red pill is built upon a trad core. Traditionalism is based on the idea that men are potentially aggressive, dangerous and polygamous, but a good woman with solid morals and ability to submit is a powerful force that steers men away from their vices. A lot of women in the movement believe that their good behavior will be rewarded with male investment and willingness to get tamed. Most women I know with this mentality got fucked over by their partners but that story is for another tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:58 PM
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"Now spread your buttchecks, lady, I'm sticking my face in there"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:28 PM
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I'm really tired of these e-thots taking half-naked pictures to get their point across. Have some self-respect and cover those. Nobody wants to bring someone like this to their momma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:27 PM
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And I think that culture plays a huge part in this, but that's not the point. The point is that responsibility should be based on behavior and not on gender. I'm pretty sure most men wouldn't really like to hear sermons about how broke men are useless and how good men need to provide for their women even if their women's assess are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:01 PM
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There are different types of undesirable men and some undesirable men aren't the type of undesirable some single moms want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:57 PM
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I'm not really mad that I'm judged by my past, what I feel mad about is that I'm told that I need to mend my ways while at the same time having to hear how normal it is for men to want to fuck around. This hasn't even come from men I've dated, but from teachers at my school who would give us women lengthy sermons on proper behavior while ignoring or justifying this behavior in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:50 PM
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Because people have many desires and many of those desires are diametrically opposed to each other, hence the rage and feelings of frustration. This is similar to men who want homemakers but resent women who judge them by the depth of their wallets. Much of this "need" for sex is actually an attempt to boost their ego. The tradwife is a good woman, unspoiled by other men's dicks. She's pure and extremely selective, only a good man can turn her into his whore, so if you manage to achieve this, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:36 PM
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Any partner you spend a huge chunk of your life with is probably going to leave their mark. This article, however, was about her relationship with Stamos and looks like nobody asked about her marriage to O'Connell so we don't really know how she feels about him compared to the former. I also find it amazing how much time people spend analyzing the relationships of celebrities we don't know based on an article.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:25 PM
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I didn't understand what it meant to learn to be single before you try to mingle until I started seeing posts like this. For as long as you're afraid to be alone you'll be settling for bad relationships. I don't know the exact reasons of your fears, but that's something you need to address before you jump into another relationship. Also, stop using PPD because it might expose you to many unhealthy relationship patterns that you'll end up normalizing and putting up with. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:16 PM
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Yes, but not that one :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:08 PM
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It didn't change my opinion. I've been always aware of the fact that people, not only women, give feel-good advice or advice that might be sincere, but is more of a projection of other people's needs and wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:07 PM
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Sorry, but my tits aren't big enough to participate in those discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:02 PM
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Not really sure if this submissiveness is nature or a culturally induced lack of spine, but yes. They'd be more pickmes on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:47 PM
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I bet one of them made fun of Jesus and the other one was just defending her savior's honor. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:46 PM
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Despite the accusations of self-entitlement, women do have a tendency to suppress their own desires to other people around them can meet theirs, which isn't a compliment. That said, there's always compromising in relationships, which would make men pickmes as well to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:44 PM
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Where is the new daily community thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:39 PM
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As a woman, being a pickme, assuming you call that a woman who's always willing to put her partner's desires above her own, would be a one-way ticket to get fucked over by parasitotic men. On the other hand, it doesn't affect me when other women behave that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:38 PM
1

Damn! I didn't think of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:19 PM
1

