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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	My red flags Notice that both OP and most of the people chiming in support all don’t know the difference between “you’re” and “your” 😂 Explains a lot	/r/seduction	29/12/20 07:25 PM
1	When do you stop being a bitch? I liked response from u/rft24 That book is truly just about boundaries and essentially only being sweet and accommodating when the man has earned it. Don’t think that’s any different than any other relationship- people should only get the best of you if they give you the same energy. Being clear about what your standards are is important, men don’t do “hints” or meta messages. The second piece is enforcing their adherence to your standards by attention/sweetness (positive) and lack of attention/…	/r/RedPillWives	05/10/20 06:45 PM
2	Do you view "good men" differently or the same after RPW? View them differently not after RPW but after dating one. I’ve always been attracted more to “bad boys” but after coming to terms with the fact that my emotionally abusive upbringing essentially drove that attraction, I reformed lol. My guy is my rock- he truly never lashes out when my actions hurt his ego, never judges me, supports me in everything. While I can see how some women (old me included) would consider that “weak” I actually now think it’s sexy. They’re mature, loyal, drama free. That…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/20 04:56 PM
1	What do you think is a normal # of dates / length of time to date someone before becoming an exclusive relationship? Different for each couple. In my case, it was when I first met his family (siblings) and best friend. That same weekend he initiated the DTR talk. And I think that’s key- be independent enough and don’t hint at the fact that you’re desperate to be exclusive. Law of attraction dictates that people run from desperation. Dating is a delicate dance :)	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/20 07:40 PM
1	Please help! Agree with what most people already said - move on and don’t hit him up again. Make it clear you’re living your life and have 4 men in a neat line outside your house LOL. I would say he will probably crawl back but sadly I think you shot yourself in the foot by already bringing up the relationship topic. When a man wants you, you just know from his actions.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/20 07:24 PM
2	I would like my boyfriend to spend money on me but I don’t want him to feel like he has to.. Am I being a bad person? It’s so frustrating when people call a woman a “gold digger” when she expects to be properly courted. A true gold digger takes the gifts and runs, doesn’t give a hoot about the man and most men would be able to see through her act after a few dates! Women who care for their partner and are interested in a LTR and make their own living aren’t automatically gold diggers just because they hold more traditional views. As someone else has mentioned, women select mates. So it always surprises me when …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/20 07:12 PM
1	Woman doesn't like her engangement ring anymore when she finds out it was cheap. Everyone agrees that the boyfriend is the asshole. Seems very materalistic to me. Oh GOD. He’s too poor for a proper ring and it’s somehow her fault??	/r/MensRights	27/04/20 10:41 PM

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