ppl_n_r_neighborhood Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Trying to pickup while driving for Uber Why are you being so fucking creepy by doing this? You are putting women in seriously uncomfortable positions because they know that: 1.) they can’t leave, what are they supposed to jump from a moving car to get away from a creep? 2.) you have probably seen a place where they visit often, possibly even their homes, so they are scared to anger you by telling you off for your creeping, because they don’t know if you’re the stalking type. You are also going to be blacklisted from driving for these …	/r/seduction	30/03/22 11:23 AM
4	why do certain girls just bend their head down or avoid contact with us when they see us in public? I don’t know, maybe because women get anxiety too lol? What does any nervous/unsure person do? Pull out their phone! Especially if they aren’t sure if they recognize the person, and they try to do a quick Google search to see if they actually recognize you, rather than saying hi to a stranger they thought was someone else haha. Just because you don’t see someone as being in a position where they should feel nervous, it doesn’t mean they see themselves as the same.	/r/seduction	26/03/22 01:08 PM
4	What hurts about being friend zoned is you guys were actually a very good match Oh my gosh, I’m so embarrassed that you thought my sarcasm sounded childish! And not just any sort of childish, but you have to say like a little girl, because being a girl is so much more insulting than being a boy lol. Oh no, here’s me not giving a fuck what you think (and not just because you phrase things like you’re having a stroke). This post is shitty, and most of the replies on here are equally useless and shitty. Low quality sexism right here, and not even from people who are actually h…	/r/seduction	12/03/22 03:26 AM
-3	What hurts about being friend zoned is you guys were actually a very good match This sub turned straight up toxic and full of misogyny a while ago lol, they are just going to downvote us into oblivion haha! Ouch that hurts so bad /s. I’m still waiting for it to get through to the average user of this sub that they’ve adopted a bunch of misogynistic mantras as their life’s purpose, and their lives are still sucking. Maybe then they’ll try a little empathy and treat women like people, and will finally get relationships that satisfy their needs/wants.	/r/seduction	12/03/22 02:41 AM
1	What hurts about being friend zoned is you guys were actually a very good match Right? No, it totally must be that the woman is fickle, and moved on to a Chad, because she can’t see how perfect this dude is for her lol. Women like men who treat them badly, and they are incapable of forming real friendships like men can, so of course she couldn’t have rather preferred having someone who claimed to be a friend as really just a friend. It was just a failure on the dudes part for not acting fast enough! Not that she can have the right to not want to fuck every male who says the…	/r/seduction	12/03/22 02:36 AM
1	why do women share their nudes knowing 99% that it will be shared. what is the psychology behind this What? I’ve never shared any nudes sent to me, from men or women. I don’t think that this is the norm for most people, only for shitty people/people without respect for others. I don’t have any friends who would either, or they wouldn’t be friends anymore lol.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 11:17 AM
1	Should I offer to help out with plane tickets? Yes. So you want her to foot the entire bill of traveling to meet you? She not only has to disrupt her whole schedule to travel, but has to basically pay for the pleasure of your company? If I cared about someone enough to travel far to see them, and they made zero effort with me, I would be a nasty bitch to them the whole time and then never talk to them again. She’s doing a lot for you, and you are doing nothing for her, that’s really fucking selfish. Reimburse her for some of her ticket when …	/r/seduction	09/03/22 01:43 PM
4	Men’s advice. Don’t get hung up on not being hung. A big d*ck isn’t required to be good in bed Yes. Most women with an IUD actually prefer a penis that isn’t so long lol. No one likes getting jabbed with metal internally for every thrust! It’s more important to me to get pleasured, orally/digitally/with dick than to get hammered away. I don’t care what you use to get me there, just that you do it, and preferably before you get your cookies (because it is a huge turn off when someone is too tired from their own orgasm to work hard at giving one).	/r/seduction	08/03/22 01:37 PM
2	Me and a couple friends were having a conversation, honest question( I’m not trolling) but is being a manwhore/ player really what’s it’s to be hyped to be or I’m not missing out That really depends on what kind of relationship you need. My husband is more of a demisexual person, meaning he needs a relationship with someone to feel comfortable having sex with them. I don’t need a relationship to feel sexual attraction/engage in sex, but it feels better when I do have one. For him, having sex with someone he doesn’t care about/know well would be worse than not having it at all. So that’s all relative, and you don’t need to worry about where you fit with someone else’s sta…	/r/seduction	07/03/22 12:30 AM
1	Is thinning/balding hair a turn off in the dating world? Minoxidil (taken in pill form and also topically applied 2x a day) will give you great results, but you’d need to see a dermatologist for that. They will also do a blood test just to rule out other factors. This is also what they do for women, I am currently doing it myself, in addition to thyroid medication. It helps a lot, but if you ever stop you lose results. As a woman, I can say that most of my friends find it unattractive when it’s obvious that a man is trying to hide his hair loss with c…	/r/seduction	02/03/22 12:23 PM