Some women have deep-seated grandpa issues, who are we to judge her terrible taste in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:19 PM
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I don't see anything in this woman's short posting history about approaching or being a pickme. There seems to be an assumption that a woman who approaches can't recognize the subsequent lack of interest on his part and end the relationship, or that a man approaching automatically means he's attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:16 PM
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The priest must be hot, and she's trying to tempt him. Or maybe she's just Satan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:12 PM
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I'm not sure if there's much to admit. Most of it is just doing chores. People don't exactly grow up fantasizing about how many diapers they get to change and how many bottles they get to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:11 PM
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That's when you look at the extremes, but when you look at what most of the population does only a small percentage of men are doing dangerous jobs. Most women aren't married to police officers, logging workers or construction workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:00 PM
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So an increased probability of getting murdered by these women, their lifestyles or their associates isn't a risk, am I understanding this correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:57 PM
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A lot of these women barely get any time because theyre women, their debt to society is consider paid and they can move on with life. Irrelevant. These women are murderers or big criminals at best, but still get men who want them. The amount of time they spend in jail is beyond the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:44 PM
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Men admit they can be tricked by their dick and its attraction to BPD girls. Women pretend to have fool-proof misogyny radar, then defend the guy who punches them in the face regularly. Many of them don't admit it though. Men saying they want pleasant and agreeable women is much more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:40 PM
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Being motivated to remain virgin out of fear or for not being attracted to your options is indeed a choice, although one could also argue that remaining a virgin for not wanting to pay a prostitute or bang a woman way below your league is a choice as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:54 PM
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If women dating criminals is proof that women are attracted to dangerous men, does this logic also apply to men dating female criminals? Karla Homolka who facilitated the rape and murder of several young girls including her younger sister, eventually married her lawyer's brother Jodie Arias, who murdered her boyfriend out of jealousy, was reported to be dating and getting visits from a boyfriend Griselda Blanco, drug lord, murderer and street criminal was married three fucking times There was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:48 PM
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I'd add extreme fear to the mix. A friend of mine who was virgin until she hit 25 and hasn't dated anybody since that guy and her broke up confessed that she grew up in fear of getting used.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:54 PM
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Thanks! Yeah, it wasn't the nicest thing to hear. This taught me to avoid commenting on other people's sexual lives because I knew how it felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:48 PM
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So were these advices for women aimed at helping them find their happiness? Or shaping women to make Kevin and people like him happy? Neither. They're controversial, draw views and make $$$ on YoutTube. Samuels' remarks are to the dating market what Kim Kardashian's sex tape is to the entertainment industry: an outrage bait that brings in money and fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:45 PM
1

Makes me also wonder how many studies get affected by the drawer effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:37 PM
13

Who is "she"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:10 PM
2

Assuming this has been replicated, I'm more inclined to believe that men with a high number of partners are more likely to pursue women they don't intent to date in first place, or pursue women for clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:05 PM
6

Never assume malice when it could just be stupidity. She might genuinely think she replied. I've written texts in the middle of something just to forget hitting send.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:59 PM
14

You realize that you can't just switch career paths, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:55 PM
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Hours the man works are usually FAR more stressful then the female if he makes far more money Better pay doesn't necessary mean a stressful job. I make more money than my partner and his job is far more stressful than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:49 PM
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As a woman who didn't have sex until I was 24, most shaming I experienced came from men who were not in my immediate social circle. It wasn't the kind of bullying where I would get reminded of the fact at every single opportunity, but I would get comments such as "that's weird" or "there must be something with women who are still virgins at that age". The worst part is that the comments often came from people who didn't even know that I was virgin. The girls in my group would mention that my vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:47 PM
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Women care, they're justnot as vocal and attractiveness doesn't make men automatic cheaters or promiscuous, so yes, a high n count in men is also correlated with problem in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:36 PM
1

Well, you can't neglect the child but you can neglect your kitchen. If both of you were working the same amount of hours and on top of this you were dealing with the kid, you could just stop doing the dishes or the floors. At some point he would have to do his job or yo would realize that the relationship is doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:33 PM
3

Tangentially-related, I hate the word "gaslighting" It sounds like farting on a lit match.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:42 PM
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Marriage rates haven't fallen as much once you account for people marrying later and for people cohabitating. Promiscuous men too have higher rates of cheating and lower rates of satisfaction, and satisfaction in marriage decreases as the n count gap increases. This isn't a promiscuous woman problem only.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:39 PM
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Promiscuity is usually a downstream effect for mental or substance issues. I don't know who is trying to perform an n-count calculus, when usually the red flags are right in their face I think the belief that n count devalues women is what drives people to see promiscuous women unsuitable for marriage. There are many other qualities associated with less satisfactory and stable marriages that some men here seem to celebrate such as having a significantly younger spouse, a big gap in sexual experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:09 PM
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This seems to be counterintuitive to many people in this sub who believe that promiscuous men are more likely to marry low n count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:06 PM
4

Real world standards: 8+/10 PPD standards: 3.79/10
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:55 PM
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The news isn't that recent sexual partners are associated with lower marriage odds, but that a higher number of lifetime sexual partners isn't associated with lower odds of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:54 PM
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I don't think most of this advice is ill-intentioned. People simply project their values and preferences on people they know nothing about leading to advice that's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:44 PM
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No, because there's no evidence that pair-bonding is affected by promiscuity in either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:42 PM
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The thing is that this study was done to examine the claim that rampant casual sex among women was what drove marriage rates down by making women unmarriageable. The fact that most women, even those with high n-counts marry disproves this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:09 PM
1

Fleabag agrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:04 PM
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Most likely. The authors say there's causal relationship between number of partners and marriage rates, but with these studies it's impossible to establish causation. It's also possible that the lack of stability drives lower marriage odds. Every sexual partner I broke up with is a sexual partner I don't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:03 PM
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A huge chunk of childcare consists of mundane tasks that nobody is excited to do. It also comes at a high cost of opportunity when if forces you out of the workforce and makes you dependent on your partner. Becoming independent is a step up for women, but doing childcare is a step down for men. There's a reason why not only men, but also rich people outsource this aspect of raising children to other people. Furthermore, a great number of people grew up with a stay at home mom or with a mother wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:57 PM
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Yeah, he told me to come back to church and pray. I told him all the lustful thoughts I've been having since my boss showed up in a meeting with his zipper down, and about that other day when I stole a marker from my co-worker. I also explained to him that I feel underappreciated by my partner because he passes out under me after our third round of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:07 PM
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Today I had my first confession. I wonder how many of those I will have to have before the priest calls me a filthy whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:04 PM
1

You can have both if your need for those is not extreme, but if your need for excitement AND comfort is very high you'll have to choose between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:35 PM
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Are you a muslim by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:32 PM
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It's a private aspect of the relationship and it's perfectly reasonable to feel uncomfortable at the thought of your partner sharing those details with friends. Some people don't care and that's fine to, but if you care it's important to find someone who respects your discomfort. Also no, it's not inevitable. Most of my friends don't share those details with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:09 PM
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Uncertainty is part of the excitement, and uncertainty goes against safety. I believe that marriage and ltrs ain't for everyone, but they are expected and people who don't belong to these kinds of arrangements force themselves into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:05 PM
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This isn't a popular opinion but the horseshoe theory is a thing. Many radfems and redpillers share the same or very similar core values, they just disagree on how to deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:02 PM
1

It can have it, you just need to pay more for it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:58 PM
1

Well, 18 yo guys with six pack are attractive, I'm just not willing to pay for them and they're not the only thing I find hot. Mexico can be nice around Cancun and Riviera Maya. The only thing that sucks is that I'm more of an explorer and I wouldn't feel comfortable driving around it because of safety. However, Mexico is great for relaxing vacations and it's cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:56 AM
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Once I hit the wall, yes. That was just a joke though, but the Mexico thing wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:43 AM
1

I wanted to save for an 18 year-old sugar baby with a six pack, but those will be too expensive, so I'll just save to go to Mexico some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:33 AM
1

$376.95
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:17 AM
2

I give myself a high five and put a penny in the piggy bank every time I masturbate. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:46 AM
1

I wait for him to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:32 PM
1

Tom Holland for me please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:31 PM
1