7	How would you compliment an older woman? No. Unless the woman is 80+, she doesn’t want to be called madam haha. It will make her feel old, and we are pressured to look younger, so it will make her feel like a failure from the start. Use young words with her when you complement her, “perky, dewy, etc”. Sprinkle in some vocabulary from younger generations, but apply it to her, example: “ i’m sorry Miss, but you were looking fine as fuck, and I just couldn’t keep myself from at least shooting my shot with you.” Women as we age are made to…	/r/seduction	02/03/22 02:05 AM
0	If you’re an older guy dating a younger girl like 18-23, will the girl always have daddy issues? I think this person means that they think that you should be more worried about why you’re OK with harming other people to get your dick wet. Because make no mistake, if you go after girls this young when you’re in your 40s, you will cause them lasting damage with the shit you put them through. I personally think it’s gross when people use an imbalance of power to get what they want, without caring how it will hurt the other person, just because that person is young and hot. Because that will be…	/r/seduction	01/03/22 01:23 PM
1	If you’re an older guy dating a younger girl like 18-23, will the girl always have daddy issues? This. OP has some issues, misogyny and predatory tendencies seems to be part of them. You can’t be attracted to children and then be surprised when they act like children, and an 18-year-old is a child, legally or not.	/r/seduction	01/03/22 01:17 PM
1	Partner is upset at me for and finds intimacy harder Oh my gosh, sorry but she would be the dumbest person you know if she trusted you again after you broke up with her five times lol. She would really have to be an idiot to want to stay with you, considering that you’re so inflexible that you wouldn’t take a break if she needs it, so she has to call it something else, after you have jerked her around so much. I don’t think this relationship will last much longer honestly. There’s no fixing it when you’ve done too much damage, you’re just waiting …	/r/seduction	24/02/22 11:25 AM
5	I've decided enough is enough. I need to get better at approaching/being flirty with women, so I'm going to crash my former university every Friday/Saturday night and start cold approaching until it starts to feel natural. Any advice? I agree that clubs are hard, but my perspective as as a woman OP, you will be seen as a creeper if you target young college women in an environment that you aren’t organically part of anymore. They are hyper sensitive to that and will spread that info about you to everyone that will listen. Some hot shot white night frat motherfucker will publicly “confront” you and embarrass you. I have literally seen this happen multiple times back in college. Pick a different location.	/r/seduction	24/02/22 10:13 AM
2	I've decided enough is enough. I need to get better at approaching/being flirty with women, so I'm going to crash my former university every Friday/Saturday night and start cold approaching until it starts to feel natural. Any advice? The location is terrible. Young women that age, in that stage, will not view what you’re doing kindly. It seems low key creepy/predatory from their perspective that an older graduated dude will crash their parties to try to hook up with them. You won’t be as well received as you think, and then you’ll leave the situation actually thinking that you did all that you could and that women are just bitches lol. Don’t set yourself up for failure just because the familiar feels safe, it will blow up in…	/r/seduction	24/02/22 10:09 AM
5	Why dont women approach men but can approach taken or super attractive men? The types of girls who target unreachable dudes are not the majority, and they usually don’t lack the same confidence as most, because they know that they are hot enough to make people cheat. They do it for validation, because something went wrong during formative years when they were finding their place in society, and it made them think that validation matters above all else. It’s kinda sad, like insecurities continually inflicting more damage on those around you, because it wasn’t dealt with.…	/r/seduction	23/02/22 08:51 PM
4	Does she like me or just using me? Misogyny in the making lol. yeah you know girls so well that you’re struggling and need a subreddit for guidance, rather than listening to one when she tries to tell you that other women will see the way in which you refer to women as a red flag. Keep talking about us that way, I don’t mind, it lets all of us know what you are before any of us waste our time getting to know you. Cheers back homie!	/r/seduction	12/02/22 04:25 PM
2	Does she like me or just using me? So how is she using you? There is nothing that points to it, but thanks for the laugh referring to her as a girl and you as a man lol. She sounds like she just hasn’t become super aware of good social skills yet, like asking questions of others, but that she’s interested. I’m more concerned about the misogynistic views that underlie the belief you had about her “using” you when there was no using of anything, and the fact that you think of yourself as a man (lol what?!) and of her as a girl. Che…	/r/seduction	12/02/22 02:23 PM
1	How do I convince my father to pay for my plastic surgery? What he’s waiting for you to be more mature about is to be able to base your decision on permanently altering your face, not on other people‘s reactions, but on what it means to you. This is not a procedure that can be undone when you suddenly have confidence decades later, if it hasn’t aged well or you change your mind. That’s why your father is waiting for you to be more emotionally mature, and to make these decisions for yourself, rather than to be seen as more attractive to others. Because w…	/r/seduction	11/02/22 11:24 PM
83	[deleted by user] Wow that’s really bittersweet, wishing you the best.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 09:42 AM