What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:14 PM
3

That's almost as manipulative as working longer hours to buy a more expensive car.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:34 PM
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The problem with these zones is the implication that people stuck in them are failures by the standards applied to their gender. Women are very often judged by their ability to get commitment from men just like men are often judged by their ability to get sex. As a man you might have a hard time identifying with women because you're not judged in the exact same way, but this doesn't mean that women experience getting fuck-zoned differently than men experience the friend-zone. Objectively speakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:29 PM
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There's a lot I need to feel fulfilled that living a life of one night stands only won't cut it. However, there are men from whom I don't want much more than sex so if I were single and sex was the only thing I got from them, I'd be left satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:58 PM
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You don't need to use red pill vocabulary to act redpillish, in fact, many men who act the way red pill promotes don't even visit the sub as far as I'm aware of. If I'm dating a guy who has red pill like beliefs, chances are that this will show at some point during dating and at that point we will become incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:59 PM
1

Raccoon all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:00 AM
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I don't think it's all men, but I've noticed this tendency in some older guys. I'm pretty sure there are women who would love to be in their place, but this behavior is less tolerated in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:58 AM
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It’s better to just let people engage in whatever approach dynamic they prefer without shaming either one so all will feel comfortable to proceed. Sorry, here on PPD we only allow extreme opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:52 AM
1

Me So Horny by 2 Live Crew
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:29 AM
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Nobody fought as hard against the evils of cuck culture as he did. May his account rest in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:24 AM
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Contraceptives exist and they are very effective l. Looks like many people in this sub don't know how to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:19 AM
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what for? I was just taking a break. I made a joke about the admins and replied to a joke to another person. It;s very easy to get suspended from Reddit. Even with the women who fuck for the sake of fucking, they probably wanted relationships with a few of the guys. If your ncount is high, whether you're a woman or a man, there will be people with whom you'll want a relationship. I also get the impression that many people don't necessary marry the love of their life by someone they love and who'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:59 AM
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Care how? Care as much as to support feminist movements against slut-shaming, or just enough to have tact? Men can care about anything they want, but personally, I'd choose a man who cares not to offend other for engaging in behavior that doesn't affect him. I'd say the same about women who call men virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:48 AM
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why did you change accounts? I got suspended :( I thought you left reddit two. There seemed to be a wave of people getting either banned or abandoning reddit. Well yes, women are more likely to want to turn casual into monogamy, but I suspect that most of these women don't get high counts as they at some moment stop. I think women with truly high n counts are generally the wants who fuck around for the sake of fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:43 AM
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Yes, these conflicting desires are often a huge factor in people's inability to find relationships, because the people they want to date or the circumstances under which they want to date do not exit. Two great examples are the man who wants to be provider but doesn't want to be judged by the debt of his wallet, or the woman who wants an egalitarian man that will pay for everything. There comes a point when you need to choose one or the other 'cause you ain't getting both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:38 AM
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I'll take your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:30 AM
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Dude has like 10 kids with 20 different women and his current girlfriend was a single mom when they met.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:25 AM
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Yes, it hurts. Your entire cervix opens up. Not just your vagina. This comment made me consider celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:18 AM
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This is assuming all promiscuous women sleep with men to gain a relationship, which very often isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:17 AM
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That's a beautiful story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:15 AM
2

At work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:15 AM
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OP's post is a massive exaggeration, but emotional connection on a first date is possible when you date people you already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:12 AM
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There's also a lot of pressure on women not to have sex. But yes, I agree. Willingness and sexual attraction are two different things look the same to outsiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:03 AM
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She ain't Latina, I'm the Latina
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:56 PM
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It's amazing how many people think that having a 20+ n count in either gender is the norm. If yours is over 10 you're in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:59 PM
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I want her sober and horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:56 PM
0

Hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:55 PM
2

Because papi doesn't sound good since I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:55 PM
2

Not a long time ago I met a beautiful woman at a party. Her hair was bright like the rays of the sun. Her skin pale and smooth like fresh snow in a cold winter. Her smile and her eyes were perfect yet welcoming, and her body was petit but curvy like a small violin waiting for my touch. I introduced myself trying to hide my burning desire to take her home and make love to her like no man or woman has, but that hope soon faded away when I discovered she was my boss' fiancé. Now all I can think of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:35 PM
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Yes, that's probably the case, but there's still some overlap between the two groups and I'm afraid that it's the overlapping crowd that's complaining here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:15 PM
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Looking at one of yesterday's threads, it's amazing to see how many men on PPD want the freedom to sleep around and judge women for doing the same without being judged as hypocrites; and how many of them seem to get offended when women confess they have dumped men for holding this sort of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:11 PM
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Money takes time to be made and the more money you make, the higher the cost of opportunity of spending time one childcare. This is one of the reasons why men are less likely to become househusbands and the more the woman makes, the less likely she's to become a housewife. I believe that a similar line of thought is applied by men after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:37 AM
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The ones mocking male preferences don't reach over 50,000 likes as far as I remember. Also, my issue isn't with men who care about n-count, but with men who have a high one themselves but expect a low one in a woman. I've avoided these men successfully and still managed finding a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:20 AM
2

The male cast of Jersey Shore and all its spin-offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:03 AM
1

Steamy-ass as if very steamy, not as in ass eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:56 AM
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That's why those arrangement are for people who are low on jealousy and don't care about what's normal in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:51 AM
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No thanks. I don't eat ass, I don't like diseases, and I work to please my partner. That's oddly specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:50 AM
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And these female preferences are constantly mocked. There are threads with tens of thousands likes mocking women for preferring men with money and a certain height. It's a fact that men care more about n count, it's also a fact that many women wouldn't enter a relationship with these men just like many men wouldn't enter a relationship with women who care about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:49 AM
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Way too much work, and for what? Steamy-ass threesomes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:34 AM
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Or some know and genuinely don't care, just like some women genuinely don't care about $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:29 AM
1

Cuck pill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:27 AM
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Of course it happens, the question is how often. I'm pretty sure that for every slut that gets dumped there are five more who get to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:23 AM
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You have to accept that in order to be viewed as feminine, you have to keep your count low. It's not about man vs woman here, because men and women aren't the same. It's not about 4th wave feminism and "you being allowed to fuck whoever you want". Men view high n as icky and will lose attraction and there's not anything you can say or any amount of raging on the internet that will change it. You can say the same about money and many other standards which earn women the title of goldigger and sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:16 AM
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By not bending over and backwards to meet their requirements. I lead my sex life as I please even if I know it will turn off some guys, and don't go on second dates with men who have sexist expectations. For example, I went on a date with two or three guys who told me they "respected" me more because I didn't sleep with them right away (or something similar), so I thanked them and explained to them that I only date men who see me as an equal. If it's a man I'm not dating who expresses similar th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:08 AM
1

This story just turned me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:46 PM
1

Like three. All of the when I was 13 or younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:44 PM
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I can think of three reasons: the woman is unattractive the man is very attractive they have good chemistry and the age gap is just a red herring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:53 PM
1

You're eating and texting at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:46 PM
3

When they say "sexual orientation" they actually mean "everything that's not heterosexual".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:35 PM
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I also hope that he's getting laid and looksmaxxing while signing the contract to purchase a large raccoon farm, all for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:33 PM
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He's quite impulsive and a potential liability to the cartel. Not that I care about the cartel doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:31 PM
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Hope so too. There's a bunch of people who seem to have left this sub though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:16 PM
1

Does anybody know what happened to Bandit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:01 PM
1

This is PPD in a few decades: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDcvND9oCts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:28 PM
0

Wasn't this same question asked like two days ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:21 PM
2

Fucking your roommate seems to be a common trope in pornographic content. Also, was she even aware than he was consuming her content? She probably wasn't even expecting that the actual roommate would find that content, which now that I think of it, makes me doubt the authenticity of the whole story, but that's another topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:18 PM
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She violated his privacy by fucking in his room and overreacted to his invitation to have sex. He forgot that OnlyFans content creators are paid to pretend and that her talking about wanting to fuck her roommate is meaningless unless she also did that outside the context of her content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:53 PM
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It seems like it got a few rounds of replies for you to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:26 PM
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You can judge them for whatever, as can they - it's a two way street. I've been trying to explain this to you during the last a few posts. Glad that you finally understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:18 PM
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And the force of habit. People have a hard time leaving a situation that they're used to no matter how shitty it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:52 PM
1

I think people are bad texters in general, not just men. I have to admit that I'm guilty of this as well, even with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:49 PM
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It's a cyclical thing for me. My sex drive is higher at times than that of my partner and I'm the one initiating sex when that happens. It hasn't caused any problems in the relationship. I'm not sure how higher is male sex drive on average, but I can confirm that mine sinks when I remember a sexual issue from the past that enrages me or makes me feel anxious or embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:08 PM
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Being a woman also means that you'll get shamed for exercising those options, so you'll have to select one guy and hope that he'll give you his commitment. If you sleep with him and he refuses to stay you'll be seen like a failure, and you'll be seen as even a bigger failure if you don't manage to get married by your early 30s. At the end of the day, a man's commitment is a woman's trophy that's used to measure her self-worth. Being a woman might be great if you're attractive and don't care abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:58 PM
0

Yes, think of a Tom Holland lookalike working part-time at your local McDonalds and crashing on his sister's sofa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:48 PM
1

I like my men broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:42 PM
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Men forgo easy sex with prostitutes because it is looked down upon and dangerous even if it’s legal. So prostitution is looked down upon and dangerous, but fucking unattractive women you know nothing about is not? By the way, prostitutes in countries where it's legal have lower STI rates than the population whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:34 PM
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I don't doubt that, but the prevailing narrative is that men would fuck anything because they like sex so much, evn women they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:31 PM
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I'm not destroying a relationship to make a point. I just think if your behavior can be a reason for someone to break up with you so are your standards. Most men wouldn't keep dating women who keep complaining about short men or broke men even if these men lived up to that woman's standards. You just think that men are justified to have n count standards, but believe that I'm not justified to judge them because of that. You need to make these assumptions about a stranger on the internet and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:29 PM
1

Bad jokes don't get people to laugh, but they're still jokes ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:20 PM
1

Getting with someone you're compatible with and someone whose behavior or values you won't resent. Compatibility reduces conflict and reduces the chances of having to compromise at the expense of your priorities. Being honest and sorting all small conflict right away before their cumulative effect hits you hard is also a must. If your partner said something you're not happy with, don't wait for the next fight to tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:56 AM
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I'm a very nostalgic person and half of the music I listen to "remember" the good ol' times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:48 AM
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In Western countries were prostitution is legal or largely goes unprosecuted just a small minority of men use their services. If men just wanted sex for the sex that number would be higher. Also, if a man constantly talks about women as if they were conquests, says he likes almost any woman, but only goes after women who he needs to chase even if the women who propose are decent-looking. A man who spends an inordinate amount bragging about the sex he had and constantly looks for validation from …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:40 AM
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Honestly don’t see why it needed to be banned other than the fact that it rustled too many male jimmies. It doesn't look like it got banned, it looks like it went private to redirect traffic to their website.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:25 AM
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you don't understand jokes, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:22 AM
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Q4W: How many Chadly dicks can you fit in a regular-sized cookie jar?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:47 PM
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I find this hard to believe because: a) he's a man and only women do baby trapping and b) you're a woman and only men have sex with women they're not interested in. The only explanation is that you are a man posing as a woman. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:45 PM
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Oh, that one. Those guys need to learn the difference between annoyance and fear of harassments, and understand as well that being persistent or pushy is indeed a form of harassments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:25 PM
1

If the role to approach falls on me and I choose not to approach because I don't like you even though I can approach you, I'm rejecting you I addressed that part. Learn to be an adult and have proper communication skills. Learn to read the comments you reply to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:19 PM
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From MacMillan dictionary: a refusal to show someone the love or kindness that they need or expect A refusal to show some the attraction or interest they expect counts as rejection. A Chad not wanting to approach you because he doesn't like you is rejection. Please go and read a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:12 PM
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I wouldn't have That's fine. Looks like other men would and that's the men I'm interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:04 PM
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It's not a fantasy. That's how it work. If the role to approach falls on me and I choose not to approach because I don't like you even though I can approach you, I'm rejecting you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:44 PM
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Not being approached out of disinterest by the man you like is a form of implicit rejection. The man in question expresses rejection by not approaching. It's less painful, but the reason for this is the same as if it was the woman saying "no" to a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:33 PM
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I'm not sure to be honest. When I came back, everyone was was talking about a rape thread, but I don't seem to find it anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:29 PM
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Most of my dates have happened spontaneously, which means that we mostly hung out within a group with a group of friends and eventually ended up going out as a couple, just the two of us. Therefore, I usually don't remember who asked whom first. That said, there have been occasions when the ask has been explicit. I remember asking two guys out and they rejected me. Most of the men who explicitly asked me out ended up getting rejected as well. For many men, this dynamic isn't even about getting s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:27 PM
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I want to look at his phallus for scientific purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:19 PM
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I’ve run into multiple male posters on here they have gaslighting me about serious topics surrounding rape and sex. Is this related to the rape thread? what was that about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:14 PM
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I gotta find his profile. I'm doing a research on the impact of social media use on self-objectification among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:11 PM
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I'm betting not. Plenty of women have said this, but none actually would destroy their relationship before the wedding, especially if he's a high calibre guy. My partner once criticized a co-worker who was rumored to be very promiscuous. I told him that I've probably been with more men than she has and that if this was a problem to him there was the door. I lied about this as I think she was much more experienced than I was, but I wasn't willing to put up with that kind of crap even if my level …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:06 PM
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From the convo they've been dating some time and it looks like he might be proposing soon, so.... That would give me even more of a reason to lie up. By the time you propose, you have probably been dating the person for a long enough time to see incompatibilities and present problematic behavior. If there was a problem in this regard then the man should have left ASAP regardless of n count, if there have been none then the man wants to know my n-count out of disgust and not because of any practi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:05 PM
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Who cares? Just wear them and say good bye to any man who doesn't approve of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:33 PM
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Yeah. I'm all for women waiting to become comfortable before having sex, but waiting just to get his "respect" is a losing strategy unless the woman is comfortable dating men who feel no accountability for their sexual behavior and expect to be constantly gatekept by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:06 PM
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PPD-slut tells are pretty much real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:02 PM
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This why the only time a date asked about my count I gave him a high number on purpose. I didn't want to waste my time dating someone who would have a meltdown about n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:34 PM
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$999,999 a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:27 PM
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Nothing. Not all men compliment women's appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:23 PM
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Apparently they have enough followers for their own website, so as a business move it might have been a smart idea. Those who consume their content still have their website, while those of who don't care about them can still avoid the website the same way we avoided the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:02 PM
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Why torture yourself with that shit? You underestimate how much arousal some people get out of anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:34 PM
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We don't know how that "convincing" looks like. It could be anything from "why don't you come with us? ... c'mon, just for a few hours" to texting him incessantly at all times about going to a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:39 PM
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Excuse me, but me being insecure about men rejecting me after discovering I post on PPD are very well founded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:24 PM
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Having a woman wanting to fuck you makes you into a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:21 PM
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But but Chad would fuck anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:20 PM
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I have a partner, but I still enjoy the company of other people, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:18 PM
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Got "wrong".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:17 PM
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My partner is pretty hairy, but I'm good with hairless men as well. That said, I'm not a huge fan of beards, so I'd rather date someone who doesn't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:11 PM
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Some dude in his Instagram was complaining that men have to pay for everything, entertain them and give them good sex and all they brought was pussy. I didn't reply to him as i didn't want to start a public shitstorm, but you've no idea how much I wanted to tell him: "if you're so desperate for pussy that you take her to expensive places knowing she's worthless, drive her to the motel knowing she's worthless, and fucking her good even if she's worthless, why do you expect to land women who bring…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:09 PM
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You're pretty, you're very pretty. You're handsome, intelligent and absolutely great! No other dude on PPD can hold a candle to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:03 PM
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I'm honestly incapable of not caring if I come across as a creep, so it's pretty much an inescapable problem, because real social confidence is a consequence of real social competence, not a result of delusional self belief. You don't need to be delusional, there are people who can't give a fuck about what others think of them even when they're aware that they've been rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:13 AM
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